| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 41 | I love FDS philosophies but the hate towards pickmes is turning me away from this community | CULTURAL MISOGYNY | skyntbook | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 11:41 PM |
| 23 | FDS-positive Movie Suggestion: Wild Rose (2019) | skyntbook | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 06:01 AM | |
| 13 | Interested in HVM I'm working on a personal project with. Any advice on how to keep FDS despite my pickme instincts??? | skyntbook | /r/askFDS | 13/04/21 12:04 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 8 | I love FDS philosophies but the hate towards pickmes is turning me away from this communityAbsolutely, I totally support calling out pickme and coolgirl behaviour as it is damaging and we need to be aware of it. But hating on people, not behaviour, is where it draws the line for me... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 11:49 PM |
| 4 | Sports-related behaviors to watchDoes he spend the entire weekend (every weekend) ignoring literally everything around him (from household chores to children begging him love and attention) because "his games are on" and that's his biggest priority? My father, ladies. Worked his 9-5 so didnt have to bother with anything else - despite my mum also working a 9-5 and raising two kids and a manchild. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 08:55 PM |
| 18 | For the women that have been told the lie of “you’ll die single and alone” for not conforming to what men what you to beMy grandmother had her brother and husband die before she turned 60, leaving her with no relatives except her children to support her. Even if you do trust men to support you, chances are you'll end up alone anyway - men tend to die younger than women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 11:29 PM |
| 36 | Doing "boring manly job" is actually really fun! Talk about male PREver since I bought my own tools I've discovered that all the traditionally male "handy" occasional jobs like fixing furniture, working in the garden - all the dirty physical work - its super fun! And the best bit is its all project oriented, so once you're done you're done. No boring daily chores like housework... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 12:06 AM |
| 6 | Women Experience More RejectionWe absolutely are constantly rejected. Not only in relationships, but almost every time we walk into a male dominated space we have to work and prove ourselves more before being considered acceptable. We're guilty of being a "useless" woman until proven innocent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 02:52 AM |
| 6 | Interested in HVM I'm working on a personal project with. Any advice on how to keep FDS despite my pickme instincts???So true. Thanks!!! | /r/askFDS | 13/04/21 02:49 AM |
| 10 | Interested in HVM I'm working on a personal project with. Any advice on how to keep FDS despite my pickme instincts???THANK YOU this is exactly the reality check I needed! I'm going to save this and look at it every time I want to do something I shouldn't 🙈 | /r/askFDS | 13/04/21 02:48 AM |
| 5 | There is no Dream GirlThank you ❤️ Who knew that all I needed to hear to be inspired today is "I am not a vacuum"??? This is why I love this sub! Great post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 09:55 PM |
| 7 | To the women who think we are equal to menThat and, between the gender pay gap and the amount of career progress and income we lose if we decide to have a child, it's actually extemely important for a woman to have a relationship with a generous partner who is capable of and willing to support her in financially difficult times. All the women insisting that we're equal to men - we're still not, and it's obvious. If he can pay for our date quietly, modestly, and generously, it's a sign to me that he's capable of supporting me if I were t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 08:36 PM |
| 3 | Message for women stumbling upon this subTotally agree! Thanks for sharing :) I think part of my initial issue with FDS was the terminology - 'high value' and 'low value' does sound like we're going for money above all else, which buys into the gold digging stereotype. This alienates people from the true purpose of FDS - to help ourselves find partners who will go to the effort of treating us with as much respect and care as we ourselves will give them. I try to think instead in terms of "man of good values" and "man with bad/few/no va… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 10:33 PM |
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