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I hope that you have a long and happy marriage together. My wife and I have been married for twenty seven years.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/21 10:12 PM
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After dating for five years my wife and I got married. I felt an indescribable need to protect her and keep her safe. She seemed so innocent and naive. It was nice to see someone else experience feeling a difference after marriage. I know I did and I remember.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/21 08:24 PM
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I think the 250 thousand pounds is all that he can get from her. If he knew the biological dad then he might be able to sue him for child support.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/01/19 03:41 PM
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If he had found out twenty years ago that he couldn't father children his doctors may have been able to diagnose his cystic fibrosis sooner. If he had known that she was cheating for years and years he probably would not have had to pay her 4 million pounds in the divorce. If he had known that the boys weren't his he wouldn't have had to pay child support for a decade after the divorce. If she had disclosed her affair partner's name then he could sue him for the child support that he paid unknow…
/r/PussyPassDenied07/01/19 04:00 AM
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My wife and I married in the middle of my professional school education and training. We didn't have much time together the first three years of our marriage. I didn't realize at the time how lonely my wife felt because I was working as hard as a could and working very long hours with no breaks for months at a time. I'm very thankful that she was supportive and caring for me during that time in our relationship. If she had pointed out how little time we had together it would have stressed me mor…
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/17 02:01 PM
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I knew nothing about red pill but I started to head to a divorce over my deadbedroom. My wife began initiating sex every night. She started initiating every night four years ago. Dread works. I had to learn about what had caused! She to change her behavior after many years of deadbedroom.
/r/askMRP11/08/17 04:00 AM
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Fully aware. It's what she told herself to make herself feel better. Being the beta that loved her and wouldn't leave her and allowed her to neglect me for many years falls on me.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/17 02:29 PM
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She has been aware there was a problem through the 19 years of a deadbedroom. I only started to send articles after the deadbedroom was resolved with daily sex initiated by my wife. Before and during the deadbedroom she didn't want to read any articles because they made her feel bad, made her realize her failures as a wife, and reminded her of everything that she was not doing in our marriage. Now she seems to enjoy the articles. She revels in knowing that she saved our marriage. She likes that …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/17 07:36 PM
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I have an above normal penis size. Initially my wife had pain with piv. We worked very slowly to improve that but the real improvement came after our first child was born. The was no longer a pain issue during piv. It was lack of desire and no want to please me sexually. After our deadbedroom ended I started to send my wife sex positive articles written by Christian women or Christian couples. This reinforced that the sex we were now having was good for our marriage and good in the eyes of God. …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/17 05:02 PM
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She didn't like it and didn't get anything out of it so she never did oral. She now sees how generous I have been over the years by giving her oral. She seems to enjoy oral now.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/17 04:52 PM
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Definitely. Our bedroom continues to get better and better. I now work harder to lead and guide us and the results are clear.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/17 04:36 PM
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Yes to both. The birth control pills were blamed for the drop in her libido early on as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/17 04:20 PM
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We both were virgins when we married. Both had religious backgrounds. We had done everything other than piv and I thought everything was good going into the marriage. We had sex 11 times the first year we were married and less in the years that followed. Religious guilt and fear of pregnancy were early fears then the lack of sex became the norm.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/17 04:08 PM
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She expresses lots of regret for not being sexually available for so long. She enjoys sex now and wishes that she had realized the mental block she had could be overcome. I don't think she ever did have changed if not for the divorce talk.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/17 03:57 PM
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In the beginning like the first month it was definitely obligation sex. I took whatever sex was offered. But after about a month, she became more passionate. The sex has improved even more over time. We have fulfilled fantasies that she wouldn't discuss previously. I receive oral regularly now. I received two blowjobs in 19 years before the change. Lingerie is regularly worn. She will do any position I desire. It's like night and day difference in bedroom behavior. It's definitely not starfish. …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/17 03:39 PM
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That would be a correct assessment. After my discovery of redpill I began to improve myself. I lost fifty pounds and gained big gains in the gym. Started hobbies and got out of the house. Stopped choreplay and do what needs to be done in a fair way. I now make decisions concerning my family. I plan trips for us and regular date nights that I enjoy. I'm much happier and feel like I have better options and a better outlook on my life. If the deadbedroom should ever reappear, I think my wife realiz…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/17 03:33 PM
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I will tell you that when I recovered from our deadbedroom I knew nothing about red pill. But I think dread saved my marriage from divorce and recovered my marriage from being in a deadbedroom. After nineteen years of a deadbedroom, having sex less than ten times a year, I was approached by my wife because she knew I wasn't happy, satisfied, or content in our marriage. She offered a divorce. In all the years of our deadbedroom she had offered several times to divorce. I had never accepted the of…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/17 02:46 PM
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Agreed but if she is calling and asking then he needs to tell her and not ignore her.
/r/askMRP25/04/17 02:18 PM
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He says he loves her mom and she treats him like a son. I treat people I love with respect. He shouldn't ghost her mom because his ex cheated. He should answer her questions honestly.
/r/askMRP25/04/17 12:51 PM
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Tell her mom. Her daughter will lie and spin everything to her favor. The truth is always best.
/r/askMRP25/04/17 11:24 AM
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I think the fact that this was written by a 73 year old is most important. For a 73 year old man a safe harbor may be more important than sex but not for a 45 year old man.
/r/askTRP01/04/17 04:39 PM
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I was in a deadbedroom or very low sexual frequency marriage for almost two decades. I remained in the marriage for two reasons, I wanted to be able to raise my children together and I still loved my wife regardless of the sexual rejection. I came to a point where I knew that I didn't want to live another decade in this low frequency sexual trap. I seriously considered divorce for the first time. Oddly my wife saw my unhappiness and offered an equitable divorce. I accepted. What happened shocked…
/r/askTRP02/10/16 06:40 PM
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With two plus years of working on myself with basic principles I've learned here, I have seen this effect in action. Good post.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/16 05:50 PM
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I completely understand what you are saying. We had a deadbedroom for almost two decades. I did choreplay all the time and it definitely didn't make my wife want to have more intimacy with me. What I looked for were things that needed to be done that I could do to be helpful without expecting anything in return. Things like taking out the trash seemed more like something that I should put my newly growing muscles to work. I used to take care of most of our laundry. Now it's a good split between …
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/16 10:42 PM
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I am a forty something male in an over twenty year relationship with my wife who is also in her forties. We have several children and have been together since high school. I hope I am not breaking any rules here. I don't intend to break any rules. If I am, please notify me and I will remove my comment. I began my married red pill journey about three years ago. When I began the married red pill journey I was very stressed because I had let my wife essentially do everything in our marriage. I knew…
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/16 10:00 PM
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I'm interested to see what more veteran members have to say. I would continue to do what you are doing. Your wife notices your changes but they have come so fast she may be catching up.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/16 09:04 PM
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Empathy, she had the ability to understand what is affecting me. Show realizes my needs and helps to take care of those needs without it being spelled out.
/r/seduction13/01/16 12:23 AM
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Would some of the more experienced among us comment on whether monk mode would help OP.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/16 04:01 AM
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I didn't see anyone mention this and I know this to be true.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/16 05:55 PM
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You mentioned that you are expecting a little girl later this year. Be cautioned. Many manosphere writers earn that the rules change or cannot be relied upon as much if your wife is pregnant. Keep working on yourself but your wife's hormones are going to be a mess for a while. Most suggest adding beta behaviors during a wife's pregnancy.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/16 05:29 PM
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Could you link the blog for me?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/16 05:20 PM
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Yes, you are correct but she is in a profession. She has advertised her name to be recognized and she doesn't feel comfortable changing it now. Also lots of paperwork would have to be reprinted.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/15 03:43 PM
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I will tell my hard reset. Nineteen years in a deadbedroom. I was very out of shape and obese. I was overweight when we married. For ten years I never mentioned the lack of sex. I had low self esteem and figured that was as good as I could expect. After I began talking about the lack of sex I thought things would improve. They didn't. In year nineteen, we went to couples counseling. My wife said she wanted to please me and have more sex but she couldn't get past her mental blocks. Six months aft…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/15 07:52 PM
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My sister did this when she married. Now that has seemed to have backfired on her. Their children all have their father's name. Their household is called by the Father's last name. My sister has referred to herself as her first name and just his last name. I told her when she married that she should take her husband's name but she wanted to be independent and wouldn't. Now when they travel her name is the only one that doesn't match and she is sometimes on different manifests for travel. She rea…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/15 07:18 PM
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Did your wife respond to you with "my god stop it"? Or were you giving an example.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/15 03:06 PM
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I have three children and now a loving and sexual wife. I would do it again but somewhat differently with the knowledge that I have now.
/r/askMRP17/10/15 11:18 PM
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I too went years without a good healthy satisfying sex life with my wife and I also have resentment about not having fun with my twenty something year old wife or my thirty something year old wife. Our sex life began in earnest in our forties. Now I think we probably have more sex than any other married mid forty year old couple that I know. But I do feel that I missed a large part of my young manhood and married life. I too have pushed it down and walled it off. I have excepted my role in our s…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/15 02:07 PM
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He is scared of being rejected and blames your Friendship on his lack of initiative.
/r/askTRP26/09/15 08:48 PM
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She will be a better mother if through her relationship with you the kids learn what a healthy sexually fulfilled relationship looks like and how it functions. When Our kids were younger we closed the door and told them we were wrestling naked. They got older and realized what was going on and continued to leave us alone. Our kitchen is immediately outside of our bedroom. I had to make the kitchen off limits after ten p.m. Our teenagers would be in the kitchen at eleven or later and would distur…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/15 09:14 PM
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I am well aware and have even showed an article to my wife. She enjoys our sex life and talks about the regret she has of years of missed intimacy and opportunity. She knew that we needed to have more sex, she just didn't feel the desire.
/r/askMRP24/08/15 07:27 PM
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Your story shares similarities to mine. After years of a deadbedroom, counseling, and talks, I finally had the talk about divorce. This was the first time I had gotten to the point that I couldn't live like that any more. She understood. No yelling no screaming, maybe a few tears but we wanted to wait until after Christmas to proceed. About two weeks go by and after Christmas my wife initiates sex. I think that our sex is great and before I would winner what I did right to get those gears to mov…
/r/askMRP24/08/15 05:22 PM
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How often do you recommend that he reject sex since you disagree?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/15 07:52 PM
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I understand. When you think to yourself that you wish your wife would initiate sex with you instead of it always being you that has to initiate remind yourself that you discouraged her behavior.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/15 05:48 PM
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Are you ok with her rejecting you for sex? You rejected her so in her mind now it is ok to reject sex. When has she initiated sex with you? Do you think your actions encouraged her to do that again or did your actions discourage her from ever initiating sex with you?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/15 05:16 PM
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Am I the only one who had a difficult time finding a readable copy of Sex God method? I downloaded a copy two years ago but I can't find it again without thousands of popups and garbage.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/15 06:29 PM
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Stop responding until she realizes what she did.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/15 01:39 PM
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I had wondered about that as well. I have talked with her and I will be doing the finances with her to learn how and when the bills come out and are paid. I need to learn this information and now is a good time. I do plan on her continuing after I have learned the details.
/r/askTRP04/07/15 03:50 PM
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Thank you. I appreciate your input and perspective.
/r/askTRP04/07/15 11:06 AM
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That is my question boiled fine to its essence! How many of us actually follow the sidebar to a T?
/r/askTRP03/07/15 11:01 PM
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Thanks. I am happily married and have three children who are awesome. Marriage takes work but I am doing the the work needed. If you want kids, marriage is a doable thing.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 07:51 PM
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That is how we are structured now. Thanks for your input.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 07:49 PM
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Thank you. I feel like that is the direction that we have taken. My wife dutifully checks the checking account daily and pays all bills monthly for the business and home.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 07:29 PM
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My wife does a fantastic job and asks me if she should do one thing or another. I read the side bar and I have been incorporating it into my life. Everything says I should take over the finances. I'm not sure. I can do everything else well but she has been trained to do this type of work. I haven't. She does a superb job. I feel like the finances are the one area where I am not doing my part. She takes care of everything.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 07:27 PM
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Don't hide it.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/15 12:54 PM
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My wife didn't like or appreciate the ten second kiss when I started initiating them. She resisted and I pushed. I had to tell her that I wanted a ten second kiss everyday and that I didn't want a discussion or negotiation. Now she will remind me of she thinks I have forgotten. I don't forget. This has led into sex. The ten second kisses are important so don't give up. My wife has been very receptive to red pill. She wanted me to make decisions and take control.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/15 10:05 PM
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I would wait until she brought it up and if she says something about the lack of sex tell her that if she is missing sex that you will remedy that and lead her to the bedroom.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/15 02:08 AM
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Yes definitely talk with him about your visit. My SO could not visit but about one weekend every two months but she had me looking forward to her visits!
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/15 11:19 PM
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Planning a visit with him in mind is good. My SO visited me when I was in a professional school and we had to be long distance. It was the middle of February and I get a little depressed (seasonal affective disorder). She visited and brought a little backyard kiddie pool, beach towels, lamp with a sun growth plant bulb, beach music, suntan lotion, etc. She brightened my weekend and made me realize that she knew me and wanted to be my helpmate for life. We got engaged the following fall!
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/15 11:48 PM
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My wife has cut my hair since we got married. Several years ago she seemed overwhelmed and I had suggested a haircut a week before but she never had time to do it. I went and got a haircut from another woman! She noticed and immediately seemed upset that I would step out on her and get my haircut elsewhere. I had the other woman cut my hair for several months. My wife asked me if I would let her start cutting my hair again. Since then she has cut my hair and she makes it a priority if I ask. Our…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/15 05:10 PM
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I say lead and she will follow. Explaining everything just puts a haze of uncertainty into what you are doing. Captain your ship!
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/15 06:55 PM
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When she rubbed your dick with her foot, I think you should have escalated to sex. You didn't because your feelings were hurt from the last foot rub. You basically denied her sex and you never want to do that.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/15 07:22 PM
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You are correct. I stand corrected.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/15 01:06 PM
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Nice to know that even on "hard mode" The game can be won.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/15 06:43 PM
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Much more than I would put endure. We are all different and I dealt with a deadbedroom for many years so I am not immune to difficulties. The level of disrespect you describe a much more than I could stand. Even with the deadbedroom I felt like my wife loved me, just not intimately.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/15 02:21 PM
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Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/15 11:33 PM
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I wear aqva bvlgari. My wife picked it out and loves it.
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