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What's it like getting all your movie opinions from 20-year olds on TikTok?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:54 PM
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Women absolutely make it their hobby to harass short guys online. I know you don't notice it because you, like all women, couldn't possibly care less about short guys. There used to be a twitter called "exposingheightism" that collected tweets from people saying the most vile, hateful shit imaginable about short men. And they were almost exclusively coming from women. There are also a million social media posts on /r/shortguys and again, almost all of them are coming from women. I know your whol…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 03:45 PM
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I genuinely don't know. Does he have a reputation? I'm not here often enough to recognize individual personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 08:55 PM
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Do you actually believe that blatantly fake story or are you just looking for an excuse to dunk on short guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 08:36 PM
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I like how her idea of researching why this is happening is asking a couple of her guy friends who are clearly in a completely different situation from the average guy. One of them says it's because guys only want sex, which is an anecdote I'm sure the author loved to include. Apparently none of the guys she talked to even mentioned the fact that all of these poor women showing up to singles nights have already written off the large majority of men based on their height or salary alone. No, inst…
/r/MensRights25/02/26 04:22 PM
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Nobody "has" to do anything and I am convinced you're not making an effort to understand what I'm saying. Women love tall guys and either ignore, actively dislike, or end up settling for short guys. This is known. This is reality. My argument is simply that short guys need to accept this in order to find an attainable goal in life that doesn't involve women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 07:22 PM
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We define the word differently. To me, shallowness is when you prioritize completely meaningless physical characteristics over everything that matters. You can justify it all you want but it doesn't make you any less shallow. I have a shallow requirement too: very short hair. Can't stand it. I think it looks terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 07:18 PM
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"taller than them" is a great thing to hear for average height guys, but I don't care about them. I'm talking about guys who are the same height as women or even shorter. "Oh yeah he's perfect for me in every way but he's exactly the same height as me and therefore in to the bin he goes. I'm so open-minded!"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 07:10 PM
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I'm not sure what you're arguing here. All I'm saying is that we should stop lying to short guys. Women should embrace their inherently shallow nature instead of trying to obfuscate it. This would free up a lot of mental space in the minds of short men who are pursuing a pointless goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 06:53 PM
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I didn't say anything like that. Women are incredibly shallow when it comes to height and that's a reality we all have to live with. I don't think it makes them "horrendous"...just predictable, and dishonest about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 06:50 PM
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That's a surface level comparison and there's absolutely no comparison to height and pretending otherwise is silly. But yes, "oh well." Which is kind of my point. Short guys deserve to know what women really think about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 06:37 PM
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lmao just read through a certain thread asking for women's preferences and 99% of them demand taller guys I'm going to give them all the benefit of the doubt and assume they're not the ones piping up when someone mentions how height is the most important thing to women. Meanwhile women in every other sub lose their goddamn minds when someone reminds them how incredibly shallow they all are. At least here we can expect honest responses. Credit to where it's due. Never stop reminding younger short…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 06:29 PM
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Which tactic makes you get taller?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 04:47 PM
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Scott's takes are very hit-or-miss and I'm getting a little tired of seeing his face, but in case anyone is wondering, the tldr of this article is as follows: tough shit, you baby bitches. The author even has the gall to use the term "revanchism" with absolutely no hint of irony. Lady, your entire brand (and this article is the perfect representation!) is taking revenge on ALL men for the wrongs committed by long-dead patriarchs and CEOs. You seethe in response to the most milquetoast of attempt…
/r/MensRights10/11/25 08:33 PM
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What’s your minimum height for guys when dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 08:25 PM
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How tall are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 08:24 PM
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You can recruit/fuse/fight most of them in the Shin Megami Tensei games. Shiva is an absolute beast.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 03:38 PM
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Mostly, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 07:14 PM
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Oh yeah, I think I blocked that dork. There are always exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 06:57 PM
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The older I get, the more I believe that there are fundamental differences between the ways men and women think that can’t be explained away by society or culture or any other external factor. I don’t think we even love the same way. Women love their children and parents deeply, but I don’t think they can truly experience romantic love the same way men do. How could you even argue that when the large majority of women would rather hump a piece of splintered balsa wood than be seen with a short m…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 06:26 PM
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I made this thread recently if you want to take a look.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:38 PM
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Statistically, yes. I don't consider anyone 5'8"+ to be short, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 08:38 PM
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Not short, kindly GTFO or else
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 08:37 PM
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At my height (165cm/5'5"), 16% of women find my height "acceptable" enough to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 08:35 PM
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To my fellow short men: what percentage of women find you "acceptable"? Height (cm) Height (imp) % of women that find your height "acceptable" 142 4'8" 6 155 5'1" 6.8 157.5 5'2" 7.3 160 5'3" 8.3 162.5 5'4" 10.5 165 5'5" 16 168 5'6" 24 170 5'7" 35.6 173 5'8" 52.2 175 5'9" 66.4 source I'm at 16%! What a wonderful world we live in!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 08:31 PM
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lmao There is no such thing. Check this thread out. These girls are self-proclaimed "forever alone" and almost every one of them has a height requirement. Fuck 'em all. Here's another one. Feeling sorry for "forever alone" women is the dumbest thing you could possibly do. They're wallowing in a pit of their own making, whining about not being seen as attractive and in the next sentence whining that tall guys don't like them. They don't deserve an ounce of your pity or respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 07:38 PM
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Women aren't comparing your kneecaps to someone else's kneecaps. Or your pec size to someone else's pec size. And they certainly aren't comparing your dick to someone else's dick. Oh, come on. Do you really expect anyone to believe that? Do women have a little switch on the backs of their heads that makes them forget Big John's Big Surprise and how jealous her friends were when they found out about it? Are all the women on reddit that proudly exclaim they'll never date another short guy because …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 05:05 PM
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Well, yeah. You act like every insecurity is unjustified. I don't think it's unreasonable to be concerned when every part of your body and performance is being compared to your partner's previous experiences. How often do women become insecure when they find out their boyfriend's ex was thinner or prettier than they are? It's a natural human reaction. The difference is that guys rarely get the same privilege, which is why they should broaden their experiences. Again...the past is the past, right…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 04:40 PM
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But if most men don’t ask how do you know that women lose their shit if they get asked? 😂 True...I'm using reddit as an example here. I browse misandrist subs like twoxchromosomes and askwomenover30 and this pops up quite frequently, and the overwhelmingly unanimous response to this question is "this man is worse than gutter trash and you need to dump him immediately." Holy shit, I just took a spin over there and immediately found this thread. But yeah, your relationship is probably the most com…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 04:05 PM
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I've never asked, either. Most guys know it's a relationship-ender. Doesn't mean we don't think about it. And of course you never kept track. That's kind of the whole point. The only way guys can level the playing field is by paying for it. If you're going to be mentally comparing every guy you sleep with to the dozens that came before, we should get the same privilege. Besides, the past is the past, right? As long as you're both STD-free, what does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 03:47 PM
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FACT: Most women sleep around when they're young. FACT: Most guys are incapable of doing the same thing. FACT: Women go apoplectic when confronted about their "body count" CONCLUSION: As a man, it is your duty to see as many escorts as you can afford. When (or if) you eventually find a woman that you want to love and cherish forever and ever amen, you don't have to feel insecure about the aforementioned facts. Rest easily knowing that you don't have to ask a question that she won't answer truthf…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 03:33 PM
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Fuck no, I’m short. I had one option and I took it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:46 AM
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I started when I was 21. There were years where I’d see a new girl every month, and years where I’d only see a few a year. I’m also not counting return visits to the same girls, which were not quite as frequent.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 11:11 PM
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I subscribe to the “don’t ask, don’t tell” philosophy. I expect women my age (almost 40) have had as many partners as they have had birthdays, but I don’t ask. And they don’t need to know I’ve been with over 100 escorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 11:01 PM
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Like I said, I can afford it. I know how much it takes. I’m just not sure if I’m gonna pull the trigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 06:26 PM
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I think I might consider becoming a sugar daddy, because fuck it at this point. I have more than enough disposable income and I ain't getting any younger (or taller). Anybody here with experience in the field? I'm already a very experienced escort-enjoyer.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:07 PM
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That's good to hear. Can you answer my other questions regarding them? How old are they? Are they below 5'7"/170cm?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:58 PM
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lol come on now I’m saying that your anecdotes aren’t very helpful or relevant to anyone that isn’t an Asian or Hispanic living in places where they are lots of short 1st- and 2nd-generation immigrants.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:36 PM
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That's what I figured. Thanks for being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:10 PM
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No, typically they rank them on how they think they'll be perceived by other women or strangers. If they think they'll get teased, the guy goes into the bin. Pecs are nice and all, but the most important thing they consider is "will my friends make fun of me?" In your case, I'd have to know a few things. I'm not calling you a liar and I'm not expecting you to actually answer anything, but there is always more to this story. how short are they actually? Gentle reminder that 5'7" guys are basicall…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:20 PM
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There are a few men like that, sure. But I don't think I need to tell you how most guys have a very wide range of attraction and a little bit of belly fat is not only tolerable but preferable to millions of us. Whereas there are no women that actually prefer short guys, or even tolerate them, and fat guys are also completely invisible unless they're really tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 03:50 PM
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Most of the sacrifices you mentioned are ones done for the family, or specifically the kids. I think a lot of women view their husbands/boyfriends as sperm vectors that they have to tolerate. But even more than that, just look at what women demand from the men in their lives. Women have collectively decided that short men are undesirable because our heads are a few centimeters farther away from the sun. For that reason alone, women won't even give us a chance to prove we aren't subhuman. Guys ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 03:43 PM
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That's such a dumb term, but if you're referring to extremely unattractive women...they don't want us either. Also I'm unfortunately not ugly (just short), so an experiment I ran many years ago made me lose the drive I had to find someone IRL. Ended up dating someone for a few years but it fizzled out, along with my drive to find someone else. Back to escorts I went!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:02 PM
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There's are many more types of guys that see escorts. Some of us have full and genuine respect for escorts as human beings, but regularly see them because we're too short or ugly for you or your friends to consider us in the first place. So we keep seeing escorts because that's the only type of physical intimacy we can realistically expect in our lives. Just to be clear, I don't care if this is a dealbreaker for you or others. I just think it's silly assigning lonely guys the "morally bankrupt" …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:26 PM
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I'm not participating because I'm not one of the guys you're complaining about. I find girls of all shapes and sizes attractive, but I'm short so I'm as invisible as the women you're referring to. I just thought it was funny how you asked guys for something and only responded positively to the girl that reaffirmed your stereotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 09:43 PM
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How do you feel about short guys? Same question to you /u/ConstantCode8637 Please be honest. Remember, this is the internet and we're all honest here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 09:02 PM
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You posted a loaded question, got a response from someone you already agree with, and your reaction is "I knew it lmao lol" 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 09:01 PM
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Everyone has a different coping mechanism. Some are healthy, some are not. I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings here, but when I think of someone that champions therapy, I think of someone that really likes talking about themselves and being affirmed in one way or another. I think many guys know what their problem is, and also that talking about the problem isn't going to solve anything. How many times have you heard women complain about the guys in their lives, when presented with a problem, …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 04:36 PM
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She’s not fat. I’m fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 11:57 PM
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Yup. It's a reference that combines my love of the Japanese language, Bon Jovi, and this psychotic forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 10:39 PM
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Man that is a mindset I can't even begin to understand. Were you both in elementary school at that time?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 10:38 PM
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Preferences don't change. She might like me now, but as soon as one of her girlfriends laughs at her for dating a short guy I'll be out the door. That's typically how it works. She's a pretty girl. If she hasn't already found a replacement crush I'd be surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 10:23 PM
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This week I found out a girl that works in the same office as me has (or had) a “very big” crush on me. I’m nearly 40, she’s just under 30. The kicker: a few months ago I overheard her having a conversation with the girl that told me about this supposed crush and a few of the new engineer hires. I was sitting next to her at a safety meeting so I had no choice but to eavesdrop. She emphatically stated that she could “never” date a guy shorter than her. So this same girl now has a crush on me appa…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 10:10 PM
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Absolutely! Good eye my friend. A few years ago I had to skype call a couple clients before meeting them. One of them was a lady about my age. As has always been the case, my face and voice clearly painted a picture in her head of what I looked like. Then I met them and shook their hands and I watched the light in her eyes just fucking die when she realized I was short. She went from almost flirtatious to cold and calculating in an instant. We got the contract anyway lel Reminder that AWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 06:17 PM
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It was supposed to be a reference to the song "Bad Medicine" by Bon Jovi. I speak decent Japanese and I know it's not a perfect translation but I also didn't think anyone would actually read it...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:32 PM
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Unfortunately what that means is that your definition of short is broken (5'7" is on the low end of average and doesn't count) or you are telling fibs on the internet, which is illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:29 PM
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They settled. Short guys end up in relationships because their partners weren't able to find someone taller, and they decided stability was more desirable than being alone. Can you think of any women you know that dated short men when they were young?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:20 PM
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Oh please, women like all types of men. For example: Rich Tall Rich and tall Nerdy and tall Muscular and tall Tall and tall Not short Literally everyone is represented here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 08:54 PM
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Hyperbole. Obviously most women don't actively hate short guys. They just prefer we never interact with them under any circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 07:06 PM
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I think most women are attractive and haven't made fun of a girl's weight since I was in high school. 95% of women still hate me because I'm short, and I'm almost 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 06:39 PM
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Ohhhh she was in Fin.K.L. What a legend.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:51 PM
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what is the name of this beautiful noona
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:46 PM
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You picked a bad example. Tzuyu is (or at least WAS at the point this video was taken) all natural. All kpop stars are beautiful but Tzuyu was known for being 'especially' pretty, even back when she was a teen on the reality show that would eventually form TWICE. Other than that you're correct. South Korea is fucking obsessed with plastic surgery. Speaking of TWICE, a few of the girls (Nayeon, Mina, and Dahyun) were known for having really cute smiles. Fast-forward to today and they all got thos…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:16 PM
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Oh, please. Even Korean (AND Japanese, AND Chinese) people can sometimes have trouble distinguishing between each other. They will freely admit this. Hell, my Japanese teacher says people confuse her for Canadian indians sometimes. And TWICE is a kpop group that happens to have four members that aren't Korean, including Tzuyu (the other three are Japanese). When they were on Running Man, native Korean people didn't even know who those members were until they started talking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:04 PM
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I can't explain it but I've always loved girls with noticeable overbites. ❤️ Geena Davis ❤️ ❤️ Katherine Waterston ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 06:34 PM
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lol, the large, large majority of sex with escorts is vanilla. Yes, there are some that provide 'advanced' services but they are very much in the minority. I've been seeing an escort every month or two for about 18 years now, and I still prefer the vanilla stuff. We're not all degenerates...some of us are just short.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:54 PM
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Huh? The app didn't work. That's kind of the whole point. The cheating scumbags that signed up for it wanted to cheat, but most failed miserably.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 09:50 PM
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women don’t want to cheat as much as men lol, come on now. The reason is simple and it's right there in the top response. Women don't need an app to cheat. Men do. The exact same gender imbalance exists on regular dating apps as well, and it's not just because men are the only ones desperate for a relationship. Most women don't need an app to help them find a fella.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 09:30 PM
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This is a fundamental, biological, and evolutionary thing. You're basically asking for "examples" of elaborate mating rituals displayed by birds-of-paradise. We've evolved to use more complex mating rituals, and are capable of understanding and using deception and empathy to aid us in finding a partner, but none of that changes our instincts.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 05:59 PM
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Nah, I only listen to comedy and science podcasts. I was using my experiences in college and then university over a decade ago as the basis for that fun little hyperbolic statement. But yes, if we want to be ultra-scientific, I'll grant you that they only trade up every month or two and not every other week.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:54 PM
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Truisms don't need citations.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:43 PM
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I don't agree with that mentality (all women hate short guys, left or right) but I think the idea is that 'traditional' women would at least adhere to 'traditional' sexual/romantic norms. As in, they still have high standards but they're not fucking a new guy every other week like most young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:38 PM
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In developed countries, the average working time is therefore usually significantly shorter than in developing countries. However, there are exceptions. These include countries such as South Korea, Singapore and Taiwan which still have comparable long working hours despite high incomes. Also, based on Japan's proximity to my country (Canada) in that list, I really don't think these statistics are accounting for all of the unpaid overtime as well as obligatory (but not officially counted) nightly…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 07:24 PM
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I like how you've taken OP's non-partisan opinion and done everything you can to make it about how men are evil. Even when he agrees with you, you still go out of your way to imply that the large majority of men are rapists-in-waiting. Meanwhile as a short guy, there are millions upon millions of social media posts and likes and shares from women insulting and mocking me just for existing. But those women aren't real, right? Just a minority? Unlike the guys you're talking about. Those guys are r…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:02 PM
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Exactly what I was thinking. As long as everyone is being worked to death, it doesn't really matter how long the schools keep kids locked up. The parents are still going to come home exhausted and unhappy. The only difference now is that the few hours they would normally get to unwind between workdays will be devoted instead to dealing with their children, who themselves are going to have issues due to spending the large majority of their waking hours at a fucking school. I have a mix of conserv…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 02:20 PM
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I guess I should feel proud of myself for surviving this long as a short guy. So many of us have been deluded by liars and women into thinking it's only a slight disadvantage when it's actually the most important thing women care about. Those that haven't end up like me (very bitter), or they just kill themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:15 PM
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It looks like he's using a bunch of different sources and just summarizing bits and pieces from each.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:11 PM
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Obviously exceptions exist, but we've all been through high school. We've all seen countless numbers of tall, attractive assholes getting away with murder. We've all seen the benign, milquetoast (but incredibly friendly) short and/or ugly guys get bullied for simply existing. Is every attractive guy a bad guy? Of course not. We know that well. It's women that struggle with that particular reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:06 PM
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lol Women will literally factor in the heights of their friends' boyfriends (and the potential comments they might receive about it) before even considering dating a short guy. There is absolutely no equivalent the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:02 PM
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I'd like to believe you, but the most popular filter in OLD is the height filter, which means that the women that use them (the majority) aren't even capable of seeing shorter guys. I remember when Bumble (or Tinder...one or the other) started locking the height filter behind a paywall, and women absolutely lost their minds. There is no equivalent in the other direction. You can say that because women are spoiled for choice, of course they're going to go for the tall guys. But that's exactly my …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:22 PM
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Statistically, you would be correct. In the real world, that's just a typical woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:09 PM
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The difference in that comparison is that while big assets are viscerally arousing to many guys, those same guy's physical preferences shift with the tides and are instantly replaced when they fall for a girl that doesn't have them. At no point will he think he's "settling" for his dream girl even if she's as flat as a 2x4. My ex had a big booty and that was something I normally didn't like, but then as soon as I saw her butt in all its' glory, I had a change of uh...heart. In comparison, a woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:55 PM
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"Listen babe I know you're upset that I'm settling for your midget ass, but saying that to me was totally out of line. I have Wilt Chamberlain on speed dial you know."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:40 PM
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I know what you're probably going to say, but I have to ask. How would you respond if your boyfriend said your tits are too small?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:28 PM
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You're looking at the wrong demographics. Younger kids are basically little Americans. "Famous" Canadians probably haven't lived in Canada for decades and they simply lose their accent. Look at Mel Gibson for example. When I went to Vegas the first time, I sat down at a bar and said one or two words to my friend. The guy next to me immediately goes "You guys are Canadian, aren't you?" But yeah, the kids are all carbon copies of each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:21 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/AskWomenOver30/comments/1c539p1/do_most_men_35_just_dont_care_about_their/ (Women complaining about gnarly dudes.) Women: Most of us can't stand short and/or ugly guys and it doesn't even matter how good you look otherwise. Short and/or ugly men: Ok, I'm just gonna do the bare minimum then. No point in waxing my eyebrows or weekly manipedi trips if women are going to ignore me anyway. Women:😵‍💫Why are men so gross???? 😵‍💫
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 02:44 PM
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What's the deal with PCOS? I've never heard the term until a few years ago and now apparently 99% of women have it. Is it one of those things that just didn't get properly diagnosed until recently? Did it have a different name? Or was it all just kept secret from us manfolk?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 06:33 PM
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Man: I like boobs, big or small. Woman: My man must be very tall. Man: I like short or tall or thick. Woman: Short men just give me the ick. Man: Brown hair, blonde hair, red hair too. Woman: My friend said "He's too short for you." Man: Rich or poor, I don't care. Woman: If he's tall, we like to share.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:52 PM
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In the short guy community, we call women that have always genuinely liked short guys (and not just when they're middle-aged and their options are dried up) 'unicorns.' I'm sure everyone has their own definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 02:15 PM
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There is a strong correlation between male height and suicide. In fully adjusted models, a 5-cm increase in height was associated with a 9% decrease in suicide risk In spite of what the liars and exceptions say, most women want nothing to do with us, and most of us short guys will come to terms with that at some point one way or the other. Some of us simply...opt out of life in response.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:40 PM
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It's pretty simple, really. We (short men) cannot provide the social clout that comes with dating taller guys. We cannot be an accessory to show off to their friends, family, and social media. A guy will look at an attractive woman and think "Huh. She's pretty. I'd like to date her." A woman will look at an attractive short guy and think "Huh. He's handsome. I wonder if my friends will make fun of me for dating him. I wonder if strangers will make rude comments. I wonder if my mom will tell me I…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:25 PM
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Any long-time users of (prescription) anxiety drugs have experience getting off the damn things? I started taking escitalopram (i.e. lexapro) about six or seven years ago because I suddenly started having panic attacks. After two trips to the ER thinking I was having a heart attack, the choice between that and taking a pill every morning wasn't a hard one. Shortly after that my doctor recommended a drug called trazodone to help me fall asleep. Up to that point in my life I didn't even know what …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:42 PM
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I offered a polite recommendation after literally agreeing with you. If you're interpreting that as anger, that's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:20 PM
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I'm not the one singing kumbaya here, either. I already agreed with your premise that men and women have different, but equally important problems. Most sane people would agree with that. You can invent another word or just, you know, not use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:17 PM
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And you're already defending the use of an extremely divisive word that only serves to alienate and push away the people that you claim to be trying to empathize with. If you're unwilling to use a different word, then you're not actually that interested in making any progress. cut to Joe Foodstamp from your local trailer park frantically searching his 40-year old couch cushions for all that privilege he's supposed to have
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:08 PM
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Good post. I don't really disagree with anything you said, but there's one sticking point that is going to continue to divide men and women for as long as it's in use. The word "patriarchy," no matter how many paragraphs you waste trying to qualify it, needs to go. You can be the most well-meaning feminist in the world, but as long as you use that word, hackles are going to raise. I don't have a replacement word or term in mind, but if feminists actually want to bring people together, they need …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:00 PM
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☑ Tall ☑ Taller than her ☑ Taller than her friends' boyfriends ☑ Taller than the national average ☑ Not short
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:36 PM
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I've been doing the 5/2 method for over a year now. It's definitely not for everyone but it works perfectly for me. I've lost over 20lbs (and nearly two notches on my belt) and I don't even exercise, except for the odd set of curls. Also, on my fasting days, I'll have a cheeseburger for dinner and veggies/fruits for supper to keep that calorie count below 600. Oh and also, my overall appetite has noticeably decreased.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 09:29 PM
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No more retarded than any other dog, which is to say a little bit retarded. Beagles are known to be among the "smarter" breeds of dog so you might just have a special one :) edit: apparently this is not the case. I remember seeing beagles ranked pretty high but after a quick google search they are nowhere to be found. I guess they got downgraded.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:39 PM
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I had a beagle growing up. She was the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:25 PM
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A bonsai is just a little tree that you don't let grow into a big tree. But artichokes? I had to google wtf they even look like. Your guy is weird. I don't know if there's official criteria for lil' trees to become bonsai but I'm willing to bet a fucking artichoke would not be on that list.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:18 PM
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I think of those women as height fetishists. When you refuse to so much as glance at a guy because he's only a couple inches taller than you, that's a fetish. If they don't want to admit it's a fetish, then they better not be saying anything about the guys that exclusively date East Asian women, or girls with big feet or whatever. Preferences are malleable like plastic, but height fetishists are a solid block of iron when it comes to height.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 04:11 PM
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Link Gen Z/Alpha short guys are so fucked. At least when I was a kid, I could imagine a fantasy where the girls at my school were unusual in how much they hated short guys. Kids these days don't get that luxury, and I'm genuinely worried about them. Young, short guys and terminally ill kids are the only 'strangers' I feel any sort of empathy for at all, these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:41 PM
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Holy shit. That thread is full of the dumbest, most hateful losers. Just casually dropping nuclear bombs of misandry and expecting everyone to nod their heads like the complete imbeciles they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 10:22 PM
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It's definitely an interesting subject that absolutely no one is allowed to discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:01 PM
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We I mean they have to be covert because this is the only place on this entire damn site where anything approaching a real conversation can be found. We I mean I I mean they just don't want to get banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:54 PM
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An 'average' woman to me would be: someone with a few extra pounds doesn't care that much about makeup, hair, nails, etc. wears comfortable clothes outside of their home I would date her, but she would not date me because I'm short. I do not ascribe "value" to anyone based on their physical appearance. I make good money but most people probably think I have one foot in a halfway house because I wear the same (clean) clothes for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:01 PM
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I'm very short, so the only play is to not play. More food, more video games. Selfish hedonism until my heart decides that it doesn't like pizza anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:25 PM
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We’re talking about women in their 30s here for crying out loud. I’m in my late 30s and I’m just as…excitable as I was in my early 20s. I’ve always only ever been attracted to women my own age, but if this is what I have to look forward to, I’m starting to think I need to expand or shift my horizons. That thread is seriously eye opening in a very scary way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:19 AM
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But nobody is saying that. I’m not sure what you’re trying to say here. Most of those women seem to be just as surprised and disappointed in the change as their boyfriends and husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:04 AM
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That thread is full of women claiming they had no problem with their libido at the beginning of the relationship. How is a guy supposed to know that would change? What kind of compatibility test is there for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 02:51 AM
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Lmao this thread https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomenOver30/s/JldXAAO7rJ As if it isn’t hard enough to find someone that likes you to begin with…apparently it’s a fucking guarantee that at some point she’s going to prefer knitting to having duty sex with you once or twice a year. But god fucking forbid your dick doesn’t work every once in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 01:56 AM
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Oh god I forgot to mention her literally perfect butt.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 01:56 AM
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Funny, that’s what women say when they find out I’m short. Least I’m getting laid this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 01:48 AM
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Thinking of getting another escort when I head back home after Christmas. Should I see: 1. A middle-aged woman that will get high with me and let me stay for longer than an hour 2. A Puerto Rican woman with big ol’ fake titties that calls me papi and is genuinely passionate in bed 3. Roll the dice on Leolist (this is my least favourite option although I have been very pleasantly surprised in the past)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 01:24 AM
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5'5", but she was probably around 5'9" or even 5'10" so the difference was pretty noticeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:25 PM
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I've done even dumber shit than that in the past. One time I brought a bunch of weed to a work party and the one girl that literally everyone was in love with made it very clear she wanted to thank me in private, and I pretended like I didn't know what she was talking about. Another girl I worked with called me from a club once to drive her home, and she started talking about this secluded spot she knew about outside of town. I drove her straight home. I don't feel so bad about that one because …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:13 PM
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No, this was a completely different townhouse. It was just this girl and her mom living there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:35 PM
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About seven years ago, I went to see an escort from Quebec that was visiting my city. She was staying at a townhouse with another escort. She gave me the wrong unit number though, and when I knocked on the wrong door, this tall girl that obviously looked nothing like the escort opened up. My alarm bells started going off, but so did my confused bells, because if I was about to get rolled they wouldn't have used a girl. The conversation that came after was really weird: Me: (confused) "Oh hello..…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:29 PM
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What? I'm doing a comparison here. Can you explain how my scenario was different from his?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 04:11 PM
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I didn't miss anything, but I did expect you to make a very simple, logical connection. Saying "I really like tall guys." to a short guy is not the innocuous comment you seem to think it is. Let me try again: "Hey /u/AngeCruelle, nice to meet you. Just so you know, I love girls with big boobs and small waists. Anyway let's go get a drink." Does that help?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:59 PM
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"flirting" lmao Hey /u/AngeCruelle, thanks for coming on a date with me. By the way, your boobs are too small and you're clearly over 110lbs, which is a big problem for me. Anyway let's go get a drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:06 PM
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I know we're all trading anecdotes and personal opinions here but this is so untrue I have to comment. No man that I've met and talked to in my 37 years has ever had a big boob requirement. Nobody. I can't seriously believe you're comparing that to the requirements women have for men's height, which are practically ubiquitous. Would you, or any of your friends, even consider dating a guy shorter than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 09:22 PM
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No, I mean what do you and your friends think about dating short guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 10:50 PM
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What do you think of short guys? Shorter than you? How about your friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 10:46 PM
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Can you at least link to whatever you're talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:29 PM
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People can adjust, but only when faced with extreme resistance. Almost every guy using a dating app today will tell you how awful the experience is and how rarely they actually work. Even in spite of that, they keep using them because the (traditional) alternative is even harder. And I'm not even going to get into how much more difficult it is to deal with real-life, face-to-face rejection versus the mostly-anonymous variety. Anyway you're allowed to be an optimist. The world needs people like y…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 10:47 PM
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That'll happen just as soon as people stop using fast food and porn. The apps are here to stay, for better or worse worse or worser. People are no different than an electrical current...we will always take the path of least resistance even if it means we end up short-circuiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 10:33 PM
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Nah, he's completely wrong in every way. If you want to be both romantically successful and a psychopathic murderer, you have to be very good looking. Women aren't attracted to dangerous and broken men...they're attracted to dangerous and broken men that they can show off to their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:23 PM
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"Psychopath" was just me being pithy. "Emotionally stunted and/or damaged" is probably a better phrase to use. Don't be so upset, lady. It's just my opinion. Dogs are wonderful, hilarious, trusting, and loving friends that humans have treasured for as long as we've had written records and probably longer. When someone says they don't like dogs, that speaks to a fundamental glitch in their brain's emotion processors.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:47 PM
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Not wanting to have a dog is fine. They're a big responsibility. Actively disliking dogs, on the other hand, means you're a psychopath.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:14 PM
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Not liking dogs is the biggest red flag in the world, man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:28 PM
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Bumble stock is down 90% from its IPO This makes me so happy, if it's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:34 PM
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It's always been an attractive feature, but only relatively recently has it become the main physical feature that women care about. Nowadays, it doesn't matter if you're compatible in every conceivable metric but height. You're fucked before she knows so much as your name. Men are now just accessories for women to show off.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:41 PM
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The kids are not fucking alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 04:21 PM
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I believe you, and I also believe you're even older than I am. Things have changed over the years. I was lucky enough to be young when online dating services didn't really exist, unless you count those VHS tapes. Girls had to actually get to know me before they rejected me outright, which worked in my favour. It's not like that anymore for the kids. Women don't even make the slightest effort to get to know those shorter guys because they have a million other taller guys available within seconds.…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:27 PM
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Yes, short guys that are extremely outgoing and charismatic do well. Now compare an "average" short guy to an "average" average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:48 PM
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Yes, I've heard that phrase once or twice before. Out of curiousity, what do you and your girlfriends think about short men? Please be honest. This isn't a gotcha, I'm genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:42 PM
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Guys lie up, girls lie down. The short guys claiming they're having nearly as much success as tall guys and women are the same ones that are adding 2-3" onto their dating profiles. I'm aware that this was a pretty rigorous study with a lot of participants, but when it comes to anything sex related, every single data point is untestable and unprovable. And they will remain so until people allow researchers into their bedrooms, or they start calling up participants' sexual partners for verificatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:29 PM
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I've been doing intermittent fasting (5/2) since February and have lost over 20lbs without doing any more exercise than my standard "do a few sets of bicep curls every week or so...if I feel like it" routine. On my starvation days I get very hungry (obviously) but I use weed and video games to take the edge off. On the days following my starvation days, I end up eating even less than what I used to for some reason. But I still only eat shit. I'll have a cheeseburger for dinner and then a handful…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:46 PM
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This is projection. If there are guys that actually think that way, they are the minority. Women are the primary vectors of height fetishism. Are you attracted to short men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:41 PM
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If there's one thing young men are great at doing, it's long-term planning. You're absolutely right about the dangers of this shit, but you also have to remember that these kids aren't just inventing their insecurities out of boredom. Social media (and, I'm sorry to say, specifically women on social media) is filling their heads with a non-stop bombardment of impossible expectations and outright misandry. Since we're talking about HGH, here is an example of what short kids are seeing on social m…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:27 PM
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The mods are fucking obsessed with CMV. They treat this place like a high school debate class, and they're that one probably-autistic keener that demands everyone follow the rules to the letter.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 04:17 PM
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So just to be clear, you're not ok with judging women based on the poor choices they've made, but you are ok with women judging men based on a statistic that says absolutely nothing about their worth as a human being? The "current male generation" is no more screwed up than your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:25 PM
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Most of the men an appropriate age for me are not very appealing. What about them is unappealing? Visually speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:49 PM
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Very negatively.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 08:48 PM
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You are seriously projecting here. You make it sound like guys are going straight from a session to the highest bridge they can find. That's obviously not happening. Lonely guys see escorts all the time, and I've talked to plenty of them. I'm one of them! Once again, this advice is not for every lonely guy. If you're depressed to the point of killing yourself then seeing a sex worker is not going to help with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 09:49 PM
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Well, shucks. I guess it's good that I qualified "some" guys in my post title, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:42 PM
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I already addressed this. My post isn't directed at people that have normal sex lives (or opportunities to pursue them). It's for guys that women have deemed utterly undateable based on their looks alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:41 PM
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I don't even know where to begin with this post, so I don't think I will.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 07:46 PM
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Agreed 100%. I've chatted with a lot of women in the business and I have never heard an opinion that runs contrary to yours. They want it "fully" legalized just as much as we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 07:26 PM
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It's definitely mechanical, but that's kind of the point. Tempered expectations and all that. Sugar daddy/baby relationships are weird even to me, but if that's what turns your crank, all the power to you!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 07:01 PM
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Another gem! God I love reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:51 PM
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It should be fairly obvious if you look at the thread I linked to. She doesn't specifically say it but it's heavily implied. She also commented: Plenty of men are attracted to me they just aren't the men I want. I have a type.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:43 PM
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It's a loaded word and pretending it's not is just being disingenous. I agree with the heart of your message, but people only use that word when they want to imply that they are superior to the people they're not attracted to. And we're specifically talking about physical attraction here, so your other examples aren't really relevant. If she is rejecting men based on their physical appearance alone, then she obviously has no idea if they "can't meet her needs."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:31 PM
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I know using that word makes you feel better because you're a raging misandrist, but it's not "settling" when an average woman refuses to date an average man. It's delusion and an inflated ego. The only winners in this situation are the guys she's ignoring. So you're partially right. It's definitely good that she's not wasting their time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:22 PM
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I love these threads. No dissembling. No justification. Just the raw thought process of a woman that won't even entertain the idea that she can't date Mr. 666.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:42 PM
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Eh. I’ve heard that I’d be a great boyfriend if I was just a little taller several times in my life, and the matches I got on OLD before inputting my height tell a much different story. Oh and the fact that almost every woman will list height as her #1 personal preference is kind of indicative as well, isn’t it? I know people hate talking about this, but the simple truth is that us shorties are inherently unwanted. It’s not a minor preference that some women have, it’s the biggest one and by a l…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 03:15 PM
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I used to live on diet Dr. Pepper until Coke Zero came into existence. It’s time to level up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 07:45 PM
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Nah. They’re only unreasonable when it comes to black pill content.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 03:45 PM
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Lel can you post a story about how she reacts to this? Your comment was the first thing I thought of when I found out about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 08:22 PM
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I got a free teddy bear award yesterday and I had to give it out within 24 hours or I'd lose the poor little thing. So I gave that guy my teddy bear and then he called me gay. I JUST WANTED TO GET RID OF MY FUCKING TEDDY BEAR. MOST PEOPLE WOULD BE FUCKING GRATEFUL
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 02:40 PM
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So are we :)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 04:24 PM
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For short and massively unattractive men, it’s the only pill that offers a realistic explanation for the way the modern world works. It can only be a good thing to know how women perceive you, even if that reality isn’t ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:20 PM
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What happened? I’m disconnected from all U.S. politics and news…especially on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 08:32 PM
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I’d just like to drop in with another spicy hot take… It is my firm belief that 99.9% of straight dudes would not be affected negatively by inappropriate touching. I believe a significant majority would actually like it. I’m not talking about extreme examples (rape) which are obviously inexcusable. Myself and every guy I’ve known has been bad touched by women multiple times in our lives when we were young (teen and early adult years). I remember each moment fondly, and so do they.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 07:34 PM
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Nothing wrong with a snaggletooth. Kirsten Dunst makes it work.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 07:38 PM
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I can’t help but make all sorts of judgments on people that care so much about their appearance that they’d buy a fucking wig. There’s something so inherently pathetic about it that I just can’t help it. It’s different with women that do it for stylistic purposes to complement their style or whatever, but a guy buys a wig out of insecurity…nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 04:11 PM
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Hahaha…I wish people could make jokes like that again. What happened to comedy?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 03:14 AM
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I've never asked anyone out that didn't clearly express interest in me first. All other things being equal, I'd ask the shorter girl out first simply because in my experience they're more open to short dudes. I don't find them more attractive than tall women...just more receptive. This myth that tall women are more likely to appreciate shorter guys is frustrating. All women, short and tall, want nothing to do with us. Put a couple women in a room together, one short and one tall, and ask them wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 03:44 PM
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Yup. I've unsubscribed from every single sub that could be considered "controversial" except for this one for that reason exactly. This is the only place that isn't an echo chamber. This is probably the only place on reddit where you can see diametrically opposed opinions gain an equal amount of traction. As funky as this place is, that is a massive advantage it has over all those other dumpster fires.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 10:47 PM
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I'm not red, but I'm about 99% sure you've misunderstood the meaning of AWALT entirely. Like with every single generalization in the history of language, "AWALT" is just a tool to understand the kind of behaviour you'd expect on average. I'm not really defending the term, especially considering using the word "all" seems almost intentionally misleading, but that's how I understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 06:35 PM
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Damn straight. The obsession those losers over at /r/short have with going to the gym really displays this. Guess what, chumps! You're still short! And that's all that most women are ever going to care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 07:02 PM
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A woman's idea of "being interesting" these days seems to be based exclusively on the vacations they go on. As if literally every other tourist in the world isn't doing the exact same things they are. Congratulations, you went on a zip-line somewhere in South America. That doesn't make you interesting...it makes you a consumer, just like the gamers and homebodies you so loathe.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 08:51 PM
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Man, don't do porn. Keep in mind this could make him very, very upset. Even if you end up doing something harmless like rickrolling him. From his perspective he could see it as a pretty serious breach of privacy. I'm just saying that he'd probably appreciate being told that his shit is open. ~this PSA was brought to you by Mr. NoFun
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 08:32 PM
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I'm ok with that. Threads that mention FDS seem to attract the same handful of sad, utterly delusional misandrists.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 02:02 AM
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Are you a real person?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 11:07 PM
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I have no personal experience with this, but it seems fairly obvious to me. Pride. Consider that men are expected to wade through a depthless sea of rejections ("polite" and otherwise) for every tepid success. Until women actually make an effort to empathize (lol) or try to turn things around (lol), guys are going to do whatever they need to do to keep their sense of pride and dignity above sea level, even if that includes petty shit-talking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 09:31 PM
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It boggles the mind that some women try to deny this. I wonder if they're only saying that because they don't want to acknowledge how tremendously advantageous it is to not be slaves to one's sex drives. Women can't know what it's like to be a horny man, and obviously vise versa, but it takes only two brain cells and at least one functioning sensory organ to know that "one of these things is not like the other." Our entire social structure and the garbage fire that is 21st century dating can all…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 07:57 PM
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Did you read what he said? She's trying to get a guy to commit, but she's only seeing tall guys who pump and dump her because those same guys are being pursued by a billion other equally vapid and shallow women. If she was only trying to get laid, that'd be another issue entirely. Also how do you know he's a) short and b) "not improving himself"?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 05:44 PM
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二年生です。週に一度クラスがあります。Learning Japanese is by far the most fulfilling thing I've ever done in my life. How about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 04:56 PM
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はじめまして ：）
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 03:59 PM
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Hello, me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 03:20 PM
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Bluh? A man isn't "objectifying" his girlfriend or wife if he thinks she's sexy, and vise versa. We aren't arguing that men should be "primarily" valued for their perceived attractiveness, although I have to say I think you're severely downplaying the importance of mutual attraction in long-term relationships. We're simply stating that there are significant dangers associated with being the "safe" option such as dead bedrooms, infidelity, divorce, and so forth. Why would a man want to be with a …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 08:40 PM
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You think women want to have their viability as mothers take precedence over their actual physical attractiveness?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 08:27 PM
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I would argue the only "weak" person is the guy who allows himself to be tricked into marrying someone who is always going to be comparing him (unfavourably) to the other men in her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 07:50 PM
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...or, don't date women who are settling for them in the first place. Seems like a much easier option, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 07:48 PM
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Q4W: Why do women care if a guy views them first as a potential mother of his child, rather than the love of his life whom he is physically attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 07:47 PM
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Holy shit, I'll say. Good for them. How did they meet, if you don't mind me asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 05:02 PM
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Uhh...nobody is gatekeeping video games. Male gamers would sacrifice at least one testicle and half of their RAM to find a gamer girlfriend. The reality is that gamer girls are just as in demand as any other type of girl, because guys don't base their relationship decisions on how "cool" their partner's hobbies are. And gamer girls never date gamer boys. Funny how that works, isn't it? edit: I've been politely informed that this last statement was, in fact, incorrect. I'd like to partly blame th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 04:40 PM
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I agree with you completely and don't have much to add other than that picture is truly something else. It reminds me of a picture I saw of a bunch of tourists "holding up" the tower of Pisa.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 04:17 PM
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The average person is neither a 24/7 rave party MDMA addict, nor a basement dwelling gamer. The average woman can toss a fuck to anyone she sees as soon as she walks outside of her apartment. The average man cannot. I don't think anyone is ever going to deny that outgoing guys have more opportunities than introverts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 03:58 PM
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Healthy weight, homebody, dry wit. Me in girl form, I guess. Meta - "Tall" count: 7. Updated 8:45am MT
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 03:06 PM
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Ah, so he's a bit older and a globetrotter as well. That's much more believable. Thank you for indulging me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 09:09 PM
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It's not. You've just been Littleknownfact'ed. Welcome to PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 08:14 PM
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Well, yeah, obviously I'm not talking about those girls. I don't think anybody is complaining about those types of girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 08:14 PM
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Huh? No, I'm talking about the same hypothetical woman (or man). She rejects the "safe/boring" dudes when she's young because they're not good enough for her, and then flees to them (sometimes with a kid or two) when all the tall guys are shacked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 07:51 PM
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Because...they are? That's the whole point. They're literally the "participation ribbon." Just try to imagine yourself as the guy in this position. Would you be fine dating or marrying a guy who rejected you when he was younger because you weren't good enough for him at the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 07:31 PM
2

The definition of "fun" is subjective, and I'm sure you know this. There are millions of people that don't need constant sensory overload to make up for whatever vitamin deficiency or hormonal imbalance that causes perpetual restlessness and impatience. Being an extrovert isn't 'better' and it certainly doesn't require any more "creativity". That's just a lie extroverts tell themselves because they think they're superior to introverts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 05:08 PM
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I meant it in the deeper sense. FDS promotes the most misandrist and cynical ways of manipulating men to get what women want. Do you tell the men you're dating that every single action you take is a calculated variable in an equation that is meant to maximize your own happiness?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 10:43 PM
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Aren't you in the process of scamming the men you're dating? Isn't that exactly what FDS is for?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 10:37 PM
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A more succinct analogy does not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 05:38 PM
2

There are so many crossed wires in this comment chain it's amazing none of us have been electrocuted yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 08:12 PM
6

It's pretty simple, actually. The average guy has to slog through a hundred brutal rejections for every success, tepid or otherwise. Women will never understand what that does to a man's sense of self-worth. Or for someone like me who is quite short, I know for a fact that most women will reject me based on that alone, so I'd much rather be shown that tiny list of women that, bless their beautiful hearts, aren't as shallow. At least then when they reject me I'll know it was for something that ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 08:10 PM
4

lol my man, google "andy from the office"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 07:37 PM
6

lmao what
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 07:19 PM
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Andy from the office? You mean the guy who's shredded and plays Starlord? You're proving my point over and over lmao what
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 06:59 PM
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Pressure from whom? I guarantee you their male counterparts aren't the culprits.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 05:38 PM
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This kind of honesty coming from women is so rare and so precious. No apologies, no dissembling...just the facts as everyone knows them but few admit to knowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 05:13 PM
1

I'm an older millennial and I've noticed the same thing, and am also looking forward to seeing how this eventually shakes out. I genuinely feel sorry for gen z males.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 05:10 PM
1

Again, women are the ones that only have time for the top 2 out of every 10 men. Men exhibit a nearly perfect bell curve when rating women, but the same cannot be said for women rating men. Most men would be perfectly happy with average women, but average women are just as picky and superficial as their more attractive counterparts. Because they can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 03:43 PM
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Men and women are equally entitled. The only difference is in the outcome, and that is per-determined by our biological differences. Women are just as unreasonable as men, but they don't experience a fraction of the difficulty average or ugly men do. If our brains (and sexuality) were the same, there wouldn't be such a tremendous difference between the experiences of men and women. This whole "guys only care about hot girls" thing is a complete myth. That lopsided survey they did of how people r…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 03:11 PM
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I've only recently discovered this sub, and it has astounded me how many of these choosing beggars have height requirements. The majority of them for Christ's sake! Other than "fit" which is a nebulous term at best, height seems to be the only other ubiquitous physical requirement. And people still have the audacity to claim height is just a minor factor. Fucking idiots.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/20 09:42 PM
6

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 10:21 PM
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(don’t @ me with the 80/20 rule or the OkCupid study. I read all of the study and the end results are not what people on this sub claim they are). What do you mean by this? I thought even women accepted those stats. I don't know how valuable your anecdotes are, to be honest. I find it difficult to believe these so-called players are ugly or even average, but obviously you would know better than me. Have you considered that your standards for what makes men attractive are higher than the average …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 06:15 PM
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I'm older than you and I remember that initial stigma as well, but it hasn't had that reputation in a long time. The stats are incredibly useful if you're a man. If I had known I would be invisible to the large majority of women on that site (and others) because of my height, I would never have tried. I lucked out and got some dates and a LTR out of it, but I am definitely the exception. Dating sites are a loser's game for most guys, and the stats are absolute proof of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 05:40 PM
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My bad, I'm much higher than usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 12:58 AM
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That's not at all what I said. Did you skip over the part where I said "basic act of coitus."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 11:42 PM
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Thanks a lot for your response. I didn't try to make my post about porn addiction but I guess it was kind of inevitable. I think most people struggle with empathizing with addictions, let alone 'weird' ones like porn. And yeah, it is definitely worth it to 'hold off' every once in a while. My ex and I used to take week-long trips with her family in a place where intimacy was impossible, and the day we got back was always hilariously more...fulfilling.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 11:39 PM
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I know, but sex can still be performed even if the girl isn't enjoying herself (not that this is ideal either, obviously). The analogy only makes sense if it's as catastrophic to the basic act of coitus as ED is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 11:26 PM
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hahaha I mean I did ask for BluePill and PinkPill opinions, I guess. Thank you for your thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 11:25 PM
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What exactly am I trying to make women responsible for? So if you were the girl in my scenario and you found out your new boyfriend has ED, what would you do? Would you just instantly drop him? Even if he said he was going to stop looking at porn? I'm genuinely curious, here. What if excessive vibrator usage ruined a woman's vagina? Let's say we live in a world where vibrators somehow made vaginas so tight they couldn't be penetrated by even the noodliest of noodle-dicks. Would you have the same…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 11:21 PM
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Actually this is about women wanting to control how a man uses his dick, as espoused by TBP. This isn't about guys (with girlfriends or wives) experiencing ED that may be caused by excessive porn use. I'm only on their side if they're making real efforts to curb their addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 11:14 PM
2

If porn was giving me ED, I probably would. Thankfully it's not :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 11:08 PM
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Yes, there are alternatives to porn. You can also make your own butter and grow your own potatoes. As to your second paragraph...ok? Again, I'm not trying to come to the defense of maladjusted men with unreasonable expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 10:32 PM
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Thank you for this response. You brought up a point I've seen a few times now about alternatives to porn, but I think there's a problem with that. This whole ED pandemic is a) not an exact science, and b) basically unheard of outside of reddit. If guys learned in school that jerking it too much and too hard was going to cause a malfunction in their dicks, they'd probably be more careful. But we didn't learn that, and most people don't know it right now. So for those guys, why wouldn't they use p…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 10:24 PM
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Well, of course. But that's why I made this thread. I want to hear from those people. I even mentioned that this seemed like a reddit-specific phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 09:39 PM
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In case there are a few people that haven't realized it yet, OP is the perfect personification of FDS. I'm glad most of you aren't falling for it. What a pathetic existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 05:35 PM
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This is just bullshit. How many high-end escorts have you talked to? OP is not talking about streetwalkers. I've made friends with a few of the escorts I've seen over the years. Actual friends, not "friends." I've had the frankest of frank discussions with them about their work, and you want to know what they have to say about it? Like any job, it's not perfect. But if you're careful (as in only seeing guys who get a positive reference from other escorts) it is not only incredibly lucrative but …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 10:19 PM
1

Brilliant. That's that then, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 10:03 PM
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The problem with that proposal is that it requires everyone to, first and foremost, be honest with themselves. That's hard enough as it is. Add onto that the fact that there are going to be thousands of exceptions to those rules that will think they're being generalized even when explicitly told they're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 08:51 PM
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