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Says I’m 39 male but no it’s not the same. I’ve seen hoes literally sleep with anyone who they just met trying to have a kid. In the bathroom at the bar actually
/r/askTRP11/07/20 04:40 PM
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I might get shit for saying this but it’s not easy to find someone to have kids with. That’s not something do with just anyone. I’m 39m and want kids and still single. Not in a rush just to do it though. That’s a red flag if that’s the case. I’d need to know someone for years before making that decision and I’m comfortable if it never happens
/r/askTRP11/07/20 12:46 AM
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This crossed my mind too. At lest BPD traits
/r/askTRP25/06/20 01:56 AM
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I’d say go for it if there isn’t any backlash. I feel like she has the right to know her bf actions directly affected your relationship. Your ex is the more guilty party but she should know her relationship is a lie. Not sure of the TRP rules on this situation though
/r/askTRP22/06/20 06:46 AM
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I guess you have to decide if you want the additional drama. Dude doesn’t deserve to have a happy Ltr if he’s actively willing to wreck other relationships. Actions have consequences
/r/askTRP22/06/20 06:24 AM
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This is funny. I’m in a similar situation except I don’t think I’m hated per say but I’m over my town and the people in it. The funny part I’m actively trying to move to Dallas TX. 😂 I’m looking for jobs there now
/r/askTRP12/06/20 12:31 AM
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If it truly BPD you need to run. I just went through a relationship with one and she fucked me up at 38 years old. If you want to engage that’s all you but it’s a waist of time. The conversation should be more validating about her feelings. Don’t ever mention self harm first as it put the idea in their head. The begging of the conversation was good but you shouldn’t have made it about you saying your feeling pressured. You could have said I can’t come over and left it at that. It’s all about the…
/r/askTRP08/06/20 04:24 AM
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This is a shitty situation. I think I’d try to tell someone not to higher her. You’re also jumping the gun and worrying about something that didn’t happen yet like her getting a job there. It might be a good idea to speak with a lawyer too. I hope others have suggestions
/r/askTRP05/06/20 07:16 AM
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I also wanted to add learning to set boundaries in a new relationship very early on. It sounds like you do pretty well with this but if people overstep boundaries and they can’t deal with it they will leave. This helps to get rid of the people who will end up being toxic to our lives. This can be anyone and not just relationships. Obviously there’s give and take but some boundaries should mean termination of the relationship
/r/askTRP28/05/20 07:40 PM
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I totally understand what you’re saying. For me it’s on a subconscious level. It’s stuff that we learned during our childhood in the formative years in life. You don’t have to say on here but ask yourself what the inner child inside is telling you. If it’s negative or feels like it’s lacking love because of the programming growing up. This can also cause us to feel empty inside. If you didn’t receive the validation and love as child you will have emotional flashbacks which is CPTSD. The relation…
/r/askTRP28/05/20 07:25 PM
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I’m was recently left by someone too then realized she was mentally I’ll after. In a similar situation to being “half way in” but it think this was my gut telling me this isn’t it, this isn’t the one but I couldn’t leave. Yours was telling you the same and she proved you right. She woulda entertained other men at some point, military or not. The military just made things happen much quicker. My relationship started with her cheating on her bf and also so many other flags that I overlooked. Wipe …
/r/askTRP28/05/20 06:11 PM
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I’m dealing with this same thing now. For me I always suppressed my emotions but didn’t know until a recent breakup. She just triggered so much from my life. For me it’s getting back to feeling again. I also feel you on the gym and haven’t gone in months. This covid thing is really making things hard on everyone. One thing that helped me is journaling to get stuff out so it’s not all trapped in your head
/r/askTRP26/05/20 06:01 PM
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Everyone has some traits of BPD. It’s not official until 5 of the 9 traits are met. I’m just out of a BPD relationship and it’s pure hell emotionally to detach. She was a “quite” type and we met at work. Who they are and what they show you are normally total opposites and many live double lives/standards. The best advice I can give is trust your gut. I ignored mine and ended up in a world of pain thinking I could just have a little fun. Also agree with the other post here about bars/clubs for me…
/r/askTRP19/05/20 05:07 PM
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If she has BPD then she doesn’t respect herself let alone him. She cheated and he wasn’t even a thought because of bpd. The real question is why this guy would let his girl cheat and take her back. It’s because he’s needy, fat, insecure and has a low self worth. He’s probably very codependent and needs to work on his own mental stability. I dated a girl with undiagnosed BPD but would never have her back now knowing. I didn’t discover until after it ended. BPD is a very serious mental illness and…
/r/askTRP19/05/20 04:21 AM
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Very involved actually but she couldn’t say I love you to him. He’s very strange but seemed nice
/r/askTRP17/05/20 05:35 AM
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Mom was super sweet. Soft spoken and loving. Too much actually like trying to make up for the dads bad behavior
/r/askTRP17/05/20 04:14 AM
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Yep mine had a dad who was also had borderline traits
/r/askTRP17/05/20 03:58 AM
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All good comments. I just out of a BPD relationship but didn’t know until after. If they need constant validation, affection and texting. Needy as fuck and you can never do enough. It’s gonna feel very one sided. Social media is like everything for them. I thought I could waist some time and not catch feelings. These women will emotionally destroy you. Don’t even mess with them at all it’s not worth it
/r/askTRP16/05/20 11:43 PM
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