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Suck my balls.
/r/askMRP23/05/19 08:16 PM
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10-4. If I do anything like that again, it's going to be limited to 72 hours and only to break a plateau. Probably an egg fast, keto bullshit -- I know, I know. But it works.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/19 07:34 PM
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Soon after we married, she became extremely controlling, and started having regular anger outbursts. I used to live like this. I'm talking backed into a corner, kitchen knife white-knuckled in her hand, threating to stick me with it, crazy bitch -- shit. ​ It took a whole lot of psychotherapy on my end, and some serious psych meds on hers, for me to get things normal for my kids.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/19 04:08 PM
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Increasing lifts while in a calorie deficit to lose weight is a delicate dance. I'm happy with where I am starting week 8.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/19 02:25 PM
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or some other guy is sexting her . . . just fucking with you I'd be lying if I said this wasn't the first thing to cross my mind.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/19 01:59 PM
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I can't believe it took eight whole weeks for one of you faggots to finally call me a faggot.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/19 01:55 PM
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Own My Shit Week 8: She's sending me nudes? 35 / 6' / 269 (-9) lbs / 26% BF (-4%) Navy Method / Married (35yo SAHM) / 3 kids (5, 5, & 3) Mission: Cultivate and sustain meaningful relationships by always bringing value. Lifting: 5x5 - 295 SQ / 185 BP / 225 BR (+40) / 165 OHP (+30) | 315x5 + 405x1 DL I'm stalled out on the squat and bench, but I feel three plates in the squat rack coming real soon. Goal: Get back into the 1,000 lb club -- creeping up on it. Reading: NMMNG | 16CoP | WISNIFG | TRM V…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/19 05:23 PM
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You know this from personal experience? I do. If so, is the only way out to run? Nope.
/r/askMRP12/04/19 07:20 PM
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You'd have worse stories than her hiding your wallet, had you married a borderline. ​ Trust me.
/r/askMRP12/04/19 07:06 PM
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Thanks, man.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/19 03:19 PM
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Be scared shitless of your wife because she saw a "sexy book cover" last week = not so much. There's more of a back story behind both my wife and I's reactions to that book cover. A la the guy in here that used to moonlight as a boudoir photographer and fucked 30 chicks after he said his vows. I was a lying, validation seeking, beta dirtball. The only reason I bring this up is that I hurt the fuck out of my wife with the lying, and wish I could take it back. And that's a main reason that that wa…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/19 07:14 PM
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What are DOING to a) get out of your wife's frame and b) establish your own? It's interesting that you ask this because I've been thinking long and hard about frame the past couple weeks. To me these questions are interchangeable because in order to get out of my wife's frame, I have to strengthen and control my own. This isn't about her, it's about me. Which begs the question. how do I strengthen a rock solid, authentic, and confident internal belief system? For starters, I think I need to be a…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/19 03:31 PM
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Ahh. Seven years of college and I still can't read.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/19 09:36 PM
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Why aren't you lifting?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/19 09:24 PM
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I had a feeling this could be the case, but wasn't sure.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/19 08:11 PM
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Own My Shit Week 7: Holy Shit -- She's Fondling My Arms ​ Me: 35 / 6' / 269 (-9) lbs / 26% BF (-4%) Navy Method / Married (35yo SAHM) / 3 kids (5, 5, & 3) ​ Mission: Cultivate and sustain meaningful relationships and bring value. ​ Lifting: 5x5 - 295 SQ / 185 BP / 185 BR / 135 OHP | 315x5 + 405x1 DL I'm getting bigger everywhere. While I was pounding my wife out Saturday night, I look down and say to myself "Holy shit--she's fondling my arms and shoulders". I STFU and continued. In my mind was m…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/19 06:50 PM
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Absolutely. It's like walking around with a 60lb bag of concrete on my back. I'd feel amazing without it. ​ I'm going to seriously consider the PSMF & Velocity. I'll write about what I do and how it works in an upcoming OYS.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/19 06:17 PM
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Thanks for the book recommendation. That's got a shit ton of awesome reviews, it's going on the list. As far as the fat, I'll bite. I read your DoD posts and they're compelling. A Protein Sparing Modified Fast is something I could do. I already weigh/track macro's for my weekly meal prep every Sunday. So I'd just be making some modifications to the grocery list. Easy enough. Now the Velocity diet, I don't know if that's for me. I've got a business to run, three little kids, a tee ball team to co…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/19 05:55 PM
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The MAP is slowly coming together and these are top priorities.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/19 08:58 PM
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0 beers is way easier than a couple for me, too. So from here on out, 0 beers it is.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/19 08:54 PM
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Own My Shit Week 6: Sexy Lady Book Cover I'm done dicking around, let the unfucking begin. Me: 35 / 6' / 270 (-8) lbs / 27% BF (-4%) Navy Method / Married (35yo SAHM) / 3 kids (5, 5, & 3) Mission: I've been kicking this around and it always comes back to 'building and sustaining as many meaningful relationships as possible'. It's one of my weakest areas because if left to my own devices I would resemble a hermit crab. That said, I'm not 100% on it so I shall keep kicking. Lifting: 5x5 - SQ: 295 …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/19 06:07 PM
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Own My Shit Week 5 35 / 6' / 269 (-9) lbs / 27% BF (-4%) Navy Method / Married (35yo SAHM) / 3 kids (5, 5, & 3) Lift: 5x5 - SQ: 275 (+30) / BP 185 (+30) / BR: 135 / OHP: 135 | 1x5 - DL: 365 My bench is horrendous. I'm no fan of machines, but I'm going to use them to build my pressing muscles. I like the idea of lifting to failure without a spot. I'm stuck at 135 on OHP and rows. I'm thinking of pressing/rowing 135 for four sets, then adding 10 lbs to the last set. Then the last two sets, last th…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/19 03:55 PM
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That is some intense shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/19 08:46 PM
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Ok... So we're talking about a strong personal paradigm, a kind of mental setting or context within us that guides the way we think, feel and act. Independent of outside influences. ​ Not just a way to hold subconscious power in a human interaction. ​ EDIT: Typos
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 04:50 PM
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You're right. I do need a lot of work. To be honest, I've been grappling with the concept of frame for a few weeks now. It gets thrown around a lot here, and I really dug to read as much as I could about it. I've been basing my understanding mainly on the: Iron Rule of Tomassi #1 Frame is everything. Always be aware of the subconscious balance of whose frame in which you are operating. Always control the Frame, but resist giving the impression that you are. And Rollo's definition: An often subco…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 03:40 PM
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Own My Shit Week 4 Physical ​ Stats: 35 / 6' / 270 (-8) lbs / 28% (-3%) BF ​ Lifting: 5x5 - SQ: 245 / BP 155 / BR: 135 / OHP: 135 (+20) | 1x5 - DL: 365 (+50) Tried going up to 275 on the squat rack and could probably complete my 5x5. But couldn't maintain form. I wasn't bending at the knee enough, leaning forward, and using way too much back. I went down to 245 and will work up more slowly. I think I have too much weight on when I do rows. I can get the 135 up, elbows behind my back, but it isn'…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/19 03:20 PM
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Own My Shit Week Three: 35 / 6' / 272 lbs (-6 lbs) / 29% BF (BF Analyzer) ​ Lifting: 5x5 - SQ: 245 (+20) / BP 155 (+20) / BR: 135 / OHP: 115 | 1x5 - DL: 315 Keeping my head down and leaning into it at the gym. Finally feel like I can start pushing myself a little more because I'm not walking around on jello legs. The scale is frustrating me because it isn't dropping as fast as it usually does without weight lifting. I need to quit being a little faggot about the scale. I can tell my body is chan…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/19 05:47 PM
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Hate isn't the opposite of love, apathy is. This is actually a good sign. "Awww, is my baby JEALOUS? That's SOOO CUTE!!" Have fun with it. She only makes a big deal out of it because she knows she gets a reaction out of you when she responds like that. Tease her like she's a bratty younger sister. ​ I can't believe how well this stuff works. I know I have a long way to go and I'm at the beginning of this. But I tried my best to maintain frame and use amused mastery with a couple shit tests last …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/19 07:41 PM
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Thanks. It's embarrassing but I have to own my 28% BF. My goal is to average 2 lbs lost a week for the next 25 weeks. Lift, maintain Keto, I know it's doable. That puts me in a healthy range by the end of summer. And at that point, I'll reevaluate my approach. Do you have some solid evidence that she's screwed around on you? If not, then let it go and accept that it's always possible with any woman. I don't have any solid evidence, no. And I don't think I'll have a problem coming to terms with i…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/19 10:20 PM
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Own My Shit Week Two / 35 / 6' / 274 lbs (-4 lbs) Physical Lifting: 5x5 - SQ: 225 / BP 135 / BR: 135 / OHP: 115 | 1x5 - DL: 315 I'm a fat piece of shit because I overeat and drink too much beer to cope with anxiety. After the first week and a half of changing my diet and lifting, my shirts are fitting looser and I'm down a belt hole. I'm noticing a change in my arms, shoulders, and chest. I didn't drink any beer this weekend. I have been eating solidly for 8 straight days, and I haven't missed a…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/19 04:17 PM
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OYS #1 35. 6'. 278. 3 kids. (Scared to have body fat tested, but doing it this week.) ​ I'm just getting started and focusing on the weight room, reading, and my diet. ​ Reading No More Mr Nice Guy When I Say No, I Feel Guilty (Currently rereading) Married Man Sex Life Primer (Next on the list.) The Rational Male Mindful Attraction Plan Sixteen Commandments of Poon Book of Pook Sidebar (Continuously reading.) ​ Lifts The last week has proven I'm not nearly as strong as I thought I was. I'm easin…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/19 04:08 PM
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All taken into consideration. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/19 08:06 PM
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The anger is strong, but under control.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/19 08:05 PM
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It was my attempt at owning my shit, but now I see that I should have paid a little more attention to what's going on in here and how it works. Won't happen again.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/19 08:04 PM
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I'm not sure if this is the place to do this or not, but I wanted to announce my presence here, before I STFU. I stumbled across this place yesterday and my jaw hit the floor. My story parallels a lot of others here. I'm 35, been married for 8 years, together 10. Three little kids. I gave her everything for validation and in hopes of finally making her happy. And I got exactly what I deserved for doing that. She was irritable, full of rage, demeaning, controlling, emasculating, and entitled. At …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/19 04:18 PM
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