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slan45/r/seduction24/08/12 05:31 PM
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This is a beautiful post.
/r/seduction01/11/16 06:26 AM
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Unless you're being really over the top and obvious, no one will notice you're doing it, but they'll respond positively to it. Try it in small doses first: cross arms if person you're talking to is crossing arms, etc. when you get better at it, you can actually start leading other people's body language. Good communicators do this naturally.
/r/seduction25/10/16 03:09 PM
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The tricky part is doing these things not JUST to be cool. You need to do them because you want to improve yourself. When people see a guy doing something just to get better at that thing, THATS cool. That's what I think people mean when they say "don't care about what other people think".
/r/seduction02/10/16 05:56 PM
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Being cool is about respect. When you see someone cool, you think, "man, I want to be like that guy". I see a lot of folks say being cool is about not caring about what others think about you, but it's more about doing what you want to be doing and getting good at it. In terms of how become cool...the simple answer is that you need to work on yourself. You need hobbies and things you can do to get better at so when someone sees you doing your hobby, or speaking with confidence about a topic you'…
/r/seduction02/10/16 05:54 PM
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I'm no expert, but it sounds to me like you REALLY want the same night lay, which means any girl you're interacting with knows too. Your most likely chance at getting laid day of is to literally not care if you get laid day of.
/r/seduction12/07/14 07:38 AM
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He didn't close it...he number closed. As in got two girls' numbers.
/r/seduction07/10/13 12:20 AM
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I was just thinking about making a post about this. The best advice I've ever seen regarding improving posture (from a LifeProTip) actually, after years of trying to work on my posture was this: try to actively separate your ribs. When I read that, I just jutted my chest out and up, it's been working wonders for me. Hope that helps!
/r/seduction31/05/13 09:29 PM
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Ratings are subjective and every city is different.
/r/seduction18/05/13 07:19 PM
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It's a great supplement to going out and doing the real thing. Dating is a numbers game. With online dating, particularly okcupid, you already know a lot about the girl before meeting in person, making it very easy to close if you're interested. I've had two long term relationships with girls I've met online and lots of 1st date f-closes as well. (All HB8-10) These were not girls who were desperate or socially inept.
/r/seduction17/05/13 09:09 PM
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Please post a step by step image guide. I can imagine what you're talking about, but I want to be entertained...
/r/seduction20/04/13 06:54 AM
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"Oh good, you've done this before"
/r/seduction28/03/13 10:32 PM
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I guess we have a different opinion of what a pay off is then. To me, nebulous wisdom is worth more than instant gratification. Your example is flawed - it takes no effort whatsoever to buy a lottery ticket. Had OP not gotten laid in the end, he would have learned many valuable lessons and would most assuredly have gotten laid at some point in the future as a result.
/r/seduction07/10/12 03:12 AM
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You don't think a hard lesson is valuable? You learn more from mistakes than you do from successes...you just won't get to reap the benefits as quickly.
/r/seduction06/10/12 06:32 PM
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Congrats dude, way to stay in it for the long haul. Hard work always pays off.
/r/seduction06/10/12 08:38 AM
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Got me tingling. Thanks for the post! Have you tried nofap/noporn? I've found they go REALLY well with self improvement, particularly where the ladies are concerned. Best of luck!
/r/seduction05/10/12 10:36 PM
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Ohhhh, ok I gotcha. Thanks again for the post!
/r/seduction28/09/12 09:42 PM
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Wait - you were the one that said you were tracing. I thought you were trying to get me to figure out how tracing ISN'T the same.
/r/seduction28/09/12 09:32 PM
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I mean, the tapping is obviously an indicator of anxiety. The tracing is more like...you're in your own world and give no fucks?
/r/seduction28/09/12 09:14 PM
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You spoke of drawing invisible lines on the table. Isn't that similar to anxious toe tapping?
/r/seduction28/09/12 08:49 PM
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Stop watching porn, she'll be 10000x hotter and your instinct/primal nature will handle the rest.
/r/seduction13/09/12 10:16 PM
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I have a third nipple and work at a porn tech company.
/r/seduction13/09/12 06:33 PM
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American >_>
/r/seduction26/08/12 07:05 PM
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no
/r/seduction26/08/12 10:04 AM
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If only I knew all the things I do now back in college. You lucky bastards. Live it up!
/r/seduction25/08/12 07:55 AM
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http://i.imgur.com/uAPG8.gif
/r/seduction25/08/12 02:07 AM
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Solid advice both on what to say and how to say it. Thanks for breaking it down.
/r/seduction24/08/12 10:42 PM
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I hear what you're saying, but out of curiosity can you apply that to what I did? I'm not sure if you're saying I did it right or that I could have done it differently. tyty
/r/seduction24/08/12 10:41 PM
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Yea "no worries" has worked for me before too.
/r/seduction24/08/12 10:39 PM
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http://i.imgur.com/vtlGI.gif
/r/seduction24/08/12 08:55 PM
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Right. I've been working more on the open ended questions. This would have been solid. Thanks.
/r/seduction24/08/12 07:51 PM
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LOL - oh man. That's the best one yet.
/r/seduction24/08/12 07:28 PM
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At the same time...I also played the "I give no fucks" card. I wonder if that makes up for it. Confusion or confidence, that is the question...although at the same time, giving no fucks is a form of confidence. shrug
/r/seduction24/08/12 07:25 PM
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I like that except for the "try" to fuck part. It borders on arrogance instead of playful/confidence.
/r/seduction24/08/12 07:23 PM
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Another funny anecdote from once we were back at my place: We watched an episode of Workaholics (you know, the one where they campout in the office and do mushies). Afterwards she said she had to go, so I went in for a kiss. It was weak as shit, she didn't stop me, but she didn't go in either. Afterwards I pause for a second and say, "wow that was a weak kiss". "Well I didn't really want you to kiss me" "While I appreciate you letting me kiss you anyway, that doesn't change the fact that it was …
/r/seduction24/08/12 06:37 PM
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We were in a booth and her shit test involved sitting kinda far away from me with her arms crossed. Otherwise, I totally agree.
/r/seduction24/08/12 06:33 PM
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Sex isn't at the forefront of my mind at ALL times anymore. It makes it easier to roll with the punches where women are concerned. Idk if that's a satisfying answer, but I just feel more empowered I guess.
/r/seduction24/08/12 06:23 PM
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Thanks! For what it's worth, I've been doing NoFap for the past few weeks. It's been making dealing with the shit-tests SO much easier.
/r/seduction24/08/12 05:45 PM
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I really need to get the intense eye-contact while keeping the silence going down. I just read that girl's [FR] and her reaction to the silence the guy was creating was amazing.
/r/seduction24/08/12 05:43 PM
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Ahh damn, you're right. I put the power back in her hands.
/r/seduction24/08/12 05:36 PM
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Thanks for the followup. Your exploits are entertaining and I'm actually learning lessons from this guy. Can you go into more detail about when he asked you to stand in front of him? What happened right after that?
/r/seduction24/08/12 05:25 PM
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deep bow thanks :P
/r/seduction23/08/12 04:56 PM
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When you find the perfect girl. The one that has all the positive qualities you've learned to look for in a mate from your experiences meeting other women (or at least most of them). The LTR comes into play when you're experienced and knowledgeable enough to know what you, as a man, need to grow in a relationship. :)
/r/seduction23/08/12 06:36 AM
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This is honestly one of the coolest things I've read in a while. I think it's awesome that you're experimenting with social dynamics like this. Regardless of what your intention is, you're going to grow from the experience and get guys (or a guy, or whatever it is you're looking for) "way out of your league". I've always viewed pickup as more of a way to explore yourself. The interesting thing about your story, to me, is that I didn't even consider that you might be unattractive until you said y…
/r/seduction22/08/12 04:29 AM
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All other posts rendered irrelevant by this. Side note - be proud of yourself that you had the balls to put yourself out there. Remember what it felt like making that decision, then do it again next time :)
/r/seduction19/08/12 07:27 AM
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