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| 1 | Can someone make a rational argument to hate a whole entire gender?I'm a woman who adores men and am grateful for everything they do for society. Men and women are yin and yang, and we need each other. When I say this almost anywhere else on the internet, I get called a pickme lol. But yeah, there's no rational reason to hate a whole gender and people who do, don't think rationally. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/24 02:06 PM |
| 4 | With terfs getting more popular, Im worried about The future of mens rightsI am a woman who would be labeled as a TERF just from a pure notion that I want to keep women's spaces female exclusive. But I also stand for men's rights since men are pretty much the worst treated in society right now. So I think many of us labeled as TERFs aren't really TERFs. We might agree with some of their points but highly disagree on other. | /r/MensRights | 20/04/24 06:20 AM |
| 2 | What is less intimidating to a woman, going on a coffee date or going jogging together if you live near one another?I love jogging, but I don't know if it'd be great for the first day. When I'm jogging/running, I prefer to concentrate on my pacing, posture, breathing, etc. I'd prefer taking a walk if you want it to be an "active" date, because that way I could concentrate on a conversation. Coffee is fine as well, but if she's an active person, walk would be even better, imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 10:46 AM |
| 4 | Who is your favourite example of positive masculinity?I agree. I was thinking his way of living, standing his ground, being a head of his household, and his explanation of positive masculinity. I wasn't necessarily thinking of looks, more of his demeanor and values | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 06:27 AM |
| 5 | Who is your favourite example of positive masculinity?I know I'm going to get hate for this, but Jordan Peterson | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 09:16 PM |
| 10 | Most of what gets called “manipulation” and “grooming” seems to be just seduction people don’t likeI know, and it's taking over Eastern Europe, too. The saddest part is that it usually takes a few years for American mainstream to come here, so when pendulum swings back, it'll take a few more years to swing back here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 04:33 PM |
| 68 | Most of what gets called “manipulation” and “grooming” seems to be just seduction people don’t likeAs a woman in an age gap relationship, I get a lot of "grooming" accusations for my fiance, who is 12 years older than me (I am 24 and he is 36), but only on the internet. We're both consenting adults, I am very happy in this relationship and have only improved since starting this relationship. No exploitation or abuse happened. But people, as soon as they see our age gap, jump to conclusions and accuse him of grooming. Which, to be honest, besides being insulting to my partner, is insulting to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 12:38 PM |
| 1 | I think this is a good definition of a “high value man”. What do you think ladies?I second all of this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 07:28 AM |
| 1 | Why do most of the women don't date younger?I personally have traditional views on relationships and always went for older men because they showed more security, dominance, and leadership skills. My soon to be husband is 12 years older. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 09:35 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Bluepillers don't actually care about self improvement.Thank you. You too, fellow redditor! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 08:11 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Bluepillers don't actually care about self improvement.I wasn't always the best partner, and I think my partner deserves the best I can give to him. Also, I have internal motivation for just being the best version of myself for myself. But people are social beings, and most of us seek some kind of external validation, consciously or subconsciously. And who am I going to seek that validation from, if not my significant other? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 05:24 PM |
| 1 | What do you consider cheating?Oh, thanks for the explanation. Yeah, I don't have those guys or ever would, and I can smell that stuff from a mile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 05:18 PM |
| 9 | CMV: Bluepillers don't actually care about self improvement.I'll preface this saying that I'm in a long-term relationship, so I'm not sure how it works for dating, but redpill way of self improvement (for women) is what I found makes the most sense and it incredibly improved my relationship by extension of improving myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 03:26 PM |
| 38 | What are things you hate about other women?Generally, traits that I don't like are traits that I don't like, regardless if they're in men or women. But specifically, what I can think of right now are women who blame men for everything. Somehow, magically, any shortcomings they have are not on them, but always a man's fault. Also, when they look at the same behavior in men and women differently, like finding excuses when a woman does X thing, but harshly judging when a man does X thing. I guess I don't like lack of responsibility and hypo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 12:00 PM |
| – | Women wearing revealing clothingIf men wore the same thing, they junk would fall out. I don't have an issue with bikinis as long as they're not strips of floss where private parts are almost fully on a display or bikini tops that only cover women's nipples. There are different types of bikinis, more like a regular bra and panties. There are also men's spidos, which cover even less than boxers. I have no issue with them either, and they're pretty normalized. I consider myself to be fairly modest, but I don't think normalization… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 11:36 AM |
| 1 | What do you consider cheating?I believe that. I often see people jumping into relationships without any discussion of expectations and boundaries. And I fully agree with the second part of your comment. My partner does not have numbers of my girlfriends, nor do I have of his guy friends. And I would rather die than let some men orbit around me while in a relationship, but tbh I don't even remember how that looked like since I'm getting married soon so I didn't have any orbiters in years (I think). But I guess that's when a g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 11:09 AM |
| 3 | What do you consider cheating?I mean, cheating means something different for every couple, so I hope that people who don't see flirting as cheating have discussed that with their partner. If they were with me in a relationship, I would be upfront with my boundary that flirting is cheating, and if they don't think so, I would exit the relationship. As long as it's agreed on from both parties, it's fine for them. Not for me, but not my relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 09:51 AM |
| – | Women wearing revealing clothingI think there's a nuance. Bikini when going swimming - ok, bikini when going to the bar - inappropriate, bikini to the family gathering (idk if anyone in their right mind would do this, but just as an example) - extremely inappropriate. Dress for the occasion. I personally am not a fan of extremely revealing clothing anywhere, but people can wear whatever they want. But also, if they wear something inappropriate for given occasion, they shouldn't be surprised if they get a reaction. For example,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 09:46 AM |
| 4 | What do you consider cheating?I agree that flirting is cheating, and in your drink scenario, both cases are cheating. As you said, it never starts purely physically. People often start with emotional cheating, which leads to physical cheating. I would also count messaging another person in a sketchy/flirty way behind partner's back as cheating. Not to mention intimate physical contact like hand holding, cuddling, etc. Anything that indicates intimacy/sexual undertones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 09:35 AM |
| 2 | "You have to work 10 times harder than your grandfathers for women 10 times worse."I think I agree with this. But keep in mind that I'm from Eastern Europe, so my grandparents could function a little bit differently than American grandparents. I think back in the day, beauty standards for both men and women were more reasonable, but people also took better care of themselves and had less entitlement. Both of my grandparents were very fit, and the few people who were overweight at the time were ashamed of themselves. They didn't need shaming from others. I, of course, don't thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 07:37 AM |
| 2 | Sexual Selection in Men and WomenNo dick feels the same. Yes, size and girth do matter partially, but the man attached to the dick matters more. How he uses said dick and other skills he has are equally important. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 05:19 PM |
| 50 | Feminist really see men as monstersI guess it's easier for them to blame everything on men than take any personal responsibility. Such strong girl bosses | /r/MensRights | 29/12/23 07:24 AM |
| 1 | “The majority of violent crimes are committed by men because men are more violent”Female on male violence is also often ignored. When I was 4, my mother attacked my father and I, threw heavy household items on us, and he had to step in front of me to protect me. Then he took me to his parents house to keep us safe and my mother called the police and told them that HE attacked her and I, pointed to the floor full of broken stuff and basically said he did it and kidnapped me. Police found us and arrested him. Thankfully, they took me with them, and I, who was barely talking pro… | /r/MensRights | 23/12/23 01:00 PM |
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