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| 4 | men treat hoes differentlyThat you posted this. There isnt actually a question you are subconsciously reinforcing your belief that you are not a ho and your friends are and that secretly makes you feel superior. You have insecurity about how they look compared to you. Tldr you seem really young/immature | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 12:34 AM |
| 1 | I genuinely think people underestimate female toxicityBro if u have sex with someone without knowing ahead of time if theyd be willing to have an abortion if bc fails is on you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 07:51 AM |
| -2 | Why are so many men subservient to their wife/gf?“I see it all the time” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 06:32 AM |
| 1 | Have tradcons taken over the redpill?No redpill creators just market to trad cons because they have such a low viewer base | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 04:12 AM |
| – | CMV: The sex positives on this subreddit are interested in normalizing cheating behavior.Do u want sex or not? Imagine being a blackpill complaining about people giving out sex too easily. Fucking ridiculous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 04:15 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Bluepillers don't actually care about self improvement.You’re right if you are black pilled as they come it probably won’t work. But that’s a you problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Even ignoring the RP/BP doomers, how does anyone not becone cynical about long term monogamy when working in an office setting full of cheaters?Bro i think your co workers are just trashy. I work in an office environment and admitting to something like that would be both unprofessional and make everyone lose respect for that person… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Debate : People dont understand that Money and status makes you GENUINELY more sexually attractive as a Man.I mean vice versa imo. Why would I date a jobless woman when I could date an educated person who makes a lot of money? Duel high income and no kids makes life easy as hell | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 02:54 AM |
| 1 | In dating, whats the biggest - men/women say they want X, but their actions suggest otherwise?Red pill dudes say they don’t care if a woman has a career while simultaneously screeching about how woman are trying to take their money. Can’t have it both ways dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 10:41 AM |
| 5 | Pleasing a man sexually as a woman is so much easier than pleasing a woman sexually as a manThis sounds like the perspective of someone who cums really fast and hasn’t been with a lot of people. Some women are literally 5 pump chumps and cum very quickly making then super easy to please. Some aren’t nearly as sensitive. It works the same way for men. People just comment on men more because refractory period is a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/23 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Why would any high value male date an FDS woman?They are just cringy redpillers. Nobody likes redpillers and nobody likes FDS redpillers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Now that we live in an era where women work and make their own money, why is a man's money/career still so important for women?Trad women care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Are men far more accepting to neurodivergence than women when it comes to dating?Not in my experience. If anything I feel that women tend to be more tolerant of any type of divergence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 12:47 AM |
| 5 | Western men are not the problem with regards to dating issues in the west CMVNobody should be blaming anybody. It’s nobodies responsibility to date you and life isn’t fair. You don’t get or deserve a participation trophy wife for existing. Become someone who can offer traits people want instead of just complaining online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Liberal women are probably the most judgmental and demanding when it comes to wanting Alpha qualities in a man.I’m sure you’re “willing to say” a lot of batshit things 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 11:17 PM |
| 0 | Study finds that being muscular does not increase attractiveness for short men.Find a 7'1 woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/23 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Study finds that being muscular does not increase attractiveness for short men.Have you seen the studies that say the same for tall men? Imagine a muscular women, how attractive does it seem to you? It's the same shit in womens head man. Muscular men are looks at more by other men than women. It's basically a fetish | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/23 02:38 AM |
| 0 | When men are unable to get a wife, ultimately they will resort to betraying their tribe, this is how Ephialtes betrayed spartans, it is because he couldnt get laid.So fucking true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What are the advantages of being the Nice Guy?"being a nice guy" Lower the the autism and stop trying to masquerade as someone or something you aren't just lean into your natural strengths and develop yourself into a person someone would consider worth being with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 07:00 PM |
| 25 | Sugar babies are much worse than prostitutesStop infantilizing 50 year old men. They can make their own decisions and if they are being taken advantage of that’s on them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 11:45 PM |
| 3 | You get successful by your 40s: would you leave your wife for your dream girl?My wife is currently my dream girl 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Is confidence really tied to dick size?No. It’s just a meme. Machismo as an attitude = small dick energy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Did “common interests/hobbies” ever work for you?My wife and I are both into video games and we watch series horror movies. She didn't play any games growing up so I got her a switch and BOTW and now she plays hardcore RPGs like balduers gate and divinity OS 2 lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 04:58 PM |
| 4 | "Women are more attractive than men" is just socially acceptable misandryIf men would embrace things like makeup and society allowed for that they might be on more equal footing but many men go out of their way to not care about their appearance or smell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 06:42 PM |
| 6 | Virgins women aren't anywhere near as rare as people on here think - those who say otherwise always misrepresent the statistics.Does that include rape? Idk man. You weirdos just come off predatory when you’re scouting out underage virigins to scoop up at church. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Virgins women aren't anywhere near as rare as people on here think - those who say otherwise always misrepresent the statistics.It’s hard for me to understand reasons why someone needs to find a virgin if they are not predatory or a religious extremist who is predatory due to their beliefs. If it’s just a hurt feelings/insecurity feeling then you have bigger problems than inceldom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Should more college educated women ''date down'' in terms of status?Im a dude and wouldn’t have married someone if they didn’t at least have ambitions. I wouldn’t expect women to treat it differently. Two high incomes are significantly better than one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Women overrate "good communication" because of halo effectWho cares tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 04:44 PM |
| 2 | Never Having Unprotected Sex (unless married)If you’re afraid of sky daddy don’t have sex or double up on prevention ie condoms plus IUD. Interesting definition of exclusivity. Most would classify that as having sex with multiple people. Most dudes won’t request that unless you’re willing to have an abortion or they are stupid. Either way set your boundaries and expect them to be respected. If that’s how you feel your partner needs to respect it and use protection. That said a condom isn’t enough to prevent pregnancy. Otherwise you have .3… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 02:36 AM |
| 2 | Why is if considered offensive to ask women what they bring to the table?It would be offensive to say that to a guy too on a date. It’s not a job interview. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 06:33 PM |
| 7 | Women on Reddit are generally extremely hypocritical when it comes to age gap relationshipsYou’re right it’s inconsistent but society at large also has those conflicting beliefs. It’s because people view women as less predatory. Note all the “nice” and “where was she when i was 13” under every story about a female adult teacher having pedo sex with a student. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 05:07 PM |
| 5 | Women on Reddit are generally extremely hypocritical when it comes to age gap relationshipsDo you have comments of the same user making hypocritical statements? It seems like you’re treating all women on reddit as the same person when there are probably millions of people and some of them hold different beliefs? I think both are pretty sus at like a decade until both the man and woman are above 30. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 05:06 PM |
| 4 | Would more men be considered attractive if they worked out?To an extent. Really big muscular dudes are unattractive to a lot of people. Imagine a woman with a huge muscular physique and thats how women will view a huge guy. Some women are into it but its more of a kink on a stats level. That said being fit and athletic is generally attractive. Leanness goes a long way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on the Piers Morgan/Andrew Tate interview?Tates a grifter. He only pretends he beats and pimps women. He’s a wuss tho so he won’t admit to saying any of the stuff he says and blames the bible for his beliefs because he’s embarrassed. It helps that his audience is mostly 11 year olds swiping moms cc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 08:46 PM |
| 6 | Political polarization is a big factor in women and men being less compatible these daysI can’t think of a single reason why conservative men might be more likely to lie in a survey. Nope, not one 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 01:45 AM |
| 1 | There's nothing wrong with valuing something in a partner that you do not possess.Your fixation on young virgins is pretty sus. I think there’s something wrong with wanting kids and teens in general when you’re an adult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 04:08 PM |
| 1 | When you are in the talking phase with someone, should you be loyal to them?If you haven’t established what cheating is in a relationship you are not cheating. For monogamy this is usually when you agree to be exclusive. Never assume you’re the only one if you never agreed to that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 02:58 PM |
| 2 | The Rise of The Single Lonely MaleEach therapist is a human themself and there will be variability. There are also different types of therapy. My understanding is some people aren’t really ready or vulnerable enough for therapy to be effective. You have to do the work yourself at some level. When it comes to dating it seems inappropriate. I can just imagine the poor therapist try to handle an unhinged redpill or blackpill trying to psychmax. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 12:38 AM |
| 2 | The Andrew Tate phenomenon shows that the mainstream responds very positively to "pill" ideas, but they are artificially suppressed by Western media companiesAndrew Tate is a scammer running an MLM who is wanted in multiple countries for human trafficking… If this is your role model you have some issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/22 07:49 PM |
| -1 | Women hate the manosphere because it's the only thing actually helping men😂 Doesn’t even know the origin story of daddy Peterson. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Women hate the manosphere because it's the only thing actually helping menJust kind of a pathetic take on JP. You can like him if you want but you’re either lying or stupid if you don’t think he hates makeup and believes men are superior to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Women hate the manosphere because it's the only thing actually helping men👀 Keep paying grifters 50$ a month for them to give you advice that makes you unfuckable if you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Why Andrew Tate is so popularHe is embarrassing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 03:48 AM |
| 2 | What feminine products will become popular among men in tge future?Skin care and makeup in general. A lot of men use it and many could really benefit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 11:35 PM |
| 2 | The elephant in the room that women have attempted to get us to ignore: women are not attracted to genuinely nice guysI mean OP comes across like a psycho so idk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 05:57 AM |
| 2 | Why don't single men go to church to find a wife if the sex ratios in church are usually 60-40, female-male?Relgion is cringe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 05:31 AM |
| 1 | I never realized how many men actually go bald until I hit late 20s/30s. It’s more common than you thinkIve seen 16 year olds start balding | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 07:16 PM |
| 1 | How are people supposed to find partners?Idk i just meet people and talk to them for hours then we get together. I hate online dating. Ive met a number of people through work but that doesnt fly in a lot of workplaces. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/22 09:48 PM |
| 12 | There's two ways to get women to have more children, the carrot and the stick, which is a better plan?If by demographic crisis you mean not sustaining capitalistic growth then sure, humanity’s population is arguably high enough at this point. We can’t have 30% growth every year forever Bezos. Having kids sucks. Leave it to people without hobbies or dreams. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/22 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Is it stupid for young guys (18-25) to be in a relationship if they can easily find casual sex? (Sowing wild oats)No. Even in a single relationship I’ve tended to have more sex each week than hooking up. Im poly and have three partners so hooking up is basically pointless anyway since Im allowed to do that when I feel like it. Plus people tend to get better at sex the more you do it with the person and being able to go unprotected without worrying about stds as much is a plus. That said there are more rewarding aspects to relationships than just sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 11:08 PM |
| 3 | if you can't get a woman to be your friend, you'll never be able to hold a woman down in a relationshipDelicate 😂 My best friend is a woman and we are brutal to eachother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 08:21 PM |
| 2 | What does "having your shit together" even mean?The wealthier and more educated you are the less likely you are to have children. This has to do with contraceptive access and sex ed primarily. Random idioms like get your shit together have little to do with well known sociologic stats. That said having a bunch of kids is pretty unattractive to me. I don’t want kids kids of my own let alone some other persons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 05:15 PM |
| -3 | Traditional blue pill advice works for attractive people and most women, Redpill advice works for average and above average men, NOTHING works for men below averageIt is not a descriptive paradigm it is explicitly prescriptive. It teaches you how to treat women. Stop pretending it’s merely descriptive and handwaving all the rapey shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 05:02 PM |
| 3 | Traditional blue pill advice works for attractive people and most women, Redpill advice works for average and above average men, NOTHING works for men below averageLol Neg people, make them feel like they are worth less than they are, act disinterested, basically play hard to get and be a standoffish/asshole. The “looksmaxxing” red pill shit is a better idea because going to the gym and getting into that hobby makes you a bit more attractive. The problem is the culture surrounding redpill makes you act in ways that are unattractive and insecure. You can’t hide what you believe and if you actually believe women are trash or that women will only date chad th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 05:00 PM |
| -1 | Traditional blue pill advice works for attractive people and most women, Redpill advice works for average and above average men, NOTHING works for men below averageRedpill advice is just abusive behavior. It might work but it depends on what success looks like to you. Advice in general can only do so much. At some point you have to just have a personality and appearance that makes other people attracted to you. People get in relationships with people who make their lives better. If you can’t make someones life better why should they give themselves to you or make your life better? I’ve dumped some pretty attractive people for being boring. Work on being en… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Q4A At what height is a man’s dating life hindered?X<5’7 and x>6’4 5’9 5’11-6’4 Height becomes annoying around 6’4 and a detriment to a lot or women who aren’t 5’8 or more themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 05:24 PM |
| 4 | If a man isn't interested in exclusivity/monogamy, how is he supposed to not get labelled a "jerk"?Ethical non monogamy is a thing. Im a dude and I have a wife, a girlfriend, and a boyfriend. Just discuss boundaries and don’t lie about shit. Not being immediately exclusive does not make you a jerk unless you make her think that is the case when it is not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 05:52 PM |
| 1 | At what age does it become weird to not have lost your virginity as a man?Plenty of people in their 20s have never had a long term relationship. Getting jaded or thinking of it too much will make you insecure and lower the chance of finding a healthy relationship. Careful about the online stuff or any redpill bs. It’ll turn you into an incel over time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Do you feel like sex is a need? If not then why?It is 100% a need for most people. Big source of incompatibility. Not a right though. Like if you aren’t happy with the amount of sex then leave don’t pressure a low labido partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 01:40 PM |
| 3 | So... with Rowe vs Wade about to be over turned, will men with vasectomies be more desirable to women? Half joking... but kind of not.I think women are going to be a lot more cautious. Wife and I are child free and poly. I had the v and she got tubes tied plus still has other birth control in place. Gotta stay safe out there kids suck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/22 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Men with college degrees have far wider and more frequent dating options.That’s just a statistical fact. Mcdonalds also pays better than most low tier jobs tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Men with college degrees have far wider and more frequent dating options.I think mcdonalds might be shootin high. Lot of the blackpill types just use welfare or families basements. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Why hate mgtow?They have a bad reputation because many people who call themselves mgtow are extremists who dip into incel and pedo circles. Pretty sure I saw a screencap of a mgtow post that boiled down to “just rape” instead of investing in committed relationships. Many of them clearly hate women and are not going their own way. Just stuff like that gets the movement thrown into the manosphere which comes with significant baggage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/22 08:20 PM |
| 2 | What happens when a married woman goes on tinder?Dis you read it? The title seems inaccurate. She didn’t even meet up with a person on tinder let alone throw her husband aside… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 04:58 PM |
| 3 | Now that abortion rights are overturned, will you be more wary of casual sex?Just means a lot of poor people will have even more kids. Easy to just got to a different state and get an abortion if you are lower middle class or above. Basically even more stress on the crumbling foster care system. People who would abort just adopt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 02:13 PM |
| 23 | How big of a deal is it, dating someone who has different political beliefs than you do? Are relationships better when both people are on the same page, politically? Or do political differences make for more interesting interactions? Just curious what people think.I'd never have dated anyone who wasn't willing to get an abortion if the BC failed because fuck that. Control z ftw | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 02:20 AM |
| 2 | In bed, all the pressure to "perform" is in the man.Bro have you never tried cowgirl and just layed there? That shit is exercise for her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Intelligence and personality matter A LOTMost of the engineering majors I knew didn’t have much of a problem. There was definitely one who was p good looking but super awkward. I liked him but the social skills were not there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 04:52 AM |
| 0 | While I admire the hard work and effort to improve your health and well being, personally, physical characteristics I find attractive in men are usually things you're born withThey got banned for being terrorists. Threatening to rape random users and posting pedo pics has a way of being against TOS. Big surprise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 10:18 AM |
| 18 | In the west it is women that police promiscuous women, not menA lot of the fine fellas around here seem pretty concerned about increased promiscuity and the “cock carousel”. I mean how many god damn n-count posts do you see in the last month? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 02:10 AM |
| 2 | Question for coupled people: Where did you meet your partner?University. 28 m married. 23 when we met and she was 21. Just met in an organic chemistry class and ended up texting way too much. Moved in a couple months later and it worked out. Definitely feel lucky I found someone I'm compatible with. I hate kids and never want them and she was the same. Similar hobbies. I never did much online dating. Got a couple dates but it never went anywhere because I'm more of a long term relationship person. I'm definitely not a Chad but matched with a decent number… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 03:02 AM |
| 2 | The fact that women are so repulsed by dick pics or photos of naked men is proof that they are not anywhere near as horny as menSooo dick picks are the equivalent of a macro (upclose) shot of an inside of a vagina or a literal asshole. Sending your six pack abs or even a dick alongside an attractive body is more similar to a girl sending boobs or whatever you’re after. All nude pics should be solicited. One, it’s illegal in some areas and two, it’s pretty rapey to send throw genitals in some random persons face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/22 02:25 AM |
| 2 | The Usage of Stats and Percentages on This Sub Needs Improvement to Make Discussions ProductiveLet me introduce you to my friend “mode”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 12:09 AM |
| 2 | I’ve seen this claim on PPD. Women of PPD, if abortions were banned tomorrow, would you keep having casual sex?Im a guy and id never have sex with anyone not okay with abortions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/22 02:00 AM |
| 2 | Is there really a decline in masculinity?It’s as real as cowfish | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 06:17 PM |
| 5 | Is there really a decline in masculinity?It always seems like the people who tell you that is the case are either 80 year old boomers or have an anime picture in their bio. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 06:16 PM |
| 1 | “My wallet my choice” should be a real thing when it comes to reproductive rights for menSo basically the reason child support exists is because the courts think women can’t provide for themselves. That said in the past 10 years many women have been ordered to pay child support. It just happens that there are not many single dads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 04:55 PM |
| 1 | How can men, and i mean the average common man, actually date/interact/have sex without conceding their terms?Out of curiosity how is it that you’ve “observed” sexual negotiations of so many couples? Anyway: Q1: communicate in healthy and productive ways. Women suck at this just as much as men. Ideally both partners needs are being met. This is especially unlikely with conservatives. Do not look for a trad wife or conservative or a religious person if you want sex to not be weird. Q2: Reference above, communicate openly in relationships. Sometimes people are not sexually compatible which sucks. Q3: Stop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 11:23 AM |
| 0 | FDS and TRP were born and exist due to ugly people who's standards are too highRedpill? I don’t think anyone wants a manipulative dickwad who negs and cheats constantly. Maybe incel communities who want to “ascend” could fall under your assessment. Fds 100% does. I still don’t respect their stupid ideas though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 09:58 PM |
| 1 | FDS and TRP were born and exist due to ugly people who's standards are too highI think you’re mixing up incel and redpill. That said there are a LOT of incels financially supporting the redpill and dating coach industry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 09:56 PM |
| 3 | Is there something wrong with nice guys and what exactly ?So you went to this sub: https://www.reddit.com/r/niceguys/comments/sxk5mg/thought_this_convo_of_me_and_this_dude_was_golden/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf Saw that stuff and thought the nice guys were in the right? You might be a psychopath my dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/22 08:00 PM |
| 6 | Question for women: Why do you willingly have children knowing the father won’t be around?The only people this happens to are conservatives who are unwilling to abort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/22 11:17 PM |
| 15 | Why are both players & Incels so vilified?I think it’s because they are demonstrably terrible people who dehumanize women. Especially incels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Most women or I should say people agree with a lot of the redpill claims when it is not framed in a way that makes women look bad & without the harsh choice of words.You’re typing. If you “should say” then delete the first part and just say the part you meant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/22 05:46 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Too many men view women as a right and not privilege, and that’s a huge problem.True. No one deserves another human. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 03:48 AM |
| 2 | For those into BDSM yet you are here, what’s your story?This is a lot like those dudes who repeatedly contract that muscle that moves your pene until they finish while holding an icepack on their balls. Similar claims. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 06:19 AM |
| 14 | What is an immediate “we’re breaking right here right now” dealbreaker for you?Bro… They mean kicking your dog because it barks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 12:12 AM |
| 2 | What's worse in your mind a 20 year old fucking a 16 year old or a 45 year old fucking a 20 year old?45 -> 20. A 20 year old and a 16 year old are more commonly in a similar place compared to a 45/20. The 45/20 could be okay but it’s pretty likely the 45 year old is much wealthier and if they are trying to date 20 year olds, the risk for them abusing the 20 year old is pretty high. Age gaps are only bad when they are used to create a power imbalance by which one partner can coerce the other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 04:07 PM |
| 3 | Getting into a relationship with a woman who is slim and college educated is hard, period.Should it not increase her standards? If you have a degree and make good money and are also "slim", there shouldn't be an issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 02:13 AM |
| 7 | TRP advocates for working on your fitness, money and status, but basically preaches against taking the women who appreciate those "qualities" seriously.It's because most redpillers and PUAs are larpers. They write fan fic anecdotes online. High oveap with autistic, incel, far right, and MRA crowds. The people who successfully use what redpillers want to be are generally considered abusive people. Sociopaths. Etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 03:18 AM |
| 1 | What will children of the ones currently posting thirst traps/racy tik tok videos think when they stumble across their parents' profiles?Probably won't internet bloat is exponential and the chances of finding old posts that arnt under someone's actual name are pretty low. Especially on tik tok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that waiting to have sex is the better approach compared to having sex too early?The framing is a fallacy because you are presupposing it was “too early”. Doing something so impactful “too early” implies a negative outcome opposed to waiting. Now if you asked is it better to “wait too long” or be“too early” it would be a fair comparison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/21 02:39 PM |
| 2 | QFW: A man going to therapy is a redflag?FDS is redpill for women with some blackpill mixed in. It’s bad advice and the community is built up of sad people who try to manipulate others. Basically a bunch if trad cons trying to get a rich guy to support them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 03:50 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men who don’t want promiscuous women shouldn’t be seen as “misogynistic” or “slut shaming”.What if she had 20 intimate experiences instead of your arbitrary cut off of 5? How do you plan to audit her past experiences for intimacy? This isn’t remotely close to what you argued originally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 03:09 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who don’t want promiscuous women shouldn’t be seen as “misogynistic” or “slut shaming”.Then they should stop slut shaming and being misogynistic. Sexless “nice guys” tend not to be that nice. It’s a stereotype but one that isn’t all that unfounded. Let me also remind you that you asked “do you think equality has made women less happy” a couple days ago? Do you honestly believe that doesn’t come off the teensiest bit misogynistic my dude? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 03:06 AM |
| 3 | What do you think a Red Pilled man actually is?Just like an insecure dude who’s really bad at relationships and took advice from the wrong people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 12:37 AM |
| 5 | Another question for women: Would you consider a relationship with someone who considered themselves Red Pill or outright identifies as Red Pill?It’s not a stereotype. They are just one step from blackpill and being incels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Is there a good reason for men to pay on dates?No. My wife makes a good deal more than me and I make good money. We split everything we do together because it makes things easy and less stressful. Child free and duel income is easy mode. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 04:45 PM |
| 3 | You shouldn't have sex with a person you don't want to have a kid with.*don't sleep with anyone who wants kids or isn't okay with abortion if it comes to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/21 12:13 PM |
| 2 | The 80/20 rule is true, one should accept it and move on (CMV)No. Sociology, socioeconomics, and psychology all seem to disagree with the incels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/21 01:18 PM |
| 0 | The 80/20 rule is true, one should accept it and move on (CMV)Yeah because dogmatic prescriptions from Anon Reddit users are reliable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/21 01:17 PM |
| 1 | is it important for men and women to share political beliefs while dating?I don't know what kind of redpiller you are but a lot of that ideology is literally hunting women. Wouldn't you appreciate it if a predator warned you ahead of time? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/21 11:08 PM |
| 1 | is it important for men and women to share political beliefs while dating?The word you're looking for is brain washed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/21 11:04 PM |
| 1 | is it important for men and women to share political beliefs while dating?Not really but some political beliefs are red flags. Would you want really to be in a relationship with a member of the taliban? I don't. Far right types who want a trad wife just want someone to abuse. Why would anyone who isn't stupid get with one? It goes for the left too, like the tanky types, just don't be an extremist who ruins everything all the time. MRAs, incels, puas, redpillers, and mgtows who talk about that shit in real life all get ostrisized so why would anyone wanna be with them?… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/21 11:01 PM |
| 2 | STD rates of different racesThese are not exactly high rates. The highest is 1.38% of the given population. Either way these reflect access to bc more than anything. Just get tested before getting with the person. If they don't wanna do that either use a condom or move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 02:38 AM |
| 3 | Is securing a Betabux more of a status symbol for 30s women than securing (non-alphabux) chad?Red pillers and dating coaches are basically incels creators. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/21 03:00 AM |
| 3 | Is securing a Betabux more of a status symbol for 30s women than securing (non-alphabux) chad?I think if I found myself writing "non-alphabux chad" unironically I'd strongly reconsider how I spend my time online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/21 02:59 AM |
| 7 | Hypergamy is the core concept which explains human sexual selection and all TRP secondary concepts flow from this one human observationI wouldn’t say crazy pills but you’re deep into a cult. You can overgeneralize all you want but it doesn’t change that the prescription that follows from your descriptive reality is “be chad or rope to avoid dying alone”. It’s actually really sad what the manosphere does to people who had potential to be more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/21 08:59 PM |
| 4 | Left-wing Gaslighting: “Women with few if any prior partners are MORE likely to cheat than women that have sown”Many links? Any links? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/21 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Do People just use this sub as the new red pill sub because the rest is all banned/quarantined?Yeah it’s pretty much all redpill and incel shit now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 07:49 PM |
| -4 | CMV. The Bar for men is not set low for relationships or sex, despite what women tell you.These are just standard neckbeard/incel talking points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 02:55 AM |
| 1 | No hymen, no diamond: The sexual counterrevolution is comingEach other | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 04:20 PM |
| 25 | No hymen, no diamond: The sexual counterrevolution is comingEachother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 04:20 PM |
| 1 | No hymen, no diamond: The sexual counterrevolution is comingThis lives outside of reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 04:20 PM |
| 2 | If not for having children, what are some reasons that a man would want to get married?Easy sex, companionship, double the income...idk it’s life on easy mode if neither of you want kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/21 12:49 AM |
| 2 | What do men mean when they say they want sympathy for their dating issues?It’s identity politics. The only thing that can make that crowd happy is success without earning it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/21 09:56 PM |
| 2 | Did female economic liberation cause the birth rate to decline?As a countries wealth and standard of living rise, the average birth rate falls. It’s almost like half decent education makes people realize your value as a human is not in being an incubator 🤔 Not to mention access to birth control and sex ed. It’s not like most men want a fucking kid the first few times they get laid... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 02:36 AM |
| 5 | Q4M: If male birth control existed as a pill like it did for women, would you take it?No and women shouldn’t take the hormonal either unless it’s treatment for a different issue. copper IUDs are safer and generally cheaper in the long run. Vasectomies are a strong male option if you don’t want kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 06:16 AM |
| 13 | Is it possible for men to become “alpha widowers”?Bro some people are insufferable to be around. I’m not super surprised you haven’t noticed. Something gives me the impression you don’t really engage with people beyond a surface level. It was probably when you said you were shallow 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/21 05:47 AM |
| 2 | Is it possible for men to become “alpha widowers”?Do you not know what a widower is? You didn’t marry this girl and she didn’t die. Maybe you’re just kind of unpleasant or have grown arrogant from the newfound success? People don’t really like that tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/21 05:45 AM |
| 14 | Would women consider a man with a low N-Count more desirable?Here’s the secret, the less you talk about your n-count the less weird/creepy you will seem to women and people in general. People about to have sex with you don’t generally want to think about other people you’ve had sex with. This goes for well-functioning psychologically healthy men too, if a guy is obsessed with a girls n count, he’s probably socially conservative which carries a lot of practical baggage like high rates of spousal abuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/21 05:11 AM |
| 87 | What was that one moment where you felt sympathetic to the opposite sex's dating struggles? A moment that made you go, "I may not fully agree, but damn. I understand that must be rough."I’m a paramedic. Last year I was called to a rape victim who after meeting her tinder date was penetrated anally with a metal bar and gang raped by 5 men. They let her out of their van at Walmart and some passerby called 911. She died of blood-loss on the way to the hospital, the guys were never caught. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 08:34 PM |
| 2 | Percentage of women and men having sex in collegesTaking JP as more than a grifter is a sure way to depression and social anxiety. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Is it just me or is relationship problems always seen as the man's fault?It depends on the source. If you are hanging out in redpill, incel, or mgtow communities then they will all constantly complain about women blaming them for everything. But this is because these people have a victim complex. In most of society, and functionally, women are held to a dramatically higher standard than men in relationships. When a man cheats he’s a ‘player’ or the girl ‘wasn’t giving him enough sex’ when a women cheats she’s a ‘whore’ or ‘home wrecker’. The civil courts often rule i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/21 05:41 AM |
| 2 | WhyI have no issue with FDS.If you think that the blatant mind games are good advice for HEALTHY relationships I worry for your future happiness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/21 06:47 AM |
| 3 | "I know ugly guys who get laid all the time" How true do you think this is?The 80/20 rule is a meme stolen from old school business lectures called the Pareto principle. It seems lime you guys were all convinced this is some sort of theory with wide scientific backing. It isn’t. The statistics we have come from tinder and the amount of potential confounding variables here is ludicrous. For instance, the safety concerns of meeting strangers are more salient for women. Further men tend to cast a wide net or game the system. They simply reach out to more people. This is a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 07:24 PM |
| 5 | Q4M: Would you be content with your daughter’s decision if she became a sex worker?If they were happy, sure. That should probably be the goal. The main problem with sex work is the lack of regulation and the abusive situations it creates. I mean you can make a lot on only fans without actually having sex with anyone. Then again I don’t want kids so whatever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who is taller than you?Yeah. Though I have not been in that situation. My wife is like 2 inches shorter than me but pretty tall at 5’11. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/21 01:27 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't care about women's careers. But class definitely plays a role when it comes to datingYeah, why would I have married someone without a college degree and career path when I do? Duel income is where it’s at. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 07:37 AM |
| 2 | Why do you REALLY hate sexually promiscuous women?Try google. It’s a whole pseudoscience with it’s own literature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/21 04:18 PM |
| 4 | Why do you REALLY hate sexually promiscuous women?Because it makes them feel bad. Imagine simultaneously believing women are all ‘sluts on a cock carousal’ and that ‘no woman would ever sleep with me’. Your self worth while holding those beliefs would be incredibly low because your own toxic beliefs imply you yourself are worthless. Most of these people are actually profoundly unhappy and hyper-fixated on the fact that they can’t stop being incels. Now you have people who start identifying as some part of the manosphere and it becomes incredibl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/21 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: When evaluating a man for candidacy as a sexual partner, do you consider the relative desirability of his previous partners (to the degree that you are able)?No. It’s super irrelevant. Any extensive talk about previous relationships early in our relationship is a pretty huge turn off...mostly in that it’s a red flag. They either haven’t moved on or are super fucking immature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/21 07:18 AM |
| 2 | The reason PPD men don’t believe women who say they’re attracted to “personality” isn’t because we’re wired differently, it’s because they actually misunderstand which personality traits said women are referring to.Let’s put it in terms they can understand. Which hypothetical sounds more appealing: You have sex with a woman who seems bored and is not engaged in what is going on. You have sex with a woman who is intensely interested in what is happening and is displaying signs of enjoyment. The only difference here is one of personality. Some women really like it when you are fucking confident and seem like you could control certain things in a certain way. Some women like it when it seems like you’d be sub… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/21 08:57 AM |
| 0 | A message that must be shoved down on all 3 holes of a womanThis is retarded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible for a woman to bond romantically with a man without sex?Yes, anything that promotes release of oxytocin will promote bonding behavior. This can be literally anything depending on the person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/20 05:12 AM |
| 2 | One of the most overlooked predictor of success In dating is being in your matching environment/habitatTake a moment to consider why comparing women to a lion’s prey might be a tad much if you are not a literal predator. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 04:47 AM |
| 12 | Young women feel more "entitlement" to sexual pleasure from their partner(s) than young men, and entitlement is positively correlated with sexual experienceHot take: No matter who you’re with, if you aren’t sexually compatible, it’s a great reason to break up and find someone else. It sucks to deal with a high labido partner as a low and it’s soul crushing to deal with a low labido partner as a high. If you’re into monogamy, then you better be with someone compatible. Can everyone get what they want? No, so appreciate what you have instead of acting like an entitled rapist to your partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/20 06:56 AM |
| 10 | Why won’t you go gay for pay?Do you think the average redpill/blackpill incel is good looking or charismatic enough to pull that off? I think the main takeaway is the people complaining are traditionalists to protect their ego and they complain from that paradigm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/20 05:22 PM |
| 2 | When does height start working against you?As soon as you believe you are short and will be judged for it. The insecurity we see in the manosphere is infinitely more impactful as a people repellent than being short. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/20 05:47 AM |
| 4 | Do men do better than women in isolation?No. Be careful with the anecdotes. There was a study that found female mice were more stressed when isolated than male, human studies did not replicate this. Another study found men are more likely to be socially isolated than women but there isn’t any evidence that women respond differently physiologically to it in a way that would make men better. I’d guess that abilities to use things like discord and have video games around as well as being part of a tight knit community on that server would… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/20 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Is the dating market really that dismal?No, very few people struggle with what blackpillers and redpillers talk about. Much of it is self defeating behavior and ideologies that guarantees you will never have a healthy relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/20 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Why don’t women like video games or board games generally?Millions of women love video games and I’d imagine plenty play board games regularly. As for playing them online and using voice chat? It’s pretty obvious why they generally avoid that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/20 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: Why shouldn't men view women's offer of "friendship" like a second-place trophy/consolation prize following a rejection?They say that to make you feel better when they don’t even owe you that. Nobodies that sad unless you were like best friends and you made it weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/20 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Unattractive people suffer worse life outcomes but men face HIGHER penaltiesI mean this is bad for both men and women and slightly worse for men. Women already make around 10% less flat and it’s way worse in medicine where I make like 28% more than women doing the same thing. This is less whataboutism and more contextualizing that women’s penalties probably come from a smaller original pay so feeling bad about it is a little wacky. Essentially a 10/10 women would stand to make 1% less than an ugly guy working the same job if the job = the mean. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/20 03:24 PM |
| 1 | How do women treat below average looking guys in social settings?Yeah it’s super normal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/20 05:47 AM |
| 10 | How do women treat below average looking guys in social settings?Anecdotes, especially the ones you’ll find here, are nearly worthless in forming genuine prescriptive suggestions for an entire society. Too many confounding variables. Keep in mind more things than attractiveness effect how people treat you. Many things affect how people interpret how others treat them. If you’ve trolled around incel boards you’ll notice that people who are pretty average looking will be acting like they are a literally jabba the hut, that is, irredeemably ugly. These people ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/20 05:46 AM |
| 6 | The majority of people in this community have an extremely warped view of sex.Morality or amorality is the most emotional appeal you can make. You sound like a repressed 15 year old, grow up. Your historical appeal is just wrong. People have become significantly more sexually conservative since around 700 years ago via religion and dictatorships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/20 04:14 PM |
| 1 | "Evo psych" is badly used by redpillers to rationalize their preexistings beliefs.It’s a little more pathetic than both of those. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/20 07:29 AM |
| 0 | "Evo psych" is badly used by redpillers to rationalize their preexistings beliefs.I have a feeling you are a bad advice machine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/20 07:29 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many men believe that women prefer partners that treat them bad.Projection, frustration, and an unwillingness to accept that you not having a girlfriend has anything to do with you. Or at least anything you can control. Nice guys breathe anecdotes and feed off hyperbole. They are the kind of people who will spend 10 minutes on wikipedia reading about a topic then act like they know more than someone who has a doctorate in that subject. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/20 11:01 PM |
| 6 | There's a lot of racism going on right now so here is my new puppy to cheer you guys upDankula ended up with a fine and he didn’t pay it. That’s not a sentence. He was found guilty though which was fucking ridiculous. He did it to troll her as a joke which is entirely different than what you said which implies he might actually be a nazi which he is not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/20 06:20 AM |
| -1 | Brand New Manosphere Terms: "Fuckold", "Fuckold Light", "Gale Shapely" & "Gale Shapely Light"Ideologically subscribing to the manosphere is like having a brain as satisfying as a micro penis. It induces brain rot and generalized fold smoothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/20 01:10 PM |
| 3 | Use condoms.IUDs ftw. Also abortion is a grand thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/20 12:59 PM |
| 1 | 51% of men in the 18-29 age group are single compared to only 32% of women in that same age groupOr maybe subtly racist people don’t want to be with black men including black women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/20 12:43 PM |
| 2 | Image posting is now enabledWell, it is entirely possible that you give birth to absolute sociopaths. This is one of the many reasons my partner and I will not have kids. It’s like playing the lottery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/20 02:33 AM |
| 1 | What’s the truth about personality in dating/in general? Are some better than others?Personality is orders of magnitude more complicated than introverts and extraverts. There are in fact more than two humans and most humans act differently in various situations. Obviously some people are more engaging to be around than others. But much if this is subjective. The easiest way to attract people besides being attractive to them is personality and a mixture of good humor and apparent confidence. Also participating and having knowledge about things people are interested in can make yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/20 01:21 PM |
| 1 | QFA Is the "The Chase" still modern?My female s/o asked me out and I am a dude. Works for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/20 05:33 PM |
| 3 | Do you think that most men on red pill forums are on the autism spectrum?Yes. Unfortunately a lot of cults and far right ideologies including red pill target socially isolated men. Men on the spectrum tend to be prone to falling into these traps. It is important to recognize that autistic men are only overrepresented in incel and red pill groups because they have less social networks to contextualize the propaganda. It is nothing that the condition of autisim causes, and those with autism given appropriate guidance and socialization are more than capable of healthy r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/20 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Is It Disrespectful To Make "Boyfriend Material" Men Wait?Oh no, you don’t know that nobody wants a nice guy :0 Seriously tho man it’s a huge meme chill out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/20 12:16 AM |
| 1 | You guys are missing the whole point of FDS, the point of FDS is NOT to solely attract men. The strategy is to WEED out men they don’t want.It’s just a bunch of traditionalists using emotional manipulation to satisfy their baby fever. I’m all for monogamy but if you need a sub with ideology listed on their front page maybe you’re the problem. I lurked there for a while and it is more or less a cult on the same level as pick up artists. These dating strategies simply break down in practice. Just be a normal human who doesn’t suck and find someone you are actually compatible with. It’s really not rocket science. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/20 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Unpopular Opinion: Whoever asks the other person out should pay for the date, regardless of genderOr just get two checks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/20 10:39 PM |
| 3 | The combination drugs,dating/casual sex needs to be questionedI won’t deny being upfront can work but they’ve got to already trust you at that point. In many cases it’s less a matter of desire and more of a safety concern. Like you could have aids or be violent etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/20 04:23 AM |
| 1 | Looks isn't everything, but for Most Men, it isThe mere mention of PUAs in any other context than a joke tells us you’re detached from reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/20 11:53 PM |
| 0 | CMV: "Provider" males should employ sugar dating strategy by 30s rather than marry women in 30+ range that rode CCBro my wife is a doctor and not even 30. Idk what century you’re living in but maybe you should try dating people who are doing their own thing in life instead of trying to find a harem 19 y/os looking for a sugar daddy. It makes life a lot more enjoyable and easy when the person you’re with gives a shit about you beyond a paycheck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/20 05:27 AM |
| 0 | [REPOST] “It is dangerous to be in the provider role because of the high risks. As well as the reality that women treat their casual sexual partners better than they treat their long term relationship partners.”Or athletics or vacationing or working or going to school or any of the other things young people have an advantage doing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/20 01:35 AM |
| 2 | “Donor 9623" fathers 36 children, parents later realize his bio was a lie.I don’t know what legal paperwork was signed by the donor but the largest intrinsic liability here is on the bank in favor of the people who received the donor’s sperm. They essentially false advertised. I doubt this would actually happen, though. Medical records are usually released through third party mediation. Other than that, kids suck, don’t have them, all available research points towards them lowering your quality of life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/20 07:31 AM |
| 3 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenI hear what you’re saying but I don’t see why i should care about the specific type of men who unironically believe the reason they have trouble getting a single kiss is because 80% of men can’t via hypothesis that have yet to be demonstrated empirically. Statistics tell us that very few people remain single throughout their life. Women are not what’s wrong with you, you are. Acting like a spoiled 5 year old neo nazi is certainly the most counterproductive thing you could possibly do. See a psyc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 05:32 AM |
| 1 | Is passing your genes and having kids that important ?Not unless you’re one of those neonazis who unironically wants to live in an ethnostate. Much of the manosphere is weird about brown people and concerned with white people becoming a minority so it is their duty to their race to have kids etc. Not having kids is like playing life on easy mode. Having 1 kid bumps it to normal. Two kids makes it hard. Five kids makes it nightmare. All available research seems to conclude that having kids makes people significantly less happy in totality for almost… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/20 05:39 PM |
| 4 | Be honest: Males and females with no kids do you automatically disqualify someone if you find out they have a kid?Tricking someone is both rare and evil but communication here is important. If you don’t know someones stances on abortion don’t have sex with them; period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/20 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Be honest: Males and females with no kids do you automatically disqualify someone if you find out they have a kid?Yep. Going child free is essentially playing life on normal or east mode. Having a kid bumps it to hard. Having six kids bumps it to maniac mode. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/20 04:37 AM |
| 5 | Every (wo)man should be exposed to red pill content, as this would help achieve the antithetical goal of trp itself.Woah, this is not finding out “more about” another gender. This is finding out about a deliberately abusive methodology that incorporates techniques designed to dehumanize women in order to sway power dynamics to promote sex. This is recognizing red flags to avoid someone who deserves to be alone as long as they attempt to manipulate people into sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/20 04:42 AM |
| -1 | So Event if you go MGTOW they have problem....So uh, what’s with all the mgtow folks hanging out on literal r/feminism. Surely you must see the irony? Even more ridiculous is that this has 3 upvotes. Are you literally just reading the new r/feminism posts? What happened to going your own way? | /r/MGTOW2 | 27/08/20 05:14 AM |
| 1 | “American University believes women can revoke consent after sex” ... This is absolutely sick and disgusting . What are you guy’s thoughts on this ?Where’s the link. I googled your (fake?) quote and what came up was “In North Carolina, Women can’t legally revoke consent after sex begins”. | /r/MGTOW2 | 25/08/20 11:22 PM |
| 1 | In an attempt to avoid validating women that are fishing for compliments, what would be the proper response to a women that asks for/expects my opinion on her outfit, perfume, etc.?This is some incel shit. | /r/MGTOW2 | 24/08/20 04:42 PM |
| -14 | Dad is upset that I'm not chasing tailAnother 14 year old on mgtow? This is a toxic ideology that basically guarantees you will never have a decent relationship. | /r/MGTOW2 | 23/08/20 05:56 AM |
| 3 | LMR: Men are not entitled to sex and women are not entitled to affection“This is fun, can we take it further” etc. will work better 100% of the time if the woman is actually enjoying what is happening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/20 04:49 AM |
| 2 | LMR: Men are not entitled to sex and women are not entitled to affectionOf course they aren’t but this is posited with the intention of inducing “going further” with the person. Unfortunately for all the incels, it’s a huge fucking turn off to ignore foreplay if you know anything about physiology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/20 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL:Does blocking/ghosting make you seem more attractive?Are you 14? Grow up and have a real relationship instead of fixating on ridiculous text games. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/20 04:39 AM |
| 0 | Dread is a necessity because women are "walking, talking," dread gameThe human nature meme is low effort af. Grow up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/20 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Dread is a necessity because women are "walking, talking," dread gameNot be that person, but uh be yourself? Trying to change for someone you like is incredibly obvious, transparent, and cringe to most everyone. Just be chill and people won’t have fucking whatever power you preassign them over you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/20 04:40 AM |
| 1 | TRP VS FDSThey’d all shoot themselves because literally every single person would be incel tier and life would not be worth living. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/20 12:03 PM |
| 3 | The reason women receive "too much attention from men" is a symptom of the exact same problem that men complain about: Dating inequality.You think the reason men are socially conditioned to chase women is due to the systemic problem of “men struggle to find love”? That’s not a systemic cause of anything. It’s a result. Do you understand the non sequitor here? The systemic cause of this behavior is remnants of patriarchy. If you want women to take initiative and ask men out, stop simultaneously treating them as subhumans who inexplicably have 100% if the power in relationships. Neither of these things are the case. Catcalling, for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/20 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Do American women feel betrayed by the Sexual Revolution and Feminism?No. FDS hates feminism because they are basically a weird mix of incels and aspiring trad wives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/20 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Blue pillers - why do you claim the red pill is "junk science" but you never have credible science yourself?Unironically feeding the troll 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/20 01:01 AM |
| 7 | Blue pillers - why do you claim the red pill is "junk science" but you never have credible science yourself?Scientific studies tend to be published in journals and are not usually associated directly with philosophical ideologies like red or blue pill. The blue pill isn’t actually an ideology, by the way, it’s a meme philosophy there to make fun of red pillers and pick up artists naivety and delusions. Research surrounding ideas in the red pill community will never really be fleshed out because the ideas themselves presume a lot of things that biology and psychology as well as medicine don’t currently… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/20 01:00 AM |
| 6 | What are some signs a woman has a high N count?What are signs you should never consider touching a guy? He makes this post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/20 12:44 PM |
| 0 | Starfish sexI haven’t experienced this. Like ever. If you’re with someone who is bad at sex to the point that they check out, you probably aren’t sexually compatible or conveying things you want to try very effectively. They could also just not have had partners who wanted more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/20 12:11 PM |
| 7 | If a woman's value decreases with age and n count, how is hypergamy possible.The entire redpill is a melting pot of cognitive dissonance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/20 06:00 AM |
| -8 | Starting from August 2020, I have decided to publicly endorse MGTOW (using my real name and face). I need to embrace my destiny and quit being a coward!Holy shit you’ve been in prison already things are gonna be hard enough without publicly shouting “i’m a fucking idiot” to everyone who can hear. Mgtow is a joke. You will rightly lose job opportunities that weren’t already precluded from being in prison. Why fuck up your life even more for 0 benefit? | /r/MGTOW2 | 28/07/20 10:21 PM |
| -4 | The "post wall cc rider" still has a better life than the sexless betaSo you’re accepting your fate? Fair enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/20 09:47 AM |
| 4 | Juggling men/women is a shameful practiceShame is one if the most useless emotions in existence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/20 08:04 AM |
| 1 | The "Insatiable Alpha Window"Did you mean to type “alpha window”? I ask because you managed to do it twice. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/20 07:23 AM |
| 2 | The "Insatiable Alpha Window"Only one person can be the best at a thing, and being the best is usually subjective. You only have to be competent to not be an incel. What is the point in mindfucking yourself like this? You all would legitimately be better off shooting your own kneecaps than subscribing to this embarrassing ideology. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/20 07:21 AM |
| 3 | Why do so many dudes see sex as the best thing in the relationship, and other aspects as secondary or boring?This is people who don't have relationships, are incels, or only have used tinder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 03:24 PM |
| 4 | Women don't appreciate the value of sex since its so readily available to them. That's why they will never understands mens obsession with avoiding high N count women for LTRsTo be fair you worded it like a 5th grader who wasn't sure what they meant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 08:36 AM |
| 2 | Who do you think gets the "best" out of a person? Someone's LTR or their FWB?You strike me as someone who has an ideology incompatible with having ever had someone to worry about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/20 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Who do you think gets the "best" out of a person? Someone's LTR or their FWB?LTR because unprotected sex obviously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/20 08:54 PM |
| 13 | Without male-thirst, men wouldn't care about womenFanfiction is strong here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/20 09:43 PM |
| 1 | The Guardian: Barely one third of Australian men 18-24 have sex even once a month.Well, you can either curl up and die like incels or git gud and up your game. Plenty of shit is unfair and this is pretty much at the bottom of the barrel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/20 10:17 AM |
| 1 | Have you every gone in a date with a man that you weren't into just to get free food, etc.If we're not splitting the bill I'm leaving before the food is ordered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/20 02:21 AM |
| 2 | TRP and FDS might be effective but it won't make you truly happy or let you experience real love.The red pill is going to gimp you from even finding a partner while FDS is literally just abuse and will kill your reputation. You actually have to be not a fucking dumbass to abuse someone 'effectivly' and the people who fall for these cults are not smart people (luckily). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/20 01:28 AM |
| 3 | Women verbally destroy men at much higher rateI raise your anecdote with the anecdotal r/niceguys subreddit that actually has receipts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/20 07:40 AM |
| 0 | Do you think women live life on easy mode/tutorial mode, like many red pillers claim?No, that's equivalent to bring a flat earther. We have fields of study that have addressed this. If you want to go against scientific consensus because you anecdotally can't get laid, that's your business. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/20 02:58 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Subs like these are toxic and bad for people's self-image and view of the worldI smell an ad. Regardless the redpill is one of the most narcissistic self defeating ideologies in existence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/20 01:07 AM |
| 2 | Women of PPD, the marriage rate is the lowest ever on record. Do you view this as a good thing or bad thing?The Earth is overpopulated enough. I'm happy the rate is down. I see a lot of Nazis arguing for ethnostates complain about the white birth rate so it strikes me as a dog whistle and I'm usually cautious around people who bring it up unironically as they are almost always arguing in bad faith. As for marriage I'm indifferent. My weddings next year. I'm not religious. Don't care about abstinence or abortion, just safe sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/20 09:33 PM |
| 5 | The level of student debt a girl has should be more prominently considered by men when choosing a girl to commit to.I'd venture a guess that most incels don't want a woman who has a better education then them let alone career 😂 It's a non issue for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/20 03:16 PM |
| -1 | There's a good reason why FDS does not preach self improvement like TRP does - "self improvement" is constantly thrown at and practiced by women.If you think either of these cults are in your self interest to be a part of, you're mistaken. Both are incredibly toxic and simple world views that mentally cripple your growth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/20 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Women, not men, are responsible for the proliferation of pornography and casual sexWgaf about porn and sex, grow up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/20 12:12 AM |
| 0 | What a fucking joke.Use a condom if u care so much Seems this is a non issue to a group of incels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 01:20 AM |
| 2 | What a fucking joke.No man, they literally want government hosted gfs they can rape because they are so important in real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 01:18 AM |
| 2 | What a fucking joke.Well they aren't really people if they unironically advocate for rape. Why offer them a designation they don't afford others? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Purple Pill ain't neutral at all🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 01:14 AM |
| -1 | Purple Pill ain't neutral at allYou don't know the difference between "you're" and "your", right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 01:13 AM |
| -1 | Never forget about how the male sexlessness rate has doubled in the past 10 years since dating apps and smart phones came outThis is on the same intellectual level as the 5g corona shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/20 02:41 PM |
| 3 | so much incel hate...Are you unironically posting daily mail as a source or are you joking? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/20 02:32 PM |
| 2 | View: purge week shows what people are really thinking when you don't censor opinionsYou know when you say "Reddit is run by cucks" it lets everyone know you're a blackpilled incel, right? If you want to make a real argument, stop resorting to the brain dead ad homs. Nobody is gonna feel bad for you when you're sad women avoid you when you parade around on a mysogynistic platform but can't even recognize your mysogyny because youre playing the victim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/20 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Which ethnicties have the highest SMV and why?Just like people who aren't rascist POS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 10:46 PM |
| 2 | Average womans looksmatch according to FemaleDatingStrategy.I don't think anyone would date that Frankenstein. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 10:13 PM |
| 4 | men really think "ew you've had a LOT OF SEX" is like a valid insult in 2020 lmaoPower level 1,200,000. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 09:33 PM |
| 1 | men really think "ew you've had a LOT OF SEX" is like a valid insult in 2020 lmaoNo, conservatives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 09:32 PM |
| 2 | Accurate representation of feminismPower level 4000 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Can someone explain why 90% of the posters on r/adultery are women?Could be a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 03:49 PM |
| 1 | 4th Reminder: If every woman you know is a gold-digging dysfunctional skank, you're the problem.It do be that way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 12:58 PM |
| 8 | Men Prefer Debt Free Virgins Without TattoosTattoos are great. Experience is great. Debt, not so much. Stop looking in the mirror man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 03:06 AM |
| 21 | Am I the only one who finds refreshing the honesty displayed on FDS?They literally censor every dissenting opinion. That is the definition of dishonest discourse. I think they are kind of a meme in that they are pretty sexist against themselves on a regular basis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/20 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Study: People report conforming more strongly to traditional gender roles and believing more strongly in traditional gender stereotypes since the coronavirus pandemicRepost this once it's not on a preprint repository and has been peer reviewed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/20 04:13 PM |
| 8 | Society works best when the base assumption is men and women do deserve sex and relationshipsprostitution is legal in Nevada but I'm pretty certain most incels would scoff at the cost and complain anyway even if it was available everywhere. Not everyone deserves everything. Why do we lock some people up? Because they suck and don't deserve to be free because they did some bad shit. You don't have the right to use someone's else's body, you have to earn that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/20 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Is a man always using a woman when he has sex with her?You understand women have orgasms right? You understand most women orgasm more frequently than men and have the innate ability to orgasm multiple times in a row and per session? It feels good. It's fucking simple. There are so many women who have higher labidos than so many men. This social currency paradigm does not adequately explain all of human sexuality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 04:56 PM |
| 1 | If a man talks about his feelings, is he a weak little pussy?It requires subscribing to the notion that men shouldn't have emotions which is a tenant of toxic masculinity and fucking stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 12:32 AM |
| 2 | Men have a greater chance of pulling a woman in person rather than over social media apps making it pointless to even use themBasically just college in general is the way to go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/20 10:17 AM |
| 2 | Why do men (even young ones) care less about their physical appearance, even tho they're the one selected for? On the converse why do women care about that even tho they are the ones that do the selection (hence are almost assured to have sex even if they're hideous, at least according to red pill)?Men aren't conditioned to value 'being pretty' the same way woman are growing up. Look at ads and media. This stuff is blatantly obvious and the sociological consensus has been settled in this for decades. The answer is literally "the patriarchy". Your friends call you gay because they are conditioned that they don't need to dress up and try to be worth something. Women grow up with subtle cues that tell them they are only as good as their appearence. Btw using "looksmax" is a dog whistle that o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/20 07:09 AM |
| 1 | It is hypocritical to not want to be in a relationship with a woman who has slept around, if you would still sleep with her.It do be that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/20 10:56 PM |
| 3 | Premarital sexual history is a better indicator of risk of divorce than ageThese are not peer reviewed empirical studies from a legitimate journal. It's literally a political blog that conducts infamously flawed "studies" and is associated with other brain dead conservative think tanks that can't actually get published in acedemic literature. It is written like an opinion piece and you still manage to twist what it's saying which is wild. https://www.sourcewatch.org/index.php/Institute_for_Family_Studies https://www.google.com/amp/s/mediabiasfactcheck.com/institute-for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/20 07:44 PM |
| 1 | An even better analogy to “women can always get sex”Who cares if a man can't get sex, it's not societies responsibility to ensure that everyone has healthy personal relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/20 07:00 AM |
| 4 | If you have had sex with a lot of women, and have a high body count, why is it a turn off for you when your potential partner has a high body count as well?Incels don't like it* | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/20 05:29 PM |
| 1 | If you have had sex with a lot of women, and have a high body count, why is it a turn off for you when your potential partner has a high body count as well?You have to be pretty insecure to be threatened by sexual experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/20 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Do most/ all women cheat on their long term relationships or marriages?Of course they don't. The only available research demonstrates that men cheat more often then woman and those who had single parents or were abused are more likely to cheat. Still, some people have a desire to cheat and some don't. A lot of times it comes from different needs or goals in a relationship. Most of the time good communication will help you avoid these situations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/20 01:34 PM |
| 2 | Why do average or below average men think they deserve the “prime years” of a woman?Because incels frequently argue for government hosted girlfriend's... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/20 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Those of you who hate the opposite gender with passion, why?I don't think he does which is why he hates them so much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/20 11:52 AM |
| 2 | In regards to a male contraceptive pill: would you use it/what would be your opinion of it?Hormonal contraceptives in general are kind of bad. There are safer options that don't have as many long term consequences or risks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/20 06:30 PM |
| 1 | One cannot genuinely believe that looks don’t matter/being nice is all that matters without willfully deluding themselves.Obviously looks matter. So does age. But they matter different amounts to different people and being a surface level asshole who has literally no interests besides spouting off redpill rhetoric is a great way to guarantee that noone wants to date you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/20 03:57 PM |
| 1 | The issue is not what women gives, instead is what men are receiving.Unironically saying beta bux is enough to make any woman think you're ridiculous. It's not a conspiracy man, you generalize too much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/20 04:18 PM |
| 6 | Where we conditioned/raised to try and fix broken men?No, but people who've gone through a lot tend to not be boring and nothing is worse than boring. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 12:59 PM |
| 1 | This came through on r/AskFDS and was just TOO good not to repost. He thinks he’s in the “top 20% of males” and wonders what “we have to offer him” that he can’t get from younger women. 😐 Yes he’s serious. 😐 Check the comments for the OP.Seems a bit much. Smells like a troll. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 12:56 AM |
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