| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 37 | Patience, progress & self-improvement. | Red Pill Theory | sleep24x7 | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/20 08:38 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Having Weak and Strong WillpowerDo you find that your willpower falters when the stakes are high? Maybe you are afraid of failing (and the resulting consequences) though you may consciously tell yourself that you are not. Perfectionism is such a problem for so many of us. Try and be disciplined as far as possible and accept instances of failure as short term collateral damage in the longer term pursuit of your goals. Once you’ve failed enough and continue to stick with the process anyway, things get a lot better. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 05:41 PM |
| 52 | Just got a knife pulled on meAgreed. “The loser of a knife fight dies at the scene, the winner dies in the ambulance.” A common adage that people stand by, and this assumes both parties are armed. Fight only a last resort and always in self defense. Literally no positive outcome of being in a fight you could’ve avoided any way. Feel like a pussy? Would you rather be dead, severely injured or facing charges and possible jail time (in case you fight back and happen to do severe damage)? Avoidance is a bad idea only when you h… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/20 08:49 PM |
| 2 | Let it die? She’s gone cold, no contact for 7 days now.That’s fair. I like to have fun with words when I can and wouldn’t have cared if someone else thought I was butthurt. Either way, you did the right thing in this situation, so good on you. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 08:55 PM |
| 9 | Let it die? She’s gone cold, no contact for 7 days now.Would’ve been so fun if you’d have replied to her asking what she’d done wrong by saying “just doing my thing, we’re done.” | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 07:29 PM |
| 0 | Is doing drugs a red flag?I’d say you aren’t thinking at all if you’re relying on a bunch of internet strangers for advice based on very limited information. You’re in the best position to make a judgement, so make your own decisions. Since you already went through the effort of posting this, I’ll answer your question anyway: No, it’s not really if big deal if that’s all there is to it. If you see things going further downhill, cut and run. Otherwise, I personally, don’t have an issue with a little experimenting. Might b… | /r/askTRP | 04/04/20 05:39 PM |
| 3 | Just some very important informationJust don’t let this setback turn you to the safety of holding very strong beliefs about anything, because everything you see/do will then lead you to confirming those beliefs. Use TRP for guidance. Don’t become a zealot. Godspeed. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/20 09:00 AM |
| 4 | What do you call somebody who talks shit about you on social media and with others but in person doesn’t say anything?Passive-aggressive, two faced beta snake. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/20 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Am I missing out by not having any social media?This. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/20 09:49 AM |
| 1 | Not talking enoughYes. You can weigh in with a similar crazy story of your own, and use that to drive the conversation to more fun places where you can participate more. You can generally always do something to make social situations fun, but only up to a point. If the others are plain boring, then there’s not much more you can get out of such a situation. From HS to elite colleges to workplaces, unfortunately, all most people can do is indulge in mind-numbing gossip. I use such situations to break rapport: check… | /r/askTRP | 12/01/20 09:17 AM |
| 1 | Why is everyone here a dick? Dont you realize thats not how the real world actually works?Life and the real world, doesn’t work like this or that. Take from here what makes sense and what adds value to who you are, and who you want to be. Make yourself better. Ignore everything else, including the hateful comments. That being said, your post could’ve been more respectful too. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/20 04:12 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with a Permanently bruised ego?So that’s all it takes to shatter your self-concept? You and she didn’t work in bed. The only reason I see why this is getting to you, is because you think you won’t get women as good as her, or if you do, you will somehow similarly fail. Simply not true. Work on yourself, man. Upwards and onwards. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/19 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Date, cancel, dreadIf this is just a FWB/plate, why are you evening thinking about this so much? Sounds like you’re way more invested than you should be. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/19 07:52 PM |
| 20 | How to de-escalate with aggressive guys without looking weak?Apologize and step away. Disengage. Then, ignore. Getting into a fight is never worth it. Swallow your pride/ego. Work on yourself and then move away from the shithole you’re in. Having said that, learn self-defense, on the off-chance that you’re forced into a situation where there is no option but to fight back. Better safe (and weak) than sorry (ending up in prison, killing someone or hurting yourself seriously). But, better alive than dead. As for looking weak, if whoever you are with doesn’t… | /r/askTRP | 26/11/19 07:49 PM |
| 20 | Why is there no daily ask thread for minor questions unworthy of own posts?It’s not about reading, or having read, the sidebar. Sometimes people want to hear things they already know, from other people. Goes against the idea of being in your own frame and validating yourself, but in my opinion, that takes time and effort to build. In the meantime, hearing things you know you want to be doing from similar minded people, can be the difference between transforming yourself and giving up. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/19 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Best replies to “I’m not easy”“Only for me.” Grin. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/19 07:26 AM |
| 1 | If you ask a girl to go out/hang over text, and she says she’s busy and doesn’t offer a different date, do you soft next?You’re missing the point. The point is you’re firm and decisive in what you want to do and less into permission seeking/supplication, and what you want to do doesn’t depend on her/anybody else. This of course doesn’t imply you shouldn’t care about her needs and what’s convenient for her. But apart from that, if she can’t make it, you have other things to do as well. As for being at the bar alone, you don’t need an excuse. You’re just there. No explanation needed, doesn’t matter if it appears wei… | /r/askTRP | 01/09/19 10:28 AM |
| 2 | If you ask a girl to go out/hang over text, and she says she’s busy and doesn’t offer a different date, do you soft next?This. Unrelated, but as an additional benefit, you are solid on what you want to do, even if she’s out. It’s easy to feel discouraged and not do something because someone you were supposed to do something with, declined. Fuck that shit, go out and do it anyway, and have a great fucking time, even if you have to do it alone. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/19 04:43 AM |
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