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| 2 | I truly hate being divorcedLove yourself man. I 100% agree with everyone who says 'it gets better' so have faith in that too, but that process starts with loving yourself. For all that life's throwing at you, remember to take time for you, consider taking up a hobby, or just get outside on a regular basis. It's crazy how much a walk in nature can clear your head. I'm so grateful to my sister for teaching me about the idea of practicing daily gratitudes. It's easy to take inventory of all that's not great, but take a momen… | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/05/25 07:32 PM |
| 3 | Any of y’all relieved when wife filed for divorce?I had already signed the lease on a new condo and had the keys but she had so much ego, I knew it would be way easier on me if she felt like SHE pulled the trigger on ending our relationship. I really had to practice my somber face and hold in my inner laughter when the plan worked. Total relief and she was more empathetic than I had experienced in years in that moment. The final few years were horrible, but that conversation reminded me there was still some kindness in her. So yes, I was more t… | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/05/25 01:02 PM |
| 2 | New GF asking for too much?How it begins is how it ends. Word to live by... If you're already getting needy signals in the courtship phase when she's on her best behavior, the unfiltered version you get when you're properly 'locked in' will crush you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/05/25 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Guys who've had the worst divorce, do you regret meeting her?What a tragic waste of what should have been 2 of the best decades of my life (mid 20s to mid 40s). Honestly, I knew only a few years in that I had made a huge mistake but I succumbed to societal narrative that you gotta do your best to make it work. What a bunch of BS. If I listened to my gut, I would have had a much happier and more fulfilling life. That's not to say you throw in the towel over nothing. We're all entitled to have a rough patch - and maybe it has nothing to do with your partner… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/05/25 01:22 PM |
| 10 | Some women are happy to gloat about how amazing stepdaddy but start losing it when "stepmum" enters the pictureEven when it's over between the 2 of you, they want to feel irreplaceable. The idea that they can find someone new who makes them happier than you ever did just makes sense to them. But the idea that you could find someone to replace them who makes you happier triggers cognitive dissonance for them because YOU were the problem, you will ALWAYS be the problem, and anyone new just hasn't seen the truth yet. Ironically, I have nothing but pure, heartfelt empathy for anyone new dating my ex. They ha… | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/05/25 01:00 PM |
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