sleepless1981 Archive

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2	Your SO is not willing to do something sexual with you that they've done in the past That seems to be the case in most relationships. Not all, but most. Starts off heavy and then dies because one side or both sides stop caring.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 11:22 PM
5	Your SO is not willing to do something sexual with you that they've done in the past Good times, boss. My ex-wife was an absolute animal when it came to sex and that kind of stuff. Any time, anywhere, anyone, kinda girl. Unfortunately, she was also very bad with lying, finances, generally very selfish, and also always had to be right, so that ended that run. Lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 11:07 PM
6	Your SO is not willing to do something sexual with you that they've done in the past I would pull over, obviously, but I was just using that as one example. Safety first!	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 10:52 PM
4	Your SO is not willing to do something sexual with you that they've done in the past I used to swing, so it never bothered me, but I totally understand your sentiment, my guy. It's definitely not for everyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 10:51 PM
5	Your SO is not willing to do something sexual with you that they've done in the past Quite the assumption. I have sacrificed more than my share for nothing in return. If all I cared about was sex I wouldn't be with her, so clearly I care about her and her well-being. That's how relationships work, give and take. That being said, it surprises me how many women think they can do the bare minimum in the bedroom while receiving all the benefits of a relationship, and then act surprised when their partner finally, a) cheats on them b) leaves them c) cheats on them and leaves them, or…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 07:29 PM
4	Your SO is not willing to do something sexual with you that they've done in the past I'm good but thanks for the offer my friend	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 05:28 PM
5	Your SO is not willing to do something sexual with you that they've done in the past In my experience, that's how most women operate. Lol. I've actually offered her a hall pass as a last-ditch effort to break the monotony, and she refuses.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 05:13 PM
2	Your SO is not willing to do something sexual with you that they've done in the past Splitting is not optional because the housing situation in my city is ridiculous, and I like seeing my daughter everyday. It's funny you mention cheating as I have actually thought about cheating for that exact reason. Lol. But I guess having a moral compass combined with the amount of work required to keep that lifestyle up at my age has stopped me, but I'd be lying if i said it hasn't crossed my mind many times.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 05:03 PM
16	Your SO is not willing to do something sexual with you that they've done in the past You could be right but i feel like people love to use "trauma" as an excuse not to do anything at all for their partners, but when asked what they're doing to treat said trauma, the answer is almost always nothing. I don't know if it is a real-world thing or a reddit thing, but I swear you can't open a single relationship sub reddit without trauma being mentioned at nauseum. It's like they believe the world has to tip toe around and walk on eggshells just for them. I'm not saying trauma isn't re…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 02:57 PM
7	Your SO is not willing to do something sexual with you that they've done in the past We have a child together, and other than sex she's drama free, which is almost impossible to find these days. We have sex pretty much every day, so I guess she thinks quantity will make up for quality. Lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 02:02 PM
42	Your SO is not willing to do something sexual with you that they've done in the past My girl used to swing, " with her ex husband after he cheated on her," and got spit roasted in a limo downtown, but I can't even get 10 seconds of road head down a dark abandoned road because " she's not that kind of girl anymore." Now the windows have to be shut, door locked, and her jaw hurts 10 seconds into a blow job.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 01:32 PM
2	Q4M: would you leave a potential partner if they don’t agree to sleep with you until a certain amount of time passes? I guess it would depend on age for me. Young and new to the game I totally understand. But over 40 with kids and a divorce or 2 under your belt? I'm sorry but your way past playing the Virgin Mary card. If we're not banging we're not hanging. Lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/23 02:52 AM
–	CMV: When women talk of men opening up, what they mean is men should open up in women approved ways, for women approved problems and for women approved lengths of time I think men handle criticism better in general. They have to considering the sheer amount of L's they have to endure in the dating market. But as i stated in my post and you are correct, no one wants to hear what they're doing wrong no matter how you phrase it and have a high possibility of responding poorly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/23 08:33 PM
–	CMV: When women talk of men opening up, what they mean is men should open up in women approved ways, for women approved problems and for women approved lengths of time Just you so far. I'm into constructive dialogue and criticism. I'm also in my 40s with a marriage and 2 kids under my belt so i have a lot of experience in a long term relationship. If you think anything I said is invalid you're either very young and naive or you haven't been with a woman long enough to endure any real shit testing a woman will do once she gets comfortable with you and you're staring down the barrel of child support and alimony. I assure you plenty of men understand my situation…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/23 07:48 PM
–	CMV: When women talk of men opening up, what they mean is men should open up in women approved ways, for women approved problems and for women approved lengths of time I made a point regarding a problem many men have bringing up their feelings regarding intimacy. Just because you want to try and troll me, call me a bitch or anything else doesn't change that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/23 07:23 PM
–	CMV: When women talk of men opening up, what they mean is men should open up in women approved ways, for women approved problems and for women approved lengths of time The post refers to woman approved problems. Sex is only a woman approved problem when she's the one with the problem. I provided an example. Obviously I'm aware no one wants to hear what they're doing wrong regardless of gender.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/23 05:25 PM
–	CMV: When women talk of men opening up, what they mean is men should open up in women approved ways, for women approved problems and for women approved lengths of time True. Every single time i bring up something I'm not happy with sexually the argument immediately gets flipped on me, the water works come on and all of a sudden i need to apologize for daring to have a problem in the first place.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/23 04:32 PM
43	Do you care about a women's income when it comes to dating? Income is not nearly as important as how much debt she has. If she's working minimum wage and is sitting on 50k in debt that shows poor life choices and it's only a matter of time before her debt becomes your problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/23 12:42 PM
1	Imagine you were a man. How would you make your cheating ex regret breaking your heart? I'd celebrate. Is not everyday the trash takes itself out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 03:26 PM
1	CMV: Claiming that "women make guys they like wait for sex because they don't want to be viewed as slutty" is dumb and makes no sense. Yeah i have to say I have no problem with "slutty" women so to speak. My only issue arises when women who have no problem being dirty little pornstars for their cheating asshole exes all of a sudden act like born again prudes who can't remember how a dick works when they start dating you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 12:32 AM