sleeplessbeanbean Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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4	Struggling to make female friends (25F). Maybe try joining hobby groups or taking some classes at your local rec center. If you pursue things you enjoy, you may find similar-minded women there. Edit: I commented before I saw that you did attend a few classes. Perhaps online groups might be more your speed if you don't want to leave the house.	/r/RedPillWomen	06/04/23 11:27 AM
2	Separated spouse wants a sports car Well the fact that he's asking you even though you're separated is a good sign imo - it means he still considers you his partner & that your contribution matters to him. Others have already given good advice so I just wanted to say that and add good luck, I hope you do reconcile :)	/r/RedPillWomen	19/03/23 09:21 PM
45	Boyfriends condescending “jokes” So...if he's constantly insulting you & then reacts to your request for him to stop by saying things like "you complain about everything, this is why I don't want to move in with you" ...he is showing through his words & actions that he does not respect you or value your feelings. Asking for basic respect is not a huge ask, and when one partner expresses that the other is really bothering them with these demeaning "jokes", the response should be to stop, even if he grumbles about how you're too …	/r/RedPillWomen	15/03/23 03:14 AM
9	Is it my business to meddle? It kind of sounds like they've established a status quo for themselves. It's sad, but many marriages function on less, and you trying to put yourself in the middle of it will only force you to take sides and become a mediator. It's their responsibility to manage their relationship, not yours. It hurts to see your loved ones suffering but we can't do for them what they are not willing to do for themselves.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/06/22 10:15 PM
6	Politics And Femininity This is a very insightful answer. I think you're doing great in growing & learning about yourself & your habits, and self-examination like this will absolutely be valuable in continuing to adjust your behaviors and regulate your emotions. Good job, sister!	/r/RedPillWomen	11/06/22 05:59 AM
65	So what exactly is a HVM? I'm just going to speak from my own perspective. The HVMs in my life have strong moral values which they do not compromise, they don't argue with fools, they are polite and respectful to everyone until given a reason not to be, at which point they become fearsome, they respect women as equals to men but meant to do different/complementary things, as yin and yang, they are physically capable, they are intelligent, they are educated, they are humble but always confident, they are calm and steady, …	/r/RedPillWomen	08/06/22 08:10 AM
34	I know it's been said here before, but the tiniest details can really take your class and graciousness to the next level One of the most defining qualities of the women I remember and know as true ladies is grace. Compassion, generosity, and understanding go a long way in making a woman valuable and beautiful! Thank you for sharing this story.	/r/RedPillWomen	06/06/22 03:20 AM
24	How popular is anal really? 😅 I'm rolling laughing at your South pole analogy. Terrific	/r/RedPillWomen	05/06/22 03:05 AM
1	How to start when you are completely inexperienced? Make a list of your dealbreakers. Then make a list of things you would expect a HVM to have as dealbreakers, and ensure that you work toward removing those things from your behavior. Take good care of your health - physical, mental, spiritual, and emotional. YOU are what you have to offer, and you cannot pour from an empty cup. A good woman and wife, in order to be of service and value, must ensure that she is taking care of herself. There are some things that only an individual can do for thems…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/06/22 09:38 AM
10	This is so random but... where can you even find decent pajamas? To be honest, Target sometimes has some cute stuff if you're on a budget. Other bargain places where I've occasionally found nice items include Marshall's and T.J. Maxx. I'd also check your local "trendy" places, although the quality of items often suffers at shops like this.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/06/22 09:12 AM
1	Which is better- husband with low or high body count? Thanks again!	/r/RedPillWomen	03/06/22 09:10 AM
1	Is it hypocritical to support friend going against my (or our) values? In my experience, most things are clarified after an open and honest discussion. Now, that could mean that she is not the person you thought she was and you decide to distance yourself from her, which may be painful. It may also mean that you are able to reconcile because she is confused about her own beliefs and just needs a nudge in the proper direction. Regardless, while it is indeed painful to separate from someone you've known your whole life, your past need not dictate your future, and thi…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/06/22 07:32 AM
1	Which is better- husband with low or high body count? I mis-phrased my question, excuse me. I meant to ask what the "n" stands for. Does it just mean "body count"? Thank you for explaining!	/r/RedPillWomen	03/06/22 07:27 AM
1	Struggling with emotional regulation I highly recommend Dialectical Behavioral Therapy. It offers great practical coping skills for emotional regulation and self-soothing. I and others I know have benefited greatly from it.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/06/22 07:25 AM
1	Struggling with emotional regulation What helps me is regular meditation. I sit quietly & try to connect with God (if you're not religious, then just think of serene things, like a nice landscape or a sunset) and tell myself that my emotions are fleeting things, but my actions and words have consequences. I cannot control what emotions I have, necessarily, but I can control how I choose to respond to those feelings. Doing this regularly has helped me to have greater regulation, and also to see that I am not always listening to peop…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/06/22 07:23 AM
3	Which is better- husband with low or high body count? HPV is also the cause of all types of warts in humans, including those on the hands and most types on the feet. Just thought I'd add something I learned recently to this discussion!	/r/RedPillWomen	03/06/22 06:27 AM
2	Which is better- husband with low or high body count? What does "high n" mean, if you please?	/r/RedPillWomen	03/06/22 06:22 AM
2	To have or not to have male friends I have a handful of male friends. They have never been inappropriate (we have talked about sex, but not in a "I would do it with you" type of way, more like how I talk about it with my female friends, like "omg one time this happened and it was so funny") or propositioned me. They usually have girlfriends and our relationships have never been sexual or flirtatious. I have had male friends in the past who told me they were into me, and I told them I was uninterested, but they were not able to res…	/r/RedPillWomen	11/04/22 01:26 AM