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No, they’re just equals living a normal life. Most of them very clearly do not have money either, considering they agonize over making basic purchases.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:42 AM
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First of all, their first mistake was being British.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 08:10 PM
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Exactly. Until I started reading posts on these subreddits I really didn’t know the depth of jealousy men experience towards each other. They really don’t think life is worth living unless they can live the most ideal version of a male life and have endless options. They take tinder so seriously because they aren’t focused on being relationship material, they’re focused on access to sex to from a lot of women, all of the time, with no strings attached. Think about it…if you only really wanted a …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 08:08 PM
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Thanks, although I don’t think you know what “non colloquial” means either.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 05:04 PM
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Far cry from what you originally said in multiple comments
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:40 PM
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Brotha, a woman who makes 10k a year isn’t going to experience financial security with a man who makes 15k a year. I don’t think you know what “financial security” is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:34 PM
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It’s not semantics. You used very clear language that has very clear definitions. Speak more clearly if you don’t wish to give false impressions of your views and try to make fewer blanket statements on the nature of reality. Gold digger also has a clear definition, and by your own admission your wife is one of them. By your own theory of mind, the femoid will leave men if the money goes away. Better keep earning, champ, or she’s going to drop you like a hot potato. It’s just the prerequisite fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:24 PM
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Poor people by definition do not have “financial security” that’s entirely the point of being poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:30 PM
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Your genius take: poor people never experience love
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:16 PM
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My condolences on your gold digging wife brotha
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:11 PM
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No, the only reason women are reported more for child abuse is because women are the ones who spend the most time around children. To this day men spend much less time doing childcare or being involved in primary caregiving.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 01:55 PM
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The majority of people on this planet are poor and most of them experience love and have sex lol. You are projecting because you feel what you’ve learned from these subs means you will have to put on a false front to attract women, and you’re worried one day the mask will slip and you won’t be what they really wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 01:34 PM
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Sounds like someone has never had any real world relationship experiences. People actually tend to like to be frustrated and get endlessly attached to people who have traits that bother them—especially if they’re familiar to them in some way. Your analysis is shallow. Things fall apart when people become convinced someone doesn’t care anymore. Women actually tend to be the ones who stay with partners that become severely ill or severely disabled.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 01:32 PM
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Yeah, that tends to be what happens when people base their entire worldview off of fucking tinder trends—a place that only expresses our worst and most base instincts and deepens gender wars. This era in history is so narcissistic. Y’all need to touch grass and interact with people in the real world. I work with the public and see short ugly men with wives and children every single day. You do not need to be six feet tall with rippling muscles and a 6 figure income to live a normal life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 01:24 PM
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Libertarianism is a branch of conservatism. You should know this.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 02:30 AM
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I don’t think you know what a libertarian is #1. #2 She was not even a real libertarian (though she called herself one) considering she was EXTREMELY pro-life.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 02:22 AM
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The experiment was not why, she was an extraordinarily troubled person and tortured artist already. Her experiment is often falsely reported as her being an uppity leftest lesbian who was defeated, but that’s not true, she was already a conservative before she ever wrote the book or did the experiment. I liked her book a lot but it’s flawed. She did not and could not actually “live as a man” she could only step into the shoes of a woman pretending to be a man without any of the necessary sociali…
/r/MensRights02/09/22 07:38 PM
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Eh, two things can be true at once. I find these statements inflammatory just for the sake of being inflammatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 09:08 PM
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I think your problem is holding men in too high esteem. Just approach everyone like they’re not what you’d ideally want and you’ll have better relationships with everyone. People who expect too much of people are never happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 11:55 PM
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Absolutely not. I don’t want to be someone’s do-over, or have someone’s baby daddy tied to decisions and plans with the kids forever, and they’re almost always in the picture. Plus second marriages are more likely to fail. I also don’t want to start raising kids that I don’t have legal rights to and get attached.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 06:26 AM
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It’s completely common and the above mentioned reasons are accurate, but are not a hard and fast rule. Just like oxytocin is a hormone the body is flooded with after giving birth, it doesn’t result in every mother bonding to her baby, some won’t give a shit about the baby or bond to it—despite hormones very strongly encouraging that experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 09:40 PM
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I think this is complicated. A lot of young women do depraved sexual shit for validation in their youth, I’ve especially noticed this is true if she’s not conventionally attractive and feels that’s a way to make up for it. Just because she may be settled down and more secure in a romantic relationship now and better understands what she actually likes doesn’t mean it was some evil plot all along to deprive you and fuck you over. I understand where someone might be coming from with this but it do…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 07:02 AM
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I encourage you to look up what “DSM” stands for. Not all DSDs can even be identified at birth because a lot of them look phenotypically normal, as we’ve been over. Because of that testing won’t be done and you find out later about the condition. You can always determine biological sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 12:46 AM
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Nah, your sources are all trash. Gender Dysphoria is a mental illness in the DSM 5. Anything that causes clinically significant distress is a mental illness. That’s how they’re defined. Cry about it. You can go ask a doctor about all the nuances of every DSD and which disorders males vs females can have. It’s a dense subject :) but what I can tell you is the medical consensus is every single person on earth is male or female, even if a DSD is present. Hope that helps, boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 12:25 AM
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Only males and females can have disorders of sexual development—there is no sex spectrum. You’d have to find a way you don’t need a male and female to reproduce to find a sex spectrum among humans—all you have is “but but buttt but but but but but intersex people exist!!! But but but but but intersex people!!!!! But but but trans people!! But but but what about but but what about!!! But but but some people have traits of both, but but but how do you explain that? And then you insert demonstrably…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 12:02 AM
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Dude, no lol. It replaced it because calling it an identity disorder sounded like identifying as trans is in an illness, and it’s more accurate to say the distress around wanting to present as another gender is what is clinically significant impairment. It is 100% still considered a mental illness, it’s literally in the DSM listed as a mental illness. Anything that causes significant clinical mental distress is a mental illness, that’s how we know what is classified as a mental illness—holy shit…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 11:29 PM
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This is what is called confirmation bias and not even worth responding too, even going as far as to try to claim gender dysphoria isn’t a mental illness LOL. Sweetie, being transgender isn’t considered a mental illness, gender dysphoria IS. If it wasn’t people wouldn’t be able to bill insurance for medical intervention. It is literally—and here are the operative words—CLINICALLY SIGNIFICANT distress. Gender dysphoria is in the DSM 5 and was previously in the DSM 4 as gender identity disorder. Ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 10:20 PM
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“Intersex” is an outdated term that doesn’t make any sense and is no longer in use. Disorders of sexual development exist and every single person that has one is male or female lol. There is no third sex, there is no functional reproductive system besides that of males and females, there is nothing other than sperm and eggs. Biological sex is 100% without question a completely binary system. If anything people with disorders of sexual development are better thought of as exceptions that prove th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 09:26 PM
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Yeah, masculinity and femininity, but biological sex is not a spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 06:05 PM
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Lol, stupid comparison. Trans people have a huge handicap that makes dating hard. Trans men literally are trying to date women while having a vagina the majority of the time, or trying to get women to accept a phalloplasty—and the results of phalloplasty are not passable or normal. Average height of a trans man would also be like 5’3.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:24 AM
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My thoughts exactly. You can want to eat pizza everyday, that doesn’t mean you think you should or deserve to eat pizza everyday. Everyone wants things they don’t think are realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 01:42 PM
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You’re kidding me right? Men get children they only needed to have an orgasm to create, a live-in house keeper, cook, nanny, social and family gatherings arranger, sex, men get THEIR social status elevated due to being a husband and father—as much as y’all like to complain about women using you for social leverage, there’s actually plenty of research that shows how much the act of marriage and becoming a father in and of itself elevates status and career opportunities for men, which is the oppos…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 07:10 PM
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Depends what you mean by chubby. Obesity is always an unattractive trait, but women are literally not supposed to look shredded and are naturally supposed to carry a bit more body fat. If they are at the higher end of a healthy BMI and look a little chubby, yeah it’s not going to negatively effect their attractiveness as much. Men are not built to be carrying around a bunch of extra body fat and they have to be fairly sedentary and overeating way too much to end up anywhere approaching chubby. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 12:28 PM
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I think they’re just sensitive to women gaining any agency or power because they know under those circumstances nobody would ever choose them, ignore their socially retarded behavior and they see it as a loss for men. It’s a complaint that they should be allowed to behave like ingrates because women got something they wish women wouldn’t have gotten. And yes, they come across as very autistic and not understanding of social nuances.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:28 AM
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Ramblings of a maniac. Sexual harassment used to be much more common and openly accepted in the 50s which is seen as the gold standard “traditional era” before the “downfall” of the 60s and 70s. They’ve never liked it they just have the power now to shut down uglies bothering them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 12:30 AM
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Maybe it would be interesting if men could live in a world were the roles were reversed and they were constantly hit on by hideous fat whales who were known to react with violence and extreme outrage if they heard no—and they were also by far physically stronger and there was no safe public space to keep away from them without a potential altercation. Women are unsympathetic to men they turn down, but men would be too if the roles were reversed and they were constantly inundated with offers from…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 01:15 PM
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Yes, but it’s also problematic because you cannot keep up a facade forever. What happens after the 3rd or 4th date when you’re still only pretending to be the outgoing, confident, aloof alpha Chad when you’re really just a little nice boy? Even though being yourself might not attract the majority of women it might be the losing strategy to artificially change aspects of yourself you’ll never be able to maintain. It’s essentially a form of personality catfishing—beyond the concept of putting your…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 12:57 PM
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I’m ok with that option being available but the man would also have to waive any rights to the child forever, and sign legally binding documents.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 09:47 PM
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I know I’m right precisely because I’m gay, and I know what a real abysmal dating pool actually is. Successful normie 30 year old women are not flat out fucked and hitting some wall of impossibility where their value has suddenly and precipitously plumbed while men’s skyrockets. Revisit my very first reply. It doesn’t really matter if there’s a little bit of truth to what you’re saying because trends aren’t that extreme or absolute and the heterosexual dating pool is enormous.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:34 AM
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I’m not effected by your heterosexual politics, but if it helps you to operate on fantasy that’s fine by me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:22 AM
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10/10 chance you’re banking on the idea you’ll be able to marry a young girl if you become moderately wealthy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:00 AM
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Yes, your post is drivel
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:53 AM
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Women see average men as well below average
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:51 AM
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Believe me, if a man couldn’t get laid when they were young a poor they’re still unfuckable when they’re older with more money. Someone is just tolerating them for the money 9/10. The arrangements you speak of are some of the saddest marriages I’ve ever seen irl, usually with the woman eventually becoming held hostage and controlled by the insecure man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:38 AM
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Nah, you underestimate the desperation of most men and how much age also diminishes the value of men. Yes you can point to examples of super rich and celebrity men who make a habit out of dating much younger women, but those men are not the average man who makes a little above average and is in the midst of a mid life crisis. Most truly beautiful young women still want someone close to their own age to start a life with, they don’t need an older man when young men with money want them too. I thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:27 AM
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I’m not a heterosexual woman so this has no impact on me, but this kind of rhetoric is insane and smells of someone who never leaves the house and theorizes all day. To an extent what you’re saying might be true, but an attractive 30 year old woman does not have a shortage of options and life isn’t all over at 30. It’s not going to be some absolutely impossible feat to find a 30 year old man who makes around the same amount who might be interested. The whole world isn’t a dating app—dating apps …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 08:34 AM
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Yeah, it can be a huge risk if anything was miscalculated. Women play the same hot and cold bullshit games too, want your to desire them but then get spooked easily if they assume you like them too much or don’t pretend to also not give a shit enough simultaneously.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:21 AM
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Gay men have an excess of reliable venues for gay men, lesbians don’t anymore, there are essentially no lesbian spaces left—so you’re screwed if online dating isn’t your thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:54 AM
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It’s worse to approach women as a woman, if you read cues wrong and it’s the wrong person you’ll literally be accused of being some big bad lesbian predator, even if nothing but a polite interaction happened—most of the time women expect they’ll be dealing with creepy men and it’s par for the course, nobody bats an eye most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 09:33 PM
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Clearly you don’t know what it’s like to fear hitting on the wrong woman and being considered a homosexual predator, it’s like an extra layer of bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 11:41 AM
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Absolutely, I have gender dysphoria and by these standards I’d be 6ft tall with a big dick. I have a very nice symmetrical face, easily complimented with the male features listed, and an athletic build that easily puts on muscle. I get a lot of girls interested even as a woman, so it would be much easier with a dating pool 99% bigger. There’s not a doubt in my mind I’d be engaged or married by now if I were male with a way better life. Essentially not much would change for me for the worst becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 11:35 AM
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While I thought this post was interesting and hilariously true, I actually do think most men have low standards even if they have a rich fantasy life of having a perfect 10 girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 11:20 AM
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