sleepyheadp Archive

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1	Marriage as Transformative Entity, or: Why Marriage is Still Useful Naw, we were living together and were in a LTR for 6 years before marrying (we even dated in high school years ago but stopped during college years. Met up again after college and we've been together since). You might have a point in how I hear the word "wife" and how the weight of a relationship changes for me, at least when its applied to my own relationship. Other people do what they do, and if it works it works. All I know is that when he proposed and we were going through the motions of the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/17 08:04 PM
2	Marriage as Transformative Entity, or: Why Marriage is Still Useful Lol. Be gone, troll. You shall rustle no jimmies here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/17 04:44 PM
1	Marriage as Transformative Entity, or: Why Marriage is Still Useful Getting married might not feel any different for you, and thats cool. I can only speak from my experience, and that is being married feels different than when I was just in a LTR.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/17 04:08 PM
1	Marriage as Transformative Entity, or: Why Marriage is Still Useful I agree that you're an nihilistic prick who won't ever let themselves be vulnerable enough to get loved, yah.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/17 04:00 PM
3	Marriage as Transformative Entity, or: Why Marriage is Still Useful First, court house and small reception at a local bar=no debt. Second, the very act of going through the process made it more "final". Much more an active choice rather than a convenience of the LTR which had him move in with me because it was easier for him to go to work from my house.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/17 04:14 PM
4	Marriage as Transformative Entity, or: Why Marriage is Still Useful Good post, OP. Having lived with my sweetie for 6 years before marrying (we're 2 years in now) being married does feel different than when we just lived together. A lot different. Hell, the time he proposed I had a total mental shift. I fell into the "who am I?" land. And its not just because I became someones wife, its because I realized I can afford myself to be soft for him. That I can fall into him. It was all rather scary, but I'm glad I did it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/17 04:17 AM
7	[Discussion] Man signs letters with his female colleague's name for two weeks and finds out clients have less respect for a woman's authority. It makes sense in the way that by pretending to be male makes you feel better about yourself in a work environment. So, ladies, when you go to work pretend you're male in your heads because being woman means you don't work as hard and even if you did it wouldn't count.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/17 05:53 PM
3	[Discussion] Man signs letters with his female colleague's name for two weeks and finds out clients have less respect for a woman's authority. Correction- The premise that men pretending to be women get treated poorly because they are perceived as women is the bias you are attempting to debunk. However, your wording makes it sound like you're dismissing Geekyfeministdorks agreement with the story based purely ON her agreement that the story sheds light on biases against women in the work place over their perceived competency. You have taken the original twitter posters male pov (since it was the male manager telling the story) and not …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/17 05:39 PM
4	[Discussion] Man signs letters with his female colleague's name for two weeks and finds out clients have less respect for a woman's authority. Technically, this thread is from the male managers perspective. So, it wasn't the woman, Nicole bringing this story up, it was her male manager who took on Nicole's inbox identity that told this story.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/17 04:50 PM
3	[Discussion] Man signs letters with his female colleague's name for two weeks and finds out clients have less respect for a woman's authority. If Nicole was a shitty worker and had a shitty reputation then her manager wouldn't have stuck up for her. This type of twitter thread wouldn't even exist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/17 04:47 PM
1	Unless you live on a farm or have a bunch of small children. There is no role for a SAHW in the modern world. Well, I'm currently a stay at home wife, and I still have things to do. Its not like that dish is gonna wash itself or that garbage is gonna walk itself down the stairs. Also, technology means I can work from home now. So, uh, yah. I get what you're trying to say, but we're not at the Simpsons level of the house taking care of itself. And, for any people who are like "blurrr, she just watches sitcoms all day, blurrr" you're fucking wrong. I watch ANIME all day while working on freelance and stil…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/17 11:01 PM
5	Q4W: What is the most unattractive thing a man can do? I didn't even realize how much it would bother me, despite that whole not cooking with me went into all cooking. So basically, I ended up just being his cook. Yah, that relationship did not last.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/17 05:14 PM
4	Q4W: What is the most unattractive thing a man can do? Complain to me about the size of their dick Complain to me about past girlfriends Won't cook with me because "cooking egg smell makes me feel sick"(but will gladly eat said eggs) Being desperate for companionship but only seek 8+ women Leave me to fend for myself in a fight. Not looking for you to take a punch for me, just watch my fucking back.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/17 04:46 PM
5	CMV: the best way to address women's problems is to change her mood, not her mind Really its more controversial if you aren't actually sorry. Though it is just smart to allow the other person to cool their jets before engaging in an actual conversation over something.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/16 11:22 PM
2	Are there any women here in a happy LTR who don't feel "dread"? Eh, I get what you're saying, but I personally wouldn't apply that to my situation, like I need to give my husband "enough respect so he doesn't leave me" and without "dread" I would suddenly grow into some monster whore. He has to earn that respect, and maintain it, just like I need to earn and maintain his. Thats where the concept of "marriage is work" comes from. Though its only hard if you're an asshole and can't practice the concept of not being a douche.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/16 03:32 AM
6	Are there any women here in a happy LTR who don't feel "dread"? Same here as well. I don't have this "dread" about my husband cheating on me. I wouldn't be able to stay with a man who would try to pull that bullshit on me, he'd be kicked out so fast.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/16 05:44 PM
2	I'm pondering the common stereotype that women are more "verbal/contextual" whereas men are more "visual." Are you male or female, and how do you feel when you come across a sex scene in a book? Yah, I won't disagree there. I sorta find myself skipping over more now than I did in earlier issues. Still, it started off as a urban fantasy before becoming all erotic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/16 03:26 PM
1	I'm pondering the common stereotype that women are more "verbal/contextual" whereas men are more "visual." Are you male or female, and how do you feel when you come across a sex scene in a book? Well, it is said that women need more mental stimulation for arousal, yes? Using the imagination does just that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/16 12:54 AM
1	I'm pondering the common stereotype that women are more "verbal/contextual" whereas men are more "visual." Are you male or female, and how do you feel when you come across a sex scene in a book? Female here, and I like to have my sex scenes mixed in with actual story. I don't just search out romance novels but would rather see romance mixed in with say, a urban fantasy crime story. As for the idea of "verbal" being the example you're using, thats not quite right. Reading isn't "verbal", its using your imagination. And using your imagination is just a different way of "seeing".	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/16 12:42 AM
1	I'm pondering the common stereotype that women are more "verbal/contextual" whereas men are more "visual." Are you male or female, and how do you feel when you come across a sex scene in a book? My Anita Blake series begs the differ with you not wanting graphic sex scenes showing up in a fantasy setting. ;)	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/16 12:38 AM
1	Q4ALL: How did you find out about the manosphere and pill stuff. Was a lurker on the 4chan since 2005. Mostly saw shit posts and meme related stuff with Morpheus and the pill offering. If anything the only real stuff the pills back then represented were related to the Bush era presidency and events with the Recession in 08. Only when more sjw stuff and more mra stuff started cropping up did the whole RP and BP take on more meaning, which I guess was around 2011.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/16 04:11 PM
3	What's the worse sexual advice you've received? "Have 3 men in your life, one for buying you things, one who is gay so you can go out with and have a good time, and one for fucking." - Great Grandmother Pretty sure I was only 13 or so when she gave me this advice. But don't worry, I never took it to heart.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/16 04:55 PM
2	Last Names Ok, I laughed really hard at that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/16 01:28 AM
9	Last Names Thats another problem with name changing for women. If you have any sort of professional presence in a industry, and change your name, that could be used as a hit against you since you're a woman who got married, and then its only a matter of time before "the kids" happen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/16 04:35 PM
4	Last Names Woman here. Took my husbands last name, but am a feminist. Main reason for taking his name was because I'm not really close with my family and its a spanish last name, and I don't speak fluent spanish. So now I don't get the damn mail in spanish and its great. I do miss it sometimes because it had a dramatic flair to it, but I already made the change and that was a pain in the ass. I know of a lot of women who don't take their husbands last names, and when they have kids the kids take the husban…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/16 04:28 PM
2	Q4women: What would you think of a physically/sexually attracted man if you figured out he has no experience with women? Can confirm. Teaching a virgin man is a lot of fun and watching the pleasure on his face when feeling new things is pretty great.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/16 03:47 PM