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Yes, I know several lawyers who did just that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/09/18 12:48 AM
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This needs more visibility.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/07/18 03:08 PM
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Agreed. But I'll add: If under 30, then ugly. If over 30, then ugly and broke.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/07/18 02:56 AM
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By reproductive rights, you mean birth control? Or abortion rights?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/07/18 04:17 PM
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I used to date a girl from Garland. Lived off Galaxy iirc, behind an Asian gang pool hall
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/18 09:48 PM
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Or even respond when approached. Most expect all suitable men to have a grade A, solid, funny, alluring, mysterious, seduction pitch and convo. If you're a little awkward or nervous, you get shot down. Laughed at- literally. Then later/cyclically she complains that only players want her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/18 09:40 PM
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This.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/18 09:24 PM
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Agreed, and I'd like to add she's destroying his personal happiness by ruining a personal and intimate connection before it had a chance to form. She casually alters his life: his self esteem, his goals, his needs, and desires. For what? So he can serve her with attention, effort, and be miserable the whole time; reforming how he feels about himself, maybe for the rest of his life. And she knows it, and doesn't care.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/18 09:22 PM
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But if a fat dude has standards, then he's a piece of shit. Perfect logic.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/18 12:01 AM
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Thanks for the information. I had no idea. Where do you live? It sounds like Hell. In Texas, vegan/vegetarian is ignored. People will make fun of them, and mean it. Austin isn't even an exception.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/05/18 11:06 PM
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Haha. This made my day.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/18 03:07 PM
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Have you considered that this article might be propaganda? I'm not trying to be a dick.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/18 02:59 PM
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I like you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/18 02:57 PM
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I'm starting to think it's an arranged marriage. It bookends too well.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/05/18 11:19 PM
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Nope. That's a one-off. Are you into furries, as in the fetish? That's kinda creepy tbh.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/05/18 11:17 PM
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I took a Women's Literature course in college. It was about sex, cheating, and boredom. At times relationships, social and romantic, but it still circled back to sex.
/r/MGTOW09/05/18 06:07 PM
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I'm sorry to hear that, bro. Please don't follow that sadness into the darkness.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/18 03:59 PM
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I kinda wonder if these women project the confidence they think guys want. I'd think, if a girl wanted to snag a provider, she'd portray herself as demure and naïve. It would be a better play, if her audience were a simp with little to no experience with women, but a kind heart and open wallet. You know, inspire protection and care or something.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/18 06:29 PM
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Facts.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/18 12:12 AM
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When I was still working for a firm, I was temporarily given a cubicle while they moved some people around at our second office. I sat right next to a 30-something mom of two, divorced but still attractive. Most of the girls in the office were moms. A lot of them would talk about their relationships with my cubicle neighbor. Boredom was the number one topic: "I'm so bored." "This is boring." "We never do anything. It's always the same; I'm so bored." My neighbor would listen, commiserate, and ag…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 09:53 PM
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I blame porn mostly.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/18 03:08 PM
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I wonder if she chose 'graduate degree' because she 'graduated' from high school. As in, she doesn't know what a graduate degree merits.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/18 09:00 PM
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Alcohol is a hell of a drug?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/18 03:25 PM
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Of course the Dad wants to "butt out" and "respect her decisions" because Mom trained him to just accept whatever Mom decides. There's nothing new about a blue pill Dad taking shit from his wife and kids. Mom on the other hand is rightfully pissed off. It's the last remaining vestige of the 'sister hood' where women policed each other's behavior. The Mom/Daughter facet where the Mom enforces basic human decency will be gone soon. And the OP thread illustrates that. Notice how the Mom is framed a…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 11:50 PM
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I admit to being unethical and immoral when I sleep with married/committed women. I also like pussy and don't care. Edit: Rationale because it seems you're upset... I'm sure you've read Orwell's Animal Farm. Remember the horse, Boxer, who devoted his whole existence to working his ass off for his community? He upheld their standards and donated his his life to it. He always worked and never quit. I see myself that way. All the way through my 20's I was fooled. I played society's stupid game: wom…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 04:48 PM
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I'm ok with it because it's not my relationship. It's not my commitment and therefore not my problem. Beta me felt the same way as you. I felt I had to respect other men's relationships. No one ever did this for me, so why should I do it for others? I've fucked several married women. Once, it was a tinder girl, decent looking, but a little chubby. After we fucked, she told me she was married. No problem. In fact, I told her to wear her ring next time. She did, and I don't think I've ever heard a…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 04:15 PM
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It's OK. Rage against the Internet, young man. I hope one day you'll get over your social failures. You resorted to racism. Do black men scare you as much as women do? Is it because black men are taller, more athletic, and take the women you can't have? Go ahead and reply; rage some more. It's a thin veil for your insecurities: your short stature, your fat body, and your inability to get women. Go ahead and geek out; desperately over analyzing any statement to prove you can offer something. I do…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 09:09 PM
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Lol. Ok there, JackOffJill.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 04:52 PM
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Yeah, I see your point. I feel like most of these posts are kids, just trying to learn a way to be. His examples indicate youths. I can assume he's the same because he referenced them as peers. As Fat Mike from NOFX once said... There's something wrong with the kids in my neighborhood They always listen to your mom They disregard civil disobedience They'd rather do what they're told They don't drink, or fuck, or fight (they don't start fights) They sit home, and read, expand their minds
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 05:50 AM
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In the USA, class and wealth are the same- if you have enough of the latter. In Europe, I understand it's different. The working class is not the poverty class. It's kinda fucked up when society equates blue collar professions with poverty. And mane, I need to spend that money on myself. Getting what I want is more important. Do you have something against fucking wasted chicks in hottubs? Why? I hope you're not implying that I don't have an education. I have a doctorate, bro. I have over 300 hou…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 05:46 AM
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I hate to burst your bubble, but the idea that wealthy people have learned "value and habits that will make you more successful" doesn't match reality. I know many wealthy people. I've also worked with other wealthy people. They'd like you to believe that it's all hard work, values, and ethics that made/keep them successful. It's not. It's not true for the vast majority of them. The kind that have trust funds as a job don't do any of that. Those are the ones with real money. If your comment mean…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 05:24 AM
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Exactly. I know rich betas. It isn't a given. It's like saying being tall has a lot to do with sexual strategy. It can, but it doesn't mean success.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 05:15 AM
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What's with the DARE mindset? I worked my ass off to get more money to have fun with, not collect stupid shit to impress other people. Drugs are fun, weed is fun, getting hammered with hot chick's is great. Banging them after is even better. What poverty mindset? Poor people are less likely to do drugs, not more likely. What does any of this have to do with sexual strategy?
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 10:59 PM
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I agree with this. I'm thinking about dropping my gf and plate to start over for something else. I just don't like much of it anymore. I was day drinking with the Bros and kept thinking I'd like a unicorn. Then I remembered when I believed in unicorns. Kinda sucks. Now I wonder if I'm a cynic.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/16 03:53 AM
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Ditto. That was the stupidest thing I've read on Reddit, maybe anywhere.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 04:28 PM
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OP, I like the spirit of your threat. But I differ in some ways. Dude, I stand with my client and fuck our opponent. I will metaphorically disembowel that sum of a bitch, draw and quarter him, and slit his throat. I will do everything ethically allowed, just with in the lines, for my client to win- every fucking time. And I have set the guilty free and denied justice to the wronged. Why? Because my client is everything to me. He keeps me up late with work and sleepless with strategy and worry. I…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 02:38 AM
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Hey bro, you didn't have to delete your comment. We're here to learn. I'm sure you could school me up on shit I don't know. Stay frosty.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 02:21 AM
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Ok buddy. I know you mean well, but arm chair attorney is a dangerous thing. The laws vary state by state on consent and recordings, but there are other relaxations on the FRE (Federal Rules of Evidence), which is what most states model their rules on. Hell the damn numbers even match. Best evidence rule comes to mind when asserting the contents of a recording to prove the truth of the matter asserted. Not to mention party opponent admissions. But, let's put that aside and look at US Constitutio…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 01:00 AM
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This. No worries OP, your turn is coming up. Hippie bitches fuck. Wear a condom though. I'd really tune your game to the free love mindset. Btw, does she have arm pit hair?
/r/askTRP21/07/16 07:20 PM
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This. You nailed it. Feminism tells white men they're oppressors, violent, toxic, rapey, evil, and generally shitty. Most of today's western men grew up with this- taught to loathe ourselves. And for what? To eventually watch someone else railing your girl? It's a zero sum game for feminism. It will eventually burn itself to the ground. Who do they think will stand tall when the barbarians are at the gate? Who will meet the horde and crush his enemies? That self loathing beta cuck?
/r/TheRedPill16/07/16 05:34 PM
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I read somewhere in /*news that there are reports of German vigilantes patrolling the streets, with the intent to curb assaults from immigrants. Is this really happening, or is it mostly hyperbole? If it is happening, will it decrease violence or will the German police intervene before any benefits are realized?
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 10:14 PM
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I used to have this list of success. It had at least 40 quips and quotes on it. This was pre internet, and I can't recall the title. The one thing that I still remember is the above quote you mentioned. Afaik, it means that substandard people keep even shittier people around to feel better about themselves and to create an air of superiority. What you should do is strive to be around your peers or better, in order to maintain and up your game. It doesn't mean you're too good for some people, but…
/r/askTRP06/07/16 05:56 PM
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Gotta keep shit regular. Right?
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 05:50 PM
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Agreed. I think it's because food is drugs to them. They need the ritual to be just right.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 05:48 PM
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I'm in Texas. I made more money before law school, so it hasn't had the ROI I was expecting. The middle class is too broke to afford representation, so there's not a lot of paying work. I could always sell my soul for big law, but fuck that. My bro works in a hospital. He says a lot of chicks fuck doctors to get an assistant type scribe job. Then they get the recommendation for med school. Is that true in your area? It's so common it makes all the nurses sick.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 05:47 PM
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Cool thanks. I guess the term isn't used in my area.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 05:40 PM
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I did law school. Don't date those women. It is not worth it. Not even the rare hot ones. It is insane how a 5-6 HB believes she is an 8 because she's a lawyer. They honestly think men find that attractive. It infuriates them when men don't. But they will not date someone without a similar education. It creates a viscious cycle of crazy.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 01:41 AM
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Are you in California? I thought the 'uni' term was British?
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 01:17 AM
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You're in the wrong sub. How in the fuck did you glean that from the sidebar? Feminism doesn't make women strong or liberated. No philosophy or world approach can make you either. It comes from within, not from joining a group. Empowerment of men? Where the fuck did you read that? Empowered means to imbue with power, as in it wasn't there before, meaning it came from somewhere else. That's fucking horseshit. Get inline or get the fuck outta here. This is not the place to tweak the program. Doing…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 03:59 PM
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Spot on. I like your theory. I've never met a land whale that didn't think she deserved the hottest guy around.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 03:54 PM
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This bro literally goes balls out.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 08:14 PM
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For health reasons: liquor over wine, but wine over beer. Don't smoke. It's never too late to start again. Always be presentable for the occasion. You don't need money to have class. Third rate people have fifth rate friends. Mind, body, & spirit need constant upkeep and development. Life - work balance is very important. Forget this and depression and anxiety creep in. Accept what you need and your limits. I sometimes do drugs socially. It keeps me sane.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 06:18 PM
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I agree, pussy.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 09:38 PM
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Thank God for this post. There have been several posts pissing all over weed and drugs lately. Several have "corrected" me for disagreeing about pot. I didn't come to TRP to live a completely boring shitty life that is only self improvement. Pussy is not my only vice. That fucking sucks. I love smoking weed and I love women who smoke. I also like the occasional line or pill. I like Xanax too. So why wouldn't I like a plate that does? Like wtf? There's nothing wrong with liking those things. IME,…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 09:25 PM
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So "can be" is conclusive? You're too smart for that.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 08:16 PM
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Jesus wept. I hope you're just the "doom and gloom" melodramatic type. Why not push forward with improvement? Is it that hard? Are you saying you can't see through this time in your life?
/r/askTRP26/06/16 07:27 PM
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First-hand experience is subjective at best. That's why soft sciences are shit. What proof? The DEA has outlawed any medical studies on pot. The Israelis have done some research which shows it does not make you lazy. To each his own. If it's not right for you, then don't do it. Porn is not right for me. And weirdly coffee fucks up my sleep patterns, so it's out for me too.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 03:47 PM
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Next. Act like nothing happened. Abundance menatlity. Do not ask her to do anything ever again bc she doesn't respect you or your time. I bet she's entertaining herself by twisting you.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 05:34 AM
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I just ask her to come smoke, then escalate. It's easier bc I'm baked and she is too. There's no magic on my end.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 04:57 AM
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Seriously? Going to jail for a bitch? Really?
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 04:48 AM
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Fuck yeah. Agreed, I do the same shit.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 04:47 AM
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Yeah I disagree and so does science.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 04:45 AM
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This. Stoner chicks are the best. IME, they have a lower n count.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 04:43 AM
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Really y'all? I love it when I find out she also does drugs. We can share even more fun, especially coke. And I mean that good coke, not the shitty EU blow, but good ol' Sur Murcia cocaine.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 04:41 AM
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So did you do it?
/r/askTRP26/06/16 04:38 AM
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Agreed. I don't take newbies hunting either. I have a buddy whose buddy took a new girl deer hunting with them. She accidentally discharged a .223 in his head. After a week in the ICU, he died. It's not worth the pussy, but to each his own. And before I get shit, I agree it was probably the primary operator's fault. It still doesn't bring back the dead.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 04:36 AM
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I've taken many anti-depressants, including Zoloft, Paxil, Prozac, and others. All they do is shut you down or make you want to eat. They all suck. Don't take them. Find other ways to feel better.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 04:30 AM
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Yup, spot on. The guy fucking her sent the photo. Occam's razor.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 04:24 AM
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What are you asking?
/r/askTRP05/06/16 01:33 AM
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Thanks bro. And you know what? I don't either. I slept with my plate four times, then she offered her friend. Look, I went through your profile. I found a picture of you. You're better looking than me. You can do this. Here's my suggestions... Go see a stylist, a place that charges real money for haircuts. Go to one of the nicest places you can afford. I pay 5x what a barber used to cost me. Tell her you're growing your hair out, and that you need the best haircut for your face and lifestyle. Sh…
/r/askTRP05/06/16 01:14 AM
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Really? I never met an old man that wished he had less ass. When you're in a slump, go to batting practice. Set up t-ball, so to speak. Get back to the fundamentals, work on your primary skill set. If you're following the side bar, then assess the things I brought up. There are other subreddits to help with style and hygeine. And what's wrong with fucking fat girls? They don't have to be obese and ugly. There are some cute as fuck chubby bunnies that need some loving. You need loving and practic…
/r/askTRP05/06/16 12:39 AM
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What's your personal style situation? How's your skin care and general self care practice? What is your clothing situation? Is it possible your bros are shooting down your self esteem or jealous? Are you living in a small town? What type of girls are you shooting for? 8-9's? Bro, if you're this bad off, it's time to fuck some fat girls. It's still pussy, and your friends don't have to know.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 12:07 AM
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I am in awe. I will definitely step my game up using your advice. I can and will get to your level. Thanks man.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 06:22 PM
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Quick question on the threesomes: A sorta new plate said last night her best friend is visiting next week. Plate wants her bestie to make out with her over me in bed. Plate then said bestie wasn't going to fuck, but that she wanted to be naked with us. Is this like the hamster before the threesome? I didn't say much other than, "Cool. Saturday works."
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 02:54 AM
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Texas did away with the two year minimum cohabitation requirement. However, you have to conduct yourselves as married, which can be by telling people you are, or something official like filing joint taxes. It's not a one-way street, both 'spouses' have to do it. Most importantly, both 'spouses' have to intend to be married. So, to sum up: capacity (18+), cohabitate, and conduct
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 12:54 AM
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I'll take it under advisement. I will definitely reflect on your observations because it's a reasonable request. I don't think my current lifestyle is blue, but I'll examine it. His complete hatred is not productive though. I offered solutions and perspective. I got more hate. I haven't posted on this sub much. Maybe I'll stop trying to contribute; after all it doesn't help me at all. Thanks for your perspective.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 06:09 PM
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I couldn't agree more. I'm nearly convinced the poster I replied to is a troll or working to make TRP a "hate group." His Calla for enslavement and misogyny are well-putside any growing pains. Thanks for the story. It is a perfect illustration.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 09:33 PM
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Please explain any mental gymnastics used. It's ok. I'll wait. Edit: Oh wait, you're right. The woman hating ideology is better! Fuck women! They're EVIL! They're so irrational and mean! If they'd only understand and accept how truly great and awesome WOW and fedoras are, then they'd appreciate (and fuck) me! Snakes are also SO EVIL! Omg! Life is so unfair! Let's have a women-hating club where we can all piss and moan. Grow the fuck up, kid. I hope you're another 16 yo kid like the poster I resp…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 10:47 PM
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Damn bro, that's harsh. I think of women as muses in the classical sense. They inspire with the capacity to drive me nuts. Sure women are dramatic and demand attention, but so what? Look at all the art created because women desire nicer shit than all her girlfriends. Look at the Medici and all the art of Italy, France, Spain. Think about all the music created by Handel, Brahms, Beethoven, Mozart and others. Women demanded to throw lavish parties bc they wanted to display their husband's power an…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 10:32 PM
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I see what you're saying. When the rabbit is being chased by the fox, the rabbit thinks, "Man, this is fucked up." If the rabbit is caught, he'll still be thinking that as the fox eats him. The fox thinks that this is fucking tasty. That is it and that is all. The fox does not think about how the rabbit feels. He doesn't give a shit. I'm not trying to say you're prey or anything. I'm just trying to illustrate the total lack of any moral aspect. It just isn't there. It's only fucked up when you a…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 10:14 PM
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You're worried because you see your Road. You're worried because it will be hard to travel. But at least you see it. So many people don't see anything. Many guys in your situation would piss and moan about why they aren't rich and fucking JLaw. You see a problem. How do you solve a problem? Many men look at the variables, identify the unknowns, and work with what they have until they identify the other variables. You can fix yourself. You can do it. You already know you need to. For basic life s…
/r/askTRP16/02/16 11:29 PM
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This bro. This is awesome.
/r/askTRP06/02/16 10:29 PM
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Fake it until you make it. You are a fluid concept.
/r/askTRP06/02/16 04:21 PM
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Fuck yeah. We got a raw egg and a half pint of milk. I think I had a knife too. No shelter, you had to make your own. Man it was so cold that night. Truly crazy.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 03:14 AM
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Dude! Sweat lodges and mushrooms! Drumming and puking until you jump in the ice cold river
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 03:04 AM
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I'm an Eagle Scout too. These guys shit all over it, but they don't know what they're talking about. I was a camp counselor until I was 17. We were responsible for ourselves. So there was beer, weed, girls, and freedom others didn't have at 14. They didn't get immaculately stoned, dress up like an Indian and burn 12' bonfires. They didn't strap in Aussie style on acid, and rappel twelve stories so fast your gear would burn your hand. Or punch a fucking bear for nuzzling your tent. It passed them…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 02:59 AM
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Man you really dislike women. I hope one day you can get over your anger issues. They're actually pretty great. I have a terminal degree but I'm always learning, so thanks I guess.
/r/askTRP28/01/16 11:30 PM
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No. I don't 'check bitches.' I respect adults. A grown woman over 18 is free to make her own decisions. And I expect adults to respect me by not 'checking' me. If it did happen, I'd be pissed. I believe women are able to make their own decisions. It's called autonomy. If a married woman wants to have sex outside her marriage, that's her decision. Women are also free to get bomb drink and fuck around with whoever they want. I'll reiterate it again. I don't seek out/ hit on married women. I respec…
/r/askTRP28/01/16 06:58 AM
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A marriage is sacred because it exists between two people. It's a commitment between them, not me. They have their responsibility because of their vows. I haven't pledged to keep their marriage. On the brotherhood thing, do you mean like chivalry? No, I don't 'honor' chivalry. I don't 'watch out for bros' unless you are one. If there's a higher moral in this situation, its to not hit on married women. I don't do that; its off limits and tacky. I will and have slept with married women, bit it was…
/r/askTRP28/01/16 04:18 AM
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Gotcha. Missed that part. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP27/01/16 08:57 PM
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Why? Dulce et decorum est pro patria morie? That's bullshit old men tell young men to make more money. He should plow that field.
/r/askTRP27/01/16 08:43 PM
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You should fuck her. She wants you. You don't owe the husband anything. Who gives a shit if he's in the military? It's just a fucking job.
/r/askTRP27/01/16 08:42 PM
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I'm intrigued. I'm betting you're a professional either in a small office or your own office. I hope you're not implying that I date losers. I've definitely dated from the ground up, and some have been, but that's not the case with the last few. Instead I think you mean that the woman's quality was high enough (not just attractiveness, but overall) to be congenial. I agree with ending relationships on good terms wherever possible. I'll consider it more if the next LTR doesn't work out. Perhaps y…
/r/askTRP27/01/16 12:01 AM
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I agree completely, especially with the marriage component. I've never been marries though, so I have no standing. I am interested in Abdaba's theory and practice. Possibly we have different operative definitions.
/r/askTRP26/01/16 11:44 PM
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Interesting. I would think the relationship is redefined in some way. Would you elaborate on that? I read your post as, "We are friendly, on that I could call her for x, y, or z. But I don't call to 'catch up' or chit chat." Am I off the mark? I'm down with understanding the theory, even if I don't think I can apply it in my own life. BTW, I'm in my late 30's. An LTR is never based on sex alone anymore, but that was common in my 20's.
/r/askTRP26/01/16 11:42 PM
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I respect the difference. I still think that remaining friends with exes is more trouble than it's worth for both genders. In my circles, many of the guys have dated many of the girls. It just makes it more complicated. In this example, the guy is in a Catch-22, he listens to her and he breaks frame. Imo he fucked up by keeping the ex around. It's not worth it. If I keep an ex around its to plate her.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 10:48 PM
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Yes it would be easier. I'm not sure why you're getting downvoted. I don't care about plates, but my last girlfriend was not allowed to hang out or be friends with her exes. I told her it was a deal breaker. If I found out, it was over. She was mad at first, then she loved that she was my chick. Her girlfriends got all wet over it too, after they told her I was an insecure controlling asshole. When you let your chick hang out with exes, you're deferring her to them. They retain the "I can fuck h…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 10:20 PM
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It was the same way for me too. I would get solicited all the time, but I would turn them down because even if I was kinda attracted to them, they just weren't hot enough. Consequently, when I tried to game girls that I really wanted, I couldn't close a date. The thing is, the hot ones wanted me too, but I wasn't doing the right things or acting like a hot guy does. The women expected me to just know what I was doing. When I clearly didn't, they got turned off. I'm not saying bag a chick just be…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 06:23 PM
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As a recovering obese guy, I think your approach is wrong. It's a gradual change in yourself, both the physical and mental adjustment. There is a physical point you'll tip where you suddenly become 'hot.' The last 60# I dropped, I went from 'bleh' to ' I can't beat these bitches off with a stick.' (I've lost over 120# in 3 years BTW.) I got nearly zero attention until the last bit, and I still have 20# to lose. I had a mental lag on my self image. I could not see me as hot, at all. Consequently,…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 05:20 PM
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Well, I guess you could screw her butt cheeks. I talked a chick into that once. Within 10-15 strokes we were straight fucking, sans condom; I finished in her. OR- you could toss you book for fairy tales in the trash where it belongs? How about that?
/r/askTRP18/07/15 08:23 PM
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Nah, that's called champerty. It's very unethical for an attorney.
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I think this varies for everyone. You'll definitely have to work out your own game. Whether in person, Tinder, or Bumble, it's the same for me. I don't take plates on dates; I don't spend money on thrm. I have a gf, and I do occasionally take her out. Once you have her number, text once. Never ask mundane, get to know you stuff. Text like you already know her. If you pretend like you know her, then observed Bullshit basic person info is not needed. Idc what she does for a living, where she's fro…
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Yeah, I'm going to try and go with your first suggestion. If her text has the right tone, then I'll try and set something up for later tonight/ this weekend. Congratulations on your conquest, but our situations are a little different. I've never met her at all and it's more than one friend at her HH. The unknowns are a bit too much. My head has to be ready for the game. If I don't know what's coming, I can't prepare. I actually do care because I don't like wasting my time and money anymore. I al…
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Exactly. You made up my mind. Solid advice. Thanks.
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I'm leaning toward your advice. While some people could pull this off, IMO it would hinge too much on whether her friends were bitchy. I can charm a group of women, but I don't feel like being thrown into a mixed-gender group. Especially when they will all be judging the fuck outta me. I thought about bringing some bros, but that would clearly show I was responding to her setting the table, so to speak. And you're right. I did enter her frame. She's my age, 37, so I can't see her happy hour invi…
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