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Stop letting it make you angry, dude. Lots of us have been cheated on in the past. Recognize that it ultimately enables you to swallow the red pill with ease - it's like that lady handed you a glass of water. You won't ever forget what she did to you - use it to remind yourself why you're here, and go do some pushups or something productive. Anger about this kind of stuff is a lot of power that is being misdirected.. you could be getting stronger instead of weaker. Notice how my whole post is ab…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 11:16 PM
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It wasn't that bad. (PS I don't think there's anything to "save".. as far as how to respond to what she said, I would chose to say "dumb question") Although, it did remind me of a story my dad told me when I was younger. He still remembers his high school prom, and when his beautiful date showed up in a colorful striped dress the first thing to slip out of his mouth was "you look like a circus tent" hahahaha We're livin, we're learnin.
/r/askTRP26/05/15 07:30 PM
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I would probably just respond with 'dumb question'. No need to get fancy with texting. It makes it seem like you care a lot. Building any attraction by overthinking this stuff is a pipe dream. Keep it simple, save the teasing for when you're face to face and can reinforce it with your body language, tone of voice and demeanor.
/r/askTRP26/05/15 01:26 PM
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Man who cares? She is reassuring you over and over again that you are behaving exactly the way you should be. I'm not sure why you're suddenly doubting yourself, but it's pathetic. Stop. Delete this thread, and forget that you ever put so much effort into hamstering yourself up some imaginary reasons to doubt yourself. That's all I have to say to you, dude. Good luck
/r/askTRP25/05/15 07:12 AM
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Pullups, pulldowns, deadlifts, shrugs. Build your lats and traps to get a triangle shaped body. Heavy weight, heard me? Squat 3 times a week. Bench to failure twice a week. Fuck genetics, fuck bone structure. Don't be an excuse making faggot. Your back will perpetually hurt for a while and you will feel like you can never walk up stairs, but you will build your body. Torture your core, eat like an animal, and grow into a beast. To focus on your shoulders definition, just do finesse lifts.. those…
/r/askTRP25/05/15 07:02 AM
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Yes, it is. If you doubt that, you're either still in denial or you just don't understand exactly what we're talking about here yet.
/r/askTRP23/05/15 01:41 PM
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Listen, here's what's important. She went out with you once, and you made out with her. She wants to see you again, and she's wearing a smile saying things like "i'm so embarrassed we made out" "you are a bad influence.." etc. She wants you to keep seducing her. She'd sleep with you in a heartbeat if you had another night of fun with her, and then blatantly took her home for sex. You just need to relax. You wanna sleep with her? Take her out again, then take her home. Don't wanna sleep with her?…
/r/askTRP22/05/15 12:21 AM
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Interesting. Based on the title, I clicked your shit imagining i'd have to scold you. In context: fair enough. grand scheme of things, that's how I get tinder chicks attention too. Give them something to think about, then fuck off for a few days and get a cell# after they eventually hit me back. Weeds out the majority of the attention whores who just want to get tinder texts all day
/r/askTRP21/05/15 04:33 AM
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There's only 1 way to fuck it up, and that's to be a nervous wreck. First 'real date'? Nice. You're probably going to have to go through at least 1 date being a nervous wreck to learn this yourself. It's fine man. You just have to relax. Be calm, have fun. When you are calm, and she can tell that you're just having fun and you aren't some nervous calculated anti-shit-test-machine, then it doesn't matter what you do any more. You can hug her when you see her, you can not hug her when you see her.…
/r/askTRP17/05/15 06:30 PM
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Mhm
/r/askTRP17/05/15 05:54 PM
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implie? really? Also, your suggestion of a response is dumb.. what are we, writing her a fucking email? Just respond with 'good', or 'that makes sense', or just don't respond at all. Then meet up for drinks and seduce her like any other woman, if you want to. edit: -4? Y'all trippin. OP hasn't seen this woman's vagina. She hasn't seen his dick. All of the shit that /u/needathrowawayplease is suggesting has merit to it in the grand scheme of things, but it isn't going to get OP anywhere. She's ma…
/r/askTRP17/05/15 05:31 PM
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Hahaha what universe do you live in where calling the police on your LTR leads her to respect you and want to fuck you ?
/r/askTRP13/05/15 09:35 PM
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Damn homie. I read it all, but I guess I didn't need to. You summed it up very well in the title. You lost frame and got angry. You can't do that. Learn your lesson. I wrote up a post a few weeks ago that was about building tension. The very first point I made in the post was about how with women, you build tension until you either fuck her or break frame. You might benefit from skimming it as a reminder of a few things. Good luck man
/r/askTRP13/05/15 09:30 PM
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Thanks for posting this. TRP is full of wise men with good insight, but this in particular is a rare gem that cuts through the fat, meat, and bullshit, and goes straight for the bones of what we all need to understand here to thrive. Thank you for taking the time. I hope it helps some men that haven't had the life experiences some of us have had cement our views, maintain their focus.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 06:08 AM
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I live in Colorado right now, and I love it. People are flocking here to support the movement. Consequentially, the entire state is growing fast and it's businesses/economy/demographic is thriving along the ride. Lots of money here - new businesses, job/career opportunities, and generally like-minded people that are success-oriented big picture thinkers. Good place to be right now. I feel safe here too - big disconnect from Detroit, in a lot of ways. In the whole world? I'm tempted to say the Un…
/r/askTRP11/05/15 04:21 AM
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Thank you for taking the time to share this with us. I hope that I never find myself in that situation - but these days, it seems like there's just no way to be certain that it won't happen anyway whether you deserve it or not. We all need to be prepared to protect ourselves. So again, thank you for taking the time.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 10:23 PM
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Good. Remember the lesson you learned about frame. It will indiscriminately serve you well.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 11:50 PM
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.. what exactly did you think I was referring to when I chose the word "here"? I'm not interested in an argument, but this I've gotta hear. Break it down /u/CisWhiteMaelstrom, what on earth are you even talking about? You officially lost me
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 10:11 PM
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There's nothing original here. All we do here at TRP is remind each other of the truths that never change. Like I said, after the fact it occurred to me that some of my TRP friends might benefit from this particular analysis. You deliberately mistake intent, to try to build a soap box? I dare say you don't belong here, but you sound convicted so towards the benefit of all I will choose to say nothing beyond this. Again, good luck.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 09:45 PM
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No doubt, man. Thanks for taking the time to imput with quality.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 09:20 PM
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Interestingly enough, I don't think being a chess player really helps you grasp how the game's core postulates correlate to the red pill concepts that stem from them. Quite the opposite, in fact. I don't disagree with some of what you said, but I also think you all-around miss the points. Are things the way that you speculate they could potentially be? Or is the game played how it's played and won for a reason? Do you want to win or lose? Questions we all must answer for ourselves, I suppose. Go…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 09:02 PM
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You mistake the fact that I don't know you or care about how you choose to live your life, as a 'loss for words'. I'm not interested in defending my views to you. You'll have to start thinking for yourself and thinking much bigger than you currently seem to be, if you want to survive. I can't do it for you. Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/15 03:49 PM
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I see the points that you are so irately trying to stumble through making. I also still think you're wrong about the vast majority of it, and haven't thought any of it through. To each their own, I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/15 02:28 PM
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If only I were so moved, by the sentiments of those who don't see things my way. I am an opinionated, selfish mother fucker, I will immediately give you that. But I think you're wrong. There's always more. Sexuality is in our nature, and if you aren't embracing it and engaging in it then there should always, defintely be a real reason that you're conscious of and working on. Denying your baser instincts their ability to help you thrive isn't healthy. The whole "just accept the stuff thats wrong …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/15 04:51 AM
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I think we all had to learn this lesson the hard way at least once before taking it to heart and acting accordingly. Live and learn.. Now you know. Be good, man
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 09:57 PM
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The 'dad bod' huh. Sigh. Thank the fucking lord that I am a human being with a brain. Sometimes I wonder about a lot of the other men out there.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 09:29 PM
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OmegaRule #1 : If you want to be a dedicated plate spinner, learning to stamp out subtle shit tests before they become a problem is going to pay off dividends in the long run. Small tests turn into larger ones. And the more emboldened the terrorists become, the more likely they are going to try and bring down your twin towers. Don't let ISIS win. You had me rolling here. Your post is full of many of the things that we should be constantly reminding ourselves/each other of. Thanks for taking the …
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 05:45 PM
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You would if you were seduced by a high caliber man, and that's the truth. FWIW, I don't enjoy sex very much right now either. I haven't had sex in over a month. The stuff I posted wasn't even about sex, believe it or not. It's basic, basic, basic TRP. It's much more about understanding the truth, and spending your time/energy in the right places towards the ends you desire. Whether it's sex, money, fame, your health, property, a marriage, a partner, 500 sluts to fuck routinely, chasing your pas…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/15 02:00 AM
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Yep, there are plenty of women who are evil like that too. They are even better at hiding it - it would take years of dating her and really understanding her idiosyncrasies to notice the difference. Even then, you have to be willing to accept it, which is a whole separate challenge. Although the reminders from my personal life experience are generally sufficient enough to keep me focused, this is something that all men should constantly remind themselves/each other of, lest we find ourselves com…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/15 10:35 PM
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Yep. It is what it is. I don't have that evil gene in me - I prefer to try to be good. I'm not the guy that's fucking your girlfriend/wife. But I could be. It would be easy. And there's some evil, evil people out there that know all of the same things that I know and more, but lack the moral compass to refrain from using it towards ends that hurt people that don't deserve it. I think it's far better to understand that and act accordingly than to just pretend it isn't happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/15 10:17 PM
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I think that your question is inherently flawed, because most (read: most) men don't get led to temptation NEARLY as often as their female partner-in-crime does. When he goes out without her, he doesn't get approached by women that intend to get into his pants. From that angle, "staying faithful" is simpler for men. If a beautiful woman came up and tried to give him a blowjob, and he wasn't satisfied with his wife at the time, he might end up doing it. But in the real world, this doesn't happen …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/15 07:04 PM
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That's not what I said. But if her husband isn't pushing all her buttons the way she needs them pushed to thrive, and a different man who takes care of himself and knows how to turn her on decides to go out of his way to try to fuck her, then things like having a husband and the length of her marriage have pretty much zero bearing on the situation any more. It happens all too often to ignore. In fact, lots of men devote the majority of their energy (in regard to their sex lives, anyway) towards …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/15 06:28 PM
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All of them. Yes, all of them. Single, dating, engaged, married, happy, sad, skinny, fat, young, old. All of them are either already having casual sex, or would be begging for it in a heartbeat if the right man came along and pushed her buttons properly. This is normal stuff that doesn't merit much further discussion. The people who don't know this are likely the ones who aren't getting laid very often.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/15 05:08 PM
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My point was more along the lines of "recognize that's what you're doing, and act accordingly when she responds the same way they all do.. lest you lose her respect and interest forever". But yeah, sounds like you have a grip on the basic idea.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 11:53 AM
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She's just trying to get under your skin and hurt you because she's hurt from the break up. This is painfully typical, don't hold it against her. Just go get your clothes back from her (or don't), and then move on. She's playing a game with you, and you're playing back. Stop
/r/askTRP12/04/15 01:38 PM
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Depends what he wants, you know? If he wants a girl to skype with for 1-3 hours daily, then she sounds perfect. If he actually wants to meet her, then no obviously this is way too much give with no take on his end, and he needs to pull the trigger on a face-to-face ASAP instead of acting like her friend and talking to her on the internet forever. Likely, it is already far too late though.
/r/askTRP06/04/15 02:35 AM
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I think many men have been there before. Have you considered starting to view being good in bed as a task that you can train for? It's not all about sex and porn. Let's start talking about your diet. Let's talk about how much you work out, and the plethora of other things that are going to directly impact your libido. How honest do you want to live, homie? If you struggle with libido and enjoying sex, cutting out porn is a start.. but it's not the end. When you live a healthy lifestyle, take car…
/r/askTRP31/03/15 07:49 AM
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I think this is solid advice, OP. Definitely worth considering.
/r/askTRP31/03/15 06:16 AM
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Feel you. Tempted to try to pick your post apart and try to find a specific place to agree, because in the grand scope of things I don't think that you're wrong. But life experience has taught me that there are certain aspects of the Mars/Venus disconnect that happen on a biological level, and she can't control them. Every woman, from the middle aged moms, to college women, to proactive angry feminists, to dominant women that "find themselves 1/10 on fetlife and probably much lower in the real w…
/r/askTRP31/03/15 05:16 AM
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anyway on my part i get a little mad sometimes cuz i get into a hard next mode im almost too quick to next... i know i could still milk it if i just played it cool in those moments. .. too much fuckin testosterone i just get so fuckin spastic at female stupidity Feel you on all that, homie. From what you posted, I'd say the thing that's holding you back the most is that you actually care if she goes and gets some dick from someone else. If that didn't matter to you, you'd have more power. You ar…
/r/askTRP31/03/15 04:55 AM
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No
/r/askTRP30/03/15 10:00 PM
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I have something for you to consider, friend. There are many different parts of growing up and transitioning into an adult, and the big ones all happen at different times. You are young. I don't know how much you will even read this post, so i'll just start small and hope you keep on moving. I still want to take time to share with you one small realization, that helped ME keep on moving when I didn't know which way to go. Listening? Silence has a sound. Silence is power. Silence is always an opt…
/r/askTRP30/03/15 09:43 PM
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Well hola mamacita
/r/askTRP30/03/15 09:11 PM
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Last week or whatever when that Kassandra "poacher hunter" pic hit the front page, I texted it to my pops. "Two fine specimens. Talk soon. love, sloth_with_a_44". We both celebrated her fucking sexy body and her .308. It's got nothing to do with reality, and as long as you realize that then why fight momentum? She was sexy and so was her rifle. "Pedestalization" isn't real - not when the scope of the situation you're referring to isn't "reality". Photoshopped celebs, cosplayers, porn, photoshopp…
/r/askTRP30/03/15 09:06 PM
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Feel you homie. Red pill is about the truth. Nothing more, nothing less. Welcome.
/r/askTRP30/03/15 08:50 PM
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Listen to me, man. It's "safe to assume" that every single woman that you ever have sex with, is submissive and into bdsm/rough sex. Every single one of them. They all want it. Most of them won't admit it to you - some of them won't even admit it to themselves - but that doesn't change anything. Let me put this a different way, in case you don't understand. If you have sex with any women, and you don't dominate her (in a passionate way, like she has a choice but only in an emergency sense), then…
/r/askTRP30/03/15 08:43 PM
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I'm 24 and personally, I enjoy older women just as much as younger women (for different reasons). Also, the bald look is fucking bad ass. Sounds like it's about time you started embracing it homie - check out some famous men who rock shaved heads, see how they work with their style. Work with it, not against it. We're all dealt our hands, and we do our best to work with what we've got. That's the truth. You seem anxious regardless.. but see, it aint about your shoes nigga, its about the way you …
/r/askTRP30/03/15 07:59 PM
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You don't 'do' anything, because all of that "she flop on plans, do i wait to re-schedule or set up plans to wait for her to flop flop on my flip flop after 3 days 4 hours and 36 minutes can i txt her" stuff doesn't really matter. You have a life, remember? If you want to see her again, holler at her. If you don't, don't. You're over-thinking it homie. She can (likely) tell, and it's unbecoming. If that's not how you really feel, then do yourself a favor and pretend like it is until it starts to…
/r/askTRP30/03/15 07:35 PM
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