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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Markers of Abuse I'm gagging. I had an ex like this who would use his childhood trauma to justify his actions. "My childhood made me do it."	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/08/21 07:50 PM
10	Markers of Abuse Beware of covert narcissists. They are the most dangerous because of how subtle it is. They come off as the sweet, nice guy who is insecure, has low self-esteem and low self-confidence. They always need validation and play "the victim" when really they want to drain you emotionally only to discard you when you literally have nothing left to give because they left you as a shell of your former self. They hate themselves so their goal is to make you hate yourself as much as they hate themselves. P…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/08/21 07:47 PM
3	Markers of Abuse My ex would start a convo with me about how he was confused about his feelings for me and naturally, I said "ok can't be with someone confused about me. Bye." I'd walk away, he'd blow up my phone, show up at my door, not respect my boundaries and when I would agree to see him he would love bomb me and tell me how much he wanted to be with me. He broke up with me several times and it was always like this. Then his sister had the audacity to say I was the master manipulator. Who knows wtf he told …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/08/21 07:43 PM
2	Markers of Abuse so happy for you!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/08/21 07:36 PM
5	Markers of Abuse Same. My ex and I had this toxic pattern because he would start all of our fights at night and it would trigger my anxiety harrrrrd	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/08/21 07:34 PM

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