slothvegas Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
12	I need support, I think I need to break up with him I went back and read your previous post on a different sub for context — just based on what you wrote, I think it’s very suspicious that he, believing you 100% want kids, acted all-in on the idea before suddenly pulling a reversal. The sense I get is that he was telling you what you wanted to hear in the short term so that you’d stick around while he figured out whether he wanted to get serious. I could be wrong, and I’m sorry to say it, but it sounds like he “changed his mind” about kids to del…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/03/22 11:27 PM
5	Just a reminder of the FDS handbook about the benefits of being high maintenance What a nutcase — his ego couldn’t handle a few hours of silence? It’s no wonder I’ve heard several women say to set a boundary and/or be unavailable early on, to see how a guy responds. Glad you saw who he really is before you wasted any more time on him!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/03/22 07:11 PM
84	What do we think about a man wanting to be treated like a trophy wife? The difference between a woman staying home with the kids and a man doing it, for me, is that the man doesn’t also have to spend most of a year growing/birthing a baby and then recovering from it. So when a guy with this kind of freeloading attitude he says he’ll be a stay-at-home dad…well first, bold of him to assume he should be contributing to the gene pool, but it’s also just another way of expecting you to do the hard work while he takes in the accolades for being so “progressive” and an “i…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/03/22 01:48 AM
15	Vetting Vetting, imagine being with a man for 30 yrs plus and he doesn’t love you, only as a best friend…. This is sad. So he admits that he’s wasted 30 years of a steadfast, supportive, amazing woman’s life pining after…not even his ex, who he says was actually awful, but his imaginary version of his ex? What a delusional chode. He’s chosen to be unhappy and he deserves it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/02/22 02:40 PM
96	Why do dating apps bring out the worst in men? \| the guardian article LOL, yes! And they had plenty of it to begin with!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/02/22 06:59 PM
2	What is this the FDS take on “free the nipple” movement? It’s more about “embracing sexuality” (objectifying yourself) and proving you’re hot than it is about actually desexualizing our breasts. This is exactly it, you put it perfectly. It’s on par with “Slut Walks” in my opinion — I think the intentions are good, but the cultural climate is entirely wrong.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/02/22 12:17 AM
22	When being a pornsick pickme trying to fulfill an unasked for male fantasy goes wrong It does feel off. She made a point of mentioning the alcohol, so I guess if a lot of drinking was involved, that could explain his agreeing to a threesome he never asked for and his more uninhibited behavior during. But it also makes the whole situation feel even grosser, since without more information about the general vibe in there and whether he was at all reluctant at first, it sounds like it was set up so he’s get drunk and go along. That’s nasty. Of course, it doesn’t explain his sudden ab…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/02/22 02:51 PM
17	This poor girl needs saving. Porn sick, limp dick... and abusive. Huh, that would be an uncomfortable amount of detail for my mom and her friend to know about my sex life, but okay. The only advice that OP and her friend should be giving is to jettison his ass — besides all the other glaring problems, asking her to blow him while he watches porn is just so gross.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/02/22 12:40 AM