slowupwardclimb Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Almost 22 years old and still a virgin It sucks not having what you want. I get that. Try to be honest with yourself for a moment - do you want to change? Are you ready for it? If someone gave you the steps, would you take them? Sometimes we’re not ready, and that’s okay.	/r/seduction	04/11/24 02:28 AM
8	Why Don't I have a Date with a Woman Right Now? All right, best of luck.	/r/seduction	11/10/24 09:30 PM
7	Why Don't I have a Date with a Woman Right Now? I’m sure you are plenty educated, but you need to dial back your language for everyday conversation. Also, achievements, academic or not, aren’t really a factor for many women. They’re not checking out your scorecard like you’re an Olympic athlete. At the most it’s a backdrop of you being secure and confident. You’re selling “features”, but they’re buying an experience.	/r/seduction	11/10/24 09:14 PM
14	Guys with a reputation of being “that guy that only talks to girls”, how do you deal with it? Talk to everyone.	/r/seduction	25/08/24 02:09 AM
1	How can I navigate intimacy with a woman while being transparent about not wanting exclusivity or commitment, without causing her to feel misled or upset? Sounds like the wrong people for your goals then. Improve yourself and keep playing the numbers game.	/r/seduction	10/08/24 01:00 AM
1	How can I navigate intimacy with a woman while being transparent about not wanting exclusivity or commitment, without causing her to feel misled or upset? Be honest. Express the fun you want to share, and find people who are interested.	/r/seduction	10/08/24 12:25 AM
1	How to get rid of my fear of initiating conversation with woman? What are you afraid of, specifically? Identify that first.	/r/seduction	08/08/24 08:24 PM
3	How to have an abundance mindset without current abundance Sure, people are different. I just doubt you cannot benefit or improve with effort. But either way, I wish you the best, and hope you find a path towards happiness and success as you define it.	/r/seduction	08/08/24 02:24 AM
3	How to have an abundance mindset without current abundance Everyone who has ever succeeded at something had, at some point in the past, not succeeded, and in fact, assuredly failed quite a lot.	/r/seduction	08/08/24 12:56 AM
6	I am 40 years old but concerned about daygame... Time is only wasted if you do not learn from it.	/r/seduction	01/08/24 01:37 AM
12	How do you guys respond to "I have a bf" in a playful way "Me too, but here we are!"	/r/seduction	28/07/24 09:59 PM
2	Is this hopeless while you aren’t who you want to be Your situation itself is not hopeless, but it sounds like you kind of are. If you have no passion for anything, then maybe you need to expose yourself to more things: ideas, experiences, possibilities. Do you think life is just going to show up at your front door one day with all the answers? Get out there! And yes, lack of purpose is less attractive than having purpose.	/r/seduction	08/06/24 03:20 AM
3	How do you know if you’re being a “nice guy”? Let’s be clear, I’m not an expert. You just want to be outcome independent. You have to not give a shit if she’s into it or not, to need nothing in return. Doesn’t mean you’re not interested, just that you’re comfortable with whatever happens. So express interest and attraction almost immediately if you feel that way, but in a way that makes her a part of it rather than just the recipient. As in, complimenting something about her that looks great, something about her style or the effort she made…	/r/seduction	07/04/24 03:50 AM
3	How do you know if you’re being a “nice guy”? Don’t hold ulterior motives or hide your desires. Communicate clearly, without fear. Attraction is not a problem. Communicating attraction effectively without pressure or expectation is the key.	/r/seduction	07/04/24 12:53 AM
6	Me (31M) and my friend (27F) behave as if we were a couple, yet she is adamant about us having a romentic relationship and I don't know what to expect From the way you describe it, her words and signals could not be more clear. You should consider giving yourself a chance to be interested in other people. If that means you need to start winding down your connection with her, then that may be the thing to do. I think you could probably find someone who likes you in all the ways you want, not just some. It's all a numbers game. Gotta play to win, my friend.	/r/seduction	03/04/24 12:31 AM
21	Why is it that a girl will desire you more when you’re toxic? Confidence and focus are attractive. “Showering” her with attention may have communicated to her (true or not) that you did not have enough going on, and perhaps triggered fears you were needy and seeking validation.	/r/seduction	12/03/24 05:27 PM