sluggyslime Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Are we as men working too hard to get women? I think you’re overthinking it here. Yes, you should be trying- but so should she. It’s not like you’re the only one who has things to bring to a relationship. A relationship is two (or more) people who try equally as hard to make sure that the other is feeling cared for, loved and treated well. But also I feel like because men are so eager, it gives us real pussy power- so to speak. Maybe not eager, but I feel like (while yes you should treat women well) all people should be equally chasing her…	/r/seduction	16/06/22 04:48 AM
23	If a women sees no value in you she will never respect you no matter good of a person you are or how good you treat her Reality is all a matter of perspective, my dude.	/r/seduction	29/03/22 07:08 PM
1	If having sex is supposed to be an evolutionary and biological need, why is it so damn hard to get laid?! You sound very aggressively intent on trying to make it happen. You should probably just take a step back and be a little more casual about what your intentions are because women can definitely tell when you’re trying too hard to get fucked. The way you talk, you kind of sound like the type of guy who will yell at a girl that you’re a nice guy if she rejects you? Idk man just how it seems. Focus on doing you for what you want out of life right now. You ever hear the phrase if you watch the pot t…	/r/seduction	23/02/22 03:28 PM
1	If having sex is supposed to be an evolutionary and biological need, why is it so damn hard to get laid?! I mean… no we’re really not? Idk at least I’m not. We may not explicitly say what we want but we definitely show it in other ways	/r/seduction	23/02/22 03:19 PM
1	If having sex is supposed to be an evolutionary and biological need, why is it so damn hard to get laid?! It also depends on your ability to keep a conversation, or I guess for starters what you have in your bio. That was the first place I always looked- to see what kind of person they are	/r/seduction	23/02/22 03:17 PM
2	Girl responded to me saying that she’s boring, how do I respond to that You could ask her why she thinks that way, it might be that someone told her that once so she’s got a complex about it now.	/r/seduction	23/02/22 09:11 AM
1	Please Work on your looks Ahhhh yeah I’m west coaaaaast babyyyyyy. Hahahaha yeah it is a bit different. I feel like east coast is more business and to a point	/r/seduction	19/02/22 05:19 AM
2	Please Work on your looks 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 oh my god the visual. No but really. Maybe take a walk through the park and say hello to people as you pass? Idk what to tell you man. I guess it’s different as a guy 🤷‍♀️ But I’m also hella short and not very intimidating so there’s that. I have to make up for my lack of height somewhere. 😂	/r/seduction	19/02/22 04:16 AM
0	Is it a good idea to put myself in a situation with a big potential for awkwardness just to get out of my comfort zone? It's a party where everyone but me is the same ethnicity, I don't know most of them and there's a girl there I like whose probably gonna be hit on by a ton of guys. Tell yourself you can leave at any time, because you can. No one is going to keep you there if you don’t want to be there. But you might actually like it	/r/seduction	19/02/22 01:40 AM
1	Is it a good idea to put myself in a situation with a big potential for awkwardness just to get out of my comfort zone? It's a party where everyone but me is the same ethnicity, I don't know most of them and there's a girl there I like whose probably gonna be hit on by a ton of guys. Go, the worst that happens is that you feel uncomfortable and leave. But you won’t know until you go. 🤷‍♀️ you’re probably young and you should live your life, have and make experiences that you haven’t ever had before. 🙂 You don’t want to live the rest of your life thinking about all the things you missed because you weren’t sure how you would feel if you actually went.	/r/seduction	19/02/22 01:39 AM
1	Please Work on your looks Then take time and sit at a coffee shop and nonchalantly make eye contact with random women with no pressure. The no eye contact, I can tell you from my own personal experience/preference, is a turn off and shows low confidence. Maybe you need to find some good therapy podcasts that help boost your self image first. 🤷‍♀️ But just try to work on one thing at a time until you feel comfortable enough to add something else. Like start with no pressure eye contact (which I find is easier with masks a…	/r/seduction	19/02/22 01:31 AM
1	Please Work on your looks A lot of you guys on this thread are really pathetic pushing him down to make yourself feel better, it gives off little dick energy instead of actually trying to help and giving productive feedback.	/r/seduction	18/02/22 01:21 PM
1	Please Work on your looks Are you sure it’s not because you come off as gay? I’m not asking in a mean way, I’m genuinely curious. I’m not saying be ultra macho- because let’s be honest, no one likes that. But I honestly wonder if that’s why you’re having issues with that as well. I saw you don’t approach women though, and confidence in approach is most likely your #1 issue. Maybe you should try working on saying hello and making eye contact and slowly working up to approaching. I used to be very shy and not want to go up…	/r/seduction	18/02/22 01:19 PM
1	[deleted by user] If there’s tears happening she’s not turned on enough 😬	/r/seduction	26/01/22 10:05 PM
1	[deleted by user] It depends on what kind of person she is. If a guy tells me it’s not much or makes jokes about how small it is.. i know it’s going to be BIG. If you’re happy with your size and confident you can tell her what size it actually is, you could say like I’m great at hitting the right spots (if you are).. otherwise it’s been a while since I’ve really talked to guys, but the fact that she straight up asked means she just wants a straight up answer, unless otherwise hinted by flirtatious conversation ar…	/r/seduction	26/01/22 10:02 PM
2	If you have sex with a girl but don’t orgasm did you still lose your virginity? Uhhh lol Penetration counts as sex	/r/seduction	24/01/22 08:24 AM
1	What do you think about a woman who is just as aggressive as you? It’s mean to call a dominant woman a dude. 🤷‍♀️	/r/seduction	21/01/22 11:31 PM
2	What do you think about a woman who is just as aggressive as you? 100000%. We want someone who can match our energy. For me, I want a calm and collected man but also someone who has an unspoken dominance. Am I dominant? When I need to be, but I am also a quiet dominant. You don’t have to be loud and if you feel like you do then you’re not really the dominant one- are you? It’s a healthy balance. But it’s really attractive to have a high level of confidence and I think that a lot of times it comes off as dominant.	/r/seduction	21/01/22 10:54 PM
1	What do you think about a woman who is just as aggressive as you? It’s a good thing you’re probably not their type then.	/r/seduction	21/01/22 10:50 PM
1	What do you think about a woman who is just as aggressive as you? Not all dominant women are loud and vulgar. That’s a gross generalization and honestly puts women back a few steps.	/r/seduction	21/01/22 10:46 PM
1	What do you think about a woman who is just as aggressive as you? Why? because they know you’re beneath them?	/r/seduction	21/01/22 10:44 PM
0	What do you think about a woman who is just as aggressive as you? I’m sorry, sexual market value??? What in the fu-	/r/seduction	21/01/22 10:43 PM
1	What do you think about a woman who is just as aggressive as you? Why are you writing a post about me bro	/r/seduction	21/01/22 10:42 PM
5	Do girls really notice when guys are wearing colognes? Throw it away!	/r/seduction	08/01/22 07:07 PM
1	Do girls really notice when guys are wearing colognes? All. The. Time. Please, please, please be smelling good gentlemen. It’ll give you an edge on your dating game 😏 I absolutely love when guys wear cologne. You just have to make sure it’s not too much, or smelling like an old man. But yes, seriously. Wear it. We notice.	/r/seduction	08/01/22 07:03 PM
1	How quickly do yall reply to texts/messages? Not always	/r/seduction	07/01/22 04:16 PM
4	How quickly do yall reply to texts/messages? 1000000% yes. Be mature about it. The reason dating is so hard? Games and immaturity. Just be straight up	/r/seduction	07/01/22 04:13 PM
1	How quickly do yall reply to texts/messages? I don’t like playing games, I reply when I see a message. I personally don’t understand why people make other “wait for a response”, it’s so childish.	/r/seduction	07/01/22 04:10 PM
2	Should I be going after a committed relationship if I know I am not presenting the best version of me at the moment and need time to self improve? Honestly this mindset is toxic. If you’re always looking for the next best person or relationship you’re never going to be happy and no one is ever going to be good enough. Having a partner you can grow with, whether that’s just you or together is super important in my opinion.	/r/seduction	07/01/22 03:32 PM
1	When your Tinder match is less than a km away... (Next day follow up) Okay but 3 years later, what’s the deets.	/r/seduction	05/01/22 08:59 AM