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6	29 > 1471	General	slugsnot	/r/MensRights	21/12/19 08:56 AM
0	[rant] Who's libido is it really?	Rant/Venting	slugsnot	/r/TheRedPill	26/03/16 08:48 PM

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1	The whole #MeToo movement was a lot more about empowering false rape accusations than actually exposing rapists 1. https://medium.com/@meholstein/why-women-make-false-rape-accusations-938ffdf9a181 She quotes the 2-10% are provably false stat. She also says: This article has gotten a lot of responses from people, men in particular. Even some from the MGTOW or Men’s Rights groups. I’d like to clarify that I think sexism is a real and serious problem in America today. More in this follow up I wrote where she says "feminism is very necessary in our society because sexism still runs rampant" 2. https://www.cha…	/r/MensRights	08/01/19 07:12 AM
1	The whole #MeToo movement was a lot more about empowering false rape accusations than actually exposing rapists I understood all of that when I cited the report. Do you have any data that is more reliable?	/r/MensRights	07/01/19 05:42 PM
1	The whole #MeToo movement was a lot more about empowering false rape accusations than actually exposing rapists Can you provide a link that says it was repeated 3 times in the civilian space? I'll forgive your personal slander.	/r/MensRights	07/01/19 05:41 PM
3	Imagine if this was a man? pussy pass	/r/MensRights	03/01/19 06:26 AM
1	The whole #MeToo movement was a lot more about empowering false rape accusations than actually exposing rapists Bullshit, you know full well that people will infere that 92% are true from what you said I was literally just paraphrasing the report. You are the one adding in the "only" word. The reason 8% is significant, is because it's what we can outright dismiss as false alligations. Any larger numbers are speculative. If you have additional data, I am happy to look at it. But we have to be careful with heresay and guesstimations and philosophical thoughts and annecdotes and introspection because so so o…	/r/MensRights	03/01/19 06:04 AM
3	The whole #MeToo movement was a lot more about empowering false rape accusations than actually exposing rapists The Air Force’s basic military training program has overhauled their policies in the last 30 years in response to their known sexual abuse / harassment / rape problems simultaneously showing that (hopefully) human nature (even if driven by policy) can change, and that the Air Force for one, had a known problem even as late at 2012 when their policies were still being revised. Even ignoring this policy discussion, reporting of rape in the military from the 80's is specifically hard to compare wit…	/r/MensRights	03/01/19 02:23 AM
0	The whole #MeToo movement was a lot more about empowering false rape accusations than actually exposing rapists Well... no. I didn't say 92% are true. I said "The FBI estimates around 8% of rape accusations are unfounded after investigating them" which is a pretty tight paraphrasing of: The “unfounded” rate, or percentage of complaints determined through investigation to be false, is higher for forcible rape than for any other Index crime. Eight percent of forcible rape complaints in 1996 were “unfounded” I don't believe I commented on, or eluded to, any generalization which could apply to the 92%.	/r/MensRights	03/01/19 12:24 AM
-2	The whole #MeToo movement was a lot more about empowering false rape accusations than actually exposing rapists Thats a 34 year old paper about rape in the Air Force. Maybe we can find something a little more recent or non-military?	/r/MensRights	03/01/19 12:06 AM
-5	The whole #MeToo movement was a lot more about empowering false rape accusations than actually exposing rapists Bawahahahahaha, oh my feminist, you tried to use that stat in the wrong place, for we are very familiar with that FBI report here and it doesn't say that at all. So far everyone has been respectful. I'm not a feminist. It's 8% confirmed false accusations, usually by confessions, not an absolute % of false accusations. Well no, what it says is that when they investigate rape, that find that 8% are baseless. Now so far I haven't seen any evidence that supports the 65% claim. If you can provide som…	/r/MensRights	02/01/19 11:56 PM
-1	The whole #MeToo movement was a lot more about empowering false rape accusations than actually exposing rapists Can I see the studies where the 65% comes from?	/r/MensRights	02/01/19 06:45 PM
-3	The whole #MeToo movement was a lot more about empowering false rape accusations than actually exposing rapists Is this common?	/r/MensRights	02/01/19 05:55 PM
-25	The whole #MeToo movement was a lot more about empowering false rape accusations than actually exposing rapists Well... no. It's not a vile movement. The radical feminists you dislike are always going to be there, and they will use whatever channel is available to attack men. The FBI estimates around 8% of rape accusations are unfounded after investigating them. (source: https://ucr.fbi.gov/crime-in-the-u.s/1996/96sec2.pdf) We can debate statistics and reporting rates etc., but I still believe that support resources need to reach victims. All resources, especially social resources, can be abused. If our c…	/r/MensRights	02/01/19 05:50 PM
-12	Scientists conducting the world’s largest study of sex differences in the brain have found that men and women think differently. Men and women are different. They have different skills. They are biologically attracted to different jobs. Deal with it. I was attempting to say that we should not be stuck in a local minima where there are clear winners and losers. I think we can find a place where we all care equally for one another and actively work to elimenate bias as a whole. A global minima is to say "a global fairness" - which is what I hope we all desire.	/r/MensRights	14/11/18 10:08 AM
-12	Scientists conducting the world’s largest study of sex differences in the brain have found that men and women think differently. Men and women are different. They have different skills. They are biologically attracted to different jobs. Deal with it. I mean, you can still have a systemic bias, right? I try to understand both sides on this topic. I agree with you that we should not assume, but I also respect the idea that accepted norms should be challenged, that we can fall into local minima, that there are many arbitrary social and cultural norms which need be approached from fresh angles. In fact, it is the very basis of mens rights that we together agree that social assumptions should be challenged and that the normal way of thinking is n…	/r/MensRights	14/11/18 09:19 AM
7	Double standards getting your blood boiling What the fuck does the wedding have to do with anything at all?!	/r/MensRights	16/10/18 05:38 PM
3	So, women now have literal privilege in the law. This is beyond crazy. if momma aint happy, aint nobody happy... :\	/r/MensRights	11/10/18 10:57 AM
1	“That’s a chance I’M willing to take (of letting innocent men be thrown in prison” meteorite	/r/MensRights	24/09/18 06:54 PM
1	Imagine if it was dads instead of moms You should crosspost this to /r/childfree	/r/MensRights	17/09/18 06:57 AM
3	As much as I have serious concerns about #metoo being taken too far, I think it’s worth acknowledging that brazen sexual harassment of women by men does happen. This clip is an example of it. > has also been exploited by individuals to further their own careers. oh yes sir it has. It is a political maneuver for any female who wants to usurp a man. We just stripped the chairmanship from our house of representatives democratic caucus here in WA because he fucking sent this girl too many text messages back in college. Literally.	/r/MensRights	09/07/18 04:25 AM
7	34 Men Discuss Society’s Insane Double Standards That Favor Women And Hurt Men Or how men have to die for their country...	/r/MensRights	02/07/18 04:54 PM
3	How to be HIGH VALUE - The 5 Traits of a High Value Man Pt. 1 I really enjoyed that. Thank you. It seemed like a more narrow topic than the broad concept of "high value" but it was enlightening nonetheless. r/GetMotivated would love this.	/r/MensRights	27/06/18 05:25 PM
6	Woman uses machete to rape man. Not charged with rape. Their equality is based on ~~convenience~~ privilege!	/r/MensRights	26/06/18 06:30 PM
23	Male privilege shown here.... from r/jordanpeterson homelessness, jail terms...	/r/MensRights	24/06/18 03:33 PM
24	Even the UN has been plagued by feminism. Honestly, it's in the job description. I'm not sure how to protect journalists. They put their lives on the line for us.	/r/MensRights	05/05/18 10:25 PM
1	This is what happens as a female when you make respectful posts on your facebook about men's rights. Facebook hates men. She doesn't seem like she is raging....	/r/MensRights	02/05/18 06:22 AM
10	Husband protects wife and saves her life, wounds are so massive that he turns into a vegetable, wife dumps him She was well in control of her behavior, but as I said, I don't know everything about it!	/r/MensRights	20/04/18 05:08 AM
6	Husband protects wife and saves her life, wounds are so massive that he turns into a vegetable, wife dumps him Can't you justify any immoral behavior that way?	/r/MensRights	19/04/18 08:11 PM
1	Husband protects wife and saves her life, wounds are so massive that he turns into a vegetable, wife dumps him Would you try?	/r/MensRights	19/04/18 08:10 PM
40	Husband protects wife and saves her life, wounds are so massive that he turns into a vegetable, wife dumps him My cousin's girlfriend of 8 years got into a car accident that fucked her up so bad she had steel plates installed in her head. He stuck with her for years of rehabilitation retaining her body, rebuilding their relationship from scratch because she lost so much memory. She ended up cheating on him and then leaving him for the other man. I mean, maybe the car accident knocked something loose but I can't help but feel like it wasn't still ruthless. I don't know enough details, but it still pissed …	/r/MensRights	19/04/18 08:09 PM
2	The premise being that men don't literally do exactly this and more already slaving their lives away to gain the excess income to spend on women's desires... I actually do all this shit and guess what... It doesn't help..	/r/MensRights	08/04/18 03:32 AM
1	The way the media talks about women you would think they were just freed from slavery. Does anybody else get tired of this? in our crappy system theres only one other party to hedge your bets. So I'm actually friends with a state rep. I have shared this view with him and we had some good conversations. I consider him "one of the good guys" in that he understands and is interested in the complexity of politics as well as its ramifications. What he said is that "two parties is not good, but it seems like an inevitability". We had some good talk on this topic. What do you think? Is it inevitable that we will end up with…	/r/MensRights	08/04/18 12:56 AM
1	The way the media talks about women you would think they were just freed from slavery. Does anybody else get tired of this? Are we talking Trump here??	/r/MensRights	06/04/18 09:04 PM
10	The way the media talks about women you would think they were just freed from slavery. Does anybody else get tired of this? Thank you, sincerely. You gave me a little solace.	/r/MensRights	06/04/18 11:17 AM
2	The way the media talks about women you would think they were just freed from slavery. Does anybody else get tired of this? Listening to NPR's political analysts talk about democratic enthusiasm for the midterms? Let's talk about how many of those candidates are women and the percentage of congressmen that are women. THIS! Holy shit. I thought I was the only one. I love NPR and I am dyed in blue democrat, but they literally said that just being a woman is a huge advantage in 2018. really? REALLY?! THAT'S the message they are deciding to push with this advantage? Did you people learn nothing from Trump V. Hillary? All…	/r/MensRights	06/04/18 11:07 AM
3	Two kinds of media As much as a bleeding heart liberal I am... I can't stand CNN for this reason. Everything is sensational "breaking news". I myself can put together a more neutral language. It doesn't sell well you say? Well guess fucking what, you are undermining your credibility and that doesn't sell well either. It's merely short nearsightedness.	/r/MensRights	22/03/18 10:50 PM
2	Two kinds of media What does ' "urban" ' mean?	/r/MensRights	22/03/18 10:47 PM
1	We at MensRights would like to celebrate international womens day because in contrary to popular belief we're not anti women! lol that's so true	/r/MensRights	09/03/18 06:49 AM
1	International Sexist day. I didn't disagree	/r/MensRights	08/03/18 06:00 PM
1	International Sexist day. http://www.autism.org.uk/about/what-is/gender.aspx	/r/MensRights	08/03/18 05:11 PM
12	International Sexist day. we're also unproductive, color blind, and retarded (literally). We are natures "roll of the dice", and women are all pretty average. You can see it in the sigma of the bell curves of our IQ's and such.	/r/MensRights	08/03/18 12:04 AM
2	MEN:78% of suicides, 93% of federal inmates, 60% of the homeless, 63 percent longer prison sentences for the same crime, live five years less than women on average.Men the only oppressor class in history who are less educated, more victimized and have shorter lives than those they oppress. The problem could be quickly solved by instituting a law that made the average sentence for the same crime to be equal across genders. You are describing Affirmative Action. I agree that it is good, but people do hate it and have their reasons.	/r/MensRights	27/02/18 09:19 PM
1	MEN:78% of suicides, 93% of federal inmates, 60% of the homeless, 63 percent longer prison sentences for the same crime, live five years less than women on average.Men the only oppressor class in history who are less educated, more victimized and have shorter lives than those they oppress. This is so true. Femininity can be super toxic.	/r/MensRights	27/02/18 09:15 PM
1	Google Manager to Employees: "Next time you get invited to speak at a conference, especially if you’re a white male – ask the organizer to confirm you’re the only white male on the panel / in the speaker lineup. If not, say you are honored, but must decline, and give the reason." Historically AA was deemed semi-successful in retrospect. Progress is slow. The EEOC still has an uphill battle - but things are much better off now than when AA was used. In fact, I read recently that being a woman increases your chances of getting hired by 48%! https://talent.works/blog/2018/01/08/the-science-of-the-job-search-part-i-13-data-backed-ways-to-win/ But I feel like this only reinforces my point that some oversight is needed. As a man, I don't want to be descriminated against either…	/r/MensRights	05/02/18 06:42 AM
1	Google Manager to Employees: "Next time you get invited to speak at a conference, especially if you’re a white male – ask the organizer to confirm you’re the only white male on the panel / in the speaker lineup. If not, say you are honored, but must decline, and give the reason." The premise of affirmative action is this: That all things being equal, discrimination still exists. Two people with identical resumes, equal people skills, and equal everything, where the only difference is skin color and gender - those external factors play a role. So if you accept that premise, that unconscious bias exists (and proponents of AA do have convincing research on this), then the natural question is this: What tools do we have available to combat this persistent bug in our system? …	/r/MensRights	05/02/18 05:37 AM
2	Google Manager to Employees: "Next time you get invited to speak at a conference, especially if you’re a white male – ask the organizer to confirm you’re the only white male on the panel / in the speaker lineup. If not, say you are honored, but must decline, and give the reason." How about : we give jobs based on merit. I agree with this. I am a proponent of mens rights. But I also believe in Affirmative Action for the simple fact that it does ensure people are being chosen based on merit.	/r/MensRights	04/02/18 11:31 PM
0	Google Manager to Employees: "Next time you get invited to speak at a conference, especially if you’re a white male – ask the organizer to confirm you’re the only white male on the panel / in the speaker lineup. If not, say you are honored, but must decline, and give the reason." They have no training I agree with everything except this. This is the part they are arguing. If you listen to them, they are saying expertise is out there.	/r/MensRights	04/02/18 11:26 PM
1	I’ve had to defend my stance as a MRA because I’m a female rape victim. I am sorry for your experience. Nobody deserves what you had to go through. I think you have done the best thing you can possibly do which is move on.	/r/MensRights	19/01/18 09:31 AM
-2	The naked truth about Fake news Can we not make this about politics? There's a lot of different energies around the terms fake news right now and personally I don't think men's rights fundamentally has anything to do with fake news. Yes there is misinformation, but Jumping On The Branding bandwagon of fake news... It just can't be good to conflate topics like that	/r/MensRights	04/01/18 12:35 AM
11	"This is what a war on women looks like." What do you mean level of care? The U.S. has one of the largest income-based health disparities in the world, so are you talking about the care that the ultra-wealthy have access to?	/r/MensRights	10/10/17 01:34 PM
26	"This is what a war on women looks like." Countries with universal health care include Austria, Belarus, Croatia, Czech Republic, Denmark, Finland, France, Germany, Greece, Iceland, Ireland, Italy, Luxembourg, Malta, Moldova, the Netherlands, Norway, Portugal, Romania, Russia, Serbia, Spain, Sweden, Switzerland, Ukraine, and the United Kingdom.	/r/MensRights	10/10/17 01:19 PM
2	Female founder hires women using affirmative action and then fires them after realizing her mistake. [Link to full article in comments] It is sexist and illegal to hire or reject anybody based on gender. I was just speaking to the clickbait style title which makes it sound like hiring women could be the mistake. Affirmative action isn't a point of hiring women. AA is based on research which reveals that given equally qualified candidates, we tend to act on unconscious prejudices. The intent of AA is just to combat prejudice. I don't think equality programs are wrong, and if I did, then I would be a hypocrite to fight for mens ri…	/r/MensRights	28/08/17 06:56 AM
3	Female founder hires women using affirmative action and then fires them after realizing her mistake. [Link to full article in comments] to be fair, the title makes it sound like OP believes it is a mistake to hire women	/r/MensRights	27/08/17 05:25 PM
13	Sexism on college campuses is unbelievable. yes, #10 says "I know what I am doing"	/r/MensRights	22/06/17 07:07 AM
3	Cool social experiment on Tinder [x-post "All men are pigs who care only about looks!"] Same. Well I am not a 6'3" world traveler, but I do alright damn well. This isn't meant to negate anyone's observations, but there is definitely a "grass is greener" feeling in the dating world. I think the real impulse of mankind is to just never be satisfied with what we have.	/r/MensRights	03/03/17 05:00 PM
1	Oklahoma man is forced to pay child support for baby his cheating wife conceived with her lover, because he filed a paternity test too late. well we can agree to disagree, yes?	/r/MensRights	29/01/17 11:02 AM
1	Oklahoma man is forced to pay child support for baby his cheating wife conceived with her lover, because he filed a paternity test too late. The point is that these "norms" are oppressive. Men don't think there is an alternative way of thinking because of our conditioning.	/r/MensRights	28/01/17 10:24 PM
1	Oklahoma man is forced to pay child support for baby his cheating wife conceived with her lover, because he filed a paternity test too late. When your SO is hiding something from you, then it causes suspicion. The STD test would not worry me as much as the fact that she felt like she needed to hide it. I would feel the same way if she was hiding her phone every time a text came in. It would cause a mild suspicion in any normal person. I would ask and get clarification as to what the purpose of the test was. If she still felt the need to hide the purpose and didn't want to share, then my suspicion would become a little greater. See ho…	/r/MensRights	28/01/17 09:44 PM
2	Oklahoma man is forced to pay child support for baby his cheating wife conceived with her lover, because he filed a paternity test too late. Your statistics are fictional It appears you are right about the statistics. I read a book by Robyn Baker, but after researching it seems her numbers have been debunked. However, It still seems that there is a scientific consensus that there is substantial "extra-pair paternity" out there. getting the test done without confronting the mother with a really nasty and almost certainly baseless accusation isn't "hiding." It's literally none of her business. This is the "I am not lying if I don't men…	/r/MensRights	28/01/17 05:03 PM
3	Oklahoma man is forced to pay child support for baby his cheating wife conceived with her lover, because he filed a paternity test too late. This discussion is not about how public or private testing should be. That is just you attempting to put the male back on the chopping block. The real discussion is that men should feel free to DNA test at their discretion, and that is the only conclusion of this topic. It is completely up to the individual to decide to share or not share with his SO, and it is completely unique to the relationship. Maybe the kid has a different skin color? Maybe she has cheated before? Maybe they are in an open…	/r/MensRights	28/01/17 02:08 AM
3	Oklahoma man is forced to pay child support for baby his cheating wife conceived with her lover, because he filed a paternity test too late. You continue to push the narrative that this discussion is about private or public testing. I never mentioned announcing testing to a SO. That is your assumption. And now you are drilling down on it because you know you are wrong about the topic at large and are trying to derail from admitting that it is morally permissible to both trust and verify.	/r/MensRights	28/01/17 12:57 AM
4	Oklahoma man is forced to pay child support for baby his cheating wife conceived with her lover, because he filed a paternity test too late. my landlord was never so crass as to count my rent money in front of my face He counted it honey, and you would too. I promise.	/r/MensRights	28/01/17 12:44 AM
1	Oklahoma man is forced to pay child support for baby his cheating wife conceived with her lover, because he filed a paternity test too late. It IS fraud if she hid an affair. This is similar to breach of contract. Not only does this make intuitive logical, and even emotional sense, but there is even legal precedence for this since in 21 states, cheating in a marriage is against the law, punishable by a fine or even jail time.	/r/MensRights	28/01/17 12:41 AM
9	Oklahoma man is forced to pay child support for baby his cheating wife conceived with her lover, because he filed a paternity test too late. lol I am not married, back off woman... If someone pays you rent in cash, doesn't matter how tight you are with them, you count it. Idiot.	/r/MensRights	27/01/17 06:12 PM
10	Oklahoma man is forced to pay child support for baby his cheating wife conceived with her lover, because he filed a paternity test too late. I have mentioned my desire to have my children (I don't have any yet) DNA tested, and have been met time and again, universally, from all different people, of all different sects of life, with tremendous incredulity that I would undermine my relationship like that. That I somehow lack the capacity to trust.	/r/MensRights	27/01/17 04:20 PM
12	Oklahoma man is forced to pay child support for baby his cheating wife conceived with her lover, because he filed a paternity test too late. The state is only interested in establishing the a responsible party	/r/MensRights	27/01/17 04:13 PM
1	I don't mind paying but for some reason this really bothers me They are not after your wallet if what you have to give is love.	/r/MensRights	26/01/17 07:12 AM
-1	[rant] Who's libido is it really? insightful - thank you. I always operated on this notion: http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/love-sex/men-may-never-truly-get-over-a-relationship-break-up-says-study-10450413.html but it might not be the whole story, as you have pointed out.	/r/TheRedPill	27/03/16 06:29 AM
3	[rant] Who's libido is it really? We exist because men like you don't know how to be men like me. I make six figs, I'm never married, and I'm going to Japan for two weeks cause I fucking feel like it. What are you doing? The reason your ass is triggered on the word engineer is because you have to Google "statistical signifigance" to try to understand how badly you are getting fucked in life, and you still don't get it. Beta.	/r/TheRedPill	27/03/16 12:27 AM
-1	[rant] Who's libido is it really? Statistically my dick is 20% bigger than yours, I've had more than three times the number of partners you have, and I make double what you make. Non-statistically, I'm healthier, happier, and more intelligent than you are. I wash my sheets every other day because the amount of squirt I cum out of my GF soaks the bed so wet we can't even cuddle less one of us lay in our fuck pool. I think I'm doing alright. I'm not talking about sex here. This is about a real connection in a LTR you meathead.	/r/TheRedPill	27/03/16 12:25 AM
-2	[rant] Who's libido is it really? solipism: the view or theory that the self is all that can be known to exist. Fascinating! Sounds like the result of fear or trauma - not wanting to reach out. Does that describe this girl? Hell, I think all women have some trauma in them lol. Maybe we all do. But letting that trauma dictate your life philosophy is an act of unintelligence. I think that breakup was good for her. Perhaps the path to escaping ones self is illuminated by the things that slip away from us.	/r/TheRedPill	26/03/16 10:24 PM
3	[rant] Who's libido is it really? Wow - that was a great read. I do a lot of that stuff naturally. My GF doesn't have power over me, I am particularly strong willed, but it has taken a lot of trauma to get here so I completely understand how men can get bulldozed by women. This resonates with me "Men are the gatekeepers to commitment and we get tired of giving it when we don't get sex." I think last night was the first time I have ever been denied by her in 6 months. But she is a nurse so it's legit that she was getting 4 hours …	/r/TheRedPill	26/03/16 09:10 PM
0	[rant] Who's libido is it really? Never even heard of it... Should I read it? I don't wanna go full Nietzsche if you know that I mean.	/r/TheRedPill	26/03/16 08:59 PM