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this post is brutal to read. just block her she is garbage.
/r/askMRP18/01/23 01:51 PM
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Fuck her if u want shes def dtf
/r/seduction22/10/22 09:19 AM
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He supposedly is a multi(?)millionaire w his own businesses and no wife just doin what he wants. Seems like a solid guy to listen to but take it all w a grain of salt…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/22 07:38 PM
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Do the highlight reel clip!
/r/TheRedPill24/08/22 01:34 PM
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I bought his book because I watch the Entrepreneurs in Cars videos sometimes and wanted to support. Never had any issues with him, although I haven't read the book yet. I will say he has been pushing red pill soap or some garbage on YouTube and it was pretty horrifying to watch. Definitely made me take a step back, but as OP said - buying too much into what people are telling you is for suckers. They are all just trying to get ahead and don't give a shit about you. Some are scummier than others …
/r/TheRedPill24/08/22 01:33 PM
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furious applause
/r/PussyPassDenied26/06/22 03:43 PM
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Hes a hero!
/r/PussyPassDenied26/06/22 12:46 PM
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steps off soap box to rousing applause
/r/PussyPassDenied26/06/22 12:46 PM
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That’s bananas man. Some eye opening stories here. A few years back a girl from Europe was visiting my citY IN USA. Banged her a bunch no condom. She is now married to the guy she had been seeing for 9 years before she met me. He has no idea his loving wife fucked some drummer American guy raw and facetimed me sexy stuff while he was in other room til the guilt finally got her and she broke it off. Her mom was aware of me as well. Her justification was that he was in Africa during that period, 2…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/22 02:39 PM
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Get comfortable chatting up strangers in appropriate environments first. Start by saying hi to people as you pass them, then look for random places where you mught crack a funny observational joke or something. Start at the bottom. Sounds like you could use some advice hmu if you want. Ill tell you the tldr right now tho: Work out. Dress well. Live a passionate life. Learn how to talk to people. Invest in yourself (gym, hobbies, social life etc) and you wont be worrying so much. Just put in the …
/r/seduction23/05/22 08:52 PM
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That’s what your boys / good friends and families are for. Women are so in their own world they dont think ab stuff like that sometimes. They want to live in a fantasy and you telling them all this info about yourself can break that fantasy or bore them or they just dont care. Enjoy the time and their femininity but dont expect flings to care too much about you. They often hooking up w or at the minimum talking to multiple guys at once. No hard feelings this is just the reality. Learning to not …
/r/seduction22/05/22 07:43 PM
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Great advice
/r/seduction22/05/22 05:08 PM
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Bro Im a 6’3” 225lb male w/ martial arts experience and I often feel uncomfortable with people approaching me. Esp strange men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 02:19 PM
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My brother was a severe addict and this scenario you described is very very familiar. Cant let them control you with their manipulation and trying to control your moods aka piss you off and drag you to their level is key is one to recognize and avoid.
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/22 04:41 PM
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Trash
/r/PussyPassDenied15/11/21 12:49 AM
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It really is the best advice there is. Expanded in original comment. If anyone needs more specific advice hmu
/r/seduction23/10/21 02:24 PM
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Fuck w a beard if you can grow one too. Maybe a full sleeve? And some killer shades. And a nice watch. Ok no more ginger cousin dress up lmao. Keep crushin bro.
/r/seduction23/10/21 03:32 AM
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Bicep vein or shadow? You look like a fitter version of me lmao. Mixed w andy dalton. Sounds like youre doing great. Id say dress better like a button down but if u dgaf doesnt really matter.
/r/seduction23/10/21 02:53 AM
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Invest your time in becoming high value. E: to be more SpEcIfIc - lift, get in shape, develop skills, develop interesting hobbies, be a passionate person, develop social skills and a social group that you lead and who respects you, dont waste your time w video games and porn and drugs and bullshit. Get a job, build a career, train martial arts, learn an instrument, learn a language, read more, dress well, etc etc- basically invest your time in improving yourself and the quality of man you are, a…
/r/seduction23/10/21 02:50 AM
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This is from 2013.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/10/21 12:24 AM
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Fair lmao I did have a moment of doubt writing that as both parties tend to pick and choose what “accepted science” they believe in, according to how it benefits their interests.
/r/MensRights17/10/21 06:58 PM
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But why are these companies all the same politically?
/r/MensRights17/10/21 04:17 PM
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Alright so its obvious at this point that big tech (Twitter, facebook, IG, google, youtube) are all actively censoring conservative voices, common sense, science etc to instead promote this new sjw liberal ideology where gender isn’t real and everyone is a victim but white males. That much is obvious - so now we gotta figure out 1: why and 2: why are we still using these platforms / are there alternatives that actually believe in free speech?
/r/MensRights17/10/21 12:51 PM
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Yeah many dont want to hear reality and want to live in fantasy land but they usually learn the hard way eventually. Its right there in front of us. I figured it out in HS but didnt know how to get what I wanted until college / late college / late 20s - then it became easy mode.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/08/21 03:10 PM
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100% brother
/r/PussyPassDenied14/08/21 03:09 PM
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Hate the men not the women. Thats why OF hoors make tons of $$ and post ads in every goddamn instagram post. I report them all. Or why I hopped on twitch the other day for first time in months and get a top suggestion for a chick whos just licking microphones w thousands of viewers (all jerkin it). Its a sock, pathetic world that tries to suck us all into these degenerate, weak and soulless habits so gotta avoid it and focus on ourselves.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/08/21 01:45 PM
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Amazingly broke
/r/PussyPassDenied14/08/21 01:43 PM
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Found the online beggar. Get a job.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/08/21 01:43 PM
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She's just doing an ego check for herself. Seeing if she still has you in her pocket. She's likely not getting enough attention to satisfy her insatiable need for validation and is checking in to see if you are still into her. Ignore, go NC, and learn that this is very very common. The best response is no response. She dumped you. You are now higher value than you were and you don't put up with people who aren't worth your time. She just wants to use you for attention. Fuck that. Keep grinding a…
/r/askTRP03/06/21 06:00 PM
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My dad was 45 when I was born :D
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 03:00 AM
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Youre 6’ in shoes so just put that if it gets you laid by the vapid slutty tinderellas ahah. Altho sounds like you make it a point of pride to be overtly honest. Interesting that guys do the same shit to the ladies.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/04/21 12:02 PM
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Ahh that’s the worst, the old pics of before they decided to become hambeasts.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/04/21 11:31 AM
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This is why you Facebook or Instagram stalk them if you have any doubt. Were her pictures edited? Or just all from different angles? If they don’t have full body pictures you don’t meet them.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/04/21 11:17 AM
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Haha can uou elaborate on the differences between the pictures and the actual girls? Before I got married I went on a ton of online dates and the worst were one who couldn’t walk and didn’t mention it, and the other one had a normal size upper body and absolute most ginormous lower body I’ve ever seen. 
/r/PussyPassDenied12/04/21 11:16 AM
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How is this not a serious crime?
/r/PussyPassDenied17/03/21 12:08 AM
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This - I used to do what OP said: I would always want to go out and meet girls with my best looking, most natural friends. Then when I was the one supposed to lead a group I’d feel very uncomfortable. I’d also end up introducing my less outgoing but more physically superior friends to more women than they did me. Later I realized it was far better to do what you say and get in shape, develop your life/ hobbies/ experiences/ skills/ job etc instead of thinking you need someone else to basically h…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 11:19 AM
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?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/20 01:13 PM
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translation: Beg her. eww - she might end it all if he cried reading her a letter pleading for sex.
/r/askMRP05/09/20 11:43 AM
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Trashy
/r/MensRights26/07/20 01:27 PM
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Lmao i randomly had free hockey tix and this chick i invited asked how much they cost. Def moved on real quick
/r/askTRP17/06/20 01:03 AM
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Applebees is trash. I dgaf how much money you do or dont have, if you want to eat frozen food just buy some and some booze and eat at home. Its on par with a mcdonalds date, same crap just has a waiter and booze.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/03/20 01:17 PM
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Disgusting. How is this allowed. How are women allotted “child support” and allowwd to spend as they please without any auditing or assurance that it is used for child support. Unless its alimony which is a fucking joke. Pay me to not work because “im used to it”. Ew.
/r/MensRights29/01/20 04:17 PM
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No one cares
/r/askTRP21/01/20 09:44 AM
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I always hated my lips, I guess they’re slightly big and I got made fun of as a kid a few times. Nithing major but when yoh arent aware of a physical “flaw” and someone calls it out as an insult you remember it because its shocking. One girl in high school said that I have great lips and it changed my life. I still remember that day.
/r/MensRights19/01/20 12:39 AM
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Get em! Hopefully you have a great lawyer in your court.
/r/Divorce_Men17/01/20 01:51 AM
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This is so nauseating. I feel rage just imagining that woman, comfortably leeching for her entire life for literally no good reason except a court ordered it. Not sure what else to say but that I want OP to win somehow.
/r/Divorce_Men17/01/20 01:12 AM
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No social pressure? Lolz
/r/MensRights29/12/19 04:02 AM
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Why are these judges not being held accountable?
/r/MensRights06/06/19 07:30 PM
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Especially since they dont even have much sex. Imo this isnt a true “where are all the good men” situation but more of a “why is my relationship super lame and boring.”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/19 03:50 PM
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So she... raped him too?
/r/MensRights28/03/19 08:20 PM
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Weak troll. Get a job and rethink your life, son.
/r/MensRights07/03/19 09:58 PM
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Wtf
/r/MensRights07/03/19 09:58 PM
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Heading out for errands, will follow up with a more thorough comment but I would say more just look for red flags that tell you she's a bad person.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 04:49 PM
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When my brother died last year, I cried several times in front of my wife. It didn't change a thing. She didn't try to get me to break at all, but I basically cried for a week straight in the mornings, because my brother died. I'm still the leader and I still fuck my wife regularly. She is not a piece of shit like OP's friend tho.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 03:12 PM
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I'm married, and my wife is not a "crooked being" lol. Nor are most people, male or female. She's just a woman. I'm just a man. We have our natures and knowing and understanding what people are all about helps us succeed. Most of the guys at /mrp are not dating evil crooked beings, and I don't think that type of attitude will help you at all honestly. That being said, one true shitty AWALT/ hamstering example was when I met a girl who was visiting my city from Amsterdam, and her boyfriend of lik…
/r/askTRP23/11/18 03:09 PM
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No youre right tho. If guys feel comfortable amog’ing you and hitting on your girl in front of you, you gotta work on your masculine presence. I remember being out with a really hot chick back when i was single, we were in a group and she wasnt my date but i was interested in her for sure, we were in an intense convo ab a mutual friend’s recent fuckups, and these chads came by and were clearly hunting for chicks. She was ignoring them and into our convo, and i saw them take a few looks at her an…
/r/askTRP17/11/18 04:09 PM
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I mean if you are out and you are not physically with her: example- im playing drums at a gig at a bar, some chad hits on her, she shuts him down (and i watch from stage), also personal experience.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 10:36 AM
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-tactfully rejects other guys' advances when out.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 08:55 PM
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Bitch? Excuse us, no that's "Commissioner" to you.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/11/18 05:13 PM
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share it share it!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/11/18 05:08 PM
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So tinder is all about quick dates and hookups, so cut out most of the conversation and treat it like texting (text only to get dates and for logistics.) You shouldn't be having lots of conversations, just enough to start the spark and then say whats your number, then text her and talk a little then ask her out to your go-to date. Typically its all about the pics and general charmingness, but you said you get lots of matches so I would work on your conversation skills (as you are clearly pursuin…
/r/askTRP13/11/18 08:25 PM
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Your conversation sounds more like you are one-upping her instead of having a mutually exciting and respectful conversation. While you said it's not literally how the convoes went, I will use it for explanation on how to be a better conversationalist because this conversation snippet sucked. Girl: "Ive been to Uruguay." You: "oh that's awesome, what were you doing there? Did you love it or what?" Her: "well i went for a school thing/ just to travel/ bla bla bla" You: takes what she says and uses…
/r/askTRP13/11/18 05:30 PM
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There's literally nothing you can do about your size besides extreme massaging and stretching shit that isn't really worth it. So stop worrying about it. You are worrying about her opinion and are in her frame. Fuck the shit out of her and shut the fuck up.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 08:44 PM
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quite an eye you have for myspaceangles
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/10/18 06:21 PM
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Grow a fucking brain. Holding a grudge is poison to your soul. He forgave her in his own mind so he could stop letting her actions rot his inner peace. WTF do you know? Jackass. edit: oh youre 16. You havent lived long enough to hold a grudge. Talk less, listen more eh?
/r/MensRights18/10/18 07:53 PM
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Meh, your own wording shows why it’s different: “the guy decides not to take it” is def not a luxury most women have when getting punched by a guy. It’s just not a fair fight. He sat there and took her best and was fine, but when he decided to start hitting her she had 0 chance and in the ultimate resolution scenario he could have killed her with his bare hands and she wouldn’t be able to do shit. Not saying she didn’t deserve to get hit at all, she started swinging. Just pointing out that if a …
/r/PussyPassDenied02/10/18 02:06 AM
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Work harder. get jacked. get your confidence up. get a job. go be social as fuck all the time. pm me if u want.
/r/seduction01/10/18 03:31 PM
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What’s a dessert banana?
/r/PussyPassDenied01/10/18 01:04 AM
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BUT SHES A VICTIM!! SKREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!
/r/PussyPassDenied27/09/18 07:59 PM
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Yeah its awesome. Starting at a young age like you are is going to be immensely beneficial. Youll kill it in college esp if you are a regular boxer (fit, confident, can hold their own in a fight and wont be intimidated) girls love that shit. I'm 33 and understood the red pill before I knew it existed, because "girls love alpha guys" became extremely obvious by the time I was in high school. I also got my buddy into TRP, he just got dumped, hes 28 and hes finally waking the fuck up and realizing …
/r/TheRedPill18/09/18 07:45 PM
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great job kiddo. youre gonna kill it in life. spread the message to willing friends and be the man.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/18 07:12 PM
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Go out with all of them. Balls to the wall. Being too "in demand" can never be a bad thing. Girls will fight over men with their best friends, and they will fuck their best friend's ex-boyfriends, much less former friends' FWBs. Just stop thinking, go on 6 dates, and smash where applicable. Worry about social consequences of being too much of a player later. Worst case scenario is you get branded "a player" and all of a sudden your legend spreads.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 03:13 PM
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Jesus she did it again while waiting for trial? Talk about a mental illness, when someone is that fucking compulsive.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/08/18 06:32 PM
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Not according to the 13 victims who claimed he actually raped them. Neither of us know the truth though, so don't claim to.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/08/18 03:29 PM
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I think the biggest shocker is the “without chance of parole” aspect and the fact that most pedos don’t get nearly that long of a sentence. 11 is extremely young and much more rapey than a 16/17 year old male who might be actively pursuing sex anyway. Just nuts. She’ll be 50...60...70...80...90 and still in jail with 0 chance of getting out. But hey, she raped a child repeatedly. Murderers don’t even get that long. Especially overseas but Texas doesnt fuck around. Rekt.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/08/18 12:00 AM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Harvey_Weinstein_sexual_abuse_allegations#Accusers he has a huge list of sexual harassment/ assault and rape accusers. Apparently he was extremely pushy and physically aggressive and both physically and verbally threatening. Most was likely cohersion but there's a blurred line there if someone is that aggressive and the woman acquiesces out of any number of reasons when she doesn't actually want to but she's scared of any number of consequences, physical/ social/ ca…
/r/PussyPassDenied29/08/18 08:27 PM
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Hopefully there aren't numerous pedos in that school and that the deterrence effect is further reaching than just one freaking middle school. That fucking picture gets me good. Just a fat, retarded idiot pedophile that got absolutely rekt.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/08/18 08:01 PM
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Except he raped and he's not in jail (yet).
/r/PussyPassDenied29/08/18 07:51 PM
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Didn't say anywhere in there that she didn't deserve it, just saying that it's nuts that 1.) she got 60 years with no parole at all so her life is literally over and 2.) how rare a sentence is like that/ how often similar offenders get slaps on the wrist.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/08/18 07:39 PM
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While I am happy she got a long prison sentence, 60 years without parole is absolutely insane. She will live her entire life in prison and very likely die there. She has 0 chance to get out before shes nearly 90. She will be an elderly woman who spent her entire life in prison if she's lucky to make it that old. Nuts. What get's me though is why is this sentence so brutal and so many others so lenient. Fucked justice system. Texas justice doesn't fuck around obviously. But damn not even a chance…
/r/PussyPassDenied29/08/18 02:44 PM
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Great fuckin post. Love the examples
/r/TheRedPill07/08/18 10:30 PM
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So right off the bat your responses are more about your inability to get laid from other chicks than about her. Your game is the issue. You say you are very fit and wealthy. Yet you invited 30 girls over in a week to “hang out at your apartment” but none of them wanted to. Sounds like a myriad of issues but lack of game and lack of abundance mentality are suspect. Ill reread your entire post and the comments today hopefully, maybe tmrw and ill give you a real opinion on the matter. A super quick…
/r/askTRP22/07/18 01:32 PM
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True, for now. It could change up or down significantly. Just saying it’s not dead at all.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 10:35 AM
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Not dead at all. Ignorant statement. Btc was $1000 a year ago its $6000 now. “LOL”
/r/askTRP22/07/18 09:56 AM
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Get fit as fuck, work on yourself constantly, play the numbers game in terms of going after 1000000s of women online and in person. Simple formula but it works.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 09:55 AM
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Lol skimmed thru 1.1000th of this disaster of a post and can tell op this: 1.) you have a fragile fucking ego, 2.) you have not internalized an ambundance mentality and 3.) you have oneitis. Go fuck other girls and plate this chick. God you sound needy as fuck and arguing with everyone here makes you seem like a little insecure bitch. Remember, awalt and this is just your turn. No one gives a fuck. Stop contacting her and stressing out over some girl. Just stop. Stop contacting her. Let her get …
/r/askTRP22/07/18 09:50 AM
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My wife constantly asks me "do you still love me?" for constant comfort tests. I usually say "when youre good" but not sure of other more effective answers.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/18 07:30 PM
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What do you mean? Trying to own my shit, improve myself and be less of a bitch. The more mrp i read the better husband and man i develop into. Constantly sets me straight. I have a long way to go. Also to get my wife turned on more and fuck me like she used to more often. To be a better leader and stronger man. Live my life in my frame and kill it. You?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/18 01:44 PM
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OYS #1 33 years old, married 2 years to 26 year old brasilian. 2 cats. Swallowed the pill in high school before i knew what it was. 12 years in the PUA/ seduction/ self-improvement scene before meeting wife. 6'3" 205, ~20% bodyfat, 270 dead, 250 bench, 250 squat. long way to go. Ill keep it short and use a Bruce Lee quote to sum up my current mindset on progress: “It’s not the daily increase but daily decrease. Hack away at the unessential." I have used this to cut out time-wasters (video games)…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/18 06:16 PM
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Dress like the dudes in Madmen. Or Suits. Nice pants, great shoes belt and watch, crisp white buttondown. Tie if you want to step it up a notch.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 03:17 PM
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Is this a joke? Troll post? Get it together. NOW. Or youll end up in a relationship with this busted mess of a human because youre too pussy to end it. You have a long fucking way to go.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 03:11 PM
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I do feel for him, but the double whammy is this chick is full on succubus mode on him, but this is all coming from the mouth of the friend so its all with a huge grain of salt. Yea that's his daughter at this point 10 years later, but the issue is the woman taking him for a huge run and he's letting himself get manipulated clearly. Just his nervous demeanor when he was like "...yeah I gotta go to do... something" was a little odd then I find out it's to go chase this woman who is just sucking h…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 01:37 PM
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Oh god this story, i witnessed something similar today. Went on a double date w my wife and her (recently divorced bc her husband kept cheating) friend, and her friend’s new potential boyfriend. He was cool, laid back, nice dude, laughed at my fucked up jokes, army senior officer. He had to leave in the afternoon because he “had something to do.” This was him meeting with his ex-wife, who cheated on him, he also takes care of her kid (with another man) and pays child support for the child (that …
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 08:27 AM
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Yea, ditching the bf for a month is a dick move. She will 100% cheat, and disregarded his feelings. OP its the right move, just pull the trigger. Execute your plan and go full on beastmode when youre single. It will be for the best bro.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 02:47 PM
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CAVEMAN MODE
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/18 04:56 PM
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good move brotha, youll be fine. you know what time it is. man up, dont give her the satisfaction of an emotional response. Ice up and bounce. She's definitely playing you, so cut your losses and begin the moving on process now by investing time in yourself instead of your ex. Boom youre back at it, enjoy being single again and dont fall off this summer.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 04:03 PM
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This can't be serious.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/05/18 02:14 PM
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Creepy af. Stalking you outside of work shows serious mental instability and she could very easily be capable of a lot of bad things, including false rape allegations. You should listen to the other commenters, definitely let your local police know so that there is a record before she can pull anything. Seriously, dont risk it. You definitely stuck your dick in crazy without realizing it. If you see her do this again, you NEED to be proactive and get documented support on your side just in case …
/r/askTRP27/04/18 10:29 PM
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Robert California had to google this, no I am quoting Jim Morrison from The Doors who is the true Lizard King, as is Robert California apparently :) I heard that show is good though. I like the actor he is a real smarmy prick.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 01:10 PM
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Get. Better. Pictures. Ill do a profile critique if u want. Mine was: “I am the Lizard King, I can do anything. 6’3”” And my best pics. Thats all. All ab the pics.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 02:28 AM
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Absolutely. Seems OP ignored the red flags and when they finally clicked he manned up and set things straight. He realized not only is she associating with low class, scummy people who, for some heretofor unknown reason keep shitting on op every chance they get, likely jealousy and general trashiness, but she is not defending him and likely the herd is influencing her weak mind. Good for you OP, you woke the fuck up. Now learn from your mistakes. You have the right mentality moving forward. Its …
/r/TheRedPill18/03/18 02:13 AM
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Fair, i misinterpreted what you said as implying women hold all lf the cards, when like you said it should not be onesided. Im just saying if a man “holds the cards” that means he is invested enough in himself that he knows his worth and values, and will happily walk away if his partner fails to meet necessary expectations. If not, hes a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 11:57 PM
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Jesus have you ever left your room?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 09:43 PM
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Or to get drunk and fuck an attractive guy, like guys do with girls. Theyre literally out to meet guys. Guys to fuck. Its pretty simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 04:57 PM
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Wrong. A successful and confident man can easily hold the cards in the relationship. Get some game.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 04:56 PM
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Jesus. U really have no idea. Go work out and get on tinder. The fact is that average guys get the joy of competing with guys like you, with no confidence or game at all, so it makes it that much easier. Seriously, pm me. U need some serious mentoring...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 04:53 PM
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Lol ya dude no one gets laid ;) girls hate sex too they just want husbands. Only millionaires and models get girls. Too much doom and gloom bro. Go hit the gym and get on tinder. Honestly instead of saying nubby incel shit online you can pm me and learn how to fuck girls without being a millionaire model.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 04:32 PM
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Found the guy who has never had lots of (edit: any) casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 02:49 PM
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Of course.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 02:08 AM
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Exactly. In one ear out the other. You do not even need to acknowledge the child's tantrum, just move forward. Stay in frame, disregard what you know is not your concern.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 08:18 PM
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make sure you do it all anyway ;)
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 06:58 PM
1

haha, the dismissiveness of this post is exactly what op needs. if it aint workin it aint workin for a reason. If "your" girl is flirting with other dudes, you're with the wrong girl, and you are the wrong guy for that shit. Emotionally de-invest immediately, as well as with your time and attention especially, and move that investment into yourself (and still going after other girls, either in front of her or not it doesn't matter she is now irrelevant) and grow the fuck up.
/r/becomeaman27/11/17 03:05 PM
4

Ghost? Next question.
/r/askTRP11/11/17 07:41 PM
1

Love it, skimmed thru but cant wait to get into it.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/17 02:11 PM
6

She probably got that feeling when you think you are right and that everyone else agrees with you, then you get outside of your bubble and intelligent people are cohesively and convincingly dismantling core beliefs you had that you thought everyone shared, and all of a sudden you start doubting everything, but the charisma and confidence of the new ideologues captivate you and you just get whisked along for the ride.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/17 03:34 PM
5

First one's free, then a little kick in the ass, but def an excellent post showing some cleverness in the social arena. Would be interested in a more detailed response to OP's "happy wife, happy husband" retorts.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/17 01:46 PM
15

Yeah, and she'll probably use his "lack of trusting her" as justification to cheat anyway.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 08:24 PM
0

Work out harder!!!!
/r/askTRP06/10/17 09:01 PM
5

Neutral body language and positioning is important here. Going over and sitting next to her with her against the window is going to make her very uncomfortable if you come off the wrong way at all. Especially if there's an empty bus around you. I would suggest sitting across the way if it's open, and being more natural about it.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 02:46 PM
1

powerlift. 4 main powerlifting exercises are squats, deadlifts, bench press, and shoulder press. Work out for 90minutes including doing cardio. Learn about powerlifting and use it, do low-weight high-rep exercises at first. Push yourself hard, get lots of sleep, eat right, drink lots of water, look into different supplements. Once you build up your endurance you can switch it up, do low-rep, high-weight exercises. Workout your whole body, legs, back, core, chest, arms.
/r/askMRP21/09/17 05:59 PM
26

Strong move dude. Shell come crawling back but keep her at arms length. She showed her true intentions so time to use this as motivation to invest in yourself and go kick ass. Party with your bros and work your ass off. When, not if, she comes back and makes up a billion excuses just keep your head straight and remember how she prioritized everything above you after five fuckin weeks. She's got one foot out the door so let her. After four years, she is most likely ready to sew her wild oats and …
/r/askTRP10/09/17 05:06 PM
1

Write him a letter or have a heart-to-heart with him where you speak your true thoughts and feelings on this absolute travesty of a relationshit, then step back and move on. Either he listens and wakes the fuck up, he ignores you and you watch it all eventually blow up in his face, or he freaks out on you for telling the truth. Really there's nothing to lose, and as his bro you should tell him the 100% truth.
/r/askTRP05/09/17 07:31 PM
1

Sems like you should find a way to put a little fear/ respect into him. No time for s long response but putting something in your girl's back pocket is creepy/ disrespectful. Give him a little edge maybe next time but nothing crazy just kinda kee him at arm's length... strong eye contact helps. Like "im not afraid of you" eye contact. Maybe even a hint of a comment about it. Tread carefully tho but i would keep my eye on this guy.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 02:54 AM
1

Be outgoing as fuck. Charm em all
/r/askTRP29/07/17 06:22 PM
1

I would definitely make an effort to find affordable martial arts. I took kung fo for a while and my confidence skyrocketed. It helps a ton with everything in terms of physicality, but it doesn't replace lifting heavy. You can get shredded doing it and doing home workouts though if you can't afford both.
/r/askTRP09/06/17 02:59 PM
9

Lol. She slap-punched him maybe 50 times... then one solid punch and the shock hits her. Bitch stop hitting people. You have no right to do that. Was hoping she got ko'ed after that many hits. I mean we dont know the context but i highly doubt she was in the right based on the body language of the two. Props to the camera guy for sticking with it and dealing with the obstacles lmao.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/05/17 09:23 PM
1

Ugh
/r/PussyPassDenied29/05/17 07:30 PM
3

Maybe next they'll say "racism cannot be committed against whites. False. Anyone can be the victim of racism."
/r/MensRights29/05/17 12:04 AM
1

Ok shes definitely in her 50s. Still not "elderly" but just about "senior" and somehow still an sjw hipster.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/05/17 02:21 AM
91

Did you just rape my feelings/ opinion?
/r/MensRights27/04/17 06:10 PM
1

I think working hard and minding your own business, while still being available to others and a strong relaxed presence knowing you work hard and didn't do anything wrong by taking 2 damn vacation days, is the best move. Keep your head down, work hard, do your job. Let her sound like a teenage drama queen. If you feel the need to talk to a superior about it, you can do that as well. Tell your side of the story if you are that uncomfortable, but it may just cause more nonsense to deal with and cr…
/r/askTRP27/04/17 03:44 PM
2

Stay above it like you should have from the start (ignoring her texts and complaints instead of letting her suck you into it and lower you to her drama level.) Work hard, ignore her, ignore her bs cunt drama, let her badmouth you all she wants, people will see through it. If they dont, have a backup plan.
/r/askTRP27/04/17 02:04 AM
4

lmfao that's hilarious. This is why whenever someone I meet says "yeah, I'm a guitarist" I assume they are not good, don't take it seriously, and probably like lame music. If they say anything else like bass or drums, I give them the benefit of the doubt but still assume they aren't very good until I hear they are actually in a performing band, or have musical history. I'm a drummer myself, and going from "video gamer" to "rock drummer" led to night and day amounts of ACE. "I play video games" i…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 06:19 PM
12

Amazing. Typical child.
/r/MGTOW16/03/17 02:02 AM
1

Gotcha. Im 31.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 08:20 PM
1

How is he lying to himself, I am curious?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 06:32 PM
1

Thanks for response. Not sure what you mean by skews older? I have high n-count, grad degree, semi-established career (kind of a jack of all trades, working for my successful lawyer father at the moment doing a variety of stuff making ok money 52k plus in bands with some paid gigs to help out here and there.) Fuck up my life? Hmm, I was pretty fucking happy when I was single (altho grass is greener I had some dark phases of depression, some borderline deadly hangovers haha, many trips to STD doc…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 05:00 PM
2

"What do you want" is tough when you want everything/ to have your cake and eat it, are borderline narcissistic, etc. I want fucking everything, I always have... seems the mods at least, here have a clear mission and I gotta figure out mine again after it gets cloudy...
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 04:29 PM
1

I'm in the exact same boat man. I think it's just part of relationships that you have to be mostly equal and accept that even if you have a very high value of yourself, which you seem to derive from societal implications (fit/ "jacked", can get unlimited women if you want, have a good job and all the things you feel make you so high quality that she should be sucking your dick/ treating you like a king, etc), even if you have all that it's gonna change when the relationship endures like it has, …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 04:16 PM
1

Yeah, I agree with this. I've dealt with this type of situation numerous times, where someone of lower value aggressively acts out towards me for no real reason except their own. I've tried lots of different approaches, sometimes ignoring them works if you aren't around them a lot, but you gotta put them out of your mind cuz deep down you know you are better than they are, and can destroy them at will, but you're not the one with the problem they are, and they may catch you offguard. Usually I t…
/r/askTRP06/03/17 04:29 PM
2

Bounce!!!!!!! Fuckin weasal!
/r/seduction03/03/17 07:17 PM
1

Lmao. Interesting post history op
/r/MGTOW03/03/17 02:43 AM
1

Growing up skinny fat, then fat, then skinny... when i got to being able to pass the tshirt test nothing felt better. Wearing a soft, cotton shirt in a slim fit... and watching girls stare at me. Gotta get back to that (i lift a lot but have too much bodyfat.) This post is gold.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 03:44 AM
1

Why was this removed? this was incredible.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 07:13 PM
1

Amazing post. I started taking L-Carnetine a few months ago, and have gotten a good bit stronger. http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/11-super-side-effects-from-taking-l-carnitine.html I also started switching up my workouts and doing max repx1, 10 sec rest, maxrepx1 and just sitting on it and its an insane workout. Awesome post tho man, got me hyped to keep growing and doing it right, working my ass off.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 07:01 PM
2

This physically hurts me
/r/MGTOW09/02/17 04:55 AM
7

Feels good smashing lots of attractive women. Im married now tho, RIP one night stands.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 07:32 PM
1

😂😂
/r/askTRP31/01/17 01:54 AM
0

What do you like most and least about him? Thz
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/17 12:59 AM
1

I concur with this man. Youre feeding the troll just GHOST. Dont fucking tape audio for internet losers to listen to. Dont explain shit. Cut her the fuck out.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 08:09 PM
1

Maybe you are losing attraction during the texting. I would suggest texting very little, keep your options wide the fuck open and going after many, many dates instead of just 1 or a few. Text only to get dates and then meet up shortly after. Dont have conversations via text, use it as a mechanism to build excitement for the date not for giving all your conversational details away not even in person.
/r/seduction27/12/16 06:54 PM
52

Ghost hard. Dont give her the drama satisfaction. If she is just getting "likes" like the one comment suggested, you should ghost her for that too. Even tho she's prob cheating. Best thing to do, cut her off completely and dont talk to her at all, itll drive her crazy, if you blow up or get upset it will fuel and satisfy her, then go date lots of other chicks. Definitely bail on the family bullshit. Edit: REMEMBER, the power of indifference is the ultimate
/r/askTRP23/12/16 01:44 PM
1

Lift and get out of your comfort zone as much as possible. Develop awesome hobbies, meet as many people as possible, and work your ass off. also, read a fuckton of good material and make sure you put yourself, your life, and your goals above everything else. dont chase women. go after them but if they are flaky, stop going after them. if a girl is busting your chops and stressing you out, dump her ass. play the numbers game and your chances of getting laid, feeling independent and meeting lots o…
/r/askTRP11/12/16 08:28 PM
2

Happened to my roommate. His gf lived w us, acted weird, then moved in w his friend. He got emotional about it but responded by going out constantly and bringing home cuties, dating other hotties and isnt bitter at all. Hes friends with both of them. Ive gone the "hook up w their friend route" and it isnt as satisfying as youd think. Theyll both end up not liking you. Just ghost, fuck lots of girls and depending on how bad her cheating was, be friendly or cut off entirely.
/r/askTRP10/12/16 10:25 PM
3

Goddamn this is fucking gold. I'm in a LTR now, after having some great success using PUA tactics and TRP mindset, but this can help even in LTR. frame > all. Being relaxed > women's erratic personalities.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 02:52 PM
1

Sure kiddo hit me up anytime for advice in this or any rp/pua regard.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 08:14 PM
1

Pushups, planking, crunches, squats, jumping/ squat jacks, and lunges. can all be done with 0 equipment. This is just very broad advice, but do pushups, ride the bike. Don't only do cardio, make sure you do some strength work, and ride the fuck out of the bike. you can also do dumbell work for shoulders and arms, and use those to add weight to lunges and squats.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 05:20 PM
4

Dude she wants to end the relationship, let her. The fundamental rule of RP and PUA is be able to walk away. She is clearly closing you out, and even mentioned how she wants someone else other than you. Your "family" is over. You don't have kids, you have the perfect opportunity to move on and find someone better suited to you. Who will actually fuck you.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/16 06:39 PM
1

People getting butthurt about penguins need to go to r/natureismetal for a tastte of what its really like out there. Competition > all
/r/MGTOW05/11/16 10:49 PM
0

I believe 100% of the time that has been said to me I've gotten laid. I think its also 100% to test your reaction. "What??? fuck that im out" is the worst reaction they fear (well one of the worst i guess). I always alleviate any pressure by saying "of course not, never", ignore it, or if they are asking if thats ok with me i always say something like "no pressure to do anything you dont want to do..." and just completely make them feel comfortable.
/r/seduction27/10/16 04:41 PM
5

I'm 6'3" if I were 245 of muscle I would be a monster. Workin on that.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 02:23 PM
2

Agreed, except when you're in a social group and they want to walk over you for their own benefit. Don't give a fuck, yes, but also don't let anyone shit on you.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 02:22 PM
1

I would be more aggressive. I have a good example. I have always been second guessed in new social groups, and I have always come out with high social status and alpha status over time. I have had more trouble with my current band doing that, but I have made a strong upswing for a lot of reasons. Example: our bassist, is not a great bassist overall, but is always on time to practice, puts in lots of extra legwork like networking, promoting sometimes, talking to venues, gets us gigs, etc. He is a…
/r/askTRP27/10/16 01:58 PM
1

My girl has snapchat and uses it all the time. She doesn't use it to send guys snaps though, so why would I be jealous? She sends me funny filters and stuff and how she misses me etc, keeps in touch with her friends back home, followers bloggers, girl stuff. Snapchat is no longer for sexting as it was when it started, mainly becuase you can replay stuff, save stuff, and its not the "10 seconds then gone forever" type app it was deemed to be (until hackers revealed all of it was saved anyway.) St…
/r/askTRP26/10/16 03:28 PM
2

Partying and sleeping out- quite possibly divorce honestly... Unacceptable to be partying like a single 20 year old and drinking and sleeping at someone else's house. Doesn't seem like a good relationship at all. She may well have already cheated, and probably has... her drunken party nights away from you are the highlight of her week??? You know there's a problem, and given your admission of being low smv, introverted etc it sounds like it is mostly you. Girls are gonna do what they do in that …
/r/askMRP23/10/16 03:34 PM
0

Honestly, why would you pay? Im not totally against it but why pay for what you can get for free? Dont get me wrong, fuck a hot hooker here and then if you want, but they're expensive and risky and i highly doubt you'll feel abundance when you have to pay someone to sleep with you. If AWALT, you shouldnt need hookers. Just be more proactive with dating... work harder.
/r/askTRP22/10/16 12:16 AM
1

Why I married my wife. She totally acts like a chick, but a actually admits when shes wrong.
/r/MGTOW13/10/16 01:04 AM
1

Probably a hardwired response to not get cut off from the herd and face death and isolation.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/16 04:16 PM
1

How did that come up in a conversation? Gross dude.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 03:27 PM
1

Yeah. Got a girlfriend now my ho's don't talk to me anymore. Got defriended by a few.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 03:26 PM
3

By not being a bitch like you are now. Dump. Get some balls and never refer to her as your "cheating gf." Dump now.
/r/askTRP24/09/16 01:18 PM
9

Move the fuck on. Go lift and date other girls and just ignore her at all costs, forever. Dont let em know it bothers you, just use the pain to motivate you to work harder, and when the results kick in, dont let her back.
/r/askTRP24/09/16 01:16 PM
27

Dread or just break up
/r/askTRP24/09/16 01:13 PM
13

I would suggest not doing any of this. Youre wasting your time and your life. Ps gary ridgeway is a sick fuck. Slightly concerning username. Dont invest energy hurting other people for the sake of it, thats what bitches do, and certainly not going your own way. Good luck.
/r/MGTOW09/09/16 06:21 PM
1

You're sucking the life out of this guy. Show him this post and then leave him to figure out where he went wrong. edit: well he let you so i dont blame you. Funny how women act: they want you to fight them. Straight up. They want to fight you over stuff and have you fight them back. If you give them what they want they resent you. Lol.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 07:02 PM
2

31, making $50k a year here.
/r/askMRP25/08/16 03:47 PM
2

Sounds like she 1.) wants more of your time, and 2.) is probably feeling threatened and yes, dread. She wants you to be less attractive to keep you, but don't let anyone try to keep you down, ever. Definitely keep going, if she gives you shit for it, just ignore her until she comes around.
/r/askMRP25/08/16 03:45 PM
1

Was in a terrible mood (super tired) at a bar at the beach when a smokin blonde came over and chatted up my friend. He then introduced me to her other friend, a brunette and i just walked away. Apparently she thought i was hot and wanted to meet me, but i was too moody and acted like a douche. 0/1.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/16 02:51 AM
-2

Well it did look like he punched her in the face bad. That picture she posted was no joke, so he probably would rather just pay her off than deal with any fallout from actual domestic assault.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 07:38 PM
1

ok reading, thanks for your response.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/16 03:44 PM
1

thanks, i wrote you a long ass response and deleted it all. probably will follow up later. reading now. need short term way to get her to think im sexy as fuck again and want to fuck the shit out of me. diet. attitude (no more complaining like a pusspuss.) positivity. cut the fucking porn out now so i stop feeling sorry for myself like a bitch. im just wondering why marriedrp is telling me my marriage was a mistake. this chick loves me, but yeah shes a chick and we all know how they are. shes a …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/16 03:42 PM
1

what do you mean specifically?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/16 03:32 PM
1

Im here for tough love and some truth. Thats why i wrote such a lame post, because i know somethings wrong and im trying to fix it. Ill take the asshole responses anyday. What makes you think that i think im special. How else than defensive should i act when being called all these things by strangers?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/16 03:08 PM
1

Not an accurate assessment of me at all. I wrote all the obviously flawed feelings i was having for perspective and brutal honesty. Im no pushover. Im not nice guy, operating on covert contracts. Im a guy whos in a crazy situation trying to make the best of it and reclaim the position in the relationship that is mandatory for it to work. I dont use niceness to get sex. I use my value and pua skills to keep everything at the level i will be content with, but its tough in a marriage obviously, whi…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/16 02:30 PM
1

Ive read it.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/16 02:24 PM
1

Knew enough to fuck dozens and dozens of women, and steal the girls from faggots like you.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/16 02:20 PM
1

Please enlighten me, internet beast.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/16 02:16 PM
1

Lmao you all think you know shit. Im sure you all are very impressive.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/16 02:06 PM
1

This is not very accurate, but has some merit. Not here looking for anything but the truth. Ill respond in detail later, but not really as simple as you make it. Trying ti get my head on straight about all this.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/16 02:05 PM
1

Die.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/16 02:01 PM
1

Thanks man, one of the only decent responses. Appreciate it.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/16 02:01 PM
0

Lmao. Ok dude. Ill read them but you dont know shit about me so dont talk like you do or ever will. Kid.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/16 01:59 PM
1

Yeah. This is all very very new and its much harder: more effort than just fucking strange girls. Both have their ups and downs.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/16 01:38 PM
1

That what dude? That im fucked? Or to read sidebar?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/16 01:37 PM
1

Shes still extremely affectionate, and i know the stress isnt made up, shes had losing her immigration status over her for a while. We are just having less sex, when we used to fuck all day. The past just 2 weeks weve still had sex, just not as much. Her actions are all loyalty and love tbh but its literally only the sex that im unhappy with because my drive is very high.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/16 01:36 PM
1

Yeah
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/16 01:33 PM
1

Thanks ill check it out asap.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/16 01:33 PM
1

Been there.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/16 01:32 PM
0

Says the guy who didn't care enough to read the post, and the comments, and make a cool comment about how no one cares.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/16 01:32 PM
1

Thanks. I used to know. This is all new.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/16 01:31 PM
1

Man my dick would fall off. I went to the std doctor 5-6 times last year and its no fun. (Im clean) but all that promiscuity can be more than you bargained for. Memories are forever though ;) its tough bro
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/16 10:56 PM
0

Listen to what?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/16 10:14 PM
0

Nope.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/16 10:01 PM
0

Feels like it sometimes.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/16 10:01 PM
-1

No shit thats why i am posting. Anything further to add here? Checking my ego can only say so much.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/16 10:01 PM
1

I was fucking lots of women and still fapped. Id say thats pretty common.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/16 10:00 PM
1

Recourse is us breaking up and she moves home.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/16 10:00 PM
-2

Meh "trying hard not to laugh" is pretty cunty.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/16 09:59 PM
0

Devi?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/16 09:59 PM
0

Looking for answers bro, not smartass remarks. This is marriedRP not regular RP. Ive fucked dozens of women and chose a great one to live my life with. But yeah, it seems comically stereotypical and im feeling like i made a huge mistake. But i still love her and dont want to end it myself, so I am trying to make the best of it. Believe it or not, there is more to life than sticking your dick in things.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/16 08:52 PM
1

Youre a man, very much so and very human. Guarantee every man who has ever lived has cried. Alpha behavior socially doesnt mean you dont have feelings. If you didnt youd be a sociopath. You loved your cat for a long part of your life and he died. Sad af. Dint be hard on yourself. My dad is 76 and real alpha and cried when our dog was put down. ;) just be yourself and be the best man you can be. Lifes tough, dont make it tougher by worrying about nonsense.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 11:28 PM
1

He prob slept around enough that she could get away with it...
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 02:53 AM
1

Hey man. Ok this is a shitty source since its huffingtonpost, but there is a ton of anecdotal evidence immediately available online that says a bad marraige is worse than a good divorce. http://www.huffingtonpost.com/brette-sember/why-a-good-divorce-is-better-than-a-bad-marriage-for-kids_b_6925236.html How can either of you be a good influence or role model for the children if you are getting walked all over, and she is acting like a fucking nazi around the house. If you are seriously accepting …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/16 05:19 PM
2

"Here are her red flags: She hasn't spoken to my family in 5 years and doesn't want to, because she believes they don't like her (self fulfilling prophecy) (bothers me a lot, because it limits my childs social options) She is a control freak, that doesn't even allow me to use the wash machine or iron or place something accidentally on the counter, etc. without causing drama, because of her germaphobe ocd (bothers me, but learned her rules) She refuses the establishment of common relationships wi…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/16 02:49 PM
1

Choosing the right photos > everything.
/r/askTRP05/07/16 04:52 PM
1

Ill help you tailor your profile if you want.
/r/askTRP03/07/16 08:03 PM
3

Good reaction when you realized it. She probably didnt know because he sounds beta enough for her to not have even considered him. Sounds like he was a desperate dude going after anything he can get, and you realized it and bounced. Good job, always satisfying to "win" these situations. Just keep an eye out and youll do fine.
/r/askTRP03/07/16 08:01 PM
14

Because they arent pussies about women, they have social status, "interesting" lives (at least in a college perspective, they have lots of parties and go out a lot doing stuff with their friends). They also have money to be in a frat usually, and a group of friends to qualify them, with lots of other girls to give them the competitive tingles (the most powerful of all probably.) Compare these guys, who have very active social lives, money, social proof, work out and look good to the opposite end…
/r/askTRP30/06/16 01:58 PM
1

My granddad was there on a ptboat at Omaha. He had "cleanup duty" i was told. RIP Gramps
/r/MensRights06/06/16 11:48 PM
7

Lmfao 11 dates good lord.
/r/askTRP25/05/16 11:08 PM
1

No.
/r/askTRP17/05/16 04:16 PM
4

I disagree that you can't "die like a man." You can whine and cry and make everyone else miserable. Or you can die like a fucking man. Example: My great uncle Bill. Drafted by the Yankees (but never made it out of the minors,) went to WW2, was a gunner in a B52 bomber. His brother was grievously wounded by germans, had his head blown apart and lived with a metal plate in his head for his life. Became a lawyer in North Carolina, where he practiced for many years. Long story short, Uncle Bill got …
/r/askTRP03/05/16 08:06 PM
2

lots of good advice in here for your OP. Dont put up with this shit. Trust us, its better to be alone than to be getting taken advantage of, mistreated, disrespected etc. Your relationship isn't worth saving if she is actively trying to cheat on you, which it sounds like. From your recording (which is a major red flag that your relationship fucking sucks anyway, since you dont trust her) she clearly was ready to push the envelope and HE had to stop HER. A couple of things here: 1.) she is no lon…
/r/askMRP03/05/16 06:44 PM
2

I honestly would start to draw the line very clearly here man. This guy is obviously interested, and she knows it. His flirty little texts haven't been responded to flirtatiously? Ok, well has she said anything to rebuff him? Like that she has a boyfriend, whos opinion on her nail polish is more important? How bad is this rough patch? TRP is gonna say use dread game, well the dread should be real for both of you. If she's gonna let some douche at work be all flirty, when is she gonna either stop…
/r/askTRP30/03/16 05:16 PM
1

You are psyching yourself out. Again, just take it slow and itll happen.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 03:44 PM
1

by not fucking caring about it. Just fuck the hell out of them and they wont care if its 5 or 7. Most guys are around your size, and girls rarely give a shit. There is literally nothing you can do about it (aside from dick jerking exercises) so accept it and use what you got to its potential. Thats all you can do. My advice - never fucking think about it again. Youre a guy, You have a dick. Just fuck the hell out of the girls with your hands, mouth, and dick and they will leave happy and wobbly.…
/r/seduction17/03/16 07:08 PM
1

Im not marketing a thing. I just enjoy helping guys (and a few girls heh) with the valuable experience and skills I learned over 12 years of this. Maybe i should try to make some extra cash mentoring in person, but right now Im just having conversations online with guys for free. Please go to my amazon registry and buy me gifts though. lmfao
/r/seduction16/03/16 03:09 PM
2

Then dont. Play the numbers game dude. This was the best piece of advice I ever got from a friend when I had oneitis with the model i mentioned. He was like you just want her, but you need to keep your options open. So I got on all the dating sites and talked to literally 10,000 women. Just swiped on tinder all fucking day, matched on okcupid all day, hinge etc. Went on tons of dates. What getting dumped told me is what I do NOT want. What I will not put up with in a relationship, and it got me …
/r/seduction16/03/16 03:08 PM
1

Why cant you get a woman with the "Body" you like? Sometimes you gotta settle to find the best combination of qualities. Sounds like you got the "perfect" body but the rest didnt work out. Its tough to find the perfect body with the perfect personality who is the perfect fit for you. Learn to appreciate a beautiful woman that might not have the exact measurements youd like. Sometimes, its all in your head what is "beautiful" and "desirable" to the point where you feel content. Stop obsessing ove…
/r/seduction16/03/16 03:05 PM
1

Put yourself in situations where you are meeting women naturally, without just going around during the day approaching. That can work for sure, but its easier when, say, you work around women, or have hobbies around women, and can get to know them without the pressure of "am i going to get rejected" that we put on ourselves. Use that social boost to seduce. Proximity is great, so try to go where all the ladies are until you start meeting some, and developing friendships. Then fuck some of them. …
/r/seduction16/03/16 02:24 PM
2

Hey man, went thru the same shit. You are starting really early which is great. Work on yourself and developing into a man. The women will follow. I can talk in more detail anytime youd like. Being naturally social but beat down by ass holes to the point where it affects your personality stings for sure, but thats why you have to overcome. People are haters 90% of the time, and younger people can be absolutely brutal, and for shitty reasons. Hit me up if you want.
/r/seduction16/03/16 02:18 PM
2

Honestly, you sound like a good friend of mine because he always tries to "hack" girls (hes a computer guy.) Honestly, if you want a "hack" it would be to try to talk to 100,000 women. Online, in person, etc, and just go for numbers. Thats the only "shortcut." Other than that, fix what you need to. Improve your prospects for the future, improve your social skills, honestly you should be working on these "deficiencies" a lot. Doing so will boost your confidence, and take you out of your comfort z…
/r/seduction16/03/16 02:16 PM
1

haha 70s a lot, but it sounds like you have to work on your inner game and your own life. If all you do with your time is chase women, you really dont have a lot of subtance in your life that will keep a woman interested in long term. Or you may be charming and good looking, but your personality and confidence overall need work. Develop your life beyond hooking up with strangers.
/r/seduction16/03/16 02:07 PM
1

Not sharing her name but she was on americas top model. i picked her up at a hotel gym, chatted her up, took her to a dive bar, hooked up all night, dated for like 6 months long distance. she broke up w me, which was the most motivating thing that has ever happened. Used the heartbreak to motivate myself to work as hard as I could getting my shit together, and once I got there I was going on nonstop dates with hotter and hotter women.
/r/seduction16/03/16 02:03 PM
1

dc
/r/seduction16/03/16 02:01 PM
1

at least 40-50. I really started getting nonstop dates when I was 29, and would go on 1-3 online dates a month, and usually fuck 1/2 of them. Beyond straight sex, Ive at least fooled around with easy triple digits, after a while it became nonstop, because I wanted to get there and I worked until i did. I stopped because I have a serious gf, but the month I decided I was going to date her exclusively, I had been playing the "numbers game" so much that I was just getting nonstop girls.
/r/seduction16/03/16 02:01 PM
1

Meh, im not gonna provide proof. No reason to. I am simply at a place in my life where I can pull women constantly based on a combination of many things (qualities, ability to talk with women/ social skills, ability to read body language and use it to my advantage, experience, age, etc) What would I show you anyway, blurred out photos of girls Ive slept with, or all the random nudes Ive gotten (often unsolicited.) Videos of me fucking girls? lmao
/r/seduction16/03/16 02:00 PM
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Honestly, my dating history was so up and down my whole life. I was either the winner or the loser in relationships until I met my current gf. I had dated girls and plenty wanted me to stick around, but never felt it until her. It just worked out well honestly. I dont think it was a coincidence that I managed to land my first attractive, loving gf after having established myself enough to the point where I was loving life as a single person, and a woman wanted to get in on it. Mainly, I got my s…
/r/seduction16/03/16 01:58 PM
1

Washington DC
/r/seduction16/03/16 01:54 PM
1

Cool, can i crosspost it somehow without reposting the whole thing? Otherwise I will prob repost this after finishing responses here.
/r/seduction16/03/16 01:54 PM
1

Hey this is (girls name.)
/r/seduction28/02/16 10:38 PM
2

ask her about her interests and passions, let her talk, then relate to her with awesome stuff in your life that connects with what she is interested.
/r/askTRP19/02/16 08:15 PM
1

Focus on relaxing. Then focus on the girl. Take it as slow as you need. The second you start stressing and worrying you will lose it so make sure you take it easy and dont worry so much. Remember: relax, take it slow, focus on getting horny. No rush, no pressure, no worries.
/r/askTRP24/01/16 10:07 PM
1

All anxiety man. Next time just slow yourself and both of you down. RELAX. And focus on getting as horny as possible. Get out of your head... And into your other head haha. Happened to me a lot when i was younger because id get so nervous. Now it never happens unless im hammered then i just go to bed and wake up and do it.
/r/askTRP24/01/16 06:21 PM
1

I would like to think of myself as a successful PUA. Started at 18, just turned 30. Changed from a total AFC with no game, but good qualities, to someone who pulls mad girls and has been called a "beast." Which is nice. One time I wrote a post in here because I was being an AFC bitch about a girl I was dating who was a model, and was stressed and anxious, and some kid cussed me out. "Poor little rock star (im in a couple bands that play local bar gigs) go FUCK yourself." I was like last time I p…
/r/seduction14/01/16 09:02 PM
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Man that chick is bad fucking ass. Don't feel like the chick. You probably have light PTSD or something after such an insane and stressful event. I mean your girlfriend shot someone in front of you. I would go get some counseling on your own time and try to let your head settle. Give her plenty of space as I am sure it is probably even more intense to her.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 06:40 PM
1

ty
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 07:14 PM
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Exactly. Just be dismissive. "Oh hey. Hope things are going well." (put back headphones in and finish workout) or be nicer. Catch up for a minute then say good seeing ya, and move along. Dont stress about it, if you do, use that to work out harder haha. She doesn't need to acknowledge what you already know about yourself. Seeking that approval is inherently putting her opinion higher than it should be. Best advice, dont even think about it. Keep doing you. Tell your friends that told you "oh coo…
/r/askTRP05/01/16 09:01 PM
2

This. Going dark isn't quite as critical since op dumped her, but the rest is on point.
/r/askTRP02/01/16 05:22 AM
2

What do you do?
/r/MGTOW30/12/15 01:01 PM
1

You know exactly what to do. Cut him out.
/r/askTRP28/12/15 10:03 PM
1

Haha. What i meant was swipe on 1000000000 and your chances of getting matches clearly go up. The more you swipe the more matches you get, then hit them up. "Play the numbers game" so i would swipe nonstop all day.
/r/askTRP26/12/15 10:33 PM
1

Figure it out bitch
/r/askTRP26/12/15 09:29 PM
1

Also, make sure to include at least 1 good full body shot. Include some showing off various interesting things you do. Group shots arent the best but will suffice if you look good and make it clear who you are. Keep bio short and sweet, mysterious, then swipe nonstop haha. Just imho
/r/askTRP26/12/15 01:01 AM
1

Given the limited amount of swipes and relatively limited amount of activity, I'd say 85% to 90% of those girls didn't even see you as a potential match, so don't take it personally. Keep working on you and playing the numbers game, a.k.a. don't swipe 100 swipe 100 every day.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 10:26 PM
1

Awful human
/r/MensRights24/12/15 06:49 PM
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Ignore. All you can do since she works with you. Any brutal comeback will surely make her burst into tears.
/r/askTRP12/12/15 02:12 PM
3

Cuz they spread disease and cant be trusted. Friend just got herpes... Dont fuck a girl who has sex with 42 men in a short span. Not worth the risk.
/r/askTRP12/12/15 02:10 PM
1

Of course she did. Lmfao. "Entertain me." More typical shitty behavior. Ignore her shell go crazy probably dying for attention, trying to figure out how she lost yours. Cool bros > shitty fake people. Nice move haha.
/r/MGTOW06/12/15 12:44 PM
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Lmfao that infuriates me. First to demand help, last to actually help. Legit dont talk to her again. Shes not your friend. She probably wont even contact you so just cut her loose. If she asks why, tell her exactly why, and expect a total "ew i did nothing wrong, whats your problem" response. Hilarious story but enraging.
/r/MGTOW05/12/15 05:35 PM
2

Get some hobbies and a life. Get a fuckin job dude. Then you will actually have shit to talk about. Build your confidence by working hard. Sitting around doing jack shit will make you feel worthless. Go do something.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 09:13 PM
4

i wanna see pics of this chick haha
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 08:47 PM
1

work out. bang other girls. only way to deal with it until you find someone else.
/r/seduction17/11/15 07:18 PM
2

Dont chase her anymore. Flaking is a deal breaker.
/r/askTRP14/11/15 07:21 PM
2

Dropping $20 all night or whatever isnt why he got laid and you didnt.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 06:55 PM
2

lmao give it a shot. If it looks bad, drop it. Bad facial hair is worse than no facial hair. Girls like nice beards though, often. See how it looks, if it sucks and is all patchy and scraggly, scrap it.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 05:12 PM
1

You don't. Either you text her "come over" and fuck her, or don't talk to her again. She seems low-quality. "Wow youre not being an ass hole, boring loser!" what a glutton for punishment. So never take her out or anything. Tell her to come over, or ignore her forever and find someone better than that.
/r/seduction16/10/15 02:29 PM
1

Haha fair. I am, but think of how many guys came to self improvement because of girls. Them not accepting what isnt good for our species like weakness and laziness exhibited by lack of confidence (or just perceived,) these guys are pushed from boys into men.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 12:32 AM
2

roflmao. You definitely have a point. Second half of your post/ final sentence is spot on. Some people are not good at communicating things like this, "not poking/prodding/being weak minded and letting FB trigger you... then dumping your guy." heh the ol FB trigger...
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 05:36 PM
2

haha. then why do you want to downvote me? Honestly the way I see it, like I mentioned, is that without women pushing men to be successful, we would do nothing. I feel like its part of evolution that women drive men. It's a good thing that they don't put up with scrubs. It's also a good thing for men, society and humanity that they are attracted to success (as well as looks yes,) but guys just want looks. It's a two-way street. Women have much less power to change themselves to be more attractiv…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 05:12 PM
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Honestly I think this is reasonable. The dude acted like a cheap ass schlub. Turns out he was a rich, cheap-ass schlub who inherited tons of money and doesn't do much. Didn't give a shit when she broke up with him. Interesting character, that guy... I feel for her tbh. She is just confused as hell and I really dont blame her here at all for her actions or reactions. If it werent for girls wanting men to be successful, guys would do jack shit with their lives haha. I assume Ill get downvoted, but…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 04:45 PM
1

slow down and develop an actual rapport before you say "i like you," it sounds like you barely know her. give her a real compliment thats specific if you must but theres no challenge and excitement to be had if you are already saying how much you like her. take it much slower. show her a good time and show her you like her, with physicality and charm. not so direct and blatant. in my opinion of course but it works better when there is mystery and build up. each girl is differnet and all but ive …
/r/seduction11/10/15 05:07 AM
1

Lmfao nice list here. Op listen to this cat.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 02:14 PM
0

Tough call. I didnt tell a friend her fiancee cheated, he did it again and she found out and divorced. Woulda saved them a lot of wasted time. Your sister cheated, got pregnant and had an abortion. Id tell her how you feel and say she needs to tell him herself as you dont like hiding and lying.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 02:12 PM
1

Tyler durden has some great stuff on youtube.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 02:10 PM
2

Yeah having a defense reflex is good. If someone touches you, the ideal reaction is swat their hands away immediately. Martial arts will ingrain this in you. OP might be time to take some classes and learn how to defend yourself.
/r/seduction30/09/15 07:05 PM
1

I disagree that the bigger you are the more likely you are to get AMOGed.
/r/seduction30/09/15 07:04 PM
2

if someone touches your shoulder and you "knock down many guys" because of it, youre a cunt. Who also runs to bodyguards... I dun beleeve u.
/r/seduction30/09/15 07:04 PM
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Yeah, honestly the best bet is just say "what the fuck? Dont touch me, were having a conversation." Then the girl can ideally step in and agree, and if she doesnt, then move on asap.
/r/seduction30/09/15 06:59 PM
1

I had to use a bottle once. Worked out somehow. If a guy that is a monster is threatening you, that is defending your life. People have died from bar punches, its not that rare. Honestly the best bet is avoid the fight altogether, I was trying to break up a fight and a kid punched me in the face so I reacted real quick and was jumped immediately (and defended.) Anyhow, this is a tough situation: completely surprising, completely uncanny in that you can't practice for something like that except m…
/r/seduction30/09/15 06:59 PM
2

This is also good.
/r/seduction30/09/15 06:05 PM
3

thats the Tyler Durden move. Make him a joke. "OK dude how baout a pushup contest. ME VS YOU" then just laugh at him. Anyway to use cleverness over size, which doesnt seem like an option here.
/r/seduction30/09/15 06:04 PM
2

Yeah, honestly if someone puts their hands on you that's crossing the line. Gotta say fuck off, grab a bottle or a glass in your hand and be prepared to smash it on his face. I know that's crazy and violent and bad news, but the dude basically assaulted you, technically. I would have been in shock as well but I'm like 220 so i might be harder to pick up than you, I lift but im def not close to jacked. I've been amoged before and had no idea how to react, and also shot down amogs. Its def a battl…
/r/seduction30/09/15 06:03 PM
1

She likes you still. Respond however you want.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 07:54 PM
3

You are probably seeming too "easy." Not enough of a challenge. Too direct, straightforward. Your plan seems like just that, a plan. 1,2,3,1,2,3,4. Too stratified. Wait a bit between texts, hit them with some teasing. Dating can be exhausting but it should be fun. Go after more girls until one clicks, instead of honing in on just one girl and doing your check list dating style. Get more shit to do in your personal life than just sitting around scheduling "the next date." Be more interesting, lik…
/r/seduction28/09/15 05:11 PM
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If you don't think you can trust her. If she stresses you out. If she plays games. If she doesn't text back within a reasonable time frame... move on. Don't chase, work on you and meet tons of women and people and develop an interesting life, work hard, and you will have more options.
/r/seduction28/09/15 01:16 AM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3l1odc/fr_former_cheating_wife_update/ read this shit and talk to this guy/ that sub about how to get what you want. He felt the same way and then worked on himself til she begged him for it. You can make that happen by upping your game, or you can move on. Either way work on yourself and you will find your path.
/r/askTRP16/09/15 08:51 PM
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well welcome to TRP. Where we understand what women truly want and react positively to. And dont say "this post makes me queasy, truly toxic caring about your wife's number" (from your /relationships post) Youll only get judged here for being a pussy, were all here to better ourselves and become better men. Hit up the married red pill like everyone says and you can get some good advice on how to make her WANT to do those things with you. I saw a great post there the other day very similar to you…
/r/askTRP16/09/15 08:50 PM
2

The only thing I can relate to is her not wanting a 3some, as there is a lot more to watching your husband fuck a girl then being with 2 random guys.
/r/askTRP16/09/15 08:41 PM
2

oh gay lube oil ive missed you
/r/askTRP16/09/15 08:40 PM
3

post saved- love it
/r/askTRP16/09/15 08:39 PM
2

I would try to push her in the right direction without being mean about it. If she fails to progress, or sint putting in effort then you can be more honest, but talk about how being healthy and fit is a new goal and you want her to join.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 07:24 PM
2

Love it, great post.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 10:47 PM
1

While all girls shit test, hotter girls seem more intense about testing and how you react. In the end they want you to win but hot girls test harder and are less forgiving in my experience.
/r/askTRP13/09/15 04:20 PM
1

That's strange... Move out asap and love your family from a distance haha.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 03:47 PM
1

Sounds like you are living in a situation where you have no control. You need to fix that. Takes a long time to be able to pay your own rent so start working your ass off now and be the man who can do what he wants without some "god awful family" who would go berzerk if you... used Amazon? Good luck man sounds shitty. Work your ass off and change it
/r/askTRP04/09/15 02:44 PM
1

when I was 17 I decided to learn how to play drums. Gave me an "identity" and something I could refer to myself as that demonstrated value. Made me more interesting as I finally snapped out of the malaise and gained a passion, something I could talk about that made me happy and more fun. It helped me meet tons and tons of people, and definitely got me laid a bunch. I remember my post-college GF looking at me like a lion looks at a gazelle once when I was on (a shitty open mic) stage, or when a s…
/r/askTRP03/09/15 07:11 PM
2

frame: attractive women get hit on by losers, you date attractive women, are used to it, losers are no competition. someone who would hit on a coworker via work email : idiot, loser etc. You are awesome and not threatened by some random guy. You also get hit on and choose to be with her (for your reasons, as long as she keeps living up to your standards.) There are over 3 billion women in the world so nothing that she could possibly do would ruin you. She will never have that power. As for him, …
/r/askTRP03/09/15 04:06 PM
1

Great post. After about 1.5 years of post-break up "manning up" aka working on me, dating tons of fine women, kicking all types of ass and establishing myself in my career and life etc. and now actually have a girlfriend. She's great. 23 year old brazilian au pair, super sweet. Fun to chill with. First girl I've stayed with for extended periods and felt comfortable and not bored or "why are you still here?" The thing is, I met her full of internal alpha mentality but injured my arm (drunken rage…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 09:00 PM
1

work on yourself. work on yourself. work on yourself. talk to, approach, date tons of other girls. youll get over her. i did.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 08:44 PM
1

bang em if you want. dont worry about waiting, theres no pressure who cares?
/r/askTRP20/08/15 08:43 PM
3

got dumped by a tv model i started dating after a bad dry spell. most motivating moment of my life. she wasnt a great person, i realize now. talked shit about people all the time, super judgmental, stuck up. i was blinded. motivated myself to work my ASS off. on ME. new job, hard workout routine, learned to cook, joined a band, dated dozens of great and beautiful women. more of a man than ever. She is dating some preppy douchey looking dude, and im happily dating a pretty brazilian sweetheart. o…
/r/seduction18/08/15 03:59 PM
3

exactly. men at 30 are more established, and mature, and the looks are still there (and if you take care of yourself should stay with you as a man) and are "men" and no longer "boys." Guess which is more attractive to girls and women?
/r/seduction13/08/15 03:45 PM
5

well you can date 18 year olds or you can date 45 year olds when youre 25-35. older women love sex and have experience, and younger girls love older guys so its pretty fun.
/r/seduction13/08/15 02:38 PM
11

for me definitely.
/r/seduction13/08/15 12:28 AM
1

block, ignore, call her out on her shit.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 08:11 PM
2

i did it. change yourself and let them see it. by then you wont be pressed on one girl anyway.
/r/seduction05/08/15 03:24 PM
15

lmfaaaaaaaaaaao ahaaaaaha.... the whispering wind spoke simply.... "chad....."
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 08:04 PM
29

lmao its accurate tho. kid wanted to make love to her, she wanted to get fucked by big dick bro.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 08:02 PM
15

Yes, but he denied it and told her to fuck off. Good for him, a young ass kid in a brutal, brutal situation. 4 year girlfriend throws away everything to get some alpha dick.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 08:01 PM
16

Brutal. "The emotions and tingles are always > everything else. Always." This was what I learned when I was 16 and realized that girls instinctively flock and follow whomever can provide them with this. And not just that, but any male who doesn't give them these feelings, aka not alpha males, is literally irrelevant and treated like an asexual being... Literally nothing matters more than the tingles/ emotions. Nothing.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 07:58 PM
2

that sucks bro. sorry you have to deal with this. the #1 answer to any type of problem you can not control, is to own it. Like Tyrion in Game of Thrones, wear that shit like its armor. https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/f4/0a/ff/f40aff9f685d4eb756957cb53183596e.jpg you cant control it so just accept it, dont be embarassed about it. its the reaction that girls care about. are you confident enough of a man to deal with it? or are you meek, scared, and embarassed, uncomfortable in your own s…
/r/askTRP30/07/15 08:44 PM
2

fuck no go graduate
/r/askTRP30/07/15 07:13 PM
1

Bro, your attitude is gonna be what either separates you from the pack and gains you charisma and energy, or its gonna make you miserable. Being pissed is bad energy. Feeling bad for yourself is bad energy. Its weak. I know the most charismatic kid in the area who looks like your description. But he is super fun and always the life of the party. And pulls top ladies. So stop feeling sorry for yourself, stop eating and drinking like shit, and man up! If you take better care of yourself youll feel…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/15 10:12 PM
1

mimic the hottest actors/ celebrities and their poses
/r/seduction14/07/15 07:38 PM
1

I used to be super talkative in small groups where I knew everyone, and then would have NOTHING to say in big groups. Nothing would come to me, I had no idea how to interact on larger scales. Waiting tables helped, as did going out all the time. You learn what people react positively to in conversations. The biggest thing that has helped me in dating is this: ASK PEOPLE ABOUT THEMSELVES, THEIR INTERESTS, and THEIR PASSIONS. Conversations will stem naturally from asking people what they're intere…
/r/seduction07/07/15 05:50 PM
0

While I mostly agree with what people say, I think they are downplaying your SMV as a 4th year med student/ soon to be doctor. Give it a shot but long distance is tough regardless of your GF.
/r/askTRP01/07/15 08:01 PM
1

Get new friends, motivated friends who want to be the best. Surround yourself with people who are better than you, and you will improve. Surround yourself with betas who are weak and have no ambition, and you will regress. I went to the beach with my beta friends and wanted to puke. Cant hang out with betas anymore, unless its just to watch sports/ play video games/ get drunk every once in a while, cuz thats all they are good for.
/r/askTRP01/07/15 06:56 PM
1

My general rule of dating is that if a girl is "sooo confusing" then she aint worth it. If you dont know the answer, then that IS the answer. dont waste your time being a chump.
/r/askTRP01/07/15 06:50 PM
3

2 - god damn it. I have a reputation as a bad boy, but when I really like a girl, I revert to the nice guy stuff. Got me dumped or discarded more than a few times. When a "nice" babe likes me I assume I should be nice back. But being bad works soooo much better ;)
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 04:09 PM
2

I am trying to work on my confidence man, got any advice there? I have had lots of success but my confidence comes and goes in huge waves and lately ive had 0 for some reason. Nothing I ever do is good enough and I feel like a piece of shit. Such low self esteem and its driving me crazy.
/r/askTRP14/06/15 07:44 PM
2

I'm 29 and wondering the same thing.
/r/askTRP14/06/15 07:29 PM
1

When you start feeling like you are non-existent to her its over. Personally, I know it's just a matter of time before I lose the girl when I start worrying about her, being anxious this and that. As a very anxious guy, the second it hits me about a girl its done. When I dont care the girls love me forever. When I care about how they feel about me, or whether they will stick around, they pick up on it and its over. Anyhow, back to this girl, get some balls and break up with her. She is disrespec…
/r/askTRP01/06/15 08:49 PM
1

Giving her # to someone in front of you says a lot man. That she was very drunk also does. I'm actually angry from this haha. If I was ever out with a girl, much less exclusive for 6 months, and she gave her # to a random guy in front of me, I would be livid. What possible reason would she have for that? The only reason you give a random guy your # is that you are both interested in a potential date or whatever. I would strongly consider this a HUGE red flag, both for her to have done it at all …
/r/askTRP01/06/15 08:39 PM
1

lift dude. eat well: veggies, fruit, protein... quick rundown of lifting: focus on 4 main exercises: squat, deadlift, bench press, shoulder press. Keep it up and youll build muscle and lose fat in no time!
/r/askTRP13/05/15 12:30 AM
21

Chill, don't be outcome dependent and give her another shot. If she wants to make it up to you, let her. If she flakes again, then she isnt worth your time and move on. Either way, no big deal brotha! Keep kickin ass. Trust your gut, i mean you should know that bullshitters aren't worth your time, but you have no idea yet. Dont worry too much about the words, just be confident in yourself and happy with your own life, and give her a shot to enjoy that with you. If it doesnt work out, or you feel…
/r/seduction28/04/15 08:38 PM
1

Ask them questions. Get them to open up. Ask them about their passions, talk about yours.
/r/askTRP14/04/15 03:17 AM
1

Your opinion means nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/15 11:04 PM
2

Haha i said for myself. But if trp is full of faggots like you crying for bans then go ahead. Ive fucked dozens and dozens of fine women. Do you think i ask them how many guys theyve been with? Nope, too busy fucking them to care.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/15 01:39 AM
16

I don't really care if the girl im sleeping with has had sex with many other guys. A lot of TRP guys are obsessed with their girlfriend's "number," but I think it's hypocritical for me to judge as I am promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/15 05:29 PM
1

this happened to me once, but i invited both of them and didnt think both would be free. i said "hey this is my friend blank, this is blank" then went to the one i wasnt in convo with and said hey go downstairs and get us some drinks ill meet you there in a minute. then i went back and forth for like an hour until girl A had to leave, then brought girl B home. hehe
/r/askTRP11/04/15 03:21 AM
1

Saying " im way nicer than your asshole ex," who you know nothing about is probably the most beta thing I've heard lately. Sounds so jealous and intimidated, negative, dramatic etc etc. Is this a niceness contest now? And since when does calling someone you don't know an asshole make you nicer than them? Be way more chill and confident than bad mouthing another guy, it makes you look like a woman. Real men don't shit talk other guys like that, or bash people they don't know and try to say that t…
/r/askTRP13/03/15 04:58 AM
1

Go out more. Get out of your comfort zone enough and the whole world becomes smaller and less scary. Surround yourself and make friends with guys who are naturals. Theyll help you man up and grow. You got it
/r/askTRP13/03/15 04:51 AM
2

what a loser. who the fuck is she to tell you you cant bring girsl over? shes uncomfortable? go fuck yourself. tell her you can bring over whoever you want, and if girls stay over thats YOUR business and not any of hers. what a nosey cunt. she doesnt like you hooking up with chicks but really its not her business at all. its not like youre fucking in the living area, its your room. tell her that its not her place to butt in with your relationships and dating life at all, and that she has no righ…
/r/askTRP09/03/15 02:34 AM
8

yeah tinder just doomed themselves. i decided to keep it but ill never pay, so sorry to all the ladies that enjoyed getting my match
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 07:32 PM
1

what is this main event you speak of?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/15 09:23 PM
1

Can you give some more insight/ links or anything about the amused mastery and dealing with shit tests? I get so annoyed at shit tests sometimes that I fail them by losing frame. "how dare you come at me with some random bullshit" when really that's part of any relationship with women haha.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/15 09:21 PM
1

haha back in my beta days i used to love having hot ass girls as my friends. now id rather not be friends with a girl i want to hook up with who doesnt have any feelings for me in that regard, whats the point? they usually dump your ass as a friend once they find that guy that they obsess over. not worth it. having friends is good tho, as well as hot ones, gotta be able to have both, but if im really into a girl and shes not into me i def dont talk to her on the phone for hours at 2am (usually a…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 08:22 PM
6

dear god
/r/MGTOW01/03/15 05:16 PM
1

That sounds awful but to each his own. how is that a marriage?
/r/askTRP24/02/15 01:19 AM
5

Great post, very similar feel to me, at least where we are at now. In the same predicament. Lonely as fuck but getting laid a lot. Cant handle those minor irritations myself. The whole "I will next you" TRP mentality is a great way to end up alone. Will read that greentext later, and follow up more. Saved this post becuase I dig it. Trying to find meaning myself, apparently life doesnt become meaningful from having sex with women? Crazy!!! hah.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/15 10:01 PM
4

lol. This girl I was dating a few months back was really intense. The night we broke up she got really mad that I didnt open the door for her (a move I actually consciously made, not out of disrespect but I just wanted to walk into this dive bar first) she was quickly dismissed. "Youd better open the door for me" (intense look in her eyes) "haha are you serious??" "YES" .... it didnt work out.
/r/askTRP19/02/15 08:52 PM
2

Lol clueless caterpillar? Heh. Just shake them gently not like a broshake, the eye contact and confidence is key to a good first impression. Turn their hands slightly on top of yours but dont be a neckbeard about it. Its not as important as the eyes tho.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 09:11 PM
7

Yes definitely but not like a manshake. Take their hand and turn yours so the girls is on top like the classic gentleman move. Nothing fancy, but with some good eye contact and a smile youll seem charming. Its good to make physical contact normal right off the bat, so a handshake or a hug are good moves.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 05:28 PM
2

If she wont fuck you. Then leave. Simple as that.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 04:51 AM
0

I was being nice. Now i vet them more intensively. Was a year ago, i have plenty of self respect, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 02:49 AM
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Bout 8 for the last 8 so its pretty efficient ;)
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 01:05 AM
-1

I usually spend a good bit, get pretty drunk, and get the lay on the first night. So night usually looks like: good beer and shots all night at my favorite bar, possibly go to another bar or just hang out there until i invite her back. done this many many times. I do end up spending at least $60 usually tho, recently I got stuck spending $100+ because the girl would just order $10 drinks all night. (This one girl in particular.) 2 great nights, but sucked since I just started working fulltime an…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/15 05:56 PM
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Haha this happened to me on one of my first online dates. Chick grilled me about whether i would pay for the first date, shows up and im immediately completely disappointed, her lower body was massive, and gross. Was nice to her tho and ended up wasting $60. Shoulda done what op did and just excused myself, maybe sans insult.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/15 04:29 PM
1

flirt with your eyes, go back multiple times until a good moment opens up and then ask for her # discreetly so she doesnt get embarrassed or in trouble.
/r/askTRP06/02/15 05:14 PM
5

Girls are not logical, but honestly man, once these alarms start going off and the confusion sets in, it is inherently proving that this is not going well. She's lying to you, that much is obvious. So, what is the reason? That is why you are confused, but in the end it doesn't matter because she's lying to you regardless of why or if you understand it, and you're starting to get a bad feeling, right? In my experience, these types of relationship blunders or hurdles spell a bigger problem, and ar…
/r/askTRP27/01/15 03:23 PM
4

This is a normal conversation dude. She doesnt wanna sit on her phone all day and text, she has a life. As should you, hopefully. Same thing I do. I will take hours to respond, but I will respond thoughtfully with intention of keeping it going. People who live their lives via text are annoying. She's not playing hard to get, she's being a normal cool chick. Stop stressing and do the same thing, instead of waiting by your phone wondering why she hasnt texted back yet.
/r/seduction23/01/15 06:39 PM
0

Lol k
/r/askTRP22/01/15 01:01 PM
15

yall need to chill the fuck out. The dude has a question, just answer it and maybe mention some points from this haloed sidebar instead of just attacking him for not doing everything perfectly, according to whoever's fucking standards. Trying giving some constructive advice instead of being ass holes for no reason.
/r/askTRP21/01/15 07:48 PM
1

Well she is emotionally cheating it seems like, and is definitely interested in pursuing other men. To me, that's cheating, and if you put up with it youre fucked either way. I would start looking for an exit so you dont keep suffering, as it seems this girl might be ready to move on in her life, which happens. Good luck either way man.
/r/askTRP20/01/15 06:37 PM
1

She's cheating. Break up with her.
/r/askTRP18/01/15 12:23 AM
3

Yeah its basically putting her in charge of the interaction. Ops reaction was perfect, ignore then joke about it in an alpha-ish way. Nah he wasnt hitting on you he was hitting on me. Lighthearted, funny and confident. Good job op.
/r/askTRP14/01/15 11:29 PM
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Ehh dont put your girl on the spot like that. I get and dig the theme there, but id never open the door for him to start increasing his hitting on her etc. Walking away is fine, dont seem scared or intimidated. Brush it off.
/r/askTRP14/01/15 11:15 PM
2

To beta or not to beta. If you are not and ESL person then you need to learn how to spell. As for your beta Ness you need to work on your attitude. Distrust usually comes from lack of confidence. Lack of confidence usually comes from lack of work at attacking what your week at that you want to be good at. hit me up via p.m. if you want some direct advice. But it sounds like you aren't happy with how you've been acting and feeling, which is common. It's not a big deal but who wants to be pissed o…
/r/askTRP10/01/15 08:12 AM
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How about "dont touch me" edit- creepers getting offended that girls dont want them to sexually assault (grope) them...
/r/MGTOW06/01/15 04:39 PM
0

Friend of my sister's friend: was in a pizza joint near where I live in the city, not a great area but up and coming. Dude is arguing with his girl, guy steps in, first guy pulls out a gun and shoots him in the stomach, dead by the end of the night after intense suffering. Fuck people like that, but I still believe stepping in for a woman when a strange man is being aggressive is the right thing to do. The other day some dude must have been hammered on the train and was yelling out shit and maki…
/r/MGTOW06/01/15 04:31 PM
2

Good times.
/r/MGTOW06/01/15 04:28 PM
1

Yeah, I didn't say it lasted forever. Women tend to get fat as they get older though, and stop putting in the effort it takes to look their best, then they all sit around and talk about how cute each other are. I worked for a woman who was VP of finance at a very successful business, and she was 42 (probably 44 now,) looked like she was 32, very young at heart, and was gorgeous. She played sports, partied, worked hard, was single, and clearly a heartbreaker. One of those independent, successful,…
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/15 07:41 PM
5

dude Im a guy. I am an invader as well. I was saying I have known slutty ass girls with rough reputations that ended up marrying, and having nice little kids and a great little family with dudes that seem pretty cool. Good looking, jobs, I dunno about their relationships really because I have hooked up with several of these girls and never met their husbands. I knew a girl known as "titty slut" who was well known as a drunken slut, now married to a good looking guy, who takes care of her and her…
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/14 05:26 AM
0

Ive known plenty of girls that have had shitty game, gotten "pumped and dumped with a +1 partner count" and then ended up with great guys as their husbands. I know lots of dirt, and have had sex with some of them... big deal! Seriously, I can think of several girls who were awkward, slightly crazy, very varied in their levels of attractiveness (even at different points throughout their lives changing) and are happily married to really great guys, with kids and all that (I'm 29.) So just on anecd…
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/14 04:54 AM
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Jesus, the accuracy of this post is ridiculous. It makes me sick and looking at my exes in this way just shows the truth, they'll say it's lack of love but it's just them wanting that Alpha feeling.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 01:50 AM
11

nah man. get some self respect and some other girls.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 04:06 AM
1

yeah, its funny how the responses were pedestaling this girl just based on me saying she was "hot." Without having seen any pictures of her at all or anything about her personality or behavior at all, people seem to think i should still have gone for it. This is pedestaling her inherently, but i ended up going out with another girl that same night who was really cute too, (went great til I got too drunk tho damn) thats the thing, when your game is tight and your playing the numbers, one hot girl…
/r/seduction29/12/14 03:55 AM
3

Go on about this negative gaming of personality
/r/askTRP24/12/14 01:41 AM
3

yeah man, me too. i used to blow it every time a girl would be interested, it just comes with experience and confidence and pushing yourself. youll get it. I had a really gorgeous greek girl once message me "i have a crush on you" and i made fun of her for it and 2 years later realized she wasnt fucking with me. too late :) haha oh well man there are tons and tons and tons of girls just keep working on yourself and you will be able to date scores of great girls.
/r/seduction18/12/14 05:51 PM
2

I dunno man, he sounds like a mess. Accusing you of cheating with her? I would tell him to break up with her already, and avoid him until he does. Sounds like she is bringing him down, and dating someone who is a cheater is a great way to stay depressed.
/r/askTRP18/12/14 05:15 PM
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Don't know how old you are, but starting at 18 is when i started and its young as hell and a great age to get into it.
/r/seduction18/12/14 04:28 PM
1

18 I'd say. I'm 29 now... it has changed me immensely for the better, although there was a period where I feel it made me too shallow, as I was valuing looks, alphaness and social skills over everything else which is lame. Now I of course will still only be interested in girls I am attracted to, and looks is a huge factor, but I try not to be so judgmental in general, viewing betas as less than men or unattractive women as not worth my time. Trying to find a balance there. Aside from that, it ha…
/r/seduction18/12/14 04:13 PM
2

Could be. I was impatient but i didnt like some of her game tbh. Wasnt feeling the enthusiasm! Heh
/r/seduction17/12/14 02:37 AM
2

ITT: looking good isnt required, but it helps. The amount of attention I have gotten from ladies after working out has skyrocketed. I think a fundamental red pill theory is pretty much "girls are just as sexual and attracted to looks as guys." Don't get upset that the girls you are attracted to because of their looks are attracted to men because of their looks. I'll be in the gym doing squats after work and sweating my ass off, earning the sexual attraction of women (whereas before when I was we…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 08:47 PM
1

it was actually a snapchat which tells you when theyve been opened.
/r/seduction16/12/14 04:43 PM
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Yes and it also makes them more attracted to you when they see that you are independent and not clingy so it helps the relationship regardless.
/r/seduction16/12/14 03:46 AM
1

Dude, brilliant response and spot on! I really liked this post and the Zen of the Surfer. Saving your post for later.
/r/askTRP15/12/14 09:55 PM
27

yeah buddy. This is huge. Once you incorporate this attitude into your dating life you will cut out a ton of wasted time, effort, and misery.
/r/seduction15/12/14 09:10 PM
47

I read this article a few months ago and it has really changed how I approach dating. If a girl is being flaky or showing a lack of interest, that is all I need to move on. I was talking to a really hot 23 year old chick for a bit, and all it took was her to say "I didnt get that text" after seeing a "read receipt" that she had, for me to say "Hey I'm not feeling the level of enthusiasm here, take care!" She had a very minor freak out, since I am sure she was not used to guys ending it like that…
/r/seduction15/12/14 09:10 PM
1

Yeah dude if she is playing games then move on right away. I had a really high SMV girl I dated this year that really reopened my eyes. I was striaght PUA/ alpha by the end of college when I was working in bars full of girls and playing with bands. I moved home and became beta because I was isolated from my friends and young people, and became beta with her. She dumped me obviously and then I woke up again. The best part of that relationshit was now I know exactly what i will NOT put up with, an…
/r/seduction10/12/14 10:12 PM
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I had this problem a lot. The trick is not worry about it so much. Some girls its just gonna click with and some girls its just not. Do what feels right and if she doesnt respond dont hit her up again for a while. Post-hookups are often awkward, especially when youre younger, so just do what feels natural and dont stress. Keep yourself busy and go have fun with your friends. Dont sit around and wait for her to text you etc. Dont be afraid of losing what isnt yours.
/r/seduction10/12/14 10:00 PM
1

Dude I have quit adderall. I hate that shit. Overprescribed speed. I am 6'3" and lift weights and weigh 215, when I was on adderall I weighed 190, I never slept, my tolerance was super high and my dependence was extreme, although all mental. Quit that shit it sucks. I was having anxiety attacks, smoking tons of cigs which i dont even smoke at all anymore, I was having ED from all the stimulants, combined with hypersexuality which was terrible. I quit cold turkey after 4 years or so and felt like…
/r/askTRP10/12/14 09:58 PM
0

Dude you're 19 you are so young that you haven't missed out on anything. Your life starts today. Keep up your motivation and hard work and you will overcome any bullshit you grew up with/ reach any goals you set. Just pick the goals and start working. Lifting club and therapy are great. Keep pushing yourself and attacking your weaknesses until you are so full of confidence girls just want you bad.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 09:56 PM
1

Yeah ask me some questions. I went from a beta 18 year old who could have been alpha but didnt work hard and was awkward cuz all i did was play video games and get showered with love by mommy/ ignored by daddy, but have turned everything around and at age 29 am having the best year of my life. more sex, more dates, more fun, more work, more freedom, more of a man. I also have anger problems, working out, getting good sleep, not drinking too much, eating right, the normal healthy stuff will help,…
/r/askTRP10/12/14 09:55 PM
3

You are the man and have no fear of yourself or need to hide your intentions. You wanted a date, you are a man, she is a woman, you date women, she could be one of them. Don't answer a question with a question. "Not like a date right?" "Yeah actually a date, why else would I ask a woman out for drinks?" You have no reason to hide your intentions, and if you are hiding them you are acting inherently beta and losing.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 09:51 PM
1

"Not like a date right?" sometimes means they want it to be a date. She could have been clarifying for her own sake. Next time say "yes a date." If she says shes not interested, great! youve just saved yourself time and money. Nothing to lose.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 09:49 PM
3

brotha. any time a girl is giving you mixed signals: the signal is clear. Move on. 29 here, with 11 years of PUA experience... If i had accepted this years ago, and had the confidence in how hard i work now and experiences, I would go back and tell my young self that stressing over women is never worth it. The second they start making you stressed out, you move on. Do not reward a girl who is giving you mixed signals by putting up with it. If you aren't happy, emphasis on YOU, then it simply isn…
/r/seduction10/12/14 09:47 PM
2

Hmm I don't know what type of advice you are expecting. She sounds pretty terrible. Tell him. If he is that pussy whipped and beta that he would sacrifice your all's friendship over this girl that seems utterly useless and clingy, demanding, high-maintenance, with an inflated self ego and sense of entitlement (use john bs cell phone lol) then he's too beta to hang out with real men anyway. I understand he's a good friend, like a brother, so tell him man to man. It hurt when I brought my crazy ex…
/r/askTRP10/12/14 07:24 PM
2

lol. well cool man, you are playing it perfectly. "she texted me while i was with one of my plates" I love that. When you're with one girl and your friend is just blowing up... that's when you know you have high SMV and many options. So great job! From what it sounds like.... who the fuck cares! You need to have such strong inner-game that the answer to any of those questions is "it doesn't matter anyway." Is she not emotionally ready for you, as in she is still hung up on an ex? Does it matter?…
/r/askTRP25/11/14 09:19 PM
1

sup man, she ever hit you back?
/r/askTRP25/11/14 05:35 PM
0

Spot on lol. Not worth it
/r/askTRP21/11/14 05:00 AM
12

Yup. My ex was a lawyer. Very demanding. Very argumentative. Constantly shit testing me. Stuck up. Shallow. Judgmental. Full of herself. etc etc. completely put me through a rollercoaster of shit that helped me grow a ton though. Namely it spelled out very clearly what I did not want to ever put up with again. I wish I could re-date her so I could call her out on all her shit haha.
/r/askTRP20/11/14 09:17 PM
-5

Put your height in your profile. edit- downvoting me here is stupid. If you want to screen out girls who are going to screen you out because of your height, put it in your fucking profile. It's like fat girls who hide their bodies in all their pics, its basically a lie, and trying to trick people into going on a date with you by being dishonest, because if someone sees you in person and you're not who they thought, you will both be disappointed and be wasting time. Girls who are gonna judge you …
/r/askTRP20/11/14 09:15 PM
2

Yeah, you are too hung up on her, which is an attraction killer. You have to genuinely be a better person, have more options, and have a higher SMV to be able to have girls of a high quality not affect you so much. Just keep working on you so that you have all your shit in line, and play the numbers game so that you have lots of options, and you'll see that this girl is useless, not important, not worth your time and DEFINITELY not worth your emotions. Maybe worth fucking, but once you are truly…
/r/askTRP20/11/14 08:13 PM
2

Yeah I have a lot of anxiety myself, and it always increases when the girl is very attractive, so I have been retraining my mind to lower the value of looks in my eyes, which can only really be done by having equal, or more attractive options. So work on that. And move out asap. I lived at home for 1.5 years after having been on my own for 6 years or so, it was brutal. Having to sneak girls in to your pad, and being treated the same as you were in high school is the worst. So stressful. I had a …
/r/askTRP20/11/14 08:07 PM
2

there's your problem. Stop rationalizing women's behavior, you are already losing. The issue is that it doesn't fucking matter "why." You are too focused on yourself, goals, and being awesome that this one random ass, flaky, lying, borderline sketchy with the whole favor thing, girl is not that important. She shouldn't be. That being said, as I said in the comment I just posted, I've fucked flaky girls. Just don't treat them with too much respect since flaking is inherently disrespectful, and so…
/r/askTRP20/11/14 07:46 PM
2

ok so i checked your post history for the original post (include the link next time would be better,) so she stood you up pretty good. "im gonna be late" turns into no-call, no-show, then the classic "emergency with a dead phone" bullshit. So yea, shes a liar, most girls are, especially to guys they arent infatuated with yet. So your response was to try to take her straight to a motel to fuck her? Do you live with your parents or something? A better move is taking her to a cool spot near your pl…
/r/askTRP20/11/14 07:43 PM
0

i have a strict "dont ask, dont tell" policy. I havent had a girl ask in years, and she had a high number I know.
/r/askTRP20/11/14 04:00 AM
3

the hotter the girl is, the less you should compliment her. you can say nice stuff about her tho but dont act like its a big deal, drop it and move on. or use it right before going in for a smooch. Ive noticed the hotter, more stuck up girls look down on compliments, especially if they seem ingenuine or are too easy to get for them, or are just based entirely on their looks, because it becomes beta if you do it wrong. not a big deal tho just dont overdo it, and dont compliment girls with huge eg…
/r/askTRP20/11/14 03:57 AM
7

This pretty much sums up how every point OP made is inherently beta as fuck. OP we believe in you, but quit being a pussy and stop doing things you dont want to do for people. Nothing more alpha than being strong enough to disagree without giving a shit, because you know you are right. Tell her youre sick of driving her around and stop doing it. If your group cries about it tell them to drive her, or fuck off.
/r/askTRP19/11/14 08:05 PM
2

Um you know the answer to this. Don't ever put up with someone who treats you with disrespect. She isn't your girlfriend, she is just a girl who is using you, and walking all over your beta ass. (no offense but gotta give out the tough love.) stop being a pushover. Make plans with other girls. Stop hanging out with her so much. Dont pick her up. Dont do favors for her. Dont fucking get her lazy ass her drinks. Learn how to say "no." without explanation. Say no becuase you want to say no. She sou…
/r/askTRP19/11/14 08:03 PM
7

Guess I'll go against the grain and not be a dick (although I agree you shouldn't expect people to do research on you, include all relevant details in your post.) So you are in a frat, 20 years old, and dating a 19 year old girl. 100% chances eventually you will break up. How many more girls could you date? Pretty much unlimited if you have your shit together, and it sounds like you are headed in that direction. So, she's gonna be at another party getting drunk and bringing in strange men to mee…
/r/askTRP18/11/14 06:34 PM
4

haha hey man. After she was texting me saying how she was going to be in town, I think I waited 2 weeks and said "why are you telling me youre coming on town like you want to see me again?" and she just responded ":)" so i deleted her number and stopped talking to her. Haven't heard from her since.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 03:40 PM
2

That's all in your head man. No one cares. Your social anxiety is projecting realities that are fantasy. You are worried about what people are going to think of you, and assume people are going to even notice. 99% of the time people are caught up in their own shit to notice some dude chillin at the bar. Sometimes you gotta do things on your own, take off your training wheels. I would go to the bar and watch a Chicago game, blackhawks/ bulls/ bears, and just enjoy it. Have a couple drinks and cha…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 08:34 PM
2

Sounds like you need to put in a lot of time towards expanding your social circle, and probably hanging out with people that dont rub in your lack of relationships lately. Girls tend to want the guys they hang out with to be sexually active, I've noticed, girls have definitely called me out during dry spells, or acted like I was being stupid if I wasn't approaching girls when we are out etc. Dont worry about that, but 2 years of no sex sounds like you need to get out there and have some random s…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 07:27 PM
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Awesome man, it sounds like you are definitely on the right track. Anger is a powerful motivator, for sure. I get very angry sometimes and it motivates me to hit the gym very hard, and then I feel better, stronger, more badass, and then you get fit/ get more ladies, you wont be as angry. It will take time to get over your ex for sure, months and even years, but in the meantime you will be growing stronger as a man, and getting mad ladies so you might actually end up pretty content. Just don't le…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 09:18 PM
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great stuff man. That's the good thing about breakups, and honestly I feel like they are an evolutionary mechanism to push men to exceed their current states and push themselves to work harder and harder. Every time I've gotten dumped, it's always really really hurt but I end up rising like a phoenix from the ashes and being better than I was before... and then all of a sudden getting dumped seems like a positive thing. Youve already done the hardest part: dispelling the "flood of delusions" you…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 07:21 PM
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Yeah and you will be prepared for whatever people throw at you when they might attack you personally, or test you, or push your limits/ test your limits etc.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 07:16 PM
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Hey man so finally writing you back. It's hard to give you any input without knowing anything about you, want to PM me with some details and we can try to figure out why the ladies arent responding as they should?
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 05:57 PM
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haha im allergic to yellow jackets i feel your pain! But, I would attack that fear. Go to the park and walk around and be calm around flying insects, they dont tend to attack unless you threaten them. If I see a yellowjacket or wasp, yeah I get freaked out becuase those are really dangerous for me, but I stay calm and gtfo. Once you attack that fear, you will feel more proud and confident because you have conquered your fear. You shouldnt avoid walks because you are scared, you should face them …
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 04:49 PM
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Sounds like you are doing pretty great man. To deal with social anxiety I have put myself in the position where: socializing is so easy that I literally have to put in no effort. Basically, I moved in with social people, there are always things going on and people to see. To get to a local bar I have a short mile or less walk. Before, when I was living at home again with the parents, I lived so far away from fun areas and it took so much effort to go out and meet up with friends that I just stop…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 06:41 PM
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Well I am a musician, drummer in a main band and occasionally play with other bands. Hobbies should be something somewhat productive, fun, social, but honestly if you are passionate about ANYTHING that is an attractive thing. "If you're bored, you're boring." I love sports, watching them, playing them, I train a little in martial arts (kung fu,) hanging out with friends, going to concerts, partying, going to bars, nothing too crazy honestly, but I am busy. If you stay busy, it's attractive to wo…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 04:54 PM
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I tried to do both. I put in tips for online dating, and how i use what ive learned from pua and trp to reach goals that ive set, and tried to relate some basic stuff about what women want. I can go into more detail about specifics, and i have some pm's where i will be answering specific questions (like how to kino etc) so i am definitely doing this with a goal of giving actual tangible advice, but the experience ive had from my 20s is largely come from bouncing back out of very painful breakups…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 04:41 AM
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Yea it helped me find ways to talk with women, read body language (really good at reading women i always know when to kiss, when its not worth it and that helps my anxiety soo much.) how to be "alpha" aka be a strong personality (great way to be when your heart is in the right place.) and helped me get sexual experience and social skills. Trp is a different level than pua but both are helpful outlines to help push the evolution of a hollywood/mommy raised unconfident virgin dweeb fests into grow…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 04:30 AM
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Too late for a full response will follow up asap brotha. Dont let it get to you just keep working hard. Dont ever stop going out and having fun and loving everything. Respond more when im not falling asleep. Be patient but go have fun and be fun and believe in you. Cliche but you need to love yourself or no one else will be able to (even more cliche but so so true.)
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 04:22 AM
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Just posted and I am 29.
/r/askTRP30/10/14 07:16 PM
1

What do you mean by the first sentence? Yes, as a man I am blessed with the ability to stay very attractive to women until I am old and gray. Look at Jerry Jones, dude fucks 20 year olds on the reg (assuming he physically can,) and hes like 80. I worked with a douchey, but very fit, "silver fox" who was in his 40s (kind of dumb, bar manager, strong personality though, and took his looks very seriously,) and hew as fucking 19 year olds consistently. Women are not blessed with this sexual market p…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 06:24 PM
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Yes. When I first got into PUA I was all about approaching every girl. I would get lots of drunken hookups then realized that I had nothing to offer them after that. "What do I do now?" I never got 2nd dates, because I had no substance. I was just a party boy who went out trying to get laid all the time. Once girls realized that this was all I was about, they would bail. Now I am more well-rounded, and still party and try to get laid all the time, but it's not the only thing I am about. "women a…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 05:54 PM
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yeah she wants to know how cool your friends are and how your standing is with them. i think its very stimulating for women to be around groups, especially mixed, and have had lots of success on dates where i bring girls and run into cool people im friends with at the local bar or whatever. it shows social status, skills, social legitimacy and its exciting to meet new people.
/r/askTRP10/10/14 07:08 PM
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ah damn you share the same room? that sucks. dont stress tho youll have many more chances. but tell them next time youre alone with a girl to fuck off and get a beer or something.
/r/seduction03/10/14 07:43 PM
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Also, did you tell them to gtfo of your room? Lock the fucking door and tell them next time youre with a girl to get the fuck out and that they completely cockblocked. Friends dont do that shit.
/r/seduction03/10/14 04:38 PM
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Get some skills, learn how to isolate, venue hop, and always have a backup plan and a local place to hookup. Also dont ever say any girl is out of your league again rookie, you're the man and you will be out of every damn girl's league since you're putting the work in. Its all a game just keep playing and leveling up.
/r/seduction03/10/14 04:37 PM
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yikes i would not use this at the gym unless and maybe even if youre a male model. take it slower and talk to them as a person before you start saying "lets flirt" or something.
/r/askTRP03/10/14 03:38 AM
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great response man thanks a lot. I like that attitude towards women. It's once that I had to change myself manually basically, since I had spent so much time pursuing women and getting good at picking them up that I neglected the rest of my life, and once I'd get the girl I'd realize that all I ever did was go get girls, so what the hell to do once one actually wants to stick around. The attitude that everything changes and nothing lasts forever, while I pursue higher ideals than gettnig ass, is…
/r/askTRP02/10/14 09:03 PM
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this. you will be stronger for it. trust me man ive gotten rejected so many times. its all about how you handle it and your attitude, also your approach matters a ton obviously. But I've also been rejected by girls and hooked up with them later on because I was cool about it and they ended up being attracted to me. Girls' attractions are very fickle so they go up and down. If you put in a lot of work and she sees you after a year of kicking ass she might reconsider, but by then youll have so man…
/r/seduction02/10/14 05:42 PM
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sometimes i think that's the case and sometimes not... i feel like girls like one night stands too, which is the type of date im getting from tinder nowadays. altho i could probably use some work too i guess. some girls bodies im really compatible with physically and some not.
/r/askTRP30/09/14 04:16 AM
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ahh i suck with relationships man. every time i really "like" a girl and want to date her i blow it and chase them off, anxiety i think and beta behavior, then i go alpha mode again when im solodawg and run shit and then peak out and then go beta and then alpha up and peak out with a hottie and flip out and repeat. its like my standards for what girls ill date in terms of looks minimize the pool so much and take out tons of cool cute girls when i cant imagine being serious about a girl that i do…
/r/askTRP30/09/14 04:12 AM
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Dont worry about it man what does it matter?
/r/askTRP28/09/14 05:51 PM
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dont waste your time.
/r/askTRP22/09/14 03:27 PM
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you should start volunteering or pick up a hobby that is interesting. are you a para or quad? If you are para then you can learn how to play piano or guitar or something, which could spark some passion in your own heart. I am going through the same kinda deal with work questions. I only recently got a decent job that I enjoy, that implies some bit of status, and can pay the bills, without wanting to blow my brains out. So cultivate a more interesting lifestyle, that routine of gym, video games i…
/r/seduction02/09/14 07:46 PM
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why doesnt she go to jail for this?
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 03:17 PM
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Amazing write up. Seriously fantastically written. I need to work on this stuff big time; not letting others EVER affect my moods. So many people will blindside me with random aggressive nonsense and it always takes me by surprise because i am usually laid back... Great stuff. Id love to hear more. Ps the too comments are suspect.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 03:04 AM
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ive been tearing up tinder and its all about numbers. talk to all the ones you think are cute, but talk to them briefly, say something that makes you seem normal. i pretty much always ask them about their week or weekend, then mention something about their pics and see how they respond. if they cant hold a convo i delete them. if they are responding positively i ask them for drinks. banged a hot 22 year old two nights ago for hours and hours after minimal conversation. get their #s quick, dont s…
/r/askTRP13/08/14 03:26 PM
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You kinda sound like a beta neck beard
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 03:50 AM
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you sound frustrated, just work on yourself and you wont be thinking the whole "shallow hal" thing would be awesome. You're attracted to hot women so work on getting them and you will. It might take time but it will happen. Look at all the women in hollywood, they've all had plastic surgery and we would all love to fuck those women. Who cares. Being "alpha" is just being assertive, confident, prepared for anything, and dominant when you need to be. These are habits that can come and go, like att…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 05:35 PM
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wowsers. epic tale. so when she started talking about shawn you just ignored it and then without saying anything got up and left her? She hadnt met him before, i guess he was a tinder or online date of some sort? haha "it was just a test" god this actually kinda angers me. I mean, at this point I should expect it, and accept it, but for her to admit she was just completely playing games with you, using another guy to "test" you, and then loving you for "passing" the test by proving how you dont …
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 04:37 PM
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lol - I lost mine kinda late (21) because of general social ineptness and inability to seal the deal, that was ages ago and sex is no big deal anymore (aside from constantly thinking and pursuing it haha), but when i finally had my chance it was epically bad. She was a lame person in general but attractive enough, and told me she wanted to have sex. When the time came down, we were fooling around and she said "ok lets do it" and my panic erupted from anxiety. My dick immediately shriveled into a…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 07:24 PM
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lol shes freaking out because she wants to own your soul and youre taking it back. honestly if shes that fucking crazy it might be doomed because she cant handle you being a beast like youve become again. ive never been married with kids but "doing you" should be a good thing. Dont back down though, if she wants to start freaking out and going through your email and phone shes just gonna push and push and push. Not sure how youre gonna win with a chick youre so committed to. I mean, she treated …
/r/askTRP07/08/14 01:53 PM
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haha i wrote that like an hour ago. yeah dude just have fun, i get a nice routine down and use it over and over with different girls. my routine now is take them to my cool local bar, get drunk w them on delicious beer and whiskey, and then invite them back to my "band house" and then its usually GG. Just dont worry, and never stop working on yourself or talking to other girls. If this is the only date prospect you have lined up it will seem much more important than it is and that will show. If …
/r/seduction06/08/14 03:31 PM
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he doesnt wanna fuck up their future together or his chances of banging her. typical nice guy attitude and insecurities. ToKDaNNe dont worry about "fucking up" just go have a good time without the worries and expectations and see how it goes. Easier said than done sometimes but work towards it.
/r/seduction06/08/14 01:26 PM
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great post. love the tldr. "dont be such a clingy fag or shell leave you for me" hahah
/r/seduction06/08/14 01:25 PM
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genius way of learning how it works.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 02:49 PM
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yeah but how much respect do you really give their tears? Especially now that you've seen what showing weakness does to a female.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 02:46 PM
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Jesus this is me right now. edit- so I was almost gonna post this exact kinda thing. Grew up so blue pill, my dad was nowhere in site, my 2 older brothers were 1. crazy, 2. super introverted and shy and negative and scared of life. So I was raised by women and taught by them and hollywood to pedestal women and treat them soooo well and things would work out. So my best friend in high school was a super redpill chick (who didnt know it) but was attracted to the cocky douchebag lacrosse player typ…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 03:57 AM
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Damn
/r/seduction03/08/14 01:56 AM
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good shit man. sorry to hear that you are alone but you are already motivated. you are just having doubts and looking at the work you are going to put in, in the wrong light. you are where you are, so any progress you make is moving forwrad. dont compare yourself to other people, theres no point. just bust your ass at the gym, since you are a smaller sort, be sure to eat big so you can put on the muscle, and focus on the rest of your life: social life, friends, having fun, cultivating interests,…
/r/askTRP30/07/14 02:00 PM
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TheRedPill/comments/2bysmz/thought_i_was_with_that_oneinamillion_until_she/ can you fix that link? thanks
/r/askTRP29/07/14 02:38 PM
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lol. i remember this one chick i dated for a few months was a scrappy, boyish type, but very sexy. we wrestled the first time we hung out, i won, i got serious for a second and pinned her, then had sex with her. she enjoyed it. i met her through a friend's girlfriend, who when she found out we were wrestling said "oh theyre wrestling, theyre definitely gonna have sex" dude fight her, dominate her and laugh about it, then have sex with her. she will be turned on knowing that even though she think…
/r/askTRP29/07/14 02:04 AM
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dude he wants to fuck her not report her for sexual harassment.
/r/askTRP29/07/14 02:01 AM
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Tell her youre genuinely impressed with what a classless bottom feeding skank she is and then move the fuck out of there. Guess you learned what type of friend this guy was.
/r/askTRP29/07/14 01:52 AM
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men want a woman that isnt a bitch, who will treat their kids well. women want a tough man who will take care of the kids from predators and keep them all safe... evolutionary.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 03:41 PM
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sounds kind of like the last "alpha female" i dated, who incidentally got me back into TRP. She was finishing up law school, had modeled for Americas next top model, studied at oxford, loved herself immensely and always complained how "she wore the pants" in her previous relationships. It was a lunch thing that ended it all for us. I hadn't seen her in a while and she was just letting me have it with the shit tests, (before she hadn't really given me much shit) when I thought we were beyond that…
/r/askTRP28/07/14 03:06 PM
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lol
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/14 06:08 PM
1

carbon copy female?
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/14 05:22 PM
1

go on/ where can i find this
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/14 05:22 PM
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god damn it - this weekend i went to the beach with my friends, ended up at a bar with a ton of GORGEOUS women. I had smoked weed for the first time in a few months, was hungover, on no sleep and high. I had a freakout in my head and while my friends were all dancing and having fun I posted up against the wall and got more and more pissed off and introverted. So I see this banging hot blonde and her little brunette friend come over and start talking to my friend, and then he slaps me on the back…
/r/seduction22/07/14 06:12 PM
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my previous post that simply said "classic move. good post" was removed. So.... yeah dont let your LTR sext guys and post naked pictures of herself or bad news will come. Good post. Hilarious btw "gonewild is not a place to fish for attention" ......... thats literally exactly what it is.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 03:15 PM
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You two probably just didnt click. Some girls arent fun so id move on unless you can get her to agree to a more intimate date... Say you cook dinner for her at your place...?
/r/seduction11/07/14 02:10 PM
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fuck her what a piece of shit.
/r/seduction10/07/14 08:33 PM
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potential rape charge? no such thing man. you didnt have sex with her so theres no way she can pretend that it happened that way, plus the evidence is in your favor: she has a ton of bikes that are not hers, shed probably buckle under quick police questioning, and she never reported you for rape... so after you calling her out on that you think shes gonna report you and say you raped her. Come on man. call the fucking cops this chick is a scummy criminal and is stealing thousands and thousands o…
/r/seduction10/07/14 06:41 PM
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Dude what a fucking psycho bitch. First thing, good job. But seriously, I think you should call the police and not look at this as a successful PU but more of stopping a fucking bitch from stealing peoples' bikes!!!!! I am not a bicyclist but a lot of my friends are here in the city, and bikes get ripped off all the time. They're fucking expensive, they are some peoples main form of travel, and anyone who steals them is a piece of fucking shit. Fuck her. You should have punched her in the fuckin…
/r/seduction10/07/14 02:26 PM
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Lol the responses are exactly as expected.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 03:01 AM
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Gym, reading, pool, make friends, go out alone, run, get a waiting job (easy friends and helps social skills immensely.)
/r/seduction06/07/14 09:49 PM
1

"They were being lame and stayed in so i came out without em"
/r/seduction06/07/14 01:18 AM
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Dunno about kinoing "often" as too much touching is a turnoff, but yeah hug girls early as you can. Therefore the physical touching is immediate, they feel your body against theirs, and its natural to hug them every time you see them now. Kino with your eyes. Look deep into theirs and hold it until they break then you break. Girls dig this.
/r/seduction04/07/14 05:52 PM
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this is great man. i often lose the attraction of women i really like because i stop being the man that i am with most people/ girls i am not infatuated with. its tough because when you are so firm i feel like im being a dick, or rude, or could turn them off, but the reality is the opposite. when you stand your ground, lead the way and are decisive, girls want to follow. i have one girl that i am trying to maintain that frame with really bad so i need to get more on this level. i googled "the go…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 07:36 PM
3

Yea its funny how much my mindset has changed recently. So many fine women out there and before i was ready to do anything for just this one
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 09:14 PM
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haha. this is something that Im "dealing" with. Was dating a girl I really liked, treated her well, reached out to her to talk and go out regularly, took her out etc., (she teased me for offering to buy her lunch "oh you want to pay more tha nme? is that so ill make out with you?" i was stunned.. and then one day she came to visit (she lived 90 minutes away) and we spent all day kissing and walking around the city, had plans that night. texted me "i dont feel the spark, im really sorry" bla bla.…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 08:53 PM
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Work out, make and hold good eye contact, dont be needy, be interesting, dont take shit, play the numbers game, be cool and fuck the hell out of em, have an attractive lifestyle, be bold, be confident that you girls will and do find you attractive, have hobbies.
/r/seduction29/05/14 02:23 AM
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Sometimes ill do light kino if possible, or ill get up and go to the restroom or make a drink then come back and sit right next to them. Then its just a matter of reaching over...
/r/seduction21/05/14 03:50 AM
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Hinge is a facebook based dating app. I never had luck w okcupid maybe ill give it another shot. I need to find cheaper dates haha
/r/seduction20/05/14 01:44 AM
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Yea she hasnt responded to "whos this?" And i still think about her, but not really in a positive light. Id never take her back unless she changed things immediately, and probably not even then since i feel negatively towards her now anyway. Been seeing some girls, one is really into me but i feel like i might be stringing her along as i dont want a relationship. Shes mad cool tho. Thanks to tinder and hinge i have unlimited dates i feel like but im broke as fuck so working at making more money …
/r/seduction19/05/14 05:01 PM
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Haha i used to do this! Then i got lazy i guess and would answer questions gasp with the literal answer! It is definitely boring ( sometimes) as interview mode leads to nothing much.
/r/seduction13/05/14 10:36 AM
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I dont know if she "came back" but she texted me last night after 5 weeks. Just a funny picture of her family on mothers day, and "this is my family right now" or some shit. I had deleted her number so didnt know who it was, and said "whos this?" no response. fuck her. Do I owe you $20 or does that not count. haha
/r/seduction12/05/14 02:33 PM
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after 5 weeks she texted me tonight. very random. it was a picture of her family or something and said "this is us right now" or some random shit. it was a funny picture but i didnt know who had sent it because i deleted her number immediately. I responded "whos this?" and got no answer. dont think ill follow up. but i am starting to think about her again, very intense, trying to get my mind off her. had a great one night stand last week which unfortunately the girl hasnt responded to my two tex…
/r/seduction12/05/14 04:08 AM
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Just got dumped lil less than 5 weeks ago by my long distance oneitis. Working my ass off and hooking up w some cuties lately. Life is good. Fuck the pedestal tho. Great quote i gotta remember it...
/r/seduction09/05/14 10:44 PM
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thanks again. I met a really cute girl on tinder last night and had sex with her. I have so many tinder matches and hinge matches that I feel like I have unlimited dates. Most of them dont pan out, but its fun times.
/r/seduction07/05/14 10:23 PM
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Thanks for the response man. No word from her in a little over a month after 5 months of talking long distance. Shouldnt have checked her facebook, it reignited my oneitis. I have been doing the tinder thing and hopefully Ill get some good dates out of these 3 hotties ive been talking to. Kissed one the other night but havent heard from her since she said she had a good time, and I said id love to see her again. texted all 3 of them today, one might meet up with me to go to the baseball game... …
/r/seduction06/05/14 08:59 PM
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agreed... if shes the type of person that will just cut me off at a moments notice and never talk to me again, im sure as fuck not gonna go back to her. the oneitis burns though. i shouldnt have googled her name... fuck
/r/seduction06/05/14 02:57 AM
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thanks man i have been going out with girls and having a good time. meeting with girls as good looking for sure, but god damn it my oneitis is burning me deep. i just googled her on "americas next top model" and the feeling is intense. she hasnt contacted me and never will, ever. i blame myself for having weak game that weekend, but fuck. in the end she was being a bitch, and constantly told me shed call me and never did when she said she would, and it started agitating me until i was no longer …
/r/seduction06/05/14 02:56 AM
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fuck man. i havent contacted her but i have dreamt about her twice. finally gave in and checked her facebook yesterday. i knew i shouldnt do it but i googled her name and "next top model" was the first thing to come up... looked at screenshots of it. made me sad as fuck. a feeling of deep oneitis suffering. probably gonna fucking dream about her rejecting me again. been on some good dates lately, went out with a really beautiful 22 year old girl and kissed her. havent heard much from her since b…
/r/seduction06/05/14 02:54 AM
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fuck i just made myself sad and googled a video of her when she was on "americas next top model" AHRHASDHASHDHAERGFWERHGFWHERFHWERFH ive been on some good dates but the oneitis burns man.
/r/seduction06/05/14 02:51 AM
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i used to think like that... but thats not a good way of looking at women. because all of a sudden every attractive girl is a 1... i usually dont do the whole "8 9 or 10" thing but I did for this post. I think it definitely hypes them up in your own mind.
/r/seduction06/05/14 02:33 AM
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it helps. but i need to focus on my career more because its been a major point of anxiety for me, since i have bounced around from jobs a lot. just got my masters but im still not qualified for 90% of the jobs in my field. working hard to fix that tho.
/r/seduction06/05/14 02:28 AM
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Correction 217. Haha. Trying to get to 205, already down from 225 since getting dumped.
/r/seduction05/05/14 09:34 PM
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Not a lot. I go to the gym a lot, but only started running recently. Ive been up and down my whole life, and compare myself to actors and famous people who all have six packs etc . Im 6'3" 220 and have a toned body but overweight in the stomach area. Yeah i need to...
/r/seduction05/05/14 09:18 PM
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Agreed. I definitely put girls on pedestals especially when theyre super fit. As much as i try im still overweight, and it makes me feel inferior i guess. Its also tough to handle when i know a girl can have any guy she wants. Like the 22 year old i mentioned had 400 tinder matches in a few weeks (altho shes bi so she has twice the options i guess). Makes me feel like i cant compete with that. Stupid of me to check my oneitis' facebook, as i had a shitty dream about her rejecting me and being a …
/r/seduction05/05/14 12:17 PM
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Thats not rejection ....... Thats her being married and 100% (ideally for her and her husband's sake) unavailable and off the market. Keep up the fun approaches and girls who are available will love ya for it
/r/seduction01/05/14 03:06 AM
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Ur my internet friend deal w it
/r/seduction01/05/14 03:04 AM
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Then you said "i dont need to send you pics of girls i fuck and dont care if you believe me" when saying "pics or it didnt happen" is just the internets way of saying really? I mean its the internet people lie all the time. Sorry if you thought i was being a dick, i said i believed you. You gave me good advice months ago which i appreciated, no reason to get upset about some stuff i said in jest or think i was trying to be a dick.
/r/seduction30/04/14 01:15 PM
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I was never a dick. Just said "pics or it didnt happen" jokingly and you took it as being super serious... Never said anything dickish tho
/r/seduction30/04/14 01:04 PM
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Answer my dang message/post
/r/seduction30/04/14 09:47 AM
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Eh taking a break will make oneitis worse imo, just go get out there and play the numbers game. When i was in a rock band and working at a bar with an all female wait staff who dressed like school girls, living in a college town...... Individual girls meant nothing. Even banging hot ones. Those numbers make the impact of losing one, even an amazing one, much easier to handle. Get on tinder and get out a bunch (while working your ass off on yourself) and youll see how many girls are out there and…
/r/seduction30/04/14 02:43 AM
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Get on tinder and hinge. Go out more. The girls are waiting for you :)
/r/seduction30/04/14 01:09 AM
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Yeah it doesnt always happen that way, but its nice when it does. Just remember to be patient and keep your options open. Date around a bunch before pursuing a relationship or you risk this happening again - aka looking for a relationship with the wrong girl. Be more casual, girls love that.
/r/seduction30/04/14 01:01 AM
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Thanks man! Got some dates with tinder girls coming up and had a really cool girl spend the night last night. New temp job starts tmrw... Its my parents puppy tho, i need a pet! Still tempted to hit this girl up tho :/
/r/seduction30/04/14 12:57 AM
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College game- be cool, social, fun, unattached, not jealous, take care of yourself aka be fit, be confident. Talk to everyone and make friends in all your classes. Take girls to parties.
/r/seduction30/04/14 12:10 AM
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Sounds like you played the relationship card, when she was looking for a hookup. I mean yall had sex the first time you met, so that says she probably wanted a casual thing, when everything you just listed implies you want a relationship, which is fine, but take it slower. Sex and hookups and dates dont always lead to relationships, especially when they move that fast.
/r/seduction30/04/14 12:04 AM
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Thanks man great advice. I did send her a video on new years with my puppy after about 2 weeks of having not heard from her (after our initial hookup) that I think got her interested, but I did send her too many pictures of me probably (out of insecurity, needed her validation on my looks) However, since the breakup Ive already lost 7 lbs (225-218), completely stopped smoking weed, stopped drinking 7 days a week now i drink 1-2 and say no to my alcoholic party boy friends, finished my first mast…
/r/seduction29/04/14 11:04 PM
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haha yeah i feel you. the pride in me says "dont talk to her again" but i still have the urge. I was just gonna send her two pics of us looking happy and make a quick video (as ive done for her in the past over random stuff) with my phone saying regardless of what happens, thanks for kicking me in the butt a little about not smoking/drinking so much etc. she basically told me shes not attracted to me anymore, ("i didnt feel the spark i had hoped for. wishing you the best") so i dont see much hop…
/r/seduction28/04/14 07:34 PM
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Got dumped 3 weeks ago by a girl i was also crazy about. Our last moment together was her saying "kiss me" then canceling our plans that night. Since then i have completely stopped smoking pot, which i was using heavily, i cut down on beer, also which i was consuming heavily, added cardio to my weightlifting, finished grad school, learned how to say "no" to my drunk friends/ roommates, starting to learn how to garden and cook better, have been on several dates with tinder girls, shaved my scragg…
/r/seduction28/04/14 03:14 PM
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Do what you want is good advice. Anecdote- asked a girl out in high school, online, she rejected me. I called her a lesbian. Apologized after in person which she appreciated. Fast forward and i hooked up with her several years later after i had grown up a bit. Things change, if you wanna be friendly go for it. It cant hurt. You dont need to apologize even, you can just be friendly. Maybe say sorry for being a dick, shed probably brush it off really quick because she seems nice. Having girls as f…
/r/seduction28/04/14 03:23 AM
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ok my bad I will repost now.
/r/seduction24/04/14 06:00 PM
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use both. a girl on tinder might be a terrible date, but if you meet a girl in person youll know what youre getting. plus tinder girls are often heavier in person since they use their best pictures.
/r/seduction24/04/14 02:35 PM
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god damn it happyjerk. Im very tempted to contact this girl (i never even added her on facebook because she talked about how she deleted people often, so I just didnt bother, Ive been on no contact mode since I said "wow ok see ya" to her being like sorry the spark isnt there best wishes) I guess Im pissed that I didnt put on my "best" show when she came to town after 2 months. I wore a sweatshirt that made me look much heavier than I am I think, I didnt trim my long beard, I didnt make good eno…
/r/seduction19/04/14 05:42 PM
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Haha i was joking i dont care about pics, thats just the standard response to such a claim. I believe you, but why would i believe 99% of what people say online?
/r/seduction16/04/14 04:39 AM
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haha good cuz i really dont care either way.
/r/seduction16/04/14 04:01 AM
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pics or it didnt happen. playboy modelS. not just one? haha i hope its true, and ive now been with strippers and models so i know its possible. but no playboy models ;)
/r/seduction16/04/14 03:53 AM
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Playboy models eh?
/r/seduction16/04/14 02:38 AM
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im not a fat loser in my moms basement haha
/r/seduction08/04/14 03:29 PM
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what is "too good" for me? thats a shitty way of looking at relationships, cynical but kind of accurate. Was she "too good?" its all perception. Shes more studious, less party animal, and super gorgeous. Ive been told im a good looking guy, 6'3" although my fitness varies and i get out of shape (this winter i lifted hard and im not gonna let that happen again.) she studied at oxford, im almost done my first of two masters degrees. whatever. she is flaky as hell and doesnt have many interests. I …
/r/seduction08/04/14 12:45 AM
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Read this after you posted the link in my other post. Definitely dig the attitude. I used to have it but I lost it. I used to be super confident and would hit on all the hottest girls because I lived in a college town and was around them so often that I got comfortable with it. Now I had a rough 1-2 years and stopped going out, cut off people and developed the social anxiety i had lost. my plan is do exactly how you said. im awesome, interesting, fun and sexy and give me your number. haha
/r/seduction08/04/14 12:20 AM
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Yeah Im 28, I know when a relationship is over. When someone says something like "i didnt feel the spark i hoped for, i dont see this developing further, wishing you the best" i refuse to get needy, or whiney, or try to argue my way back, or get angry and blow up on her. Just took it for what it was and now im ready to move the fuck on and not date a girl who is gonna flake on me constantly. Gonna go slut mode and hook up with girls ASAP, even if theyre not models.
/r/seduction08/04/14 12:16 AM
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man i appreciate this note, but im kinda aggravated at the "if you cant get others like her she was too good for you so no big loss." Not very encouraging. She was definitely a catch. She was on americas next top model briefly, 5'10" perfect figure, very pretty face, studied at oxford, super "good girl" but our lifestyles were not congruent at all and it became obvious. I appreciate the oneitis thing, every time i get some dates with girls i think are super gorgeous i get attached really quickly…
/r/seduction08/04/14 12:15 AM
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Hey man! Congratulations on taking the first step towards a more fulfilling social and love life. The fact that you are openly and honestly facing your desires and emotions is the first and most important step. I was a late bloomer with some real emotional problems but have used all of the material i could find on self hell and have had a lot of enjoyable relationships since then. I am tired but will respond more tmrw. Quick way to create a more fulfilling social and love life (which are intertw…
/r/seduction28/03/14 05:45 AM
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Ive been thinking this a lot lately. Completely agree. Seeing all these younger guys talk about "hb6s and hb10s" i mean come on. "Hot babe 8" is no way to talk about a girl you like unless you want to objectify them on a scale you might not like to think of yourself on, tipping the scales in favor of your "hb," thus on a pedestal in your head already.
/r/seduction15/03/14 12:05 AM
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Stare at their nose or inbetween their eyes!!! They wont be able to tell at all (test on a friend) and theyll think youre looking them in the eyes. Then go from there to actually look ppl in the eyes confidently (try not to dilate and see how it makes you feel...)
/r/seduction24/02/14 08:36 PM
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haha not at all. read about last minute resistance. its all part of the seduction process. no assault when a girl wants to have sex with you.
/r/seduction24/02/14 03:38 AM
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Play w her above her pants til she wants u to finger her then see if she wants sex. She says no keep going it may convince her if you turn her on enough... Dont rip her pants off tho haha. Not until shes taken them off herself at least. edit- let me clarify. If she says no to sex, but she wants you to keep playing with her vagina then keep fingering her/ playing with her clit, and she might change her mind. I am not advocating pushing anything if she says "stop." which is much different than "ke…
/r/seduction24/02/14 12:09 AM
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Stop right there. Showing a girl how much you want her (unless you all are together) will just seem desperate. Back off a bit since she doesnt respond as quick, then ask her out..
/r/seduction17/02/14 10:47 PM
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I could use some advice making a girl i really like into my gf. I usually blow relationships but an doing well so far...
/r/seduction12/02/14 04:38 AM
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getting some downvotes, which is stupid bc i actually know what im talking about. been friendzoned consistently before realizing that its all about how needy you are etc. If you keep getting friendzoned, chances are you are - not as attractive to the girls as they are to you and -you are emotionally/physically/sexually needy. As in - youre sooo attracted to her you literally cant be her friend. Of course, if some girl is jerking you around you can just tell her you dont wanna deal with that shit…
/r/seduction27/01/14 12:21 PM
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Gettin friendzoned is a first person thing, meaning ppl put themselves in the friend zone, not the other way around. The first statement u made was meh. Think ab it- u took it way too seriously and put these expectations on her. U should always encourage ppls freedom, and be cool with however it turns out. Worst thing u can do is get mad at girls for not doing what u want them to do. Aka stay and date u. U shoulda just ignored it and went after other girls, instead of getting confrontational and…
/r/seduction26/01/14 03:50 PM
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Dont start getting into "recovery" mode, where all of a sudden you cant apologize enough and shit gets weird. Dont lose your frame and you should be fine regardless of the results with her. You went into a party w a good mindset and had fun and brought a girl back. Kids like that have made me furious too in college and led to some similar drunken confrontations haha. Next time try dominating w ur personality. Maybe focus on the guy and be cool w him first before seeing him as a threat. If hes go…
/r/seduction26/01/14 12:18 AM
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Hes been getting me motivated to go have fun instead of chilling at home, and is a great wingman who doesnt fuck you over around girls (unless hes wasted hell talk too much and too loud and it gets on my nerves but ive talked w him a few times and told him when he annoyed me and he tries not to.) Good energy is definitely fun and makes people want to be around you. You create value and people love you for it.
/r/seduction25/01/14 11:03 PM
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Exactly. I just like watching how he got dumped and recovered and now were all cool together and hes satisfied w his love life. Not everyone wants lots of relationships and just want one, but the positive energy and happiness is what makes this a good influence for me personally.
/r/seduction25/01/14 10:50 PM
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Wtf did i miss in this thread (deleted)
/r/seduction17/01/14 06:45 AM
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Yes i am. Got super emo for like a night and u slapped a lil sense in me for "drooling over some girl" a phrase i use to keep me respectful to girls as friends not just sex objects. Hit the gym hard and got a job at a cool rocknroll bar on the weekends. Hard work and focus pays off
/r/seduction03/01/14 03:35 AM
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Happyjerk aka op gave me advice at the end of a dry spell after a tough breakup, when i had randomly finally gotten emotional about it. Helped me outta my funk w some blunt advice that i still listen to. Now im seeing 3 beautiful ladies that i genuinely like.
/r/seduction03/01/14 02:32 AM
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Its a straight power move, and if ive learned anything - a man needs to have his own power in a relationship w a woman... By stating "im not like the other guys who worship your attention simply based on your good looks, who will do anything to date/ base their life around you/ put you on that same lame and unsatisfying pedestal, but instead will treat you like an equal (and therefore someone im not afraid of, afraid of teasing bc my friends have senses of humor) etc etc Ive been really solid w …
/r/seduction28/12/13 10:14 AM
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Thank you
/r/seduction28/12/13 09:22 AM
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Great stuff. Gonna use the "i dont know what im looking for right now" line. My two roommates are naturals and im an afc turned pua turned half afc/ pua... This is something they would have no problem saying to any woman if thats how they felt. Aka they are each man enough to tell a woman, knowing it may end things, that they are seeing and hooking up with other girls, AND they are able to take a girl breaking up with them and still treat them as a friend. With genuine friendliness and affection…
/r/seduction28/12/13 09:22 AM
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This is a perfect explanation of the pros/ cons of cold reading someone. I used to do this in my "sarging" early pua days... go up and throw out some canned line "you two are best friends right? I bet you use the same shampoo" (omg they do) let me guess your age (nailed em) then bla bla. what am I a fucking magician? Like Mystery? Lol. Nope. This is when its time to treat them like a real person, get to know them, and then romance them like a man, not act like a lil boy.
/r/seduction26/12/13 08:04 AM
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A hot blonde chick i worked with tried to hook up w me a few times but i blatantly rejected her because i heard she slept with our douchebag boss who was twice her age. Prob should have just fucked her slutty ass.
/r/seduction25/12/13 08:43 PM
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Thats all your weak inner game making you feel things that arent true. I mean how are you creepy awkward and weird? You had sex and said u dont wanna relationship. Shes probably just accepting that and moving on so she doesnt get hurt. Move on and go meet other girls. Christmas eve/ night are a blast if u find the right bar bc its usually single chicks. Congrats on a fun, successful hook up. Now use that experience to grow as a person, a man, and someone who can have mature relationships without…
/r/seduction24/12/13 11:05 PM
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So remember, just because time seems like its going in slow motion for you becuase youre sitting by the phone watching the clock go bye, waiting for your next text (to which youll probably respond pretty quickly and then will get stuck waiting again) -- doesnt mean that the same is true for her. In fact, shes probably getting all types of messages, and struggling to keep up with them as it is. Her friends are calling, guys are hitting her up, etc etc. Just be cool about it, and work on making YO…
/r/seduction24/12/13 08:38 PM
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Hey, yeah it can be frustrating to think 'this girl just looked at my message, and put her phone away' or 'I know for a fact this girl is on her phone all the time, why isnt she responding??' There are several sides to this story and its important to master your end of the situation - your limited control over the interaction. some things to remember: 1.) you sound anxious as fark. I am an anxious person, so I work out a lot, and if I dont, I get nervous and annoying. Its like seeing things in a…
/r/seduction24/12/13 08:38 PM
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this is a good post... thats how i used to act when i was like 20. now that im 28 i just get to know the girls and see how it goes. i dont start getting arrogant and saying 'you are this and this and this and not this and this' unless i am joking and trying to be fun/ funny, not like judging based on first appearance and possibly coming off as a complete douche by making a wrong or offensive/annoying judgment.
/r/seduction24/12/13 08:06 AM
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yeah just relax buddy. dont talk about "lets go on a date" because a "date" is a natural progression to a serious relationship, and that is a lot to ask of a girl, who seems like she is being much more casual than you, and enjoying your company and getting to know you, and may be attracted. go out with her and her friends and win them over, be super fun, confident, and awesome. when youre out and she sees you socially successful she will see you as more of a sexy guy, then start up some kino. if…
/r/seduction24/12/13 08:04 AM
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I hate this man. I lived at home for a while and had to sneak girls in, it was a nightmare since I was like 25-26-27 and living w mommy and daddy is SUPER unsexy. That being said, if you are truly attracting the girl, you can fuck her anywhere. A hotel is alright but I feel like might make some girls feel sleazy, your car, somewhere you wont get arrested (haha) or her place. Ideally her place. Get your own spot asap!
/r/seduction24/12/13 03:55 AM
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Teach me. Im so money in person sometimes and lose all of my mojo via text. Its sad. Im like if we just hang out ill be the exact same but i just cant pull it off. My personality flaws come to light i guess. Sucks losing a girls attraction via text when she wanted me so bad in person.
/r/seduction14/12/13 09:36 AM
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go for light kino and escalate. When something funny/ interesting happens, squeeze her arm, then next time squeeze her leg (assuming she responded well,) then sit next to her, then touch her hair, then kiss her etc.
/r/seduction29/11/13 07:45 PM
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Yeah "you can touch me any way you want" is the wrong approach. They go "oh ok, well see ya later" and poof the attraction is gone. Even if they think youre hot as hell theyll get bored and your hotness will lower a few points haha. I mean, you literally just THREW yourself at her. We are all dudes that are pretty much DTF all hot women unless they are terrible, so you gotta be different and in complete domination of sex. I have said "watch it I am NOT a piece of meat" (sometimes real dramatic a…
/r/seduction26/11/13 11:19 PM
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money post. sometimes i do this and utterly "turn off" my interest in my head. If its really getting stale and shes acting all disinterested, whether or not she actually is, i will just completely turn it off and start to game other girls in the area or have fun with friends. this is a hit or miss technique but it can be great because you really let it go, and the girl picks up on it and will respond without thinking, but with their attraction and this is what is most powerful in the end. Often …
/r/seduction11/11/13 04:52 AM
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-know what girls are attracted to. what kind of men drive women wild? what is it about them that achieves this? their looks? status? behavior? body language? all of this really. Learn this and then you can learn what you need to change about yourself to reach your potential in these areas.
/r/seduction08/11/13 09:37 PM
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nice name. coh?
/r/seduction07/11/13 04:19 PM
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-look good (workout, dress well, dont be out of shape with bad hair teeth crusty beard etc) -act cool -have social proof -shotgun mindset - talk to lots of girls, and make friends with everyone -be awesome and know how to seduce with your eyes. stare them down like a lion stares down a gazelle when you are trying to create attraction. Dont overdo it, but good strong eye contact makes the ladies feel sexy
/r/seduction07/11/13 04:17 PM
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Good work!
/r/seduction19/10/13 04:28 PM
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Great post! I have been struggling with conversations lately even when girls are hitting on me, and watching/ hearing my roommate fuck girl after girl and the jealousy is nauseating me. Im too stuck up i guess and it ends up ruining my fun.
/r/seduction27/09/13 06:08 AM
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Its definitely nice.
/r/seduction23/09/13 04:12 PM
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Quickly read on my phone id like to add some opinions based on experience. -girls love tall chicks -girls are innately attracted to guys who make them slightly intimidated. Not scared but danger and excitement and nervousness all add to a womans feeling of attraction. -everyone has things to be insecure about, OWN whatever it is youre insecure about, in this case being freakishly tall. (Im 6'3" i wish i could be like 6'7" maybe 6'6 or 6'5.) you have a gift. There are billions (yes billions) of m…
/r/seduction23/09/13 02:29 PM
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Nerves man. Nerves and blood thinning alcohol. I can only reach maximum boner potential when im comfortable and relaxed and horny with the girl. If there is pressure or its some spontaneous thing with a girl im not comfortable with i never reach 100% which sucks. Dont be down about it, it was a successful PU just didnt end the way you wanted. Thing is you made a move and a chick wanted to fuck u. So thats gonna happen a lot more if u keep it up! Just fous on relaxing and getting super turned on.…
/r/seduction23/09/13 02:20 PM
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Awesome post.
/r/seduction17/09/13 02:14 PM
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Note: calling a girl hot is a good way to psyche yourself out, and hype it up in front of friends which might backfire... So referring to the most gorgeous and sexy slammin chicks as cute or cuties is a solid way to downplay it and calm the nerves, as perceived hotness tends to seem like more is on the line :)
/r/seduction16/09/13 01:53 AM
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I think that both cute and hot can be used interchangeably but in general "hot" requires a hot body, whereas cute isnt as sexy.
/r/seduction15/09/13 11:15 AM
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Kinda. I know its all in my head and Ive been working it out. Basically my eyes are so dry I cant wear contacts really anymore, so I always wear glasses and it is such an improvement in vision versus the contacts, its actually been hurting my eye contact with girls. One, I feel like I have a shield on my face or something blocking me from their eyes, also it zooms my vision in so much that I feel even more intimate and like im staring into their soul after even less time haha. Its all a mental t…
/r/seduction12/09/13 05:40 PM
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Good post! I always keep my body language neutral and cringe when i see guys do otherwise. Like if youre both at the bar waiting for a drink, make a comment without facing her, maybe tilting your head her direction just enough so she can hear better but not enough that youre even looking at her. Make her earn your attention via conversation and then you can turn and face her. This is powerful initial body language. The alternative is to turn and face her, face lit up with excitement and say hey …
/r/seduction12/09/13 02:33 PM
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Invite them to parties... Asking them to hang is a clear "lets hook up" invitation and puts pressure on them. Instead, invite them to group things where theyll be more comfortable, and feel less pressure to hold hours or conversation, and it gives you a chance to show how you act around your friends. Then after youre all drunk and shes been stimulated all night by people etc, invite her over or make a move to kiss her when the time is right.
/r/seduction11/09/13 04:40 PM
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Once i got into my rhythm with girls, i was never getting "rejected." Basically i used kino, body language and the "hair trick" to gauge if/ how ready a girl is to be kissed. If you touch a girls back, and she likes it, she will either be neutral or lean into it, whereas if she pulls away she isnt feeling it. The best test is the hair test, where if you touch a girls hair and brush it behind her ear, and she lets you, shell kiss you. Ive tried this a lot and i never try to kiss a girl who pulls …
/r/seduction11/09/13 04:08 PM
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I hate super loud clubs. Theyre good for dancing and stuff, but if I cant hear (im a drummer with shitty ears as it is) I cant have a conversation, and this has definitely ruined some good moments, when the girl starts to get annoyed cuz i cant hear shit
/r/seduction10/09/13 07:17 PM
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this is very true because if you spend all your time doing PUA stuff, youre gonna be shallow and empty in a sense, since you spend all your time chasing women. Once you get the woman, you dont know what to do with her because you spend all your time chasing em!
/r/seduction10/09/13 07:10 PM
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Just some tip from experience - if you can get a kiss on a girls neck you will set her on fire and get the chemistry sparked ive done this several times and I can tell the kiss on the sensitive neck is a giant turn on, and have used this when drunk at bars or wherever, and the rapport is good and maybe i get a hug and just go smooch on the neck. dont be a creep or do it prematurely, but its money.
/r/seduction10/09/13 07:05 PM
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i got "picked up" haha, by a woman whos about 12 years older. Wasnt my first older woman, but she is like 40 im like 28, she kept trying to figure out how old I was, and I had a feeling if I said I was in my 20s she would lose attraction and see me as a boy and not a man. So i refused to tell her. She kept asking and I said "im not telling you," she let it go. Later on, she tried to sneak a peak at my license, wouldnt let her. She kept saying "youre 30 right" and i just wouldnt answer. It worked…
/r/seduction10/09/13 07:03 PM
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went out with some friends in dc and gave off a very confident vibe all night, and no longer get annoyed or take it as rude when a girl asks "what do you do?" I have an answer now that I can give with enthusiasm, positivity, and confidence. Hooked up with a girl that night with 0 effort, and had a couple girls interested in me. Very good advice, I think i was just embarrassed about my job/housing situation, and it was giving off a bad vibe right off the bat.
/r/seduction10/09/13 02:55 PM
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Good call. Ive gotten rusty but used to be so good because i had a plan, an identity, and a ton of freaking girls in the area. Its not like that here, and ive had to reinvent myself from scratch again. Thanks for input ill remember to talk about interests vs career bs.
/r/seduction05/09/13 05:30 PM
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I like this thread. Im a "veteran" pua (i got into this stuff at age 20 or so, went from a virgin to sleeping with lots of girls,) but i moved back home (was in a rock band working at an awesome bar in a college town, switched to a grad student in the suburbs working with old people.) My confidence evaporated. My new band imploded, i lost a lot of friends and didnt make any new ones for months. Withdrew, gained weight. (back in shape now,) Finally getting my confidence back (i live in dc the gir…
/r/seduction05/09/13 01:57 PM
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