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The whole n-count translating to physical changes in the body expressed by some of the men here always baffles me. It makes me wonder if they've taken literally any classes regarding human anatomy and sexual health. I also think that a lot of men here devalue personality; looks for sure matter but a complete disregard for basic manners and empathy is an absolute turn off and women will absolutely be talking shit about what a huge asshole you are behind your back
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:07 PM
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Buy mainly your own things. If y'all break up and there's a shared item you want, offer to pay the "other half" of the item's cost. Sit down and talk about/write down expectations and boundaries surrounding cleanliness, noise, pets, guests, etc. It's easier to talk about compromise when you're both calm and you'd be able to handle conflict if you're both already aware of the things that can cause potential issues. Make sure to schedule me time! Take some intentional time away from each other so …
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/22 09:36 PM
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Big key word here is "pretty." Not to sound blackpilled, but women who aren't viewed as conventionally attractive can still, and commonly do, have an experience similar to yours. My husband is awkward and has a hard time making friends, but fortunately he never felt jealousy/resentment towards women for it. I was intimidated by his lack of experience and social isolation when we first met but I found him to be incredibly sweet, however that wouldn't have happened if he held on to the idea that h…
/r/ExRedPill29/05/22 10:54 AM
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Honestly they often have atrocious personalities as well. They treat themselves like a prize despite often having low emotional intelligence, being superficial, etc. Redpill may work to get laid (which i know is their whole intention or whatever) but i cannot see how they will ever be happy with the red pill while being unable to maintain happy, healthy long term relationships
/r/ExRedPill29/05/22 10:51 AM
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We met on Facebook surprisingly. We’re both in our mid 20s and got together a few years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 04:56 AM
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I will always love my partner, but feelings are inconsistent, so I rely more on my commitment to them more than how “in love” I feel. Sometimes I’ll be furious with them and it’ll be difficult to feel love at that time, but when I remember why I’m committed to them it reminds me of how much I love them even if it’s difficult to feel that way right in that moment. It’s pretty useful for rough patches ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 04:54 AM
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Hmm foraging, hiking, religiously active, participated in environmentalism, and I would hope that they were as interested in self sufficiency as I am
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 04:41 AM
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AHAHA okay incel
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 02:12 AM
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Tbh I very strictly didn't date coworkers because I want my professional and personal life to be completely separate. I've seen it happen lol my boss got fired for having an affair with a girl in our department. It was a whole scandal. I think sometimes it can work out but a lot of the time it doesn't and then the work place gets awkward, especially if it was an ugly break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 02:11 AM
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Listen you can be delusional but you don't gotta be so loud about it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 02:06 AM
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If a woman wants to stay home to raise children more power to her, but men having that be an expectation is sexist. Also just the idea that women should be submissive in general. If that's a preference then so be it, but it shouldn't be so strong that it's demanded in a relationship rather than it being communicated that that's something they wanna try out. I'm not denying the strides we've made regarding sexism, I just think we're falling backwards somewhat because a lot of people who want supe…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 02:05 AM
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I mean, I agree a lot of men need to lower their standards to their own level of attractiveness bc a lot of them don't. However I know a lot of women who like the type of man you described as undesirable. I do get your overall point though and it's funny to see the amount of people seething Edit: actually I think your take is just bad because to equate being nice to weakness is unhelpful and straight up just bad advice. I've had "chads" talk to me who I've ghosted because they're total assholes.…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:54 AM
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Wow I'm so sorry to hear she did that to you. Honestly I feel it's a good idea to end the friendship. Someone who loses respect for their partner for having been the victim of childhood sexual abuse is personally not someone I would be friends with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:44 AM
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I feel online dating is kinda a hellscape as it is, but I thought tinder sorted who they show you based on your own attractiveness. Is that a myth then? I do agree that OkCupid's whole set up is the best though. I always liked reading about people's thoughts, interests, etc. before deciding whether I wanted to swipe right or not
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:43 AM
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Just a lot of the trad stuff in itself is super sexist and that's becoming increasingly common. I feel there's a way to have more archaic ideals (I know i definitely have some of my own) without picking up sexist attitudes as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:38 AM
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Agreed, it's really harmful and does a disservice to everyone regarding sexism and discussions surrounding trauma. Sexual assault by women is p common considering my abusers were primarily women, yet no one really takes me seriously when I talk about it. I can't imagine how it must be for men who try to speak on their experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:37 AM
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Yes but I was 18 and had no self esteem lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:32 AM
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I do agree that biology plays somewhat of a role, but I honestly think it's over exaggerated in RPed spaces. Human beings are animals, but we're so advanced we have reciprocity which doesn't exist in any other species; not even other primates. In turn, human interaction in finding a mate is A LOT more complex than "toxic masculine men have the most luck" or whatever. Virtue and personality go hand in hand from my perspective, and charisma doesn't attract me at all if they're a dick. Maybe this i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:14 PM
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This post doesn't really do a good job in separating you from those toxic, asshole men though that's the thing I feel isn't acknowledged enough. Like mindsets like this actively turn off women. Regardless, I don't think men having less sex makes women more privileged. Also I'd say it's less biology when women chase men like that and more intergenerational trauma. Women will go after the men they saw their mothers and other female figures go for.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:06 PM
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Honestly more. I haven't really thought in depth on why that is, but I've defs noticed a general trend as of late.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:00 PM
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And how do you know? I would be 0% surprised if they got more action
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 10:58 PM
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What do you mean by general trends?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 10:57 PM
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Don't text about sex too much unless she's indicated she's someone with a higher libido. I remember talking to a guy who could not have a single conversation with me without bringing up sex. He was also super pushy about me coming over all the time despite me being really busy and exhausted all the time. The last time he messaged me it wasn't even a good morning or anything it was just a picture of all his kink shit or whatever. Needless to say, I ghosted him after that picture
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:39 PM
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What study is that because it sounds like a crock of shit. Most of the people I know whether a friend or acquaintance finds misogyny very unattractive. Also I'm not saying liberal men aren't misogynistic themselves that's a whole different conversation than what OP's take is. Like my husband was an incel before he met me and it was his politics that played a huge factor as to why I started dating him (outside of him being very kind and caring). His obstacle was being painfully shy and awkward ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 09:53 PM
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Honestly if there's men who are telling you it's absurd, then maybe wonder why those men have luck in dating whereas you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 09:08 PM
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THIS!!! It sounds like paranoid nonsense from a guy who got his feelings hurt one too many times. What's funny is OP's post literally just feeds into why RPed men are often seen as unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 09:07 PM
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I don't think it's super gendered but it might be tied to women having higher emotional intelligence overall? I feel I'm a mix of both of this. I can't stand people who refuse to help themselves and blame everyone except for themselves, but I think kindness and sharing tips on how to succeed if they're genuine is a good thing. I'm happy to tell people what I do to succeed, but I can't stick around if their whole deal is having a pity party
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:40 PM
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Personally, I do believe in it. I've always enjoyed sex if they're actually good at it. I don't want a kid for a looonngg time so it's not reproduction for me. It's all about communication. If they listen to what I like, then I have no reason to get "bored" of them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:35 PM
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Same. a red pilled man would hate me I'm far too independent and it'll be a cold day in hell before I submit to anyone. I still attract them occasionally anyways though unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:26 PM
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I mean it depends. I don't need a model but I need someone with good hygiene, goals, empathy, and basic manners. Idc if they wanna cover themselves in tattoos or dye their eyebrows or anything, but their behavior is the deal breaker
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 02:06 AM
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I really don't give a shit about height. I've never understood the idea of finding certain heights attractive honestly, but that's just me. Maybe it depends on the type of women you're around? I've definitely met more shallow women where height is important, but a lot of women I hang out with don't factor in height
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 02:04 AM
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Both sound pretty bad (except i don't have an issue with height). I'd rather have a competent, average Joe with a stable job. But if I had to choose, I'd prefer a fat/short millionaire. My ex was a bum and after that relationship there is no amount of attractiveness that is worth putting up with a lazy, unambitious slob again
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 02:02 AM
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I love kids and have always wanted to be a mother. I grew up in a super traditional family so I have experience raising my younger sibling and cousins from a young age. I currently care for my nephew and am listed as one of his guardians and he brings me so much joy. Sure, he's a lot of work but he makes my day brighter every time without fail. I'm also in an incredibly loving relationship, and the idea of building a home and family with him sounds amazing. He also adores my nephew and is a real…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 01:59 AM
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As a woman who has often made the first move (including with my now husband) I've had pretty positive results. However my type is shy and nerdy men so maybe they're just grateful a woman approached them first. I've never really approached a more extroverted man or someone else like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 01:54 AM
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Social media and dating apps honestly. I don't leave my house much and I prefer hanging out at one another's places most of the time lol. I met my husband on Facebook
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 01:35 AM
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I've met people through friends, dating apps, and events of a mutual interest like a concert or something. I'm alright with being DMed as long as they don't come off super strong or sends me unsolicited nudes. The bar or a club is also where I'd be fine with being chatted up. I feel any place you try to meet women it'll be a gamble whether the woman you talk to would like to or not
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 01:34 AM
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I think it'd be more accurate to say timid people have this issue. I'm an introvert and I've never been involuntarily single. However, I'm not very shy. And regardless, there are people in the world like me whose type is shy nerds lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 01:21 AM
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I'd say love is real. I do think a lot of people are more materialistic and don't focus on the more important things like similar values, hobbies, etc. Like my husband and I aren't a traditional couple at all, so I'd say our relationship is far from transactional and I feel so lucky that I found him
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 01:15 AM
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Honestly for me it's more attractive because a lot of men are starting to reject hypermasculinity. I've always found men on the more feminine side to be attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:18 PM
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Honestly it depends for how long we've been talking. Men telling me straight off the bat that they wanna hook up is uncomfortable for me. I don't get offended per say but it warrants a ghost or a block from me. I'm all for casual hookups but I'd like to get to know the person first to see if i find them actually attractive because I don't wanna end up hanging out with summer insufferable just because we wanted to hook up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:17 PM
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I dress pretty gender non-conforming most of the time so men often assume I'm trans or a lesbian. I usually don't put much effort into how i look and end up with a rather masculine daily appearance. Outside of that, I've been told I'm intimidating. I speak in a pretty flat tone and it's hard to tell when I'm joking or not as a result. I can imagine that doesn't help lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 03:21 PM
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I would feel bad for him in the moment, but it wouldn't make me think less of him. Shit happens, life goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 10:07 AM
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No, I enjoy being a woman. I don't really like the effects of testosterone on the body and having a penis sounds like a bad time. I was envious of men for a long time, but largely for social reasons. I'm very much happy being female otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 09:32 AM
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