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Lol what? VS was a dying business because they kept marketing to a small subset of the female population
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:37 PM
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I mean a lot of guys claim that 'all women are basically bisexual' so we do kinda have that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 08:51 AM
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MGTOW - Men Getting Triggered Over Women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 11:47 AM
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Not everyone finds overweight unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 11:50 AM
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If she's ticklish, she has a high body count?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 10:33 AM
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Why not just get a prostitute or a sugar baby in modern times?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 10:52 AM
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Yeah I'm at uni, barely seen that happening. At most, someone will have casual sex once. The rest of people getting regular action are in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 07:10 AM
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Only about 20-25% of Tinder users are women, so no it's not the same people you're meeting at work, social events, etc. It's actually a small pool of them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 07:07 AM
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It's based on other Tinder insight users, so the pool of people are those who willing upload their Tinder stats. There's less women on Tinder on average, we don't know what sample size they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 07:06 AM
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Maybe you attract low quality guys because you don’t seem as attractive and therefore more approachable. Most girls start being approached at 11/12 by older men, commenting on their attractiveness is weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 12:11 PM
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Something is wrong when even wealthy guys are getting desperate. Wealthy men are older, their problem is they're dating 20 year olds who have no interest in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 10:04 PM
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Then why is it women's fault? (Not saying you're saying that but people in this thread)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 07:31 PM
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Then why did he pay them if they would come to him easily?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 07:29 PM
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He had a literal harem of hot young model types around him all the time Weren't they paid to be there?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 05:40 PM
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Then why don't they speak to other men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 01:50 PM
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Well people keep going on about 19 year old girls dating 30 year olds, that's not past the right age
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 04:09 PM
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There always was an age difference, just not these 10 year ones RPs like to fantasise about.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 05:15 AM
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Older by 2-5 years? That's the average age difference in couples
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 03:30 AM
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Happy without a partner doesn't mean you can't be happy with a partner. I could forgo watching reruns of my favourite comedy for the rest of my life and still find happiness elsewhere, but what's the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 11:23 PM
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Women date older, men date younger. The study put a restriction on the age range but I wonder what the sexlessness rate would be if it was all men and women 16-65, it probably be more equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 09:14 PM
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Lmao why would anyone live their life based on what someone says on Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 09:08 PM
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Well most people don't think logically after tramua
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 04:58 PM
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Most pregnancy tests don't work until after 10 days of your period being late (well at least the ones I've seen). What if someone just had their period? They have wait 31 days to do a test
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 04:11 PM
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This is a CLEAR example, as I said you're just dense. Do you struggle with a social disorder like autism? Maybe this isn't clear to you because you can't read social cues.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 05:05 PM
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it doesn't point to any specific behaviors, Because I don't know what flirtations tactics 3.5 billion people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 04:52 PM
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How is that not clear? Are you dense? It's literally just if she treats you in a special way than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 04:12 PM
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How she treats you Vs how she treats others. Sure if her face lights up everyone she sees you and runs to give you a big hug, you could interpret that as interest but if she does that to everyone she knows, that's not a sign of interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 03:13 PM
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If someone chooses to be single over lowering their standards/preferences, that's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 11:37 PM
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OP said the AI is only programmed to love you, what conversations are you looking to have with it? Wouldn't it be cheaper to see prostitutes and a therapist?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 09:12 AM
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I'd be very happy with my male AI bot, I'll use it as my own personal security
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 09:05 AM
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Most men won't be able to afford it and also it's the same logic as those who don't want to visit prostitutes - they don't want to have to pay for a woman to like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 09:04 AM
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In applied maths or statistics! Unsure which one because I'm going to work for a couple of years and then go back to studying
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 02:39 PM
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That women hate casual sex, Casual, yes. Regular sex from a partner? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 12:51 AM
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This was never a problem for high value and average women because they could find supportive husbands My grandmother was black and this was pre civil rights, so yeah she was probably considered low value by society because racism and that probability decreases the range of suiters available for her. Most of them see that as a shit deal, so feminism has hurt them. 1) go to prostitutes 2) get a third world bride
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 06:56 PM
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It's quite embarrassing, I don't think her target audience even wants her
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 06:53 PM
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No one likes college and work. I actually love studying and am going to pursue a PhD, just because you're a bad student doesn't mean we all are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 03:21 PM
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Women wanting marriage, women not liking sex, women not wanting to go to college, women not wanting to work, women not liking BDSM, women not okay with being single, women only looking hot for men, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 12:24 PM
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Lmao what? Women used to not be able to own their own bank accounts so my grandmother had to give my grandfather all her wages, the problem is my grandfather had a gambling addiction and would gamble it all away. Sucks when you have 6 kids, so she had to keep on working and watch him lose their money over and over him. Once women got more rights, she divorced his ass and was able to sustain herself. That makes her a low value woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 12:21 PM
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I believe marriage simply is statistically a bad bet. Because of the divorce rate?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 10:39 AM
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Not that I don't believe you, this is just so interesting! Do you have a good source I can read for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 09:06 PM
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She never said women are into EVERY type of guy, but women are into DIFFERENT guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 08:05 PM
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Men on average have more partners. Doesn't matter that women aren't virgins. Seems like more women should be virgins because they are avoiding sex That's not what riskier means, they'll be more cautious with whom they have sex with
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 11:43 AM
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Who the hell wants to be value for their achievements when it comes to dating? Someone who's achieved a lot. Thats the logic your thought process breeds, its shameful. It's the same as dating based on looks but at least I can have more control over my achievements. If a guy gets a girl pregnant his wallet is screwed. I don't care, I mean having to go through the physical pain of pregnancy. But,that narrative wasn't male created, it was women who creates that societal judgment. ??? 'can't turn a …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 05:30 PM
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So is this just a troll answer? No? Just get a prostitute if you're annoyed by it. the sex trafficking side effect of it can be overcome with regulations that crack down on the issue. This works but for the record I'm not pro sex work, I'm just pro sex workers. while also providing an economic boost due to the new market being taxed. Making it legal won't solve the issue. For example, when Amsterdam legalised sex work, the global rate of sex trafficking remained the same but the rate of people b…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 05:26 PM
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Because people like you for you, your achievements, your social life, etc. Whereas men only really care about looks. Like a rich ugly guy can still get dates but a rich ugly woman cannot. I'd like to be valued for my achievements, so yeah I'd love to be dating as a man. Also less risk of sexual assualt, no pregnancy to worry about, and people look down on women who like sex but not men. I could have a threesome and be applauded.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 04:06 PM
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Are you in support of prostitution as an answer for male sexlessness? No, but that doesn't matter. Would you look down on a person for going to a prostitute to fulfill their sexual needs? No I'd judge any person who sees a prostitute because a significant portion of them are sex trafficked.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 04:04 PM
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Yet, more women are having them than men. No they're not at the same frequency. Some girls have sex with multiple different dudes. Because all women aren't the same. just live in black communities if your so bothered by police brutality. Police brutality still happens in black communities? As a woman, you have to understand you have it extremely easy compared to guys when it comes to dating/relationships Nah I'd prefer to be a guy for dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 03:16 PM
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Based on a much smaller smaple size than what i have shown. The N for your 2000s data was 3500, the N for my 2000s data was 9500. Your sample size is almost a third of mine. That doesnt mean that they dont have the chouce to have children later. And to counterargue, the west has its own culture which tells women to prioritize their careers over having kids. I'm so confused what your point is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 03:00 PM
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Yeah because sex is a lot risker for women than men, also from what I've read on this sub most guys have no standards "hogroasting - a hole is a hole". u have to have hygiene, looks, game, personality, purpose etc etc. Just get a prostitute if you're that annoyed by it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 02:57 PM
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And why does that matter? Not every virgin has to lose it to each other
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 01:32 PM
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And the link I sent shows that early 20s have a higher divorce rate than early 30s Look at the average marriage ages in countries with the least divorces. You realise loads of those countries are religious? Of course there's low divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 01:26 PM
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Highly debateable. ? The link you sent didn't even go through it. https://ifstudies.org/blog/want-to-avoid-divorce-wait-to-get-married-but-not-too-long/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 12:49 PM
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Correct me if in wrong, but as you get older, dont your numbers go up? Not everyone has sex while they're single. 30+ marriages have the lowest divorce rate
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 09:23 AM
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The data doesnt lie, but how you present it does, and its awfully lucky that this is the only info they dont list in numbers doesnt it? Now you're just changing it to suit your narrative
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 11:31 PM
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I didn't say it was 3, I was just saying it doesn't matter if the average isn't 5. we keep repeating the study where this come from You realise that study said women were open to messaging guys they found unattractive while men weren't? Like if your only takeaway is 80/20, you didn't read the results of the whole study
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 10:59 PM
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But people on here keep going mad when the mean isn't in the middle, so what if the average attractiveness rating of men isn't 5? It can be 3 with a smaller standard deviation
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 07:09 PM
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it's the sudden unearned attitude that's annoying. How do you define that? If she's happy being single if that meant not pairing up with an average man, is that unearned attitude?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 04:44 PM
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Are men naturally stupid or something? Why are they basing things to do based on media? believed that women were perfect little angels that did no wrong Lmao did they spend no time with women at school? They were equally as little shits as the men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 04:42 PM
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Yes because he's a celebrity, they'd also want to fuck Harry Styles even if he was a virgin. His sexual promiscuousness has no bearing on their attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 10:52 PM
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I don't think they find them repulsive, but I don't think they find them attractive. There doesn't need to be an extreme opposite. I think their ideal partner would be someone who's slept with at least 1 person. https://onlinedoctor.superdrug.com/whats-your-number/ men believe 2.3 partners in a lifetime is too conservative, while women think 1.9 is the threshold for too few.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 10:50 PM
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I barely see any women wanting partners with high body counts, so men clearly are observing wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 09:32 PM
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Bisexual isn't gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 04:53 PM
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And that is homophobic...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 03:45 PM
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Because bisexual men can't exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 03:22 PM
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A woman being a virgin when she met you in no way guarantees the kid is yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 03:22 PM
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They’ll say it’s misogyny It's only misgyony when you shame women for that being virgins / having a low body count or if you believe a woman's value decreases by the number of sexual partner but for a man it decreases. If you just want someone with a low number / a virgin, that's not misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 03:07 PM
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I'm talking about men who want virgins and view women who has had sex as 'used goods' but believe men who have done are the same are great. Men want virgins for paternity surety Like being sure he's the father of his kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 03:04 PM
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In the same way OP is sexist for this view, those women would be homophobic if they deemed that negatively (if the issue was the fact that he slept with men, not the group sex)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 03:02 PM
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Meh, agree to disagree. If I agree with alt right philosophies, what's the problem? If you have a problem with it, we shouldn't date. (Though I don't agree with it now, I was quite uninformed by my YouTube algorithm) And I don't think there's anything wrong in wanting to look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 01:20 PM
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Definitely feels like a small world, with a population of 5m and this sub leaning to the US, I was surprised to see a Scot on here! I'm in the Lothians
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 01:02 PM
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I'm English, residing primarily in Scotland. I voted Tory mainly because Labour wanted to raise taxes on those who earn over £80k. I didn't earn that at the time I started voting, nor did my mother earn anything close to that. I don't know I guess I just felt one day I'd be earning that and wouldn't want to have my taxes raised then so didn't want to be a hypocrite now (i.e. vote labour in when I'm poor but vote Tory when I'm wealthier). Poor as in I come from a low income, single parent househo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 12:54 PM
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You struggle with the idea that women can enjoy sex. I think loads of guys want female sexuality to be something that is unlocked by them, a girl feels no sexual arousal at all until she meets you and suddenly she's a freak, but only for you. If you break up, her vagina wilthers away because she never wants to sleep with another man after having you. Here's a good way to check. If a guy told you fantasises about having sex with two girls at once, what are your initial thoughts? Now what if a gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 12:47 PM
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There are answers...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 12:17 PM
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1) 'Too easily indoctrinated into the alt right' 2) Socially awkward 3) I don't like to eat and some see that as an eating disorder 4) I voted Tory, that's a deal-breaker to a lot of people my age here. 5) 'too obsessed with my looks to the point it's psychotic' 6) I tend to not pick fights when I'm upset, which can lead to resentment on my side because I never communicated I was mad at something and now 3 months have passed so it would be weird to bring it up now 7) not very witty, makes me bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 12:16 PM
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I found out the truth about women and you can too at my $3,000 dating course, on sale now for the next 24 hours!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 04:50 PM
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For when I was clearly underage, I'd say 60% were wolf whistles from drivers and 40% were actual comments. Iremember being at a bus stop after my dance PE class and a guy stopped his car to call out 'damn, you have one of the best ass I've ever seen' when I was clearly 12, it was very uncomfortable because it was in front of all my peers. I got comments on my lips, legs, and once I was more developed, my breasts. Usually these guys who made these comments would be trying to hit on me too, like '…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 04:40 PM
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Then why seperate it from a selfie, that's still just a selfie. Also why do you hate photos of their partners? What is the correct ratio of non selfies to selfies?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 04:30 PM
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But you also said posting photos of food and their partners, that's not photos of themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 02:57 PM
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Is this basically 'do they post at all'? Then they're an attention whore
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 02:32 PM
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Unless you were the oldest 10 year old imaginable it just didn’t seem possible. I don't think you realise how many groomers / men attracted to children there are out there
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 09:49 AM
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https://stopstreetharassment.org/our-work/nationalstudy/shage/ When asked about their age at the time of their first experience of street harassment, they were quite young. Almost 70% said they were 13 years old or younger. Of those women, 51% said they were 11-13 years old, 18% said 10 years or younger. I started being catcalled at 11
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 09:47 AM
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Older people have more successful marriages
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 12:38 AM
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No no you've got it wrong, you're only supposed to cite studies if they agree with you. Otherwise, they're just nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 04:00 PM
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For both men and women, the relationship is striking: a one-inch increase in height is associated on average with a 1.4 percent to 2.9 percent increase in weekly earnings, and a 1.0 percent to 2.3 percent increase in average hourly earnings. it wouldnt change it by multiple levels of magnitude or anything Also certain races earn more than others, etc. The point is a bunch of these things correlate, you can't look at this like independent variables Edit: And also it takes the data of the whole US…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 05:10 PM
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They mean they saw one tweet with 10K likes and that means ALL women are against it. Pleas go to your sexbots, heck I'll pay for half of it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 04:03 PM
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How did you calculate this? Did you take individual probabilities for each and then multiply them together? Because that can't work, height is correlated to income, for example. If someone is tall, they're likely to be a high earning (not because they're tall but just statistically). So if you did, P(earning > 100K)*P(height > 6') that isn't the case Edit: It does do that, which makes it useless. What autist with no understanding of statistics made this. In an ideal world this calculator would p…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 03:36 PM
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*depending on the country
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 02:56 PM
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Oh I didn't realise it was more than one link, only saw one photo
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 06:28 AM
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So a girl next store is just a conventionally attractive girl who doesn't dress up? Like with makeup and a nice dress she'd be one of these 'model looking girls' that guys apparently don't want
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 11:55 PM
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Can you post a pic as an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 11:16 PM
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Multiple studies have shown that men age 20-50+ ALL prefer women aged 20-24. The same studies show women prefer men closer to their own age
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 07:40 AM
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It’s easy to leverage your youth to lock down a good man And if he leaves her once she turns 33?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 11:33 PM
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An issue there is no great solution for. ?? There are countries with more socialist policies in place doing well (Denmark, Finland, etc.).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 04:35 PM
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or die alone. I think most are fine with that. I'd rather die alone than be with someone I don't want to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 09:23 AM
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I think someone made a post recently that being able to have a video message on your profile Hinge has this feature
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 03:25 PM
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We found that young adults enrolled or who graduated from 4-year educational institutions reported fewer casual sex partners on all three measures compared to participants with-out a high school degree and those with some college experience. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3888028/ Also I'm pretty sure poorer people have more casual sex but that's probably correlated to education level anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 02:13 PM
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Aren't there studies that show the more educated a woman is, the less likely she is to engage in casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 12:25 PM
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Not intentiomal sexism. But if you only hang out at men's private clubs after work or play football, you're making women at your company miss out on bonding activies and thus opportunities to be promoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 07:18 PM
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YES I definitely think it's this, especially in corporate cultures. There is no meritocracy, there's just promoting people you get along well with and produce good results. Doesn't matter if someone is performing 10% better than them if you don't want to work with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 05:39 PM
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is in the middle of attractiveness of all men? As the other commentor pointed out (read the abstract of the study), unattractive people fail to recognise what stimuli people find attractive. So what he sees as the middle may not actually be it because he's using the wrong metric. Or is it because of the unusual way women rate men You mean the people they're trying to attractive to? Don't look at yourself in the male gaze and then be surprised women don't find you attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 08:49 AM
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I guess who it matters who you're trying to attract. You can say you're a 5 all you want as a straight man but if no girl rates you the same or higher, you're probably not / not recognising what women find attractive. But I find number stuff BS anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 07:40 PM
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But men don't want to sleep with them so why do they care?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 03:13 PM
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Again. I'm not saying having hypocritical standards makes you a bad person. It really doesn't. And i understand, most people can't control what they're attracted to. I'm not attracted to tiny girls. I'm not attracted to curly hair. I'm not attracted to unintelligent girls. Now, if i was small myself, had curly hair, or was unintelligent, i don't think my preferences would change either. However, i would be a hypocrite I just don't still understand how this is hypocritical. A hypocrite is someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 08:43 PM
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Lol? Why are you so triggered by the statement "fat people rejecting other fat people is hypocritical"? Because I'm interested into why someone's dating preference matters. Like there must be some chubby chaser out there for them, let them look for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 08:30 PM
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Or look at countries where it's legal
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 06:54 AM
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Well, it's a hypocritical double standard, but in america we don't shoot you for being a hypocrite How is hypocritical? Should hairy guys only be with hairy girls? Bald men with bald women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 10:03 PM
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the odds she’d be happier with the less attractive guy are better than you think when it comes to the long term. Odds are she'd divorce him eventually or when a guy who's more attractive and she actually likes shows interest, leave him. That's what happens when someone settles, they're going to leave when they get a better offer. the girl is about as happy and in the same sense of “happy” as a person is while eating McDonald’s. Endorphin rush followed by crashes and longer term sense of regret A…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 03:05 PM
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I have a larger sample size than the vast majority of people, my knowledge in this topic is a poll in it of itself. But is your sample size statistically relevant? Do you have controls for your data bias? Etc You’ll make the dating pool over-competitive and women will then find it hard to find a man based on how little of women don’t live the same way—over time the value of those women will rise which will make it difficult for the majority of women to compete Again let them suffer like you did …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 03:01 PM
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Please post this on r/PurplePillDebate
/r/ExRedPill20/07/21 01:10 PM
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How about twenty years in the dating and nightclub industry lol does that count? No, anecdotal evidence means nothing unless to counterout absolute claims 'all X are like this'. And if he works on himself and she keeps thinking she’s a 9, then yes lol that’s likely to happen So he's mad that she won't she herself at/below his level? Again, sounds like a his issue
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 12:27 PM
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Did you just use a hypothetical example as a gotcha moment? Lol No pointing out just because you see it as 'being with guys who don't respect her' doesn't mean she's unhappy / will be happier with you. If someone is sitting down fantasing what's it like to be with someone 'if only they gave up on Chads!!', then they're clearly the one who's desperate, not the girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 12:26 PM
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Did you just use a hypothetical example as a gotcha moment? Lol No pointing out just because you see it as 'being with guys who don't respect her' doesn't mean she's unhappy / will be happier with you. If someone is sitting down fantasing what's it like to be with someone 'if only they gave up on Chads!!', then they're clearly the one who's desperate, not the girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 12:25 PM
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this girl is as ugly as me, but thinks she’s not and thinks getting used by 7s and 8s (who don’t respect her btw) is a better lifestyle She seems happy, you're the one unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 11:24 AM
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a man can enjoy his post-40 years single much more than women whose window is much smaller Please link. because they have a deluded sense of self, which almost will definitely carry over into other parts of their lives for one, and two years down the road if they were to ever change their mind about companionship (incredibly common) they’ll find they’ve dug too deep a hole to climb out of. Then why do guys get so angry that she doesn't want to date them? If what you said is true, the guy is goin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 11:23 AM
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Big (natural) boobs, big ass, big thighs and a tiny wasit somehow
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 11:17 AM
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Why must they date slim ugly men if they could a slim attractive guy? Or if they're happy remaining single?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 11:17 AM
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But I've even seen fat women write articles saying "I'm fat and I'm not attracted to fat men." What's wrong with that? If she's happy staying single over being with a fat man, then there's no harm
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 11:14 AM
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You’re kind of simplifying it but if your point is they should starve to death because they just can’t manage eating pasta then no I don’t think that’s a more productive solution for society lol It's not starving to death, it's been shown that women are happier single, men are happier married. They're living a better life without the pasta.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 10:42 AM
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Then define it. Usually when I see it used it's 'Im ugly and she's ugly, therefore she must date me'
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 10:40 AM
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if you overlook a plethora of positive traits in a person over minute details that aren’t perfect, you’re missing out on a lot of happiness in a relationship for starters, and making it incredible difficult for the possibility of you being content in a relationship to ever occur. I agree I think most people see this why it’s unreasonable to expect something more in a partner that you yourself lack. I think this is where it gets silly, you shouldn't have to date people who are carbon copies of yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 10:14 AM
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https://ifstudies.org/blog/male-sexlessness-is-rising-but-not-for-the-reasons-incels-claim
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 10:10 AM
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Wow you really refuse to look into factors that have been increasing ...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 04:31 AM
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More young men are living at home compared to the past and compared to women in the same age group as them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 10:31 PM
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And now they don't? It's still less than it would be if they included a whole new pool of candidates. Nothing happened in 2008 that caused young women to go for older men Financial stability after the GFC?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 10:15 PM
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But then if they have sex with both older and young men, they'll be increasing their body count which means they aren't LTR material. Also young guys could try hooking up with older women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 10:08 PM
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For the 30-39 age range sexlessness is quite low for both genders with men still leading . I just find it weird red pill men preach getting with women pre-wall (under 30) but then get upset that younger women will sleep with older men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 10:03 PM
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As you can see women's sexlessness rates need to rise about 50% to reach men's. I mean assuming an equal number of men and women, a 10% difference isn't much, especially since it's just for under 30s. Again, 19% more women are in relationships in that age group. I'd be interested to see how men and women differ for the 30-39 age group too. But most young men aren't. You are equating women left single after 65(!) To men staying single in their youth. Something that as you see wasn't an issue unti…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 08:44 PM
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I think a lot of men agree that face > body, at least from what I've sent online. You spend more time looking at the face anyway. Also it's been shown that facial symmetry is the 'key' to beauty
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:31 PM
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Oh I agree, as I said in another comment, I was oversimplifying, she'll probably end up with a guy who went through his party phase but is now more focussed too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:30 PM
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Uh? Just because a study doesn't control for gender doesn't mean there is no disparity. In fact you can see the disparity when controlling for age and gender in that same study. It does but my point was that we have an equal number of pairings, they may split up differently by age, race, income level and gender but still an equal number of men are relationships with women. In fact, most men are. Youth is exactly when you are supposed to have relationships, dates and sex. Says who? The fact that …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:30 PM
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But if we look at relationships, 69% of men and women are not single, so clearly there's no disparity there. Where this is disparity is in different age groups, older women are most likely to be single and so are younger men. https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/a-profile-of-single-americans/ Some disparity in sexlessness between the genders is to be expected. Numbers like that, arent. How is it not expected? The study looked at 18-29 year olds men, of which (from the source abov…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 04:33 PM
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She's more likely to be happy than her male counterpart who had no relationships and still can't get one (statistically women are happier single)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 04:17 PM
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Mainly because women will date older and men will date younger, meaning they'll always have less people available to date but it will increase as they get older
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 04:16 PM
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I was just pointing out the cause
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 03:52 PM
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Or 28 yos with 33, I doubt there's such a big gap on average
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 03:50 PM
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She can have sex with hot guys until she gets too old for hot guys to want to fuck her And if she's happy doing that? Women are constantly told this online, I don't think they're oblivious as you think
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 03:26 PM
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Heck yeah, I've seen overweight women who look beautiful! And there's guys who find that attractive too. I don't think weight defines beauty, it's more face if anything
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 03:23 PM
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Oh yeah I get what you mean, ideally no one settles.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 03:21 PM
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As the comment below said, it's because they aren't in relationships. Despite what you think, most women do not have casual sex with men, the men who are having sex are most likely in relationships with those women. Also a relevent stat, 51% of men under 30 are single compared to 32% of women under 30 so that's probably what that disparity in sexlessness comes to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 03:17 PM
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I mean if men are happy still chasing after these sloppy looking women, maybe they're not unattractive as you think
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 02:06 PM
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I've seen this way more online (from men saying it) than I actually have from any women I've met in my life, it just seems like some fake revenge fantasy. Though it could be a cultural difference (UK). Not saying it doesn't happen, but I don't think it happens as often as people here claim...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:58 PM
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Out of interest, if her looks standards remained the same, would you be annoyed that she's demanding someone more attractive than she is (since she lost 'value' by aging)? Because there's people in this thread saying women need to lower their looks standards but then it seems people get upset when women actually do
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:57 PM
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Still she was on a downhill before 30 at a point in life where she (most likely) hasn't entered the workforce so won't have life priorities sorted
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:55 PM
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If you ever look at random photos from the 70s and before, there aren't any fat chicks, and chicks that we'd now consider ugly, actually know how to fix themselves up, so they become attractive The same is happening to men, correct me if I'm wrong but aren't overweight / obesity rates the same for each gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:54 PM
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Have a poor person's gold 🏅
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 12:58 PM
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Oh no he should pick someone else. I was just showing how priorities change and oversimplified. Of course there's men that go through the same thing (become more serious as they get older), she'd most likely be with someone like that anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 12:56 PM
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I mean according to this sub, women peak at 18 so no matter what she was on a downhill spiral
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 12:55 PM
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Isn't there a lot less growth as you age? Like 20 -> 30 is gaining 50% more life experience, 30 -> 40 is 33% more, 40 -> 50 is 25% etc. Also the later you marry, the more likely your marriage is successful
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 12:08 PM
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Not really a backup option because she can still probably get the other guy, it would just be a lifestyle clash. She's genuinely attracted to the other guy now as he's gained more confidence over the years
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 12:06 PM
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How old are you? Do you think you'll be the same for the next 10-20 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 11:57 AM
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Well for starters it matters because you’d be wildly overestimating yourself which won’t lead anywhere successful or productive, and you’d be blindly arrogant for another. And so? It's better to remain single than settle into a relationship. become* bitter. I don't think they should be bitter but I think it's fine to stick to your standards however ridiculous they are, as long as you don't shame people for not meeting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 11:56 AM
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But the person's happy having burgers or not eating at all, you're unhappy because they don't want pasta
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 11:55 AM
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But she became a careerist woman 10 years later so she's no longer a party girl
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 11:53 AM
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You said it would be best to avoid creating incels from a societal perspective from my comment about every human being matched up, I assumed. Can you elaborate what you meant?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 10:30 AM
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So women should date guys they don't want just to avoid incels committing violence against them? She can't have her own life of happiness to fulfil someone else's?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 10:27 AM
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It matters in the sense that it creates an imbalance in the Force. Just there's almost a 1:1 ratio of men to women, doesn't mean they all need to be paired up
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 10:21 AM
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This makes no sense, only attractive people can want other attractive people? As long as you're not demanding someone dates you, I don't see the problem in waiting for a 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 10:18 AM
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Most people think compatibility is important, but it's pointless if you're not attracted to that person, why not just remain good friends otherwise - you don't need a life partner for the sake of it. I get on with my female friends really well but I'm not gonna date because of that (I'm straight).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 10:16 AM
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Or their standards change to reflect the changes they've had? A party girl in college will probably have different life priorities as a 30s careerist woman and will want a partner to match that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 10:13 AM
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Or their standards change to reflect the changes they've had? A party girl in college will probably have different life priorities as a 30s careerist woman and will want a partner to match that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 10:13 AM
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No that's how they frame it 'a 6 who thinks she's a 9'. Well why do you think she thinks she's a 9? 'Oh because she refuses to date anyone below a 9 despite not being that hot'. So the crux of it is she's not dating people as unattractive as her but if she's not attracted to them, why does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 10:12 AM
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Didn't 17 women reproduce per man way back when? So it sounds like we've gone back to the foundations of society Note: I remember reading a few articles on this but I don't know how true it is, not an expert in the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 10:20 AM
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But how do you define sexually active? For relationships, both 69% of men and women are in relationships so I don't think there's as much sharing as you think https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/a-profile-of-single-americans/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 12:16 PM
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Are the women who treated you like garbage literally the same who are willing to date you now? I never understand this logic, because if you were the younger version of yourself again, the 20 year olds would likely to reject you now if that's what most women your age were doing then. Just say you want to date 20 year olds, no need to falsely justify it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 12:05 PM
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Millo Ventimiglia? Wtf…. This guy is not as popular as any other one mentioned He's quite popular, he was on Gilmore girls so he's a teen heart throb like Chad Michael Murray from One Tree Hill or Nate Archibald from Gossip Girl
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 08:53 AM
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good face + avg height or avg face + tall? Not original commentor but those are equal to me, also you can try and fix an average face so maybe leaning more to tall but I'd be happy w either. Also hot face + avg height > ugly face + tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 09:42 AM
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I like it, it talks about men's issues without going 'female bad' like other manosphere subs. It's a productive, healthy discussion but that's just my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 02:59 PM
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then after marriage and/or kids will decide to take time off work, quite work to take care of the kids etc etc. Then divorce her then and there, you'll still be on equal salaries
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 11:45 PM
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A better way to do it is to shame casual sex so that average women stop having sex with high value men. The opposite would happen, if a woman is shamed for having casual sex, she'll only participate in it if the guy is hot enough for the shame to be worth it. Also then expect longer wait times for sex when starting a new relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 03:44 PM
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So neither of you are credible then, let's look at the stats instead. Oops you still don't have a source despite this post giving backed-up data
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 06:57 PM
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But all the other posters saying they work in law disagree...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 06:33 PM
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He said he has no source, this is just made up oppression
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:37 AM
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But so do men...? Youth is attractive in both genders
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 07:21 AM
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Again... Source??
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:50 PM
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They hired shitty lawyers. Also source for that? That the majority of men are advised to do what the mother wants?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:44 PM
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But dozens of scientific papers say attraction grows overtime
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 03:38 PM
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Damn you hit the wall early /s
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 09:16 PM
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But 30% then don't? All the person is trying to say is no need to talk in absolutes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 07:26 PM
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No no, they still are fawning.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 11:25 AM
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Slut shaming has been cancelled for a while now and is considered taboo. HAHAHAHAHA
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 05:00 PM
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I always knew it as what 13 year olds wore
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 11:01 AM
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Because it's a different target audience
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 11:00 AM
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What happened? What were people saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 01:33 AM
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There's been about ~17 since the 90s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 01:02 AM
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It doesn't go up that significantly, ignore the 7% comment, I can't find the study I read the other day but did find one that said 32% for first time encounters. "If it's her first time with a new partner, she has a 32 percent chance of vaginal orgasm; at 1 to 2 previous hookups, 35 percent; 3 to 5 previous hookups, 40 percent, and 6 or more previous hookups, 51 (!) percent... The odds of a woman having an orgasm with a partner she wanted to have a relationship, at 45 percent, rang in higher tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 05:27 PM
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I thought it was, I read a study the other day but can no longer find it, I'll update it with another one I found which is 32%
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 05:23 PM
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32% of women don't orgasm first time with male partner Edit: The percentage
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 01:47 PM
2

How is that surprising? It's a country where domestic violence is legal
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 01:32 PM
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Usually those guys blame women. 'I'm touch starved! Humans need physical contact to reduce depression but no woman will go near me...' Just go hug your homie bro
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 09:41 AM
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It isn't solely on men, but usually it's solely on women, that's why people ask them to seek comfort from other guys too
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 10:05 PM
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Sure, ignore science
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 05:33 PM
1

Probably because you're a man, men wanting to do this stuff to women aren't gonna hit you up
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 05:11 PM
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For his own porn addiction? Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 05:10 PM
3

I don't see the same hatred for single mothers as I do for single fathers on the Internet
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 12:09 PM
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I don't know why people here always do this, they'll respond over and over again to you and all of a sudden you're the sensitive one??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 05:53 AM
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Because it's easier for women to contract STDs
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 08:01 AM
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I didn't say he was unattractive because I disagree with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:05 PM
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Dude... Or maybe we don't find him attractive...? Him having women calling him up isn't proof he's attractive to most women. I think he'd have a larger female following if that was the case like this guy, look at the comments on his 2nd most recent photo. Do you see women doing the same for Kevin? https://instagram.com/vinniehacker?utm_medium=copy_link
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 06:56 PM
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I think he wants to fuck Kevin
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 06:54 PM
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Feminists are essentially projecting their hatred of his ideas to his physical appearance You're the one who brought up his looks??
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 06:50 PM
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You said success first, I was defining it in your terms which I assumed was not getting divorced
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 12:42 PM
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There's an entire sub for this??
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 12:38 PM
1

The generation were people had to rely on their partner for financial stability would obviously have higher success rates
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 12:32 PM
1

Then why are women most attracted to men near their own age?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 09:20 PM
11

r/AskMen had to ban questions about Only Fans because dudes kept posting about it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 06:10 PM
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Same reason pay for music or movies when they can torrent it, you want to support that person so you can see more of their content.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 05:56 PM
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Yeah this feels like a weird one to blame on a sex worker
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 05:52 PM
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The girl is 20 and the guy is 30 is this case right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 04:23 PM
2

It's mature to move on
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 04:15 PM
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It's not only dating that matters, it's values, independence, emotional maturity etc. If you haven't grown in 10+ years, that's really sad .
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 04:13 PM
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He's bitter if he sees all women his age as people who wouldn't date him when he was younger even if they didn't even know him back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 04:12 PM
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give you back your teenage years is just rope with a c. And pathetic. Imagine not emotionally maturing so much that you still want a high school relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 03:47 PM
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It isn't just dating experience, it's life experience and maturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 03:47 PM
1

Then isn't he ruining those women for young men too by taking up the women in their age range? And creating more men who miss out on young love?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 03:42 PM
1

As a 20 year old woman, I would claim Leonardo DiCaprio was more attractive in his youth as would many others.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 03:39 PM
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"for some reason" you mean going through life angry and bitter towards any who wants to date you isn't healthy?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 12:29 PM
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I never understand this argument. You could say the exact same for men, Leonardo DiCaprio looked better in his youth than he did now, same with Brad Pitt and others. Women are more attracted me to people closer to their own age: Https://metro.co.uk/2019/02/22/men-regardless-age-will-always-attracted-women-early-20s-8718590/amp/
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 12:28 PM
0

Exactly, it makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 12:25 PM
2

But that doesn't make sense either. Does he realise those same young women are only accepting him because of his high paying job too? If he was young again and met those same young women, they wouldn't date him either
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 12:24 PM
2

It's self sabotaging
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 12:23 PM
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Young love is very, very special in modern society. It's only young love if both people are young. You can't chase it once you're 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 12:22 PM
0

r/notlikeothergirls, r/whereareallthegoodmen, r/asktrp, r/mgtow2, r/dating, r/foreveralone are all not quarantined and have 200-700 online
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 03:23 PM
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"I like this girl - she's 14, which is underage BUT if we were in Nigeria, it would be legal! So really age of consent laws are arbitrary overall, and trust me, she's really mature for her age."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 02:44 AM
3

And so are women. They're loved for their looks, not unconditionally
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 08:06 PM
1

In what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 08:01 PM
0

this to women getting gassed up throughout their formative years And what about when they're not in their youth?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 11:39 AM
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No it wasn't clear on my part, should have added the Redditquette '/s' haha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 09:12 PM
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No I know, I just saw an opportunity to make a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 08:08 PM
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Why did you do great here but terrible there? They knew to reject him
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 04:20 AM
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People with MBAs are likely to earn more than those without. More pay = more freedom on your lifestyle
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 12:45 AM
2

I got all excited to view it but it's private ://
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 12:42 AM
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No because he'd be too old. 20F who likes to date other 20-22 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 11:02 PM
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The true 80/20 rule
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 10:12 AM
3

European flights are so cheap, you can a flight for like £20 return and hotels for £20 a night if you share with friends. Denmark's in the Schegen zone too so planning in advance isn't needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 08:25 AM
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My point is men sexualise basically anything you wear, so clearly it does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 11:09 AM
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You kind of are? Do you not see how childlike those girls look? You think it's normal for adults to be attracted to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 07:29 AM
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Did you not see the frumpy jumper part and long skirt? There was nothing sexy about that outfit and even if grown men found it that, do you really think they should be making sexual comments to a 12 year old girl? How my uniform looked: https://images.app.goo.gl/m7YBRSFUKDJ8TTcs6
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 01:04 AM
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I made this exact point in this thread, I've mostly been catcalled in the most non sexy outfits and mainly when I was underage in my school uniform.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 12:47 AM
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The most I was catcalled was walking home from school in my uniform. A frumpy jumper with my skirt below the knee on a clearly underaged girl. So I don't really give a fuck about what I wear now because I know it will have zero effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 12:44 AM
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Well it would be silly to compare stay at home moms to their husband's salary but yeah there are issues with the data. But anyway people here have been claiming women look for a partner with at least 50% higher than her salary (which implies she's working)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 01:10 PM
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That statistic is for households with children under the age of 18. What about in general for marriages? That's about 30% https://nypost.com/2021/02/04/only-30-percent-of-us-wives-earn-more-than-their-husbands-data/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 11:06 AM
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And if they wanted to do those things, they'd unlikely leave to place where it's illegal
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 12:06 AM
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Women tend to take more time off for children and maternity leave isn't a paid right in the US so it makes sense they'd want someone who has the means to provide
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 10:09 AM
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If he successfully dated 20 year olds, then decided to be with women his age, I would date him because it shows he made an active choice to pursue someone like me. But if he failed, then no because he'll probably leave me for the first young woman who shows interest. However, in general, probably wouldn't be with someone who was a 'chaser' anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 10:32 AM
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I'm not saying most people are attracted to overweight women but you implied they only had people wanting them because they were 'lowering their standards', ignoring the fact there are people who do find them attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 08:39 PM
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Or people are attracted to different things?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 06:07 PM
0

They probably are if they are continuing to be that way
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 06:06 PM
1

But according to TRP wouldn't she be hypergamous and find a more fit partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 10:25 PM
1

But you said you were ignoring women who were committed relationships with those guys. Single women vs... already hitched women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 10:16 PM
2

So you only chose to look at women not dating these types of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 07:23 PM
7

Sounds like you're just dating someone shitty
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 09:38 PM
5

Thank you for being the one to call out their BS
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 06:00 PM
2

Exactly, I think people forgot how recent this ass trend is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 01:45 PM
3

That's why this conversation is so annoying. 'women want the best partner possible!! It's disgusting!' and so what? Everyone does, men included
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 01:22 AM
1

All data that doesn't agree with me is wrong data /s
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 12:44 AM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/muxkko/what_is_the_average_ncount_of_menwomen/gv8poq4
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 12:42 AM
4

How? Not everyone has sex
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 12:40 AM
2

Exactly! I hate when people 'but if the roles were reversed...', you can literally find reserved roles anywhere on the Internet
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 01:25 AM
2

No it's ironic because these guys don't want to see a prostitute because 'I want a woman to actually want to be with me', but then advocate for situations where women are treated as resources and forced to be with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 08:53 PM
2

But some people don't like to date, some asexual, some aromatic. Why do you want to be with someone who's forced to be with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 08:52 PM
5

Casual sex. Only being valued for appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 07:23 PM
10

It's so ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 07:01 PM
1

B. Female “anatomy” is much different in 2021 than it was half a century ago. Culture to casual sex has changed and women are tested more frequently for STDs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 09:02 PM
10

You realise it's easier for women to catch STDs than men? That's the main factor in why we see a higher number for them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 03:14 PM
4

yet Have you read your own source? It says in the past year
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 03:13 PM
2

I was guessing from the dating, there's a significant skew between age groups, what else could you conclude?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 12:02 PM
5

Women are more likely to date someone older. An equal number of men and women are single, but it varies by age ranges. 65+ women are three times more likely to be single than 65+ men but we see the opposite in the younger age groups
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 11:45 AM
1

Oops sorry, I misread
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 01:04 PM
1

As the comment above said, it's been proven to be ineffective in Western societies Source: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6565398/ Edit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 12:53 PM
2

I mean assuming everyone sexless was supposed to match up with one sexual partner, 11% of men in total would not be having sex. The female one was 14% before right? That's a 40% increase then
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 09:09 AM
3

Gilmore girls Rory ended up with a rich boy douche Twilight Is Edward supposed to be the nice guy? I figured that was Jacob who she didn't love.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 08:58 AM
-2

And if I remember correctly, 19% of women are not having sex. That's only 11% more
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 01:42 AM
1

But you said that was like a contributing factor, they must have known each other beforehand to know about their social standing?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 04:28 PM
2

Are you saying they knew each other beforehand?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 01:49 AM
0

The point was these restaurants were going to have to fire all their staff, forcing everyone to go on unemployment and then jobseekers allowance once it all opened back up. Cheaper to reserve the jobs and save the hassle. The way the US did it is correct, allow employers to fire employees as needed, pay them enough to sustain themselves through the unemployment period, then when the time is right they can come back to work. I feel we're never going to agree if you believe this. So moot
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 07:08 AM
0

if you don't allow employers to fire non-essential employees It's called understanding a temporary situation. Why force hundreds of businesses to go bankrupt for a year when you're going to be back to normal soon? Everything's opening again this summer and millions of jobs were saved.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 07:01 AM
0

It's the UK, we're capitalist. They made it clear it was about placing key jobs on hold
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 06:55 AM
0

Well people were cautious about restrictions and it was against scientists warnings to start acting like normal, so they needed to be incentived to go out. But the fact the government is so set on saving these roles shows they're of importance, the fact that they're paying 80% of these people's salaries to place them on hold because they know once this is all over they'll be needed shows they're important
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 06:46 AM
0

My government did a whole campaign to get people to interact with those workers, forcing people to keep them alive, shows they're pretty essential
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 06:41 AM
8

They're currently a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 02:56 AM
7

They're not an adult and they're sexualising them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 01:06 AM
6

Hmm grown men counting down until a child is of legal age, I wonder what's creepy about that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 12:06 AM
3

No it's weird no matter the gender to date someone significantly younger
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 12:04 AM
0

I wasn't I was disagreeing with the comment about how 35% of men are incels
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 02:06 AM
0

Is this meant to be a reply to the other guy? My point is we don't know what they are
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 01:42 AM
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Well it's in the name so yeah, but it's taken on a different meaning. Even Cambridge dictionary defines it as a member of a group of people on the internet who are unable to find sexual partners despite wanting them, and who express hate towards people whom they blame for this
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 01:34 AM
1

Considering how it's had a lot of media coverage, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 01:29 AM
5

No 35% of men are sexless, I don't think most of them identify as incels
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 01:19 AM
1

I know aha, it was sarcasm
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 12:36 PM
3

And there were 1000s saying he needs to be locked up, your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 01:08 PM
12

And aren't models rich too? They're not dating some random modelusque girl from the ghetto, they're dating the Kendall Jenners and Bella Hadids of the industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 12:56 PM
1

No it's not hypocritical
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 08:15 PM
1

What studies would like you like to see?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 08:10 PM
5

Why the fuck would I care
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 09:44 PM
5

Yeah no one was saying all men anyway whereas AWALT clearly is all women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 02:49 PM
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How does it prove it right? It shows it is true for some group of women but the red pill says AWALT and FDS isn't all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 10:56 AM
4

What's the difference between the American and Canadian conservative?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 04:22 AM
1

Like 1824 I think
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 04:17 AM
2

They're all just skinny, a girl with a nice body could easily look like that. You know that 'buss it' challenge on TikTok? I imagine it like that, you may have seen them in their '6' form but they can easily glow up to a '9'
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 02:47 PM
11

Friends? Family? Your partner shouldn't be the ONLY source for affection
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 02:43 PM
1

This reply in a nutshell: even though I've proven to be wrong, I refuse to look at any data that disagrees with me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 10:31 AM
1

??? Liberals want prostitution to be legal
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 10:27 AM
1

Please do a post on it! If not please give me the source and I'll write it up
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 07:07 PM
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If 60% of the men are fathering 100% of the babies, where's the 20%? Women cheat with Chad and tell their betas it's their child. If 65% of the men are marrying 65% of the women, where's the 80%? Those women are settling because they could not get Chad. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 07:05 PM
2

And burger nipples jokes too
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 09:38 AM
1

At community college? Sure. At a top institution? No
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 05:51 PM
1

Isn't it an essay based subject? Writing and constructing arguments take skill
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 04:48 PM
1

But he won't. I've seen so many people at the constant with no success and expect stuff to be handed to them for just being at a top uni. The only useful thing that gives you is access to networking and that only works if you go out and do it. If you just do your degree at MIT or wherever and graduate, you won't get anywere if that's all you do
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 07:31 PM
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Of course for a technical role like working at NASA you'll need the right degree but there's so many high paying jobs that only need a broad skillset.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 06:25 PM
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That is just one stage in the process. It's all stages after the second and the most important ones. that doesn't mean that a summa cum laude at MIT is not going to open more doors in consulting and investment banking than an equivalent in Gender Studies. With networking? Yes. By just being someone who studies at MIT, no. I study math at a top 20 world university and sooo many people are going to graduate unemployed with firsts because they've done nothing (like extracurriculars) during their de…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 06:24 PM
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Again consulting at big firms like Baine is CV blind and they not allowed to ask about degree in interviews, only focus on your approach to cases. So as long as you go to case practice, you'll be on track to a good grad offer!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 05:58 PM
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Usually they do! Especially for consulting and investment banking, it provides diversity of thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 05:48 PM
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And I wouldn't call anyone 'unintelligent' for their degree of choice. Degrees are hard and require rigourous amounts of study into your area
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 05:45 PM
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Well it certainly happens. I know art, geography and history students all with great jobs at Goldman Sachs and such, mostly converted from spring weeks where they just ask about your interest in finance. Also consulting at big companies like Baine is CV blind so they also have the advantage there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 05:42 PM
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Different kinds of intelligence, I know as a mathematician, I cannot analyse classic literature like a classics student. And again, it would depend more on the university than area
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 05:36 PM
2

Have you ever, at any time, in any situation, heard someone specifically and explicitly state that rapists should be excused or that it's the victim's fault and they deserved it. To the latter? Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 05:29 PM
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gender studies =/= intelligent Yes, my whole point is that your area of study does not dictate your level of intelligence. Plenty of MIT graduates As I said it's a top university so yeah. Someone who does English at Oxford is probably going to be more intelligent than someone who studies Engineering at London Met.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 05:26 PM
5

Depending on the industry, I've found in finance they're very open to different degree backgrounds, and just care about extracurriculars and leadership experience
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 05:24 PM
5

You expressed this perfectly! That was the point I was trying to get at
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 05:23 PM
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But it requires a different skillset than gender studies, sure STEM is harder but I wouldn't say someone is unintelligent for doing gender studies
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 04:50 PM
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At a top university? Of course
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 03:36 PM
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Intelligent =/= STEM
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 02:58 PM
1

So cute! You guys sound great
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 09:33 AM
1

How is it not a compliment?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 04:13 PM
2

Dude, it was sarcasm
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 04:12 PM
15

Yes :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 11:56 AM
38

How dare you have a height preference, you realise she can't control that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 10:12 AM
1

Milf / cougar?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 05:32 AM
2

Depending on the culture/society
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 09:08 PM
2

The halo effect
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 12:13 PM
5

I think it's implied he wouldn't date a druggie, fat person or jerk
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 08:29 AM
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Low? These seem like normal standards
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 08:11 AM
3

Emotional and social intelligence is more valued than general IQ
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 08:36 AM
2

Cars are optimised to protect a man during a crash, women are 47% more likely to be seriously injured in a car accident
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 04:19 AM
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Well she's further raising male sexlessness if she's less open
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 11:41 AM
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It's just weird, so many dudes here talk about how it's unfair women are like that but probably would instill the same mindset in their kids
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 09:51 AM
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Unpopular opinion: Many fathers are encouraging their daughters to be hypergamous with a "no one's good enough for my little girl" attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 09:07 AM
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We are seriously back to the thought experiment lol I'm as tired as you are. I do and I hope you understand if you want a charge where you are the victim you can charge for defamation even though it's a civil one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 06:17 AM
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False police reports are criminal you condensing wanker
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 05:53 AM
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So in your hypothetical world, I would push for a charge on sexual assault like in the real world where someone can push for a defamation charge. Edit: Just because I think your thought experiment is stupid, doesn't mean I don't understand it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 05:50 AM
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Exactly! I feel they make up these scenarios in their heads, I understand extremes can happen but I doubt they're common
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 05:49 AM
1

But the state wouldn't? Is your point imagine I committed a crime and it wasn't recognised as a crime? Because again, filing a false police report is already a crime
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 05:42 AM
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You would have to register as a sex offender for public indecency, and it would probably be seen as sexual assault (putting your genitals near someone's face unconsentually) so yeah it's already a crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 05:40 AM
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Most rapists don't recieve punishment too, it's a product of the crime. There isn’t even a damage to their social life. You can't honestly believe that. Of course their friends still meet up and laugh with them about the time they lied about rape. Companies the fire men on false accusations usually later on don’t do anything to the accuser to keep the news from coming out and damaging their rep. If it's found the original person was lying, the company would fire the accuser, they can't stop them…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 05:32 AM
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FFS IT'S ALREADY ILLEGAL TO LIE TO THE POLICE AND FILE A FASLE REPORT
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 04:29 AM
2

You phrased it right, they just want you to be wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 08:39 PM
7

Would you let your wife fuck other dudes while you had side pieces?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 11:04 PM
21

Guyliner is hot
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 12:11 AM
0

I'd read it, not to try it myself but I would be interested about the journey
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 10:38 PM
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HARSH OPINION: Overwhelming percentage of men who say they don’t care about a woman’s makeup or facial beauty are virtue signaling. I don't think it's virtue signalling, I don't think they can tell when a woman is wearing makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 09:22 PM
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I would wonder why mainly and press her to get her reasons for going into the field. If I feel she has reasonable reasons, then sure I'd learn to be content since she's a consenting adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 11:57 AM
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No, she's saying she got absolutely nothing out of the experience so why would she want to engage in it? It's different when it's a partner, but this is a stranger whom you'll never see again
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 11:34 AM
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it's fun and she could be having sex with men out of her league? As she said, she probably wouldn't get off so it would be a wasted time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 11:32 AM
1

Ignore them, congrats on the engagement!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 10:26 PM
7

It's beta to use terms like alpha and beta
/r/askTRP23/02/21 10:13 PM
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Because manipulative people are good at hiding their shittiness
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 12:10 AM
1

Then she started liking it? Sounds like you were bad in bed
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 10:09 PM
3

It's so out of touch
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:57 PM
1

Not as extreme as smart and good-looking to stupid and ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 01:53 PM
0

Introversion, I get tired from social interactions. But I like extroverted partners who put themself out there more so I don't end up being a hermit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 01:52 PM
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I'm introverted but like extroverted men, things like that, doesn't have to be as extreme as you're making
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 01:45 AM
3

I don't think high profile doctors and lawyers spend their time approaching women in the street
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 12:27 AM
3

Sounds awesome! Hope you achieve it all <3
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 04:30 PM
4

Most people marry within their own income bracket
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 04:29 PM
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If you watch porn, why do you watch it? I wanna get off. What do you like about it? The visual is nice and the ease of availability What do you get out of it? See above. What kinds of porn do women like? Can't speak for all women but I like porn with a plot, the flirting and building tension before they fuck. I like seeing both the guy and girl in the shot, I hate when they cut the guy out. I like seeing the guys reaction and like when he makes noise. I also watch lesbian porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 03:42 PM
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Most guys are happy with female attention though, hence why they use gay in the analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 11:58 AM
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Yeah? Thought that was clear
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 11:57 AM
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And that's completely fair of him to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 05:08 AM
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I think there's like 17 women for every man historically
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 09:50 AM
2

'I'll be single forever' bs attitude, OK? Well if what you're saying is true that every guy does care, I'd rather not date them. If lots of other guys fucked you it means two things: (i) you are easy to manipulate or (ii) you are promiscuous by nature. Or you like casual sex? But I do prefer these reasons then 'hur duh pair bonding'
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 11:01 PM
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Then I guess I'll be single forever, rather that then be with someone who values people by the number of penises that have been inside them Edit: But no, most guys I have met irl don't care, and haven't been asked about a body count since high school
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 10:44 PM
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I don't know how this thread turned into dating advice to me but the men in my life like to have an equal they can have interesting conversations so I'll have no trouble thanks :)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 10:43 PM
1

In the guys requirement list he says be in your 20s, it seems he has an upper limit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 10:32 PM
0

Do you want to date a woman so easily influenced by her peers?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 10:31 PM
1

Huh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 10:30 PM
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Yeah he'll be so put off by the fact I've only slept with one person, I must be such a whore for having sex with my long term boyfriend. Any man who cares is not a man I want to date
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 10:29 PM
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Lol my submissions show I have an eating disorder, I'm a perfectly healthy weight and I know that. Look I don't get a job for men, I want a nice life and my job gives me access to that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 10:28 PM
1

Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 09:33 PM
1

Was in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 08:57 PM
2

This is bad ofc but on the other side of it, as a woman I feel like I'm only valued for my looks. I can have all the career success I want but if I were ugly, no one would care. But if pretty privledge is something that affects us all
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 08:44 PM
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It wasn't the list. It's just the way he phrased it like I shouldn't focus on my professional life and spring my efforts to dating, just seemed insulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 08:42 PM
1

I haven't had sex in a year
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 08:40 PM
1

Didn't say they weren't, was just answering the question
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 08:39 PM
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Your focus was on keeping a good diet, being fit, being good at makeup and finding ways to rock his world. Adapting my whole life to suit a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 04:53 PM
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I don't want to be someone's sex pet in a relationship so I'd rather be single than just be seen as a pretty face to my partner. Edit: Beauty is temporary, but intelligence lasts longer. Should I expect him to drop me as soon as I age?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 04:45 PM
1

It says I need to pay $40. What percentage of women? What was the study that lead them to that conclusion? How many partipants?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 04:43 PM
8

Wow! I'm going to quit my masters and give up my quant job just to land a guy like you 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 04:37 PM
1

I was just answering the question
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 04:35 PM
2

I ask my male friends for dating advice, but I'm more likely to ask another woman since I'm closer with more
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 04:35 PM
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Teenagers I'm assuming
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 03:23 PM
2

It's not discrimination to not want to fuck someone
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 02:31 PM
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No it isn't, if your friends are pushing you to be a shitty person, then they aren't good friends, and you probably wouldn't even want a girl who's that easily influenced by peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 02:27 PM
1

Idk like get annoyed when a virgin girl won't sleep with you as quickly as others may
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 02:26 PM
2

Tbh I agree, my body count is super low but I wouldn't date/sleep with a guy who cared about how many people I've slept with. It's just them filtering themself out if they ask. I think people find it hypocritical when someone wants a virgin but have slept with a lot of people, or when they get annoyed that their partner is taking too long to sleep with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 01:25 PM
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Maybe your friends will question your attraction but they aren't good friends if they're making you choose between them or some guy you've barely spoken to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 01:24 PM
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Everytime I see a woman give dating advice on those subs, all the replies say 'you don't ask a fish how the fisherman caught it'
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 01:21 PM
1

Well personally I have seen happy couples open up to each other. Usually have seen the girl warm up to the guy even more after the fact. I'm not saying the opposite doesn't happen
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 11:24 AM
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The women who say that have had good experiences with partners opening up whereas the men have done it once and it ended up badly, so recommend never doing that again. I don't see the point of being in a relationship you can't be vulnerable in
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 07:55 PM
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We have a big drinking culture in the UK. Also didn't realise I had to sleep with someone whenever I went out with my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 09:35 AM
1

When I can, Fridays/Saturdays. I tend to grind in the week so I could go out with friends on the weekends
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 11:54 PM
2

Doing a master's in STEM and I like to go clubbing when I can
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 11:06 PM
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1) daily mail Could have stopped there
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 09:15 AM
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18/19. It was right near my birthday You mean like position? Proning I think it's called 1 0 yes Yes No Yes Yeah when I was like 14 but in my adult relationships, no. No No No Yes Yes No
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 01:50 PM
9

Yeah I saw someone saying women can't experience true depression since there's someone who will always want to have sex with them, like what??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 04:36 PM
1

Be the life of the party, the guy everyone is laughing around,
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 12:38 PM
2

Are you American? Because we have a big drinking culture here in the UK, it never really felt discouraged for most people I know
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 10:25 AM
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Clubbing is fun, I don't understand why going makes you a not nice and unrespectable person?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 08:44 AM
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Probably because they don't voice their views.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 12:37 AM
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Wouldn't call them feminists, I'd say that's more the liberal art guys. My point was they're on good career tracks and still get girls // have a vase social life
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 12:28 AM
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I know tons of guys with good career paths who get girls a lot, oh but they also party a shit ton too. You know it's not hard to be both? You can have your Goldman Sachs grad scheme and still head to the club with the wolf of wall Street wannabees
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 10:41 PM
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They do, they're very binary
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 10:37 PM
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Probably some social science question like 'why do women...' or 'why do men...', and it popped up in my Google search. I was reading a lot of social science books at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 03:00 AM
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I see it now, thanks! I stumbled on this sub and I like debating people so I joined. Never really understood the pill stuff people were going on about, just ignored it when it came up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 02:38 AM
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This is bad but I don't actually know what the RP is, I'll do some research
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 02:16 AM
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Maybe a 'no pill' option? I'm just going to have to select a random one ig
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 02:08 AM
3

I didn't say they successfully seek a sex partner
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 11:37 PM
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I think women have desire for sex, but just don't pursue it. Like they feel horny and just masturbate instead, whereas guys feel horny and seek a sex partner. I have no source for this though other than anedotcal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 11:26 PM
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If you have no friends but you have a significant other you’ll be left alone. You'll be seen as codependent and not able to be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 08:13 PM
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Agreed! There's a great essay about this called 'she left me because I didn't wash the dishes'.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 12:14 AM
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It's called pointing out the flaws in one's logic but whatever makes you feel smart
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 07:35 PM
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And I'm saying it's a shitty metaphor
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 07:09 PM
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Fish can't talk. If they could, I'm sure we would ask them what attracted them to the particular bait / hook. Luckily, women can talk. Edit: downvoting is against the rules
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 05:44 PM
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Apologies I skimmed the study but didn't get to the conclusion, thanks for the clarification!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 01:32 AM
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Girls move on a lot faster, and not just with "options" or moving onto another guy - they also move on a lot faster if they're just single again. I think studies have shown the opposite. www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/valley-girl-brain/201611/do-men-really-get-over-breakups-faster-women%3famp
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 12:52 AM
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I see consent like a cup of tea. Do unconscious people want tea? No. Can people change their mind about drinking tea halfway through the cup and communicate that to you? Yes. If someone says they don't want tea, would you give it to them? No. https://youtu.be/pZwvrxVavnQ
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 05:25 PM
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Well no, if you do things you don't enjoy for the sole pursuit of meeting women, you'll give off that vibe and people won't want to interact with you. You should go to things you like, or have been interested to try, which will radiate better energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 10:14 PM
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on their own terms This is key. They didn't enjoy sex in the past but now they can indulge. They can focus on their pleasure, not just the man's.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 08:32 PM
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It's increased because they can do it on their own terms. It isn't an exchange of services (like you marry my virgin daughter and in return give her a secure life)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 01:43 PM
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I know PPD people think men just want a 18 year old fuck toy but most guys I know irl want an intellectual life partner
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 09:30 AM
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How do you define the stability of society?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 09:25 AM
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Doesn't exactly help the narrative of "We are more than just our bodies". Because they were only seen as useful for their bodies, independence focusses on seeing their bodies as something other than solely for male pleasure
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 09:23 AM
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For some people, but for most studies show that fat shaming causes overweight people to eat more in shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 09:21 AM
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Those did come to mind but I figured you'd say those are surjective. I was trying to think of hard nos
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 02:54 AM
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You said men don't really have needs outside of not being overweight and I listed some other examples and you moved the goalpost
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 01:52 AM
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Either sex has value or it doesn't. Either sex is damaging or it isn't. You realise these things are surjective and things don't have to be binary?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 01:39 AM
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I have a hard time not viewing stepdads as desperate people tbh. Or people who fell in love with single moms
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 01:37 AM
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So you're not replying to anything I said in that comment... Low body count, not active on social media / not posting revealing photos, previously have not worked as a sex worker, cute face (most guys don't want to date an ugly skinny girl), not a feminist (seen this on Reddit sometimes)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 10:19 PM
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a fit girl with no kids That's two requirements the bar is really at the bottom Could say the same for women only wanting a tall guy. Most women want someone taller than them, considering the average height of women is 5'4" and the average height of men is 5'9". That's still most men. When you start combining those traits the statistics get worse way faster. My whole point was that most people don't. You usually have a couple of main traits you look for, not all things are non negotiable. All I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 09:31 PM
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Any trait someone wants excludes most people, dating is about rounding the pool down. Hell, wanting ONE of these things excludes most men. 75% of people in the US are overweight so if guys want a fit girl, they're excluding most women. But there's no problem with that, why should there be a problem with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 08:55 PM
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There are common trends but I've never heard someone say they value a high IQ, if anything, I'd say emotional and social intelligence is valued more. OP is acting like women only want these things, when I'd argue most women would focus on a couple, not demand all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 11:44 AM
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If people don't agree with my ideas, they must be brainwashed. How else could you explain it? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 04:30 AM
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Sssh don't ruin it, bet OP felt so proud tagging this as 'science'
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 04:25 AM
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Or maybe... Just maybe... Different women want different things
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 04:19 AM
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As a mathematician, thanks for doing the brunt of the arguing. The title made me roll my eyes too :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 04:18 AM
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Because the guy would often wonder what he did wrong / what he could change when he's perfectly fine, you just know he's not for you. The main takeaway should be you don't need to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 04:15 AM
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Tbh that would be better. Female is usually used as an adjective, like female monkey, female cat, etc. Just saying 'females' is weird. Or you know... Just call them women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 07:34 PM
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Yeah I defo agree. Date who you vibe with, it's just weird you're only seeking a specific age range. Edit: clarified
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 12:00 PM
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I can tell, hence my 'because that makes sense'.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 10:22 PM
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r/exredpill
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 11:45 AM
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Was this to ridicule the statement? Because this makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 11:42 AM
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Comment: This is proven false by studies. Links source. OP: This is wrong because of that one woman I know
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 05:24 AM
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The average age gap between married couples in the US is 2.5 years, that's barely older.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 08:41 PM
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I just browse Reddit during family movie time (currently at home for the holidays). I'm bored
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 07:50 PM
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Source: “Human Trafficking Within and Into The United States: A Review of the Literature.” Office of the Assistant Secretary for Planning and Evaluation. Accessed July 31, 2019, https://aspe.hhs.gov/report/human-trafficking-and-within-united-states-review-literature#Trafficking. I'm not going to take a stranger's word over an actual study.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 04:04 PM
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The average age a teen enters the sex trade in the US is 12 to 14 years old. So 13 year olds are choosing the lifestyle? Can you not see how they can be forced into it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 03:46 PM
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How did you come to this obviously wrong conclusion? 25% of sex trafficed people are children. Do you think they want to do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 03:28 PM
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No because then he'd have to admit he was a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 02:27 AM
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Apologies, I thought that was a link to the scene from the movie as it was just above that reference. Read through and I disagree, the study focusses on whether each party would pursue a romantic relationship with the other. They do not ask participants questions such as 'Would you continue being friends with the other if you knew there was absolutely no chance to further your relationship?'. So I don't believe it's reasonable to conclude men and women can't be friends just because men are more …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 03:28 PM
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Point’s not that a movie said it, the point is that this is something that people have been aware of and that’s been discussed for a long time. I could list movies that say the opposite, that's why it's a silly point. reality is determined by valid studies and evidence which demonstrate what I’ve said rather clearly. You didn't link any studies, so go ahead. Edit: found it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 03:18 PM
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“Men and women can’t be friends because the sex part always gets in the way” - Harry Burns, When Harry Met Sally Wow?!?! A movie said it?!? That means it must be true! Men typically want to fuck their female friends Desperate men, yes. Normal men can maintain a healthy friendship with their female friends w/o any expectation or hope of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 10:29 AM
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I'd say 2 is the most appealing out of these choices, but usually wouldn't go for that. I like skinny guys (I know you showed an option for no 4, but he's too skinny). You put extremes of each body type, most of these aren't even appealing imo. My ideal type atm would be whatever the actor's name is for Phil on Modern Family.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 10:21 AM
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Zoom classes are a recent thing and still not all students have access to online education. And most classes aren't recorded to my knowledge to encourage students to show up
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 08:02 PM
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No? I'm just wondering what can say to ban from a big sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 06:43 PM
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What did you say to get banned?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 06:20 PM
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I know single intorverted women who have not been asked out, ages 17-21
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 06:18 PM
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The way this question was phrased was dismissive of any answers
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 06:17 PM
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If this is true, then where are these women? Unless they work from home, have no online presence, and order all their food to their house, they have to be out sometimes. I have cold approached tons of women and really I can't imagine any type of woman would never get asked out. It seems you are going to refuse any answer as an outlier based on your personal bias. Anyways r/AskWomen would be better place for this, this sub barely has women as is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 05:27 PM
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Then we'll run the country into the ground and increase our poverty rate. Awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 05:24 PM
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The benefits outweigh these supposed negatives. Some girls can barely leave the house with heavy period pain. At a young age, they'd have to miss 3-5 days of school a month. Are you saying having a high libido is more important than a stable education? And having to deal with monthly chorionic pain?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 05:22 PM
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There's feral children and children who grow up in basements, they don't die from social isolation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 05:12 PM
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Elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 05:08 PM
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Again, as most have said in the thread, we give out contraceptives for free for the better of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 05:07 PM
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Nah, it's better to have free contraceptives than a bunch of uneducated, unplanned babies
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 05:06 PM
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Like someone who has never played sports or held a ball: "wtf stop running in circles and just throw the ball in the basket lol" Practice makes perfect, you can't expect someone to hit all their shots but they can try their hardest until they do. Also can't 'low value' people be friends with each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 10:22 AM
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My point is it is still covered. Usually cosmetic surgery isn't free because it's more of a luxury.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 09:57 AM
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If you break your nose, a nose job is free under the NHS so sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 09:53 AM
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The original comment was arguing that BC has medical benefits, the reply implied that women survived without it so the medical benefits can't be that great. I pointed out that was a silly rebuttal because humans survived without medicinal alternatives before, doesn't mean we shouldn't use them now. Pay for it out of pocket. It's medicine. Medicine is free. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 09:42 AM
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Maybe that's why it was a good idea to shun women who got pregnant out of wedlock, so that they are not a bad influence on others. Why? They're not causing any harm to others. We remove criminals from society for our safety. A pregnant stranger has no effect on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 09:39 AM
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So you admit that women only care about "rich attractive men". Where did OP admit that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 08:41 AM
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But there are mandatory child support laws in place, so the original comment was incorrect in stating that it doesn't benefit men. Contraception also protects both genders from STDs. There's another benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 08:40 AM
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People also get mad and want to hurt other people or kill them, yet people aren't doing that. I'm confused by this equivalency but aight. There are people who hurt other people and we remove them from society for the safety of others. We also have free law enforcement that help in these situations. Free protection. I am just saying there are not needs. I'm agreeing with you. I don't think anyone sees it as a human right need but it is a need for a productive society. In the same way free parks a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 08:37 AM
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People are gonna fuck if they wanna fuck. Having a shit ton of unplanned babies isn't good for society (I've replied to you in another thread).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 06:00 AM
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"According to a 2013 Guttmacher Institute review of more than 66 studies, spanning three decades, reliable contraception allows women to be better parents. Among the findings: couples who experience unintended pregnancy and unplanned childbirth are more likely to have depression and anxiety—while adults who plan their children tend to be happier. Relationships are more likely to dissolve after an unplanned birth than a planned one. And those who are unprepared to be parents are more likely to de…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 05:59 AM
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They're a need for a good society, data supports this. Sex isn't a need, but we need not to have an uneducated, poverse population.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 05:48 AM
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How did human survive without penicillin? Or any ther medical advancement? What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 05:47 AM
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People could also not have sex if they don't want pregnancy. Again, for purely, practical reasons - it doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 05:45 AM
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TIL contraceptives do not benefit men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 05:43 AM
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The reason the social circles for women 40+ shrinks to nothing is not because they forget to maintain them. It's because the value of being in these social circles is low. Men also lose their social circle. Grown ups with llives don't have time to hang out each day. The reason every college age girl has a larger social circle than she can maintain is because the high value of being in these circles Or because all her friends live nearby and take similar classes, and usually she's in a new city w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 03:59 AM
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Where did I imply that? I never even mentioned TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 07:12 PM
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Huh. Dude, you're keep trying to argue with me about points I never said.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 07:08 PM
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Apologies, I'm confused by that first chunk, it's a paragraph yet one sentence and I can't make sense of it. Please can you re-explain. Bans do not help in an onslaught of alts and legit "refugees". It's akin to closing borders. Then make it so that everything must be approved by mods before it's posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 07:07 PM
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When? I didn't say TRP inspired incels, I said the incel subreddit did
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 07:04 PM
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Sounds fun! Enjoy your break :)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 07:00 PM
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What's a purge?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 06:58 PM
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No it doesn't mean every liberal is bad, can you point me to where I said every incel is bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 06:57 PM
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Thanks for clarifying, then my point was... Huh? I don't know what you mean. You mean incels larping as MGTOW guys? People who can't be bothered to, strictly speaking, when travel wasn't "prohibited", hop over to get some legal pussy in exchange for numbered colored slices of dead trees, to take completely care of their "involuntary" celibacy with the 1st stroke once and for all? Compared to guys who have simply decided to not partake in the marriage and cohabitation game and realizing the rest …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 06:47 PM
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You said it took a long time the closing down of braincel for the members to spill over but also a lot of trolling and agitprop posts and comments by feminazis larping as beings capable of rational thought to get it to that quarantine point. There. Wait. I may have misinterpreted, were you saying feminists were LARPing as incels saying aggressive things to get the sub shut down?? And that the posts were trolling and not serious? That's how I interpreted it. My point is MGTOW was MUCH more travel…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 06:37 PM
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People inspired by incel forums to commit domestic terrorism acts (as mentioned in their manifestos) What's your point? You said the incels forum was mainly people LARPing when clearly there are people who took the stuff said there seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 06:20 PM
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Radicalised and inspired to kill Examples include Elliot Rodger, Ben Moynihan, Alek Minassian, Scott Beierle, Christopher Cleary, Brian Isaack Clyde, Cole Carini Edit: typo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 06:14 PM
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You really believe that all the disgusting stuff on that sub was by trolls? There have been people inspired by it before and they're clearly real.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 05:55 PM
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Yeah I honestly think it's all a bit BS to fuel some victim complex. Otherwise they would encourage men to compliment each other, instead of blaming women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 05:54 PM
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Oh yes I know Reddit isn't representative of the actual population, I doubt people irl think any of the things spouted on here. I was just using it as an example because I figure the groups on Reddit demanding women fix them overlap with the compliment group. But that's purely speculation, I should have been clearer apologies!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 03:50 PM
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Having certain subs quarantined means nothing, MGTOW was around for longer (afaik) and it took a long time to get it to that quarantine point. FDS will see its time soon, just keep reporting what you see.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 02:41 PM
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Of course it's not a solution but it's a start, a community can make change. And to the first point, I keep seeing stuff like 'women should compliment men, men don't get enough compliments' ignoring the fact men could compliment each other. That's just one example.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 02:39 PM
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I didn't cherrypick, I found a website summarising a bunch of studies. The opposite of cherry picking in fact. Thanks for the article read, it is important to know the accuracy of data. Though, there's not much more you can do then. I'm not going to go by RP confirmation bias 'I know a girl who slept with 20 guys, therefore all girls have this average'. This data is the closest thing we have, unless you can provide me with some other sources (the article you sent discusses the limitations of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 06:28 AM
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I'm slowly realising it's pointless to debate here, it seems most people are just reaffirming their narrative and aren't open to actual discussions. :/ It's so odd because they make fun of 'feminists' for misquoting data to create a victim narrative, and can't see they're doing the exact same??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 03:42 AM
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"According to 2011 to 2015 CDC data, women between ages 25 and 44 had a median of 4.2 sexual partners, while men in that age group had a median of 6.1 sexual partners." Men have a higher n counts in almost all studies. Do you still want to make society changes now that you know your false narrative isn't true? Source: mindbodygreen.com/articles/the-ideal-number-of-sexual-partners-for-men-women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 02:28 AM
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Where did this sex worker stereotype come from? I just joined for fun debates but keep seeing that makes me an autistic, undateable prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 02:23 AM
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You're jumping to a whole new thing. There's no point going into the 'patriarchy', we're talking about the definition of toxic masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 01:12 AM
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I agree, you have to put a lot of effort in. But people make it sound harder than it actually is sometimes. Like this year I had no classes with anyone I knew and with the pandemic my opportunities for meeting new classmates were limited. So I found the class lists and messaged a couple of people a friendly message saying I was taking the same course and knew no one on it, asking if they wanted to get coffee and study together. Loads of people were in the same boat and we're happy to meet up, de…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 01:11 AM
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Any suggestion will likely be instantly shot down but imo if you're in uni / college, develop a strong social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 01:01 AM
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1) How can one determine greater suffering? 2) How is that productive discussion in any way? You cannot measure this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 12:58 AM
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Watched the first 5 minutes, wow America sounds more and mord fucked the more that I learn about it. But could you give me a timestamp where they cover toxic masculinity?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 10:51 PM
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Where are you getting your 'femimist' source from? I'm not familiar with the APA.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 10:43 PM
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Toxic masculinity is conforming to the idea of what makes someone masculine and not doing what you want as it isn't 'manly'. It doesn't mean masculinity is toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 10:03 PM
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There's loads of factors that go into this, like men are more likely to own guns than women, they have more violent tendencies which is reflected in their suicide method, etc. I'm not minimising the suicide rate of men, but I'm not going to do an oppression Olympics of who's suicide is worse. There's some studies that don't include those who seek help and ask for self reporting, but I doubted that would be accepted due to the replies in the thread saying that people overdiagnose depression nowad…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 09:33 PM
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attention seeking bullshit Yikes, if someone is in pain enough to drive themself to hurt themself, that should be notable. OP's point is that more men have depression / anxiety, which is not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 09:17 PM
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There are women who say that, there are similar numbers of men who say the opposite ('men are better than women'). They're both in the minority, not worth arguing with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 08:54 PM
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I'm confused what your point is?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 08:34 PM
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Men aren't more likely to committ suicide, they're more likely to be successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 08:33 PM
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Yeah this question is so stupid, OP could have easily looked up depression/anxiety rates in men and women but went for confirmation bias focussing on certain subreddits. Spoiler alert: his question isn't even true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 08:26 PM
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Both genders experience depression around the same rates, just at different stages in their life. "Depression is more than twice as prevalent in young women than men (ages 14–25 yr), but this ratio decreases with age. Indeed, starting at puberty, young women are at the greatest risk for major depression and mental disorders globally. Importantly, before puberty, girls and boys have similar rates of depression; the rate is perhaps even higher for boys. At ages older than 65 years, both men and wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 08:23 PM
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Can you give me some examples of geeky social fringes where women avoid? I'm at college and the gender ratio is pretty good for most activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 09:31 AM
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eeew, geeks, amirite? What is this the 90s?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 08:47 AM
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Because most of the country is white so there's a high probability that celebrity examples will be white? Also mainstream media is mostly white.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 08:48 PM
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Women say they don't want one extreme so I went fully in the complete opposite direction but it seems they don't like that extreme either! So what do women actually want? Because obviously the middle ground doesn't exist /s
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 04:19 AM
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Reciprocity in what way? Like she should listen to your problems too? I said that, she was shitty friend for not doing that. But the list the commenter gave was things expected in a general friendship anyway, these aren't 'boyfriend' activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 02:42 AM
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You made a comment saying it didn't rewire men's brains to find her attractive, kinda implying that was the aim. So I questioned for clarification.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 02:11 AM
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Racial preferences are okay, it's natural to be attracted to your own race. Height preferences are not okay, you can't control your height.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 02:08 AM
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Contraceptive aren't a need but it's better for society if we give them out, then we don't end up with a fuck ton of kids who need welfare. We want an educated society and controlling birth is key to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 11:56 PM
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There are more movies focussing on men than women, and female leads tend to have less of a speaking role. How are movies catering to women with that in mind? Edit: www.vogue.com/article/women-talked-less-than-men-2019-movies
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 11:48 PM
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80% of men are sexless or have never had a relationship? Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 11:40 PM
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Was western media trying to push Tess Holiday to be attractive to men? I saw it as pushing it to women since she was on female fashion magazines.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 11:38 PM
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It's bad that she didn't want to listen to your problems but you realise all the things you listed are normal friend things and not 'boyfriend duties'. You have a pretty warped view of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 04:07 PM
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women who are virgins are praised By men on Reddit, not in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 02:54 PM
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Single. Men basically give attention to everyone so it doesn't mean much when they do, I could live without it. I prefer attention from the same sex, like if a girl calls me hot, it makes my day, when a guy does I know I'm the 80th person he's told that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 02:53 PM
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Yep, this is the one they always forget about
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 02:50 PM
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I couldn't come up with a good example on the spot but someone who looks like him ish. Or more businessmen types (BB investment bankers).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 02:20 PM
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Like George Clooney types, looks like they ooze success
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 02:50 AM
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There are some tests I can show which say the opposite (that women have a higher IQ than men). The studies have been so varied which is why it has been concluded that they're essentially the same. The smartest people are almost all men Source? Do you mean historically?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 02:25 AM
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I'd be most likely somewhat lower IQ Most tests say there aren't any differences between male and female IQ
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 01:32 AM
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Lol no, had many dates and many offers. That's why I was surprised at the stereotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 08:41 PM
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> Most celebs and athletes girls are drooling are over 30 so what are you talking about? That's the small percentage, celebrities and athletes. > Willing to spend a few nights with them is dating Wouldn't be willing to do that either with most unless they're George Clooney > I’m sure everyone can attest to this I disagree, a lot of 30 yo guys I see are out of shape and fat. Maybe your family is just hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 07:24 PM
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I just started using this sub because I was bored in lockdown and I like seeking out different viewpoints so I don't end up in echo chambers, and debate can be fun. Didn't realise that made me undateable suddenly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 06:38 PM
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PewdiePie is a YouTuber, Dinglederper is a Twitch streamer. A more accurate comparison would be comparing him to someone like Emma Chamberlain.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 06:11 PM
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The top YouTubers are grown men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 05:03 PM
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That's from 2015. In recent years: https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2020/dec/18/ryan-kaji-9-earns-30m-as-this-years-highest-paid-youtuber if you want to make money the same way as a male You can.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 04:12 PM
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and you think people will pay to see that? Yeah, there's probably some straight guys to that want a jerk off buddy (see r/jobuds) too. I agree the average guy couldn't reach the top 1% as women could but most women on OnlyFans barely make anything so the average guy would be at the same level.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 04:09 PM
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it's mostly women who watch watch le.sbian porn I didn't contradict myself. Yes women prefer to watch lesbian porn but the majority of the consumers of it are male. They prefer to No There's more money in it Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 04:06 PM
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Doing OnlyFans could negatively impact your career if you work in industry, YouTube would be the better option.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 03:07 PM
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College girl here. I've found when most girls say they're attracted to older guys, they usually mean a couple of years older, not a 10 year age gap. Even though my friends and I discuss that we find 30s/40s attractive, we would never date them because we're in different stages of life and would want different things. Also when we say 30s/40s, it's usually a small % of men that look hot at the age, not your average Joe who just turned 33.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 03:06 PM
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You don't have to put a penis in your ass, you can use fleshlight toys or just jerk off on video. I would consider success as making enough money that you're comfortable with, £300 a month could be enough for one but barely for another.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 02:56 PM
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They'd appeal to them if there was money in it, they only cater to a male audience because that's where the money lies in OnlyFans. Like how some female pornstars do lesbian scenes for money but aren't actually gay, or do straight scenes for money but are actually lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 02:54 PM
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You don't have to use a dildo, you can use a fleshlight.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 08:58 AM
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"I'm not doing that because it's gay" If that's the attitude that's stopping men from succeeding in the field, it's there own fault for believing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 08:56 AM
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Again, they aren't attracted to their clients. They don't get turned on by their clients consuming their content. If women were their sole audience, they wouldn't care because they're still making money.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 08:55 AM
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Why can't they send dick pics to men if they're not gay? You realise women aren't attracted to their clients.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 11:14 PM
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You have a dick, you can market to gay men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 11:12 PM
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Sorry I don't understand what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 03:00 AM
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They aren't, by definition, if you want to take away rights from men, you aren't a feminist and a very shitty person. It's not a tactic, there's no point arguing with them, it's better to ignore than engage with these types of people. Men's and women's rights issues often go hand in hand. There's no need to focus solely on one or the other, people may advocate more for issues that affect them more. Just because someone donates money to a food bank in the US doesn't mean they don't care about sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 02:59 AM
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Yeah I understand, just added it in case! I disagree if we're talking about top % of attractiveness. But average attractive women do see more than average attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 02:54 AM
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Well personally? I used to be anorexic and would weigh myself twice a day. I haven't weighed myself in about two years now and wouldn't start again for a dating app as it could lead me down that bad path again. There's a reason weight filters haven't been made on dating apps aside from the ones I pointed out. Women simply wouldn't use it, there's already a 9 to 1 ratio on the most popular dating sites, that would go down even further. Companies will do whatever's best for their business. The rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 02:52 AM
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But I'm still confused why a body type filter isn't enough? As I pointed out you can look still good at various weights, it depends how you carry it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 02:38 AM
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Ok for that I can agree! Sorry I thought you were implying something else. But I do also want to point out this happens to ugly women too, an attractive women would also get a bunch of laughs but the ugly girl would get similar stares. Attractive people are just treated better in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 02:32 AM
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My eyes aren't red and my face isn't melted off. I recommend you read Invisible Women, that's full of examples of areas women are still ignored in. utterly incapable of seeing all other spheres of life women are massively privledged in No no, we can. Don't confuse feminism for misandry. boogeyman of taking away abortion There are states in the US trying to make this happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 02:28 AM
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If they're acting the same I would say no. I know plenty of guys deemed 'unattractive' by Reddit's standards that are seen as hot irl. Like the guy all girls gush over in my year is 5'7.5 and Indian. I feel like personality (smart, funny, charming) increases attractiveness, as how being attrative can increase one's personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 02:17 AM
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I was thinking of more hormonal changes like I know I gain 2kg while on my period but it drops after. But ok. 130 skinny is different than 140 curvy is what I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 02:14 AM
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it leads to an instant break up You have a weird, false view of relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 02:07 AM
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people come to comfort you And judge you for it. I have a female friend that constantly breaks down, our group comforts here when her problems arise... but also avoid her most of the time because she's too much drama. People don't like emotional instability.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 02:04 AM
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There's nothing wrong with anyone's preferences, you can't help what you're attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 02:00 AM
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As a female college student too, I agree. People only cared in high school really. It seems internet virgins care more than actual socialable people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 01:59 AM
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Height doesn't make any difference in a relationship Yes it does, it can affect attraction which is an important part of a relationship. The same way weight can.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 01:49 AM
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True. What pisses me off is when they say one is more shallow than the other
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 01:48 AM
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At least she didn't hide it in photos, just swipe left.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 01:46 AM
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Because your weight changes on the daily. As an adult, your height pretty much stays the same. Do you expect people do a weekly check in? It just wouldn't work in practice. Also, weight looks different on everyone so it's silly thing to have a cut off on. A body type filter makes more sense and I think (correct me if I'm wrong) Match, POF, OKC, and Zoosk have these.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 01:45 AM
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Being a feminist =/= being a misandrist, learn the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 01:41 AM
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It's an analogy, jeez
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 01:40 AM
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Exactly!! I've seen so many posts on r/dating of people venting they can't get a match and when people suggest they ask a friend to look at the profile, they're like "oh I have zero friends". Like how do you think you can have a long term dating relationship if you can't even sustain a friendship. That's your main problem, find friends and then try dating, don't jump straight to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 01:33 AM
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I disagree, there's people I find unattractive but have then found attractive to their charm. If the hot guy acted odd and the ugly guy acted socially normal, I'd see the hot guy as weird and the ugly guy as charming. Unless you were suggesting they had the same personality, just different in looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 01:28 AM
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It's a joke (not saying it's a funny one), I've seen plenty of stuff from the opposite gender like this with similar like ratios, I just don't get my panties in a twist each time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 01:24 AM
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Yeah sex =/= travel
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 01:22 AM
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We're dating so clearly we're compatible, I would assume he has his reasons if he doesn't like those things anymore, and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 01:21 AM
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You can't seriously believe this
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 01:16 AM
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is it right to draft men for the war Of course not. Forcing people to go to war is inhumane. Do you think men should pay taxes to subsidize abortions I'll probably send my future kids to private schools but my taxes will still fund public schools, you can't choose where your taxes go
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 01:13 AM
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Source for the first bit?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 01:10 AM
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