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I've been here since 30k subs! I couldn't be prouder! ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 09:05 PM
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The intro has me hyped!!! I can't wait!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 10:40 PM
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Probably to emphasize that this is a space for biological females only
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 03:21 PM
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"But officer, a Reddit post said it was totally ok and that no really means yes..."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 05:00 PM
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"The scurvy got him" is killing me softly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 10:14 PM
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lol @ me getting downvoted. Have any of you read the manual for this sub? What had happened to this place? We have to tell men how to be decent?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 01:11 AM
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Verbalizing how you'd liked to be loved is not FDS at all...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 09:46 PM
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Remember the "rules for dating my daughter" shirt that went viral a few years back? Men know they are trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 09:55 PM
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Don't forget her laughing with Kanye about him needing to take 30 showers before sleeping with her after dating Amber Rose. Now he's accusing Kim of being a dirty cheater, it's not so funny now, is it, Kim?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 10:35 PM
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Absolutely not. I can't believe some of the comments I'm reading in this post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:15 PM
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When Pickme's and NVM/LVM say "at least she has a man" or mocks you for being single, just think of this video.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 10:46 PM
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Even in their fantasies they are obsessing over women instead of "going their own way." Just go fuck your robot in peace and leave women alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 06:21 AM
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Him asking to meet "tonight" should be an automatic NEXT. You're no last minute girl. Suggesting Thursday was doing too much work for him and you see how he got even lazier by expecting you to plan a date as if he's some prize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 12:14 PM
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I know. I looked for it and couldn't find it either, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 12:38 AM
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And then when we accept that most men won't be better and raise our standards to "choose better", the reaction from men is... 😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 12:49 AM
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Trust, if someone created transdatingstrategy they'd have no problem telling females to get out of their space or to not discuss any issues uniquely related to being a female like pregnancy, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 04:29 PM
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Black women love preaching about holding out for Black love that doesn't even exist for themselves (she "knows of" some black women that kind of sort of have doting husbands and somehow that trumps statistics). The statistics don't lie. Marriage isn't going to be a reality if you hold out for Black males. Read Ralph Richard Banks' book "Is Marriage For White People" . Black women need to face reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 05:03 PM
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Wow, I'm speechless!! We're blowing up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 06:20 PM
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Mods, get ready for the onslaught on male LARPers trying to bring the violent and homicidal shit they love to talk about here in a "female" voice to get us banned... lol, suddenly every new poster is going to have comments about mass shootings and how "MeN sHoULd Die!1"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 10:54 PM
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FDS requires men to show value in tangible ways, so LVM get weeded out very early.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 05:59 AM
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It's so cute how men think we care about their definitions of a HVW or HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 07:41 PM
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Hahaha, so fake. No FDS woman is laying out any rules for you. We stealthily vet you and next you without you having a clue what happened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 01:53 PM
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We're about to hit 50k 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 01:31 PM
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Congratulations!! 💫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 05:33 PM
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The comments in this post are helpful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 01:39 PM
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I thought men's sexual market place value went up with age? Why do so many of these men change their age on dating apps? Young women should be knocking down this stud's door with his real age listed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 08:19 AM
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A picture of who they are banging: fleshlight.jpg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 07:23 PM
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I totally agree. It's so sad that so many women follow pied pipers like Matthew Hussey, Steve Harvey, MindfulAttraction, etc when they clearly don't have women's interest as their priority.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 05:00 PM
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How dare you not give a man who can't even afford to feed himself a chance? Shallow! Gold digger! Also, if you end up pregnant by said guy you are the bane of society and a drain on tax payers for being so irresponsible, where were your standards??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 07:49 PM
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Do not try to train an LVM. Some of these tips work as small tests to establish a man's disposition. Essentially, for me it's mainly about spotting opprtunities for him to demonstrate his true nature, and hanging back to see what he does. The point of showing your standards is to demonstrate your worth, not to teach him how to be your man. High value post. 👑 Subtlety is absolutely the most effective way to interact with men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 12:31 PM
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Thank you for posting this, this needs to be addressed more on here. FDS is supposed to be stealth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 10:14 PM
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How To Talk To Anyone by Leil Lowndes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 02:03 PM
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Totally co-signing this with just as much enthusiasm. This book is life life-changing. The newest version on the book is called Not Your Mother's Rules and is a must have because it addresses texting and social media, but I always suggest getting All The Rules too (which is the first 2 original Rules books from the 90s encapsulated in 1 book). I love how ruthless and straight forward the authors are. It's a must have for all women who follow FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 06:25 AM
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Thank you, sis! It is upsetting, but you should definitely watch it so you know what is going on, since the PUA industry is desperately trying to rebrand itself right now (don't be fooled, it's the same exact tactics). This documentary actually caused some popular PUA/dating coach channels on YT to either scrub their content, disappear, or get removed. One of the men featured in the doc is in jail now for 2 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 11:36 AM
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Thanks, sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 09:00 AM
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"there are so many guys I can replace you so easily that it's totally unnecessary." Hahaha, this is why men are now so hyperfocused on the new manosphere buzzwords "hypergamy" and "validation". Fewer women have to settle for LVM and their mind games and they can't handle it. Seize the day, ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 08:27 AM
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There are even more disturbing things in that book. Mind you this book has been the men's dating bible since 2005 and is completely normalized amongst them. I can understand why Strauss is trying his best to now distance himself from it all. Anytime someone criticizes FDS please direct them to the many manosphere dating coaches who teach sexual coercion and other abusive methods as commonplace. I made a post about a BBC documentary that covers this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 06:05 AM
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He should've been the one trying to lock down a date with you, not the other way around. You slept with him early and he lost most of his interest, which wasn't much to begin with (men are usually trying to get off apps, not chat for weeks and weeks like penpals). He should've been the one making plans with a minimum of 3 days in advance, not last minute "maybes" to your plans. Lots of mistakes made here, lots of red flags ignored. Stop chasing men. Unmatch and move on and next time, try to not …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 08:03 PM
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I kept reading hoping I'd get to the part where you blocked him and wanted advice on trying out FDS principles on a new and interested man 😪. You need to forget about him and let a guy who actually gives a fuck approach you first (this is why you NEVER approach a man). I highly suggest getting the books All The Rules and Not Your Mother's Rules to give you some good FDS friendly guidelines laid out bluntly about setting boundaries with men in dating. A man should be chasing YOU, not the other wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 09:33 AM
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Men, you can't get pregnant. Sit down when abortion is discussed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 10:33 PM
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Don't chase after any man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 05:08 AM
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I'm surprised no one has mentioned Shallon Lester on YouTube yet, she is FDS friendly. Also this sub's sidebar has excellent FDS book recommendations if you haven't checked it out yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 12:55 AM
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Hell no to mindful attraction. He reminds me why it's bad to trust dating advice from men, they only have their own interests in mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 12:40 AM
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Holy shit, it's another PUA clone. This is another canned neg from the PUA/seduction community. The Mystery Method to be exact. It's amazing how lazy and unoriginal LVM are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 08:11 AM
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No women swiped right before this, which is why he is so angry and scorched earth now, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 06:56 AM
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There is a whole subset of men (PUA/red pill/"alpha" dating coaches) who try to find ways to lie to women about their value. Look up "demonstrate high value" or DHV on YouTube when you have the time. LVM are being taught to say anything to manipulate us. This is why a man's words mean nothing unless he backs them up in a tangible way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 03:40 AM
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Men do this to trigger a maternal response in women, "I need to help him!" "I can lift him up!" Don't fall for the save-me-mommy bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 08:43 PM
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Give them a vague answer so they can't just mirror whatever you say, then throw the question back to them. This is usually when a LVM reveals himself on OLD early on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 08:06 PM
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"Just show up and look pretty" works out so well for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 06:16 AM
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I loooove The Rules!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 12:51 AM
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Block him now. Don't wait.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 06:20 PM
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I love this. Do not believe the trope ugly dudes push that good looking men are inherently assholes and that they are inherently good. It's just a poor attempt to eliminate sexual competition.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 10:42 PM
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Enjoy our rise, ladies! 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 08:54 AM
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Yea, I absolutely love the series overall but I've always hated Carrie. Watching the Carrie/Big dynamic from an FDS perspective is infuriating. How she treated Aidan, a genuine HVM (well, in the series he was), was awful. How she treated her friends was pretty bad at times too (your friend is a brand new and overwhelmed mother and you go over her place to gossip about your dumb love life.) There are a handful of times in the series where Miranda gives it to her and it's great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 08:00 AM
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Definitely a red piller. "I'm the guy your mother warned you about" is literally a word-for-word copy from The Mystery Method. They think this baffoonish, over-the-top caricature of an "Alpha male" is attractive to women. No sane man would fix his fingers to type that laughable shit without being another indoctrinated red pill clone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 10:30 PM
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Males have such a hard time understanding a woman's right to be autonomous in dating. "Oh, you reject me but not him?" Yea, dumbass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 11:39 PM
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The "red pill" is all about faking high value to women. They are not HV at all, which is why FDS requires the men in our lives to show value in tangible ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 06:02 PM
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I was binge watching videos of the ladies who wrote the book The Rules and their ruthlessness reminded me of this sub. I 100% support this approach, I'm so tired of seeing women get shitty relationship advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 09:43 PM
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Not to mention how quickly they drop their "she was with me when I had nothing" woman for women who wouldn't piss on them if they were on fire back when they were broke. That is why I laugh when the red pill crybabies whine about women being hypergamous. They are pissed the average woman has more options than they do, but also observe how the few men who gain more access to women (usually via fame/status) react.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 04:02 PM
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So happy for you, sis 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 05:50 AM
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Absolutely. Men have always been jealous of the fact that we have a much more important role in creation than they do. It is our choice. Choose wisely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 03:20 AM
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I disagree. Ask yourself, why did Prince Harry choose to propose to Meghan Markle? He is a HVM who has had access to lots of other beautiful HV women his whole life. There was strategy there on her part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 02:16 AM
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Bingo. It's a stock photo. For a group that claims they have women figured out they sure love wasting their time doing "experiments". They do this A LOT on OLD, make sure to do reverse image searches.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 05:14 PM
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Why even entertain low value males? That is the antithesis of this sub. They get off on that. Wrestling with pigs and getting dirty, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 05:52 PM
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This is the most cringeworthy thing I've ever read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 06:06 AM
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Co-sign Shallon Lester. I don't trust male dating coaches one bit. I just watched a video by one in my YouTube recommendations fly off the handle because SheraSeven1 advocates men pay for dates. He went on to say men should go for sex on the first date (which should be a coffee meet-n-greet, not a real date). He was far more triggered by the idea of a man being "used" for a measly meal than a woman being used for sex (you know, an act that actually has real life consequences). Men are far too se…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 10:32 PM
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They don't even live up to their own standards. How many of these men are actually real providers? There is a reason men get insanely triggered by a system that now allows women to earn just as much or more than they do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 03:02 AM
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Why can't these LVM who are so triggered by this sub ever provide direct examples or screenshots of how horrible this sub is? Anyone else notice this? Someone even doctored a fake screenshot a few weeks back. If it's so awful, why not showcase the actual content that is worthy of quarantining? They always just throw out some baseless claim because they don't want to admit they're triggered by something as basic as paying for a date, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 02:37 AM
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And "nun (a.k.a monk) mode". Women don't use that loser mgtow terminology. Fake, fake, fake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 01:32 AM
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Fake af. Good looking men are not on Reddit secretly reading hours of pickup artist material with the dweebs on TRP. It's part of this dream TRP has that they can become good looking alpha males that women can't resist via the gym, ~seduction~ books and a haircut. Losers. Great fanfic though, I bet in his fantasy she wears a pussyhat and Warren 2020 shirt while fucking him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 10:13 PM
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I love their fantasy that good looking, high value men never pay for dates. They are projecting what they'd do if they actually had options. The truth of the matter is HVM aren't walking around with a chip on their shoulder about the pretty girls who ignored or rejected them in the 4th grade. Haha, they want HVM to be bitter like they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 08:00 PM
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This is a PUA/red pill technique called a freeze-out. He manipulated you and it worked. You may not have reached out to him first, but you went out on a date with him (why??) after he played you like a fool (3 weeks??). You eventually rewarded him for his shitty behavior. Yes, he will do it again because he knows it will work on you. You are dealing with a low value male, stop wasting your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 08:14 AM
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Right. The opinions of no value males are irrelevant. They are literally useless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/19 07:16 PM
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Yes! Agreeable, tactful, and always polite in interactions while subtly having control. I was hoping someone would make a post about this, thank you. I was laughing when one of those male LARPers made up a story about his "girlfriend" coming to him and demanding he now has to pay for everything after she read this sub because that is so NOT on FDS code. We know using subtlety when interacting with men is much, much more effective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 03:13 PM
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Men don't love or value you more for dating down. Get it through your heads, ladies. They RESENT you for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 09:53 PM
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Yikes, just saw his pics. Definitely a 3.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 08:35 PM
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Its impossible to be a balding fatass and an 8 on the looks scale. Why are men so delusional about their looks?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 07:40 PM
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Needs to be this sub's official motto. So many ladies would save a lot of time and energy if they'd realize this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 05:27 PM
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Of course a guy with his hairline pushed back farther than Brexit feels he has room to criticize women's hair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 05:58 PM
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So happy for you. You ARE the prize, remember that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 04:36 PM
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So he's mad his female "friend" has better standards now and is no longer being played by men? Did I read this correctly? (If this story is even real [this sub is new af] sounds like another low value male writing fanfic because he is so triggered by the existence of a sub advising women to have some standards.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 03:52 PM
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School of Affluence is a great level up channel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 01:31 AM
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Awesome post!!! I'll add these books: How To Spot a Dangerous Man Before You Get Involved by M.A. Sandra L. Brown Why Men Marry Bitches by Sherry Argov The Power of the Pussy by Kara King All very FDS friendly ✔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 01:25 AM
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OLD: online dating HVM: high value man LVM: low value man Off the top of my head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 05:47 PM
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The success rate for men cold approaching women is awful, lol. Lurk any PUA forum and you'll see how pathetic it gets. One popular PUA/dating coach said men can expect 1 date out of 100 women they approach, and that most of what they'll get is rejection and fake numbers. They know what she is saying has truth to it but they are still telling her she is wrong. (I disagree with her about Chris Hemsworth approaching though, obviously. He's a HVM, most PUAs aren't.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 08:08 AM
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"The wall" is just another form of trying to take women "down a notch" so both older women and younger women will settle for low value males. Always remember that the only card low value males have is to try to pull you down to their low level (this is the true premise of the red pill and pickup artistry). Don't fall for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 01:52 PM
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Those tactics are everywhere, to the point where the pickup artist community (which is basically all the red pill is) is actually kinda dead now and considered outdated (I think social media and Tinder had a hand in killing the fantasy the PUA industry sells to males). The men still hanging around tend to be the very desperate and unattractive type. It all started with a book called "The Game" by Neil Strauss. Most "game" is based off "The Mystery Method". It is where negging, push/pull, etc all…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 09:17 PM
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This is why males are freaking out over FDS. The strategies discussed here weed out the low value males very quickly. Never lower your standards, ladies. This is the type of male you might encounter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 06:55 PM
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Yes, queen! 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 06:33 PM
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This book and "Why Men Love Bitches" are on my reading list. FDS must haves🔥.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 04:59 PM
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I have yet to see an attractive man "going his own way." It's always low value males who were really sent their own way due to having zero value on the dating market.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 12:19 PM
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"Men going their own way", low value men that women have no use for whining about women all day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 07:48 PM
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This must be fake. We've been told by the MGTOW and red pill crowd that a 50 year old man whose best quality is "I don't do drugs" is as desirable as a 22 year old woman who is a 9 or 10 on the looks scale. So in reality every woman is dying to get into a relationship with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 06:46 PM
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Hahahaha! He believed those red pill dating coach losers telling him that the man is the prize. Dick is abundant and of low value, buddy. You are not irreplaceable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 09:48 AM
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Girl, NO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 02:23 PM
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Don't waste your time. Low value males are useless and so are their opinions. Focus on levelling up instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 03:47 PM
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Why didn't Reddit have the same energy when subreddits like the very toxic TRP (that advocates barrelling through a woman's possible LMR, "last minute resistance" to sex) thrived for several years? I don't see anything near as disturbing as that here. Spare me the outrage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 03:49 AM
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Excellent breakdown of what real FDS would be in his made up scenario.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 03:12 AM
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I have yet to see a post on here where a woman says she can't get access to any man. Dick is abundant and of low value. We don't have to study for years and years how to even approach the opposite sex like males do (haha) because women never really have to approach. This is about dating strategies and weeding out low value males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 01:00 PM
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So much truth. They despise women who lower their standards and procreate with deadbeats but hate when women set standards and refuse to settle. We are supposed to believe a man who won't invest in you early beyond sweet talk and promises will magically step to the plate with marriage and financial stability once an offspring is involved I guess. Ha! Do. Not. Settle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 06:42 AM
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I am still sipping the delicious tears of so-called red pilled men from when that Jeremy Meeks mugshot went viral. Some of them ended up getting a red suppository when they realized their years of studying "game"/pickup artistry can never compete with actual good looking men and it was hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 01:31 PM
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Can we please get into how much of a joke TRP is? The one and only thing amusing about the incels was how they called out how silly TRP is for selling a bunch of low value men the fantasy that going to the gym, reading "The Game", and getting a haircut can make a man ALPHA. They are extremely delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 08:12 AM
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I JUST discovered this subreddit too and I already love it. I've been looking for a forum like this for like-minded women forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 12:54 PM
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