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Maybe that type isn't dependent on one's income or education. ​ I would say it has more to do with how an individual views relationships. Some people would be okay if their wife / gf innocently flirted with someone. But if it was a problem for their relationship, one type of person would change their behavior and the other wouldn't.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/21 04:36 AM
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Those type of women (and men) exist and will always exist. But there are others. Your power comes from the ability to walk away from the wrong people and fill your life with the people who work for you
/r/ExRedPill07/01/21 04:18 AM
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That when I was “beta” I actually had a gf for over a year and by trying to be “alpha” I wound up single
/r/ExRedPill19/11/20 02:38 AM
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Yeah I think there’s a problem when “good enough to get by” is considered a failure in a man’s eyes. We can have a moderate income, home payment, wife and kids but feel like we’re “not good enough” and plateau. Start seeing the word cold etc. The solution, i think, is to be okay with being “normal” and not think that excessively successful is a requirement to be happy with your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 07:54 AM
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UK maybe but Japan for sure
/r/ExRedPill24/07/20 08:07 PM
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If that’s the kind of girl you want to attract. Sure, be the most alpha.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/19 01:30 PM
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I think your female friend would say something along the lines of “we just milk you for free drinks to get buzzed and then move onto another guy who hopefully has better game (girls want to have fun too). Cause why spend $20+ for a few drinks when someone else will for you” If all the guys she gets to talk to are lame at least she’s getting the free drinks and it’s a win bc she’ll just party with her girlfriends. Guys need to lose the mentality that we’re going out to game and score. Just go out…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/19 03:00 AM
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I think your female friend would say something along the lines of “we just milk you for free drinks to get buzzed and then move onto another guy who hopefully has better game (girls want to have fun too). Cause why spend $20+ for a few drinks when someone else will for you” If all the guys she gets to talk to are lame at least she’s getting the free drinks and it’s a win bc she’ll just party with her girlfriends. Guys need to lose the mentality that we’re going out to game and score. Just go out…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/19 03:00 AM
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Love it. You need to use the red pill as a framework not a mold.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/19 02:52 PM
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Here’s my two cents. Women don’t want to be with an emotionless robot. They also don’t want to date a complacent cry baby. They want an 80-20 balance between the two, favoring the man who handles his shit 80% of the time and opens up emotionally 20% of the time. If something isn’t working with your life you need to work to fix it and avoid projecting your “woe is me” attitude onto your woman. NOBODY. Guy, girl, or your day-one homies is going to be able to support that attitude for a sustained t…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/19 03:16 AM
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Hmm I think it’s wrong to keep your girl from partying that would just communicate insecurity. From what I’ve read it’s best to have an idgaf attitude if you go to the party but if you cheat I’m not staying with you. The mindset of, “any woman would be terrified to fuck up a relationship with me”.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/19 03:46 PM
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If you make getting women your life purpose and you’re not successful in it you’ll easily come to these pessimistic conclusions. If you have goals like fixing yourself or a purpose you’re passionate about, women’s actions have less of an impact on you. Also if you’re “winning” the game and getting girls, these things aren’t important to you. And to win the game you must learn to live for yourself and not focus so much on the lives and actions of other people.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/19 12:38 AM
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OP has definitely internalized TRP
/r/TheRedPill08/04/19 05:19 PM
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I always try to look these resources up because I think they’ll “fix” me by making me happy. But it’s an endless cycle where I read something, try to practice, I don’t feel happy, get sad because it should have made me happy, move to the next article and repeat. It might be hard to answer this but where does that happiness come from? Does it come from not being self-critical? Does it come from letting yourself make mistakes and not make a big deal out of your errors? Or maybe it’s none of those …
/r/TheRedPill07/04/19 08:24 PM
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Yeah and you attract what you are not what you want. If you act like a plate spinner looking for exclusively FWB that’s who you’ll attract into your life. It’s all a matter of what you want to do with TRP information. For me personally I use it to remind me to never put a girl before myself and always keep my priorities in order.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 01:28 AM
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Eat less than you already do and track your macros. To drop fat eat less fat and carbs. Replace calories with more protein. The lower you an go in fat the better but it’s also harder. Shoot for something like 35% carb 20% fat 45% protein For me I do 200g carbs 60g fat 200g protein. You can track it easily with an app called MyFitnessPro. People think hard work in the gym can replace a bad diet when instead hard work compliments a good diet. That’s how you get results.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 05:43 PM
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I would try more communication. Not just logistics but send something funny / interesting every other day. They don’t want to be used for just sex.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 03:39 PM
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What works best for me is just not being a dick to myself. Give yourself credit for doing things that are hard for you, and reward yourself to help build those brain connection. For me it could be something like, “I don’t want to work” but I decided I’d reward myself for going to work by picking up food for myself. It makes the job easier. Another example, “I’m too anxious to talk to that girl”. I’ll tell myself, “okay if you do it. You can go get a coffee”. Even if fear tries to hold me back an…
/r/askTRP04/04/19 08:42 AM
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It’s a shit-test and here’s how you handle it. D.A.R.E. Deflect, Agree and Amplify, Repeat, Exit This keeps you fun and increases attraction.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 07:38 AM
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Can we ask your age and the age of the girls? Its hard to judge the situation without knowing the demographic.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 07:35 AM
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To what credit has she earned that you want to be “close friends” with her. I’m not a therapist but I assume something is missing in your life that would inspire this desperation. I would know from first hand experience. She’s a stranger!
/r/askTRP04/04/19 07:34 AM
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To add to closing. Push pull and look for your IOIs. If you push and she doesn’t respond. Back off for 20-30 minutes. Try again. If she doesn’t go for it. Give it another 30-40. Repeat until close or until time to call it. This keeps you from acting pussy deprived and desperate. Plus it takes the pressure off you for “needing to close”. Instead it will let you have a good time.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 07:23 AM
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You’re living in your head Inaction and overthinking is not going to get you anywhere. Send it and you’ll get a yes or no.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 03:28 PM
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I guess it’s kinda clear what happened. I’m not judging or attacking you the same thing happened to me. Both of us got complacent and quit feeling motivated to excel in life and our passions. We ended up being a deadweight for her and she found her way out the door. The remedy is to just focus whatever energy you can back into what you find important in life. It’s gonna be hard and you’ll want to keep thinking about her. And that’s just how these things go. Give it lots of time. Especially for a…
/r/askTRP02/04/19 06:19 AM
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It’s my understanding shit-tests are all talk since you go by what women do not what they say. If you walked in on that of course it wouldn’t be a shit-test... but things like that don’t happen out of nowhere.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 02:42 AM
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it’s a shit test because the woman is losing her attraction. If she was actually done with her bf she’d just hook up with this guy. She’s shit-testing and if he fails then she will monkey branch and Reddit will claim AWALT and call her a hoe and a hypergamist. My response was how to approach if he wants to save the LTR.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 12:48 AM
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I think she just wants attention from him. It’s a bit of excitement to talk to someone she knows she shouldn’t be talking to. REMEMBER: listen to a woman’s actions not their words. If you were in the other guys position then these are all just words and no action on her part! She’s just using him for attention. Stringing him along like a beta orbiter. If you want to keep things going: up your dread game. make her feel heard and respected. be exciting sexually surprise her with a date maintain al…
/r/askTRP01/04/19 09:33 PM
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Come on guys it’s nothing more than a post from a pro-feminist author. The publisher is there to make money and this is something that will get clicks. Don’t worry too much about it and get back to your own lives. TRP isn’t here to make you hate and judge women. It’s here to put the power and attention you give to them back into yourself!
/r/TheRedPill01/04/19 09:25 PM
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Just don’t get angry about it 😉
/r/TheRedPill29/03/19 04:49 AM
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This is the 4th dimension of game that you experience after you really swallow and internalize TRP. It’s too dangerous to try and accept this message without getting the rest of TRP under your belt. If you rush this ideology you’ll just go back to being beta. Women aren’t evil they’re just misunderstood. It’s your choice to try to understand them if you want.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/19 11:43 PM
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All work and no play makes jack a dull boy
/r/TheRedPill22/03/19 02:44 AM
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Too dark for me Give this to black pill
/r/TheRedPill21/03/19 07:26 PM
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Take it one day at a time. If you’ve been blue pulled your whole life you can’t beat yourself up for not changing with immediate results. Being Alpha is a gradient and you’re just starting your journey. Be nice to yourself and reap the rewards in due time.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 05:22 AM
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Next for sure. Good on you
/r/askTRP16/03/19 12:21 PM
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Soft next was good idea bc as TRP says you go off what women DO not what they SAY. If they say they want sex but don’t follow through. You have to take it as if she hadn’t even said that. Maybe she’s using you for attention? Since you said you’re acting like an orbiter. Or maybe she doesn’t feel safe enough with you. And by asking your N she can rationalize her answer. Either: “am I another body out of 20+” =NO “am I one of 2 and why is it? ‘Something feels off’” = NO However in the past, when p…
/r/askTRP16/03/19 03:32 AM
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I would say if you’re under 25 just go next and look for plates. And I would say if you’re over 25 next her as well because she sounds unable to run her own life without her parents deciding for her. However If this is normal for your culture then I would not expect it to be a test.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 02:59 AM
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Short sweet and to the point. I’m doing this on the next girl I see
/r/askTRP15/03/19 04:14 AM
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Yeah you’re 100% right. I got over it not too long after. I do seem to have a hard time NOT being a stick in the mud tho. Gonna talk with therapist on that. Thanks for the reply
/r/askTRP15/03/19 04:01 AM
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Good call I’ll have to keep working on confidence until that’s my natural reaction.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 01:16 AM
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Guess I’m surprised because I don’t have experience in it. Thanks for the different perspective
/r/askTRP15/03/19 01:15 AM
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I must not have communicated my thoughts well.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 12:40 AM
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It has to do withTRP cause I’m asking if I was being alpha for walking away or if that was the wrong move. I’m also seeing if it was a beta move for my friends to put us out for these girls
/r/askTRP15/03/19 12:34 AM
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Explain. I’ll delete if I missed something
/r/askTRP15/03/19 12:03 AM
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This is how people breakup and get back together. She took him for granted and realized she fucked it up. Was punished and decided to learn from her mistakes. Or she doesn’t care and she’s not going to change and in that case you dodged a bullet.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 05:28 PM
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I think this is a great reply if this situation was coming from a plate.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 05:26 PM
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Maybe she feels like she’s not able to open up emotionally to you. You have to be a rock in her life that allows her to feel like she can open up and be protected both physically and emotionally.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 05:09 PM
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Great advice. Back from the party and it was a great time. I will be thinking this all day tomorrow. Thank you!
/r/askTRP13/03/19 07:44 AM
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I love this. Thank you
/r/askTRP12/03/19 11:56 PM
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Alright, tonight I’ll rebound
/r/askTRP12/03/19 10:00 PM
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I think being in this new environment is tough for me. Thanks for the ideas
/r/askTRP12/03/19 09:59 PM
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Thanks for the idea. Been going to the gym for about a month or so. I’ll give it a go
/r/askTRP12/03/19 09:50 PM
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She was your first real experience and you didn’t know any better. Just try and learn from it and focus all your energy back to yourself. Eventually you’ll be able to forgive yourself for not knowing any better. You did the best you knew how to and that’s nothing to be upset about.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 05:52 PM
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You can always try and turn her back into a plate if that’s something you want. Otherwise just ignore.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 05:47 PM
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Tingles
/r/askTRP10/03/19 05:33 PM
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Faith in the potential of good women restored
/r/askTRP05/03/19 02:06 AM
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Maybe I should clarify. I think she only matters to me because of a scarcity mindset.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 11:06 PM
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Bring in some results! Good luck!
/r/askTRP02/03/19 11:03 PM
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What’s it matter? Go to the gym and surprise yourself! Let the results speak for themselves.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 10:36 PM
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My opinion is that you need to vet more and regularly gauge her attraction for you. If she’s shit testing you and you’re failing the shit tests, this might happen. But if you pass her shit tests she’s going to want to keep you around. I learned that from “The 3% Man” by Corey Wayne
/r/askTRP02/03/19 10:32 PM
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Well you answered your own problem. “If it scares you then do it”. Option 1: you don’t ask and she walks and you don’t see her again Option 2: you ask and she says no and you never see her again but you feel accomplished and you give yourself credit for even trying Option 3: you ask and she says yes and you go out with her I read a book from a woman’s point of view and one thing she preaches is that it is the biggest shame women are not approached by genuine guys. Instead they only get approache…
/r/askTRP02/03/19 10:25 PM
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To me I don’t think you need to be so formulaic. It’s not about “oh I waited 2 weeks I can message her now” it’s more about “she’s not showing lots of interest in me I will spend my time on someone who DOES show interest in me” After time she can reach out to you if she wants and if not then it’s always her loss. A girl who likes you will always meet you at least half way.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 10:11 PM
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I think just getting yourself out there and keep practicing. No one is born with these skills maybe they’re taught them as a kid, maybe they learn them in their 20s. Worst case and most common, men never learn at all. You’ll figure it out if you keep pushing forward and keep taking baby steps.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 10:08 PM
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I think you can show your weakness to a woman as long as you've shit-tested them and qualified them to be authentic girls that you want to have in your life. ​ You can't make a habit of it and if something is plaguing you, you ought to see a therapist (not use your SO as some emotional crutch).
/r/askTRP01/03/19 08:37 AM
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