smashmouthkitten Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Why do women adamantly refuse to admit that the way they talk about penis size affects how men view themselves? I think men and women are just different in their cruelty. According to data men tend to be more violent and sexually aggressive whereas women tend to be more deceptive. I also want to mention that the content you consume on social media is likely skewing your views of men and women in general. For example, I am part of a Christian wives and moms Facebook group and based on what I see on those posts, most men turn into abusive, cheating narcissists after marriage. I’m sure the same thing happens…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/25 03:00 PM
11	I've recently been having a lot of anxiety around RP. I also know what youtuber you are referring to and I actually like her content because I think there are a lot of women out there that need a reality check and there’s a lot of men who are truly suffering with no voice and nowhere to turn for encouragement. HOWEVER, I take everything she says with a grain of salt. The majority of her audience is men so she plays into that a lot and makes videos that cater to her audience. I am happily married to an amazing man and I have a daughter from a previo…	/r/RedPillWomen	08/10/22 04:06 PM
-2	q4w: Why does it appear that Western women dont want to start families? Do they prefer just to be on the cc indefinitely? It’s interesting that you say that because in the U.S. at least, the most unhappy demographic are women over the age of 45 who are single and childless. Maybe they think they will be content with the arrangement but then hit the wall and are faced with reality. Idk.	/r/AllPillDebate	02/10/22 03:01 PM
35	Women don’t want to be women anymore I know this wasn’t meant for me, but I really needed to hear this today. Thank you!	/r/RedPillWomen	02/10/22 02:28 PM
19	Feeling like I’m giving everything but not receiving much in return. Help! I agree with what everything that’s been said in previous comments but I would like to add a couple things: You are setting unrealistic expectations for your man because if you are doing all of these tasks but secretly feeling resentful and exhausted, that means that you’re not doing them out of a genuine desire to serve and you will give up and stop doing them because you don’t feel like it’s reciprocated OR you’re going to keep doing it and then start punishing him emotionally and probably ver…	/r/RedPillWomen	30/07/22 05:17 PM
6	Black femininity/traditional channels? I was about to say Feminine Fancy before I read the description. Unfortunately, that’s the only one I know about. You should start your own!	/r/RedPillWomen	26/07/22 11:39 AM
18	My husband doesn’t earn enough to support the family I desperately want. I basically agree with everything Anonymous_fiend said. We were on food stamps the first year of our relationship. It’s honestly pretty easy to get them where I live. My fiancee was working a factory job when we go together and I was actually making more. I could see that making less money and being in a dark factory for 70 hours a week was bothering him. It took almost two years but after some gentle pushing I convinced him that he was capable of more and he took a sales position. He is now the…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/07/22 04:44 AM
10	How to get more confidence and get less insecure about my body and feel more confident in the bedroom. Advice? I second this. Sometimes insecurity is rooted in reality and sometimes it is unfounded. However, confidence knows no weight or body type. Someone gave me this advice a few years ago and it actually helped: “imagine the woman you want to be and start acting like her”	/r/RedPillWomen	12/07/22 04:15 AM
8	Is it wrong if I unmatch a man for taking 4 days to reply I think it depends on the kind of man you’re looking for. To me, what you’re describing would be red flags and an indication to move on from him and focus on the other guys	/r/RedPillWomen	11/07/22 02:24 PM
1	Traditional blue pill advice works for attractive people and most women, Redpill advice works for average and above average men, NOTHING works for men below average Passage of time alone certainly will not. Let’s be honest most men are invisible to women but there are things men can do to increase their value over time and give them a better chance in the dating scene. It would take hard work for some men to achieve success/fitness and even when they do it’s still not a guarantee but I still think it’s better advice than just giving up altogether.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 08:44 PM
1	Traditional blue pill advice works for attractive people and most women, Redpill advice works for average and above average men, NOTHING works for men below average It means evaluate her to ensure she is going to be loyal and cooperative. Introduce her to your family and friends and listen to their opinions about her. Watch out for toxic behaviors like insisting on going through your phone or posting thirst traps on social media, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 08:41 PM
0	This sub is toxic for women (as well as men) Men are objectively less happy than women…the pendulum has swung way too far in the other direction. Current data shows that suicide rates in men are double that for women. 80% of men are invisible to women. 1 in 3 men 18-24 report not having sex in over a year. Most men are alone with no prospects and you’re here complaining about not being able to find a guy to put up with your bs. Also 75% of divorces are initiated by women which means women are the ones leaving relationships and here you are…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 08:38 PM
1	Traditional blue pill advice works for attractive people and most women, Redpill advice works for average and above average men, NOTHING works for men below average Why is a woman who is attracted to older men considered desperate? I’m not saying that all young women love middle aged men but many women would rather have someone who is financially stable with more life experience and I don’t see why that’s a problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 08:29 PM
0	This sub is toxic for women (as well as men) Well, I’m not a homemaker at the moment but would probably enjoy it quite a lot. Also if a man is paying all the bills then you are certainly not “unpaid”. You sound like someone who is impossible to satisfy. I completely agree that people should not raise children if they don’t have the capacity to support them emotionally and financially. I also believe that modern women are some of the most selfish people to ever exist. They describe men that don’t exist and then get mad when they can’t keep …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 08:26 PM
2	Traditional blue pill advice works for attractive people and most women, Redpill advice works for average and above average men, NOTHING works for men below average You’re talking out of both sides of your mouth here. You’re saying that the OK Cupid data doesn’t represent reality. If that’s true then it means women will date men for reasons other than physical attractiveness which only proves my point. Women do not value physical attractiveness the same way men do. ALSO men typically value traits in women that are immutable (youth, beauty) while women value traits in men that can be changed. Stop telling men there’s no hope for them!	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 08:12 PM
1	This sub is toxic for women (as well as men) It is so unfortunate that you see children as a burden. Having children for most women is one of the greatest joys they can experience. It has been for me even though I never saw myself getting married or having children. Never thought it would bring me happiness but I was wrong. It seems like you have a terrible attitude towards men and relationships in general. If you keep that attitude then staying single is probably for the best. I am so grateful that I changed my outlook when I did because …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 08:04 PM
2	Traditional blue pill advice works for attractive people and most women, Redpill advice works for average and above average men, NOTHING works for men below average You’re correct in a sense considering that 80% of women date 20% of men. However as a man gets older it is easier for him to increase his value whereas for women it becomes nearly impossible to increase their value in the SM. I just hate that when men come looking for answers they are met with cynicism instead of practical advice. “Suck it up and buy a hooker” is not good advice in my opinion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 07:56 PM
1	This sub is toxic for women (as well as men) The mindset you have is why you will very likely end up alone. Modern women do not value the things that men who desire commitment actually want. Men are told from a very young age “what women want” and how to make them happy. Women today want a man to tick all their boxes while at the same time not understanding what those kind of men actually want in a woman, A man looking for commitment does not typically want a woman who prioritizes adventure and her career, they want a wife and a mother. It…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 07:46 PM
0	Traditional blue pill advice works for attractive people and most women, Redpill advice works for average and above average men, NOTHING works for men below average No way. A man’s SMV increases as he gets older because he typically acquires more resources the older he gets. Also men typically age better than women. A woman’s SMV decreases as she ages because by 30 half her eggs are dead and bearing children becomes more of a challenge. As men get older they actually end up with more dating options, not less.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 07:12 PM
0	Traditional blue pill advice works for attractive people and most women, Redpill advice works for average and above average men, NOTHING works for men below average No way. A man’s SMV increases as he gets older because he typically acquires more resources the older he gets. Also men typically age better than women. A woman’s SMV decreases as she ages because by 30 half her eggs are dead and bearing children becomes more of a challenge. As men get older they actually end up with more dating options, not less.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 07:12 PM
1	This sub is toxic for women (as well as men) But you just said you wanted commitment? Settling down with kids is the ultimate form of commitment. Men care about legacy and building a family. If that’s not something you want then you may find yourself dealing with a lot of fuck boys unfortunately. The kind of men who don’t want to settle down and have kids typically just sleep around indefinitely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 07:00 PM
1	Traditional blue pill advice works for attractive people and most women, Redpill advice works for average and above average men, NOTHING works for men below average That is a very fair point. The courts heavily favor women which is why it is important to vet a woman before you commit to her. Also if the only problem with the guy is that he has an unattractive face I just don’t see that as much of a setback. Just about any man can get in shape and attain resources, a lot of them just aren’t willing to do so. And honestly I can’t blame them because our society treats men like trash.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 06:57 PM
2	Traditional blue pill advice works for attractive people and most women, Redpill advice works for average and above average men, NOTHING works for men below average Marriage is about trade-offs. You cannot deny biology and human nature. It is unlikely that both parties are going to get EXACTLY what they want out of the other person. Compromise is key. Another piece of advice I would give is to date women who have not grown up in a culturally western home.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 06:54 PM
1	This sub is toxic for women (as well as men) Older men look for commitment more than younger men in my experience. So go to places where there are more older men. Also stop going for the best-looking guys. Those guys can get any woman they want and will therefore exercise those options. There are some great average looking guys with good personalities and ambition that would probably commit to you. It seems like you are choosing men with bad character.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 06:50 PM
1	Traditional blue pill advice works for attractive people and most women, Redpill advice works for average and above average men, NOTHING works for men below average I’m sure those things come into play with divorce, which makes sense since 75% of divorces in the U.S. are initiated by women. I’m not saying it’s easy to keep a modern woman happy because it’s not. Another thing I usually recommend to single men is to go for foreign women who didn’t grow up in the west. I just don’t think it’s helpful to tell people that there’s no hope so just give up on dating and stay alone. If someone really wants a committed and long lasting relationship it’s possible but …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 06:45 PM
1	Traditional blue pill advice works for attractive people and most women, Redpill advice works for average and above average men, NOTHING works for men below average Most men are initially attracted to women based solely on physical appearance. From there they can learn to love other things about her, but it starts with physical attraction. It works the same way for women. Many modern-day women are initially attracted to men with status and then can learn to love the rest of them from there. If there are 4 guys at a bar and 3 of them are extremely physically attractive, but broke and 1 is below average looking but has money and confidence, that’s the guy mos…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 04:28 PM
2	What are ways to affirm a man’s “masculinity” that aren’t tied to “dominating” or “subjugation”? I think people conflate cooperation/submission with subjugation. Modern women have a hard time cooperating with men because they have been told that they are equal to or better than men in every way. There is nothing wrong with submitting to a man you love. In fact, for me, it is one of the main ways for me to exercise my femininity and my commitment to him. If you have a feminist mindset then acts of submission will feel like slavery to you and you will be bitter in a relationship with any masc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 06:28 AM
2	What makes a man "hookup material" versus "Boyfriend/Husband material"? For me: Hookup material: in the past, anyone moderately attractive who is pursuing me in moments of desperation/insecurity. Also I would rather hook up with women for casual sex because as a woman I don’t tend to get attached to them. Boyfriend/husband material: men who are honest, ambitious, respectful, funny, and strong	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 06:20 AM
1	Did I inadvertently blue pill this situation? This one really hit close to home for me. I am currently engaged to a younger man (he’s 24 and i’m 29). When we first started dating I was making a lot more money and it was really hard on the relationship because on a subconscious level it was hard to respect him when I was acting as the financial provider. He had some insecurities due to situations from his childhood and didn’t believe in himself. I did everything I could to encourage him (gently) to level up and pursue a better career. He now…	/r/RedPillWomen	10/07/22 05:45 AM
7	Traditional blue pill advice works for attractive people and most women, Redpill advice works for average and above average men, NOTHING works for men below average So you’re advice is: Buy hookers and die alone without a family…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 05:26 AM
3	What makes a man "hookup material" versus "Boyfriend/Husband material"? It varies from person to person. in my experience modern women tend to date bad boys in their twenties and then after they find out those men don’t want to commit they go back to the less attractive guys that they once rejected. Source: am a woman	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 03:26 AM
1	Traditional blue pill advice works for attractive people and most women, Redpill advice works for average and above average men, NOTHING works for men below average I completely disagree. Unattractive men who are willing to work hard and make a lot of money can pull women. You may have to wait until you’re in your 40s but it will be worth it if you put in the work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 03:20 AM
1	This sub is toxic for women (as well as men) You sound completely delusional. I used to be just like you. I looked at men in the same light and it cost me many wasted years. The fear of getting hurt is understandable but the mindset that all men are out to “play you” is insane. There are absolutely men like that but those are not the men you want to commit to long term. There are some great men out there but with your horrible attitude it is unlikely that you will ever find them or that they will want to commit to you. Looking back, any ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 03:12 AM