smilesjay1234 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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6	Are pretty girls not allowed to be funny? Men aren't looking for someone to make them laugh. That is what other guys are for. So if you are unattractive and not funny, you go in the ignore pile. But if you are unattractive and funny, you go in the guy pile. which at least gets attention and is a most likely a perceived benefit. If you are attractive and funny you go in the girl pile (with a slight risk of being seen as a little guy like). If you are attractive and not funny, you still go in the girl pile. No benefit, slight risk to bein…	/r/RedPillWomen	13/11/18 12:44 PM
1	When to divorce? Do not have sex with her again, do not move out of the residence and do get a divorce while you can still do it without losing everything.	/r/TheRedPill	30/06/18 11:22 AM
1	Should men and women who are friends be alone together? Do they have problems with their SOs hanging out with opposite sex friends? Would either of them have an issue with the SOs hanging out together while they hang out together? Sometimes, things like that can give an interesting window into their thoughts and intentions. If trust is one sided, that is an issue.	/r/RedPillWomen	17/05/18 01:02 PM
2	I think I'm an alpha widow and now I don't have interest in dating other guys anymore > I met him online, he's miles away, but we never met in real life It sounds like you fell for the idea of him, not him, because you really have no idea who he is. The best way to move on is to move on. Be busy. Do things. Meet people. Actually meet them. If you have people in your life and have an active life, you don;t have time to dwell on things like this.	/r/RedPillWomen	08/05/18 09:48 AM
3	Divorce honeymoon - does it have to end? I think it depends on the situation. I was in a long-term verbally/emotionally abusive marriage with a bpd. Been separated/no-contact for almost 2 years. Papers signed. Should be final after judge review this month. It has been nothing but liberating. There was stress about how it would proceed but the relief has not subsided.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/01/18 10:46 AM
3	Attorney's Fees I guess I was lucky. 25 years of marriage. 1600 in attorney fees and she pays her own fees. I did not follow his advice on things I thought would make the divorce more contentious. Adult kids so that was not an issue. Basically i used him to file paperwork and an hour settlement meeting.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/01/18 03:38 AM
9	Rejecting men politely I really wish more people did this. I think it really leads to so much less wasted time, effort and uncertainty. I also believe it is actually kinder than what people usually do attempting to be kind.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/11/17 01:16 AM
1	Share your motivations! Dude here. I read here because I find it interesting and insightful into a rather rare form of thinking about men and relationships by women. I'm older so I see a lot of Truth and benefit to TRP beyond just maximizing notches on a headboard. Wish I had discovered it 25 years ago. I will rarely comment although I did last night because I have seen that situation play out with similar fit women before.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/11/17 12:38 PM
3	Do I need to give up my male-dominant hobbies to get commitment? For me, no. But I think having orbiters tends to attract more orbiters. And orbiters want sex. And you probably don't see them as orbiters but having one close guy friend is one thing but if you have 10...you have orbiters. And to a guy looking to date, at least for me, I am not playing that game.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/11/17 03:38 AM
1	Do I need to give up my male-dominant hobbies to get commitment? You don't have to avoid them completely. I took being friends as hanging out with them, which i would not advise if you are looking for a relationship. Talking to them at the box or class is not a big deal. What you want to avoid is hanging out with those guys. That attracts guys looking for sex and repels guys looking to date.	/r/RedPillWomen	11/11/17 11:17 PM
11	I am looking for a Sugar Daddy that can provide me with a luxurious life OR I am looking for a 50 shades of gray husband that can provide me with a luxurious life. Dolce Vita life. Enjoying being on top of the world and feeling like a million bucks. Are you the one? That's a man, baby.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	11/11/17 11:09 PM
6	Do I need to give up my male-dominant hobbies to get commitment? I would agree with this. Completely. Unless you are wanting to date these guys, they are going to be a hindrance.	/r/RedPillWomen	11/11/17 10:30 PM
1	My ex had serious BPD- aka my case is so special Most people don't know it but the movie Fatal Attraction...very much BDP. Same with Mommie Dearest also. There is a reason one of the best books about BDP is I Hate You - Don't Leave Me.	/r/TheRedPill	07/11/17 11:38 PM
4	My ex had serious BPD- aka my case is so special Idealization phase...they will treat you like a King. If you do not have the knowledge of something like trp or what BDP is, it can be addictive and you may think you have her whipped and in control. If there isn't that part of it to her, it's not really BDP. She's probably just a bitch.	/r/TheRedPill	07/11/17 11:04 AM
14	My ex had serious BPD- aka my case is so special My advice from a life hard lived...put your dick in all the crazy you want but if you come across a true BDP and recognize it...Run. Away. Fast. AWALT but not all are truly, clinically BDP. Think of it this way...all women are emotionally driven but only some will cut off your dick while you are sleeping when they get pissed.	/r/TheRedPill	06/11/17 11:06 PM