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If you fucked up and you honestly feel like you did, you can apologize. You apologize one time and make sure its sincere. This isnt you fucking up big time, you tried to make a joke and it didn't land. What you do is break her frame, if shes pissed and you can get her to laugh do that. You can treat her like a little child as well. Anything to unbalance her, its verbal martial arts. Emotion is emotion, happy, sad, angry, horny are all the same thing. You can slide between these states.
/r/askTRP09/11/19 03:02 AM
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Props to you for taking a shot, but in no way do this. Ultimately you put an offer out to her for a pseudo date and she turned you down.
/r/askTRP09/11/19 02:33 AM
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Not OP but aren't you an EC? I could swear you're an EC
/r/askTRP09/11/19 02:11 AM
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You're essentially challenging this girl to a fight. Dont do that. You shouldnt be having this conversation with people anyways unless you know they're like minded. First rule about fight club
/r/askTRP09/11/19 02:09 AM
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That feeling is always fleeting, you'll have it for a while and itll go away. Nobody actually lives like they are dying. It starts with observing others so your idea isnt far off but needs some tweaking. Be present as you're rolling, feel the weight, pay attention to little tells and when you're off balance. Itll bleed into other parts of your life. Have people called you self absorbed before or mentioned that you're a dick?
/r/askTRP08/11/19 04:56 AM
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What do you mean by self absorption
/r/askTRP08/11/19 03:31 AM
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You're looking preppy. Do you wear boat shoes, khaki shorts and sunnies?
/r/askTRP08/11/19 03:09 AM
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You can do what you want, I'm just saying that being smart and knowing you wont get out then passing out isnt gonna make you better. You're still depriving your brain if oxygen even if it's only momentarily. I'd say just work on being relaxed more and if you're new keep in mind you do the best learning against a training partner that is just above you
/r/askTRP08/11/19 03:08 AM
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Try and get out but you should know your limits. Ig you aren't gonna get out just tap
/r/askTRP08/11/19 02:48 AM
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I most likely have celiac and am just waiting for my biopsy results after a positive blood test. I cant speak for the average person but what I can say is that the only times in my life I've felt really good were when I was gluten free. It's also the only time in my life where I've lost weight despite exercising for hours a day and eating clean. When OP discusses mental health related to diet hes serious. My mental health got really bad really fast and the doc thought I might have a major mental…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/19 05:45 PM
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This is what happened, benefit of the doubt one time then escalated from there to ignoring her. I still want to blame myself for the situation but I know I did the right thing. I also know it's a ploy for attention
/r/askTRP07/11/19 05:33 AM
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Awesome humblebrag post
/r/askTRP07/11/19 02:18 AM
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If this keeps happening in person when does it go from shit test to comfort?
/r/askTRP07/11/19 01:06 AM
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Lots of info out there but ultimately the reccomendation I'd start with is a question. "What dont you like about yourself?"
/r/askTRP07/11/19 12:22 AM
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What's your argument?
/r/askTRP05/11/19 02:49 AM
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No there are tons of mulatto Italian americans. The truth is no one group of people is more racist than another. Everybody's racist and it's normal, so nobody's racist. You can take it to unacceptable levels like we've seen with various genocides. Ultimately it comes down to "this person doesn't look, act and talk like me. He might be bad". Imagine two different tribes having this problem, it's about self preservation at its root
/r/askTRP05/11/19 02:38 AM
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You go for a kiss or anything physically escalating,?
/r/askTRP03/11/19 09:56 PM
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Blowing up a phone is related to their attraction level. Meaning the less attracted the less it takes ti be considered a nuisance Did you ask her out ever?
/r/askTRP03/11/19 09:53 PM
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Your best move and probably only productive move is to leave her be and maybe she will reach out. Keep moving with other options though, maybe she will see you with someone else and that'll spark interest. But dont do it just to get her attention, that shits needy. It sucks but sometimes the only way to win the game is not to play.
/r/askTRP03/11/19 09:45 PM
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Sounds like low interest to me, if that's the case it's probably better to just leave her be
/r/askTRP03/11/19 07:06 PM
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Yeah, use the lessons of the Stoics. Try the journaling and see if it works for you, it's just a time to reflect on the day at situations you could have handled better. Stoicism is all about frame, it's the basis for CBT it just uses different words. The important thing here is dont be afraid to systematically try something new. Also dont leave your journal anywhere someone can find even if it's just written on your phone
/r/askTRP03/11/19 12:31 AM
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Abso fucking lutely, I lived through this. It LITERALLY can change on a dime. The worst part is that women will side with women 99% of the time even if they dislike her. One day I saw my manager lean in, go to put his arm around a coworker just to hear her better but he hover handed and stood straight up. It made me laugh to see it but not long after I learned how quick things can change.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 03:53 AM
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It's a stupid thing to say because now that opens the door for me to say women are useless after 33
/r/askTRP01/11/19 11:10 PM
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Serious question, what had held you back thus far?
/r/askTRP30/10/19 06:50 AM
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No answer is an answer. It wouldn't hurt to wait a week and try to invite her to a night out again. If you get left on read or an excuse with no other option it's best to move on after that point
/r/askTRP29/10/19 12:56 AM
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Is this guy your superior? This is a kind of important question. I have very relevant experience here, I handled my shit wrong though. Being pleasant and not doing anything was a good move. What you should do from this point is have a calm and clear talk with your boss. Let him know XYZ happened but without any attached emotions or thoughts. Ask him what he would do in that situation. Then do nothing to provoke. We dont know if you've been slacking but by the way you describe it you dont believe…
/r/askTRP28/10/19 03:56 AM
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You're gonna pay for all this shit and then what if you dont like the results? A better idea is to take that money and invest it into things you want to experience. If I had that cash laying around I'd be going to watch my favourite sports teams, leaning how to fly, skydiving, motorcycle racing and travelling. Looks matter to an extent but it's more about do you take care of yourself. If you're a guy with stories and experiences you'd be way better off in the long run
/r/askTRP27/10/19 02:14 AM
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Creatine is the most studied supplement out there and what it does in layman's terms is that it gives the muscle more energy. I can explain more if you'd like. The practical result would be a rep or two more or more ability to grind out reps. BCAAs are where I find the best recovery. Different products contain different ratios of 3 specific amino acids which aid in recovery post workout. The practical thing is that you feel less sore the next day. Ultimately you dont need supplements, a good die…
/r/askTRP26/10/19 12:59 PM
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Man, I really think it's in your best interest to be with family and listen to what they want for you. Being with my family and going through everything the doc wanted me to actually did help me. What did the psychiatrist diagnose you having?
/r/askTRP26/10/19 09:01 AM
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Did you hear the sounds and voices less? Or maybe not as loud?
/r/askTRP26/10/19 08:51 AM
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Either one person pulls the other one into their frame or they have to walk away
/r/askTRP26/10/19 08:24 AM
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Aside from that do you feel better at all? Also why dont you want to go to the ward?
/r/askTRP26/10/19 08:19 AM
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I get it's a tough decision to make. But if the medication doesn't make you feel good maybe you can try a different one. I had to try a few different ones but I'm on a good one now
/r/askTRP26/10/19 07:29 AM
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If you have proof, call the cops. Sit tight until you get the video. I wouldn't call insurance yet because it would count as a claim, whereas if there is proof she did it then she will be liable. Is there any chance you pissed someone else off? Maybe parked over a line or in someones spot?
/r/askTRP26/10/19 02:49 AM
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Intimidating in this context is a good thing, it's like being star struck. Imagine the most beta crush you've ever had on a woman from your past and how flip it to these girls having those same feelings towards you. It's not that you're intimidating it's that these girls FEEL intimidated by you. They're pedistalizing you. You might notice them, being a bit shaky and jittery around you, stumbling words or even while walking. They may have a sense of awe when they see you or hear you say something…
/r/askTRP26/10/19 02:17 AM
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Shes with someone, so let her be with someone. If you have the chance to do something it's up to you what you do. Virtuous men have power and dont use it unless they need to. I'm even more against you going for this now because you're sucked into the drama of this whole thing. Hes trying to one up you saying he stole her and you're trying to one up him by saying she doesn't mean shit. Its not wrong to feel this way, its normal. But right now you're looking at walking down a path that you dont ne…
/r/askTRP22/10/19 06:30 PM
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You can do what you want but it's still a dick move. But yes, emotion is emotion. You're living rent free in her head right now
/r/askTRP22/10/19 05:47 PM
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The wall is a term used in running, it means that they have a sudden drop in performance where it looks like the person hits an invisible wall and it causes some people to collapse. Take that application and apply it to a womans looks as she ages. Everything is wonderfull just running along then BOOM! The wall hits. Looks decline and suddenly you dont get as much male attention and this makes you resentful. It's because women's value in terms of looks peaks at a young age, their value of being a…
/r/askTRP22/10/19 05:37 AM
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Probably what you just said, shes trying to show him off either because shes just excited or because shes trying to rub it in or make you jealous. Another possibility could be shes happy to see you and is showing shes off the market
/r/askTRP20/10/19 10:29 PM
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I've always had these feelings but I've never been able to understand them. She isnt a ride or die and I think that's what we truly desire. There are no ride or dies, and that's a shame. I do have to admit I've been a part of your story time and time again. It really hit home
/r/TheRedPill20/10/19 04:50 AM
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