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Ugh this was my ex-bf. He was a grown ass man yet his parents cooked all his meals, washed all his clothes, didn’t give him any chores to do, etc. It never, ever occurred to him to help maintain the house he himself was living in. One time his dad mentioned to me that one time my ex came home from a trip, dumped his washing on the floor and went up to bed. I was appalled when he told me that. The entitlement was just stunning, as was his parents’ enablement of that sense of entitlement. I dipped…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 06:16 PM
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Carrie is the WORST. She whines about everything, is often her own worst enemy (especially all her stupid behavior re Big) and turned every single conversation into being about her. If she were a real person I'd never want to be friends with her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 03:24 PM
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Totally. See also: child-rearing. Women/mom is expected to know everything and essentially be responsible for the child(ren) 24/7, while the man/father pops in for a couple of hours and is praised endlessly for "being involved." UGH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 03:05 PM
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This reminds me of a great scene in the great movie "Made in Dagenham" (about the women workers of a Ford plant in London UK who go on strike for equal pay to the male employees in the 60s). The main character, Rita, who is leading the workers' charge, has an argument with her husband Eddie: Eddie: Christ, I like a drink, but I ain't out on the beer every night or screwin' other women, or... 'Ere, I've never once raised me hand to you. Ever. Or the kids. Rita: Christ. Eddie: What? Why are you lo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 03:04 PM
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"sHe'S sO fRiGiD"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 03:12 PM
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I feel this so much. I actually like sports and enjoy watching them, which the guys I dated liked (obviously). But I had other interests as well, like politics and art, so I engaged in those as well. Where was he? "Ugh, I hate that stuff. You'll have more fun if I'm not there, I'll just be a big bore." I hate this idea that women are supposed to support the interests of their male partners, but he's allowed to opt-out of anything she likes. It just validates their selfishness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 02:29 PM
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There was a Sky News tweet on a story about a research study that found that "half of young women and girls were harassed on Britain's streets during the summer." And OF COURSE the replies are scrotes saying things like "so men are not allowed to talk to women on the street, pay them a compliment, tell them they are very attractive, where are we going, what about a wink or a smile - is that harassment?" or "it happens to men as well." The expectation that women are supposed to just accept harass…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 02:03 PM
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Honestly. I love how the slobbiest guys think they can expect a perfect 10 of a woman. But apparently she's "shallow and fake" if she expects the same from him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 03:57 PM
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The daughter he willingly abandoned to pursue his relationship with Rose, then during the Tell-All we found out he did it AGAIN. He's a selfish sex tourist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 03:58 PM
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This is my point as well: If you're all about "I won't obey no man!" then great, that's your choice and good on you. But then don't act all surprised Pikachu face when you willingly go to a patriarchal society and shit all over it because you're so "elevated." Even if you disagree with it, Michael's culture matters to him and deserved to be respected on that basis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 03:56 PM
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YES! That musty, still-wet-from-the-washer smell is SO REAL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:32 PM
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I can smell this picture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:31 PM
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Gotcha. I found this on another Reddit page, which looks like a BBB-type site: https://www.accc.gov.au/ If your counsellor is registered as a psychologist, you might find some help here: https://www.ahpra.gov.au/notifications/raise-a-concern.aspx I hope those can be of some help or at least point you in the right direction. Based on what you've posted, this person should not be in the business of helping people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:02 PM
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Hmm not sure where you're located but is there a Better Business Bureau or some equivalent to that? Another option would be to leave a review for her on social so others can see it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 01:51 PM
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My MIL who I adore said that Monica Lewinsky, a 21-year-old WH intern, relentlessly pursued Bill Clinton, the freaking POTUS, and dismissed any notion that there was a grotesque power imbalance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 01:47 PM
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I hope there are mechanisms through which you can report this "counsellor." This is horribly unprofessional and she should be reprimanded if not outright dismissed. I'm so sorry you've gone through all this and were betrayed by someone who was supposed to be help you. I'm glad you're working with someone who has your back now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 01:45 PM
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My mom used to work with an MLB team on marketing and promotions, and every year the team would host a fan day, where fans could come on the field, meet some of the players, run the bases, do batting practice, etc. One of the most popular parts was that you could stand on the pitcher's mound and try to throw a ball to a catcher. Well, these balding, pudgy armchair sports stars would wax lyrical about how good they were in high school or whatever, do a big wind-up and then barely crack 30 mph. "R…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 06:07 PM
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"Beer gut mandatory" indeed, as is their absurd belief that women should be 110 lbs but still able to take down an entire bucket of chicken and a gallon of beer or something,
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 06:02 PM
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"sHe's wEaRiNg FaNcy ShOeS!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 03:48 PM
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Yes! My best friend is super focused on her career and has done very well for herself, which she is rightly proud of. She was seeing a guy and he was acting lame (can't remember why, but nothing abusive or anything). She started questioning whether it was her professional success that was intimidating and I stopped her right there and told her that any guy worth being with would be happy for your success, not threatened by it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 06:15 PM
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My ex would say "Oh, I don't know how! I'm thick!" (British slang for dumb). He was just lazy and thought if he did the bumble act, I'd swoop in and help him out. One day I just looked at him and said "Have you tried... trying?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 06:57 PM
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I did something similar with my ex. He wasn't unfaithful, but he was lazy and selfish. He barely worked, and when he did he spent it all on himself (including flying back to his home country to party with his friends). Then one day he decided that he was going to move back home, and actually asked me to figure out a new plan because "I want to be with you!" That may have been true, but I realized at that moment that if I stayed in this relationship, I was going to be perpetually chasing a guy wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 06:52 PM
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So true. And sure every situation is different, but overall a man who prioritizes not just seeing his child regularly, but also creating a safe, stable and loving environment for their child is a good man. Others just see being a parent as a coat, something they can take on and off when it suits them. Something "someone else" looks after 90% of the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 02:58 PM
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So true. Mothers are simply expected to bear up and do all the hard work of being a parent. Meanwhile, the father is given a learning curve so easy it's practically flat but he's a superhero because he's not completely absent in his child's life. The bare minimum is bad for a woman, great for a man. I walked away from a couple of guys who showed their asses when we discussed the idea of kids they said "Ewww I don't change diapers, that's gross!" or "well, SOMEONE has to carry on my family name."…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 02:52 PM
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Bringing home a newborn should be a joyful time for parents. Only a baby is jealous of a baby, especially HIS own baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 04:33 PM
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100% this chode has NEVER made a woman feel special, and doesn't understand that doing something nice for your partner is part of a relationship. Women don't exist to make YOU feel better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 06:14 PM
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Ah and OF COURSE he trotted out the "crazy bitch ex-wife" trope. It's NEVER his fault. Same ex-wife probably just realized she was married to a selfish man and stopped taking it in silence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 05:07 PM
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Yeah, it's not an argument in good faith. It's whataboutism with the intent on derailing an uncomfortable conversation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 07:57 PM
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I dated a guy for far too long who insisted on me being his emotional support person for every little thing that bothered him. When something bothered me, or I was upset about something? "I'm not your babysitter. You're weird for being upset about this."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 03:33 PM
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This exactly. Just earlier this morning on Twitter a guy posted something like "I don't know how women don't die of rage strokes every day." Most of the replies were women giving examples from their own lives ("a guy tried to show me how to use Google"), and OF COURSE some guy trots out some numbers about suicide rates, homicide rates, domestic abuse rates of men, and closed it with "life is not easy." Which wasn't the message of the post in any way. I always want to reply and say "why do you fe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 03:31 PM
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Been there myself! Had a bf who would invite me along to games (he was a soccer fan, which I also enjoyed but not on the same level) which was fun but whenever something of mine came up - party with MY friends, seeing MY family, a hobby I liked - he'd beg off like 98% of the time. Then he'd trot out my favorite line: "You'll have more fun if I'm not there. I'll just be a big bore!" He acted like being in a relationship meant that I was part of his life, but my life was my own, and not having my …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 03:15 PM
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Briefly dated a guy in college like this. He was short (maybe an inch or two taller than me, who is 5'6-5'7) and it really permeated his worldview. Everything bad that happened to him he took to an almost personal level. One time at a friendly football game he straight up punched a guy he "thought" was making fun of him. He would also refer to me as "my girlfriend" whenever talking to people who actually knew me and knew my name. it was like his having a girlfriend (no matter who it was) was an …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 02:59 PM
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I know it's scary leaving a relationship you've spent 10 years cultivating and working through Great point! Sunken cost theory is real and makes people (women especially) stay much longer in relationships than they should.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 02:49 PM
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You said it yourself: "I kind of just want to break up and be free." If your best friend told you that about their relationship, what would you tell them? People change. You're allowed to end a relationship that no longer makes you happy and seek one (or not!) that better aligns to your current life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 02:45 PM
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Between Twitter and Reddit, men ain't SHIT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 06:52 PM
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Wow this makes me FURIOUS. What a selfish piece of shit. I'll bet that if the tables were turned and he was the ill partner, he'd expect his wife to wait on him hand and foot. I feel so sorry for this woman, realizing what a garbage human she's married to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 06:47 PM
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Same! We're both adults in this situation but for some reason he has to be shown what to do like a freaking CHILD? No. I don't have kids for a reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 06:32 PM
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Same. Even with a well-intentioned partner, society has shaped both genders to accept that the domestic work, by and large, "defaults" to the woman. Men are often allowed to throw their hands up and say "I don't know" and walk away, while women are more expected to figure it out. Their careers and social life can suffer, because motherhood is supposedly a "noble sacrifice". I dated a guy a long time ago who was a total jerk. He would wax poetic about our (hypothetical) children and how he'd love…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 01:47 PM
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