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People may have not noticed yet but one of these days there’s gonna be a 5 foot 7 or so girl that noticed you went from considerably taller than her to the same height or even shorter than her once you take off your shoes to go to bed
/r/askTRP13/10/19 09:07 AM
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Can you explain what you mean when you says women don’t think about attraction but they just feel the difference? Very new to trp
/r/askTRP13/10/19 08:52 AM
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What did you say when you “asked her about it” and what was her reaction exactly? Honestly if that text prompted her to go meet up with him, why would he be saying “have fun partying tonight”? Seems like they had some small talk and she said she was going to a party then dude responded with that, to me at least
/r/askTRP13/10/19 08:50 AM
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i seriously hope he's joking cuz the only way that'd work is if the girl is already wildly attracted to you
/r/seduction08/07/19 02:02 AM
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I mean, you've already had a sexual encounter so you SORT OF already have it in the bag i'd say. At my college when I want a girl to go back w/ me after the bar closes I usually asks her if she'd like to smoke, it seems to work like 50% of the time. Just make an excuse. You know what her interests are, and she's already given it up to you. Tell her you have some movie she might be interested in to watch, or that you have some type of food she likes, whatever honestly.
/r/seduction07/07/19 12:34 AM
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Nah I really don't know I'm in college usually when I snap a girl I keep it short and the whole point of it is so I can meet her. If she's snapping me to keep a streak going or whatever then fuck it that's not a good thing lol. Good luck tho
/r/seduction09/06/19 11:04 PM
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imo the whole point of snapping/texting a girl is to get her to hang out w/ you in-person. You say you've snapped plenty of times before so she obviously has some comfortability around you. I don't see why you can't ask to hang out some time
/r/seduction08/06/19 02:03 AM
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Feels like you somewhat have a defeatist mentality. Yes looks are important but it's stupid to keep telling yourself that's all that matters and thus making yourself feel only worse. As someone else has already stated, looks are much more then what you're given genetically. You can work on yourself a lot by finding a nice hairstyle, dressing nicely, and working out. Also it helps if you're successful too. imho if you're an average looking guy who's at least 5 10ish you can still get w/ a lot of …
/r/seduction08/06/19 01:56 AM
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Lmao really? Would love to see this shit
/r/seduction03/06/19 08:18 AM
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College is a great time to meet new people, girls especially. It really depends on what kinda college you're going to. If you're going to a community college then you're gonna be missing a lot of the social interaction, I know cuz I used to go to one. But now I'm at a big university in Southern California and most people are very social and open to meeting new people. I find that classes are the best places to approach girls. Most of my classes consist of big lecture halls, so most people are lo…
/r/seduction03/06/19 06:09 AM
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I think the small talk helps ease into the compliment. And I mean like not too quick to the point where you ask for her number before she's even comfortable, but quick enough so you don't overstay your welcome. I feel like sometimes guys think the girl is interested because she is engaging, but they end up talking for too long and the girl simply continues to engage b/c she doesn't wanna be rude. When it comes to cold approaching women I feel like the whole purpose is to get her to be comfortabl…
/r/seduction03/06/19 04:23 AM
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Dude you need to work on your confidence if all it takes is a women to "dress more expensive" to make you feel "inferior." it really depends on what type of girl and what age group you're going for. I feel like women in their late 20s+ care more about that stuff but at my college girls don't really give a shit. I'm in LA tho so there are some girls who do, but they're usually very vain. If you're rocking a Patek or AP then maybe that can give you some extra "looks" but I doubt a Gucci or Supreme…
/r/seduction03/06/19 12:12 AM
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I live in LA and in my college I do see some Indian guys w/ white women, tho it's rare. But I've seen it here more so than anywhere else, and I've lived in Toronto as well (tho I was a little kid back then) Honestly tho the truth is "Indo-Canadian" isn't a standard type that girls pursue.. I'm Asian so I know how that is. But I think key is to find a place tho where there are lots of white people and asian people living together, that's usually where the white girls are more familar w/ Asian cul…
/r/seduction03/06/19 12:07 AM
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girls love the man in his 30s bald, buff, beard look. Are you saying you have a hard time just approaching women off the street and giving them a compliment, or in general? You don't have to start by expressing interest the moment you approach a girl. You can ease into it, start w/ a little small talk, maybe compliment her on her attire. Then once she's comfortable you can ask for her number, cuz you'd love to see her again sometime. I haven't cold approached many women but often I find that the…
/r/seduction03/06/19 12:03 AM
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Body language is obviously huge. The average girl can "read a room" better than the average guy. But honestly sometimes it's not even anything that actually has to do w/ confidence. Sometimes you get a bit taller, dress better, or bigger and you may give off the appearance that you're more confident.
/r/seduction02/06/19 11:59 PM
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Honestly I know you're not saying it's an excuse but many of us have been these before and it really is an excuse. You can always talk to girls as your getting fit, then by the time you're fit you'll not only be better physically but mentally you'll know how to approach women. Also it's never a guarantee... I remember I kept holding off also, saying I'll talk approach women once I'm bigger (I'm really skinny). I never got big, but I said fuck it and just started talking to more girls.
/r/seduction02/06/19 11:57 PM
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it's difficult to say. She might just be wary of giving anyone contact since she just got out of a relationship and she's going thru some difficulties. But if you guys hooked up and you didn't pursue maybe she just thinks you're uninterested??
/r/seduction02/06/19 12:54 AM
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dm her saying it was cool to see you last night. Since you guys went to the same college that's already a good talking point. Don't talk too much, the whole point of you dming her is to get her to hang out w/ you, so after some small talk I'd suggest seeing her at that location, or something similar, again.
/r/seduction02/06/19 12:48 AM
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Something similar has happened to me and tbh this is a very common occurrence. The girl initiates things and you guys go on a date... you think it went well but the girl thinks it didn't. There's a really simple reason as to why this happens-girls can, and generally are, more selective than men in who they choose to be their mate. It's really rooted in biology, and I really don't wanna bore you w/ the details but it's really just how things work, girls are generally just a lot more picky on thin…
/r/seduction31/05/19 11:21 PM
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I don't think that text was so bad/needy, honestly seems like a pretty standard text to send after a nice date w/ a girl. Honestly I think you should let it go, but you can still keep an open mind cuz the girl might pursue you in the future. Often times if you handle the rejection well (nonchalant about it) and she actually thought you were cute, she could always come crawling back in the future. Trying to "turn it around" w/o her approaching you first really makes you look needy, and like a man…
/r/seduction31/05/19 09:44 PM
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The girl said he was cute before tho, w/o him asking so idk... sure she might've just been saying that to be nice but I don't think it's always so black and white like that. Sometimes it is genuinely because the date didn't go well but often yes I do agree that the girl is simply saying that b/c she wasn't attracted to the guy
/r/seduction31/05/19 09:40 PM
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I think she assumed the Netflix shit meant something sexual, and you don't know her well enough at this point maybe?
/r/seduction31/05/19 09:27 PM
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Dude you're overthinking it... start by suggesting the idea, like "oh we should do/go to x sometime?" And if she says "yeah I'm down" suggest a date and time, but make it broad, like next weekend, or something. Then if she says yeah figure out a specific date and time. You can even start by asking her plans first, like "so what do you have planned this weekend?" And ask her out from there. Either way, if a girl is even a bit interested in you and you're to the point where shes comfortable w/ you…
/r/seduction31/05/19 09:16 PM
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I'm not short myself but here are some positives: -being short can give you the appearance that you're younger. This might not be nice when you're 20 but it certainly helps when you're 30+. I know so many 5 foot 8 or shorter guys who are 30+ and look like they're 21. -it's easier to pack on muscle when you're short This is really all I can think of. Ultimately being taller obviously has way more advantages but I disagree that being tall has all the advantages. In fact, I've heard people over a c…
/r/seduction31/05/19 01:17 AM
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dude you really need to learn how to use periods and construct sentences. I'm not even a grammar nazi but this shit was a hard read and it's difficult to understand what you're saying.
/r/seduction31/05/19 01:07 AM
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it really depends on the girl. Some girls want guys that they're attracted to to be direct asap. But some girls, even if they're attracted to you, will be turned off by it cuz they don't wanna appear "slutty." So in the case that you dont know which type of girl she is, it'd be safer to start w/ more indirect things to "test the waters" imho. Maybe start by just complimenting her on her appearance or something?
/r/seduction31/05/19 01:05 AM
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Seems like you just lack confidence. Any man who feels like an "alpha" around more "inferior" men while feeling like a beta with more "superior" men clearly lacks true confidence in themselves. honestly this whole alpha beta shit is honestly overrated af imo... yes there will always be someone better looking, stronger, bigger, more talented than you. It is what it is, stop comparing yourself to others, and tell yourself that any man in this universe bleeds, shits, and has insecurities like you a…
/r/seduction31/05/19 12:10 AM
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well you kinda have to feel it out first. Again this doesn't apply to every single girl and there are some girls that are gonna be so into you that they just want you to give them attention no matter what. But let's say you successfully escalated w/ one of these girls that I was talking about. The next day, you can still text her saying "oh I had fun last night" and maybe even ask her how her day is going and small talk like that. But I would hold off on sweet-talking her and making plans w/ her…
/r/seduction30/05/19 11:58 PM
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I know pretty girls have self-esteem issues, I mean shit it seems like self-esteem issues has been plaguing today's society more than any other time period because of things like instagram and snapchat. I understand you should be yourself but my message was more to the inexperienced guys out there who fall infatuated w/ a girl too quickly and start showing her way too much affection, thinking he's safe to do so b/c he's already been intimate w/ her. Dating can really just be a mind game/competit…
/r/seduction30/05/19 11:53 PM
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