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3	Men who say you're afraid to approach women: afraid of what, exactly? Not sure if that's supposed to be a shaming attempt but I'm just keeping it real. Men have egos and self confidence issues. It used to be much easier to fail, pick yourself up, and try again. This was culturally seen as the norm. But now there's so much stigma about being "creepy" and giving girls "unwanted attention" that guys who are not confident in their social skills don't want to make the attempt anymore for fear of being "that guy". Because guys don't try, they don't learn. Now you have a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 02:17 PM
6	Men who say you're afraid to approach women: afraid of what, exactly? I mean it's not that complicated. Men and women are both afraid of rejection. With easy access to pornography and a decline in men's social skills, the juice simply ain't worth the squeeze anymore. There's also the notion that women have become far harsher in their rejection methods. Don't get me wrong. Most guys will come off as creepy if they fail a cold approach. But men aren't even given the chance to practice anymore. One failed attempt can be absolutely soul crushing now because being a "c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 01:42 PM
8	The majority of men act in ways that encourage women's entitlement and narcissism. I mean, I don't wanna ruin my chances, right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 09:16 AM
3	The gym is meant to be a safe space not a place for men to try to hit on or date them That isn't organic at all. You don't even know if the person is real or not. The conversations aren't natural at all. Imagine talking to someone in real life and they respond back in 2 minutes or an hour or the next day. Meeting people online has only become normalized for literally a single generation and everyone is already complaining about how bad it is. There are numerous studies showing how social media has broken people's brains.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 10:27 AM
22	Men are more ethical, we don't sell our bodies Men don't because we can't. We would if we could but there's literally no market for it. However, men are the majority who pay for it which is just as unethical if you ask me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 10:35 AM
–	A new girl with huge tits was recently hired at the company where I work. There's 2 seemingly obvious reasons that I can think of...	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 10:18 AM
–	2025 pornhub analytics and trans attraction This article doesn't saying anything about trans being the second most watched porn category. There's no comparison anywhere between the trans category and any other porn category. Did I missed something?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/26 08:53 AM
6	Q4M: Where have all the men gone? We're right here! ... in our mom's basement. Collecting Pokemon cards, trying to get out of silver in League of Legends, and doing dailies on our favorite mobile gacha game.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/25 01:04 PM
8	Why do men think women are trying to share the top men? A lot of women are choosing to be single Not sure how men aging better is a myth. Just about every "hottest man alive" survey ends up being some guy in his +40's whereas "hottest woman alive" is always a pre-30 model. Also, looks aren't everything. IMO, women far more willing to offset a man's look for his status in choosing a mate. The same cannot be said for men. Sure they'll date older women but when it comes to choosing a mate, looks does not offset age by a significant margin. I don't think a vast majority of men want to actually …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/25 02:15 AM
1	Marriage and kids benefit men more than women Everything you just said is moot. You talk like the courts are auto-assigning child custody. Women can easily give up custody of the kid then pay child support. Then "they can easily just remarry and build a new family as if the prior one did not even exist. Sure they have to financially contribute to THEIR kids. Not a big deal." So, why aren't a vast majority of women opting for this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/25 07:22 AM
1	Marriage and kids benefit men more than women You can't expect to have an analysis then completely avoid the other side of the argument. You listed the cons for women and the pros of men. Why don't you compare to pros for women and the cons for men as well? I mean, did you not even want to gloss over divorced men and their quality of life especially when kids are involved? Sure being a single mom AFTER divorce sucks but do you really think being a father after divorce is somehow better, especially if you don't have custody of the kid? Finan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/25 07:00 AM
1	Men who think makeup is deceptive while being ok with body hair removal are inconsistent. It's a general test. Obviously there isn't going to be a single catch-all clause. But it works on almost every surface level example you can provide.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/25 08:59 PM
-1	Men who think makeup is deceptive while being ok with body hair removal are inconsistent. Ok look. Here's the general test. You stand in the shower and wash everything. Does it look exactly like how it did before you showered? No? Cheating. Does it look the same? Not cheating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/25 08:50 PM
-1	Men who think makeup is deceptive while being ok with body hair removal are inconsistent. You're not walking around and trying to impress people with razors on your face or armpit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/25 08:43 PM
-6	Men who think makeup is deceptive while being ok with body hair removal are inconsistent. This is one huge over generalization. Makeup is completely artificial. You buy it from a store. Shaving or body hair removal is a form of styling what you already have. If this is the benchmark you are setting then literally everything you do is deceptive. Earrings, rings, any jewelry, brushing your teeth, hell even putting on a nice shirt.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/25 08:36 PM
5	Would you date a trans woman that passes well? Learn to go out and touch grass then actually go outside and touch grass.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/25 07:36 AM
6	Would you date a trans woman that passes well? Got it. You didn't like the response in a debate and now you're butthurt so you feel the need to insult people. That's all you had to say. But at least you seem to acknowledge that most men share my opinion and don't see trans women as real women. Which brings me to my next point. Why are you even here if you're not trying to debate the issue? Trying to take out your own life's misery on random Redditors? Get off the internet if you're easily offended buddy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/25 07:18 AM
5	Would you date a trans woman that passes well? How am I miserable? Go run a poll and see how many men share my attitude. If someone wants to be with a trans person then go ahead. I really don't care. To each his own. But let's not act like a vast majority of men don't see trans women as real women, especially when it comes to dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/25 07:03 AM
6	Would you date a trans woman that passes well? Would you pay full price for a made-in-China Louis Vuitton knock off? Would you be upset if you bought a LV bag then found out it was a fake? A fake is a fake. No amount of "it looks the same and feels the same" is going to change that. I could put on a VR headset then have one of my bros lube up his armpit so I could stick it in the crease. It feels the same but I don't see anyone advocating for armpit-jobs. People don't want fake goods. This applies so many things in life. Some people are will…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/25 04:33 AM
12	Would you date a trans woman that passes well? All you've proven is you can fool the cameras and play with angles. You can cake on the makeup and put on fancy clothes. That doesn't change the fact that trans women are not real women. All you're doing is showing that given the right circumstances, a trans woman can look like a real woman. Besides, "her" standing behind me might not look like two men but "her" standing in front might. So not sure what your point is. You're still looking to fidget the data and the variables in order to make a t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 10:52 PM
21	Would you date a trans woman that passes well? What's incorrect about it? You're 2 dudes. No amount of mental gymnastics is going to change that. Strip away all the clothes and all the makeup. Now take a picture. Show it to everyone and ask them what they see... 2 dudes right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 10:22 PM
11	Would you date a trans woman that passes well? No. It's fake. Everyone knows it's not the real thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 10:21 PM
27	Would you date a trans woman that passes well? No. Public validation is part of it but at the end of the day the clothes are coming off and now you're 2 dudes trying to figure out which one is going to be the bottom. I'd rather date a woman who was half-ugly than a good looking trans. If you're trans, we can be friends. But dating is completely out of the question.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 10:05 PM
2	Q4M: Do you believe that being vulnerable is sexy to women? I think what women want is a man who can show vulnerability in private but is strong in public. Women don't want men who are constantly vulnerable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 06:51 AM
1	CMV: You should always consider divorce as an option when entering a marriage This is a horrible take. Divorce should no be normalized and should only be a last resort. Marriage is supposed to be an all-in game (traditionally). How could it not be? You're supposed to dedicate your life to me, and mine to you. If you have a leg out then you're never going to go all in. If we do not have this base understanding that neither of us can leave then neither of us will ever truly be honest with each other. If I step on your toes you might leave, if I make a bad financial decision…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/25 05:04 AM
1	Romantic movies and TV are worse culprits of dating struggles than dating apps I think you're completely off here. If movies and TV are inaccurate representations of real relationships then that should signify that they are not having an influence on modern dating culture. Most romance in media typically has a more traditional spin on it yet the current dating culture is seen as far too liberal now. Casual sex, one night stands, unrealistic beauty standards, and status chasing are not common themes in a lot of media romances. In fact, they mostly try to portray the opposit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 03:13 AM
36	Why do all feminist subs block most discussions that aren't positive of them? To be fair, this isn't just something native to "feminist subs". This is the nature of Reddit in general. Any subreddit can ban you for whatever reason they want. There is no accountability for who mods ban. You can be on a cars sub and start talking about jeeps and get banned. You can be on a cake subreddit and say a cake looks like a pokemon and get banned. Most political subreddits will ban any post that isn't in their favor. Reddit creates echo chambers and a lot of subs aren't moderated in …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/24 11:17 AM
8	Men are delusional as much as women, if not more. "What do men even do to deserve these women?". And there's your misunderstanding. Men don't think they deserve these women. Men are absolutely fine with average women. Men are just pointing out what traits make women more attractive. Do you really think a 35 year old man won't settle for a 30 year old woman? Of course he would under the right circumstances. But if he had to choose between the exact same woman at 30 vs 25, he's going to choose her at 25. I can be totally fine with my Honda Civic …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/24 10:39 AM