TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

smm1892 Archive

View 4 posts and 122 comments by smm1892 on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
5

I know! Thank you! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 02:15 PM
4

Thank you! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 02:15 PM
2

Thank you! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 02:15 PM
2

Thank you! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 02:15 PM
6

Stay safe as well! Unfortunately, even in your own car, you must still be vigilant. When you do begin driving, also be very very careful about honking and other signifiers of aggressive driving. I never honk at people except very lightly in extreme cases (ex. drifting into my lane or backing out into me, etc.) because of the amount of road rage incidents in the US. You always have to let it go and just be cautious that most men can become aggressive out of the blue. Stay safe! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 02:15 PM
8

Good lord, how terrifying! ❤️ So glad you stayed safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 02:12 PM
3

Yes, same thing has been happening all over the US in major cities! You can never be too careful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 02:11 PM
13

Yes, this happened to me once in NYC when my friends and I were out late at a large festival in Little Italy. These guys approached us, phones in hand clearly, and tried to ask for directions. I just said “we don’t know” and we didn’t even stop walking because it was so strange. The street they were looking for was also only like 50 feet away so I knew it was a way to approach and bother us. Never talk yourself out of the suspicion you feel! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 02:10 PM
12

That’s exactly how I felt! As soon as the rush of fear went away I was just absolutely furious. I know that he would have been more hesitant to menace a man like that and I just wanted him to feel as scared as I did but there was nothing I could do. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 02:08 PM
9

We’re 100% living in different worlds, what a way to put it. ❤️ Stay safe as well!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 02:06 PM
7

Wow so scary! Sorry that that happened to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 02:05 PM
3

Yes, definitely not going to do this anymore! Thank you! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 02:04 PM
6

Looking into it now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 02:03 PM
12

Agreed! There are always so many stores they can go into to ask directions, charge their phone if it died, whatever. There are always options available, so I remind myself that it’s not my role to help and just keep walking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 01:46 PM
13

So scary! That’s another fear of mine! Road rage men are potentially lethal. Glad you thought quickly and managed to get away! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 01:45 PM
12

Yes! Because they know that women are socialized to feel responsible for helping and comforting other people and so they prey on that. You have to be so careful and on guard! Glad you also stayed safe but so sorry that we’ve all had these experiences. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 01:44 PM
32

I have realized that since FDS I rarely even look men in the eye when I’m walking or commuting (have lived in NYC, CDMX, etc.) because it has just led to such harassment when you accidentally smile or say good morning. Sad that you can only be friendly to other women and men you’ve known for years!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 01:42 PM
14

Caution and assuming the worst is unfortunately what women must do to stay safe. Glad you also trusted your gut feeling! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 01:41 PM
14

So true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 01:40 PM
19

Thank you! So sorry that so many of us have unfortunately had these experiences. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 01:39 PM
62

Exactly! The right response would have been to apologize profusely for startling me and back away with your hands up and continue about your business. Clearly if you were so enraged, I had the right idea to be wary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 01:14 AM
39

Thank you! Me too, I was really so scared. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 12:58 AM
26

Recommend! She has a bunch of great videos on her channel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 12:56 PM
335

LOL, thank you for the hearty laugh! It’s really amazing that even with all that copy-pasting, he didn’t seem to invest the time to even proofread his manifesto. This is just ridiculous, no other way to describe this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 01:17 AM
8

Yes, a word which has truly lost its meaning! I would ask them if it is so empowering, why are the most highly regarded and influential women in society not participating? Why are you not participating? I think this is a way for them to justify keeping “those women” whose “work” is sex out of sight and out of mind, quite honestly. I cannot imagine that there is anybody out there who does not find the idea of a stranger paying to “use” your body however they want to to be distressing and repulsiv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 05:35 PM
6

This also struck me very hard. Immensely sad and angering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 05:09 PM
12

I agree wholeheartedly. People who have respect for others would NEVER wish to buy what is not freely and enthusiastically given. It is exploitative, cruel, and alarming to purchase sex and there is no amount of justification that can make that fact untrue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 05:07 PM
13

Truly so grateful that somebody on the NYT had the courage to write about this topic truthfully, finally. The amount of pro-OF and “sex work” articles they produce is honestly nauseating. I really appreciated this quote: “According to the A.C.L.U., a longtime defender of pornography, “When tech platforms like OnlyFans see themselves as arbiters of acceptable cyber speech and activity, they stigmatize sex work, making workers less safe.” On the contrary, it is the sex industry that makes women un…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 05:05 PM
6

It really will! Also treating yourself to joining a gym to do group classes (including weights, boxing, cycling, etc.) is SUCH a great way to meet friendly and motivated women and start building a circle of friends! ❤️❤️❤️ And go get your nails done, massage, or your favorite restaurant meal and treat yourself!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:39 PM
18

Good for you! Life is going to keep on getting better from here! 💕💕💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:06 PM
5

Chidera Eggerue / the slumflower!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 01:26 AM
30

We are happy to have you! 💕 Glad you made the right choice for yourself! 🎉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 04:54 PM
8

Thank you! Saving this post! 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 06:14 PM
7

Yay! Thank you! 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 07:37 PM
1

So so sorry you had this horrible experience. Can’t even imagine how this must feel. ❤️ Sending love and healing thoughts your way. He is a disgusting, jealous, low man!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 08:34 PM
7

Omg! Cannot wait! 💕🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 03:17 AM
62

It’s just not funny! Maybe he should think about why she doesn’t want to have sex with him! 😬 That might be too high-level though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:15 PM
114

I make sure to exercise or just put on some music and dance!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 12:06 AM
13

Enjoy! I got a mani pedi today too! 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 12:00 AM
5

I like this tiny vibe because it has 10 speeds and it’s super quiet! 💕 https://screamingo.com/shop/charged-vooom-bullet/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 08:29 PM
8

Thank you so much for sharing! I cannot agree with you more! 💕💕💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 05:16 PM
37

RT! It’s also so shocking to me that somebody who wants me to see them as a romantic option seems to have NO care to try and impress me! Like I have guy friends who will take me out on my birthday and pay or pick up coffee for me if we’re hanging out and they’re not even trying to be in a relationship with me! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 04:55 PM
13

It’s the laziness! 😂💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 04:54 PM
35

Exactly! They don’t really understand that all it takes is to make eye contact with a man and smile and he’s willing to have sex with you. That’s not what we’re looking for! I wonder if this is because they’re so numbed by the commercial sex industry that they really think physical sex = intimacy? And, dating should be fun! People seem to have forgotten that! I’m 22, so I’m not thinking about marriage or children just yet, but I want to get dressed nicely on a Friday night and go out with a cute…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 04:53 PM
35

I think they’re willfully delusional! Clearly they read this sub like the Bible because they’re always here downvoting or trying to send messages! (Hi guys! 👋🏽) So, if they were really confused about what women want / what women do (which even still is baffling because don’t you just treat all people nicely and try to be considerate and aware?), it would be so easy to figure out! They just wish the truth was that ALL women want to have unsatisfying, dangerous sex after paying for the “date” or w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 04:48 PM
25

Exactly! It’s just filled with contradictions! And it’s like, if you don’t think I “bring anything to the table” then leave me alone. Then they’re calling you to cry about it and leave voicemails! 😂 What?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 04:45 PM
28

Completely! Most of this LV behavior is such a projection!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 04:23 PM
31

Oh so true! That’s why they’re always trying to bring us down with “what do you bring to the table?” as if it’s not SO obvious!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 04:22 PM
80

Girl, so true! Like, if I just wanted food, why would I risk having horrible company? I have family and friends who would buy me food without a second thought! 😂 They are so silly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 02:59 PM
157

Last thing! When men say they are afraid of being used as a “meal ticket” they are projecting their desire to use you. I have NEVER gone on a date looking for a free meal. Ladies, let us internalize that it is NOT using somebody when you are not interested anymore after the date. That is the purpose of dating! Keep leveling up! 💕👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 02:07 PM
265

The thing with guys who say these things is that they are clearly using “DATING” as a proxy for “CASUAL SEX”. Dating, by necessity, involves: 1. Asking somebody on a date. 2. Making conversation to find things in common and talk about yourself and ask about the other person. 3. Following the rules of etiquette that the person who asks another person out should pay. Also, if you’re asking me to do something with you, I find it super rude if you have no idea of where / what time you would like to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 01:25 PM
9

Thank you for sharing! 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 01:52 AM
123

How foolish! The reason we have instincts is to protect us from people like this! If something seems off and predatory, it is because it is. Also, just because someone “communicates” something, that does not mean you need to respect it or be willing to partake in it! Why should women need to accept when a man cOmmUnicAtes that he wants to beat and abuse us? Ridiculous!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 03:41 PM
27

Yes, thank you! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 11:29 PM
46

I think you nailed it! 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 06:25 PM
4

I just did her Skillshares class today! Love her! 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 09:35 PM
8

It’s totally worth following Chidera (@theslumflower) on Insta and I think she has a free Skillshares class about self esteem out right now! I’m also planning to buy both of her books! I stumbled upon her from this sub and was like wow she’s amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 02:14 AM
8

It’s really quite a sad situation! Please do look into it! I really love Chidera and she’s such an FDS queen! 🎉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 01:48 AM
35

Have you heard of Chidera Eggerue? Her books “What a Time to Be Alone” and “How to Get Over a Boy” were actually plagiarized by Florence! Check out the stories, it’s quite horrible! 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 12:09 AM
22

Exactly. And the fact that it has become so mainstream and “normal” that people who actually want to have sex without being abused and beaten is somehow unconventional and “vanilla”. What?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 12:38 AM
60

The cognitive dissonance with this people! Maybe the reason women who are coerced to engage in these acts feel shame and regret and wonder if he actually cares is because a man who actually loved you would not WANT to hit you and spit on you. It wouldn’t turn him on to DEGRADE you. How shocking! 🙄 Why do they insist on writing these articles to try and convince women that this is normal behavior and should not leave you feeling traumatized and abused? It IS trauma and abuse! Your feelings are va…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 10:38 PM
34

Sooo pathetic. 🙄 It’s like he’s shocked when he offers mentorship and they are expecting mentorship. I have never had a mentor (male or female) that was expecting emotional support from me. 😂 What a joke!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 12:15 PM
13

I cackled! Thank you! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 03:10 AM
2

Haha I only do watercolor flowers! Crochet looks fun to try, maybe I will this year! ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 03:24 AM
3

Fun! I really like watercolor painting and collage journaling and hand lettering!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 02:07 AM
2

Is it knitting?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 01:49 AM
6

Aww, super cool! Would love to see more photos of your work! 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 01:40 AM
30

True! It’s crazy that this show was popular when I was in middle/high school and we thought it was like so hot that Aria was sneaking around with her teacher and Spencer’s sister’s boyfriends were all interested in her! Sick that these storylines aren’t used how you mentioned, to help reinforce to young girls that these behaviors are not normal and need to be reported. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 02:54 AM
6

Oh, I didn’t see your post! I’m so sorry about that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 06:19 PM
10

Well I think about: Pandemic safety; cannot even dream up a man that would be worth putting my parents / me at risk! My vibrator has 10 speeds so I’m pretty content with that 💕 Spending more and more time with friends and on my own picking up hobbies during quarantine Unpacking the emotions I’ve felt when I tried to date and just didn’t feel satisfied emotionally or physically by the guys — I’ve truly reached the point where I would rather be single than trying to force myself to go out with a g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 12:53 PM
8

Love this! My year will actually be complete on March 8! 🍾💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 02:36 AM
32

Something I’ve noticed a lot lately is whether they bring energy to the relationship and whether I come away from spending time with them energized/uplifted or exhausted! There are some people that I can spend hours and hours with doing activities or just relaxing with tea (and these are often my closest friends). There are also some people, however, that just make me feel more tired and these have become more casual friendships as of late. I think the #1 important thing is just evaluating these…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 07:44 PM
30

Agree completely! 🍾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 07:33 PM
17

Wow, how insulting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 01:12 AM
92

I think there are a few reasons! These men really truly do see themselves as we see them (often as low value and more trouble than they're worth) and they don't want too many women to realize this and refuse to go out with them. Above all, they see women as some sort of common good/public property that should be available to them no matter how they behave/look because apparently dating is a charity! They don't understand the concept of boundaries...it's fine for them to have their opinions OVER …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 12:11 AM
19

Way to go, girl!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 11:48 PM
23

Congrats! Stay safe! xoxo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 11:48 PM
200

I agree! They’re always trying to haggle with us! Like, either you’re attractive to me, or you’re not. Also, where does the idea come from that they seem to expect to be attractive to everyone? Nobody is everybody’s type.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 11:18 PM
25

This must be satire?! 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 01:11 AM
68

Cheers to that! 🎊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 01:04 AM
84

Way to go! 2021 is looking bright! ❤️⭐️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 08:29 PM
22

Congratulations! Happy New Year! ❤️🎊👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 11:59 PM
48

Suuuuch a stupid term! How about the label of “hubby”, a useful man who can cook and clean and keeps himself in great shape! That’s what I’m looking for! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 03:13 PM
17

Good thing you realized this before too late! I hope you’re happy and thriving now! ❤️ Happy New Year! 🎊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 05:16 PM
16

Oh, you’re completely right! And the ONE time they do the dishes or pick up after THEMSELVES, they act as though they do half or more of the work! And sulk and pout if you don’t throw a parade in their honor for contributing to the house they also live in. Like, what? Your second point is spot on! Like who is supposed to want to be with a cheap and lazy man?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 08:52 PM
27

So true! My mother has been the only one to ever plan all of the holiday meals and decor and events! I’m understanding more and more that it’s really the emotional labor that LVM leech off of and THAT is why women often feel so tired! But men keep on with their 50/50 aspirations. 😩 If they had to be present for and plan anything during the holidays, (and actually do it well without cutting corners) they would have a heart attack!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 07:38 PM
55

It boils down to selfishness and lack of ability to invest time into other people! They expect women to care endlessly for them and put effort into kind gifts that show how much they value the relationship and never be disappointed in the lack of care they receive in return. It’s the same as men who can’t be bothered to plan a nice date or vacation or surprise you with anything that you actually enjoy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 07:21 PM
85

I don’t understand how this cannot be an incredibly boring life to live. Do the children just get to have “discussions about anything and everything” on their birthdays and Easter and Thanksgiving? What are they “enjoying together” if not cultivating a joyful home during the holidays with their children or going out on dates without their children? Is there anything else to do in life besides going to work? Truly, what? Also, I don’t understand the resistance to change with these men! Just becau…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 07:13 PM
7

Good for you, girl! That’s amazing! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 12:39 AM
17

You put it so well! Exactly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 07:31 PM
13

Never knew this! Also LOVED all of these books! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 05:39 PM
7

Happy birthday! 🎈🎂🎁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 12:24 PM
8

Going to group gym classes is super fun and helps you meet awesome ladies, getting your nails done, starting a new series alone or with a friend to discuss, hanging out with friends (especially those with dogs!) I love doing collage art and watercolors, and you don’t have to be “good” at art to enjoy it and find it relaxing! xoxo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 11:30 PM
7

Yes! I would only do first dates within 3-5 minutes walking for me! 😂 Absolutely not going to be traveling!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 09:54 PM
60

I think something I’ve found thoughtful is how much he cares that the location is convenient for me! It’s a huge hassle (and not very exciting) to get all dressed up and take the train for more than 1-2 stops if you live in the city to get to a date! Not to mention, it can be dangerous coming home because public transport (at least in Boston and NYC) gets so sketchy later in the evenings. It’s super considerate that he asks and makes sure the location isn’t out of the way for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 08:44 PM
18

Congratulations! Enjoy your night! 🎉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 06:46 PM
40

I believe her...so heartbreaking. I think it’s great that people who have mental health issues seek therapy and treatment, but there needs to be accountability and consequences if they still try to pursue relationships with other people despite not being in a healthy place to treat others with respect and care. His response is so cavalier, hurtful, and dismissive of the trauma he perpetrated. Men need to realize that the work they need to do on themselves is best done by themselves and without i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 07:24 PM
51

I thought the movie was funny only when I turned off my LVM radar! 😂 I haven’t genuinely enjoyed all of my usual netflix Christmas movies this year since I found FDS! LVM abound!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 05:31 PM
5

Great advice, thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 12:06 AM
10

Pathetic! Cannot imagine being willing to call a man my boyfriend if he can’t even dress himself nicely. I love playing dress up with children though, just not a fully grown man! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 12:15 AM
45

I read this this morning! I love his articles, and he was so close to getting the point that not only is porn exploiting children wrong, BUT ALL PORN IS WRONG AND EXPLOITATIVE. I wish he had gotten there though, the idea of “ethical porn” is so ludicrous. You cannot convince me that something a woman may do when she is 18 and “consents” to be filmed having sex, she will not someday want off of the internet. I would like to know what these “ethical porn” consumers think about this issue. I am ple…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 11:46 PM
4

Stay strong, and stay safe! ☀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 01:05 PM
16

I have no words...I video chatted my sister to do a dramatic reading of this! Absolutely incredible that he would still be trying to offer a date if his “finances changed”?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 08:31 PM
17

Good for you! 🎉 Always listen to that gut instinct!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 11:57 PM
4

It’s also telling that this movie is French, and they’re not willing to make this kind of film in the US yet! The freedom men have to just do what they want and not have to feel the need to explain it to anybody is such a nice privilege! 😂 Very FDS-approved movie!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 10:45 PM
9

Love love that movie! It was amazing how ridiculous all of the things we are “expected” to do and the treatment we put up with! 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 12:33 PM
14

I love the suggestion for drinks! 😂 Yes, I’ll bring my girlfriends along!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 12:19 AM
115

Actually love this video! So true! You’d think it would be obvious that he’s not suggesting a date, but sex! Probably shocked she was smart enough to “figure him out” 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 11:43 PM
34

Enjoy your candles, queen! I want to try out this scent! 🌟
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 02:35 AM
16

Nothing wrong with being single when you have fulfilling family relationships, friendships (with both men and women), and hobbies that you can do both alone and with other people! Everything wrong with putting up with treatment that is less than you deserve just to say you “have a man”. Let’s normalize being single until you’ve really found what you’re looking for! No reason to rush! 🌟
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 02:18 AM
9

Also, haven’t read the whole article but I just get the ick from the line above the text messages...he wasn’t offering to perform a sex act on her, he was threatening her and making her feel unsafe in her home. Period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 01:26 AM
15

It is just so catchy!!! No matter what mood I’m in I want to sing it! 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 07:04 PM
167

Compared to like Miley’s newish song “Midnight Sky” about basically just following her own road and getting away from the people who have dragged her down...the chorus is “I was born to run, I don’t belong to anyone...don’t need to be loved by you.” Like I love singing along to that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 04:44 PM
43

Haha true! So catchy until you’re really listening to the lyrics!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 03:54 PM
34

I listened to it and I was like I cannot blast this and sing along because now it goes against everything I think; couldn’t even causally enjoy 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 03:50 PM
19

This! Just because he doesn’t like the answer doesn’t mean her feelings are invalid or she’s not making sense!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 04:17 PM
34

I mean, it was unbelievable listening to him talk. It just drives home the point that the only thing you can do is get away from these men...arguing is just giving them the opportunity to listen to their own BS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 03:13 PM
98

I saw a 30 second clip of this on my Insta explore page and I was just rolling my eyes at him! I couldn’t get past him saying that she somehow pushed marriage on him by saying that at some point in her life she would like to be married and she was not willing to live with him before being engaged / married. Like, all she did was lay out her expectations and standards and if they were too “outrageous” for him, he should have ended the relationship! He was just doing such mental gymnastics to push…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 02:59 PM
1

Happy she doesn’t seem to be giving in to his tactics! So unfair though for him to be putting all of this on social media to try and shame her for making the healthy choice to break up! 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 11:54 AM
1

Ha! Well he’s in for a surprise then because I’d take my $50 and laugh all the way home
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 11:58 AM
26

Ridiculous! What is he even waiting for you to do? Give the money back? I don’t even understand what he’s trying to sus out using this “test” 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 10:37 PM
57

The crazy thing is that most children do display a desire to clean up after themselves and help tidy after playing and getting dirty, so there must be a point that we lower our expectations for boys and cleanliness!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 11:20 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter