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| 4 | 1st Date TipsRegarding the 'most people work till 5' comment - this is true, but either way, if you know they're working till a certain time, and they have no objections to any specific time for meeting up, give them time to shower and get ready (shaving/trimming, make-up, etc) after work. Two hours might not be enough, I say 3 is safe. Otherwise the chances of having physical contact are strongly diminished. From my experience, for most girls, if they don't feel their sexiest they are not gonna take off the… | /r/seduction | 18/08/15 08:13 PM |
| 1 | I've been reading this subreddit as a bisexual girl [F/23] with around 60 sexual partners...and y'all totally changed the game for me. Thank you.It's supposed to be a different form of playful teasing and flirting. Something to take down any 'bitch shields' and it has to make a girl either laugh or smile, or at minimum engage her in a positive manner. If she gets upset in any form whatsoever then it's not being done correctly. Of course a lot of people misunderstood what it was meant for, used it incorrectly and on just about everyone. So it is now associated with being mean and trying to put down a girl so that her self esteem drops and… | /r/seduction | 12/08/15 01:21 AM |
| 2 | I've been reading this subreddit as a bisexual girl [F/23] with around 60 sexual partners...and y'all totally changed the game for me. Thank you.Yeah that's a little harsh. It's more like 'nice dress, my grandma has the same one' or 'i have shower curtains that look just like it' - but don't insult their physical traits or something they definitely can't change. That's just cruel | /r/seduction | 11/08/15 05:36 PM |
| 4 | Girls walks into my store, how do I ask her out but maintain professionalism?Before I met my girlfriend I was using Tinder and OKCupid to meet women. I never spoke to girls I didn't know in clubs because there was no need, plus I hate trying to talk to someone in obnoxiously loud places. Going to clubs/bars was just for having fun with my friends and nothing more. The bonus was that when girls see you dancing with other girls and having a good time, and the girl you're with looks like she's having a good time, your stock through the roof. Anyway I may have just gone on a… | /r/seduction | 24/07/15 08:34 PM |
| 35 | Girls walks into my store, how do I ask her out but maintain professionalism?Don't try to date clients. If there's the slightest chance that it can negatively affect your career/employment then skip it. If you are inclined to ignore that advice, at least let her be the one to say "call me" or "let's hang out sometime". What may sound cute and endearing to us can come off as super duper creepy and an invasion of privacy to certain women. | /r/seduction | 24/07/15 07:57 PM |
| 0 | Can short guys pick up women in clubs and bars?Nah, they can't. You're screwed. Don't even bother talking to women ever again. OR.... Get over your height issues. Walk and talk and feel like you're 7 feet tall and no one will care. Women don't like insecure men. That's one of the main reasons why they say they don't like dating guys shorter than them, along with of course the physical preference. But if you're awesome and make her feel awesome she won't even care. My girlfriend is taller than me. | /r/seduction | 24/07/15 06:13 PM |
| 3 | [FR]Flaked on; decided to go meet strangers instead of being sadWhy'd you call up the original girl about 2 hours after your set date time? She's the one who screwed up (legitimate excuse or not) and is the one who's supposed to be trying to chase you down to apologize - and if she wasn't then she wasn't truly sorry and didn't care. Obviously she had gotten her phone charged because she picked up but why didn't she call you? This type of girl is usually a flake and/or a compulsive liar. Don't waste your time on her again. | /r/seduction | 13/07/15 07:58 PM |
| 1 | How do I approach this girl?Do you come here often? I'm about to bench 500 pounds, spot me? Honestly though it seems like you need to work on how to say things, not what to say, otherwise you wouldn't be asking this question in the first place. Good luck though. | /r/seduction | 13/07/15 06:46 PM |
| 2 | How would you introduce yourself to a potential blind date?Reminded me of this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Oa7Ttik1Gw4 | /r/seduction | 07/07/15 01:11 PM |
| 1 | I am quitting Reddit. I don't think this is a course of action for everyone, but I think my reason why is relevant to other people who visit this sub.Because it's obvious? But...awww..... | /r/seduction | 27/04/15 02:36 PM |
| -5 | I am quitting Reddit. I don't think this is a course of action for everyone, but I think my reason why is relevant to other people who visit this sub.You're being too sensitive. I'm not trying to attack you. I didn't say you didn't improve at all, I just said enough. I said what I said in the same manner I would say it to a friend in person, that I am trying to knock some sense into. I think you might be overreacting (OP) and even though reducing or eliminating the use of reddit is not necessarily a bad thing at all, it's the way of how you're handling the whole thing that is kind of wonky. | /r/seduction | 27/04/15 01:42 PM |
| 11 | I am quitting Reddit. I don't think this is a course of action for everyone, but I think my reason why is relevant to other people who visit this sub.Apparently you haven't improved from seddit enough where you aren't a narcissistic attention seeking drama queen. I'm not trying to start shit with you but what is the point of this post, telling strangers on the internet that you're quitting a website? But why are you letting stupid people influence your thoughts and actions anyway? That's what you should work on instead of just running away from your problems. That's what seddit is about anyway, facing your fears head on and getting mentally s… | /r/seduction | 27/04/15 01:26 PM |
| 1 | What to do when she asked to switch numbers, yet didn't respond to first text?What you should take out of this whole situation is to not get hung up on the outcome (what to do, what to say, when to say it, etc). You want to be able to not care at all. Like someone else already said, if she's interested she'll make an effort. And you're not used to girls not responding? Lucky guy. So many times at clubs I've gotten numbers, even volunteered to me, and the girl goes MIA when I contact her. People are inebriated and have lower inhibitions in clubs, so they do things that are… | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 03:57 PM |
| 2 | The subtle art of pausingDamn it I knew I shouldn't have quit smoking. | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Some OkCupid tips I've learned over the yearsI've found that if you aren't successful in getting a phone number and transitioning to texting within the first two (decent sized) conversations then you shouldn't waste anymore time on that girl, for several reasons. | /r/seduction | 15/04/15 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Got girl's number at gym. Good opening text?"Hey what's up, it's so and so from the gym". Mind boggling, I know. If she responds, set up a date. Don't try to get to know her via texting, save that for in person. In between all of this, keep approaching other girls and don't worry about the outcome from the interactions with this girl or any others. | /r/seduction | 14/04/15 03:10 PM |
| 8 | The "wait" line is a perfect 2/2I hate to be that guy but I really think that you are who should get credit for the 2 for 2, not this technique. It just maybe adds some cuteness to the situation but if you want to kiss the girl just go for it. All this technique is is a way to alleviate some of your own anxiety, but if a girl kisses you with it she'll kiss you without it, and vice versa. What I'm saying though ultimately doesn't matter because if it works for you that's awesome and you're getting what you want. But I do want t… | /r/seduction | 02/04/15 11:24 PM |
| 3 | I think I became 'meta' with myself.I had this happen to me when I first started to learn about PUA and what not. I really disliked it as I thought PUA was hindering any actual success. Throughout the process I started focusing more on improving myself as a person, more than attempting any tactics or paying attention to how I talk or stand or walk or what facial expressions I make, and all that crap that PUA tells you to pay attention to. Eventually I just became a much more confident person, and I am successful when it comes to d… | /r/seduction | 26/03/15 08:08 PM |
| -1 | I'm newly single and 32. I'm going out with a 22 year old tomorrow and I'm curious to know if there is anything I should be mindful of given her age versus mine?I pretty much repeated everything you said before reading what you said in another reply. Could've saved me a lot of typing. Please let me know next time you're going to post something that I should read before posting myself. Thanks. edit: whoever's downvoting this has absolutely no sense of humor and is taking themselves wayyyyy too seriously lol | /r/seduction | 19/03/15 03:40 PM |
| 1 | I'm newly single and 32. I'm going out with a 22 year old tomorrow and I'm curious to know if there is anything I should be mindful of given her age versus mine?In my experience (last of which was yesterday when I (32) had a second date with a 23 year old), younger girls who date older guys are (usually) looking for a man who is more mature and stable than her average peer. The majority of them will expect someone who is level headed, self-respecting and respectful of others, mentally and financially stable, ambitious, priority and goal oriented, and someone who knows what he wants and go for it - basically the main traits that separate grown (age-wise … | /r/seduction | 19/03/15 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Help confusedWhy is this posted in /r/seduction? This question (and the way it's being asked) seems more suited for /r/relationships or something. Everything you mentioned and the way it's mentioned is the opposite of what someone who is learning and/or practicing seduction/pickup would say and do. If you would like to get better at approaching and getting girls (and being a more mature and confident person in the pursuit) then definitely check out all the material and sources in the sidebar. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 19/03/15 03:08 PM |
| 2 | Do women like/dislike bald men?Women like/dislike everything. Revive the confidence that you killed in yourself and you won't care or need to know what the answer to your own (this) question is. | /r/seduction | 17/03/15 04:44 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with your gf's nice guy friendMuch appreciated. It was a joke just to be clear. And you know what they say about jokes that you have to explain....they're even funnier. Okay I should really stop now. | /r/seduction | 13/03/15 04:04 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with your gf's nice guy friendOh that makes sense I guess. I had no idea there's people out there that would actually do this as a real/serious thing. I totally meant it comedically (edit: comically?) | /r/seduction | 13/03/15 04:03 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with your gf's nice guy friendDamn did my joke really suck that bad that it needed to be downvoted that hard? | /r/seduction | 13/03/15 03:35 PM |
| 0 | How to deal with your gf's nice guy friendNext time all 3 of you are hanging out, start making out with your girl, and as you're kissing her make sure you're looking straight at the friend. Do not break eye contact whatsoever for the duration of the kissing. | /r/seduction | 13/03/15 01:52 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Went out with a friend. Came home with the most amazing chick.Awesome man. Happy for you. P.S. I've always had more success being a foreigner and looking different in other countries. Even if you're using local language with an accent, it's definitely an advantage, and that's how you should look at it. | /r/seduction | 11/03/15 01:11 AM |
| 2 | Kick AssHe definitely used to play soccer based on the arm movement and posture. Goaaaaaaaaaaaaalllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllasssssssssssssoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo | /r/PussyPassDenied | 11/03/15 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Why I do become picky the second they start liking me?I mean, it's easy to say that it's because it's no longer challenging to you at that point. But I think since you have never had a GF and are a virgin, it's also highly possibly that you are afraid of success and change so your mind looks for reasons to back out. If you really want to have a GF and/or sex, you have to realize that no one is perfect, and everyone has flaws, and that to overcome a fear you must face it. If you just like the chase and don't care about having a gf or getting laid an… | /r/seduction | 02/03/15 04:15 PM |
| 6 | The Seddit dichotomy, and a solutionYou're talking about it going from 5 to 8 in a 90degree vertical line right? My guess is yeah that looks like a line represents a week so you would be right. It's cool how someone called you dumb and corrected you on something that you weren't event talking about. | /r/seduction | 09/01/15 09:14 PM |
| 3 | Q: Fake it till you make it + low self esteem ?Hey man where have you been? Glasses are no longer associated with being nerdy. Some people even wear fake/nonprescription ones just as a fashion statement. And being smart is in. It really all comes down to how you perceive yourself. How you view yourself is how others view you. It doesn't matter what you wear on your face, it's how you rock it. If you don't give a shit that you wear glasses, or that you're this and that, then no one else will. If they do, then you don't need to be friends or m… | /r/seduction | 09/11/14 08:18 PM |
| 1 | What deadorant do you use?As a person who easily sweats from the armpits in any weather or temperature, Dove Clean Comfort has given me the best results. Old Spice High Endurance would be second place. Have gotten compliments for both. | /r/seduction | 04/11/14 07:50 PM |
| 10 | How do I come back from an "okay" date?You come back from it by going out on another date with a different girl and not worry about this one. Learn from this date in regards to why it was just 'okay' and not 'great', and apply it to your future dates. If you happen to go out again with this girl, great. If not, great. | /r/seduction | 07/10/14 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Any tips on forgetting an one-itis?https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GdnYedTpToA | /r/seduction | 25/09/14 11:56 PM |
| 2 | I really don't know what to talk aboutExcellent advice. Building on top of being agenda driven, before I became confident with women, I've noticed that anytime I was already dating someone, I could tell that attractive girls I was talking to casually were into me either by how they were acting or by giving me their number without me asking for them. The reason for this was my vibe, mood, and composure. I wasn't coming off like I wanted anything from them or caring of the outcome and end result of the conversation because I really di… | /r/seduction | 20/09/14 12:07 AM |
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