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Exactly. I dated two women and they flat knew about each other. Only thing they did was try to fuck me better than she thought the other could.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/21 03:44 AM
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That aren't temporary, fleeting, and likely to have been promptly removed or forgotten when you need them most? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 06:00 AM
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No birth control and obviously no control. The only way this is okay is if she is a widow.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/02/21 06:07 AM
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Women get absolutely slammed with messages no matter what. I experimented with that a while back. It was sobering. I dropped off all dating apps after that, because I knew that even if I could be that interesting guy that she would like, she would never see my message above all the noise.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 03:22 AM
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Anti-choice? No. I'm pro-life. If you don't want to be a parent, take active measures to not get pregnant. That is the choice you should make. Are you willing to allow men to not be responsible for kids they didn't want when they had sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 06:27 PM
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I would no more support sacrificing a life to the god of convenience if it was my body carrying it than I do anyone else's. I would take control of my reproductive activities to the degree that I could, meaning contraceptives or other means, such as I currently do/have done. I actively encourage both sexes to employ contraceptives to the degree that they can if they don't want to become parents, and realistically, women have been provided more options than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 03:13 PM
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Maybe I can answer, though I can ultimately only speak for me. I didn't set out to cheat. I didn't set up a profile, or hang out in bars, or anything like that. At the same time, I wasn't drunk, I knew what might happen, and I didn't stop when I should have. My wife, at the time, had deliberately "iced" our bedroom. We had not, as a matter of fact, had sex, or any physical interaction at all, in over 8 months. If she didn't deride me for not making enough money, it was spending too much time at …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 02:57 PM
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This is the degenerate and collapsing culture of western civilization. Sure, the women you describe exist. The problem is that they all married in their early 20s, their vows were more than just random vibrations on the air, and they are all still married. There are very few stragglers or women that were actually decent and married a man that violated one of the 4 A's and ended up divorced. The rest? That single mom that "don't need no man". Well, okay, so tell me why I need or want her. Especia…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 11:54 AM
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Look lady, I don't want to raise "your" kid. I don't want to emotionally invest in the kid. I don't want that poor kid to emotionally invest in me. It would hurt the kid and quite frankly hurt me when we broke up, likely due to you being "unhappy", "bored", or simply found another dude you like rubbing uglies with better than me. We both know that there is slim to no chance that I am your forever, because quite frankly, you thought you had that when you decided to do the things that got you preg…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/20 06:59 AM
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That's 20?!?!?!? Good God! How did she get rode hard and put up wet that fast?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/20 06:39 AM
2

Sex, yes. Romantic, no. I killed my romantic life. It failed to ever do a damned thing but cause me endless pain. Now, I will enjoy the company of a woman for an evening when I want, but I am neither monogamous or willing to "move the relationship forward". Oddly enough, it seems like women think they either have something to prove with me, they can change/heal me, or, for a very few, they appreciate their nice empty cool bed as much as I do mine and they don't want to be bothered either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 04:20 AM
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I am willing to throw it all away to buy a sailboat, go over the horizon and never return to my current life. Will I meet some little coconut oil tan señorita along the way? I don't know or care. Maybe over enough horizons my spirit will find a place to rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 04:09 PM
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Nope, it's a shit test. She is absolutely willing to "hook up" but a guy that gives ground and tries to date her automatically fails the shit test, which means he isn't relationship material. Any guy willing to push for the hook up probably gets the hook up won't hang around for the relationship. I have seen it plenty of times now, and I'm getting closer than I care to that age group.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/20 01:42 PM
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you will also never have a home, That requires your time, effort, and money to keep maintained, and they call it a "death note" for a reason. you will also never have a family and kids That can be ripped away from the man at the merest whims of "the love of his life" and leaving him suicidal. you will also never have a partner who would actually visit you at the hospital when you're sick. I have seen plenty of men served with divorce papers at the lowest point in their lives, when they were jobl…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 01:12 PM
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I don't really know what single life for a man in his 20s is like. I do know what single life for a man who takes care of himself in his 40s is like. Granted my ex-wife literally broke me. She had me completely pussy-whipped believing I could never do better than her, and I just had to deal with it if she only wanted to deal out a little bit of sex or none at all. Now, in my 40s, divorced and single, I'm still broken. The difference, I have enough women around that I don't bother wanking off. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 12:51 PM
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Years of every thrice-be-damned institution in the left/liberal/media establishment pushing homosexuality, bisexuality, and weird fetishes non-stop. The overt sexualization of children that started with young girls first and has been proceeding apace for nearly a generation now. Heroic male figures in media are portrayed as nearly feminine and "pretty" in their appearance, usually having bodies as hairless as their estrogen soaked counterparts. If they aren't that then they are portrayed as boor…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 12:40 PM
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I have yet to meet swingers where the dudes weren't weird and creepy and the women were disgusting. No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 12:57 PM
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No, society in it's current form will collapse as it continues to atomize it's citizens and fails to offer it's young men any reason at all to defend it. If nothing else does us in, the federal budget deficits absent cuts and regardless of any tax increases will eventually outcompete any other borrowers stymying further growth and then rapidly dissolving the economy. I am not prescient enough to know the details of the society recovering from that disaster, save one. Women will want men capable …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 12:54 PM
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Or.....they are with white women. Or, they are some complete loser with a woman that should hate their guts but somehow adores them. I worked security at a nursing home for a little while when I was trying to get back on my feet. I got called out to the parking lot for a disturbance one night. One of the CNAs was out there having an argument with her boyfriend. He had got a hold of the keys to her "new" car somehow. He showed up because she wasn't answering texts at work when he wanted her card …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/20 11:43 AM
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Radius.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/10/20 07:09 AM
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Yes, but money is fungible. They can cover the rent for their offices out of the Title IX money while providing free "reproductive health" to women using money that would have otherwise been spent on the rent.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/10/20 04:50 AM
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Just how good does she think her pussy is?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/10/20 09:54 PM
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Jane, no, she was aimed at the wall, no I don't mean the TRP wall, I mean like a race car wall, from early on. I thank God for that unanswered prayer. I would have forced Kat to relegate her brother to a position where he couldn't give her drugs, probably using distance. Something her kids' father was never in a position to do, but something I could have managed. Teela is a special case to me and always has been. There was a good reason she called me and not her mother or her brothers that night…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 11:50 AM
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I grew up in the poorest county in the state, in one of the poorer areas of the county. My parents are an intact couple still. All of the girls I mentioned either had step-dads or the mom was single, and their dad wasn't really involved. I still think that had a lot to do with it. I have thought of a few more.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 03:19 AM
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Yes, but as bad as the situation was, I would never have chosen divorce. I had it forced on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 03:10 AM
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My class was, I think, 420 students, so statistically, it wasn't possible to know everyone, my school had over 2000 students in a normal year. I also had to re-connect with a lot of them as my ex-wife was very controlling in the relationship and jealous of any female friends that I had despite every opportunity existing for a relationship to have developed before she ever knew me, and it not occurring. No, I didn't count the one that went on to become a lawyer, marry another lawyer, have two kid…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 11:59 AM
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Because I honestly didn't find that many, though they exist. They either were married by 26 or so, and remained married before they started having kids, or it seems they never married and usually had at least one kid in tow fairly early on. I just listed off a few that I was more familiar with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 11:46 AM
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Joey became the little sister I always wanted when we met. I already had a little sister, but even back then I had my misgivings about my real little sister. We hung out quite a bit. In fact, I warned her against getting in a relationship with the father of her first two, but love/lust is both blind and incredibly stupid. Renewing a friendship after more than a decade did change things. Jane was cute and fun. She was Joey's best friend which is how we met. I probably tried every beta move in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 11:32 AM
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I know women that would marry me in a heartbeat if I asked now, and it isn't really a humble brag. These women knew me when I was a teen. Hell, some of them knew me when we were kids. To be fair, I'll exclude from considerations the ones that would have been too much younger when I was teen, though I can't think of a reason why they would have been any different. When we were teens, at most, they teased at me. Otherwise, none of them ever gave me the time of day. Hell, I was so enamored with the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 09:22 AM
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Anecdotal evidence spread over a large enough sample size is till useful evidence. First time marriages fail at a rate of 50%. Second marriages at around 66%. Third and more marriages fail at a rate of 75%. I'm going to go out on a limb and guess that none of them ended because both spouses were happy. I actually married young, figuring that if I would be able to have sex every night if I locked it down. What a joke. My sex life was dead at the ripe old age of 23, and mostly forgotten at the age…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/09/20 11:14 AM
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> For a bunch of "good guys" ... I don't know about anyone else here, but I am not a "good guy" or a "nice guy", I was a "nice guy" and tried to be a "good guy" and I still haven't managed to clear out all the rubble of my life left from a woman using everything I was ever taught against me. Now, I won't harm a woman, nor will I allow anyone to come to harm because they are being attacked by someone else, but I won't help a woman when the position she is in is due to the choices she made. In fac…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/09/20 10:49 AM
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You know, maybe it is Disney. This chick doesn't want to be married. If she did, the fact is that she had two proposals, one of which wanted the same things she says she wants. She turned them both away. Realistically, that leaves two options, she doesn't really want to be married and have kids, or her standards are so unbelievably warped that no man available to her has any chance of meeting her absurd standards. There is no Prince Charming. Everyone on this planet that still has an air addicti…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/09/20 12:58 PM
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What do you mean "after you changed?" Rather than being the boy that all the girls "liked" but never, ever "in that way" I started acting a lot more like the other guys. I still had all of those idiotic notions and those notions really were my problem. I let a woman walk all over me for 15 damned years because "I luv her". I let her turn my bedroom into an impenetrable wall of ice for over ten years because "She luvs me." It's a stupid emotion and a stupid idea. I will go to my grave long before…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 11:05 AM
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I don't know. Back in high school when I was first making friendships, and trying and failing miserably to find someone to date, I was told that they wish they had somebody like me, but ya know, not me. Or I was told that I would be great when they wanted to settle down. Or that I was her best friend, as she complained to me about the guy she was most recently with. There was no internet back then. No Red Pill. My dad is, to this day, a man that has often been too comfortable in his marriage. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 08:12 AM
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You can be whatever you want. Good, bad, indifferent. Have other interesting things to do. Treat every woman as if she is nothing more than an option or maybe that she amuses you. Women tend to want the things they think they can't have, just like men.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre24/08/20 05:10 AM
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Be careful. You might point out that women and men have demonstrable biological differences in your post and that could certainly get you in trouble with the hive mind. The questions, better phrased, is "Are a good percentage of women willing to engage in casual sex?" and "What conditions need to be met for women to feel comfortable engaging in casual sex?" In my experience, since my divorce years ago, is yes, and mostly they want a safe environment where they feel listened to, a partner that is…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 03:18 AM
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Holy hell, what was this woman thinking? Whatever one might believe about the sexual market place, dating is a numbers game as much as anything else. By the late 40s, life alone has ruthlessly weeded out a lot of men, good or bad, boring or exciting. By the late 50s, there is a noticeable imbalance with more women than men. It stands to reason that any man that hasn't gotten himself killed by that point and has either survived a marriage or two or never went down that road in the first place and…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/20 03:09 AM
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You hit on a part of it. Feminism is a luxury that western women can currently afford. If things were a struggle and the government had either no or very little money to spare for welfare, then women would seek out the men best able to provide for them and as long as they had what they and their offspring needed to survive they wouldn't be nearly as demanding or picky. Eastern Europe after the fall of the Soviet Union was witness to that in spades. In places where men can freely hire a woman to …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 10:55 AM
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Quit being a thirsty beta. She isn't yours. She never was, and she never will be. It's just your turn. It doesn't matter if you two just started fucking yesterday or if you have been fucking her for thirty years and had a little pointless ceremony where you promised your family, some random deity, and the state that you would always be together. She doesn't belong to you, and the ride can end for any time for any reason. The mentality you have here is how guys end up killing "their woman" and en…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/20 11:38 AM
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I'm in my 40s. Let's face it, the good women, mostly they are with the good men they married long ago, and that they built up when they could. I'm not sure if I'm a good man or not any more, only that I tried to be. I couldn't give a rat's ass about her N-count beyond not having any STDs. I like my nice cool bed. I don't want to deal with drama. I for damned sure don't want anything to do with some other man's kids. All I really want is to send her back to her house with a smile on their face an…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 11:19 AM
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I can only go by my experiences. > Do men have lower expectations of women's personalities now than in the past? Yes. When I was a young, I was taught to be deferential to girls as they "would never be deliberately mean". When I was a teen, I was told to be myself and "the nice girls would notice me". The church told me I would find a "soulmate" and I would know it when I met her. > If true, what is the cause? I did exactly as I was told. I played nice. I played deferential. I got married to a "…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 05:48 AM
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Yeah, the BIL needs a good attorney. He needs to call the police and report the domestic violence. There is a good chance that if she is abusing him, she is abusing the kids.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/20 12:20 PM
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Not one felony, three. So, how did we get to three? Aggravated assault with intent to do great bodily harm, and what else. Use of a firearm in the commission of a felony? Leaving the scene of an automobile accident? Fleeing and eluding? Resisting arrest with violence? Yeah, this one's a real peach. I should wonder why the first kid's dad hasn't stepped in and relieved her of custody, but he is probably as bad as she is. Those kids are doomed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/07/20 11:43 AM
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You are half right, but miss the point. Strictly in terms of our current culture, it's that he wasn't her first choice, even at that time. Let's say she had three options she was dating. She likes one, but wasn't "quite ready to settle down" and another woman moved in while she played games. The second guy realized she was playing a game and decided he had better things to do. That leaves her third option, the one that isn't quite as sexy and doesn't have as much money, but if she wants kids (bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 03:30 AM
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The "cool wine aunt" isn't cool once you get away from the entertainment and social left circles. She dispatched advice that isn't relevant or helpful to people that, when they get any wisdom, wonder why she doesn't have a family. Hell, you could marry at 21 and end up in a never ending sexless hell, so it really doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 03:55 AM
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Nope. The date ends right there. They have an XY chromosome, they are a guy. No amount of self mutilation will ever change that. Gender dysphoria is in the same class of mental issues as bulimia, anorexia nervosa, and xenomelia. It can, and should be treated to the best of our abilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 11:39 AM
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I have given it some thought, used wisdom driven by age and experience and observation, and I conclude the following. No. Women that are running through "the list" in their teens and twenties don't end up with the "nice guys". Nice Guy being defined as the nice but boring guy that has his own house, his own car, money in the bank, and at least a modicum of disposable income. "The List" being defined as a series of romantic liaisons or relationships with men that qualify as one of the following, …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 03:41 AM
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you as in the person that wants the people that don't want them and rejects the people that would like to spend time with them. Look at it this way, I had a huge crush on the singer Jewel back in the 90s. I even think I bought all of her albums, and she really is only a few years older than me. Is it really realistic to expect she even knew I existed, much less would have considered me as a potential partner. No, and not bloody likely. That cute girl (in the 90s) that plays guitar and likes to s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/20 03:10 AM
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What it means is that you haven't ever emotionally matured. Damn near every girl starts out pining for the hot jock at her school, the lead singer, or the hot at the moment actor. Most of them never get near that guy. Many of the ones that do get with him, end up disappointed when they realize that they were just a momentary thing for him. Perhaps he settles down with one once he has had his fun, which mostly won't be for a long while. It's the somewhat the same for guys. Eventually, we all sett…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/20 11:07 AM
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Plenty of these women will, on line, specify a man around their age. More than a few will try to hold tight to that. It isn't entirely nuts, they want someone to grow old with. The problem they have is that once they hit their late twenties, if they haven't settled down, they are used to being hit on all the time, having their choice of guys (and choosing guys that will never settle down with them) and their choices start to deplete. Some time after they are thirty, there are three groups of guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 11:42 AM
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No. It's a fairly easy connection to make. She thinks she is some sort of "cowgirl" (Yeah right, that's a complete fantasy.) She demands people know who "LF" is. Thanks to the movie "8 Seconds" about him, he enjoys a popularity in death that he never quite had in life. Incidentally, he had been dead for 15 or more years before she was born.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/06/20 03:18 AM
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That guy may pay some taxes, but not enough to offset the state's costs. That works out for about a generation until the baby shortage becomes a young taxpaying adult shortage. He may have his own motivations, but they might include retiring in his 40s, ending the net payment in.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 12:25 PM
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Probably this guy. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lane_Frost
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/20 10:51 AM
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I could see that being what she really wants. My sister probably would have said the same thing, but what she wanted was an easily malleable puppy dog that just wanted to be loved. She chased off a couple of solid guys because they weren't willing to go out on the oil rigs on the basis they already had good jobs that didn't involve living on an industrial bomb for two or three months at a time. Then she married a guy that had abandoned by his dad, his mom ran off to the bar every night starting …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/20 10:49 AM
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Look, I don't know these lawyers, but I'll sum up to you what I lost and continue to lose to my ex. I would rather have my kids half the time, but she continues to use any and all legal strategies to block that, as any such arrangement would result in her paying me child support. As it is, I am forced to pay for the privilege of not raising my own kids. I'm welcome to raise someone else's just not my own, figure that out. We had a house with a value of about $250K. She got that, with about $150K…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 08:39 AM
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First, You have been married 8 years, you didn't state how old the twins were, but given what you mention, I assume they are infants. If she was sexual before the twins were born, it is possible that she has a lingering form of post partum depression that needs to be addressed. A loss of interest in sec. She had become more social, and is now introverted. She stopped going to church, an activity she presumably enjoyed and was important to her. She has "lost faith". She must be actively avoiding …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/20 09:19 AM
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It doesn't matter, not really. For the most part, I don't think any woman was ever with me because of my looks. I mean, mean and Lyle Lovett have a bit in common, and it isn't the fame from being a good singer or great on guitar. If she is with me, it's usually for one or two reasons, either she thinks I'm funny, or she thinks I have some money to treat her in a way that most of the local guys can't. I like to think she is right on the first part, and I know the second part is more or less usual…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 03:09 PM
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I'm an old RF Engineer. A noise floor in terms of what I my train of thought is the level of "noise" from other sources of radio transmission at a certain frequency band in an area. Mostly, if the level of my signal is, for any reason, at or below the noise floor then the intended receiver(s) of my signal will not be able to receive a copy. In terms of a dating site, it doesn't matter how "on point" my pictures or my message are. It doesn't matter that I am not being deliberately vulgar. She is …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 01:08 PM
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Yes. I made a profile as a woman, partly to understand if there were things I was doing wrong. I made the description as "generic woman" profile as you can get and "borrowed" some photos from a reasonably attractive woman 500 miles away. I never did anything with it other than look at my messages. I was met with a deluge of threats "that they knew me" when it simply wasn't possible, called all sorts of derogatory names, had immediate offers of sex of all sorts, and even offers of payment for sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 07:25 PM
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"Sex Robots" meaning a manufactured piece of robotics that can vaguely move, vocalize, and resemble the object of a particular human's desire? It won't be just men, and I doubt even mainly men, as the primary current purveyors of sex toys is mostly women. A manufactured companion being with at least Advanced Automated Intelligence that is able to do things like keep the house, provide 24-hour care to the incapacitated, cook meals, provide a pleasant atmosphere and conversation, and possibly prov…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 07:55 PM
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Why is she on a hook up site if she isn't looking for a hook up?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/20 04:19 AM
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Seeing as I tried, from very early on, to stop what damage could be stopped, and mitigate the rest, I am quite confused about why I would be having a revenge fantasy. My efforts fell upon deaf ears of an unduly panicked population. The coming years of economic privation are something that I expect to effect us all profoundly. When the final books are written by future historians, they will conclude that much of it was unnecessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 08:37 AM
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First wave feminism vanished in the face of the Great Depression, and where do you think we are headed, and did not re-emerge until the mid to late 1960s as Second Wave Feminism, that is more than a generation no matter how you cut it. Feminism is about to crash head long into an economic reality that most feminists only too happily have sought to facilitate. As a movement and ideology, it will disappear into the vortex of oncoming history to emerge, maybe, in the mid-2050s. Even then it will be…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 08:15 AM
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Feminism is about to vanish for another generation. When everything is opened back up, the breadth and width of the unimaginable economic damage we have done becomes apparent, most people are going to be shocked. Jobs aren't going to be returning quickly, if at all. Jobs where the person produced nothing other than to shift paper or electrons around are gone for the foreseeable future. That means a lot of those comfortable air-conditioned and high paying office jobs that women liked to work, are…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:35 AM
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Then you control the factors that you can control and you work to bring factors that are important to your success under your control. If a factor is out of your control and not important, then why are you worrying about it? I came from nowhere, a poor town in the poorest county in the state. I had to go in the Army because that was the only way I could afford higher level education. The first twenty years of my adult life were destroyed by my ex-wife. I rebuilt. Now, it's starting to look like …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:06 AM
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You would be surprised how cheaply and easily that could be done. Los Angeles recently put up some housing that was intended for the poor. It cost the city over $700K per unit. I could set up spaces for the homeless that would provide shelter and security for less than $15K/unit. People who have tried to help have been repeatedly attacked by the leftist city government.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 03:53 AM
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No, it's framed that way. A better way of stating it is that given that every community in the US of any size has at least a community college and probably a trade school of some sort nearby, and the fact that college is offered online now, rather than continue to whine about a situation that is ultimately well within your control, do something about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 03:48 AM
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I lost twenty years of my life in divorce court. She kept the house, the kids, and all of the assets. I had a 10 year old truck, $20, and a bunch of cards that were either deactivated or dead accounts. Then I had to fight like a demon to get time with my kids and it wasn't so much I won a damned thing as she realized I was willing to financially ruin her to get time with them. I will not ever marry again.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 03:51 AM
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Do You know who coined the phrase, "If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best!"? It was Marilyn Monroe. Do you know who couldn't handle Marilyn Monroe at her worst? Marilyn Monroe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 08:37 PM
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No, you understand perfectly. You have called me a liar, when I offered proof that I am not. You call me a murderer because I understand the situation in a way that you do not. We are done.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 11:00 PM
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You are willing to lock people inside their homes, destroy their businesses, force an unknown people into bankruptcy, and another huge group into years of a grinding poverty not seen since the 1800s in the US to stop a virus. Making this even better, you don't really have a shred of proof that any of this will work, and you have the unbridled nerve to call me murderous? You know what you are? A tyrant. Not only a tyrant, but the worst kind. You are convinced that you are committing these acts, o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 10:54 PM
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The bottom line is simply this, no matter what decision we make people will undoubtedly die. With that in mind, who dies and how many years are we going to end up taking from those that die. I am not willing to trade one person's 30 or 40 years for another person's 5 or 6. At this point, it's a simple matter of calculus. Another question, where are all the heart attacks and strokes? Mathematically, we know they are happening and people aren't seeking emergency treatment, or are they another grou…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 09:48 PM
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The flu also usually kills more Americans than the Vietnam War, that's an average year. It isn't a particularly high bar to clear. People are dying because of the virus, as I still have not lied. There are seven states that do not have a statewide lockdown. When all factors are controlled for, these states are in no worse of a situation than states with a lockdown. We did not know whether or not a lockdown would have any effect at all. Increasingly, the answer is no, they have either no effect o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 07:40 AM
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Either everyone will be exposed to this virus in the next two years or the economic collapse as a result of staying home will lead to things far more awful than this virus. L.A. Studies https://www.vox.com/2020/4/24/21229415/coronavirus-antibody-testing-covid-19-california-survey Italian hospitals overwhelmed in 2018 https://www.thelocal.it/20180119/italy-worst-flu-season-in-14-years Coming food shortages https://www.cnn.com/2020/04/28/business/meat-shortages-grocery-stores-coronavirus/index.htm…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 10:55 AM
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I am not lying about anything. I just checked for "how many spring breakers died from Corona Virus". I do not doubt that someone died, just that I can't find them. In fact, it seems that most of them had either predictably no symptoms or only mild symptoms. I take it you are aware that this isn't the 1980s and HIV, right? With the CCP virus, we started with highly incomplete data sets. As data has become available, we know that this virus can be dangerous to those with other issues such as heart…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 10:35 AM
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The total will be somewhere around 82,000. Individually, that's a tragedy, but not a justification for what we have done. You otherwise paid literally no attention to anything else that I wrote. On average, this year 647,000 Americans will die of heart/coronary disease. How much damage should we cause to stop that? The quarantines do not seem to have effected the flattening of the curve. Most of the problem is in New York City and state, it is at least partly attributable to some jaw dropping po…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:18 AM
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No, the truth is going to come out. Corona Virus is the paper tiger it always looked like. We have enough data now to extrapolate that there are probably 4.7 million people in California alone that have been exposed to the virus. Most were completely unaware of it. About 20% develop some symptoms, and 80% of them will not require any form of hospitalization. Of the people that require a ventilator, 4 out of 5 have comorbidities. If you know anything about ventilators, you also know that by the t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 03:01 PM
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A problem with your link is that it seems to be accounting for marriage, which is increasingly an upper-middle to upper class luxury. The people I am commenting on are nowhere near those classes. For the women, it would interfere in what benefits they get, especially in terms of things like child care support from the government. For the men, it would leave them actually responsible, and the last thing this class of men want is to be responsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 09:43 AM
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Nope, to be fair, I'm equally critical of white men being wastrels as well. I just saw more of it going the other way when I was around a certain class of women that also happened to be mostly white. At the same time, I saw black women behave wretchedly towards black men that seemed good, and then put up with someone just like the one I described. As far as the education goes, that would point out yet another problem that has been commented on previously about educated black women not being able…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 08:18 AM
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I don't know, as others have said, here in the states it seems like there are more BM/WF relationships than the other way around. I used to see plenty of white women dating profiles that either specify they would only date black men or only date white men. It's kind of ridiculous, given the incarceration rates among American black men, any black man that has his act together, and I'm not talking a sports athlete, would have his choice among black women, more than a few actually have some qualiti…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 04:05 AM
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Not at all. It simply isn't possible to be every one's cup of tea. It probably isn't possible to be most people's cup of tea. I may be fairly direct to a woman I am interested in having relations with, but if she doesn't want it, good enough, I have plenty of other things to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 10:01 AM
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In antebellum years, the laws in the slave states were set up so that women that married might lose all of their property that they brought to the marriage, but the laws were very clear that any slaves they brought to the marriage remained their property during the marriage and after divorce. There are repeated stories of a less well off southern man wooing a woman who had used her slaves, often as surrogates for breastfeeding, to set herself, and often her slaves up very well all things conside…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 02:15 PM
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You go not that far back and most everyone looked.....homely, to say the least. Makeup wasn't something that was widely available. There wasn't an ever evolving list of brands or haircuts or styles that were in style. Maybe someone had a bit of a genetic advantage in the looks department, but in general it wasn't so much. There has always been young women with more spirit than good sense. Knowing that her mistake could leave a family with another mouth to feed usually led to her family marrying …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 08:20 AM
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Henry Lee did nothing wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 08:18 AM
4

More like which is the rain and which is the grass?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 08:17 PM
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Hoo, boy, let me take this apart, at least as much as I actually care to. You long for the good ole days of coming home to a home cook meal from your bang maid wife. Well, if she doesn't have a job outside the house, her job is making sure the homefront is taken care of. Logically, that would include things like having a meal ready. That doesn't even preclude her having other interests. The house was always clean, your laundry was done, the kids were taken care of; your only job was to work and …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 08:12 PM
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I don't even like the concept of "gender roles" per say. Back when we lived on farms, men may have generally handled a lot of the really physically grueling parts of the work, but the simple fact is that women often worked alongside the men during harvest season just to get all of the necessary work done. Women may have tended a lot of the household chores, but men needed to know how to take care of the house as well. The reason the contract for men will never change is that at the end of the da…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 08:38 AM
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Someone once calculated what the cost of men walking away from their jobs and going fishing for three days would be. The best estimate is that the resulting ecological disaster would take well over a year to clean up. The only thing that might change it is automation of most male oriented industries to the point that a large portion of men are simply idled. That may be fine enough, if we prepare culturally for that situation, but we won't. Most women simply won't date a guy that has no job, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 06:21 AM
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You are right but for the wrong reason. Men are expected to provide for their clan, fight for their country, and more or less work as long as their body and mind will allow for it. Now their have been some changes, and the changes are reactions to the women's liberation/feminist movements. Now, every young man out there knows that most women will hook up for sex, and that birth control is cheap and easy, so there is no incentive to invest in things like marriage or long term relationships, and e…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 06:04 AM
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I'm not sure, it depends on how bad things really get. This didn't apply in the old Progressive Eastern European countries or Russia when there economy went off the rails. In fact, what happened is that the women became very conscious of their appearance and their ability to attract "the right kind of man". The right kind of man could be almost whatever abusive kind of asshole he wanted as long as he gave her support.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 05:55 AM
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> When I was a stupid teenager I thought it was a sign of how mature I was than a man 10 yrs older than me wanted to be my boyfriend. I don't talk much about it now because it isn't something I'm proud of. He exploited the difference in age/maturity. It was not a healthy relationship. Yeah, there is normal, and then there is creepy. a 25 year old messing with a 15 year old isn't cool. A 30 year old and a 20 year old is legal, an in my opinion, fair game. > The reason men seek women 10+ yrs young…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 05:51 AM
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If he is 25, then yes. If he is 35 and in good physical and financial health, then no.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 05:39 AM
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It isn't about punishment. As I said, with most things it isn't one of those. Rather than nagging someone about the light fixture, just replace it yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:21 PM
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Look, why, ultimately, is someone nagging? It's because something is important to them that is not important to the party they are nagging. The person that "feels they are at there wit's end" because "they just keep asking and the other person won't do the thing that is asked" has to decide what they are going to do about it. S/He keeps leaving his underwear in the bathroom instead of getting it to the hamper? Clothes that don't make it to the hamper don't get washed. S/He won't take care of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 08:11 PM
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So, she's a stripper and she is done with the craziness? LOL! Yeah...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/20 10:10 PM
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Nope. It's grounds to end a romantic relationship, as it should be, but otherwise, no. Most relationships we have, including some of the most important, don't end in us seeing each other naked, nor should it. So, given that, sexual disinterest is of little meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 05:49 AM
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My generalizations are also just generalizations. Not everyone has all of the above problems, and quite frankly if you have been stomping around this mud ball for 30 years, you have issues of some sort. Mine is that I am done with things that I know are nonsense from the start. I have maybe 8 more years and for the first time in my life, it will truly belong to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 03:20 AM
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Yeah, she changed a lot in those 10 years. At 20, she still had an attractive body. At 30, years of hard partying had added 20-30 or more pounds, and now she has a curve instead of curves. At 20, she didn't have much exposure to STDs. At 30, she has been exposed. At 20, she doesn't have any kids. At 30, her and the kids are what she calls a "package deal". At 20, she is still optimistic and happy. At 30, the years of partying, being passed around the hot guys, the kids, and perhaps an abortion o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 04:37 PM
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What they need to learn should have been learned from their dad. At the start of the 20th century, they would have been helping dad out on the farm from about the time they could walk. By the 1940s, dad would have been showing his son things like how to work on the family car, and many important lessons would have been learned there. Many teachers, especially secondary and post-secondary were also men. By the 1980s, with no-fault divorce and the planned collapse of the nuclear family, dad was no…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 04:34 AM
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Don't compare yourself to someone else, especially someone with a different set of genetics than you. Be the best version of yourself. Be more muscular and less chubby.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/20 08:02 AM
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If you don't vastly adjust course, the only thing her libido is going to do from here is go down. Your libido is not too high. The path you are on will lead to nothing but resentment on your part as days of no sex turn in to weeks, months, and years. You will hear it all. "I'm just tired tonight" "I feel dirty" "I'm on my period" "It just feels like another chore" "It feels like someone else just using my body" "Why do you want to touch me" "Stop touching me" Is it still worth it? Will it still …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/20 08:00 AM
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I don't know if it's that or an unknowing damning indictment of their own behavior in their marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 03:05 AM
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In the world I would have chosen for myself, I wouldn't really know about reddit, or it's various sub-forums, or about most of these "dating" sites. I would have been happily married these last six or seven years, and happily planning out my early retirement. Neither fate nor my ex-wife intended that for me. I don't know how old you are, but I washed up at 36 years old in a new city where I knew a total of one person who also isn't from that city. Making friends at 36 is hard. I have work or I h…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 09:12 AM
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No, being oblivious is the real danger. Some dude wants to take care of a woman that ignored him until the "hot guys" started ignoring her and take care of her fornications trophies, not all of whom are the type she takes cute pictures of, that's his business, all of it, as long as he clearly understands what he is getting into wand what chances he is taking, to get at best, her second or third rate efforts. To me, oblivious is just as dangerous if she still possesses her youth but is willing to…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 05:32 PM
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First, Nevada is a long way off for most men in the US, and their rates, from what I could figure out, would be unreasonably high anywhere else. Second, most men want sex, but they also want enthusiastic sex, and we know that some woman we just paid for it may act enthusiastic but probably really isn't. Third, most guys would prefer monogamy or something similar, at least serially, if nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 07:39 PM
2

Applebee's? Seriously, I am not dropping that on a first date. Coffee or a drink depending on time of day and that's it, and not some expensive assed Starbuck's crap either.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/20 11:20 AM
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Several reasons. First, there is no lower tiers of professional American football, as it differs from association football. Second, all of the NFL teams are actually franchises in terms of legal setup under the overall corporation of NFL, inc, so relegation would be similar to McDonald's kicking out a franchise store. Third is the simple money terms involved. The NFL and it's teams, at least every few years convince some city to mortgage it's future and ignore it's obligations to it's citizens t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/20 08:09 PM
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If the NFL were anything like the British Premier League, the Browns would be a team that had relegated after two seasons, so around 2000 and never heard from again. Since they were resurrected, the original franchise is the Baltimore Ravens, they have set records for futility. Horrible coaching decisions, terrible front office, drafting quarterback after quarterback without providing a line for him (they have destroyed multiple promising quarterbacks) or failing to adjust their schemes into wha…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/20 05:47 PM
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I wanted sex three times a week. Craved it, needed it, whatever you want to call it. I endured for two years of not only no sex, but absolutely no physical contact with my ex-wife. She "wasn't in the mood", "it was that time of the month" when her periods were irregular and we both know that wasn't a cause to not have sex, later it was "sex is just another chore" or "I don't want someone else touching my body", to finally "I don't care if I have sex ever again". It ended up causing me deep depre…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 04:45 AM
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I was brought up in Baptist and Pentecostal churches. I was certainly told things along the lines of girls being special, and having to treat them special. I was told to just be myself and the right one would come along. You know what that led to? Me following along girls that I liked like some dumb little puppy wanting attention. I was used and abused by women to get things they wanted. I went through a hellish marriage. In the detritus that remained of my life I looked back and realized that w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 09:46 AM
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You wrote volumes where I wrote a sentence. Most men want the love and approval or women, or at least a woman. A fair part of the love and approval means sex. As I said, reward the behavior of players, and you will certainly get more players. Pick Up Artists spread from the early 2000s in part because what they were doing worked, whether you like it or not. In some segments of society, women knowingly choose the most violent and brutal man that will have anything to do with them, fully knowing t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 04:48 PM
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You want fair? Women have the right to vote without registering for the draft. You want "Your body is not yours" try instead, "We have the right to send you into any meat grinder we want at any time and if you don't, you go to jail." What women are essentially being told is that they have something that men want, and by rewarding behaviors that they reward today, they are creating weak, inferior men, that are in turn serving to turn society vulgar because young desirable women seem to react so p…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 12:27 PM
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I have been told by more than one woman, both in the positive and in the negative that she knew within a minute whether or not her and I would ever have sex. Okay, so, fair enough. Why would I waste time with a woman I am never going to have sex with, regarding I wanted to have sex with her? I am not going to waste time and money on dates to figure out her answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 03:44 AM
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They want girls with low "n-counts" to consider possible marriage. They don't really care about it if it's one they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 03:40 AM
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Yes. Hell, my woman friends that are overweight (not grossly obese) get hit on fairly regularly. One of them, a fairly smart woman, says that more than a few want sex, but very few are willing to have a relationship. It's kinda sad, really, there are a lot of guys that pass her up that she would make a good partner with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 05:39 AM
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It seems that to a number of women, their ideal man is smart enough to be useful and dumb enough to be used.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 03:25 AM
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No, no one in my family knows. That includes my ex-wife, my kids, my parents, or my sister. Two or three of my friends that knew how miserable my private life was knew of my affair in Italy. They told me it was as happy as they had ever seen me. My friend on the other hand, a couple of people suspected but no one other than us knew. After the affairs, the stress of work and a miserable home life compounded and I started having mental breakdowns. I would literally sit in my car and cry because I …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 03:15 AM
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What does he have to feel bitter about? I didn't get the chance to have the college experience. That said, I have had women that rejected me in high school that pursued me in my late 30s. By the time I was rebuilding my life, they showed up. That girl that I thought was cute in 11th grade? She now has 3 kids by three different men that are all in an out of jail and their lives, she is pushing 250 lbs., her oldest daughter is 17 and pregnant, the father already skipped town, and she is her "mom's…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 10:54 AM
1

My ex-wife and I had not had any physical contact, and I mean any, not even kissing, for close to two years before those happened. I asked her what was wrong, pleaded for physical contact, begged for it, and finally, miserably just gave up. In the face of that, all she ever did was grow ever more critical, hostile, and abusive. I slept on the couch. I thought that maybe when my son graduated high school that I could leave after that. I just started making every excuse I could not to have me or m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 03:55 AM
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I don't ask, and I don't care. All I ask is that she is disease free. Beyond that, I don't want a serious relationship. I don't know where they got the idea of 50/50 in a divorce. I lost everything, it will take me the rest of my life to rebuild, and I won't risk it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 10:34 AM
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I'm in my 40s. I can tell you that going into marriage at 21, my n-count was 3, and that did not include my wife. When I was divorced, 16 years later, my n-count was 6, including my wife. After I somewhat healed from a very tramautizing divorce and learned the new ropes and got in shape, my n-count took off over a three year period. I tried to figure it out the other day, and I can't. I can honestly only say it's probably more than 30 at this point, but I can't really remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 09:16 AM
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What the hell does she expect? There are only really two groups of guys left by that point. The first group is the guys that were never married and never had kids and by this point see the bullshit all their married and divorced family and friends have to put up with and they noped right out of the idea of marriage a long time ago. The second group, the one I am in, are the ones that raked over the coals in a divorce, lost everything, including their kids, and were forced to pay any free income …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/20 03:25 AM
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And you do not have a fault for that. I had to come a very long way to get where I am now. Losing everything to nothing more than capricious whims has a way of educating a man. He either dies from it, or he learns from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 03:10 AM
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Think of it as advertising. She is out there belly aching about me, when it is known that I am not interested in things like monogamy or marriage. Her complaints really translated into "he was so good that while he bedded me, he was bedding other women." The same way that women will want that purse or shoes another woman has, they will want a man that other women are clearly desiring. It took me a long time to learn that. I have a logic driven brain and it didn't make any sense to me, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 07:51 PM
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I don't do committed relationships. If she is with me, she understands clearly that I am not interested in long term monogamy. From that point, it's up to her decide how hurt she is if I sleep with another woman after repeatedly warning her. Either way, not my problem and it won't end the way she wants if she tries making it my problem. By the way, the last woman that decided that I am a lying cheating asshole may as well have delivered three of her friends to my door. Women want what other wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 07:45 PM
1

I don't. However, I am very good at math and I can usually make course corrections on projects before most people even perceive a problem. I don't need to know what a particular woman wants to gauge what most women will want, if not now, then eventually. I can also gauge what she has to offer now and what she will have to offer later, given past experience. Most women would be far better off taking a good deal now than they are waiting for a great deal that statistically just won't be coming. Me…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 12:43 PM
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No, because imbalances can not ultimately remain as they are. Women may want the top tier guy, but most of them are statistically not going to end up with him. Right now, because women can go on any online dating app and be deluged by possible suitors, they have an unrealistic expectation about their ability to actually land the top tier guy. Just as men wised up to how dangerous marriage is, men will realize there is little pay off to playing the online dating game. When that happens women will…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 11:36 AM
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> Men, how do you feel about marriage? I was married for 16 years. I would not do it again. I would not recommend to another guy to get married. The bedroom was dead. We had a king size bed and she squeezed literally as far over on it as she could. I was berated daily, and if she couldn't find something I had done, then it would be something I hadn't done. All the while, she was told she was lucky she had a guy like me. Marriage was hell. > If we were back in 1950s society would you be more incl…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 07:34 AM
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Nope. What he does is his business. The same as me and the same as her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 08:42 AM
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Men will continue to take hard, dirty, and dangerous jobs. Men will continue to work long hours. Women will continue to not want those jobs. The "pay gap" willl continue. There are a lot of jobs that can't be automated.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 05:58 AM
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I pushed myself through to a Bachelor's Degree, then realized that the stupid thing isn't really all that useful to me. The seven industry certifications that I have, and the education they represent, are what make me my money. I'm glad I wasn't dumb enough to go into massive amounts of debt for that B.S. (literally it turned out) degree. I wonder if the woman above could get a motor pump working on an oil rig. I know guys that didn't finish high school but can fix just about anything mechanical…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/20 04:20 AM
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One of the dumbest damn things you can do is identify yourself by your work. I am glad to tell you why. Do you work for someone else? Perhaps, a large faceless corporation where you haven't ever met the CEO and likely never will? That person would happily lay you off tomorrow, over lunch, never miss a bite, and sleep just fine if a spreadsheet somewhere said the company could save $10K by doing so. A smaller company may be better, at least the decision harder on the owner, but at the end of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 11:10 AM
2

I go out into a dog eat dog world every day and, at least figuratively, have to kill what I want to eat, and then fight off competitors that want my kill, regardless that I may share the kill and the spoils with others. That requires me to have a certain mindset and attitude. That same attitude is present in my competitors. It's present in the people that I am able to work with. The last damned thing I want to come home to is a woman that has that attitude because she is having to struggle. Yes,…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 08:12 AM
1

When I was married, my decidedly not traditional wife would have never considered adoption. After my divorce, I was not in any sort of emotional or financial place to adopt. Now, It's a combination of I am not home enough to consider it. I donate to organizations that help with adoptions. If I were to adopt, race would not be something I cared about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 10:28 AM
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Always Frustrated Chump. These are the guys that want to get laid, but can't figure out how. They are the ones that a lot of us comment that, "He couldn't get laid in a Thai whore house if he walked in with $100 bills taped all over his body." His most likely fate? End up married to a aged out carousel rider when he hits about 35 that gave him the one thing he wanted most in the world. Take care of her kids, for some reason, or have one with her, only for her to "get bored" and "need to find her…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/20 09:10 AM
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It's more than that. This is another show of where feminism lied to women, and women listened to the lie. They told women that, despite mountains of evidence to the contrary, men want the same things as them. They convinced women that having many sex partners, to find themselves and what they like, would be something men would want. So women went out, got degrees, got careers, had sex with any man they found attractive, and then turned about 35. Oddly enough, around 35 is the same age the big he…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre09/02/20 08:14 AM
1

I had no idea before. I had never met her family before we were three days from being married, and I wouldn't have married her based on her family. I don't know if I was love bombed or she just hated that I didn't die in the military like her aunt's first husband. It was always there after we married. It was far worse after the second was born.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 05:17 AM
1

It's a long story. Most of it, I have written about here and there. I had a demanding job that took long hours, and unfortunately didn't pay what it should have. It wasn't at all odd for me to wake up at 5 AM, have the kids to daycare when it opened at 6, at work at 7, rarely ever took a lunch, off at 4, pick up the kids, try to cook dinner, spend time with the kids and clean the house, and put the kids in bed by 8:30 or 9:00. Then, I would log onto my computer and take care of the work I didn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 11:18 PM
2

Apparently fairly common. In any fair court, I would have had little problem proving that I, as the father, was the primary parent. I was the one that changed most of the diapers, took them to daycare or school, picked them up from daycare or school, took them to their practices, packed their lunches, helped with the homework and did most of the interacting with my kids. I cleaned the house pretty much every week. I was never even allowed to present that case, fuck the family court system. My ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 03:10 PM
4

February 14 is coming. You know, that special day. That day when a man looks deeply into his partners eyes and thinks, "How much money do I have to spend to keep her from acting like a cunt this time?"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 03:33 AM
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This isn't a new problem. There was a disparity between men and women in church that dates back to the 1700s. Even then, women, and the male pastors were wondering how to get men in the building. In the 1800s, many preachers and priests were known for consorting more with women than men and adopting female mannerisms. A huge part of the problem the church has it that, simply put, you sell to your existing customers. If it's women, then that means you aren't going to talk sing militant songs like…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/01/20 10:28 AM
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I don't agree with that. A woman defining herself as an biological incubator, and only that is missing great parts of being human and being a woman. Historically a significant percentage of women will not, for whatever reason, be able to produce offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 09:29 AM
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In what way? Given the laws, given the likelihood of failure in terms of marriage, it seems only logical to have a no co-habitation and no marriage rule. I ended up on the wrong side of these laws, I never threatened anyone. I lost everything, not because I was an abusive asshole, simply because she wasn't happy. It took me six months to even see my children. No one will ever do that to me again.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 09:27 AM
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Because the gig is up. Feminists did the one thing that women could not allow. Then the internet spread the information far and wide. They put out in the open just how much of a sham relationships are. All in all, why do the relationship thing. The newness will wear off in at best a couple of years. Then the sex will dry up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 09:17 AM
1

In all of recorded human history, there is only one recorded instance of virgin birth. Women can create exactly nothing without men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 08:51 AM
1

The Red Pill, as I understand it, is nothing more than looking at things as they rationally are, not what I emotionally wish them to be. I also teach her the philosophy that I have followed most of my life. She realizes that most boys her age are "thinking with their dick" and she hard sorts. She rarely dates. She tells all of them she is focused on her grades. She broke up with her last boyfriend after she found out how big of a loser he was. She also shares the messages that some of these guys…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 10:25 AM
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The wage gap isn't gone. It's inverted depending on where you look. The problem, for women, is that they do not usually date down in terms of perceived job prestige or pay. They are slightly more likely to date when they perceive even, but they really want to date "up" in terms of income and prestige. So, in essence, in pursuing high education, prestigious careers, and being career and goal oriented, they became their own ideal mate. There aren't that many $100K+ jobs out there so there aren't t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 10:13 AM
5

What exactly would you be slaughtered for? Having a life experience? Having hung around some girl that caught your eye for far longer than was healthy for you? For having human emotions? It seems like you have mostly gotten yourself together since then.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/19 11:30 AM
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If he is truly single and has the kids and they aren't old enough to exercise with him, then I feel for him. Mine have been exercising with me for years, now. My son just started lifting with me. Once he can figure out how to get in shape and stay in shape, the world is his oyster.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/19 02:30 AM
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Most of the single divorcee 50 year old women I meet around here are welcome to whatever they can get. It won't be from me, but they are nonetheless welcome to it. I also said only that they (above the age of 18) aren't protected, which is true. It doesn't follow that I am hanging out like the Fonz or something. Better things to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 08:49 PM
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Maybe she went on a hike on Wednesday and the young man went on a hike on a Thursday. As it is, you already hit on part of it. There is no guarantee. The fellow 23 year old could die from some complication in a year, the 43 year old may keep his good health into his 80s. I tried things the way you say I should try them. My ex-wife was actually about a year and a half older than me. Now, I rarely date anyone within 8 years of my age. I enjoy the company of younger women much more than I do women …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 08:42 PM
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Operation Petticoat, Lt Cmdr Matt T. Sherman (Cary Grant): When a girl is under 21 she's protected by law When she's over 65 she's protected by nature Anywhere in between she's fair game Look out. http://www.carygrant.net/wavs/operation.html One of the great comedies from the silver age of Hollywood.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 05:18 PM
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LOL! Man, I must have met some pretty messed up normal girls then. Look, if she is under 18, she is protected by law. If she is over 50, usually, she is protected by nature. Everything in between is fair game. Let's say a 23 year old is into hiking, kayaking, and photography and she happens to meet a 43 year old that's in shape and has a passion for those things as well. If they are interested in each other, why couldn't a relationship develop? Age is mostly just a number.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 04:43 PM
2

That was the entire point of the "Great Society" programs though. Hopelessly addict as much of the population as possible to welfare benefits. It isn't just that one thing that would have to change, and I would applaud them if they would change it so that a married woman can get prenatal benefits. Unfortunately, a lot of the poor women that I have been around fail to do things like take prenatal vitamins or seek prenatal care even when I have pointed out to them the steps they need to be taking.…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 06:13 AM
2

I can't really answer what it's like to lose a spouse after 30 years, only that I know it must be the most emotionally painful and heartbreaking thing that one can endure. I have, however, seen it go one of a few ways. The surviving spouse grieves themselves to death. The surviving spouse, unburdened, usually after a long illness, grieves, but also sets out to do the things that they could not as they cared for the other spouse. The surviving spouse finds some comfort with the care and friendshi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/19 05:47 AM
2

It's just a sign of an increasingly atomized society. It will lead to further social breakdown. Children born into it will have further developmental and social problems as their single parent is busy with work and trying to have a romantic connection. This means the glowing box will continue to be a babysitter even more. As society currently stands it will not be addressed. Any effort on the part of the government to encourage marriage and child rearing will be shouted down by the leftist horde…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 05:18 AM
2

So a couple of old folks found comfort in each other after, I guess, both of their partners were gone. So what? Why begrudge them that? I saw the same thing in my ex-wife's family after her grandmother died. They outright hated the woman that her grandfather spent time with. It wasn't like they were looking to start up a new family or something.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/19 04:24 AM
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Why would you not believe your parents when you do not have any other source of data? They were always images of the perfect, a fantasy, and that is true for both the princesses and the princes. Look at real pictures from the time the movies were made, most people were rather homely in dress and appearance. They understood it was fantasy. You mean Johnny pull Sally's pig tail in class, then Sally slugs little Johnny on the playground. Yes, that is how little kids get each other to notice them. N…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 05:16 AM
1

I had an affair while I was married. My wife and I had not had sex in over a year prior to that affair, so I will leave it to you if I cheated or not. I was not and am not proud of it, nor was it planned. It did cause me to make more effort, ultimately fruitless, in my marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 04:42 AM
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A lot of things. Avalanches gather material as they move down hill. Viable Birth Control pills made it so that women could prevent pregnancy. Lack of responsibility encouraged by the 1960s hippies, LBJs war on poverty that began rewarding women for having fatherless children. Easing of divorce laws in the 1970s and subsequent regiment of high child support and alimony payments. An increasing situation where all the adults had to work outside the home, no one was paying attention to who little Ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 12:56 PM
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No, certainly all men did not have a wife and family. Let's put a pin in that, though, because mortality from accidents for young men and boys was also much higher. As late as the 1950s most people did not leave about a 25 mile radius of where they grew up. Most of America consisted of small towns. Most Americans were religious and attended church every Sunday. This meant that most everyone you were going to meet either knew you or knew of you, and your reputation, and your family's, was extreme…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 11:21 AM
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We have forklifts now. I haven't ever seen a fork lift fit down a sewer drain. And it turns out that girls are also good at math and science, if you allow them. No one ever really denied them, and there are more boys that are going to be genius than girls, statistical distributions show this. If you want to talk violence, anyone can pull a trigger or fly a drone. Ha, there is far more to war, which I guess is what you are aiming at, than just pulling a trigger. When it comes to "Oh, we can fly a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 09:45 AM
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That is just the militant feminist troll crowd. Their input isn't really relevant and can safely be ignored. The real problem is that they (the South Korean women) are pushed in every direction at this point by their government, and to tell the truth that government bounces on the strings of it's globalist masters just like almost all the rest. If they were instead told, we need women to be good wives and mothers and we will reward you for it, but if you want to achieve highly in work life, we w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 08:17 AM
1

Who told you to try most of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 08:00 AM
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Men were still doing the infrastructure and construction. Women were used in manufacturing. autocad doesn't build anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 08:00 AM
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One of the biggest issues is this. The above is not a logical sentence. This is why they're so threatened by them. This what? Is it a magical crystal? An exposed boob? I don't know what "this" is to be threatened by it. So, I guess I am not. They even make posts that educating women was a mistake and talk like guys straight out of the Taliban yet they expect women to like them and want to date them. Ya know, there are women that broke into German POW camps in the US to consort with the German PO…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 03:20 PM
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No there isn't a shortage of men. Feminism lied to women, and has for two generations now, that men and women are exactly alike and want the same things at about the same time. Women looked at themselves and asked what they wanted in a partner instead of asking what their prospective partners wanted. This led to women doing things to max their salaries and buy expensive things. While at the same time, thanks to the clear failure of planned economies, the political left was left with nothing but …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/12/19 12:42 PM
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She has a 1 and a half year old, one in the oven, is going to college, and has free time? How exactly is she managing that? What she really means is that she got knocked up twice now, while living with her parents who are taking care of most of the parenting of the child, soon to be children, that she has. They haven't booted her ass to the curb because they care about their grandchildren. I got to see this story close up. This chick is radioactive. She is an expert at manipulating everyone arou…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/12/19 11:19 AM
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I'm in my 40s. After my divorce, I tried a lot of dating apps. Tinder was just ridiculous, and maybe it's due to low population where I live, but literally the only two "hits" I got was some guy that liked to dress up as a French maid and another guy that was looking for married men that wanted a blowjob from a dude, and that was literally it. I unmatched rather quickly and thought twice about the whole don't bother to look just swipe right approach. I actually had a lot of success with POF, OKC…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 04:54 AM
7

Not only that, but fat white chicks have certainly benefited from certain cultural shifts over the last twenty years or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 04:37 AM
6

Your argument is that a modern Widow Jenson would demand that a neighbor who paid her a kindness continue to provide that kindness. Now, I have known a few young widows, from work accidents, suicides, or military widows. Maybe your experience has been different, but these women have been among the most honest and thankful women that I know. They weren't demanding that people that helped them continue to help, and more than a few help others when they can. While I do not have all the information …
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre02/12/19 06:08 AM
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No, I did not. Even in modern cases where the husband and father dies, his presence lingers. It wasn't that he was a wretch. It isn't that his wife and the children's mother is a wretch. These kids typically show levels of academic achievement and delinquency rates equal to their peers in intact two parent households. Will she receive some government aid in the terms of Social Security Insurance for the children and perhaps other financial aid? Somewhat, yes, but I would also argue that such a c…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre02/12/19 04:20 AM
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Those aren't women. They are more like hyenas. I have no doubt such women exist, but most men can see them a mile out if they don't let themselves get blind.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre02/12/19 03:43 AM
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People used to look out for each other more. Now the government sends a check and no one dares look at their neighbor.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre02/12/19 02:47 AM
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No. Mr. Jensen wasn't ran off. He didn't up over the mountain of his own will. He died. She was a widow. In his case, his spirit would remain in that house as an ever present reminder that their dad was there, trying to provide for them.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre02/12/19 02:39 AM
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Given that my ex would have never been able (allowed) to inflict the abuse and ongoing pain she has inflicted on me, knowing otherwise, I would choose sex. The day, I was going to tell her that I either needed a more active sex life or a divorce was the day I found out she was pregnant. The other option is to be so broken that I can't maintain a relationship without all of the damage from the abuse bubbling out at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 10:27 AM
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I have met more than a few of this type. The clue is that he is a professor in economics. Totally inculcated in that worldview. You would be the only friend he has left if he claimed anything other than white, heterosexual, christian men and their aura of oppression were not the sole evils in the world. When presented with evidence that contradicts this notion, the evidence is automatically rejected, failed, out of hand. I haven't met one that I thought could function outside of that bubble. I l…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 09:02 AM
1

Yes, but a guy that is financially independent and treats you well is going to be selected over a guy that isn't financially independent but treats you well. Understand, I am not talking some guy that has done well or hit a jackpot in life when I say financially independent, just that he has a job that supports him and what he needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 08:42 AM
1

I already have kids. I am within five years or so of having my life almost completely belong to me for the first time in my life. So, the choice is easy for me, the ability to have sex. I love my kids, and there was a time that I wanted more. Now, I don't want to make that kind of investment again.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 08:07 AM
2

Well, let's consider the questions separately. First, What does a man need to do be attractive enough to consistently achieve something close to a harem? Looks help, but he needs to be fit as an absolute must. Maybe not a six pack, but close. He has to have/own his own place, not only that, but it has to be attractive to a large number of women. He needs to have a late model vehicle. He needs to have some decent sense of fashion, whether that's something he knows or he hires out, women notice sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 07:56 AM
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Look, there are always plenty of "low-class" women out there. Women that no man in his right mind has much of anything to do with either. That makes your argument at least somewhat irrelevant. She could have a lot of dis-qualifiers going on, from being obese, to having multiple other men's kids, to having an awful personality, to not being financially independent (including not on state assistance and not relying on income from an ex), there are a lot of factors. You want to be equal? No. You do…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 07:19 AM
1

Her personality. Her just being too aggressive. If they otherwise looked okay. If I physically wasn't attracted to her...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 03:35 PM
1

This didn't happen. But....if it did... This wasn't at work. This wasn't during work hours. She chose to eavesdrop. Men banter, so what.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 12:03 PM
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If you want a longer explanation, I will post it. Yes, my ex-wife outearns me significantly and still does, as far as anyone knows. When we married, the agreement was that I would financially help her get through to her master's degree. In return, she would support me completing at least my Bachelor's degree. I only had an AS in engineering. I upheld my end. Then the marriage went nearly sexless. The only periods of times that she wanted sex is when she wanted kids. It no longer made financial s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 07:19 AM
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Do tell, Why would I not behave as a misogynist dick when most of you, the ones I would have any interest in, anyway, react so positively to me when I am doing so and so utterly negatively when I do not? Egalitarian Marriages? Fuck off with that. What you really did was create a situation where any man foolish enough to marry now has to spend the rest of his life trying to please the ever changing and utterly capricious whims of his wife or face utter financial, emotional, and physical ruin. No,…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 06:35 AM
1

Too many people, men and women, fully mistake lust for love. Lust is those emotions, feelings, and biological chemical reactions to someone we want to be with. It's true that we always feel the way we do about someone due to our image of that person, whether that image is mostly accurate or mostly inaccurate. Love is not an emotion. Love is necessarily a choice, because it requires action. If you truly love yourself, for example, you will make an effort to keep yourself healthy. To love someone …
/r/TheRedPill25/11/19 07:24 AM
4

It isn't MGTOW or Red Pill that poisoned the well. The people trying to destroy our society and remake it in their image are the ones that did that. They merely noticed. MGTOW consists of men that have either been through the wringer or have watched as their male relatives and friends were put through the wringer. By that, I mean they watched as women, women that often claimed to have loved them mere days before, used the the legal system to take literally everything from the man and render even…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 05:15 AM
1

Prostitution does "solve it" for a lot of men. It may feel better to be wanted, but for the one's that only have an itch to scratch every now and then and are otherwise unavailable for relationships, it does fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 01:24 PM
1

There are plenty of girls that aren't necessarily slim that are certainly attractive. I don't care what your thyroid does, especially once medication is right, If you put in work, by that I mean exercise, your body will be forced to burn calories and build muscle, even which muscles can be controlled. After that, diet certainly will help a lot. Cystic Acne and Rosacea can be somewhat controlled. Warts can easily be eliminated. Also, women often wear makeup for the express purpose of covering ble…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 11:28 AM
2

No. I do want the laws to be far more equitable. I want family court either leveled or disbanded. It shouldn't be just everything the woman wants because she "isn't happy". If there is no finding of abuse, addiction, adultery, or abandonment to a higher level of proof than preponderance of the evidence, then custody of any children should be presumed to be 50/50. No child support should be awarded. No alimony should be available. The claimant (plaintiff) does not automatically get possession of …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 11:12 AM
2

You know, I hadn't considered this all that much. Am I a misogynist? According to modern feminists, I suspect the answer is yes. On reddit subs like TwoXchromosomes or thebluepill, definitely. To my many woman friends, some say I am a jerk, but I think few would answer that I am a misogynist. Everything is a negotiation, one way or another. What are her preconditions for sex? She wants a nice body, okay, but she doesn't see all the hours in the gym that costs. A guy that knows how to talk? Okay,…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 11:18 AM
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Or, and more likely, it wouldn't. Teach a guy to spend time building up his wealth, his career/business, and all of that, and what does he find these days? It isn't the young woman who has taken care of herself, it's the woman with 2 or 3 other guy's kids that has a rotten attitude and he "isn't a real man" if he isn't willing to wife up this walking disaster. What does he get if he looks for a "partner" to grow with? These days, a woman that's constantly impatient. A woman that demands he sped …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 11:08 AM
4

Does having a skill and no social status get the bitches? Yes. As I said on TRP a long time ago. You can put in the time learning to talk and dress. You can build up your career all you want. Those are not objectively bad things. However, right now, somewhere in the world there is a guy that shoots up heroin and plays guitar in a local bar band 2 or 3 nights a week getting blowjobs from a woman that's at least an objective 8. If you point out to her what a loser he is, you will get some variatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 08:07 AM
2

Then another possibility is that the relationship has run it's course, as hard as that is to hear. If that's the case, thank her for a wonderful five years, tell her that you sincerely wish it had lasted longer, and take some time to rebuild yourself. Everything that has a beginning has an end.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/19 09:08 AM
1

I am not MGTOW, but I'll try to take this on. Most people have little to no moral compass that they won't compromise in the right situation. There are a few that won't, but you won't lose money betting against human morality without some outside control. I have no idea what you are talking about. They aren't all the same, but most of them are a lot more alike, typical, than any of them would like to admit. Just like each one of us is a special snowflake with our own unique tastes and interests, …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 03:20 AM
1

Believe what you want. When I was a young man, in the 1990s, I wanted the wife, the kids, the dog. I did everything just "the right way". I built myself up, married the girl that should have been my high school girlfriend, and spent the 1990s, 2000s, and early 2010s trying very hard to make her happy so that the home would be happy and the kids would get what they deserved. I drove myself into nervous breakdowns trying to make her happy. You know what, she wasn't ever happy, with the same old re…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 03:08 AM
1

I would have favored a more traditional arrangement. I was in one. She was "unhappy". Though she couldn't identify why she was unhappy. I don't think the arrangement necessarily favored me, but the nuclear family is the bedrock of human society. It has been for thousands of years and seems to have worked overall very well. In the 1960s, we decided we could try unleashing human sexuality then, at least the baby boomers did. They murdered the traditional family to satisfy their own cravings, desir…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 12:33 PM
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We are close in age. Don't forget that there is a man that retired from running marathons at 98, after starting them at age 60. Are there things that we lose with time, absolutely. Like you said, no one is immune to it, but I also think it is much less than we tend to collectively think. You "lost frame" because of events that would effect any normal person, I don't think it's that as much as you think. Hell, the girls I date now think I am a stone because I either don't react or laugh at what I…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/19 12:19 PM
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It isn't that this relationship is irreparable, you aren't asking some important questions. First, what is it that you really want? Do you want to be with her? If so, do you want to be with her in northern Europe, or would you, perhaps both, be happier in Italy? Where do you want to be if you are not with her? The Red Pill should demand honesty of you. Why aren't you having this conversation with her? Why aren't you telling her that you happily gave up every other woman after you met her? Why ar…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/19 12:11 PM
1

Oh, I'll blame the ones that deserve it. The dirtbags that were gone before the baby was born, barely know it's name, and don't really remember it's birthday. The dirtbags who the mom had to kick out because his drug habits were becoming a clear environmental danger to the children. The dirtbags that have no honor or loyalty and were busy bringing home new social disease's to play with instead of even trying to be a husband or father. The dirtbag that was using his fists to "keep his woman and k…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 05:32 AM
4

She isn't done. Any man that takes this seriously will find a web of bullshit and lies and end up entangled if he isn't careful.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/10/19 06:23 AM
3

Probably lives with a mom and dad who act as the second parent to her children and gives her a more or less free place to live. That is how she affords a horse and all the associated costs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/10/19 06:21 AM
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Don't forget the most costly accessory she either has and will want you to pay for, or wants, and will want you to pay for. One or more of the four-legged money sinks known as horses. It doesn't matter that no knowledgeable would ever let her on the horse, out of respect for the horses back, she always wanted one, and if daddy didn't provide, you are going to have to. I know, I don't got one of the names, but I grew up in a rural neighborhood. According to my sister, her childhood was ruined bec…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/10/19 06:17 AM
4

I much prefer the term monk. Just because I chose not to deal with her shit behavior does not mean I am an incel, just someone that didn't think the offered trade was acceptable. Besides, there is a lot to be said for just focusing on the things (not pussy) that I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 03:50 AM
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The fucked up childhood excuse ends at 25. Everybody has some facet of their childhood that they can grab on to and say "my parents never really loved me". A few truly do have some tragedy or horror from their childhood. They have to understand that it isn't a crutch, just something that has to be overcome if they intend to live a good and full life. I understand how hard that can be, but even if permanent psychotropic medication is required, the past has to be put in the past. By the time we hi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/19 11:28 AM
4

How do you feel about transactional support for the family and help with your offspring? How do you feel about a man working 10-12 hour days in return for a kept home, happy children, and food on the table? Do you expect a man to "robotically" engage in all of that and expect the woman to be happy about it? There is nothing at all wrong with, I don't want to do this. There is something wrong with either I won't do this or I will lay there like a corpse and count ceiling tiles. Most women don't t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 04:50 AM
3

We are all evil hairless monkeys and we are all capable of doing evil hairless monkey things. That has nothing to do with which sex you are. Men and women may usually do different evil things. That said, we can also choose to do good things. Especially in a decadent and declining western civilization.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 09:36 AM
1

No. Most women will resent a man that stays at home, even if they say they won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 09:32 AM
1

People wonder why I am the way I am. There is no right girl. If, as a thought experiment, there ever was, that woman is lost somewhere in time and I will never meet her, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 09:30 AM
2

Oh, you want to know where the good women are? I don't really know. My guess is at home with their husbands, though, as I say, I don't know. Also, they weren't trapped, they just weren't offered incentives to divorce their husband. There has not ever been any shame in being part of a two-person team. Women were sold lies about a high life if they left their husbands in the mass media of the 60s and 70s and then incentivized to do that from the 80s onward. Over 50% of men can not possibly be bad,…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 08:06 AM
3

Look, nice has historically been just that. Nice was the young man, that while not particularly exciting, knows how to keep the farm or business running, keeps the money coming in, takes the family to church on Sunday. Maybe he isn't exciting or exotic but he is a good partner, traditionally what a lot of women knew they were lucky to have. Nice was the young girl that may not look like a made up movie star, but knew how to cook, how to keep a house, and how to be the other half of the equation …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 07:15 AM
3

Well, first you have to tell me what is attractive. We all have some different standard on what we are looking for. The Hot/Crazy chick used to learn that she needed to temper her emotions at the feet of her dad. Now, all she has is her neurotic mom. Dad was chased off because he failed to continue to excite the mom anymore. As she was the type of young woman often more ruled by her passion than her good sense, as they used to say, mom and dad kept a sharp watch on her so that her passions would…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 06:58 AM
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For you to have typed what you did indicates that, while you may have some as clients, you don't really know this group of people. The lower class women that stay there, here are things I have observed from being around them for an extended time: Their emotions absolutely dominate any rational decision making capability they have. They aren't capable of anything beyond very short term planning, or of putting any such plans into effect. They are generally very poor judges of character. They react…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 05:17 AM
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There are a lot of guys who have "gone their own way" and know nothing of the broader MGTOW movement. They don't spend their time online ranting about women. They merely looked at the raw deal that modern marriage and fatherhood has become for men and decided they didn't need that complication in their lives. They still date. They may even be serially monogamous and generous to a certain point with their partners. When it comes time for more than that however, they are either off to the next par…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 04:28 AM
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Look at this chick. We can deduce from her profile that her education was overall lacking in basic English grammar and diction. It isn't much of a guess that the rest of her education was equally sub-par. She is also morbidly obese, and we can tell that this isn't a new phenomenon. She was obese well before she graduated high school in 2009 and had merely packed it on even more as a result of three pregnancies. Further, the parts of her profile we can decipher into some logical form of communica…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/10/19 05:52 AM
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Hate you? No. That's often a very strong term, and not at all accurate. Hating you would be like hating a fish because it is unaware of how to fly like a bird. The same as the women that clearly hate men. That aside, this is *current year*. What do you expect me to provide, exactly? We are equal, which is just what you wanted. That means I am not responsible for providing a house for you, or food for you, or financial security for you. Therefore, I am going to attempt to provide the entertainmen…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 06:00 AM
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While the Red Pill does have some incongruities it isn't a coping mechanism. There are some harsh truths about the world, and a lot of women and more than a few other men would rather that most men never learn these truths.They get tied up in notions like sacrificing your own interests for a woman/women will make them love and respect you, when clearly that is no longer the case if it ever was. They sell the notion that busting your hump for an employer will lead to recognition and rewards, when…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 05:31 AM
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Gathering information on Americans by watching the dreck that comes out of Hollywood would.... tend to give you some rather unfortunate false insights into American life. For the most part, nobody could live the way people are portrayed in Hollywood and last for very long. The fact is that friendships between men and women in the US are very common. The problem here is that we all have an enemy that is trying to atomize our society, and it's the same enemy no matter what side you are on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 10:57 AM
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Well, you were going to have food and drink anyway, so that is hard to consider as a cost. I have a few games sitting around, cards and euchre are favorites of mine. I already have those, and they are really cheap to get if you don't. The cost of gas within the same city is still negligible, really. Yes, summer is hot. It's a great time to be out, soaking up the sun, meeting people, just honestly it's great. I go to the local park with friends all the time, but I also spend a lot of time at a ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 03:48 AM
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Which leads back to the original question, or at least the first question that should be asked. Are they actually suffering from some clinical form of depression, or not? I submit that the answer to that question is usually "not". I ask again about what that "twenty-something" that thinks life is hard now is going to think in ten years when they have a spouse that hates them, kids to take care of, a job they hate but can't leave, and a stack of bills that has to be paid. Life does not get easier…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 03:35 AM
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More like most men that aren't airborne qualified, and know how to safely land in such a condition. I could probably do it, but hell, I'm old and out of practice, and just don't have the will to risk such a jump any more. I'm mostly the same with women. Watching your entire life burn to the ground once is enough in a lifetime for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 10:06 AM
1

12 inches to 1 foot, thus a 10 foot fall to the ground if you jumped from that platform. Most men are going to suffer injuries from that fall.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 09:58 AM
1

Wait! What! I honestly don’t know many 20 year olds that aren’t depressed or disillusioned with the pressures of being a new adult. Man, my parents completely cut me loose when I was 19. Life was hard, but also, life was simple. I only had myself to look out for, really. There are some stories I don't tell because of the code of the road, and there are some that I don't tell because I don't remember. Depressed, though? Those are great times. What is a depressed twenty year old going to be like i…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 09:51 AM
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20 is extremely marginal on the dick stacking test. Average adult male human penis length is around 6" so 20*6=120 120/12=10. 10' is a pretty long fall. If you can safely jump from a platform 10' in the air to the ground and not get hurt, then maybe, just maybe, she is marriage material. If not, then the only thing she is good for in the relationship department is adding another 6" for the next guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 09:36 AM
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After my divorce, I have had a long line of women through my door. The ones that ask what job I have are filtered to the back fairly quick with no answer. They know two things about me. first is that I am not a reliable long term prospect, second that I will tell them nothing I don't want them to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 11:26 AM
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It doesn't matter because it's false. If men generally wanted respect more than sex, then prostitution would be a far different endeavor than it actually is. Men are not entitled to sex, no more than they are entitled to respect. Women are not entitled to a good man, no more than they are entitled to respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 10:03 AM
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It's because 85% of the time, the guy loses his children in family court and basically is reduced to being a serf to the mother under the gentle administrations of the state. Literally, all she has to do is show up to court and not do a line of cocaine off the judge's bench to win full custody, and I'm not sure she couldn't still win if she did a line. After that, she can be completely irresponsible, spending the money he is forced to give on herself, pawning the kids off on relatives and friend…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 03:50 AM
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Yes. Traveled to Asia on work. I literally felt like a rock star in a few countries. It wasn't because I was hanging out in those districts or paying for it either. A lot of the girls just really liked American guys and they said it was because we aren't pushy. There were a few days where it was hard for me to go to work, man that attention was really something. If I wasn't still reeling from a divorce, I would have come back married.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 03:30 AM
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This is the case where someone is determined to hold onto a red hot coal in the hopes that it will burn someone else worse than them. John may not want to talk to the ex ever again, and I can understand that in this case. However, family is different, and whether or not he "gets over" the betrayal, he needs to let go of the anger and outright hatred of his brother. As for the nephew, well, it isn't the kid's fault. The season where the family is willing to accept John's demands is coming to an e…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/19 07:17 AM
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I am empathetic. However, my empathy has been abused so roughly and so often that I have learned to sharply limit who gets the benefit of that empathy. The people that receive my empathy are a very small number. Further, I do not believe that empathy necessarily requires any action.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 02:38 PM
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There are three people who's opinion I give any fuck at all about in this world. If they are feeding me, fucking me, or paying me, then what they say matters to me. If they aren't one of those three, then they do not matter. Yes, women have done a grand disservice to other women. They made it crystal clear that they find men who cater to their whims to be absolutely repulsive even as they raised a society of fatherless boys to cater to their whims. There was always going to be a backlash no matt…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 09:54 AM
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First, I'm no boomer. Second, if you were to bother yourself to look at the pictures of mass shooters, the bias shown wouldn't be white. I might concede that the some of the worst incidents were young white men. The reasons seem to be all over the place, though. Third, I have a few gang fights under my belt. As to thinking it's a simple answer, I only responded to the mentality of “ all the little kids better run better run out run my gun” with the notion that a fist fight, where both parties li…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 03:57 AM
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All because you are afraid to get your ass kicked. Everyone should get hit in the face once, you'll learn that pain only lasts for a short time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 10:38 AM
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I wonder what the same study would have said back in the day. My popularity and recognition soared every time I got into a fight. I won all of the important ones, had more than one black, bloody nose, and busted lip, but I won when it counted.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 12:01 PM
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You are relying on an entity that is somewhere north of $22T in debt, and is now adding more than $1T per year to that debt and accelerating. The GAO of the US estimates that the US government will exceed $100T by 2040. This is not sustainable, and the damned thing, is that it's also in the best shape in the world. Any system built upon debt eventually collapses under the weight of that debt. Economists, not the nobel prize winning ones, the ones that actually know what they are talking about, h…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 04:28 PM
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Not much of one for raping, perhaps some pillaging. Maybe some ravishing.... The pimp hand of the government isn't always going to be there, eventually spending will have to be reduced.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 11:38 AM
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No, they mind. They did then and they do now. There was a time when women didn't have big daddy government at their beck and call. The way we are headed, that time will come again.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 10:54 AM
2

On-Line-Dating has completely distorted human interactions. You either get bombarded with messages and develop an outsized ego with unrealistic expectations or you get completely ignored no matter what. Seriously, it's gotten genuinely hard to just meet people any more. People don't gather any more.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 05:14 AM
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Very few women have a sex drive that can match a man's. At least in terms of wanting to have sex. The truth, is once the boats in the water, everyone is usually having a good time. Obligation sex is a nasty term, anyway. Ooh, I might have to do something I don't want to do. Yeah, well men used to do all sorts of things for women, call them obligations, that women are now left to do on their own. I'm not sure that's an improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 05:06 AM
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First, the man should have to spend a day at the courthouse in the family court watching as other men are ruined. He should have to pay someone to lean over and whisper in his ear, "He didn't think it would happen to him, either." As the judge strips him of parenting his kids and assesses him a ruinous amount each month for the privilege of not parenting his kids. After that, no more than $200. Whatever the cost of the wedding license and the time with that same judge to make it official, becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 10:57 AM
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Apparently there are more than a few "lesbian MTF trannies" that are nothing to little more than garden variety transvestites trying to sleep with lesbian women and they got offended, to the point of being legitimately dangerous, when these women don't like dick any more than a straight man does.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/19 06:01 AM
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TERFs believe, from what I can piece together, is that since a MTF transgender hasn't spent their entire lives in a female body that they can't really know "what real women go through." Whether that means things like sexual harassment, workplace disenfranchisement, or menstrual cramps is open for debate. The only transgender I have ever known, and who was a good friend of mine at one point, said he "felt like a woman". When asked what a woman feels like, he had no logical answer. In fact, he/she…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/19 05:58 AM
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A ton of the profiles I see on these site has women declaring they are INFJ. In fact, plenty more than are plausibly likely. It doesn't mean anything. It's the same as the line, "I'm shy until you get to know me." which is the same as, "Two drinks in, and I'll be ready to go back to your place."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/19 05:52 AM
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Plebians were commoners in Rome. These were the men that couldn't trace their ancestry back to the original Roman senate. They could actually be quiet wealthy. The lower class in Roman society was the Proletarii and were the landless poor. The major change in Roman society occured when Pro-Consul Marius addressed a manpower shortage by allowing the proletarii to join the Roman army when they previously had been banned.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/19 05:31 AM
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I disagree. Sometimes what he did is the only reasonable way to handle it. The fact is that she called him to beg, when he firmly rejected her, she berated him, talked about him to the rest of the family, then had the nerve to call back. It's hard to say what I would have done different in his shoes, because not picking up at that point was probably the worst of the two options as it would have allowed the behavior to continue unchallenged.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/19 04:48 AM
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I have two tattoos. One for each of my kids. Nobody would know I have any by looking at me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/19 10:38 AM
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A bunch of times, but I have a rule about telling explicit lies, as such I never really dumped them and some of them still come around quite often. Then again, it may have something to do with me being far older than the average single man, and having never really had that experience before, I was married from age 21 to 37. After that, I built up a great deal of social proof from getting to know people. I also got to where I could talk paint off a wall and how to read people. In a way, the ones …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 04:07 AM
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And fornication trophies are not always those things you say are so cute and post pictures you take of it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/19 12:48 PM
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No. Most men don't want a woman that is resisting him with force.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 04:27 AM
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No, but there is a big difference in their approach. The MC/UMC women know that to protect or improve their position in society that they can not appear to be tawdry or promiscuous. They have been taught that by their parents, their extended families, and their churches. Part of their assessment of a guy they just want to fuck is will he keep his mouth shut about it. Part of the assessment of a guy they "date" or allow themselves to be seen in public with is whether or not he will be favored by …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 10:13 AM
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It's been quite some time since I was there. If they are actively teaching rape, then they are wrong. And women don't do that too? Furthermore how is that a BAD thing? Are you saying it makes you unhappy to make others happy? You want to be more selfish? No, it isn't selfishness. At the end of the day, no matter how good of a chameleon you are, you will eventually and inevitably fail. If you are a man, in this modern era, you will be annihilated in family court for that failure if you are marrie…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 05:19 AM
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That is TRP at it's worst, and I actively disagree with such behavior as it will get you everywhere you don't want to go, if not now, then eventually. There are some other things that are useful. Being aware of what the other person's wants and needs and attempting to meet them isn't wrong. In the modern day, with things being what they are and people being allowed and even encouraged to change their minds about what they want and things like commitment being used as a sick punchline in a horrif…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 04:45 AM
1

Most of the time, limiting factors on looks can be overcome. The supermodels on TV, and I mean the drop dead tens, are often just average women with the right makeup in the right light. The Black Pill is just an excuse. Somebody that's out of shape can get in shape. Someone that doesn't know how to dress can learn how, or have a friend, or even hire someone, to set up a wardrobe that will work with them. The person that doesn't know how to converse or is shy can practice until they are good at i…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 03:58 AM
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I've been through this before, but I can try again. There is more than one method of estimating how many sexual partners an average individual in a society has. An anonymous survey, where most people have no reason to lie, that is also controlled for false responses, is just one way. Another would be measuring the vector of STIs in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 12:07 PM
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I believe an NHS study concluded that the average British woman had 5-7 partners across her lifetime. A similar study in the US concluded it was 4-6 partners. Of course, there are statistical outliers in any survey, but in general the notion that every hot chick is being ran through by hundreds of guys is absurd. Sex and the City isn't even a poor mirror of reality, it's a complete fiction
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 11:16 AM
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It's Tinder. Put in the exercise. Show some abs. Drown in women lining up for what they know is nothing but a ride. Never hate the player. Hate the game.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/07/19 02:44 PM
1

If they like her, in a romantic sense, and it is unrequitted, they have one option. Walk away. Redefine themselves. Reintroduce themselves after a period away.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 07:34 PM
1

I'm not fully understanding your question, or perhaps better, statement. Everyone has childhood trauma of some sort. It does not excuse our behavior as adults. I don't know how it is now, but I recommended several times that some of the posters consider receiving some sort of psychological counseling to understand their issues and work on fixing them. Diagnosing another person's behavior can be hard, but when you know you haven't caused their behavior dealing with frequent emotional/abusive outb…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 08:35 PM
1

He had to work for it no matter what. At the best, he made it seem effortless to you. (and that's okay.) You don't know about the long hours in the gym or the careful diet he had to follow to get that body you craved. You don't know about the extra hours put into the office to get the promotions that let him afford the nice house/apartment, late model car, nice clothes, and the dinner. You weren't there for his flame outs before he became good at talking with women. So from that perspective, yes…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 12:16 PM
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Being former married and mostly blue pilled man, for me wife has two possible meanings, "She who must be appeased" or "She who can not be appeased". Notice there is nothing about making her happy or getting her in the mood, or anything about bliss or sex. For me it was just trying to do enough, and it almost never was, to keep her from attacking me on every level you can think of and sex was just a distant memory by the time the second kid showed up. It took years for me to recover after the div…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 01:40 PM
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No, there are blue-pilled guys that have been in these relationships and they listen to all of the myriad excuses, it's the kids, it's work, it's hormones, it's the house chores, sex just feels like someone else using her body or it's just another chore. The thing is these guys believe it and think if they can just mitigate a few things then maybe they will get the sex they used to get instead of a starfish staring at the ceiling just waiting for it to be over. The truth is that these guys are p…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 01:15 PM
2

So a man took the time to write out something thoughtful and she wouldn't even go out for a coffee with him? She is the problem. Yeah, she long ago fell for the stupid idea she could "have it all!" which including all the partying and eating she wanted without consequence. It's a shame. I know someone who is a little bit big and if circumstances were different, she can't leave her city and I can't find work there, I absolutely would date her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/19 12:54 AM
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Let me get this straight, she says she is happy with her life. She also hops in the sack with any guy that winks at her, regrets it the next morning, and complains about wanting a long term relationship but doesn't want to put in the work to have one. Something doesn't add up. This girl is a pile of neuroses. She is the sort that actively seeks and attracts exactly one type of man, and then complains that all men are the same.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/19 01:43 PM
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Mom is a straight up piece of work. It's amazing this kid has his head on his shoulders this well and isn't in a foster home with no knowledge if his siblings somewhere. I think I would ask stepdad to stay, or if my siblings and I could stay with him until I could get into a position to take care oft them. It's the best the kids could hope for at this point.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/19 01:32 PM
1

I know exactly what it's like. In all of it, the family court system is completely rigged. Feminism has effectively destroyed marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/19 01:19 PM
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Do not misunderstand me about the affair at all, it may have started innocently, however it was my certainly my choices that led to it. That being said, I do not believe I would have made those choices if the homefront was happy. I wouldn't have cared if she wanted to stay at home, had the investment in education been in me. I mean no one gets away from work, so I would have expected a clean house and the kids taken care of, just like I was doing after the lay off. Anyway, the question was which…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/19 01:17 PM
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No, I am not. I don't make a habit of threatening people. I didn't hang out in bars after I was married at 21. I haven't been in a fist fight since I was 21, and that wasn't my fault. I tend to avoid trouble or separate as quickly as I can, talk if I can, and only fight when I must. I am fully capable of violence, and I am the type to apply it scientifically, thoroughly and quickly if I need to, but I couldn't stand the thought of spanking my kids, much less attacking my wife. No, she lied. She …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/19 02:48 AM
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No, her salary caused my child support to be much higher. They also based it on my "potential earnings" as had been laid off at the time. I was the primary parent right up until the day she decided I needed to go. The restraining order was to make sure she got the kids, the house, and everything else that even remotely mattered. In a fair world, no, she wouldn't ever get a dime from me. I am a firm believer that the government needs to get out of the wedding/divorce and child support business al…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/19 02:42 AM
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Nope, when I married my ex-wife along with all of the other stuff, we had an agreement. I would put her through school to her master's degree, which I did. Then, when we were stable, I would go to school to finish my engineering Bachelor's and Master's as fast as I could, with her support. That support never materialized, ever. Long story short, when the divorce happened she was earning more than double what I earned and I worked far more hours. All she had to say was, "I'm scared, he threatened…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 08:09 PM
2

The naive and the foolish trust with no reason. Trust must be placed upon reason. That reason is what value I think that person thinks I bring to them. I trust people based on how much I perceive that they need me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 01:01 PM
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Hmmm....nope. Marriage is a three party contract. As a rule, I no longer enter third party contracts for any reason at all. Getting dragged over the coals in one divorce was all the "learning" I need for this life. The others, since then, all know my rule early on. I have no desire or need to ever be married again.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 08:25 PM
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As long as the contract is shown to be reasonably fair within state law at the time of the signing and shows a clause where it can be amended if both parties agree to the amendment, then even family court is going to have a tough time throwing it out. The real problem comes when she alleges abuse, that is the point that it needs to be forced out of family court and into regular court where such shenanigans require documented proof of abuse and the standard for that proof is much higher than fami…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre02/06/19 04:25 PM
1

If you look at the wording, each partner would essentially be entitled to an amount equal to what they brought into the relationship, plus an amount equal to what you each earned in the relationship, with some provisions if you agreed that one of you should be a stay at home parent. You will die anyway. Properly constructed and enforced corporation foundation documents ensure you probably won't lose all that much. I went through it the other way, no prenup, and completely blindsided. Had I follo…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre02/06/19 02:36 PM
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Massive amounts of almost unlimited free money is the most poisonous thing you can give someone. Prior to LBJ's great society expansion of welfare state programs, welfare was not a replacement of the father and often there were requirements of marriage to be eligible for it as welfare helped with some shortfall in income rather than an outright replacement of a household income. LBJ' Great Society initiatives changed the metrics and made it so that being married as a low income household did not…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre02/06/19 01:51 PM
1

"Don't Get Married!" sounds like good advice, and within the current system and culture it is not the wrong advice. However, it isn't the right advice. Simply put, the constant going out and searching for the next conquest will get old, the music at the club will get too loud, and the crowd will get too young. There are good reasons why you don't see the 40 year old and over set at the club. When the above occurs, that one that isn't the best lay you have ever had but also isn't completely crazy…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre02/06/19 12:40 PM
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It isn't "don't get married" as that is mostly impractical and useless advice. What is useful is some of the other stuff. When your friends and even random clerks at the store are telling you to get rid of her prior to the marriage, drop her like a bad habit. They are seeing something you don't. As an After Action Review (AAR) of the marriage, here are some things that you could have done differently after your discovery of her infidelity. First, confrontation even though you thought you held th…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre29/05/19 04:44 PM
1

No, he is correct. The rich men may use young boys for pleasure, but men in that culture tend to be romantic towards other men. Women are mostly left to curry favor with their husband and in multiple wife families the infighting can be utterly vicious.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/05/19 03:14 PM
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I know, right! I have pointed this out a dozen times. It could even be as little as, "Hey, our budgets looking a little out of control, and we have debts that need priority, so no buying anything that is not an absolute necessity for the next three months." is now enough for a woman to claim that she is being abused. Just more reason not to legally tie yourself to one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/05/19 06:22 PM
2

The ultimate reason anyone cheats is because they chose to commit that action. I have yet to see any guy trip and have has penis accidentally fall into a woman whose legs were accidentally in the air. There are no excuses, not really. That said, there are mitigating factors. Having a wife that would not allow me to even touch her for two years made it unfortunately very easy for me to want to make those choices when the opportunity unexpectedly arose.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 07:44 PM
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All women are bi, it's just that it's your job to find out if that is bisexual or bipolar, it's our job to find out which. (yeah, bad joke, I know.)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/19 01:40 PM
2

Mostly, you start with a false assumption and you work your way out from there. This entire cesspool is the makings of the hubris of these men. Men who poorly understood what it is to exist without the benefit of a more sexist and biased society. No, people and societies will always have biases and assumptions. Now, we are, quite foolishly I might add, working, by law, from a standard that women are exactly equal to men despite all evidences to the contrary, that is a rather explicit bias whethe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 08:50 PM
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The only thing she needs to here is, "No, you don't. You need to finish your damn homework!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/05/19 12:15 PM
1

Well, Congratulations, I rarely read an entire article of Harper's, and I did read this one. I will even support the author's idea that too often men use their partner for what this subreddit has called in the past an "emotional tampon", and further that it isn't healthy for either side to do that. As to the why of the situation, there are several reasons. First would be the "gay agenda", while the average homosexual just wants to live his or her life, there is and was, a group of militant/polit…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/19 12:16 PM
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You have obviously never studied marriage. According to you, a married man has met the ultimate in commitment for a woman and should receive sex more or less whenever he wants, yet there are plenty of dead bedroom marriages out there where one party desperately wishes it wasn't. There are also plenty of women that really only want to have sex in the context of a relationship, and according to you, some guy would be willing to expend effort towards commitment to get sex, conversely, there are wom…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/19 02:20 PM
4

You are partially right. Reproduction isn't the only reason, though. Your math is off, I hate using these terms....but, human females are usually mature enough, in body, to handle pregnancy from the age of 16 or so, and human males are usually capable of impregnating a human female around the age of 15. There is absolutely no way a woman can handle having octuplets every year, even twins puts tremendous stress, beyond what a single child pregnancy, on a woman's body and they often have to be del…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/19 11:23 AM
5

I disagree. I have a friend who makes about $50K a year. He owns a yacht. He lives on it as he is renovating it. His truck is 15 years old, paid for, and he does all the work on it. He is quickly building up a passive income that will make it so he never needs to work ever again. Of course, no debt, never married, no kids, and only 35 years old. ​ When he gets done, his boat will also be capable of effecting repairs on other boats, making it so that he can generate money in any anchorage he sail…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/19 12:15 PM
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Sorry, we were responding to the same post.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/19 12:15 PM
5

Plenty Of Fish, or POF.com It was a site where you could get a decent hook up at one point back around 2013. It has long since descended into fat single mothers with the profession of "homemaker" or "Parenting" with literally nothing any rational man would ever pay for, and most wouldn't take for free, while, of course, demanding any man they lower themselves to text with meet the 6-6-6 minimum standards.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/19 12:06 PM
1

Up in arms? For this sort of issue? No. I can't point out how it is necessarily a violation of rights to prohibit certain economic transactions. That said, I believe prostitution should be legalized within careful guidelines to prevent sex trafficking and exploitation and to control the spread of STDs. In short, requiring that anyone engaging in certain activities have a license, health screens, and the ability to speak to a government authority in private, and a reasonable ability for the gover…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 11:48 AM
4

There was a point that it benefited men at least to the degree that it benefited women. I think it still does benefit women but not in the same way that it did in the past. The individual may be the base building block of society, but the family is it's base for social society. In the past, a man knew that he could work all day and come home to a well kept house, and he knew that his kids were cared for. The woman got someone that would provide for her and her kids in return for keeping the hous…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 05:37 AM
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Yes, she, or anyone else really, can be raped. Being a sex worker does not mean that she can't be raped, and suggesting otherwise is ridiculous. Maybe it was a former client that decided he could get a taste for free or something. It doesn't justify it, if it happened. The reason I'll give her claim some validity here is that I have known women that were raped. Most of them just look at it as something that happened to them, and this may be the case here. Most of the ones that went on about how …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/19 04:00 AM
2

People have always understood that looks can give you a huge advantage in options available to you in dating and relationships in general. That being said, barring some physical deformity, they are not something that can't be overcome. Weight can be lossed, or gained as needed. You can get into physically healthy and good shape. You can learn to groom yourself in a way to accentuate your more positive features and minimize your negative features. You can learn to dress well, because as ZZ Top sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 08:18 AM
1

Mostly government involvement was related to nobility and title of lands. It was not involved for the commoner. In the US, the government was not involved in marriage, issuing licenses of all things, until the late 19th century. As with everything else the government touches, it has become deformed and perverted since then to the point it's unrecognizable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 12:14 PM
2

No. The real answer is to get the state out of the marriage/divorce business. Just like everything else the government involves itself in, it became fucked up. Government should not be issuing any licenses for marriage. Government should have no role whatsoever in the discontinuation of a marriage. Government should not act as an agent of force to extract funds from one former partner to give to another former partner for any reason. ​ Quit allowing government into areas in which it does not bel…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 10:45 AM
5

This is one of those posts that make me wonder how many regular posters on the Red Pill sub actually talks to women, listens to women, or has any female friends or relatives. It certainly belies the inability of many posters here to place themselves in the shoes of another person, which is quite honestly, closely related to why so many here struggle so mightily to get laid. > Imagine the life of a woman. It’s Friday night, 8:00..... You are describing one of a very small subset of women. Some wo…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/19 04:56 AM
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Nothing new there. Happens near the rez's quite often. Indian girl gets knocked up by Indian guy, they set up free government housing, the free government money (welfare and BOI checks) start rolling in. Indian guy takes the free money and starts hanging out at the liquor store that will sell him and his friends the alcohol even though they are underage. The smarter indian girls dump him and find a white guy to marry. The upside of these girls is that if the white guy treats them well, they are …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/19 01:20 AM
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Well, the first problem I see is that you were clearly reading women's magazines. (This line is a throaway joke since irony doesn't come across on the internet.) There are magazines that address these issues, however the advice article is usually either on the page adjacent to or opposite a picture of a naked woman. There is some truth in what you are saying about what I will call advertising, and that a hard desperate sell is these least likely effective method. That said, good salesmen are the…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 09:32 AM
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I didn't assign a sex to either the abuser or the victim to the degree I could avoid it. It may be that the abuser picks someone that thinks this relationship is their one real chance at happiness. Maybe the abuser chooses a victim that has a trait of being extremely loyal or who doesn't believe in giving up, especially when they have given their word. Anyone that thinks human interactions are usually simple is usually wrong.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/03/19 10:58 PM
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No she did not. I don't care if I'm the only one to defend her because I know better than most what it's like. I was bigger and stronger than my ex, the difference was that I would never in a million years hit her or try to harm her and she knew it. I can tell you all about how the verbal abuse escalates, only they may tend to use more emotional abuse, but the holes are still in the wall if you bother to look and know where. The man, or woman, that is going to abuse you doesn't come with warning…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/03/19 08:59 PM
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I view them as a sort of personal ant farm. Some of the one that have been kicked off or left the island have migrated to new places around the web. If you want to see quite a history, look up "Omaha Steve" on that website. The guys been about to drop dead any minute now for the last 6 years. Hilarious in a maudlin sort of way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 10:40 PM
1

They are outright rabid leftists. They often have threads where the OP brags about cutting a family member out of their life because the family member is a "Bushista" (when Bush was in office), "Rethuglican" (when Obama was in office), and "Trumpster" (now that Trump is in office). The last I checked, a group of far left feminists had managed to basically gain control of the site as the owners are absentee. The next big holiday for them will be the 4th of July where they will brag about not goin…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 07:24 PM
2

Separation of church and state isn't really possible. The simple fact is that churchgoers are also voters and may vote their conscience on any given issue. The best we can do is to not allow the state to directly interfere with religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 07:16 PM
1

I take it you have never visited democraticunderground.com ? Don't sign up for an account, they suspect all new accounts of being trolls or disruptors.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 06:26 PM
1

I have reason to believe that the Ford was never in that room, and possibly not in that house.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 06:23 PM
3

I agree with most of what you say about warrantless searches and think FISA needs closer scrutiny and shouldn't be available on American citizens within the United States and any evidence collected from Americans under such circumstances should be regarded as poisoned fruit. As to gay people getting married, I will ask again, why is the government allowed to be involved with marriage at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 06:22 PM
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No, he isn't the asshole, but she might not be either. Yeah, she fucked up, once, at 18. We all have stories of things we fucked up at that age. Since then, apparently she is trying to do things the right way. I also can't knock her for not being the typical "My kid is my world" bullshit line, because we all know if it doesn't work with her, it won't work with kid added. What did she fuck up? She should have only brought herself to the date to see if they were compatible in person, and then, if …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/03/19 02:16 PM
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It depends on where you are from. In the US, subsidized housing for the poor is referred to as Section 8 housing as it falls under Section 8 (repeatedly amended) of the Housing Act of 1937. It is similar in most aspects to what is called council (or counsel, I'm not sure) housing in the UK.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/19 05:21 AM
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You want to know the damnable truth behind it all? Joe will eventually get laid. She may even be a "nice" girl. The one that does that will be able to crack the whip over him for the rest of his life using his access to sex with her to regulate almost all of his behavior. They will grow to resent each other. Hell, even if she moves on he'll be pining over her while some other dude has her tied (consensually) to his bed. If you think you have seen pathetic now, just wait until it happens. ​ He ma…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/19 07:48 AM
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There are only two possible reasons she doesn't have her kids. One is drugs and documented criminal activity, meaning she got caught and spent time as a guest at the cross bar hotel. The second is she a complete psychiatric nut case. Either way, it seems she isn't done with her bad decisions. I actually know a woman like this, she's actually a sweet person when she isn't on drugs and doing dumb things, and it seems like she is finally clean at 43. It took going to jail, having a kid with the guy…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/19 10:27 AM
2

Wait a second...... Women wait? That horse bolted out of the barn a long time ago. A typical first date for me, for years now has consisted of meeting for a few drinks and some laughs, usually followed quickly by her asking if I'd like to go to my place to, "Watch some Netflix or something?" Which is always followed by a short ride to my place and about half the time she has her hand in my pants in the car. More than a few of these have been fairly high quality women, too. Granted it does have a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 04:52 AM
1

Rollo isn't any sort of gospel. Be yourself, just be your best self. Being an asshole can have a lot of different meanings, some good, some bad. You want to help someone? Fine. If it isn't detrimental to your interests and that is what you choose, then good. If you continue to help them after they betray or cause you harm or simply display that they are not capable or ready for change, then you have to stop your efforts. The notion that you can't have female friends is one of the absolute worst …
/r/TheRedPill27/02/19 05:02 AM
1

Are they attractive because they are acting confident or confident because they are attractive? For a fairly average guy, confidence can work wonders.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 04:20 AM
2

I'm not into restrictions. Fools follow them, the clever either ignore them or work around them. What I would tell women, and men, is that the government will not act as a provider or a guarantor of provision. Women will make much more careful choices, in general, if they know that they will definitely "need a man around".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 10:20 AM
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You have to be clear that you are the father when they are kids. That is when you pull out the "Dad voice" they know they had better listen. Beyond that kids are great fun, except for when they aren't.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/19 12:02 PM
3

I bet when you get near her she sounds like a wasp nest. No, it isn't the vibrator or the kid, really. This woman has some personality issues that are holding her back.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/19 11:50 AM
11

Gavin McGinnes is a long way from being a Nazi of any sort, regardless of whether you or I happen to disagree with him on some things. A Christian refusing, on religious grounds, to perform any activity associated with a homosexual wedding is not the same as a bank refusing financial services based on some political perception. In the case of the baker, he was willing, and had in the past, sold any of his goods and services to anyone, with the minor exception that he did not sell wedding cakes f…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/19 08:32 AM
6

I wish I could upvote this more than once, because it deserves it. To be a living organism is to be subject to change and to be able, to some degree or another, to influence that change. There are truly three groups of incels. One group is the type that either needs serious intervention from knowledgeable psychiatric professionals to help them unfuck themselves. A subset of this group are the ones that are beyond any hope of help. A second group are those that have some sort of serious disfigure…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/19 08:15 AM
5

A couple of factors went into Gen-X that I can think of that made them, well us, different. We were the first generation raised in the "no-fault" divorce environment where there were a lot of kids with only mom around mostly. The economically dominant position the US inherited at the end of WWII position was fast evaporating leading to both parents working outside of the home even in full nuclear households. That led us to us being latch key kids. About the time the Gen-Xers hit middle and high …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/19 05:23 AM
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It's all good man, Gen Z is a just about the same breed of crazy as their parents. Gen Z are the Gen X kids. Generation X wasn't originally called Generation X. We were originally called the "latch-key kids" because both of our parents worked and were gone when we got home from school, maybe even when we left for school. Gen-X just had to figure things out, mom (or non-gender specific parent of your choice as millennials may decide) wasn't there to make a sandwich, we figured out our homework, w…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/19 04:25 PM
1

I'm not really a red pill type either. I used to be blue pilled, though. I have no desire to live through that again. Your biggest single problem, that I see, is the fact that you are thinking with your dick. The second biggest problem is that you are being led around by your heart. Quite frankly, you are allowing the two worst internal advisers that you have to outright make your decisions for you. You are going for the women that 30something men with a little more on the ball than you have jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 11:16 AM
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One of my uncles went through this. He let one of his son's friends move in because the young man had been kicked out of his parent's house and had no where to go. A few months and some suspicions later, he took a day off but left for work normally. He caught them in the act when he quietly re-entered the home. The young man probably had his life flash before his eyes as he begged for forgiveness. My uncle just told him to get out of the house and never return. His wife tried to blame him for th…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/19 12:45 PM
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Once again, we have someone surprised that a university girl in our current western society is something less than truthful. This rates right up there with a fat chick that was complaining that after her fat chick friends lost their weight, they also lost their "boisterous personalities" and became more demure. She couldn't comprehend that they no longer needed to be loud to attract attention or that the guys they wanted attention from would not respond to them being loud in a positive manner. W…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/19 05:59 AM
10

Because it helps them avoid the real truth of their African ancestors and most of their African cousins. As stated before, there were sub-Saharan African Kingdoms in parts of Africa when European explorers showed up. For the most part they didn't even rate a early middle ages level of administration and their technology was, for the most part, barely iron age. The truth they avoid is that their ancestors were gladly sold by their other ancestors into slavery. First north to the northern african …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/19 04:48 AM
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No, she won't. Maybe if she only had one she would find a man stupid enough to date her, maybe even marry her, but four, no, not a chance. Every man from every race knows exactly what she is and knows to stay the hell away from her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/19 04:35 AM
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All I know is this, no marriage, no kids, no divorce rape. Of course, then no one gets what they want, but it's a simple metric to figure out if the advantages outweigh the risk and likelihood of failure. Given a 50% divorce rate, it isn't hard to see that there is no advantage that outweighs the risk of failure. Any good investor will decline investment under those conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 08:13 AM
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Yeah, "nice" and "sweet" get you no where. I'm going to make some guesses about you. You slouch in your posture because you are afraid to appear intimidating. You rarely make meaningful direct eye contact to avoid appearing aggressive. You don't ask directly for what you want because you think it will be insensitive. Being too rough? What did they think they were raising? A defective girl? Yes, boys can be rough. Yes, we should be allowed to be a little rough and learn how to wrestle and how to …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 09:21 AM
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Really, the game changes. An older man should be bringing something different to the table than a young man. The older man that is attractive isn't going to be living in a one bedroom apartment. If he has his own house, stable income, and can afford to have her around, then he can be a perfectly reasonable option for a lot of Filipinas around 30. I started to write a lot more, but it's important to understand the cultural differences. Every Filipina I have ever met has been a hard worker. Most h…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 05:16 AM
1

Duty sex? Like wifely duty? If I ever hear either one of those phrases out of a partner ever again, it's over on the spot, no questions asked. In reality, duty sex is control sex. It's, I don't really love you, but I am using this to control you sex. I would be ecstatic with 3-4 times a week, so happy I would be beside myself. Instead, I was lucky 3 or 4 times a year and at least two of them would be duty sex after it was clear she was losing control again.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 07:03 PM
1

I have played games since I was a kid. I usually play thinking and strategy games these days. Talking about it endlessly, though, no, and my house stays neat. If I really want to relax, I switch to my more expensive hobby and head to the range for a few hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 11:33 AM
2

Nonsense. Your looks, for men and women, may open a door for you, but if that's all you got.... Well, if all she has is looks and pussy to offer, well, she's going to be bent over the table and then sent on her way. For guys, looks might open the door, but if that is all you are, then your destiny is to be toyed with just like any of an array of pretty toys she has around, maybe if she needs something attractive you will be allowed to escort her, but don't think you will be anything other than s…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/18 02:48 PM
4

Okay, you have clearly been on the really weird porn sites. It's all right if that's your thing, I'm not judging. Seeing as most of my partners these days are women between 30 and 45, I can tell you that just isn't the case. I don't have a dick that resembles anything close to the bottom half of a wine bottle, and I can usually get the job done just fine. It helps that I can't usually get to orgasm with most condoms, so I usually can satisfy her then just have her bring me off on to her when she…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/18 07:47 AM
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Reminds me of a joke I heard once. A guy sauntered up to a bar and started chatting up a decently attractive woman over a few drinks. Eventually, she asked him what his intentions were. He responded, "I'd like to have a little pussy!" She responded, "So would I, Mine is like the Grand Canyon!"
/r/TheRedPill30/12/18 07:40 AM
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The only words she needs to hear is, "Get out, now! I don't care where you go. Since you don't have a job, I will be keeping the children." She doesn't love him. She doesn't respect him. If he allows this to continue for any amount of time, the next communication he receives from her will be court orders forcing him to vacate the house. He has to react now to save himself and preserve his children.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/12/18 03:19 AM
2

Did I think she was attractive? Yes. Why did I stay? My kids. In fact, before I really understood the abuse, or how bad it was going to get, I was unhappy because I was being forced to grovel for very little sex and we had already been arguing over it. Well, the one time in the prior month was a silver bullet. Over the years, it got steadily worse. She managed to isolate me from family, stopped efforts I made to go back to college, and even threw out equipment I bought to do a hobby. In the midd…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 10:27 AM
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Uhm, no. The original Cinderella story doesn't read anything like that. Cinderella's step-mother and her step-sisters were all witches in the original fairy tale. In the end, Cinderella was with the Prince, but it wasn't quite a "happily ever after ending". Her sisters were imprisoned, and her step-mother was forced, by the prince, to dance on hot coals until she died. The OG fairy tales are something to read if you get a chance.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/18 10:08 AM
0

This one should get a pass on this sub. Let's say she wasn't married when she got knocked up with the first kid, but they got married only to find out he was abusive. Shit happens. It doesn't mean that she was riding the carousel or that she didn't think he was a good man until the mask came off. My criticisms? That short spiked hair is an awful look, just not attractive at all. I don't know why women put pictures of their children in dating profile pictures. That seems like it might attract the…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/12/18 09:50 AM
2

Yes. In sixth grade. I was always younger than my class mates, I started grade 6 at 10 years old, versus the usual 11. I was also smaller than most of the other boys until 8th grade or so. I wasl also asthamatic and my family had gone through a bankruptcy recently, so I didn't have clothes that let me fit in. A girl, we'll call her Sarah, started attacking me. She was, for that year, bigger and stronger than me, and she was, and still seems to be, a complete sociopath. She would hit me, knowing …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 06:01 AM
3

She was too young for that. Her main age related problem is that she was and is literally willing herself to be an old woman for reasons I'll never understand. Sex was never anything other than a weapon to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 12:40 PM
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As to your supposition, speak for yourself. There is simply more that I can do if she is well lubricated to add to her enjoyment, plus I feel more into things when I know she is enjoying it. When my exwife started using lubricants, I lost interest as I felt, knew, she wasn't interested. Dry sex was never enjoyable to me. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 11:53 AM
2

Relationship? Not fat. A little thickness in the right spots is okay and can definitely be attractive, but waist larger than hips and a sloppy appearance is something I can't deal with. It certainly would have made relationships easier to get into if I could be into bigger women, and I did try, but it isn't fair to her if I have to mentally make myself think I am with someone else just so I can perform with her. A genuine ability to smile and laugh. All else is negotiable. Marriage? No way. I ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/18 07:32 AM
1

Well, it's kind of like having a bowl of red m&ms. Eventually, you just want a blue m&m, even though you know it's basically the same as the red m&ms. (That is a joke, btw) More seriously, I married at 21 years old. It's pretty natural for men to be attracted to women between 18 and 30, but that's only half the story. I was just attracted to my ex-wife at 36 as I was at 21. The thing most people don't understand about love is this, love is not, and never has been a feeling. Love is a choice that…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 12:16 PM
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She didn't file a complaint. As it is, all she has done, at most, is write a still hidden from the public letter to a far left demogogue of a Senator. If Mrs. Ford wishes to file a complaint, she can do so with the Montgomery County PD. Any such investigation would be well past the statute of limitation on the books for that law at the time, and any proceedings would necessarily occur in the juvenile court, as both parties were juveniles in the eyes of the law at that time.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 03:43 AM
5

There is nothing to look into. Here are the facts as disseminated. There was no rape. At worst, their may have been some non-conentual groping between inebriated teenagers. That is not rape any way you slice it. There is no proof of the incident. She does not remember what year, what address, what part of the house, who was there, how she got there, or how she got home. All items that would be necessary to any attempt at a successful investigation. Memory is, at best, a funny thing. She has neve…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 03:39 AM
1

Right up until someone marries AI software to robots that are roughly the same shape and size as a human. At most, I'm thinking a decade out.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/18 01:35 AM
1

Any the computer (chip) revolution didn't destroy it altered in ways that would make the job fundamentally different from what it was before. One example is requiring a certain machine action be performed at a particular moment, say in the processing of metals. Before the Programmable Logic Controller, that meant a man standing in front of a board, observing the readings, and pressing a button or switch when needed. Now, a computer takes all the inputs at a rate far faster than any man is capabl…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 02:31 AM
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So.... ​ What is the answer? Don't get married? Don't get in relationships? Don't have children? Pursue your own hedonistic desires straight to your own demise? Do you think "the red pill", or a dozen other modern philosophies including modern feminism is something new? Plato knew men whom ascribed to the exact same pablum that is being peddled today. ​ The thing about your parents' relationship, in fact the only thing that matters, is "Does this work for both of them?" If they are both happy, t…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 06:46 PM
7

Oh for the days of good honest courtship. There was a time, in the not so distant past, when a guy asked a girl out for ice cream or something like that, both sides knew it was going to be just that, ice cream and conversation. He may walk her home if he feels it went well. She might give him a hug before she went in the house if she feels it went well. Honestly, everyone could figure out where they stood pretty quick. ​ If it escalated, they could expect their dates would be chaperoned by peopl…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/18 01:51 AM
2

Look at this as more of from a woman's point of view. Of course you can't be "Chad". Chad is perfection. You aren't perfect. When she spends time around you she will notice the "flaws" even if the are merely the mundane or things that she does not like. As everyone of us has the mundane about us, we put on our pants one leg at a time, we get tired, we get sick, we are always imperfect. You may look at a hard about situation and have gallows humor about it, and she may decide she doesn't like tha…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/18 12:41 AM
2

You want to know the truth? Do you want to be the man that she constantly fantasizes about while she is in bed with her husband? It's the same now as it has always been. You have to be as close to Superman, or the true version of a white knight, as she will ever witness. What does this mean? It means you show up in her darkest moment, slay the dragon, maybe literally, and then, before she knows much more than your name about you, ride off into the sunset. Beyond your brief actions, remain a comp…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/18 12:34 AM
4

Why invite the drama? “You’re not a real man are you” "Your opinion is up to you, and it's frankly none of my business." “You’re just a fuckboy” "Okay." “You’re ugly anyways” "Okay." “Maybe I should send a guy friend to fuck you up” "1. You just threatened me with battery. 2. How do you know your guy friend wouldn't agree with me?" “You wasted 2 months of my life” "You knew I wasn't offering a steady relationship. I had no reason to assume you weren't seeing other guys as well. This is on you." …
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 10:49 PM
2

How did you think this was going to go? You wanted to see her? Okay, the plane ticket was going to run about $1K if you planned half a year out. You couldn't come up with a thousand bucks in a year? I did that even when I was in college, easy. You didn't put any skin in this relationship. Why was she going to? Talking for hours on the computer every night doesn't count. You should have been more forward with her and yourself regarding what you thought of the relationship and what you felt. That …
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 01:58 AM
1

This is not new information at all. The mean for men on the intelligence scale has consistently been about two points higher. In the grand scheme that is basically nothing. Women have a narrower standard scale that is deeper (more close to the center of the set) and the average is closer to the mean. Men have a broader and shallower scale with a greater offset between the mean and average. What this means in more applicable terms is that the male of the human species is both more likely to have …
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 10:32 AM
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When every one is suffering under the same conditions, Chadrock isn't going to be getting the 2,000 calories plus a day he needs to sustain a heavy muscular frame, nor is his diet going to favor that. Given his diet, and the fact that it wasn't steady, he would probably be skinny, though depending on the environment he was in, he may have evolved a greater ability to put on fat stores during plentiful seasons. Current observable hunter-gatherer societies don't featured jacked males running aroun…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/18 12:59 PM
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You have some rather unhealthy fixations and some rather weird ideas about how the earliest human groups and societies functioned from what we know. Let's take this ride anyway. >Jane wakes up under the bear fur that she shares with two other females. It’s 100,000 years ago, and it’s freaking cold outside. The fire at the entrance of the cave has been reduced to a few glowing embers. She glances over at Bobnick, the only male who was left behind by the hunting party, and whose mission is to prot…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 10:01 PM
2

The rule against using examples from fiction or song lyrics.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 09:56 AM
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Breaking down a 21 year old song? Really. What for? What will you do for an encore? Madonna - "Material Girl" from 1985? How about Cyndi Lauper or Tiffany? The Spice Girls as a group were portraying a bunch of British Party girls. Further, this violates a community rule.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 08:29 AM
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If any of this is true, then you just like the drama. You showed up to the senior prom with a girlfiriend, packed her off to the house and didn't leave with her, proceeded to cat around (no doubt in front of her friends), then hung out with your friends. Did she expect something else? What were your expectations for the evening as communicated to her? Had the tables been turned, you left early, and she danced and flirted with other guys in front of your friends, what would your response be? Seri…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 08:19 AM
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Studies indicate that as the overall technology level and level of urbanization increases, even in the muslim world, the birth rate starts declining two roughly western levels. Hispanics, we'll just mark this down as meaning people from Spanish and Portuguese derived cultures in the western hemisphere, tend to adapt to western culture given a generation or two. Juan Delgado's family may have been US citizens since the Mexican-American War, while David Alban's family didn't arrive in the west unt…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 05:02 PM
1

You have some issues you need to work out. Consider the advice in the rest of the comments, take what advice you feel is good and toss what you feel isn't. You may need to sit down with a psychologist for a while, too. Your mom sounds as if she behaved as a selfish cunt and it clearly fucked with you. Don't expect an apology from her, or for her ever to admit her behavior was wrong, but you will have to forgive her. That will be among the hardest things you will ever do. If your dad is still ali…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 04:48 PM
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No. She is not solely responsible for the decline of Western Civilization, or even almost solely. Europe was blessed, at the start of the renaissance with two things that both allowed and drove innovation. Most nation states had sufficient resources. Many different nations were in contact with each other. This allowed innovations in one nation to be quickly adopted and adapted by others. When conflicts arose it drove those nations to innovate faster. Then the age of European expansion occurred. …
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 04:33 PM
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The realization that women, actually all of us, are basically evil hairless monkeys and can get up to a lot of evil hairless monkey shit. Honestly, this can take a lot of different forms. This is often met with shock and denial. Pain/Guilt at realizing just how wrong your conceptions about human nature were, and how much harm you have allowed others and yourself to do to you while operating from those incorrect beliefs. Anger and Bargaining. This is where you see a lot of the anger that gets dir…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 06:03 PM
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I've been in the anger phase for awhile now, and I have to say I'm probably still in the anger phase. Tell me this, would you continue to doggedly hold on to a burning red hot coal in the hopes that it will somehow burn someone else? No? Then why hold on to anger? I've been hurt by women, true, I can't deny that. I can't deny that I've met many selfish women. Life is a full contact sport. If you are going to play the game, expect occasional bumps and bruises, physical, emotional, and mental. I c…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 05:48 PM
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The pictures, yes. Send them over to her. If you didn't really enjoy it, politely say no, and tell her the exact reasons why. She sounds like she may have been a little immature. You sound as if you had some expectations for the evening that you failed to discuss with her. By the way, try showing up to the prom with six dates.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/18 02:16 AM
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Wait....so a college/university sorority chick was making the rounds? Knock me over with a feather. Further, you were what, freshmen, sophomores? Girls that age are not looking for anything long term. They are out from under the watchful eyes of their parents, and given modern culture, most of them run buck wild for a while. Your friend thought he had a unicorn and instead he had a regular horse. Next time, kindly point out to him that if she is on Tinder, she is looking to fuck and that's it.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 12:51 PM
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No, the term been around, though not in as common as use, since at least the 1980s. Your average feminist may act repulsed by the radfems but the thinking of the radfems is always adopted sooner or later by the "average feminists". What they mean by "toxic masculinity" is a man living life his way and without regard for what women, in general, want or need. Worse, he may be the sort of guy that thinks that women aren't as capable of lifting heavy weights or doing hard manual labor as a man. He c…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 12:42 PM
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What? Everybody at least has notepad on their computer. Stream of consciousness writing may have worked for Jack Kerouac. That doesn't mean it works for everyone. It does look to me like she is trying to stir shit. She wants you to hit on her in front of her boyfriend to create office conflict. You were right to ignore her. Any interaction outside of the professional sphere is something she is going to use to drive the conflict over her that she craves. If you choose to remain in that situation,…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 12:02 PM
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The only real requirement that I believe to be valid for a man to be a MGTOW is that he does not, or no longer has, any desire to be married to any woman ever. It does not preclude that he might or might not be successful with women. The ones on the internet, though. You are right. If they were just going their own way, that would be fine. They don't. They all gather into little pity places and whine about women.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 11:18 PM
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Incels that are floating around these groups on the internet all have issues. Some of them are relatively straight forward to work on, but they will have to work, and a lot of them don't like that idea. The "repairable" group are the ones with horrifyingly bad cases of self-esteem/loathing and/or poor diet and hygiene. If the low self-esteem group is willing to listen (and for a clue, you could hit these dumbasses with a brickbat and it wouldn't phase them) negative self-image is something that …
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 04:55 PM
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I'm just testing how far I can push her. Not one damned inch further than she wants to be pushed. One of the theories is that if you spend x number of hours with someone, the relationship becomes from acquaintance to casual and etc You mean that people that spend time together tend to develop feelings for each other? I am shocked, SHOCKED, I tell you. This is something our ancestors knew without needing "theories" about it. The only problem is I'm starting to feel like a sociopath than a true fr…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 07:22 AM
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That's not a cuck, that's just a dude taking a sucker's bet. He learned. Most of us have been there at some point.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 07:07 AM
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I'm 41. Before my divorce at the ripe old age of 36, my n-count was 6. Now, about 5 years on, I don't know how many woman I've been with, it's just some number. I'm not a virgin, and I'm not looking for a virgin. preferably, I want a girl that likes sex and knows what she likes. If a woman wants a long term relationship, then she needs to understand right up front that "not tonight, I'm tired" for no good reason and for more than a night or two is grounds for the relationship to end. Think about…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 06:52 AM
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I did all of this on PoF a while back. Grabbed some random woman pics (about a 6, or so) from halfway across the country so no one where I was at was likely to see or remember them. My profile was very contrite and hit all the favorite woman talking points, (not looking for a one night stand, want to be friends first, not like other girls, tired of players, likes the outdoors) and put in some other filler BS. This account was completely passive, I didn't look at any man's profiles, I didn't mess…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/18 11:10 PM
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Studies show, by generation, that close to 90% of women end up reproducing, whilst only 20% of men are biologically fathers. Do you have any modern surveys conducted post WWII that support this statement about the modern family? Your supporting evidence does not support the idea that only 20% of men successfully procreate. Childless men more depressed than childless women, study finds The sample presented in the study is far too small to be regarded as statistically significant, and could not ha…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 04:29 AM
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And you aren't going to be talking about it with anyone. It's better that "they were tired", and "they went home to (your god here)", even if everyone know better.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 07:47 AM
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Without knowing more, it's hard to say. Most suicide victims don't want to die. We know that from talking to people that attempted suicide and survived. There are a few that really went down that road and meant it. I've never been sure why men just tend to use more sure means, like a gunshot to the head, than women tend to use. I think you are right in that it will become more common, though. Cutting your wrists hurts, a lot, and it's going to take you a little time to bleed out. Swallowing a wh…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 06:42 AM
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No, it's really just the way polite company is. I knew a guy that had committed suicide by running a water hose down his throat and turning the water on full blast. The official cause was "drowning", unofficially, while he did drown, the irrecoverable damage occurred when his stomach burst. This isn't something that was talked about at the funeral or with family in the aftermath.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 06:33 AM
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Tell her if it goes to state you will file from your state for child support from her for the two kids you have.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/18 11:41 AM
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It depends on the woman really. If I enjoy her company, we'll go on some dates and have fun. If I'm not feeling it, she'll "slip" from my priorities. I don't ghost women. I don't ever lie to them. I explain to them upfront that after my ex rendered me homeless, that I have no desire to ever cohabitate ever again. They either accept that or they don't.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/18 03:26 AM
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It's a very easy formula to follow and one that young men need to know about the future. Work hard on your career, stay in shape, develop a personality, develop an "edge", don't be afraid of scars, inside or outside. I'm 41 this year. My "dance card" at current has women from 45 down to 23. Most of the women over 33 are divorced single moms. The same holds mostly true across the landscape, though, I offer them an adventure and a mystery. They mostly know that I will never settle with them.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/18 07:18 AM
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Dude, she's 23. I can make a few guesses about her. She is either still living in her hometown going to college or she is nearby. She is driving a car that Daddy paid for, or is still paying for. She has her own apartment, (At that age. if that isn't hanging out a "fresh meat" sign, I don't know what is.) so she "could be away from her parents", who still pay most of her bills. I see it every year in the town where I live, it happens to have a large university. Every year, I think this is it, th…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/18 07:05 AM
2

What is a man-whore? Okay, before I get into the rest of this non-sensical screed, let's hit this. According to the ill-logic that is often presented on the Red Pill, a woman that has little to no standards or uses sex to get what she wants is a whore, I don't completely follow, but whatever. Here is the thing about it, a man with no standards can easily run up quite an n-count too, and he doesn't have to look good or dress good, he just has to be able to convince them to go for a roll with him.…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 06:32 AM
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Just sit back and wait. Usually within a month or three of starting the divorce against their husbands they find they are "horny again" and you can have all the fun with them that they would never allow their husbands to have for a few months before kicking them to the curb. It's gotten to be SOP for me. I always find myself wondering why the hell they think any man in the future will be as willing to sacrifice half as much for them as their now ex-husbands were. I've even taken a few of those m…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 05:12 AM
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Rule number 1. Don't put anything like that into media format. Individual women may understand that, but always remember that the mob wants what the loudest members of it want, and with women that is almost always a cohort of man-hating feminists. Your now ex-friend was a low rent asshole for doing that, but the opening shouldn't have been there. It can be the most innocent thing imaginable. Your advice was to just be cool and try to close with a kiss on a first date. I honestly can't come up wi…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 04:05 PM
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Dude, I'll just go back to what Chris Rock had to say on the issue, "You ain't got no job, you ain't got no woman!" Good for you picking yourself up, though. I know just how hard that is. I went on a ride through hell when my wife decided she wanted a divorce as well.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 03:48 PM
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Mostly true, but I do want to correct one small detail. Love is not a set of chemicals in your brain, that would be lust. I wouldn't be surprised to learn that at some level the feeling you get when looking a gorgeous woman is related to the feeling you get when looking at a hot car or anything else your heart of hearts desires on a chemical/hormonal level. Love, however, is a choice and it is actions taken based on that choice. There are always two partners in a marriage, and I know firsthand w…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 05:00 PM
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Well man, that's rough. She went full narcissistic sociopath on you, and if you think back as far as you can, she probably has done so even before she decided to start getting her tonsils bruised by some other guy. There is some good news to be had though. First, since you were aware of it for a while, you have probably had more time within the marriage to process through the stages of grief over it ending. Second, it's unlikely she will want to draw things out, so you can terminate as fast as y…
/r/askMRP20/09/17 03:38 AM
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That's very true. It's why I suggested just talking to her about it when he has emotions in check. At the same time, If you know your partner is being insecure then you have to do what you have to do, but keep things above board with them.
/r/askMRP13/09/17 04:56 PM
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It's called drawing a boundary. What his wife is doing is bothering him. She also knows it would bother him so she is being sneaky. He does have a choice, though. Investigate her activities further, and file for divorce when he has proof of her infidelity in hand, and start a divorce from a strong position is option one. The second option, if he wants to save the marriage, is to confront her, not in an argumentative way, with what he knows and how he feels about it, and then listen to her. Eithe…
/r/askMRP13/09/17 01:56 PM
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Now for my question. I recently found out that my wife has been giving a birthday presents to one of her younger (by 10 years) single male co-workers. I know that this shouldn't bother me, but it does. Especially since she hasn't remembered my birthday eight of the last 10 years (Yes I need to work on letting it go). Any part of this by itself isn't a huge problem. All taken together, it is a problem. I'm going to go against most of the advice here, because you have something that is going to be…
/r/askMRP13/09/17 11:41 AM
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Been married for 6 years. I’m 37, 5’10” / 200 lb, 28% body fat. (Please keep reading!) Okay. I hired a new employee. She’s a college student (21 y.o., HB8) we hired on a part time basis to help answer phones at an hourly rate. I don't know why you are concerned about her looks. One, you are married, so all in or all out. Second, why set yourself up for a sexual harassment suit. So.....okay. She’s the daughter of a client and we took a “chance” on her, although we weren’t hiring rocket scientists…
/r/askMRP12/09/17 03:54 AM
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What's wrong with the truth? If you altered your behaviors at some point she knows that, right? She would also know that the way she interacted with you changed, unless she is simply unobservant. Why make the situation more complicated than it is. Your friend called and asked for advice. You gave it. She wanted to know more, just point out that you are only advising him to change his behavior in a similar manner.
/r/askMRP07/09/17 03:43 PM
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Yesterday wife was distant and cool toward me most of the day (later discovered due to low level dread she's feeling - yesss!). In other words, she was withdrawn because you were withdrawn. I hear that's a great way to make marriages work....both partners withdrawing from each other. smacks head Look, don't reward shit behavior, in fact make sure she knows it's shit behavior and why, but don't reward it. Make sure she knows to speak to you when something you are doing angers her. Every single ti…
/r/askMRP06/09/17 08:34 AM
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I also got drunk and went of a few rampages around the house - way the fuck out of character for me and I'm still trying to really understand what that was all about - it scared her though and sort of contributed to things going downhill. This one's easy. Do you think you can just bury your emotions? Do you think you can just keep supplicating? Well, you can't. When you refuse to tell her that she is acting like a cunt and you don't like her acting like a cunt that is stuff that basically get's …
/r/askMRP06/09/17 07:05 AM
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I was 23, commissioned through OCS. I've been in 6 years. ** I'm a bigger dude and have been able to squeeze by the rope-and-choke by narrow margins. Really, I let laziness and burn out creep in and affect my fitness as much as my marriage and my other personal relationships. ** Without asking for any more information that makes you a senior O-2 or a junior O-3. Two things, from knowing more about officers than a Sergeant (E-5) really should. First, be careful about the divorce generating waves.…
/r/askMRP03/09/17 02:10 PM
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Okay, let me unpack this as much as I can this as much as I can..... Look, why do you have kids? You are both more into your career than you are either each other or your kids. 50 hours a week? 75% travel? That means you get home just in time to order take out and fall exhausted on the couch. Then, the two of you decided to add kids to this. Now it isn't at least doing something fun for a bit, it's basically changing the guard with the woman that's actually raising your kids and you or your wife…
/r/askMRP03/09/17 06:36 AM
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Okay, let me unpack this as much as I can this as much as I can..... Look, why do you have kids? You are both more into your career than you are either each other or your kids. 50 hours a week? 75% travel? That means you get home just in time to order take out and fall exhausted on the couch. Then, the two of you decided to add kids to this. Now it isn't at least doing something fun for a bit, it's basically changing the guard with the woman that's actually raising your kids and you or your wife…
/r/askMRP03/09/17 06:36 AM
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Okay, look a lot stands out here that needs to be examined and turned over... How old were you when you joined? Based on your post, I would assume you to be enlisted and would also assume you to be about mid-career, but I could be wrong. Why this chick? I know how it is around military bases. Their either taken or wanna-be dependapotumuses with very little in between and even less quality. So, what was it that drew you to this particular woman? What drew her to you? How long did you date before …
/r/askMRP03/09/17 05:34 AM
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Where I have them? It's not my research, I'm just interpreting the data. They're where they are on the chart. Not meant as a direct at you. A lot of people make the error of assuming that the monetary compensation a soldier receives in his salary is all that he gets when nothing is further from the truth. Your explanation doesn't cover everything. Almost nothing ever does, really.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 03:41 AM
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There is another way to look at this. Who is more likely to do something without having all the information at hand? Who is less likely to do something due to feelings in the moment? Flight Attendants, CSRs, Home Health Aids, telemarketers and such do not require a college diploma and are simple enough that they are fairly easily taught and not particularly hard to put into action in most circumstances. While they may not show it in a professional setting, a lot of time you see low impulse contr…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 12:29 PM
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you might as well say that mixing fabrics refers to not sleeping with women of two different races at the same time. I get where you are coming from, but we can look things up historically. Idioms were a thing, even back then, though. The same way you might say "The cat has your tongue." You don't literally mean a cat has your tongue, only that you are at a loss for what to say or how to respond. Or that part of the bible where Jesus says that if a man has faith he can speak to a mountain and mo…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 07:26 AM
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It's a dumb idea. Your wife is into you and having sex with you? No? Why are other women going to want to have sex with you? Further, I have never seen an open marriage arrangement that was stable. The only time I have ever seen one last was when the partners ended the open part of the marriage and went through some serious counseling. This is even if your wife will agree to it, which I can almost guarantee that she won't. You have other questions that require more immediate attention. You say y…
/r/askMRP25/07/17 10:48 AM
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You sound like you are developing signs of psychopathy. You are still young so there is no need for it to develop further. Continue working with the psychiatrist and psychologist. I also rather suspect that you have some emotional trauma that you don't want to discuss here.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 03:29 AM
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This is correct depending on time and tribe. It's also true that the outlook among a lot of the tribes were that the children were the joint responsibility of the entire tribe, especially in cases where women took multiple partners. In the US, I think the difference is this. Different groups, broadly defined as welfare recipient, poor rural whites and poor urban blacks and latinos tend to behave in the exact same way. Men drifting from house to house with no sense of pride or ownership. Women cy…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 12:59 PM
2

It's a different story altogether when you talk about Jamaica or Hispaniola. In the US, slaves were never the majority population in any area regardless of their density. That is not the case at all in Jamaican history where the slaves greatly outnumbered the plantation owners and other whites to the point that even a hint of rebellion brought brutal repressions. It is likely that the African diaspora in these locations maintained more of their culture and outlook from their old tribes. What you…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 12:38 PM
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If she wants to buy something with money she earned, and her part of the household budget is squared up, then it's up to her. Only rule, if she wants to buy on credit, she has to talk to you, same with you to her. If she is a SAHM, then the phrase you are looking for is, "It isn't in the budget." However, you have to realize that statement applies to you, and things you want, as well.
/r/askMRP23/07/17 06:35 AM
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Jamaicans and American blacks are two different cultures. If I were to take a look, I would probably find that it is similar to some of the more common African tribes where marriage is not formal and children were typically raised by the entire village. I simply can't look at someone's skin color and make a lot of assumptions based on that. I know Africans, for example, are usually derisive of American blacks for having it easy and playing victims.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 06:22 AM
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Dude, stop. Be very careful as you are now standing in a mine field. Get yourself to a therapist as soon as possible. She doesn't need to know exactly why you are seeing a therapist, the depression and issues related to your stroke will do well enough. You do need to work on your anger issues. But.... "She has always has a way of finding my buttons and pushing them til I lose my cool and then she turns all of her franticness to calmness and says how much of an animal I am and how it's me." and "…
/r/askMRP23/07/17 06:14 AM
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Says the "Alpha" that is apparently setting himself up to be in baby jail for 18+ years.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 05:36 AM
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"I'm on the pill" -> She means Molly "I'm bi" -> She means polar "I can't get pregnant" -> Don't breathe wrong on this chick "My dad was never around" -> This chick will do freaky shit for attention
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 05:34 AM
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Oh, Lawd! The Patriarchy strikes! What is the average man that is around these low income black women? Typically, neither him nor his father grew up in a household headed by a man. He has never been taught to work or how. He either treats women like sluts or he is a complete mama's boy, depending on the details of his childhood. So, yeah, if you are a woman, it's going to be a fairly easy decision to say that you are willing to just raise the child on your own. Especially when you know that the …
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 05:25 AM
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cBS, eh? Look, News, especially TV News, hasn't been in the business of reporting news for the most part in decades. If it isn't a current event that they can't hide if they want to, then they give you their hard slant on it. In this case, do you think that the cBS reporter, the editor, and the crew hadn't either told the women how to answer or screened them for the answer? In cBS's world, this plays to all angles....Feminists and the strong, independent woman....Blacks and the angles of bad wom…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 04:09 AM
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That isn't what studies on the subject nor the more objective observation of the spread of STDs indicate.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 03:27 AM
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Sidebar, top posts. Doesn't work with most of the women in my circles, there are a few though. These things can only be discussed in proper detail by people who have succeeded in implementing these things. There is some truth in that. In order to post usefully in a sexual strategy sub one should be sexually successful. For a sexual strategy to be halfway effective the rest of your life needs to be in some semblance of order. It was true before I got married. It has been true since I was divorced…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 08:35 AM
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I read your post. The problem is that it makes a lot of assumptions. You don't have to say that sex is validating, in reality the physical touch of another person is something we all need after all, it's saying that only guys that are good at getting this validation should post. I've known guys that were good at getting laid and they ran the gamut from a slimy liar to a man with impeccable honesty. The fixation comes from telling guys that to only post if they are good at it. I want to know what…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 08:18 AM
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Whatever you feel is necessary. Getting laid is the core of success. Somewhere tonight, an HB8 as you mark them is giving a blowjob to a guy that plays drums in a local band and spends most of his time passed out on heroin. If that is success then success is a truly nebulous thing. Women want to have sex with the most valuable men possible The "most valuable men possible" also filter and sort women. Bill Gates was never living the life of a porn star. He was too busy building a new world. Neithe…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 07:52 AM
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So what exactly is your point? To call into question the idea that external validation should be a key to your overall happiness. This is a sexual strategy sub. Okay, then what is going to work? Do you have a secret magical formula? I don't. There are things you can do to improve your chances and things that will greatly harm them. So let's discuss how to improve your chances/ You say "chicks are like taxis", we say AWALT. If women are like taxis how many taxis do you need to go through to get l…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 06:59 AM
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I understand, it's just that I think there is a lot of noise (useless information) in this sub that sometimes drowns out what is useful and actionable information. Some guy posts a field report, and regardless of it's veracity, it really is nothing more than a mildly interesting story. Okay, that's all good. Some other guy posts a detailed list of ways to act or treat a woman to get laid, and, at a glance, I know that no woman that has an ounce of self-respect would accept such treatment. Yet, h…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 06:36 AM
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Young healthy men need to get laid to be happy, You have it backwards... You need to be happy (in other areas of your life) to get laid. That miserable son of a bitch (MGTOW) isn't unhappy because he isn't getting laid. He isn't getting laid because he's miserable to be around and no woman can stand to be around him, which is the case in most if not all of the MGTOW internet crew. The second paragraph is a little off, too, getting the validation you want is like the icing on a cake. The cake be …
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 06:01 AM
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Don't forget that this sub is literally about sexual strategy. With all the talk of the somewhat ethereal alpha around here, it is about more than that. Setting the stage for success in one area of life often requires work in another. OP's point still stands, because yes, the metric of success is pussy; If you aren't getting pussy, how can your methods help? Being a more rounded person, hell just being a person that is actually living, is going to do nothing but help. Again, getting laid require…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 05:14 AM
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LOL! Are you aware of the term GIGO? Because that is what you have here. In the old days when this meant Garbage In/Garbage Out. You started with false/make believe data and then assumed that you could present good information with it. I will happily have fun with a 40 year old that is in shape over a sloppy looking 24.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 01:00 PM
1

Land whales are not picky. Not, at all. They are mostly ignored. There are considerations that go along with it. I mean, she will know you are lying if you tell her how hot she is, but if you tell her you like big boobs, or she has nice eyes, or you like her smile, that usually works fairly well. Most of them know they have to bring their "A" game to the bedroom to and can give a blowjob that most of the skinny ones won't. YMMV.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 12:43 PM
2

Yeah, the problem is with you. You have separated women into at least two different categories in your mind. One for sex. One for relationships. Relationships could cover a lot of territory from friends to serious romantic partner. We could call that Madonna-Whore complex or something else, but the effect is the same. You don't see this chick as a sexual agent in her own right. That is your problem not hers.
/r/askMRP09/07/17 12:55 PM
1

So, in all of this, it isn't clear what she wants. She misses family after not seeing them. Okay. She misses her friends from before the time she became a SAHM on the other side of the country. Okay. What does she want? Does she even know? I ask this because when you are having to do the day after day drudgery and tedium that comes with raising kids and keeping up a house, it's very easy to lose perspective on that. It's also common to want to live near friends and family, there isn't just a soc…
/r/askMRP09/07/17 05:53 AM
1

That depends. Do you care? If not, then it doesn't matter. This is coming from a guy who worked as DJ off and on years ago. We, rather surprisingly, put on our pants one leg at a time, just like normal people. There are some chicks that dig music and like the guy spinning it, just like there are some chicks that dig the bass player in a band. So, more to the point, she is with you. What is it that she likes about you?
/r/askMRP09/07/17 05:19 AM
1

Well, then a couple of things to point out...take her to a few smaller, more progressively technical day hikes, so when the time comes she has the confidence of those experiences behind her....make a set of the clothes that will be "right" a gift for her so she has at least some of the right clothing. Relationships are about give and take. Making some small adjustments to make her more comfortable helps you as much as it does her.
/r/askMRP28/06/17 04:33 AM
1

Okay, she likes to have a list handy when she is planning for something she hasn't done before. What about that isn't doable? Relatively, that's a low hanging item, and if it provides some security and comfort to her, then just write a list including the items needed. Let her mark it off, then something on the list but not packed becomes her responsibility. As to the meltdowns, that is a bit disturbing. I expect meltdowns out of a child, not an adult of any sort.
/r/askMRP27/06/17 05:44 AM
1

I'll save you one question at the lawyer. In most jurisdictions that require a separation period, proof of infidelity is a way around the year wait time and can provide grounds for an immediate divorce on the grounds of infidelity. That will make your already weak position in case of divorce even weaker. That you expect to make demands of her right now is utterly laughable. That you expect her to meet those demands while you expect to not meet any of hers is, at best, childish and stupid. As to …
/r/askMRP27/06/17 05:26 AM
2

Excuses and more excuses. You have put yourself in this situation. You and only you. You weren't getting what you felt was the proper amount of sex? You had 3 kids with her somehow, was the fucking in those cases osmosis? In each case you should have known that you could be facing up to 9 month period after the birth where she was healing, her hormones were out of whack, she was (maybe) breastfeeding and that interfered with her normal desires, she was tired from the demands of taking care of a …
/r/askMRP27/06/17 04:26 AM
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It doesn't matter. Look at this OP's history. She is going to get the house. Maybe the easy way. Maybe the hard way. She can already argue that he has anger issues. He is about to take it in the ass.
/r/askMRP26/06/17 04:33 AM
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Go ahead and get your stuff packed. Get your accounts in order. Move money out of any joint accounts and lock any joint credit cards. Have all important information and documents in a satchel. In general, prepare as if you are going to leave the house and never be allowed to come back inside with a five minute warning. If you have any firearms, give them to a trusted friend to hold. The next piece is already moving on the board and there is nothing you can do about it.
/r/askMRP26/06/17 04:31 AM
5

Look, right now, how much pain can you handle? I can already see her in front of the judge. "Your honor, my husband has unresolved anger issues. He punches the walls and doors and throws things when we argue. Here are some pictures from last year. He sulks for days after an argument and I am afraid of what he may do to me or the kids." - This is from your own posts on Reddit on this subject. "Your honor, my husband has cheated on me. He admitted to kissing other women and told them he was divorc…
/r/askMRP26/06/17 04:22 AM
1

Dude, I looked through enough of your history to gather a bit of a picture. You are middle-aged. You have kids with your wife. Your marriage bed is essentially dead. You have began thinking about and taking steps to bed women outside the marriage. Your wife is aware, at least tangentially, of item number 4. As to item number 3, I'm a firm believer that the physical intimacy of the marriage bed is literally the water that keeps the rest of the marriage alive. Here is where things can lead to a de…
/r/askMRP25/06/17 05:44 AM
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No. I'll at least qualify that with a "not necessarily". Here's the thing. Anything in your life that becomes a fixation whether that thing is money, relationships, knowledge, a drug of choice, sex, or just plain good ole debauchery is something the pursuit of which will make you miserable. If it's become a fixation it's because you aren't getting enough of it, even though you may be getting far more than others, such as the case with an addiction. In the case of sex, or more accurately affirmat…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 05:33 AM
5

Divide the upper echelon of women into three different tiers. The first group is conventionally attractive. Yes, they do get a lot of guys hitting on them. While they generally do have their pick of guys, they know a lot of guys want one thing and they actually do get tired of it. The second group is a little more than just conventionally attractive and can include quiet a variety of women. They may be a bit more than conventionally attractive and they may even have fame of some sort or be prote…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 05:17 AM
5

And what did you learn from this? The lesson here is clear and one I have counseled young men on more times than I can count. "Don't stick your dick in crazy!" Yeah, they're all a little crazy. Then there is racked up $20K in fraudulent credit cards, went lesbian and yo-yoed back, and uses drugs kind of crazy. That kind of crazy is to be avoided even at the cost of only having Rosie Palm for pleasure. The second thing I counsel is that unless you are ready to be tied to this chick through anothe…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 04:56 AM
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Meh, there's really nothing special about fucking a stripper if you aren't a customer. The hard part is meeting them because most of these girls are on the party circuit that you probably don't get to be on. Being the bouncer, as long as you don't act like a customer, you get to meet them. That is literally half the effort out of the way. The real problem with strippers is that behind that pretty smile she's throwing you lays a general hatred for humanity and usually more than a little self-loat…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 03:30 AM
1

There is so much information missing from your post that nothing that is commented on is much more than a SWAG (Sophisticated Wild-Assed Guess). What was the nature of the relationship of your friend and his wife behind closed doors? Maybe he wasn't abusive or anything, just cold and aloof. If that was it, maybe his best friend was the warm caring one and she eventually wanted more of that.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 08:28 AM
1

There is taking a risk (riding a motorcycle) and there is gambling (fooling around with another dude's wife). I'll take risks where appropriate and necessary, however I do not gamble. A for adultery rates, it's really hard to judge. First the percentage numbers of women that cheat on their spouse are all over the place. Second, I have to spread even the highest number out over years. You also assume you are big enough and tough enough to handle him, but you may find yourself at a disadvatage (i.…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 10:11 PM
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A knife, a screwdriver, or a car will do just as well. Just because you think you are Billy Badass doesn't mean you can't be laid low.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 03:50 PM
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As to knowingly fucking around with a married chick: Do you want extra holes in your body? Because that's how you get extra holes in your body. The sorts of holes that violate rule 1 of medicine, "Blood goes around, air goes in and out" which is, sort of an important rule. Further, do you honestly trust a married chick as far as you would trust anyone else? There are rare exceptions, but by and large, if she is married, keep moving. Taking that sort of risk is stupid.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 03:19 PM
2

You are doing the only thing that you can, and yeah we heard it all before. She sounds like a real winner. He needs to at least be making a recording and keeping private records when she flips out, or leaves the baby, or anything at all. Otherwise, the only luck he has is that she probably isn't smart enough to wipe him out in a divorce.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 07:30 PM
3

It's a true statement. I have seen cases where twins raised in the same house at the same time turn out 180 degrees opposite of each other. In the Army we had a guy by the name of Anderson. The guy was a grade A fuck up, got caught multiple times smoking marijuana, bought a car on credit he didn't have, and knocked up a local high schooler. Funny thing, his brother was in another company in the Batallion, squared away guy, the sort you'd want on your side in a fight. We asked his brother about o…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 08:58 PM
5

There are so many variables that go into the type of person that she will eventually be that you can not walk in with a pre-conceived notion of what is or is not. It's pure guess work. So much so that at best you are making about a lot of assumptions, some of which are guaranteed to be far off the mark, that the only thing that can accurately be said is the adage of what an assumption actually does. Don't guess from a mile out. Go talk to her and find out.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 06:33 PM
3

Hell, at least to Gilgamesh and Ishtar.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 04:08 PM
7

You don't know what she'll do. She might hit the wall. She will more than likely find some guy to marry her, squeeze out a couple of kids and life will go on. Neither of you are likely to be more than a footnote in the other's history. If you feel you aren't challenged, then challenge yourself. Instead of a major, make it a double major.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 07:13 PM
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I got to take an entire semesters worth of exams a week late because of a whiskey river incident that involved neither whiskey nor a river. Don't bother yourself with what someone else is doing. Also, find a better roomie.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 06:57 PM
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She would flake on me and blow me off. Why would I keep orbiting a girl like that? She sounds immature, but a text isn't honestly a lot of effort. Though I wouldn't make plans that were just you and her until she proved herself. I don't call up my female friends asking them to hang out like I do my male friends. Why not? It is often a chance to hear things from a perspective you did not even realize before. Your basically saying that you aren't attracted to any of your female friends? No, I have…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 06:57 PM
1

Ok ready genius, by me not texting her it shows I don't give a shit about her. Well, that's your choice. Yes I do because i've done this before back in my beta days. I would befriend the hottest girls in school and would never make a move. They only saw me as a friend and when I did they said the same thing because I waited to long. I still would fuck some of them but they rarely ever cross my mind because I rarely talk to them anymore. So what you really learned was to be more up front with wha…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 06:16 PM
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Either you can say yes and then just have a dagger going through your heart and nuts every time she brings up how she was getting railed by chad last night or you can say no and walk away and move on with your life and be healthy. Is this a real problem in your life? Was complete beta to this girl and I failed her shit tests and then she just wants to be friends. I say yes and then as soon as I found TRP I just cut off all contact completely. She texts me a few days ago out of nowhere and I just…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 03:03 PM
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Okay, I haven't even looked down in the posts, so I may be the only one, but I am throwing the bullshit flag on this post (and idea) and I'll explain why. Reason Number 1: All Relationships have a beginning, an end, and often interruptions. Unless you are born with a twin, live your entire life with your twin, and die at the same time as your twin, every relationship in your life will be begin and end within that time. Friends drift apart, romances kindle and burn out, business relationships beg…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 02:46 PM
3

The advice here to lift weights and take some sort of self-defense training is solid. Don't stop there. Different shit effects different people to different degrees in different ways. The guy that went through three battles, lived under the fear of death, and even saw his close friends became wounded and die might have no real problem with any of it. The same guy may be first on the scene of an auto accident where someone has died and have that effect him far worse. Go to a psychologist and talk…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 06:13 PM
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The pattern will hold in some way all of the time. If it isn't held then what you see will break. She is usually going to marry a guy that she believes has most of the traits for good or ill that she sees in her dad. If you are a piece of shit, then there is a great chance your daughter is going to marry a piece of shit. If you are a good man that makes it clear where your boundaries are and that they are to be respected and she sees that you treat her mother fairly, then she will learn boundari…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 05:36 PM
1

Well, he was leaving. It wasn't some grand test. Further, it may have been innocuous, we don't know. It's sort of like he dropped that in there as he was reflecting further upon it and we are seeing some re-remembering of events towards the end of the relationship which is a normal thing.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 01:56 PM
5

Look, throw out all the questions, because at the end of the day, they are what they are, questions from a young woman (person) that feels they are being abandoned by their partner. She (impossibly) wants to both move on and continue the relationship all at the same time. To be fair, you are abandoning her even though your intent is to secure your future. I'm not judging you (or her) as whether you were right or wrong, but you made a decision. She made a decision. Neither of you were wrong in th…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 01:50 PM
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You can be nice, it just can't be a strategy in and of itself. If they tell me I'm nice, I usually just tell them, "Thanks, you have a good personality!" they get the point. I'm routinely called sweet and kind, and it never hurts my chances.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 05:02 PM
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There is a difference between passed out drunk and still moving and making decisions while drunk. I maintain that if I would charge the person with a crime (like DUI) for a decision made and executed while they were impaired then I can't punish another person if they have sex with a person who is similarly impaired and chose (at the time) to consent to sex with them. In another words, regret rape isn't a thing, and I would make sure your daughter knows that. This Brock kid, though, the more I re…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 05:03 PM
11

Stop the pity party. There are plenty of women over 30. Not all of them have kids, not all of them want a "man that can take care of them", not all of the ones that have kids want you to be there kids new dad. Quite a few just want someone to have fun with and make their own money. You aren't tall? There are women that like short guys. You aren't jacked? There are women that prefer more or less average men. You do have to bring something to the table, but I hardly see how that differs from every…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 02:07 PM
3

Yeah, that first night, you should have just fucked her silly and then not even bothered with the rest of it. Also, she can't fuck a scrap of paper any more than you can fuck her bank account, so a PhD, while you did that for you, and bravo, it doesn't increase your SMV but it does make you more attractive for a woman thinking long term. It's all in the attitude and dress/grooming.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 08:42 PM
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As to the second mistake, contact a DUI lawyer right now. Follow his advice to the letter. Install a breathalyzer starter kit in your vehicle. Be prepared to take it in the ass when it comes to your insurance rates for the next few years, I recommend Progressive if you need a new insurance in this case. Start attending AA immediately, even if you think you don't need it. You are going to go before a judge who can wreck you, even if it's your first time for any crime, and I have seen some guys co…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 07:26 PM
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As someone that is a lot older let me chime in. I honestly don't think the red pill is the healthiest of places for a under 18 year old boy to be getting information on a lot of things. That Asian kid, well he might grow up and be something, he might burn out and end up doing something else. Right now he has to impress his parents. That means studying hard (which, I agree you should emulate) and playing the violin or piano because that is the only instrument of which his parents approve. I've ha…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 03:33 PM
1

Somebody should have fucked her on camera and then gave him the evidence to stop him.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 06:50 AM
3

Do you know how many times the mighty are laid low? Whatever your plans are, always lay up a rainy day fund, especially when working in a field as volatile as hedge funds. Don't get me wrong, I don't wish you or any other human harm, it's just that I have seen the best laid plans come apart in what seemed like an instant. I have seen men making over a million one year struggle to pull $45K the next.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 06:21 PM
13

You start with a mistake. My entire generation is in debt. We were forced to attend Soviet-style universities... No. No, you weren't. I heard this same bullshit argument from people graduating college after 4 years 18 years ago. Nothing was stopping you from exploring your options. You could have went to work at a company that paid for some of your college. You could, possibly, have joined the military and let them pick up the bill for your education while they paid you and maybe taught you a tr…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 06:13 PM
1

That's why I am very careful about saying these drugs are worthless, I believe that they do have a place. Also, they can be extremely dangerous if given without confirmation of an actual issue and we need to take a look at how we diagnose and prescribe the medication. Giving that stuff to an otherwise "normal" brain that doesn't have that specific problem can cause all sorts of other problems. I see it all the time where I work. A kid comes in, first time away from their parents who have made ev…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 07:10 PM
14

Dude, unless you have actual serotonin re-uptake issues (and this entire bit of science is doubtful at best) stay as far away as possible from SSRI medication. I won't say that no one ever needs it, however this stuff has become a go to medicine with doctors never checking to see if it's a problem before they hand you the prescription. The way this drug works is to literally crystallize a part of your brain. Doing this causes more neural activity and for a little while, about a month, you will f…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 10:14 AM
1

Don't get me wrong, I don't care.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 03:35 AM
2

What do you want the blonde chick? Dude, that's my ex-wife. Maybe she won't come after you with a frying pan (then again, she might), but instead what she will do is tear you apart, very slowly. Nothing will be quite good enough. Nothing will be right. Her rage will build. You won't measure up, ever, and she will let you know it through her biting comments and steady withdrawal from sex. You want it, you can have it. I may have to listen more closely to the Asian women to figure out what they th…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 12:05 AM
1

Look, after a while this is patently ridiculous. What is one of the main complaints about the Red Pill, the guy isn't getting laid or is catching huge flak from a woman about getting laid. Here's the thing, genetically, there are just about as many women as there are men, adjusting for environmental stressors and assuming that you are not in China. So given this situation, assume there are 100 people in an area, we'll even give that they are all young, about the same age, and reasonably physical…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 04:16 PM
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I can believe it. This guy is young and naive and making mistakes. Probably grew up in a fairly stable household with a mom and a dad that met in high school themselves, bought into the whole "love conquers all" schtick that media likes to sell. I have seen dudes just this pathetic.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 05:16 PM
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Okay, you communicated that you had feelings for her, you know what, good for you. I mean us humans do use various forms of language, verbal, physical, and otherwise to communicate our wants, needs, ideas, and desires. On the other hand, here are some things you did wrong. First, you should have just went in for a kiss, rather than trying to beg her to come to you. She knew how you felt. If she dodged, well, then you have a reason to walk away free and clear. Second, you didn't know this chick a…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 04:58 PM
1

Yeah, like that. It's one thing to step in and stop a physical altercation. However, if she is throwing a right punch, she has no reasonable expectation that there isn't a a right punch coming her way.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 03:30 PM
1

Why wouldn't you hit it and quit it? It isn't like she either doesn't know or can't figure out the deal, she is supposed to be a rational adult after all.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 02:49 PM
7

The DA is acing pissed. They offer plea deals because they like to keep their docket clear, plus a plea deal let's them keep their conviction rates higher than it might normally be. That said the DA might be making a mistake going for the higher charge, here. The DA went with the lesser charge before because he also understood that was probably the best he could be assured of getting a conviction on. Going full tilt may backfire. I'm sure you know this, since I don't know what type of lawyer you…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 03:34 PM
2

In the US, they are associated with a certain class of people. Usually older people. Younger people that aren't engaged in activity that have them usually fall into the neck beard category. Not at all times, though. As you said there are people that have them for their bikes for things like snacks and repairs.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/17 07:25 AM
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I hate nice guys. The thing is that are there are genuine nice guys in the world. At least there were. There are guys that can talk paint off of a wall that really just enjoy that as the challenge without necessarily needing to bed or "change" a woman, or mortgage his masculinity for doing such. White knights, though? Scum of the Earth. Nothing worse than a man who jumps to the defense of a woman who isn't interested in it. He manages to sell out his masculinity and potentially causes harms to o…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/17 07:15 AM
1

I wouldn't call an ambulance. I'm just too far out. If I call for law enforcement, the best response time they (actually he) will manage is about 30 minutes. If it were absolutely critical, I would have the air ambulance dispatched. Other than that, I would call emergency services and do what I needed to close the gap with them as fast as possible. The US is simply that large that even some fairly populated areas are quite remote. This is just a note that this isn't all about the health system a…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/17 05:59 AM
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This is just life. You think you are the first guy to sign over more than he should have because a woman you deeply cared about, even if not so much any more, shed tears in front of you. What can be said? Lesson learned. As for what to do now? You no longer have a lying cheating whore of a wife with a bad attitude to worry about. Shiva is the destroyer, if I remember correctly, so thank Shiva for understanding. Just like the rest of us, what you do with that understanding is up to you. I went th…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 03:37 PM
10

Same advice I give out to anyone who is into threesomes, swinging, and swapping.... Look, the relationship isn't going to last. It wasn't going to anyway, but when you added another dick or pussy to it (or more than one for that matter) the timer on the relationship expiration clock is ticking. There just isn't anything holding that relationship together, except maybe a mutual interest in other people. You don't really care that your mate dogged out your girlfriend, you care that he got to ride …
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 07:32 PM
1

Have you ever heard of the code of the road? I mean the real one. It's a lot like Vegas. You don't talk about what happened on the road, and not because it's illegal but because you don't want to deprive someone else of that experience. 16 was Saturday Night Lights for me. Football was life. All the lawns I mowed, all the leaves I raked, a long list of some pretty shitty low paying jobs were so that I could get to the gym and the track and train for an hour of glory ten times a season. 17 was de…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 02:02 PM
2

There is more than one path through life. Not all of us can go to university, at least right out of high school, and not all of those that could, should for a few reasons. A guy that wants to be a plumber, a welder, a mechanic, or such, doesn't need a degree out of the gate. He needs to maybe get some technical training and start working in his field. Manage his money, set up his own business on the side, work at it for a couple of years and then set up his own shop. His path will have been just…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/17 12:09 PM
0

Some of them, yes, and they have to be watched carefully. What I want, and what a lot of others like me want is to devolve a lot of powers that the federal government has usurped back to the state levels. There is no reason for the federal government to be involved in health insurance/care, but one of the main factors driving costs was a never ending stream of regulations flowing out of DC, and that was before Obamacare. There have been ranchers threatened about their property, with the governme…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 10:49 PM
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Of course it isn't. Men between the ages of 18 and 50 mostly don't need medical insurance beyond a policy that pays for a check up once a year or so and to handle real emergency situations. This is even more true if the man in question is actively involved in looking after his own health. Women, on the other hand, seem to need a whole panoply of ongoing care from about their mid twenties or so on. They need yearly check-ups, they need yearly pap smears, past thirty-five they need yearly breast e…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 05:15 PM
1

Not to mention what seems to be a suffering a slow death in the United States. Actually being able to hold a conversation with a woman and keep her interest for more than a few minutes.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 01:38 PM
1

YET AGAIN we have a guy here who thinks he knows what MGTOW is and feels free to comment on it. I've read the material. My comments are not out of ignorance. Did you ever fucking consider... Divorce Laws Alimony False Accusations Child Custody Yeah, I've been there. My kid's mom did everything she could to me. It sucks, but I came back stronger than ever. My only real problem now is that I can't keep my current lifestyle with my kids coming to live with me. She won a battle, she is losing the wa…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 02:42 AM
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My ex destroyed me. She was emotionally abusive throughout the marriage. When she was done, she had me thrown into the street with nary a dime to my name. Then she ran the business I had built into the ground with her boyfriend, who promptly got her pregnant and skipped town. All the while she kept my children away for almost a year and tried to poison them against me. If she were on fire, I would not care less. All that I learned was to not give anything I care about to a woman and not allow an…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 08:18 PM
1

I disagree. You can easily invest in US markets. It isn't as easy as someone inside the US, but it's really only one or two more steps. I actually have investments in Europe and Japan.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 06:52 PM
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These days, you speak the absolute truth. For a guy in his fifties it was a different story. His parents survived the depression. His father likely fought in WWII. His father probably had the mentality of "get a job, work very hard at it, never fail to show up" which worked for that generation and unfortunately, the wrong he taught that to his son. So his son goes out, specializes, works his ass off for less than he should be making, and then the company sells his ass out without a second though…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 04:56 PM
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Given the sad state if the average American male, this is less of a problem than you think. Subtract the homosexual men and the number equals up a little more. Subtract the men that are self-disqualified from relationships, and this is a very broad category, the morbidly obese, the guys playing video games in mom's basement, the guys who society has managed to convince are girls, other guys that are just so fucking far out there that women are actively repelled by them and the numbers look bette…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 02:02 PM
1

I've been a part of "tough guy" cultures almost my entire life. I played American style football as a kid all the way through high school. I also wrestled and played track in high school. After the Army, I worked as a defense contractor for quite a while. These are all tough cultures where you are expected to prove how tough you are. The Army isn't so much of a tough guy culture as it is a bureaucratic culture. For every soldier in the mud and dust there are ten or more soldiers and civilians sh…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 10:55 AM
9

Yes. As in another reply to the same post you are replying to, pushing LMR, as much as it is talked about here, is a very good way to open yourself up to a rape charge. Do you have $50K to spend fighting that charge? Plus, she is still in play. You send her a text the next day asking to meet up again. The time is what you made of it. A fun time with someone new isn't a bad opening. Money is just money, there is always more to be had.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 06:41 AM
5

Both men and women are humans and we often don't know we have transgressed somebodies boundaries especially when they aren't used to setting and enforcing them. There may be something that person is uncomfortable with, or there may be a cultural barrier that one party isn't aware of. A person, man or woman, that violates a boundary deserves a warning the first time. As much as possible they should be told they have crossed a boundary, why it is there, urge them to communicate their needs if they…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 06:13 AM
-1

Never forget the most important aspect of the SJWs. They want to control over you. They don't just want to be able to tell you what to do and what to say (and what not to stay). They want to control what you are even allowed to think. People with clear psychological disorders must not only be tolerated, but they must be taken seriously and celebrated (transsexuals). The state must recognize with official documentation the relationship status of two random adults (homosexual marriage). (For the r…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 08:49 AM
1

Yes it is. You have to take some very hard steps to do so.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 12:43 PM
3

This is something everyone needs to understand up front. It needs to be right along with all of the things that you think are cute and endearing about the person will annoy the shit out of you later. When you hit the point that she does nothing but complain about you, it's basically over.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 07:51 AM
11

Louis L'amour... A lot of guys these days should spend some time reading some of his stories. A lot of them follow the formula of the knight errant. The lone rider enters the territory he intends to "rule". He overcomes great difficulties with the terrain and his fellow man. In the end, the woman comes to him as he has proven himself (success). Two come to mind though I can't remember their name. In one, the hero tells the woman to prepare her wedding shawl, which she notes that she had been doi…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 01:54 PM
3

Because revenge requires an element of hatred and anger. Allowing either one of these two much sway will burn you. Set aside your feelings and look at it objectively. Even if you do want to confront someone that is cheating, keep it short and matter of fact, (you, cheated, I have evidence, we are done) and nothing more, that way she has nothing to bite on and doesn't dare try anything in case you do have proof.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 01:37 PM
1

Nonsense. You treat it like every other relationship, you invest to the value that it brings you. I've got a lot of woman friends, some are more than platonic, though I don't really run plates, it's too much effort. Some of them are really cool people whether I am sleeping with them or not. The best part is that I get to meet their friends with little to no effort.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 07:18 AM
10

It's habits that make you successful. Good parents and a fortunate childhood are a function of random luck, and nothing else. It can go a long way to making you successful. The thing about the habits is that even old dogs can learn new tricks, and it's never too late to adapt habits that can make the difference.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 05:36 AM
2

Dude, just smile. You know what it was. She was paying the maintenance to make sure you are still around, at least in her mind. Let her play her game. You play yours. Next time it comes around, smash it like a hungry wild dog would go after a piece of meat, and when you are done, tell her not to come around anymore, you can even site that you don't want your girlfriend to know if you want.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 06:53 PM
7

Oh, he might be able to force himself on her. If he was wealthy and powerful even more so. He also might end up with a poisonous tea if he did so. If you really wish to know what would have happened, go to one of the parts of the world that is rather primitive and in which there isn't much of any modern notion of a functional government. Try to force yourself on a woman and watch what happens. It would have been about the same back then.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 10:50 AM
2

I understand where you are coming from. Unless your leg is missing, the Army does not care or understand that you have a problem and, most likely, your superior is talking out of his ass and has no background in medicine or physiology but won't hesitate to assess that you are shamming, no matter how many doctor's notes you present the with. At one point in my military career, I developed problems with my leg that were so severe that I literally couldn't walk ten feet without a crutch, and got cu…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 09:01 AM
9

8000 years ago? So more or less the end of the last ice age and about the same time as a series of volcanic eruptions lowered global temperatures (shorter growing seasons) was happening. In this environment, men, especially young men, are going to be taking on a lot of risk to bring in the supplies needed for survival. The women are going to be working just as hard but usually closer to the settlement. In these conditions, no woman is going to give time to a man that doesn't bring anything more …
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 06:41 AM
2

I've been in a dead bedroom for situation that lasted for years, the only thing I will recommend for anyone that has a spouse doing this is to kick their ass as hard as possible to the curb. There may be consequences, but they can be dealt with. Why live in a situation where your spouse has weaponized access to sex? Why live in a situation where you have one desire, one need, that goes unanswered as a result of someone else's decisions? Why live with the guilt that comes when you find another pe…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/16 03:13 AM
4

Wow.... There he goes. One of God's own prototypes. A high-powered mutant of some kind never even considered for mass production. Too weird to live, and too rare to die.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/16 06:32 AM
1

No, I am saying there would be an epidemic of STI's, and increasingly anti-biotic resistant strains of STI's regardless of the use of condoms. I am not only relying on that, in fact, I only pointed out that for the theory that women are far more promiscuous than scientific studies and surveys indicate, there would logically be a correspondingly higher STI rate. That the current STI rate seems to be in line with surveys is an indication that the survey is likely accurate. Again, I don't bother po…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 07:46 AM
6

Even more than that... Are you going to risk forcing your way clear when the woman can call the police and show a mark from where you were only defending yourself, and you end up in jail.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 06:27 AM
3

Forced engulfment would be the equivalent of forced penetration. It does happen. She could use social pressure, something like insinuating that she will denounce him as gay to their social circle if he refuses to have sex with her, coercion is coercion after all. She could use the fact that men are taught not to hit women and that if there is any doubt the woman is the victim. So the scenario could be that she keeps attacking until he is forced into a position where he can't stop her without for…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 06:19 AM
1

Condoms stop most, not all, STDs, and even then, they are not 100% effective against stopping STDs. Herpes, for example, won't necessarily be stopped by a condom at all. Further, just like any other virus or bacteria, antibiotic treatment can lead to antibiotic resistant strains of the STDs. As I said, higher rates of promiscuity will surely lead to higher rates of infection and strains that are antibiotic resistant. That piece of scientific evidence alone casts doubt on the "she gets railed all…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 05:31 AM
1

What do you know about statistical surveys? It isn't somebody standing on a street corner asking passersby. Further, as I have stated, for your claim that most women are having engaging in large amounts of sex with numerous partners, you would need to show a pandemic spread of STD's. Simple math and biology take over from here. Since there is not even an epidemic of STDs at current, you need to prove your claim that the study is falsified. If you will notice, I didn't mention commitment either, …
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 05:40 PM
1

A bit further in the thread there are links to CDF and British NHS surveys. In the US it seems that the average is 6 or 7, while it is 8 or 9 for the British.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 05:21 PM
1

That was perhaps a little extreme, you think?
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 11:59 AM
0

No, but you can make a lot of observations. What do they eat? When do they eat? What effects do water temperature and clarity have? What effect does cloud cover have? When are they on bed? Do they eat different things at different times? Women, on the other hand can talk. If they seem to be acting incongruent to what they personally say they want, then perhaps you need to drill down a bit and see if your observations are in error.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 09:17 AM
4

My best friend growing up had crystal blue eyes and a sort of cockiness. He also had an older brother and a sister to observe and learn from. Girls flocked to him. He lost his virginity at 13. He had a girl or two on his arm seemingly at all times. He could get away with most anything, I got grounded for making a joke referencing marijuana. I could get away with things when I was hanging out with him. I helped him get through high school. We drifted apart after I joined the Army because I couldn…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 09:03 AM
4

Bullying has levels of severity. In the case that you described, they opened the first salvo. In my case, I finish it. I sent two bullies who did that to me to the ER. Nothing fancy, caught one off balance and pushed him over a low brick wall and he hit his head pretty hard. Threw sand at the other one and jammed a thumb in his eye when he was blinded. Nobody wanted a fight with me after that.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 07:07 AM
2

No, it isn't look back on one of the central tenets of the red pill, "A woman seeks alpha for sex, and beta for provision. Ideally, she finds these in the same man." I stated nothing that is not directly in line with that. I'm not certain why you seem to think that "effortless attraction" is actually, or at all, effortless.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 03:55 AM
2

It's because it isn't white knighting. I'm not approving of abysmal behavior or defending such. Pointing out that your information might be faulty and seems to be producing GIGO is trying to help you.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 03:49 AM
3

Yes, do step outside your frame. Your womanless, sexless frame. Yes, take something that you aren't entirely certain you will enjoy. Keep an open mind.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 03:46 AM
1

Prove they are lies. How old are you?
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 12:34 AM
2

I remember an interview where she said exactly that, she couldn't get a date with someone that wasn't a Hollywood weirdo. What did Lyle do that made her fall for him? He opened and held doors for her, he treated her respectfully without being a doormat, and he didn't pretend to be something he wasn't. Did it last? No. You know what he said of it? "Yeah, I got the girl and I lost her, but even a blind chicken finds corn now and again."
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 12:33 AM
2

This is a very fair post, and I absolutely understand the skepticism, and view rational skepticism as absolutely healthy. We are barraged with studies that say completely opposite things. Eggs are healthy, but they aren't, egg whites are okay, but yolks aren't, no, the yolks are okay, too, it's difficult to find what to believe. When I was growing up, whole milk had too many calories and wasn't healthy so they pushed 2% or 1% skim milk, then the studies found out that there was nothing wrong wit…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 12:23 AM
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I think it comes from a British NHS survey. Here is one article on that, and it claims that the average British woman has 7 or 8 partners. http://www.nhs.uk/news/2013/11November/Pages/Results-of-UK-Sex-Survey-Published.aspx Here is a similar review conducted in the US that shows average American women in the 4 to 5 partner range. http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/key_statistics/n.htm Either way, the notion that the woman you are talking to, if she is of any quality, has a massive n-count and is getti…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 09:53 PM
2

The questioning of the methodology and outcomes of scientific studies is absolutely a good thing. However, saying that this research is necessarily flawed because another piece of research is flawed isn't a scientific rebuttal. I need something besides your subjective observations and bias that you have.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 09:41 PM
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I know a lot of women that were not with "one or two" guys a year. They were, and are, selective about who they would date and wouldn't even consider sex outside of a relationship they felt was safe and secure. They didn't have sex at 15 or 16, more like 17 or 18, and they liked guys who had actual interests outside the bedroom. So, yeah, a lot of them have one or two boyfriends in high school and young adulthood, and then they meet a guy in their very early twenties and marry them. They are mos…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 09:37 PM
6

Cold Approaching has it's limits. A good salesman understands that cold calls is a volume over quality proposition. If that is going to be your method and you are only going to approach 40 women in a little over 90 days, then yeah, you are only going to close maybe a small handful of deals. It's even worse when you are just pussy hounding, believe me, they have a sixth sense when it comes to that. Tell me, did you do some volunteer work at an organization? Did you see about joining a coed recrea…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 09:30 PM
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Do you know who Julia Roberts is? I know she is on the backside of her career, but she was, and still is to me, very physically attractive. Now, do you know who Lyle Lovett is? That dude is a good singer but he has always been an ugly duckling. He was married to Julia Roberts. When they asked why she married him, she commented that no other guy had even hit on her. It turned out her wealth, fame, and beauty actually scared everyone else off. For everything she had, she was also intensely lonely …
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 09:18 PM
1

Do you struggle with reading? Offer adventure, offer mystery, but believe me, they like it the most when they know there is also security to be had and even though they are thrilled they are also safe. Look at it this way, people get on roller coasters because they are fun but there are typically huge safety margins installed so the riders are safe. A few scale cliffs without a safety net, but far more ride roller coasters. Maybe, just maybe, if I want to attract women I'm far more likely to att…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 09:06 PM
12

The best way is to stop a bully is to tell a joke. The second best way is to ignore them and go on with what you are doing. Third best is to take the way to basically go right back at them, you aren't telling them to stop, just making a case that you can cause them problems to. The last option is violent, even if it has some repercussions. If you pick this, it has to be swift, surgical, and brutal enough to send a message to any of the bully's allies that the same is waiting on them if they cont…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 02:02 PM
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I'm not sure my great uncle did. He had lived a full life. I remember asking him when he turned 83 if he was going to live to 100. He looked at me and asked, "Why would I want to do that? I'm 83 and I'm already bored."
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 01:42 PM
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What? You haven't managed to hook that up? My personal best was having sex with one woman early in the night, going to the club, hooking up with another woman, then going back for round 2 with the first woman. Don't get me wrong, I'm not certain I could pull that off now, but back in the day... As to most women having a low count, yes, because the outlier does not make the rule. For every woman that has had more than ten men, there are a dozen women that never had more than two or three.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 01:39 PM
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I don't. You know what I don't have and have never had? Women staring at me because quite frankly they are too pussified to walk over and strike up a conversation. I never had creepy old women making very inappropriate passes at me. I've never had a woman walk up and ask me for oral sex. All of this has happened to women that are friends of mine with me in the area observing. Quite frankly, I don't mind having to chase and prove myself. It bothers me quite a bit when things are too easy.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 01:34 PM
6

You know, it isn't uncommon for a man to come and go at the same time, by having an orgasm and a heart attack at the same time. You should however realize that these guys are usually around 43. If that's how you want to go, I won't tell you it's wrong. It is a little earlier than I plan to depart.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 12:20 PM
4

Where do they get these numbers? Biometric statistics and surveys. One really good way to calculate average partners is simply to observe the spread of various STDs and their various genetic strains. It seems like there's no other methodology than to ask/survey men and women directly, even if anonymously, which, if it's the case here, would make these numbers as accurate as the Presidential election polling numbers leading up to November 8th. Actually the polls were right, they were just being q…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 10:56 AM
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I highly, highly doubt the average n-count of today's women in the US is 9. Maybe if you apply the x3 rule, that sounds about right (27). Your right, I'm wrong. However, you are also wrong. http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/key_statistics/n.htm These guys are paid to be right. If they put the average n-count closer to 4, then it's probably closer to 4. Further, the average for men is ~6. Also men have a higher percentage of having over 15 partners over their lifetime. So, judging by the standards use…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 10:07 AM
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You aren't going to be laying on your death bed saying you wish you had bedded 3 more women. What will you be thinking on your death bed? Something along the line of, "If only..." If only you had taken the time to write that novel. If only you had taken the time to turn that idea you had into an invention. If only, and we can hope, you had just a few more days, or just a few really important days back. If you are really lucky, someone will be holding your hand as the light grows dim and sound fa…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 09:37 AM
1

It's all relative. "Helga" translated from old Norse as "holy" or "blessed". The same as Arena, Arianna, Holly, Olga, Olenka, and Sanchia.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 08:10 AM
6

A good lot of this can be tossed out the window. The hottest woman I was ever with was a French woman working in a German strip club near the border. She would have been a 7, maybe, according to this stupid chart. In reality, her personality, the way she moved, the way she seemed to emit sexuality.... The way she treated me, even though she knew we would never have more than that night together, all combined to make her the woman I fantasize about. If I could go back to one night and stretch it …
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 07:42 AM
22

She was tiring of his attention and the fact that he wouldn't take a hint. When he left that sort of opening, she swatted him down brutally and called it a day.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 12:06 PM
10

What is the true difference between a novice and a master in most of life's endeavors? About 10,000 hours of dedicated practice.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 11:05 AM
1

Dude, this is the sort of thing that I open up on this forum and I just sort of laugh and shake my head when I read it. We're guys. None of us are pretty. However, just like a decent woman with no major physical deformities, you should be able to get to a "6" with no extraordinary effort. Not no effort, mind you, but if you find yourself at a non-descript door in Khatmandu, Nepal, you might have gone a little too far.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 10:23 AM
1

You accuse me of using a false equivalency then drag one out yourself! I'm under no obligation to go back so get over it So that would be a "no," Feel free to find an analogy that you think works, then. No one can, or is even trying, to obligate you to do anything. That rebuttal is so full of holes it makes absolutely no sense. What part about peer support do you not get moron There isn't a thing wrong with "peer support". We used to call this supporting our friends. I having traveled the world,…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 01:56 AM
3

You didn't do anything particularly wrong. They stepped on your boundaries and then made a show of refusing to honor them. Throwing the rubber in the trash was absolutely the right move. Telling the girl to make the one who threw it at you retrieve it was the right move. Are there things you could have done differently? Yes, there are always things you could have done differently, but it can be hard to see in the heat of the moment. When she took your notebook, it would have been best to simply …
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 09:06 AM
1

Sorry a-hole you don't get to cherry-pick AGAIN with the broad generalizations. No man in his right mind goes right back into a minefield that's already blown up underneath him. The fact that MGTOW have issues should be about as shocking as the sun rising in the east. So, now love is a battlefield? I take it you are a Pat Benatar fan? Ever been in a vehicle accident? Did you /would you get back into another vehicle? At this point, everyone knows MGTOW has problems with women. No it's not you hav…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 05:35 AM
1

there are MGTOW that have issues with woman Truth. men need to D-i-s-c-u-s-s the issue to get past it! Oddly enough this is the exact same process called peer support that's happened in places like 12 step programs moron. This is a false similarity. Alcohol and/or narcotics addiction is not the same as wanting acceptance and love. Wow you SERIOUSLY believe that you need another woman to complete you? No. Have you ever heard of Maslow's heirarchy of needs? I tend to think that it's reasonably acc…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/16 02:49 AM
2

**Seriously dude what the fuck is it with you and getting laid? THIRD time now! My I-d-e-n-t-i-t-y doesn't revolve around womens approval or getting laid. Get the fuck over it already your pandering to pussy is equally repulsive to me moron. Yeah, you don't get the approval, you don't get laid. You have your identity revolving around that, instead. You choose to act like this instead of doing the hard work to become someone people might like to be around. ** Yeah and here you are whining about i…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 01:29 AM
1

Says you! Tell me smartass what's so bad about a man deciding after getting shafted in a relationship or marriage that he wants to do something different. Absolutely nothing. In fact, given that he is coming from a failed relationship, I would hope that he deeply wants something different. I would hope he is taking the time to analyze what went wrong, the mistakes that both he and his partner made, and how he would handle things in the future. It's called personal growth. You know what you're no…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 11:34 PM
0

you felt compelled to come in and start with the insults almost immedietly and again expected what? Not going to justify my choice to you but you wanna go with insults and shaming then you're getting it right back. It's not an insult to say all MGTOW have issues with women. It's an observable fact. Even if some small percentage of MGTOW does get laid, it doesn't change the fact that most of them couldn't get laid if they taped $100 bills all over their body and walked into a Thai whore house. Th…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 11:25 PM
2

Look, I'm going to combine these, because I don't really care enough to write two separate posts. NOT VOTING Hillary dumbass, yet another generalization I'm not saying you were. I was only commenting on her likely impending victory. And then you declare this to be a pity party without asking about why it's being done or even what it's about making the same broad generalizations that you just accused me of! You want to know why people might think you are a pig? You ought to be asking why you are …
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 04:02 PM
2

I will call you an asshole for assuming and projecting a bunch of things that you THINK you know about me. Go ahead, it's still a free internet, well until Wednesday. Hail, Empress Hillary! Think it can't happen to you huh? Think what can't happen to me? Any woman, any time, anywhere can destroy everything you've worked for on just a say so. Go ahead there moron PROVE ME WRONG on that! I've got an ex-wife. I won't go into details, but yeah, she destroyed everything. I built that and more back. C…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 10:16 AM
2

Look, you want to go monk for a defined time and a defined purpose go ahead. Maybe you are pissed at all women because of the way you perceive you were treated by one. Maybe you keep getting into relationships where you feel you get exploited, and it may even be true. It's fine to take a step back, clear your head, examine your experiences and learn what you want. Learn to mark an end to that season and let that shit go, it's poison to hang onto. The second you start proudly waiving a MGTOW bann…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 09:48 AM
1

This is a crunchy granola version of feel good parenting that just never works in the real world. I'll say it again...Children are not, by definition, wise. They will see and want things that might not be good for them. Given their choice, they will not eat good food, get enough sleep, or get an education. Work is not a pain for me. I own my work. Whether drawing a paycheck from an employer or as the owner of my own business. The "exploitation of the bourgeoisie" hasn't ever been the truth.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 06:07 AM
1

Do you have any children? Let me tell you, they are far from perfect. They are slaves to their desires. They want to eat candy. They want that toy. They want a puppy. Maybe they even decide they want a bee for a pet. Yes we teach them how to act in their own best interest. To discipline themselves from eating candy so much candy they get sick and cleaning their teeth to keep their teeth from rotting out of their skull. Discipline and discernment so that maybe instead of running out and buying a …
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 04:33 AM
1

Anyone that is too stupid or too stubborn to gain control over their lives and their future to the greatest degree that they can is a slave. That is as it has always been and always will be. Don't get me wrong, they may live a comfortable life, eat well, own a home, watch their wife get fat, and such, but they are never truly free. Freedom requires education and demands risk.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 04:18 AM
1

No, I think through my life, another 40 or 50 years I hope. I give some thought to the lifetime of my children. I give some thought to the early lives of my grandchildren. I don't think anyone can see or act much farther out than that and lay any claim to accuracy. Sustainable is a funny word to me, though I know it's popular with the group of people generally called millennials. The way crops were planted in the American Midwest in the 1920s wasn't sustainable and in fact caused a lot of disloc…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 03:10 AM
3

Yeah, the story Job came to mind. It does for me when I listen to a lot of MGTOW guys. I can understand going monk mode for a while to achieve a goal or just to give oneself time to reflect on things and learn lessons. I can't understand choosing to live life in such a way that you are purposely eliminating the greatest part of it mostly because it may result in pain.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 02:27 AM
3

Oh, let's be honest, you get all year. To yourself. And your favorite porn site. And the voices in your head. Look, I don't care if you are or are not a misogynist. I don't care if you are or are not angry. I don't care if you got hurt. I know you are not being particularly reasonable. I won't even call you a loser because we have all lost things or people we cared about and we have all failed at something we desperately wanted or even needed to succeed at. I will call you a loser for not gettin…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 02:07 AM
4

I know a guy that once took a $500 sip of water from a water fountain. He was a farmer. He had planted soy bean the year previous, and it just happened to be the year that it started becoming more useful. That year, he planted soy again. His neighbors planted soy as well. So did a lot of other people that had seen the profits made on the previous crop. So, while the offering price started at the previous years price, there was now a glut of soybean available and the price point immediately began…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 01:46 AM
1

Given enough time the survival rate drops to zero. As for the here and now...someone is offering you the second best deal that has ever been offered in the entire history of humanity. The response (not only by you, but by an increasingly uneducated and functionally illiterate horde of humaninty) is to spit on the deal and cast aspersions upon the men that are offering it to you.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 01:39 AM
1

No, it doesn't. I don't give a fuck where my shirts are manufactured. You want to know why? It's low value production and subsequently low wage, and increasingly robotic if it isn't in a sweat shop. Wake up, Hustle, learn finance, invest wisely, hustle some more, take ownership of your work to the largest degree possible, and you will have opportunities before you that were unimaginable before. I don't care if you work in a corporate office or you work for yourself. Option #2. Sit on your ass an…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 12:01 PM
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If you're scared, say you're scared. Seriously, just admitting that something scares you gives you some power to dispel the fear. Having a global marketplace presents unique challenges and unique opportunities. You have to ask yourself what you want out of it. You can find a niche and find ways to do provide a good or service that is better than anyone else. You can choose from a myriad of companies to invest in that if done right, over time, can provide you with a stable source of income that y…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 10:56 AM
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SO, long story short, the smoking hot chick that was very sexual realized that she could put in about an hour and a half of work a week and make out real nice, even better since she didn't pay income tax on it. You couldn't handle that, and that's okay, don't make a scene of it. The thing is that you were enjoying the drama just as much as her. If she is using drugs and has money she can't really explain you should have been on the move, anyway.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 04:35 AM
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It's hard to say where the alpha falls, I've seen studies that indicate that he may get choice, he doesn't necessarily get priority. I just see a lot of advice on this board that will literally lead guys that want some success with women in the complete opposite direction of having any success. Telling guys to put yourself first is absolutely the right thing to tell them. Telling them to always be aloof or never show weakness leads them down a bad path. An area where a person has no particular n…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 10:25 PM
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Holy Shit! This is past trying to talk or go to some useless counselor. He needs to call her bluff, immediately. File for divorce, find an easier job, and let her pay for him to go to school for a few years. Lastly, find some chick that isn't a blood sucking leech.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 09:54 PM
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This all falls apart pretty quick when you start talking about apes, it is at best an absurd reduction and at worst highly flawed. Yes, higher primates operate in a hierarchal type structure, but it is as often matriarchal as it is patriarchal. The Alpha male may have his choice of the females in the troop, but it's a lot of shit to go through. He is the leader. He is looked to as the defender. He is also looked to as the provider. He shows weakness, which he eventually will, and it's a long fal…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 01:31 AM
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I am not necessarily a nationalist, but I am a huge fan of western civilization. Not that we are without fault, but most, not all, of the major advances in human civilization of the last 400 years have come from western civilization. That doesn't make me a racist or a bigot. I appreciate other people and what they and their cultures bring to the table. However, there are ideologies and religions that are incompatible with anything resembling civilization in a modern sense. The problem is that mo…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/16 11:11 PM
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Think of all the cool places you would like to go, the Great Wall of China, The Eiffel Tower, Angkor Wat, Ayers Rock, The Grand Canyon, all cool places to experience. Think of all the cool things you would like to do, backpack across Europe, learn to fly a plane, maybe fly to Vegas and rent a Ferrari for a weekend. How much of that will your bank account allow right now. Keep a perspective on things. Maybe you don't spend all your time drunk at some generic frat party now, but memories are to be…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 04:33 AM
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Because it's what the elite cabal that are running things want. It's why Hillary and Obama manipulated a civil war in Syria. Keep us spending billion after billion in conflicts that we have nothing to do with and nothing to benefit from. Then set us up against a country with an economy about the size of Mexico's so the world can be more easily polarized and controlled again. Maybe not a hot war, but a return to the bad old days of the proxy wars that we called the cold war.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 04:24 AM
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That's why the founding father's created a republic, or more accurately a republic of republics. It's also why they had controls on who could and could not vote. They wanted people that voted and held office to have some skin in the game and not just anyone that would vote themselves money out of the treasury, which will be our ruin.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 04:20 AM
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The solar system, hell the galaxy, has plenty of resources. As near as we can tell the place is full of useful rocks. It's time that we invest the energy and resources into our ability to exploit what is a nearly unlimited supply of almost every resource imaginable.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 04:10 AM
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There are times I pity a lot of you and other times I am glad that you found out before enduring what I and others have been through. 16 years...and for the last ten, I didn't love her. I had lost all hope and just kept trying for a future that I knew deep down just wasn't going to happen. I did it because I had a memory of the dream that I married myself to. I did it because I did love my kids. I did it because I let myself hope that one day the evil, sexless, controlling crone (just like her m…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 11:35 PM
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"unconscionable" has a specific meaning under the law. If, for example, the agreement would leave one party destitute if it were considered into relation of the rest of the document. The thing is that we can shout it from the highest of heights and the thing is that most men are still going to get married at some point, even the high status types, maybe especially them. I have a strong suspicion that the utility of frantically warning men not to get married is even less useful than refusing to g…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 11:37 PM
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Courts have to abide the law, and legal reason must be given, which would have to be shown as follows from findlaw. http://family.findlaw.com/marriage/top-10-reasons-a-premarital-agreement-may-be-invalid.html NO WRITTEN AGREEMENT: NOT PROPERLY EXECUTED: YOU WERE PRESSURED: YOU DIDN'T READ IT: NO TIME FOR CONSIDERATION: INVALID PROVISIONS: FALSE INFORMATION: INCOMPLETE INFORMATION: NO INDEPENDENT COUNSEL: UNCONSCIONABILITY: Further, I see no reason why clauses could not be inserted stating that i…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 10:29 PM
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Absolutely, and pay separate lawyers to explain it to you and to her so she can't ignorance and a notary public so she can't claim coercion.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 09:27 PM
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May I ask, What is your jurisdiction?
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 09:23 PM
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You can't assume that the world is all kumbayas, unicorns, and fairies when all the evidence available says that it is not. There is some truth to the idea that you have to prepare, but it isn't muscle memory per se that must be prepared. Thumbs jammed deep into eye sockets are a rather emphatic way of saying, "No!" Done right, the attacker is both blinded and in bad debilitating pain. It sounds harsh, but a larger, more dangerous, foe can be checked if they leave themselves open. I have a frien…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 09:19 PM
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You are correct, and I have edited to "can not". If you buy your home prior to the marriage, it can be protected as an asset that you brought to the marriage. Otherwise it is a joint asset and like all other joint assets it is subject to dissolution at the termination of the marriage. One partner may be granted temporary use, but the asset is dissolved and any profit equitable split. I already commented that I view child custody and support to be severely out of bounds. Alimony is now a lesser i…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 08:41 PM
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Likewise, agreements within a corporate charter can not negate state law. That said, there is fairly wide latitude in both. As long as the agreement does not attempt to negate some facet of law, such as rendering one party open to destitution and privation, then the court will have no choice but to uphold it. In the US contract law is a very serious matter. It is codified in the US and various state constitutions that contracts not coerced or in violation of the law must be upheld.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 07:27 PM
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I agree. I would like to have a relationship, but I am more afraid of a sexless relationship than I am of being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 12:16 AM
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If you are living with the person and you aren't having sexual intercourse then you are just some sort of weird roommate. If the other person is consistently wanting sex and you are consistently refusing them, then if they get that urge scratched somewhere else, it's on you, not them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 12:12 AM
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No, there were never any allegations of abuse from me. She took years destroying my self esteem in detail. In the end, I was just trying to keep my head down and stay away from her. Sex was a forgotten memory, she had convinced me to never even ask for it. As I said, men that have endured what I have endured don't rush into new relationships.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 12:06 AM
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I wish I could tell. They may love their mom, but they despise her and her family for their actions. As it is, I tend to keep any woman I am allowing around separate from them. I was always the parent that they were closer too. I was the caretaker parent.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 10:05 PM
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You bring up some very fair and valid points, but it's hard to explain the view a lot of very reasonable men bring to the table. I just turned 40. My ex-wife should have been a NAWALT example. When she decided she wanted a divorce, she cut me out of my kids' lives for over a year, just because she could. When we finally got to court she gutted me without mercy. The only thing that saved me was that I asked for alimony and that made her waive most of the child support. She drove every dagger she …
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 09:27 PM
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I guess you would have to think about horror/snuff movies, which were never my cup of tea anyway. When I watch a war movie, I'm generally too busy laughing at what the idiots in Hollyweird think it's really like. In either case, a veteran that's walking into a movie knows what he is walking in to and is prepared for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 02:34 AM
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I'd recommend that you learn what PTSD actually is. I am a male veteran of Iraq and Afghanistan, and I have PTSD. PTSD will not cause you to go berserk. It can make you moody, constantly irritable, it can give you symptoms of depression and ADD, it may even make you lash out unexpectedly in particularly severe cases. It will not in any case make you "go berserk". Reading is unlikely to trigger anything. Talking about things won't trigger either, it's more likely to help than to trigger. Someone …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/16 10:40 PM
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No, the attack has to be quick and has to maximize your advantages. The opening should be a feint against the most dangerous opponent, followed by a disabling shot one of the others. (Knees, groin, throat, eyes, it doesn't matter, just make sure that the shot puts that guy out of the fight.) After the first shot, attack the most dangerous. No feint, again disable. Then deal with any remaining opponents.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 12:47 AM
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Focus more on the notion that no matter what, there is a way to win, though you can't play by the rules someone else set out for you.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 05:48 AM
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Have you ever heard of the Kobayashi Maru?
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 04:45 AM
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It depends a lot on the culture. Most of the arranged marriages that I ever found in my culture (US, southern) it was at least a little bit of a business deal between the groom and the bride's family. The groom typically received the advantage of the bride's familial relations in the community, and the father secured a good son in law to carry on the family. It didn't make these marriages wrong or bad, just that there were other considerations in play than love, and that's fine. Most fathers wer…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 04:40 AM
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Most of this is simply impenetrable. May I advise that perhaps you let the effects of the coffee high wear off before you start. There has never been such a thing as "sexual socialism". In prior generations the situation of life was different. We can not appreciate how things were while pretending that the situation is what it was at that time. First, most of the labor that could support a family was difficult and involved working in often dangerous conditions. Farming, Mining, Construction, Log…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 04:11 AM
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You might be missing something, but I can tell a little bit by how aggressive and aggrieved this woman is in her post. As a father, he has essentially zero rights in the family court system. If the mother refuses to allow the father to even have access to the child, law enforcement will do nothing and regard it as a civil matter even if he has an order allowing him parental time. If he pursues the matter in court, it will cost him money, take months, and she will at best get stern warning. it co…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 09:39 PM
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I was going to right a much longer post, but to sum it up, some people's darkest day is but a cloud passing in front of the sun to others. I am glad that you were able to learn an important lesson before some useless, but pretty, woman got ahold of you and sucked your bank account and your soul dry.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 11:09 PM
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There is no happily ever after. The fact is that I might choose neither, given the options available. If sex were on demand, I would tire of it. The loving marriage may include a woman who wills herself to old age decades ahead of time and turns the bedroom into an icebox, even thought she still loves her husband. I once would have chosen the marriage. Actually, I did. Now, I would choose something else. I would choose to have access to hot women and have that chance to have sex with and let the…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/16 11:03 PM
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Yes, we are all aware of what giving money to politicians is going to result in. It's the same effect as giving a crack addict cocaine.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 04:22 AM
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It's a shame that our language lacks a real depth of expression on the subject of love. The kind of love between two brothers (or any family members) is called Philos in Greek, and is the origin of the English word filial, as well as the city Philadelphia, literally meaning "city of brotherly love". The kind of love between a man and a woman is agape (ah gawp A) in Greek. It goes quite a bit deeper into how both the man and the woman respect and love each other. A big part of the problems we hav…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/16 04:21 AM
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It all depends on what you want. Do you want babies? Maybe you are better off with one that is a bit younger. You do not want kids? Some of these women are excellent partners. Some of them, that have already failed at marriage once, really are just looking for a partner. I'm 40. Time takes it's toll on men as well, and everything we can do is ultimately a stall. Live right, exercise, eat well, and you'll still get wrinkles on the side of your mouth and crow's feet at your eyes. Your hair will go…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/16 03:23 AM
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Both you and the other person that responded to you are partially correct. The state does get rewarded by the federal government for collecting child support. If the Child support is collected by wage garnishment then it first goes into an account owned by the state, which collects interest on that money until it disperses it to the awardees account. States make millions off of that interest. Either way, the entire system is a corrupt mess of kickbacks and incentives to do the wrong thing.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/16 02:59 AM
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This is a late entry and no one will read it, but what about extended periods where sex was only very rare? In that case, I had a period of eleven years where a torrid sex life was once a month, and very often I went without sex for over a year. It was devastating to my self-esteem. It took being destroyed in a divorce and limping back to life before it ever improved.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/16 10:36 PM
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Something seems wrong here. Roma are matriarchal societies. Men are usually treated like dirt.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 11:29 PM
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When I was in high school, I was a football (American) player with prospects to play at a high level in college. Then an accident on the field put me in spinal shock. For five minutes, I could not move, though I could breathe. I was more scared in those minutes than I was when I had enemies shooting at me. About a week later I started having seizures. I couldn't stand to be in day light. Even normal room lighting or the light coming from a TV was too much, I would have a seizure after a while. T…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 04:07 AM
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These are extreme examples of failures that are impossible except for the support of the government. These women all have mental issues. Some of them just have low IQ, and I hate to say it but there isn't much that can be done about that. Some are women that truly never did emotionally only matured to a level of maybe 14 years old. They have an entitlement mentality that would blow your mind and all the self-control of a young teenage girl. This could be the result of abuse that occurred to them…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/16 11:43 PM
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LOL, Every single duty station I was at had a college or university somewhere near by. You don't want to know how many times we took college guys girls away from them, and gave them back later, slightly used. There were some guys in the military that were bitches. These were the guys that sat in the barracks all day and bitched about how much wherever they happened to be at sucked. Your knowledge of such things is very minimal.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 03:25 AM
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What are you talking about? It's extremely easy to get into the army. All you have to do is be fit and pass a simple test. That really depends on the time you enlist and how the overall economy is doing. If they can screen to get the best applicants, then they certainly do. If the economy is strong, they are less picky, just like every other employer. What do you mean decent pay? You start at 1,566 a month. After 4 years and E-3 rank you will be at 2,082. First, if after four years, you are stil…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 01:41 AM
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I think maybe you intended to respond to the other poster, but yeah, I maybe didn't retire. Still, I finished my Bachelor's Degree, on the Army's dime. Then the GI Bill put me through to a Master's Degree. It's all about what one is willing to put into it.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 01:22 AM
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LOL! I was in university and I had a real job. This real job, working a metal press and moving toolboxes for trucks paid like $8/hr in 1995 money with no benefits of any sort to speak of, and if you didn't like it, or the way they treated you like shit, they had a line of applicants at the door and you were welcome to leave. At University, I was making straight A's and digging myself into a hole with college debt because I didn't know how to get scholarships. Great prospect's, eh? A job in an ar…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 11:18 PM
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Why should their employment, past or present, bother me? I don't, as a rule, refuse friendship with anyone regardless of their station in life. If they are a negative influence they may be held to being distant friend, but nonetheless. As far as LTR with one? I got that notch a long time ago. Let me ask you something, have you ever been with a woman that was so comfortable in her body and with her sexuality that she really doesn't have any hang ups? It's a pretty sweet ride. We used to laugh at …
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 09:19 PM
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No, not perceived as higher value. I have had several women that were strippers that were friends of mine. I didn't meet any of them in the club, and have no real interest in going. Do you know what a mark is? That's the guy that's getting ripped off in a scam. That's what they actually think of their customers. They go in, they press their boobs in some guys face, maybe rub their ass on him a little. He isn't allowed to touch them. They take the money and move on to the next horny rube. Don't m…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 10:03 PM
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I went home with a fat chick once a bunch of times.... https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=CJ0FxS71RUg Seriously, not a big deal. I doubt she is looking for much more than getting laid herself.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 06:00 AM
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Yeah we all pay, but how much? $160/hr? That seems a little overpriced. I checked once and found that I was paying about $30 in indirect costs for women that were willing to fuck me. It might be a little more since I have moved up in class of woman, but still a lot cheaper than a hooker.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/16 09:18 PM
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Okay, dude let's break this down a bit. What were you thinking, or hell even thinking with? First. Your military. Let's assume that the local police were using this prostitute to conduct stings. Does the term 45 and 45, reduction in rank by two grades, and forfeiture of one-half of one months pay for two months mean anything? Because if you were very lucky that is the minimum the modern US military is going to get you for. Clearing things on the civilian side still would have cost you over $1K j…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/16 09:13 PM
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I'm in the same boat, except the ex was abusive and I was desperate to hang on long enough to protect my children. It didn't come across as whining. Now my children are older and they appreciate that I don't bother to introduce women to them.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 10:24 PM
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No. Just no. Own your shit. If you chose what you believed was the correct course of action given the information available to you, then you are not wrong. In this case, you tell the other person that you proceeded based on logical information and that no apology is forthcoming, and they need to get their emotions under control. If they continue, then the next time something needs doing that they don't want to do, but don't want to give you the authority to handle, they do the work. If you since…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 09:41 PM
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I now weigh 66kg. I bench 85kg, DL 130kg and squat .. not so much. I have visible abs that you can see the shape through decent clothes, and that makes a BP / RP stuff even more obvious. Good Job! My awesome life was fucking awesome until I got married .. and then divorce raped. I was a poster child BP guy. Now I'm just trying to put the pieces back together. You will find more than a few of us around here that have been through the marriage/divorce mill. It is the past and there is nothing you …
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 08:53 PM
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No. Not at all. In fact, just by being you, you maybe dodged a lot of bullets. Young guys don't make good decisions, especially when the little head has taken over the thinking. You probably don't see it now as I imagine that you haven't kept in contact with very many of the girls from your class in high school. I am 40, and by my reckoning absurdly young to be a grandfather, yet I have met a lot of women from my class of high school that had 6 and 7 year old grandkids (the math works both ways …
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 12:31 PM
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Such women are easy to screen and avoid. If she doesn't accept responsibility for her actions, then she hits the road. They aren't worth the headache.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 03:53 AM
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I think one of the best ways to take control of yourself and your time is to use SMART objectives. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/SMART_criteria Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant (to your current overall goals), Time-bound Using running for example, (and assuming this is realistic) you set a goal to run four miles in 30 minutes or less in two months, let's say you currently can make that distance in 45 minutes, so you are looking for a 50% improvement in your overall time. The first thin…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 03:04 AM
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No, it isn't. Humans are creatures of habit. At the start of any new activity, it takes conscious repetition for weeks or months to develop a new habit. It takes longer to completely break a bad, but pleasurable habit. Take running for example. If you commit to running 30 minutes every morning, the first few weeks to a month are going to suck. You are going to be sore. You are going to want to turn the alarm clock off and get 30 more minutes of sleep. You won't want to drink water to make sure y…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 12:00 AM
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My senior drill sergeant pulled me into his office immediately following breakfast chow. He ripped into me in a way only few men have experienced, Ultimate respect, I went through that experience myself. It either makes you better or it breaks you, which is what that environment is meant to do. The problem is that environment is only a small part of it. That manner of counseling doesn't work out in the permanent duty stations. I'm sure your are familiar with the FM 22-100. It's also not a good p…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 03:07 AM
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Almost everything can fit in three concentric rings. The center ring, which is really very small, includes everything that matters to you and that you can directly do something about. This includes your attitudes and your choices. You don't get muscles or get rich by playing video games. This is where you do give a fuck, and do worry. The next ring include things which matter to you, but you can't do much directly about, or things that don't matter to you but you could effect. This includes thin…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 09:14 PM
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Actually, the only studies on the matter, which are very few as a lot of researchers refuse to study this indicate a unsubstantiated or false was as low as 15% and as high as 54%. In cases where it was provably false and women were willing to answer why, it was usually to cover their behavior or as a very easy way to punish a man who didn't want anything to do with them. There are also studies that indicate that women rape men at about the exact same rate as men rape women, just they use differe…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 09:06 PM
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No, but you really want to. After all, how many posts talk about hot chicks being past around and with a lot of guys? What do you want to be with? Ergo, you would be happy being with a used up slut.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 05:05 AM
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Wait, how do you get "Lessons Learned"? This just some weird rant. Anyway... •The "grow up" card hurts late bloomers and guys who peak later in life because it tells them about all they missed out on while they were improving themselves as well as reminding them that the "ship has sailed" and they can no longer enjoy the casual sex, parties, wild one night stands, and other fun experiences of youth "Grow up" hurts your feelings? Try telling them to mind their own business. "That ship has sailed"…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 05:04 AM
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It's a complicated world and sometimes things just don't work out. I'm a divorced man with kids. My ex destroyed our relationship, rebuffed my efforts at building a co-parenting relationship, and is in the process of alienating her own children from her by her actions. As I said, verifying that she has her shit together and isn't looking for a meal ticket is important. My current favorite relationship is with this woman that has 4 kids, but her and her kid's father have a really good working rel…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 04:30 AM
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...and, he was one of the USAF's first computer guys. Hell, he spent World War II killing communists that had invaded his country and sent them home with their tails between their legs. He went hunting in Turkey. He panned for gold and hunted moose in Alaska. He was an IT guy before there was a functioning idea of what IT was. He earned a bachelor's degree in botany and published books on the subject and owns several patents. What have you done by comparison?
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 04:14 AM
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Not really. The Ottoman empire was quite tolerant of Jews and had no problem allowing Iberian Shepardic Jews settle in their territory. In fact, muslims only became more hostile to Jews in the 1800s. I've always regarded it to be kind of funny. Make it so a group of people can't rely on work they can do with their hands (pogroms and such) and then be shocked when they become very talented at getting by using their minds.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 01:17 AM
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The officer that pinned the Adolf Hitler's first Iron Cross on him was Lieutenant Hugo Gutman, a German Jew. The name of the first recipient of an Iron Cross in WW1 is Oskar Niemeyer. The Nazis purged a lot of the records related to the religion of WW1 soldiers if they were Jewish. As to the song, I found it in an old research book I had from years ago. I don't own it any more after my divorce, but I might remember the name. Yes, a lot of Jews were communist and the German right (what passes for…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 01:09 AM
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Nazis were monsters. That they lived and died in an age of monsters is something else. Do you know the religion of the first German soldier to win the Iron Cross in the Great War? Jewish. Do you know the song, "Horst Wessel Lied"? The original was written with a English name because a patriotic German who was Jewish and believed the UK would be the next major German enemy. The Germans were the Jews and the Jews were the Germans. Marching your neighbor off to a death camp because he worships diff…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/16 11:26 PM
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I wonder about my grandpa, though I am still glad the man came along. My grandmother had two kids out of wedlock in the American south, which was a big time no-go at the time. Then she married a guy, cheated on him, got pregnant by the other guy (this one is my dad), and her husband used the pregnancy as evidence of adultery and divorced her. Then my grandpa came along. He married a woman with three kids and a divorce, and had four more kids. They were together until he died. She mourned to deat…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/16 09:53 PM
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Women initiate divorce 70% or so of the time. So more than likely, that divorcee woman initiated the divorce knowing there was no real down side to her for doing so. The usual reason cited for divorce? "We grew apart." Which roughly translates to, "When all the chemicals wore off and the baby(ies) came and love (loving her ex, anyway) turned into actual work (True love is damned hard work.), and she didn't want anything to do with that." This holds true in almost all cases where one of the 5 A's…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/16 09:41 PM
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Very true...things like emotional intelligence, knowledge of psychology, studying salesmanship, and just plain learning how to find out what a person really wants can do almost as much as all the lifting in the world. Lift for yourself, so that your body can keep going as long as you want, long after your peers bodies confines them to comfortable chairs and cheering for sports teams on TV. Study PUA because it has some useful stuff, but don't stop there. The psychology of love and how to make a …
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 12:05 AM
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2 things... They basically robbed the depositors of their banks that had branches in the UK. They had an option that was simply not available to larger countries. Not recapitalizing the financial system was never an option.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 02:05 AM
2

I lucked out, the previous owners trashed it on the way out, and it was so bad the bank couldn't do a lot with it. They were looking to unload it. I am in Virginia, close enough to everything, yet still far enough away. There will never be a house close (in distance) to this one.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 02:06 AM
1

LOL! Whatever works for you. This little place that I have was a badly distressed foreclosure when I got it. It took a good home improvement loan and about 8 months of blood and sweat to make it into what it is now. It was stupid luck that it fell into my lap.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 07:16 PM
32

Man, the games you have to play when you don't manage frame and expectations. Quite frankly, I'd be exhausted. I own a four bedroom house with a very private in ground swimming pool. If she is good looking, I want her to come to my house. I want her to feel very comfortable around my pool. There is nothing like having a hot chick completely comfortable sunbathing nude beside the pool. If I am asked about work, I laugh and tell her that it's boring, but it pays the bills.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 01:39 AM
2

The real question you need to answer is different. What work will not be affected by automation. These are jobs that absolutely require direct, human to human interaction or that require specialize knowledge to repair the machines when they break down. Others might be jobs that work in the design process. One of the things that will eventually happen is a guaranteed minimum income as automation increases and the need for humans decrease.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 01:31 AM
0

I've been here mulling at this question for a minute, and on balance, no, it isn't a good thing. This is from someone who benefits from the current state of things. As others have pointed out, women use this freedom to seek out the Chadliest version of her Chad and will tend to see anything less as a consolation prize. He will not get her best. He will likely end up facing an unappeasable woman, and never really know why. Take a look at what happens with women on most dating sites. Their ego is …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/16 09:09 PM
1

In my case, I wonder if it just isn't because I am the rare find, now. From what I have seen, most guys my age are either married or have been run through the mill by women and living just above poverty. They come to my house, it's nice and clean, the swimming pool area is nicely set up and very private, and I just finished my cooking area on the porch. They see serious money and tolerate a lot to get at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/16 08:16 PM
1

Not per se... I have more than a few doubts about the man. The problem is I have no doubts about Hillary. How a person can publicly admit, on live camera, to no less than six felonies and still be not only walking free but be respected by a major political party is beyond absurd. The fact that I am also certain she would be a terrible president is almost secondary. As far as Latinas, In my experience they are on average better in the sack than any of the rest. YMMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/16 08:10 PM
1

You know what is funny about this? I see more than a few women mention "office jobs". I had one of those once. I hated it. I can stand having a desk, but only so long as I am using it to plan my next work.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/16 09:59 PM
1

Struggle is a very relative term. In the mid-late 1990s, I did okay in my early twenties, and I am not Chad, by my reckoning. I don't even know how many college chicks I ran through, and that doesn't even count the Mexican girls (I love latinas). Then I made a stupid decision to get married for no reason. Fast forward 16 years, two kids, a dead marriage with a dead bedroom, and I was single again. My self esteem was crushed. I had no functioning ego. I was basically sent all the way back to the …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/16 09:52 PM
0

It sounds like you followed the basic prescription I laid out. Work on the issues, gain enough self esteem not to base your opinion of yourself on someone else's acceptance or rejection, spend some time in the gym, and work on your ability to communicate. Congratulations.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/16 09:36 PM
42

The advice here is solid. Lawyer up. Tell the lawyer everything that happened. Have the lawyer talk to the police and get any necessary affidavits. They may think you are easy prey right now, but when a lawyer talks to them, they will back off. If she filed any sort of report, sue her for false reports and make her pay the lawyer bill.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 11:08 AM
0

How did you get to the point where you had a fwb?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/16 09:21 AM
1

It won't. Anxiety or anger over "not getting laid" is just the outward manifestation of other, more complex, issues. For all of their lamentations, "getting laid" is easy and can be had for relatively cheap, a trip to backpage, a few phone calls, and it can all be settled. It isn't about "sex". It's their outward manifestation of their inner self loathing. They want to have a relationship, often desperately so, but combined with their destroyed sense of self and their complete inability to commu…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/16 06:36 AM
74

First...WTF is this? I mean seriously. This is like that song that had Johnny Cash in the title, but the song has seriously nothing to do with the title. Second...This is a delusional fantasy. Look back up through your own writing. At one point you start referring to Chad as "you" as in..."he fucks her good and heads to the shower, through the door she's laughing over some text from her boyfriend. When you get out of the shower she's already pushing for what you're doing this weekend" QED. Third…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 12:38 AM
0

If I were one, I would just have a deflection handy. Talk about a past love that ended in tragedy and how all the years since, you have never felt the need to be with anyone else. Bonus if you can arrange to have a few relics of that tragic love. The same people that might stigmatize a person that was never in a relationship aren't going to question that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/16 11:13 PM
1

You are taking a huge bet. First, that the incel walks into a bar or a club in the first place. They never really make it out of their front door. Most of the true incel types I have met have a combination of problems. First, terrible self-esteem and no functioning ego, just an id and part of a superego. They were never taught self esteem, or it was damaged from other traumas in their life. They were taught that the world is a way that it probably never even was.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/16 11:08 PM
47

I've never had a problem with this. I've given the "I'm not really ready for a relationship right now speech." the "You deserve someone different from me speech" the "Your a good person, just not the right person for me, speech". It is possible to leave a relationship on good terms. I've even had women that knew that there was no chance of a continued relationship still going out for drinks and still hopping in my bed until a new guy came along, at which point, I wish them well. I wonder at the …
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 05:04 AM
3

The officer can only report what they were told, unless they were actually there, it becomes a case he said/she said, which, except for rape, is not enough evidence for anything. Someone mentioned "terroristic threatening" which is possible. As it is, the most likely outcome is what happened. The establishment removed the offending parties.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 11:16 PM
3

Actually it likely isn't. The difference is in the verbiage used. "I am going to rip open your meat shirt and show you your heart", can be called assault. "If you do (not)....", what happens is certain conditions apply and it is not admissible as assault. However, as noted, both the OP and his friend put hands on Billy's shoulder, that could be considered assault, though no DA would pursue the issue. This was almost a co-pilot/fat chick situation. It would have been better to have lured Billy wi…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 09:38 PM
2

Never believe that. There are true friend and family out there. There are even women that make good wives, as few of them as there are in the west since the disease of leftism holds sway. I have friends that would come if I called on them. They wouldn't care about the task I needed them for, and I am the same way about them. I have men that are closer to my heart than any blood brother I might ever have. I even have enemies, even though quite a few of them are dead, and won't bother me again.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 05:09 PM
3

Most of the men around here would love to have a wife. By that I mean someone that can manage to be pleasant to be around, will take care of herself, and encourage when he takes care of himself. A woman that won't turn the bedroom into an icebox. A woman who is relatively emotionally stable and won't look to a divorce the second things get hard. Now, instead of that, we are faced with a creature that the state has given sanction and encouraged to be driven by emotional impulses rather than anyth…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 04:47 PM
4

I turn 40 this year. I'm looking forward to it. The way I see it, this life I have now only began a little over four years ago. My old life? I got two kids from it, and I love them to death, there is nothing I wouldn't do for them so long as I know it is to there benefit. You see, I was that guy. Married young, because that was what was expected in the part of the US I am from. I watched my young beautiful young wife literally will herself into a frumpy middle-aged woman years before that ever s…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 04:38 PM
4

The thing is that we used to understand this. Men, even in the matriarchal societies, required a ritual or act of some sort so that a boy could prove he was ready for manhood and another ritual or act to prove that they should be accounted among the men. Now, rush this new era of leftism and feminism and the men were done away with, because women are somehow magically capable of being both mother and father or that any of them understand what it takes to make a man. Boys are fed fucked up ideas …
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 12:24 AM
1

Most of the landmarks are safe, but there are places that you shouldn't go in almost every city. Just as an outsider, trouble can come on way too fast. If you find yourself outside of the cities, people can be standoffish, but will treat you the way you treat them. There are a few places I wouldn't send any civilized person, armed or not, but you wouldn't be going anywhere near any of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/16 10:48 PM
1

The area I live in is farmland and forest with a small city and a few small towns mostly arranged along the interstate. It is literally ten minute or less for me to have her on a back road, which may not have much traffic at all and heading to the next town over. Depending on how well I know her, we might be heading to a restaurant, or a nice little bar, or a just some spot out by the river. As for the bike ride, the first one is always free. After that, well, no one rides for free. They all kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/16 10:28 PM
1

I was in the Army. As long as women have been allowed to join, there have been problems. Before I start, let me say that the few worthwhile female type soldiers were as good as there male peers and did everything they could to keep up with us, and I respect that. Then there is the rest. Basic Training. It isn't that people joining don't have a life. They have friends, family, and relationships (the few that didn't end) before they show up for training. Most guys take it in stride. We know there …
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 02:22 AM
1

I have been in your position, except add years of marriage and two kids into the mix. First things first. Hate is mostly useless. It's like ingesting poison and hoping that your target will die as a result of it. It's already in you, though, so no choice. When you feel angry at her and don't have a lot of time, knock out 40 push ups. When you do have time, go for a long run or lift extra sets at the gym. You will forget that you are angry and it will help you. As for the pain inside, that is a n…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 11:55 PM
1

Because in most cases looks aren't terminal. Actively losing fat can help your facial appearance. Choosing the right haircut to frame your face is can help. If you need glasses, the right shape of glasses can help. Paying attention to a color palette that matches your skin can help. Dressing well can overcome a lot of things. Being able to speak well can carry you a lot further. Really good looks can open a door. Looks alone will not carry the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/16 11:21 PM
3

They have no way of knowing I am not violent, unless they know me. I have had women that only spoke with me for five or ten minutes ask to go for a ride on my bike. How many times have we heard the story that included...."nobody knew he was capable of that!" I am fully capable of violence. There are times in my life where I have delivered shocking amounts of violence to assholes that really deserved it. It's just not how I choose to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/16 11:15 PM
4

"No-Fault" is not the only way to divorce in most jurisdictions. In cases where clear and compelling evidence of something like adultery, abandonment, abuse, or addiction is presented a finding of divorce for cause can be issued and that is a completely different set of rules.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 11:07 PM
2

No. He is a member of the federal legislative branch of government. The fact is that as this crime did not involve the crossing of state borders it is purely a matter for the state it occurred in to resolve. It isn't an issue that an official at his level should involve himself in. An issue being too small to bother with is something that no one in Obama's administration has ever seemed to grasp. As for the incident itself. He did not rape her. He digitally penetrated her which is assault, and h…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/16 10:30 PM
5

I see it all the time. I am a big muscular dude. I have a beard. I like riding motorcycles. I have tattoos that remain hidden at work. I have been told more than once that I "look scary". It makes me chuckle. I am a professional in a generally white collar line of work. I am an excellent cook. I speak four languages. I memorize poems to recite. More than once, women, good looking women, have jumped on the back of my "scary man's bike" and gone for a long exciting ride only to end up at places I …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/16 10:16 PM
4

Make it so that the initiator in a no-fault divorce (no Adultery, addiction, abandonment, or abuse) receives their requested divorce but forfeits everything else, financials, property, child custody and maybe, just maybe it may push things back towards equal. I will never marry another woman, especially an American woman, given the current system that incentivizes her to divorce if she isn't happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/16 10:02 PM
4

He is running dangerously behind schedule. The correct course of action was to document the evidence of her affair, not confront her and give her a chance to be "afraid" or to claim he was engaging in stalking behavior. He should have simply presented the evidence to a lawyer and filed a for cause divorce citing infidelity and demanded all assets and child custody up front. Now it's infinitely messier and he should still drop her ass hard. We can preach against marriage long and hard, but most o…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 09:33 PM
1

The real lesson to learn is this. School? It's a fucking fish tank. No place to hide no matter what, and every one knows your business and unless you have daddy's money, and go to the right church, you aren't going to be viewed as anything equal to the ones that do. In the real world? No one cares. Most of the women I date don't know I have a degree, and wouldn't care either way. They also never seem to know when I am pulling from the great literary and poetic masters, it just sounds cool to the…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 04:19 AM
8

I wasn't after every film or TV show. Just one subset that is broadly marketed directly at women, so their commercials can sell useless stuff to women, that portray men as functioning at a level slightly below the family dog. Shows that portray women as manipulative are typically marketed towards a female audience in their late 30s or early 40s (prime divorce season). There are very few shows that show men as being capable or smart, and most of them are either directed towards men or derive from…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/16 03:49 AM
14

There are some examples, but not many are blatantly direct. Turn on any and all sitcoms and much of so called reality TV. If the man is a husband or a father, the man is portrayed as bumbling oaf and knave who could never do for himself and must be carefully led by his wife and daughters. What effect does this have? On men? On boys? On women (who it is carefully targeted at)?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/16 02:21 AM
1

Nah, I'd be bored. It's among the several reasons I'm not gay. Well, that and absolutely no attraction to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/16 03:02 AM
5

She was just playing the game. The boyfriend isn't getting it done for her, whatever it happens to be. That is why she was flirting with you. This wasn't oneitis or anything else, you didn't read signals wrong. She indicated a possibility of something more through her actions and then drew it away. At worst she was being a cocktease. Block her number and move on.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 04:09 AM
6

It's because of people's skewed views of the genders. The teenage girl is somehow a helpless waif incapable of fending off the advances of her predatory teacher. The boy is a stud for being able to bed and adult "hot teacher". You can see it in Bon Jovi's Hot for teacher. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6M4_Ommfvv0 The truth is this. These are kids. Their brains are still maturing, and the boy in his mid teens is less mentally mature than his female peer. When we have evidence of something like …
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 04:00 AM
0

First, every rental fleet I can think of takes cares past about two years old out of rotation, three at the latest. So where do I find a rental car with 180K on it to begin with. Second, while some customers may treat a rental car like shit, most of them use it no worse than a car they own. A better analogy might be like the town prostitute or crazy chick that let's a lot of guys do whatever they want with her. Third, you are missing an entire class of used vehicles that were fleet lease vehicle…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 11:34 AM
10

"The more you sweat in practice, the less you bleed in battle." An old US Army saying has it's roots here, and I wouldn't be surprised to know something similar exists in the world's other professional armies. Failures happen. Not one of us, no matter how fortunate the circumstance of our birth, is going to live a life free from failure. The point is to keep that failure to a point that you can learn and grow from it. Failures in a low detriment environment, like practice, offer the chance to re…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 03:57 AM
1

You've identified parts of it yourself. She has no social circle of which to speak. Going out with you and meeting your friends have her access to a social circle. She was upset that she couldn't control you, so you got the ice cold bitch mode. Now, she is out prowling for the next sucker. She isn't acting like an ice cold bitch because it won't earn her what she wants, and she knows it. Instead, she is using the soft cell within the group of people that she knows.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 10:28 PM
0

Then you are looking in the wrong places. Sorry.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 11:09 PM
6

No, they are half right. The problem is the half that isn't right. Thinking that a guy can be that perfect man, with no needs and no desire, is no way to attract anyone. Game can almost be said to be willing to try and be at the right place at the right time and being willing to communicate.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 11:02 PM
3

That's because the US of the 1950s and 1960s and the west (including some Asian countries such as Japan an South Korea) of the 70, 80s, and 90s are a historical aberration. In the 1950s, the US prospered from being the sole industrial power standing after war had devastated almost every other developed nation on the planet. from the 70s through the 00s, countries that allowed markets to largely determine resource allocation had a large advantage over countries with either no industrial base or b…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 10:37 PM
32

I had tons of female friends in high school. I didn't fit into any easy stereotype. I was popular but reserved. I was dating a cheerleader. I was also president of the school's chapter of the FCA and a dedicated Christian. People assumed that I wasn't but I was a virgin. Several of my friend's and classmates discovered their girlfriends or fuck buddies had "surprise pregnancies". Hell, it seems like half the girls in my graduating HS class must have been pregnant when they walked across the stag…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 09:52 PM
1

That's because there is no magical "the one". There are only ones. Some of them are good and some of them are bad. If they are determined to be bad, no matter if they are a good lay and willing for more, they are quickly routed out of my life. If they are determined to be good, then the door opens to things like friendships and relationships. The One doesn't exist. Do you know what gold looks like as it is being filtered out of silt? It takes a good eye to spot it.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 09:29 PM
28

Balderdash and nonsense. Ever notice that you can always find a way to slice that 15% where you aren't in it? Maybe you don't have the looks. Maybe you go the looks but you don't have much money. Maybe you got looks and money, but your personality is such an entitled shit that no one wants anything to do with you. Some way or another you are on the outs. Always remember this: Right now, there is a guy that has a good job, dresses well, is physically fit, and a fun guy to be around is wondering w…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 09:22 PM
2

Right on. Uncle Sam asked about a ding on my credit that I had forgotten about. I owed $60 for a tire repair and thought it had been paid. I contacted the company and paid my bill. Another guy that didn't know his dad found at that the guy was a known arms dealer. He got the information to contact his dad from the guy that was interviewing him for his TS.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 03:10 AM
5

Not bad, but I've been there except a little worse. I was living in a trailer in a friend's yard, no electricity or water, though he would let me eat there if I could pay enough to cover the cost of my food. I probably walked fifteen miles a day talking to people and looking for enough work. I found semi regular work on a three farms where the people that owned them were getting old. i went from a no water or power trailer to a one room loft with a shower in a barn and always welcome at the dinn…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 01:29 AM
6

He was married when he got in. Quite a story really. He came from Bumfuck, North Dakota. His mother abandoned him when he was 10. He never knew his father. From that age on, he didn't want to go into the state foster system, so he stayed for a long while in an abandoned trailer near the center of town. The store owners couldn't officially hire him, so they paid him in cash and goods to help him out. Later, local criminal gangs used him to mule drugs, because local cops never even looked at him. …
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 12:48 AM
6

I generally agree. Most corporations at some level view their rank and file as dispensable, but they also want to engage their employees in a way to get the most production out of them. Behaving like a psychopath will get the employees to do just enough to not get noticed before they can get out the door. In the American north, prior to the civil war, much farm production had switched to using mules instead of oxen. They were easier to work with and didn't need as much food or water as the oxen …
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 06:49 PM
30

In 1996, I was in US Army Advanced Individual Training,or AIT, which is where soldiers learn the ropes of their assigned jobs. My school was unusually long, nearly a year, which meant that it counted as a permanent duty station for us and allowed married soldiers to bring their spouse though they had to live off base. Prior to the start of our training, we were on casual status which mostly meant that we wound up working details from janitorial work to things like moving furniture around. One of…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 05:05 PM
8

I used to be one of the idiots that tried to do all of that. I even tried to 'anticipate' her needs and desires. Don't ever help her without reason. If she starts trying to go slack in the bedroom, it gets made clear that she either tightens her shit up or she goes out. Your behavior should be on point as well. Now: Lift this. You broken? Drop that. I need to store it, you will have to wait. Buy this. You have a job. (Or you aren't with me.) Don't buy that. It's not your money. Park here. Sorry,…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 04:01 AM
7

Below 24? Have you ever listened to these immature women talk? I'd rather jam a fork in my ear than deal with them, much less go through the effort to get laid by them. I am near 40. I like women from their late 20s to early 40s as long as they look good, and I have slept with an insanely attractive 45 year old woman. The women that choose to be with me are well aware, informed up front, that I don't offer a relationship. I am there for an adventure. I have literally had women that I had been wi…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 07:52 AM
39

I see this all the time in women. There are a few that grieve for a while, but most will happily latch on to the next guy to come along and claim it's for the better.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 01:10 AM
4

Pancreatic Cancer, that's some tough shit right there. It's almost always too late by the time it's detected because it spreads through the body like a wildfire in July. Usually, the patient's life is measured in days not weeks. I hope your BIL heals from this. You also need to have a "come to Jesus" moment with your sister and tell her that her behavior isn't at all acceptable.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 01:06 AM
9

I've seen it more than once. I've seen men that were never more than caring and loving husbands described as some sort of vicious monster that held her and the family terrified under his sway as he looks on bewildered at the lies coming from the mouth of someone he loved. Of course, it's too late by then. He is already gutted before he knew what was happening. The only correct term was to point out that at the time of the sale of the shoes, the family was facing financial difficulties and that s…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 03:09 AM
3

Yeah, the empire was so speciest and sexist that some of it's top Admirals, scientists, and agents were aliens and females. The emperor was so racist he had an alien as his student.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/16 06:36 PM
2

A. You are doing better than I ever do on those sites. B. Most women aren't on Tinder. You, like me, are going to have to get your ego bruised and make approaches in person. Honestly, even getting rejected in person is more fun than Tinder. Honestly, I wish I got more likes by Asian women. I find their company to generally be the most pleasant.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/16 02:51 PM
2

Our manager pointed her in the direction of some help. She actually wound up working at another store of the same chain in the area for a while. There is a big difference between somebody trying to steal a steak and somebody trying to steal Ramen noodles.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 08:40 PM
1

Not exactly rich, but should be secure enough. Mostly what we used to call middle class. How do they end up in a trailer? Trying to keep up with the Jones'. I'll try to explain. Start with $10,000 Assume the government bite is going to be around 35% of the till, so immediately your down to $6500/mo. Assume a $500K mortgage on a house purchased at the top of the 2008 market that "they just fell in love with" that will give a monthly mortgage of around $3300/mo. Now, we're at $3200/mo. You can bet…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 07:30 PM
3

Yes, and never forget if she lives with you, she has the codes for the nuclear bomb handed to her by the state. She can have you forcibly evicted at any time simply because she wants you out. All it requires is a little lie that no one will bother to check.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 02:33 AM
1

Dude, that didn't even count for a dust up. The meth head probably understood why you would think that. Sitting in a convenience store bathroom seems like some pretty shady shit to me, too. Who wants to hang out in one of those places, freaking disgusting. One of the shittiest things I ever had to do was take down a woman that had been caught shoplifting and was going to try and truck me. Turns out she was only stealing to eat and she had kids in the car. We wound up letting her go with a warnin…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 02:29 AM
1

Look, you are young and unmarried. Your birth control is on you. You don't want a little bouncing bundle of joy at this time? I totally understand, but what if your girlfriend changed her mind or took some antibiotics that fouled up the hormonal birth control. It sucks that as men, we realistically only have condoms, but it is what it is. Always use condoms, always maintain positive control of them. Your girlfriend can do what she wants, whenever she wants. In my opinion, it is good that she is …
/r/askMRP03/04/16 01:54 AM
0

LOL, I won't say anything. Just let the pictures do the talking. Also, when you think of bodybuilders, a lot of times a the smaller guys have an easier time building an impressive physique.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 01:26 AM
1

A couple of ways....$120K sounds like a lot, but when you are spending completely out of control, you rapidly find out that it isn't. If he kept up racking up debt and having nothing to show for it. Given that her stated position was a "position of trust" at the hospital meaning she had full access to the medicine cabinet. Some hospitals, and certainly teaching hospitals, periodically review their staffs credit score for signs of financial difficulty for this very reason. It's possible that her …
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 01:12 AM
1

Tough question. I've waited about five dates with a woman that I believed had quality. Usually it's two or three and more them initiating than me. It isn't that I am not interested, it's just that I value my alone time and having a private space that can't be stolen from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/16 12:03 AM
1

They don’t want to have a good time, they merely want to slump into middle age as quickly as possible. That is the best single line description of my ex-wife that I have ever read. She was proudly complaining about having "crow's feet" at the ripe old age of 29.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 10:05 PM
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...no visible flaws with my personality... Then why are you seeking validation? More to the point, why would any woman be interested in you? People don't connect with each other on their perfection, but rather on their imperfections. Times have changed since then! I'm 39, spent years away from dating and yeah the times have changed. You want to know the truth? It's fucking easier now than it used to be. I didn't have the internet. If I wanted to find a club with similar interests, it took a lot …
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 09:15 PM
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Drop the dating apps. If I wanted to invent a special form of hell specifically for lonely people and people that want to get laid, it would look suspiciously like online dating. Yeah, these girls get their pick. Regarding that the hot guy they want hasn't already lined up his fuck buddy for the evening. Same with options two through eight. They end up getting unwarranted validation, fucked good a time or two, and still end up circling the internet. Most of us guys aren't going to be contestant …
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 07:42 PM
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My experience is in defense and A/V industries, so these were the example I drew from. A company like BAE Systems that provides a wide range of electronic solutions as well as other things, almost solely to governments, is my example of a vertical company.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 07:22 PM
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Why not just approach? I won't say that you shouldn't. Approaching is definitely fun. The point is that having an idea about the type of woman you are hoping (and able) to draw the most interest from. I think Rollo Tomassi wrote an article about "Effortless Attraction" talking about men like Brad Pitt having to put in no work for women to naturally be attracted. Well, we can't all be Brad Pitt, but we can do things and view things in a way that certainly increase our chances. If I can get to the…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 07:20 PM
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LOL! You want to know something really funny? How tall do you think Arnold Schwarzenegger is? Now, go to google and look up pictures of him standing beside Clair Danes in Terminator 3. She is noticeably taller, and her height is well established.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 07:13 PM
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Never forget, at the end of the day, drinking too much water will kill you just as dead as not drinking enough. Everything you ingest or filter into your brain has an effect. Stroking your dick while watching porn creates a link in your brain between porn and pleasure. As it is a dopamine and oxycontin response, it is very easy to become addicted to it. Smokers experience pleasure when nicotine enters their body and their brain associates that pleasure with smoking and wants more of it. Most add…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 07:02 PM
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The dynamic of the woman out earning the man in the household is one that isn't going away soon, it's going to pick up pace for the near future. Women are entering and college/university and attaining degrees at a higher pace than men. There are a lot of places that pay for that sheepskin because it allows them to meet some requirement on a contract somewhere that let's them make more money. While it seems to balance out, young men working in trades that stay out of the booze and drugs can make …
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 05:39 PM
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Well, then you know the first quality you look for in a woman. Does her sense of self worth come from within and her accomplishments? Is she self sufficient? Does she need constant validation? Does she take from others around her without giving back? You want a yes on the first two and a solid no on the second two. If she can't meet that, then you know you need to move on. Gentlemen, the truth is that if men collectively demand more of a potential partner, and are prepared to give more to meet i…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 02:56 AM
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This is the kind of chick that laments that "all men are the same!" Truth is, these are the same girls that you could respond to by saying, "No, shit! It's because no nice, honorable man wants anything to do with your whore ass!"
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 03:18 PM
1

Women are fairly incredible these days. I was married at the age of 21 in 1998. I was married until 2014. Back then, there were some girls that were down to fuck, but most of them tried to keep it quiet. They knew that know guy that knew they had been fucking around would consider them marriage material, and they still wanted (and still do) the disney princess wedding. They also knew that a kid was a liability and that most guys really didn't want to step into the father role. Now, the script is…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 03:14 PM
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While I can agree that laws should ensure gender neutrality before the court, I disagree with the premise of removing identifiers. While a degree of assault can range from unwanted touching to intentionally causing physical harm to another. The next level would be aggravated assault, which would usually be defines as assault with a weapon. Simple assault is usually a misdemeanor, while aggravated assault is a felony. Sexual Assault is more similar to aggravated assault as it can cause extended h…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/16 04:58 PM
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Congratulations on the job! As to the rest, there are 3.5 billion human females on the planet. Trying to narrow all of them down to one set of specific odd traits is a fools errand. I, and every other man on this thread, including you, want different things out of life. Only an amazing level of hubris would think otherwise. This girl, her attitude may be a deal breaker. It sounds like she is adding negativity to your life. Cut her loose and find a girl with an attitude that is more suitable.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/16 04:20 PM
1

What? Physically, I don't fit a stereotype of a homosexual man. I admit that I like to dress nice when I am out, but that is the result of the work I do as much as anything. I have been asked if I am gay by men that were propositioning me to women that liked the dress I was wearing (yes, that last part is a joke). The answer has always been to laugh , thank them for their interest and tell them I am not.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/16 04:03 PM
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You haven't taken the red pill. Largely, you still have a lot of maturing that needs to take place. One of the single most important things that you need to learn is to not to measure your self worth by the reactions of people that quite frankly don't really know you. That is the essence of validation seeking which is a surefire way to leave you miserable. I don't know what led to your rejections in 2014, that is something only you can sit down and work out. What I would make note of is that the…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/16 03:46 PM
1

You know what will fuck with your head more? Try this, you are blossoming right on schedule. Open up any medical textbook and it says that for your age, you are almost exactly where you should be. Now factor in this, you are literally more than a year younger than almost all of your classmates, the people you ultimately measure yourself against at school. I know because it was me. I entered high school at 13 years old. Almost all of my class mates were 15 by January. Add to it that I played foot…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/16 07:54 PM
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You discovered one of the secrets of addiction. Whatever age you are when that first drop of whatever it is that really fires your dopamine and Oxycontin and become an addict is the age you mentally remain until you fight your way clean of the stuff, and sadly most won't. Congratulations on growing out of it. Since you know that you have a personality type that is prone to becoming addicted, always make sure to watch yourself.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/16 07:31 PM
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LOL! Honestly, I run into more people that don't than do. We could sit back and discuss details all day of what makes a girl hot or not, we might agree more than not. The point I am making is the character trait of a girl respecting her self and her body enough to want to go to the effort to eat right and stay in shape is probably going to be the same trait that makes her more willing to be a partner with you. What do I think? Physically in shape with no physical deformities can go a long way to…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 11:00 PM
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Oh, I am at least as mad as a hatter. (Do you know where that phrase comes from, by chance?) However, wouldn't you be better served to think of traits that would lead to her taking care of herself, but also happen to be useful in other ways? Besides, in that situation, no one is going to be fat for very long.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 10:47 PM
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I actually had written a letter to my ex-wife when I planned on leaving. I forgot it was still on my computer and found it a few weeks ago. It was really something to see and realize just how profoundly she had broken me. She had destroyed my self-esteem. She complained loudly and impeded me any time I tried to improve myself. She had rejected me so often that I didn't even have a sex drive any more, just occasionally looked at porn and jerked off rather than ask the queen for anything. She said…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 10:41 PM
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Rollo, you have a real talent. I don't agree with absolutely everything you say, but I rarely believe you are far from the mark. It really is in the nature of most men to want to be the white knight. To ride in to her rescue. To have her love and be able to provide for all of her wants for the rest of her life. The thing is that the model worked for thousands of years. The men took most of the work that involved risk while the women took care of the men. With the advent of modern technology that…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 10:25 PM
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Dude, online dating is a special version of hell. Most men have to devote crazy amounts of resource and time to get a response from a chick they wouldn't be interested in normally, but hey they got the time invested. Most of the women get their ass kissed but keep on looking for the next better guy to come along. I deleted all profiles a while back. Meeting women in real life requires some effort but the payoff is so much better.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 09:10 PM
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I've met some of these women. They are the partner that they wanted, they have cash, they have comfortable government office jobs where nothing much is expected or required. I have met them. I have bedded a few. These women don't lack for men that are decent options. Their problem is that they are vapid, boring sluts who have absolutely nothing to keep a man interested for more than one night.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 07:33 PM
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Because women are very honest about this kind of thing... That's why you talk to family, friends, and the ex(es) and father(s). Treat it like you are about to hand someone a security clearance, you want to know about that person. This is a great idea, although I'm not sure how many people would be prepared to be completely open with someone who is seeing the mother of their children, with all the risks attached to that. I'd be extremely wary if it was me. Look, asking some basic questions about …
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 03:14 PM
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So, what does all of this mean? It means the way you play the game has to change. There is no secret room where the rules of dating are set, and you and I would never be invited in even if there were such a place. There are MBAs out there that aren't getting laid. There are drug addicted losers that play guitar in a band two nights a week fucking hot chicks. You have to get that mentality out of your mind about money, it simply isn't the case anymore. The truth is that as these women's ability t…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 02:58 PM
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You are entirely correct and CDC study after CDC study indicates this. It's the big joke to me about homosexual marriage. Even the lesbians are rarely with any one partner long enough to justify the cost and time to do paperwork.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 01:59 PM
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That's her mistake, not yours. Or do you want to raise someone > else's kid, after either he pumped and dumped her.... or more > likely she drove him away with her emotional terrorism > (obviously I mean separated the child and the father, not > separating the mother and the monthly "child support" paycheck) Relationships end for all sorts of reasons. One side or the other was abusive, one side or the other couldn't keep it in their pants, they were never mutually compatible and were a bad match…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 01:38 PM
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Lowering the barriers as you put it has increased our quality of life. It allows the entrepreneur to introduce a new concept or product to the market that the large corporations don't see an advantage to offering. It allows a person that has an idea for a story to write a book and self publish through a digital retailer like Amazon. In some cases, it allows a company that is doing well in a local market to expand it's customer base farther than it ever could have before. At the end of the day, t…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 08:26 PM
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The notion that the quoted drug makes it so the disease can't be transmitted is so far off base as to be laughable. HIV/AIDS has always affected roughly three groups of people in the developed world each of which has significant crossover. I'll explain a little bit about each. Sexually engaged homosexual men. Users of intravenous drugs, due to the practice of sharing needles. A group of people who are sexually promiscuous, which could be said to be women who have sex with men that also have sex …
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 07:54 PM
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The only thing you can really do at this point is showed continued lack of child support payments and move to terminate her parental rights.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 04:29 PM
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You need to spend some time on a psychiatrist's couch. You may need some anti-anxiety medication, but you need to work these fears through as they are not completely rational. Not wanting to become a victim and maintaining situational awareness is one thing, not being able to function normally because of this isn't. I won't tell you what the root is, it could be fear or shame related to your childhood. Take the time and make the effort to work it out. There is no more shame in going to a doctor …
/r/askTRP19/03/16 02:20 PM
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Your 17. The likelihood of any of these relationships becoming a long term thing are kind of remote anyway. There is nothing inherently wrong in just having one girl, so long as you set clear boundaries and know what hers are, and you keep improving yourself and she supports that. Have fun with it, no matter what.
/r/askTRP19/03/16 02:12 PM
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Just remember the traits girls want in guys they are attracted to already. Funny, kind, smart, good conversationalist. Or just be cocky funny, look her up and down and then start describing her.
/r/askTRP19/03/16 06:16 AM
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It depends, what is she unhappy about? Work, the commute, her friends? Listen to her for a few minutes and if it doesn't sound like she is going to wind down, set a timer, 10 to 15 minutes. Tell her you will give her your complete attention for that time so that she can vent, but after that, it's time to talk about something else. If it's a really serious matter, a death in her family for example, you just offer to be there and let her work as much of it out as she needs. It's mostly called tryi…
/r/askTRP19/03/16 06:12 AM
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Hey, it's pretty cool that you are doing better with women. It's a good place to start. If she isn't completely happy with her boyfriend, it's probably a relationship on the wane anyway. There isn't a thing wrong with asking her out for drinks and seeing what else she wants to talk about. You can tell her that you aren't interested in being anything more than a friend to a girl that is living with her boyfriend and then enforce that boundary. You can get to know whether this a person worth inves…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 06:02 AM
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There is absolutely no medical evidence that a child should breast feed up to 24 months of age. If you know she is going to pull that card, you can go one of two ways, either she can pump breast milk for you to give to the kid, or you can present the evidence that such is not a medical necessity. The best way is to tell the mother you want 50/50 parenting time as early as possible. The child should already be weening off the breast milk and onto cereal.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 05:10 AM
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I hate to hear that. It's a shame when you demonstrate to the court that even if it wasn't intended that you want to play a major role in your child's life and they reduce you to at best a check in the mail and a voice on the phone. Also, the child support orders are a bloody outrage. I've actually had feminists tell me that men should be quiet and accept whatever they do. I used to care about the system, because ultimately, the system is people, and they'll hurt if it crashes. Now, I think they…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 04:30 AM
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Dude, seriously, what the fuck. At the absolute best, that's called grooming. Even if you succeed there is a staggeringly high chance that if the authorities catch wind of it that you will be locked up for sexual exploitation of a minor because they will have figured, rightly, that you had to bend her head in that direction while she was in fact very young.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 10:31 PM
1

Good people help you when you try to build yourself up, so long as you do the same for them. They are there when the chips are down offering you a hand up, so long as they know you will do the same. Good people will support each other and their friends. These are the people you cultivate friendships and relationships with, regardless of any romantic or sexual intent. Then there are the others, I won't call them bad, just not the sort to have around. These people will tear you down when you are u…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 10:22 PM
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I was a defense contractor that did quite a bit of running around in Iraq. When we got the chance we coordinated our activities with the military though it wasn't always possible. We had been out, roughly working with, a Army unit that had a road clearing mission, and all told we spent about 80 hours working. We all rolled into Taji hungry, filthy, and tired. We went to the chow hall to grab some burgers before hitting the rack. This too clean fat little E-9 came waddling into the cleaning room …
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 08:55 PM
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It happens more than you would like to know. I was in a MOS that took about a year to graduate at the time. At my first duty station, prior to my oneitis coming back into my life, I had decided one Friday that rather go to the club and get drunk expensivley, I could sit at the barracks hang out with friends and get drunk on the cheap. I was more interested in getting drunk than getting laid. Well, one of the barracks whores (not knocking all barracks whores, some of them were cool chicks, not th…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 08:47 PM
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Everything you say is true. The system is a completely broken scam. I think that any man contemplating marriage should have to sit for 3 or 4 days in family court just so he understands that he is about to do nothing more than place his neck on the chopping block and hand someone else the axe. Just because she "loves" you now don't mean she will when you are working 60 hours a week just as hard as you can to keep the lights on and your family fed. No, you won't be "the passionate man she fell in…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 08:19 PM
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Mafia, especially the guys old enough to have late adolescent kids don't have girls like these. These are the sort of men who grew old playing a game that kills young men. They're old school themselves, they know who is sniffing around their daughter, being pathetic may have let you around. The other thing is this, these mafia guys, they usually have it arranged for their daughter to marry another mafia guy when she turns eighteen. Keeping the important parts of the family business closed pretty…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 02:42 AM
1

This is a rather incomplete view of it. While No Fault Divorce does exist, it merely covers marriages that have effectively ended with neither partner having done anything actionably "wrong" such as adultery, felony activity, or mental degradation, it does not cover all cases. In this case, allowing her to have her "play time" with "her friend" while using a PI to develop clear evidence of adultery is his best option. Then he sues for cause, presents evidence of the affair, and she gets basicall…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 05:34 PM
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You want two different things that are simply incompatible. As a result, you must make a choice that involves opportunity cost. The real question is which choice is the best for you, because the cost is the other choice. The first choice is moving further in your present relationship with what sounds like a good woman to something that can be even more deeper and fulfilling than what you have now, or have perhaps ever known. You have good communications. You seem to be sexually satisfied. She co…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 11:38 PM
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I slept with two married women when I was living in an area where there was a distinct possibility that the husband might go the "add extra holes to the other guy's body" route. The first one asked me about the possibility of moving in if she left her "fat and lazy" husband (the man was really neither, just an average Joe) after the third time we fucked. I didn't know she was married as she had never mentioned it before hand. I told her to go back to her husband, keep him fucked and keep him fed…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 11:46 PM
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Absolutely not. A physically and emotionally abusive childhood, a dead, sexless marriage, and a divorce that destroyed everything I had ever tried to build did that. I've always been stoic. I wouldn't be alive if not. My marriage/divorce were truly the last straw. I don't have any real reason to trust other humans beyond a certain very low level, nor much evidence that I should.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/16 06:16 PM
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While the reporter described her sexual encounter in perhaps a bit more lurid detail than was absolutely necessary to get her point across, the article is more or less right. I won't bother fact checking some parts of her story and I note she does present a small bias against men, such as noting that the idled fishermen were always at home and apparently dealing with their own stress issues. Emergency responders that have had to work particularly gruesome or horrific scenes have responded with P…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 02:53 AM
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No, maybe I should though. Here I was thinking that you can't make this shit up, lol. I don't make a lot of time for modern movies or Hollywood, it's all so dull to me.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 02:25 AM
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I just take a Jason Stratham approach to exercise, whole body exercises and swing your body like a hammer. I also run to have endurance. I do have some fat I could lose, but I would be closer to 220 in that case, I am not big boned, but I am big framed and have always had muscles, I just made them bigger.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 03:16 PM
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It was her idea. I wanted to work on the marriage if for no other reason than the sake of my children. She wanted my submission, she never did quite get it.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 03:14 PM
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Make prostitution legal. She wants to keep the kid, it's none of my business. She can support it the same way she made it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 07:32 PM
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I would be there and get as much help as I could for her. As for the molester, it's a big world. Lot's of places where no one can hear you scream. Even more where no one will ever find a body.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 07:08 PM
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There is another way. This involves being born to your parents late in their life. Making an agreement with them to remain living at home and take care of them in their old age, while in return the house and assets get transferred into your name before they die. It doesn't mean one wouldn't still work and take higher education of course. A lot of women would look at that and run. The ones worth having around would appreciate the situation.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 03:33 PM
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Look, there are such things as giving mixed signals....Push-pull comes into play, even if such things aren't intentional. Then there are such things as no signal for a woman to even react to, which seems to be the case here. "Let's travel abroad, as friends!", that's such BS. The fact is that this guy is omega level of some sort. He is afraid of failure and afraid of rejection. An "aspiring director" that is 30 years old should be in one of the major groups of a set, be that lighting, sound, or …
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 03:30 PM
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His sister is a minor. Even if she is charged as an adult, she would likely be able to plea bargain to simple assault get a suspended sentence, undergo psychological treatment, and perform 100 hours or so of community service.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 03:08 PM
1

It will be DV, it is aggravated assault upon a family member and in most states that automatically adds the Domestic Violence charge.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 03:04 PM
1

He has, at a minimum, a severe defensive knife wound on his hand and claw marks on his neck. His dad has a knife wound on the back of his neck. Those are things called evidence. Law Enforcement would take his statement and believe him. They may not be able to do much, but they will take his statement.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 03:03 PM
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As others have said, you have to get out of that house. It's a toxic situation, and you can not, nor are you responsible for saving other people. Second, you should have made a police report at the hospital. You could have requested your mother be removed from the room and informed the attending medical staff that the wound is the result of an assault with a deadly a weapon (a serious felony) and that a second victim was out your house. It isn't yet too late. File the police report now. If your …
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 02:51 PM
1

No one is ever completely free of the consequences of their actions. We can't control the actions of others, yet it is entirely possible that there choices may effect us. It really isn't possible to desire something you absolutely control. A man may desire his wife only to find himself spurned. You desire things that you work and strive to have. A man that sets out to enjoy the company of any girl will certainly find success. A man who sets out to find his Norma Jean Mortenson (a woman who meets…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 01:58 AM
1

How often do you ask for sex?
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 08:12 PM
3

Get out of that town. Remember, women have a biologically driven impulse to lock down a man that will provide them resources. In a small town there are often other problems and shortly, even the local married men will be pressuring you to marry their daughter if you are known to be talking to her.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 08:09 PM
1

The only true freedom anyone has is the ability to experience the consequences of their actions for good or ill. Everything else? You may as well be hiding behind skirts. Desiring something and experiencing the disappointment of failing in that desire can drive you to be better than you ever were. Failure is to be accepted and even embraced, you don't learn anything without it. Self-Improvement is a goal unto itself. Being too content and too comfortable is never something to desire.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 08:01 PM
3

You are going to what, with what, to what? Voting in a representative democracy now means overcoming over 50% of the population that is unlikely to ever vote in a manner that they would vote as limiting their freedoms and their powers. The only way back involves humanity collectively forgetting most scientific discoveries and inventions since, say 1900. It simply isn't going to happen. Deal with the now. The circumstances in the hand you were dealt. Women "don't need know man"? Fine. Either walk…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 07:06 PM
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If you have the balls to do it.... Fuck her, film it. Disguise your face. Give him the evidence. Things that won't stand up in criminal court are perfectly admissible in civilian court. While a lot of guys might forgive "flirting" or even looking to cheat, they won't forget the look on their wife's face while watching her get railed by some other guy. I've done this before. Except it was one of my buddie's whore of a girlfriend.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 10:13 PM
1

Yes, there is recovery. In my case, I was emotionally abused for years and was desperate to hang on to the relationship because there were kids involved. I'm not telling you this so that to say I had it worse just so you know, that I was really, really low. Reality: You made some mistakes. You want to know what that makes you? Human. It's pretty common for people to get comfortable in relationships and not be as on point with things as they should be. Most of the time these errors are not unreco…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 10:00 PM
1

There is an old saying that you can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink. This is a pronouncement made by an idiot. Salt the horses oats and watch that sucker drink water. Introducing people who have been lied to their whole lives about much of the nature of inter-human relationships is much the same, and it can't all be done at once. Let someone else salt the oats. Then patiently explain a part of how things really are and see if it gets digested. If not, then that person will pro…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 03:43 PM
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Oh my! This is kind of a rich one. Look around here, you will see all sorts of complaints about women having high n counts with regards to the numbers of partners they have had, and how many of these woman are no good for relationships. I think this argument has some merit though not without clauses. You, on the other hand, found something unusual. A virgin. Despite the fact that she sounds a little odd ball to me, I would keep her around for a bit. Break her in and let her get bored with you. T…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 03:10 PM
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Bitterness is anger held on to. Temporarily, anger is fine it's just another emotion. However, no emotion should control your decision making process. Take a look at your two old men. How fragile is their lawn and grass that the neighborhood kids can "ruin it"? The bitter man contents himself to shouting, "Get off my lawn!" The angry man actively plots to harm anyone on his lawn. In truth, do either of these choices benefit the old man? The only correct answer is no. One old man does nothing but…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 11:28 AM
1

Being nice is a problem when it becomes hiding your own needs and desires, yet expecting others to know and respond to them, i.e. the creation of secret contracts. "If I am nice and open the door, she'll notice me", "If I listen to her bitch about her boyfriend/job/family/friends, she will reward me with sex", "If I take her out to lunch and buy her a new work outfit, she will reward me with sex." This type of nice guy behavior is manipulative and passive aggressive to it's core. This type of me…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 10:59 AM
1

It actually manages to both be good and lousy. You are never secure from the Sexual Market Place (there has to be a better term), not even if you are married. You can walk away and not participate, but not participating doesn't mean you win, it just means that you go without having some of your human needs met. Game and techniques are as much about assessing the other persons needs and desires and communicating effectively to the other person in a manner that makes you desirable to them. Learnin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 10:28 AM
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It has less to do with feminism and more to do with the ability of women to generally use chemical or hormonal methods to control reproduction. Feminists run a spectrum from "sex-positivity" to "all male sexuality equals rape" with most some where between the two poles. Combining birth control and equalizing income resulted in women having far more choice over who they mate with which ironically created the PUAs and red pill that the feminists claim to hate. As far as the people who engage in pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 10:16 AM
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First, stop the weed. It doesn't make you smart or cool, it can not benefit you in any way. Second, I guess you are in this new generation of kids that basically grew up in front of a computer screen and doesn't know how to interact socially. Find a hobby that you think would be interesting. Go to meetup.com and see what sort of groups are in your area that interest you. Volunteer some time with an organization for a few hours a week. Go to improv and comedy clubs to learn a few tricks on being …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 09:40 AM
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Date, yeah, why not? Fuck, If your both clean and you use protection, again, why not? Marry? You have to be out of your cotton pickin' mind to do something that stupid, she is a walking set of divorce papers looking for some poor sap to land on.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 02:32 AM
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Ya know, there is something missing here. This is a good post, well thought out and cogently written. This is something that is overlooked in a lot of it. These women who cranked out a couple of kids, put on weight, are often a reflection of their husband. He got married, stopped improving, stopped being interesting, and maybe let his own standards down a bit because he is a married man and a father after all. If you can find a man that is in a successful marriage that has maintained an improvem…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 12:19 AM
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What sort of state do you live in? If it is a state with "no-fault" divorce, then the good new is that the court won't give much of a damn about someone putting on a he said/she said, they are going to just be looking to dissolve the marriage and move on. You may not want this, but when one partner wants a divorce, there is nothing the other partner can do about it. You have to fight for the best terms possible. Start with assets. Offer her half of your current retirement in lieu of any alimony.…
/r/askMRP06/01/16 11:34 PM
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LOL, I am almost 40. I really didn't experience the life of a single adult male until I was 36, and a that point I had been beaten down very badly. For me, it has been a learning process. I would love to be fucking young 20 somethings, but I am not there yet. On the other hand, I treated it sort of like an advertiser looking to market a product. Thirty something single moms that want a little adventure mixed into their otherwise dull lives, is a pretty good market for me. I am also not a local, …
/r/TheRedPill25/12/15 03:38 PM
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Feminism need not be hijacked to behave that way. Remember, there are two types of males according to feminist philosophy. The first type is the one that has been "tamed" and is under the control of women, either as a result of marriage, societal obligation, or social pressure (white feather). The second is the type that must be brought under control, as feminists view males free of any legislation or obligation to be unpredictable and dangerous. Truthfully, feminists and corporate (elite) inter…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 01:15 AM
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It's more like pumping NOX into a standard combustion engine. It will speed the engine up and for a short while allow a car to move like it was never designed. That comes at a cost, any extended use will blow the engine out and necessitate a costly and time consuming rebuild of that engine. Anger may have it's season, but if it is held to long it dulls the person holding and grows cold itself. What is left is a bitter shell of a person that is going to take far longer to rehabilitate than the on…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/15 07:50 PM
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Very good post. It also logically follows. A disciplined mind and a disciplined body lead to good results. Always. Whether that is in pursuit of women, money, or your latest mountain peak. Gaining that discipline is the hardest single thing for a person to accomplish.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 06:01 AM
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Look at it this way...if your only goal is set to always getting the girl into your bed, there is a 99% possibility that you will fail. If you are willing to accept other outcomes, there is a whole world of other possibilities. However, if you are goal dependent then the entire interaction is just another source of frustration that ignores the truth. The truth is that you can do everything right and still not end up with what you set out wanting. As long as you maintain yourself well and work on…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 06:51 AM
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You really want to know the secret to getting into that party, or that fraternity, or anywhere else in life? If the normal path, if what works for everyone else, doesn't work then quit following everyone else's rules. You didn't get an invite to the party? Show up anyway. Walk in kiss the hottest girl you see. Shake the hand of the guy of the guy she was walking to grab a beer and chug it. You just created a great chance you are going to get thrown out, but you got noticed. Be sure to tell every…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/15 05:50 PM
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Don't get me wrong, Queenie definitely crystalized things for him. Sometimes it takes that little bit to realize that you are somewhere you just don't want to be. Sometimes it is a Queenie. Sometimes it's when you are digging your coworkers knife out of your back for the tenth time.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/15 10:03 PM
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I've scanned groceries in a tourist town. It's a suck job for suck pay. At the time, if I pulled a 40 hour week, my take home was seriously about $140. The only good part of the job was learning how to smile and be nice to some ass you would rather tell to get out of the store. Realistically, I never got more than 24 hours a week and they were typically crap hours. I quit because I realized that I could make $200 a week mowing grass, raking leaves, and cleaning gutters, and such only working abo…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/15 11:38 AM
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Wow...Talk about excited over nothing. Let's look at it a little differently. The protagonist is working a crummy minimum wage job near the beach in a town that is little more than a tourist resort. His boss that can't help but enforce rules that are trivial when the store is basically serving the tourisst because other than lording it over his employees, it's all the power he has in his life. The guy was already thinking about quitting. He sees these hot young women that aren't exactly like the…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 02:51 PM
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Partly this is because we are all hairless apes and at times, regardless of how educated or civilized we consider ourselves, we get up to hairless ape stuff. I highly recommend Robert Greene's "48 Laws of Power". I am not an acolyte of the red pill, though I understand it's concepts and agree with some of it. Every human interaction is at some level about power, and that is generally a positive thing. One thing I do agree with is that most women are not, in general, attracted to a man they view …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/15 03:37 PM
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“As I've been learning about the philosophies behind TRP, men's rights and MRAs, I noticed that many theories and practices revolve around "game" or getting women to sleep with you. These strategies involve, among other things, treating women like children, being "dominant" and "alpha" when around women, etc.” This isn’t every man, for starters. I would argue that it’s a starting point for men who grew up completely lacking examples of what a man should be and act to have successful interactions…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/15 07:32 AM
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"Don't expect them to be responsible or keep their promises." Applicable to everyone when that person's survival or prestige does not depend on you. Guess what, it's human nature, people back stab each other all the time. Western Women seem more likely to be less trustworthy these days because they have the government to protect them from the absolute consequences of their decisions. Take away the protections afforded by welfare and watch what happens. "Expect their emotions to change" Doesn't n…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/15 07:12 AM
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the woman usually takes custody of the children and becomes the primary caregiver (this decision is usually mutual btw, as 91% of child custody cases are settled out of family court. Snort, Ha! HA! Do you have a single clue what happens every day in this country? Let me explain how you get to that grandiose sounding "91% of child custody cases are settled out of family court". It starts when the woman (in over 70% of all divorce cases) decides she wants a divorce. She either uses subtlety or the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/15 06:45 AM
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As a guy who joined the military then married his hometown sweetheart after she had broken up with him and then called him up out of the blue, this is a fairly good list. A soldier isn't going to find a damn thing that is either good or helpful to him outside of the main gate. Thirty miles might be far enough. Right outside the gates is nothing but trouble, and usually fat trouble. Stay the fuck away. Single moms are even more dangerous here and need to be treated like they are nothing short of …
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 04:02 PM
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Holy Cow! I resemble that remark except that I am late 30s now, big 4 Oh, next year. There are some attractive women my age and a little older, but for the most part these women are married and in it for the stay. The rare one that is both attractive and available comes with her own set of issues. I am still active and always have been. I run three days a week. I hit the gym three days a week. I hike and kayak when the weather is good. The women my age? Nope. Very few, and they were all taken. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 12:57 PM
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My wife is from one of those South East Asian countries that has a lot of problems. She isn't a mail order bride. We met through mutual acquaintances. She has friends different from my friends and works at a different company. It's been interesting to watch how fast people come to like her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 12:26 PM
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You from the west? White enough. In fact, depending on the exact nature of your genetic heritage with regards to the amount of melanin in your skin, it can work very much against you. Some very real racism in that part of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/15 01:41 AM
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You are assuming a great deal. You are looking for the following according to your own posts. Destitute. Rural. South East Asia. We'll assume that you don't mean China, South Korea, or Japan. North Korea, Laos, and Myannmarr probably more closely fit your ideal, however they don't tend to allow large numbers of foreigners on their soil and actively discourage their women from having relationships with non-citizens. Out of the remaining countries, all of them have at least one or two major urban …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/15 01:05 AM
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No. Seduction, for men or women, is about convincing their possible partner that a certain course of action would be beneficial to them. Rape Culture does not exist in western culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 09:39 PM
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So you're going to what exactly? Get to the foreign, relatively poor, country hop off the aircraft and head down to the local bridal auction? Dude, you're drooling. Most parents in cultures that will allow a westerner to marry one of their daughters wont' sell them, but they will ask a grooms dowry of the person marrying their daughter and it's usually pretty reasonable. This is the twenty-first century and most of the technology we have can be found in these other countries. The more traditiona…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 09:30 PM
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