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| 3 | [FR] Night club and the belief that's holding me backPretty good. You probably already know this but at the club you gotta look your best. Also sometimes just go hit the dance floor with no other reason than to listen to the music and dance. I've never had a good conversation at a club, musics always been to loud so I'm not sure about your club-conversation game. | /r/seduction | 30/09/18 10:42 AM |
| 4 | Being busy good/bad?depends what your busy doing. if your busy running an awesome business (where you got great social status), she'll probably like you more. if ur busy climbing out of plat league she'll think ur a total noob and dump your ass and marry a grandmaster. | /r/seduction | 30/09/18 10:33 AM |
| 2 | Confusing date. What should I do?meet her. make her attracted to u. One time i had a similar problem where i felt stuck and the date wasn't going anywhere (seemed like we were friends or some stupid shit), and to do kino might be awkward. looking back i should have just asked her if she wanted to go to the bedroom. just escalate, girls will probably be down if ur attractive to them | /r/seduction | 30/09/18 10:31 AM |
| 2 | What happened here?Agreed. You could probably have a threesome with them after class as well. | /r/seduction | 30/09/18 10:28 AM |
| 1 | I've lost the will to approachWhat you need is a system of steps you can follow to get better. I would recommend the Magic Bullets pickup book. its based on mystery method but covers more stuff (well pretty much everything so you might need it). I think you're on the right track, you just need a way you can improve with every approach as opposed to feeling stuck. re Sticking points | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 02:25 PM |
| 1 | They Keep Losing InterestTell us how the conversations go, are the girls in your league, what game you're using. if you need help holding a conversation it doesn't hurt to have some canned questions like "who lies more boys or girls?" or a DHV story. | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 02:04 PM |
| 4 | how to re-attract a girlto re attract do stuff that improves your social status. make more money, have better social skills, work out, lifting your own mood will lift hers as well. | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 01:59 PM |
| 3 | 18yo going out solo/no social media: adviceI'm thinking of going there, opening up some guys with "hey bros, i'm new here and I want some pussy, wanna hunt with me?" Decent for starters, but you also have to game guys. No guy is going to want to sarge with a loser, who mass approaches and gets mass rejected. Ask them how their night is going and what not. Say "wanna hit on girls together". How should I keep groups hooked? I usually only have 5 minutes of conversation gas. I need some TOPICS and LINES/SCRIPTS please. It comes with practic… | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 01:58 PM |
| -1 | What are the most known autobiographies written by pick-up artists?the game | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Getting mixed signals (posted on askSeddit)SHE probably isn't sure if she's interested in you. your best option is to make yourself as attractive as possible whenever you're around her (and at all times if possible). Do that, get some social proof where other girls enjoy your presence, and then ask her to ur room to watch a movie or something. social proof goes a long way in college. | /r/seduction | 01/09/18 02:06 PM |
| 2 | Why is Magic Bullets so bashed ?It's actually better than the mystery method in terms of full descriptions and great explanations. It still is largely based on mystery method. it's bashed because (this is just my opinion) different PUA companies want to market their products with sexier sounding shit like "natural/inner game" in order to sell an inferior (and IMO) useless product. | /r/seduction | 01/09/18 01:50 PM |
| 2 | Adviceread the book the game | /r/seduction | 01/09/18 01:46 PM |
| 2 | Dancefloor game with David Attenboroughpretty much. as long as ur not standing around with your hands in your pocket and you're on the dance floor dancing and looking like ur having a fun time and you're someone that people want to be around it will improve your chances. but yeah its basically looks. | /r/seduction | 01/09/18 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Anxiety on campusYes, do an indirect approach. Makes aproaching literally 10x easier, just a simple "hey do you know where 'x'" is? if they answer then loop them into a conversation like "oh wow i totally walked by it earlier and missed it, you look like you might get lost on campus easily too haha" obviously make the material ur own, but overall an indirect approach will help you approach girls, after all you're only asking a simple question, ur not fucking asking them to marry you (or confessing how pretty you… | /r/seduction | 01/09/18 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Guys who have a crush on your GF and your GF tells you... How to react? Is it a test?hello again, how did things go with that retard hugging your gf? anyways i wouldn't bother texting ur gf about it, unless its really bothering you (but it shouldn't be it's not like she was instigating it). seems pretty alright to me, IMO she told you about it and maybe wanted to have some fun with it or something idk | /r/seduction | 01/09/18 01:37 PM |
| 3 | I need some help 17Mget her number, ask her to the school dance (or in person). just say "hey do u want to go to X school dance with me?" if she says no, move on. | /r/seduction | 01/09/18 01:36 PM |
| 8 | If you're bad at pickup and attracting girls, does it mean you have a bad personality?not at all brother. literally my gf compliments me on my personality ALL the time (it hasn't changed my whole life), and literally for like 5 years before i met her almost all girls thought i was a total loser and terrible personality guy, when in reality i was just super nervous, anxious, no clue how to talk to woman, and desperate. | /r/seduction | 01/09/18 01:34 PM |
| 3 | Neil Strauss' Stylelife Challenge: Day 4good shit so far. indirect openers are the easiest in terms of AA and good way to gauge interest. Will say in the beginning even asking a woman where a store is was pretty hard. haha as for me and fixing posture (mainly forward shoulders) i found sleeping on my back helped a lot. it also stopped my neck pain which was causing me headaches literally every day . so yeah try sleeping on your back if u arent already. also as for affirmations usually you gotta say them EVERY day about 15 times a day,… | /r/seduction | 01/09/18 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Is it always acceptable to hug a girl you recently met infront of her boyfriend?bro let me tell you a theory i have about guys who hug girls (whether infront of their boyfriend or not) are probably desperate for fucking sex. I had a gf in college and then there was some clingy guy who was always hugging her when they would meet. like 5 years later now when i look at his facebook his girlfriend is a 2/10 ugly ugly ugly very ugly girl. Don't hug his date today dude, thats fucking stupid, instead do what a PUA would do and command the attention, tell the funniest jokes at the … | /r/seduction | 29/08/18 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Getting with women outside of uniI (random guy on the internet) can tell you that the game does work, Also i can tell you the only thing that has helped me improve with girls was mystery method stuff (i've tried pretty much most other pickup stuff, most of them are actually just some marketing to get money from my experience). Things like indirect opener are honestly fucking brilliant. It's a process tho, I remember practicing my openings, then the hooks and stuff like that. Good luck dude | /r/seduction | 29/08/18 02:06 PM |
| 1 | How do I show interest without coming off a clingy?Haha all good | /r/seduction | 29/08/18 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Getting with women outside of uniread some pickup material. i'd recommend The Game by Neil Strauss. umm. Get a good style (humans are primarily visual beings, this is a big deal, having a good look), practice mystery method, realize that it takes time and you will steadily improve if you practice for a long enough period. | /r/seduction | 29/08/18 01:59 PM |
| 3 | Is it always acceptable to hug a girl you recently met infront of her boyfriend?maybe you're over reacting. I can assure you a good way to start a fight and piss your girlfriend is to ask "would u get mad if i started hugging/recieving flirting texts with girls?" haha. I would recommend just telling your GF that you dont like her hugging other dudes (that arent her family members). Its not like you're off hugging other girls right? If she respects your feelings she should comply. | /r/seduction | 29/08/18 01:55 PM |
| 1 | How do I show interest without coming off a clingy?clingy? clingy is when you say lets meet up and she says no or has a soft rejection and then you keep trying to set up a date. just text her about whatever the fuck you feel like texting and when you think of something fun that the two of you could do together then ask her out. if she rejects it in any way dont ask her out again unless she says she is free at another later time. | /r/seduction | 29/08/18 01:50 PM |
| 3 | Neil Strauss' Stylelife Challenge: Day 1good luck man. mystery method and neil strauss stuff were really the only stuff that helped me improve my game. Dunno whats in the style life challenge per say but i do know the mystery method works as long as u edit the material and make it your own. | /r/seduction | 29/08/18 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Situation with my sisters friend.I guess it depends on your sticking points. Was it your goal to get the F-close? See what mystery and style do to for LMR. She is probably interested but a common theme is a girl will change her mind a few days later. Keep improving your game and her attraction to you will increase. Honestly man up to u. If u wanna start a relationship with her say "i wanna go out with you". Good luck homie and well done so far | /r/seduction | 12/06/18 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Has someone became better at seducing at all?I only got better once I followed a system with lines to practice. Read mystery method/the game and make them your own. | /r/seduction | 09/04/18 09:41 PM |
| 1 | I'm such a fucking loser.Yup. Love posts like these. Btw OP you should read The Game. Neil Strauss was your age and worse off when he started becoming a pickup artist! Good luck | /r/seduction | 09/04/18 09:34 PM |
| 3 | Never been on a date. Have a lot of securities. Not sure how to sort it all out.Good post. I'll help you and tell you what you need to know. You look fine. Consider wearing stylish glasses and definitely style your hair better. Honestly just find a celebrity who you think looks good and copy his hair style. Also copy his fashion too. You have good skin and a good face so if you just smiled that selfie would have been a lot better. Having a car isn't that big of a deal. I don't have one. Most of the world doesn't have one. Just say you prefer to exercise/help the environment… | /r/seduction | 03/03/18 03:55 PM |
| 1 | I always get coffee at this coffee shop after my band practice. I usually leave my guitar case in the car. A buddy of mine suggested I bring it into the cafe with me while I work on my laptop. Is this douchey and a crutch? Is it a good prop to start conversations?I mean, as long as it helps and you think it helps you go for it. I don't think it will teach you bad habits lol you're over thinking this | /r/seduction | 03/03/18 03:27 PM |
| 4 | can't seem to get women to be interested in me. Don't know what I'm doing wrongYou gave absolutely no context. If I had to guess it's because you're too vague. | /r/seduction | 03/03/18 03:25 PM |
| 5 | What’s the hottest one night stand you’ve ever had?Talk about going out with a bang | /r/seduction | 03/03/18 03:02 PM |
| 1 | My dates are awfulYah I agree with you I think however for noobies and myself in the early stages canned material really helped on those dates where I didn't have much in common. | /r/seduction | 02/03/18 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Finding love and a woman for a committed relationship (not casual)The same advice on this sub "that focuses on shallow relationships" also works on real relationships. You can find a woman to have a relationship with (and do whatever else you're looking to do) by meeting woman and letting them know your intentions of having a serious relationship. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 01/03/18 04:57 PM |
| 2 | My dates are awfulI used to have some good dates but most were awful. The ones that went well were because me and the girl had nothing in common. After i started practicing Mystery Method/Neil Straus opening lines and DHV stories and that sort of stuff all of my dates went well. Also I would get better as I went on more dates and practiced more MM. My recommendation: have 3-5 prepared DHV stories about yourself. Exaggerate a bit if you have to. Have 3-5 interesting questions if conversation dies down. Also for th… | /r/seduction | 01/03/18 04:47 PM |
| 4 | Models vs. The Mystery Method - which to get first?nice. be sure to practice. I used to suck a lot until I actually started going out EVERY night for a few weeks and practicing the Mystery Method. Had some good openers, DHVs, and that stuff that were similar to mystery method's stuff, but modeled after my life. Quite interesting was that it actually worked and now I have a girlfriend lol. after so many years of being a single desperate boy lol i'm still sometimes surprised i have a girlfriend. anyways, go out and practice because thats the best.… | /r/seduction | 29/01/18 10:51 PM |
| 5 | Models vs. The Mystery Method - which to get first?like other posters said, mystery method is good. going out and practicing mystery method lines will get you further in seduction than just about anything else (assuming you have decent looks and lifestyle stuff). but yah, the game is also a great book and neil strauss talks about how your lines gotta be congruent with your personality so make sure you make some of the mystery method your own. good luck | /r/seduction | 29/01/18 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Strong connection, no Language. What should I do?have her teach you some japanese... and you teach her some english... and when you're both working together it will be fun. | /r/seduction | 29/01/18 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Good opener for ErikaType in neil strauss dental floss opener. But the point of it is that the opener isnt so important its just a way to get conversation started | /r/seduction | 10/12/17 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Good opener for ErikaRoses are red. Violets are purple. I would like one chocolate milkshake no whipped cream thanks Erika. I am a certified NLP practioner who uses Erikasonian hypnoses and as Erika reads this she might begin to feel a tingling in her left knee cap. Erika? Have you met erikan (eric can). He is great. He can do all sorts of things. He is the complete opposite of his brother Erikant. Erika ive found it! (Eureka) I spent the last 69 daya looking for someone named Erika! Hey can I get your opinion on so… | /r/seduction | 10/12/17 04:40 AM |
| 1 | How can I lose my virginity in 6 months?Cant seem to find the right girl anywhere and youre looking to have sex before you graduate? If youre just trying to get laid the beat thing to do is to put yourself in a situation where you are more likely to get laid. I would recommend having some good openers and DHVs prepared for when you meet woman as well as working out. I remember my last year of college I was desperate to get laid and it never happened. I probably has about 3 good girls who were interested in me but despite the IOIs I ne… | /r/seduction | 09/12/17 01:49 PM |
| 1 | I met a girl through my university's academical event. How do I escalate from here?Build some report first over messenger imo. Ask her if she found the event boring/fun or whatever and go from there. If she builds report and reaponds well ask her out to hang out. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 09/12/17 01:41 PM |
| 1 | So frustrated with life and love right now.Frustrated? Good. Use that frustration to improve. I would recommend going to the gym ans putting on muscle mass. For me I hated talking to girls I didnt like, it didnt help me improve, but others say it's good practice so up to you. In your position I would really recommend learning some indirect openers. Also its helpful if your friends arent virgins btw. | /r/seduction | 09/12/17 01:34 PM |
| 2 | What language to speak on upcoming date?I'd recommend speaking Spanish. Up to you really, but for me when I'm speaking in my non-native language, I'm improving that language, and having more fun. Good luck | /r/seduction | 08/12/17 02:55 PM |
| 3 | I hereby predict that game will come full circle - back to MM/routinesCompletely agree. I guess it kinda depends how you define "game" but if you have your life together and you're looking to improve with girls the Mystery Method / Neil Strauss stuff is by far and away the best way to improve your love life. | /r/seduction | 07/12/17 10:01 PM |
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