| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 0 | Guy chased me for 5 months then ghosts me | Fundamentals | smokinlilvixen | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 02:05 AM |
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| 2 | is being short a huge turnoff?Insecurity is the biggest turnoff so if you’re confident in yourself, accept your stature, and not have SMS, then your chances will be just the same as any other guy —50/50. Just be the best version of you. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 11:06 AM |
| 0 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesThe hotter ones are nice because they either 1)feel bad for you for thinking you even had a chance 2)they’re so used to being approached that they already have a fake phone number/prepared response or 3)they’re so used to being told they’re pretty that it doesn’t bother them to hear it from one more guy. Uglier chicks—why would you even approach them if you don’t find them attractive? | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 10:43 AM |
| 1 | Why do women say one thing but do the opposite?Lol yeah. She had a second to think and that was that. Window of opportunity shut, slammed, game over. Lol. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 12:05 AM |
| 2 | Why do women say one thing but do the opposite?She either isn’t sure if she likes you enough to give it up or she likes you too much and wants something serious and doesn’t want to seem easy by having sex too soon. | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 11:55 PM |
| 3 | Why do women say one thing but do the opposite?I’m going to try and shed some light here. 1) these same exact women bone on the first date sometimes. —yes, just like guys, we have a libido that will dictate what happens. Also, just as men have a “marrying type” and a Fwb or ONS, we do as well. If a woman sleeps with you after the first date, you’re usually just good for that. 2) Date 3-4 should already be in 2nd base at the very least. Lol. Can’t just be a peck or you will get friend zoned. I have found that men are the same way. A man’s att… | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 09:31 PM |
| 8 | First cold approachFrom a girl’s perspective, she may have been disappointed because it’s typical for a guy to ask for a number. | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 08:59 PM |
| 2 | he is a 10/10 but has no social media. what he is?Doesn’t mean anything. He doesn’t have social media. Some people choose not to be on it. | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 05:12 PM |
| 7 | Greatest colognes/perfumes in 2022?Try them on and wait for your body scent to mix with it. Colognes smell differently on each person. Versace Eros, though a classic, is quite seductive…makes a man smell delicious. | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Do you get checked out when walking out in public?For the most part yeah | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 07:52 AM |
| 1 | If a girl is always near a guy, could that mean anything in regards to attraction?Who likes this girl? You or your friend? The worst thing that can happen is she’ll say no to both of you. I say now is your chance to ask because she’s trying to save face by denying her being around your friend is deliberate. She will prob say yes if u ask her out. Also, 3 months? Now that’s effort. At the end of the day, a girl will do random shit because we don’t always operate on logic so be prepared. Don’t try to analyze coz it’s futile. | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 02:35 PM |
| 1 | If a girl is always near a guy, could that mean anything in regards to attraction?He asked her? That’s a bit confrontational. She got put on the spot and of course she’s not going to admit anything. On the other hand, maybe she really doesn’t remember. If that’s the case, she must not be very bright. Lol jk. Seriously, just ask her out. Now is a good time to do so. | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 10:51 AM |
| 4 | 😎 My Standard Cold Approach Format (that I've used for 8000+ approaches)I think you may have gotten downvoted coz a used car salesman has a negative connotation. No one wants to be perceived as a sleaze ball. Lol | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 10:40 AM |
| 31 | 😎 My Standard Cold Approach Format (that I've used for 8000+ approaches)8000+ approaches. Holy shit. Your post was succinct and pretty accurate. I’m duly impressed. It’s like being a salesman, you will get rejected but you focus on your successes. | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 01:18 AM |
| 1 | I am shocked by how many men here invest on the first date.Dinner is an investment? How poor are you? I think you saying simps are trying to impress and they know they’re “not enough” is truly ironic coz you seemingly don’t have “enough money” to buy dinner. Geez. No wonder the girls insist on paying for coffee. They feel sorry for you. | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 04:18 AM |
| 1 | If a girl is always near a guy, could that mean anything in regards to attraction?That’s the key. Her walking all the way on a cold day. Effort is key. Splitting the cookie could have been just convenient coz he was right there. But the effort says it all. She likes him. She’s waiting for him to make the move. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 03:35 PM |
| 2 | If a girl is always near a guy, could that mean anything in regards to attraction?Yes and no. Depends on the interactions they have. It could be he reminds her of a brother or best friend thing. Or she likes him. Give more context. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 06:07 AM |
| 2 | Guy chased me for 5 months then ghosts meProbably. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 05:17 AM |
| 0 | Guy chased me for 5 months then ghosts melol coz I’m as blunt as the next guy? Please, spare me. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Guy chased me for 5 months then ghosts meLmao, one of my friends said that too! He’s smart. He knew that the only way to keep me interested is by basically ditching me. Geez, how ironic. And yeah, one month later I’m still thinking about him. Smh. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Guy chased me for 5 months then ghosts meYeah. Maybe he found something so unattractive. But yeah, he had been making a move from day 1. I kept saying no and he persisted. And then when I said yes, he said no. That’s it. Game over. I got no game apparently. Lol | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Guy chased me for 5 months then ghosts meYeah, I’m getting trolled. I guess short guys got really offended. Sorry! It wasn’t about being short, it was about him ghosting me. Geez. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 04:42 AM |
| -9 | Guy chased me for 5 months then ghosts meLol quite the opposite. I think he’s the smartest guy I’ve ever met. I place high value in that. I’m irked because of the assumptions he made regarding me wanting to have a relationship with him when all I wanted was plain old sex. He was too full of himself, especially for a short guy. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 03:20 AM |
| -5 | Guy chased me for 5 months then ghosts meThanks. Sleeping over is not quite a date. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 02:49 AM |
| -2 | Guy chased me for 5 months then ghosts meYes. Coz I told him so. And he wasn’t having it. He basically gloated that for once he got to say no. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 02:25 AM |
| -3 | Guy chased me for 5 months then ghosts meDude, he was almost at the home run. I don’t get it. And will prob never understand it. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 02:23 AM |
| -1 | Guy chased me for 5 months then ghosts meExactly! And this is what blew my mind. It was kinda sweet that he never forced it. We went through the bases like we were teenagers and then he eff-in bails. I was so livid. I still see him at work and I’m just like whatever. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Question about clothing or fashionAre u asking so u can get more girls? Or is it to conform to social norms? | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 02:09 AM |
| 1 | How to get a confident girl?It takes a confident man to match the energy of a confident girl. The guys who’ve caught my attention are the ones who basically had the balls to ask me out or talk to me. I’m considered confident and intimidating to most. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 01:53 AM |
| 90 | What does it feel like to be attractive?It’s great. People treat you differently—male or female. It’s pretty insane. I noticed this when I lost weight and became more desirable. But, I agree with the other comments above, doesn’t change one’s insecurities. We all have them. Edit: I want to emphasize the weight loss. I used to be fat and ugly so I know the difference. When I became attractive, it was night and day. All of a sudden people were falling all over themselves just to please me, open doors for me, and do things for me. Does i… | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 01:42 AM |
| 18 | 15 things I learned from cold approaching over 300+ girlsI’ll give a compliment. It’s easy. Men love compliments just as much as women do. I think because I’m kinda good looking, it throws them off a lot. They never see it coming. Places? Airport bar usually when I travel. | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 11:27 PM |
| 4 | So I am a very good looking dude, everybody around me knows that, but I find it extremely hard to date. What could be the problem here?I need to see a pic. Then I can tell u what’s wrong. Lol prob your hair or how you dress. | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 11:08 PM |
| 1 | how to tell if she is interested or just being friendlyYes, she’s interested. I won’t text you goodnight if I didn’t like you. Just ask her out. | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 11:04 PM |
| 1 | 15 things I learned from cold approaching over 300+ girlsWhere in France are you? I’m flying to Nice next month. | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 10:27 PM |
| 25 | 15 things I learned from cold approaching over 300+ girlsOf course. It’s an adrenaline rush. | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 10:24 PM |
| -7 | 15 things I learned from cold approaching over 300+ girlsFrom a female perspective, I personally don’t respond if you’re not tall. 5’4” is short. But, if you’re confident, and do not have SMS, then go for it. | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 10:03 PM |
| 2 | 15 things I learned from cold approaching over 300+ girlsTo the guys, quick question, I was at a restaurant/bar a week or so ago, and this guy was at a table with some guys. He never made a move but before he left, he made it a point to lean over and say “bye smokin hot little vixen”. So what was up with that? Why say something as you’re leaving and not ask for my number? | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 10:02 PM |
| 11 | 15 things I learned from cold approaching over 300+ girlsThis is very interesting. I’m a woman and have only done night gaming. Guess I’ll have to give it a shot. | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 06:42 PM |
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