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smolcontrolledbursts/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 04:58 AM
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Anyone know which Etsy store? I feel like we could make it a whole lot more than $200.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 06:30 AM
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This is well and truly entering 'just communicate' territory. I thought this sub was about having high standards, expecting men to do the same and not deigning to mummy them. I look great, why on earth would I fuck someone with a gut? Medical problems that he completely and utterly owns are one thing, a physically capable man who can't be bothered taking care of his body? Nope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 06:23 AM
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Why do they do this? Is it to 'win'? Or to avoid child support? God knows having custody will interfere with chasing all the tail they think they'll be getting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 09:48 PM
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There's a reason I have a kid born in mid November 🤦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 02:22 AM
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"I'm not an infidelity apologist by any yardstick." Proceeds to be an infidelity apologist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 04:44 AM
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I can see how we're threatening to men. If you have a horse you are prepared to work hard to maintain a certain standard of living. You're comfortable working independently in a rural environment, confident doing tasks normally left to men. Setting up and towing horse a float using a large car. Working around a 500kg prey animal that could kick your head off at any time. Having a horse tells men that an average city or suburban middle income life isn't on the cards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 04:00 AM
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Step fathers are notorious for sexuallly assaulting and/or murdering their partner's children. There's a few single mums at work who are the most stereotypical pick me's. Screwed over by the NV father of their children so the next logical thing is obviously get involved with another one ASAP. The thing is we make bank at my work.They don't actually need a bloke for anything. But they're controlled by their low self esteem at the expense of their kids safety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 03:16 AM
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As a nighshift dispatcher this hits hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 05:42 AM
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I'd like to join in too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 12:25 AM
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No, it's an obvious sign they lack empathy. It also shows extreme stupidity, those genes can die with them please and thankyou.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 06:56 AM
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Just look at deadbedrooms. 100% these guys are unhygienic, unfit and low effort and consider a tit grope while she's doing the dishes as foreplay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 12:27 AM
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I agree it needs to be handled very carefully. In my book example it's stomach turning, no vaguely normal person could read those parts and react with anything other than unease and disgust. I think as long as the content is designed to make the audience feel uncomfortable and prompt them to ask themselves why, it's appropriate. It's easy and lazy to have black and white characters performing and thinking in obviously good or bad ways. It's more effective to use flawed characters portraying some…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 11:43 PM
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I think it depends. If it's used as social or character commentary I encourage its use. For example I'm currently reading Sharp Objects by Gillian Flynn (Gone Girl) and it is intensely uncomfortable reading. The protagonist and most of the characters are intensely misogynist and there's internal dialogue and scenes involving adolescents which are vile. But that's the whole point, to expose some of the terrible cultural attitudes towards girls and women in America, particularly internalised misog…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 10:08 PM
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What in the trailer park meth lab is going on here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 02:21 AM
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Cops. I was one, just say no. They are walking talking examples of a man is only as faithful as his opportunities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 08:48 AM
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My supervisor at work has to leave early because her sperm donor won't look after their kids. Approaching dinner time he starts spamming her with messages. She understands it's unacceptable and I'm trying to gently bring her towards the FDS way of thinking and DTMFA.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 06:23 AM
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I was a pick me for years, demeaning feminine interests, accepting being told I'm "not like other girls" as a compliment, thinking women who wanted a decent engagement ring were shallow etc. FDS made me realise that all of this serves the patriarchy and I was being a good little puppet. My biggest takeaway from FDS is that it IS such a privilege to be around us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 03:01 AM
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Yep. If they wanted to, they would. I'm having to constantly remind myself to stay uninvolved and stop doing the mental heavy lifting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 02:52 AM
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Holy shit this is genius.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 02:16 AM
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I barely managed to get through that whiny NVM entitlement statement, but it reads like he's arguing against marital monogomy. A replacement wife every few years without those pesky consequences hey boomer?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 10:35 AM
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Why do they act like we should care?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 10:31 AM
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This. I carry the burden of financially managing our household, which also carries the power to lock him out of the accounts for a short time should the kids and I ever need it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 12:43 AM
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I can't imagine the terrible treatment they must receive. That professor's quote...I can't even.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 09:22 AM
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Would Chinese parents accept a woman with darker skin than their son?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 09:12 AM
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I'm so triggered I keep my toothbrush and toothpaste in my room, the only place they'll stay dry and clean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 01:31 AM
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I wanted tall children, men under 6ft can die mad about it. My daughter looks to be growing into a 6ft Amazon, you can bet I'll teach her FDS and to be picky as fuck, and single = awesome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 01:28 AM
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Could you pm me please? I have a LEish background and could see myself doing this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 10:37 PM
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That deficient maxilla fuck. 5 kids? Are they religious?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 06:53 PM
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If she's into that dom-sub shit then good for her, but take my word for it that the additional mental load of managing an entire grown ass adult is a massive chore. She's also not yet reached the part where he dumps her for the woman he thinks he deserves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 08:44 PM
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Parenting an adult is exhausting and frustrating even for a "type A" personality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 08:37 PM
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Policemen. Just say no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 09:00 AM
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What exactly is a 22yo no qualifications gaming addict man child leech meant to be consulting on?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 03:03 AM
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This, I'm mid 30s and it really is the cliche of becoming more confident and older I get. I can do it all myself, I don't need (or want) validation from men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 02:31 AM
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I got so skeeved out after reading about dust mites and mould in mattresses I purchased tiny pore protectors when we replaced them. Their sinuses would just be pure Aspergillus and dust mite skin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 02:19 AM
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I use pricey latex pillows, do pillow protectors make it ok?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 02:16 AM
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"Thanks for the coffee champ!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 02:14 AM
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I've done stuff like that with my friends too, but it's not a date with someone that expects you to put out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 02:07 AM
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Could go all out and go with to get his tyres rotated or the dog's anal glands squeezed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:59 AM
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I don't consider not raising your voice at work to be HV, it's just basic... acceptable behaviour. I would 100% put someone on paper for raising their voice to me in the workplace. What's a monthsarry?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:53 AM
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Next step, laundromat and petrol station dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:51 AM
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The icing on the cake is the pitiful image of them washing out their artificial vagina. Or most likely giving it an arbitrary rinse or not at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 11:17 PM
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Ugh that nasty low income house to raise her manlets in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 07:32 PM
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This. Put them in a suit or a uniform and watch the audacity multiply.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 12:29 AM
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I exercise alone, ride my horse out by myself, used to (before COVID) occasionally take myself out to a cafe for lunch etc. Going to the movies by yourself is the best! Socialising is great but I thrive by myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 11:08 AM
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It could be an amazing vetting hurdle if women universally didn't accept men who use it. Self selection for never spreading their genetic material.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 05:57 AM
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Young women take heed, otherwise he'll be contaminating your living space until you get rid of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 02:43 AM
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Men will literally fuck any warm hole, being the object of their sexual attraction isn't validation. I wish more women realised this when they were younger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 06:19 AM
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I agree, once you have internal validation there is so much less stress. From 13 to late 20s I was so obsessed with looking better than other women (who I saw as competitors). Now I just enjoy myself and try to be healthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 06:14 AM
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They want you smart enough to independently perform bangmaid services and bring in income, but dumb enough to have to look up to them and stroke their ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 06:34 AM
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Exactly, why would you set your kids up for life on hard mode.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 11:46 PM
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The conversations I hear from young women at work. They are giving away the milk for free while also not setting their own standards high enough. A lot of internalised misogyny and an absolute terror of being single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 04:48 AM
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Poor 'lil fella, he must be dressing to highlight his shortness. He should try heels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 10:34 AM
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Totally unacceptable and worth separating over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 11:27 PM
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I got two takeaways from this. 1. Men are worse than children when it comes to dopamine. 2. Women everywhere need to close their legs (and arms) to these LVM. If more women embraced FDS rules and lived with dignity, and ignored these losers they wouldn't be able to cheat. No woman would have them, no woman would share her body for money. They could all take care of their dicks with each other until they became actual decent human beings that could relate to women with real respect. Takeaway 3 - …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 04:32 AM
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Because having access to our bodies is a privilege and they'd better fall over themselves trying to please us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 01:28 AM
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I got shamed in another sub for agreeing with her. It's like strapping sticks to a penis to fake an erection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 09:25 AM
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This X 100, I work for our state emergency line and people do this AAALLLLLLL the time. They're happy to say whatever they can to try and manipulate the other party. As soon as the police turn up its deny deny deny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 07:36 AM
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It's off r/copypasta, everyone needs to untwist their knickers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 04:13 AM
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Or the thought of a wedding makes their blood run cold. The married part is fine, but nope to being the centre of attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 03:06 PM
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Ok Sheldon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 09:55 AM
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I met my fiance when I was a 21yo trainee policewoman and he was a 35yo trainer. At the time of course I thought I was so different and mature, but looking back there was always a power imbalance. He cheated on me early on and when I was pregnant. He was emotionally quite immature and it's only the last few years as I've grown as a person that I've pushed back hard with my behavioural expectations. I definitely follow FDS and he's aware as he's approaching 50 what a HVW I am now, and what a priv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 09:00 AM
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It's bluff and bluster. Just change it to you looking at other men and watch the response. They know exactly why we hate it, they just don't care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 05:24 AM
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Men not being educated is a bit of a cop out, it would literally take 15 minutes on Wikipedia. They just don't care, so they don't prioritise learning about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 06:06 AM
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Yes, but I'm engaged to him. Beard/tats aren't a stand in for a personality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 10:43 AM
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I can smell this picture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 04:18 PM
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