smolpepper Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
254	Why are strip clubs normalized? Its cheating imo, and you should NEVER go with a partner	PICKME CULTURE	smolpepper	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/02/21 01:22 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
25	How dare rich and successful men not have harems of 16 year old virgins, like I would have If I had even 1/10th of there power Yup. But two of these men are!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/03/22 05:14 AM
3	Masculinity is NOT in a crisis nor is it on a decline I’ve never ever seen a woman my age thirst over the rock lol. Way too big for most people’s taste	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/22 10:13 PM
2	Masculinity is NOT in a crisis nor is it on a decline Who are those men marketed towards? Is it only women? Or are they also trying to appeal to men’s insecurities about how they think they should look? I’m not sure women are the target audience of these sorts of movies anyways. There’s no denying that some women are attracted to Jason Momoa, but many women aren’t exclusively attracted to men like him. I also think that it tends to be older women who like him. My mom likes him, none of my friends are into huge guys like that, though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/22 08:33 PM
2	Masculinity is NOT in a crisis nor is it on a decline This is a great comment. I never really liked super muscular guys because I assumed they were shallow, I didn’t like what spending so much time on one’s appearance said about the person. I now see why people do it and it often isn’t motivated by vanity but the rewards of working out, but not always. But sometimes it really is more about being appearance obsessed which is totally fine, but is that what people think of when they think of masculinity?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/22 08:27 PM
8	“Build with him” He doubled down. This just gutted me. He should value her more because she loved him when he was poor. This is why celebrities get divorced so often. Men don’t value someone who loves them for them, they always want someone “better” as their success grows, whereas you often see female celebrities date normal guys who are less successful and less attractive. ETA - based on his profile he seems like a troll but the original tweet DEFINITELY wasn’t	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/06/21 12:22 AM
–	Porn use is a symptom, not a cause, of male sexlessness This sounds like denial. Men in relationships often don’t want to have sex because of porn. Just check out the dead bedroom sub. Many posters are female.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/21 08:06 AM
4	I live in a van down by the river - is this a turn off? I would love to live in a van but this guy makes me cringe. It sounds like he just doesn’t want to work and probably lives off of upcharging renters. Also he is either not actually traveling and keeping the van stationary in one city or he is traveling and he’s a shit landlord who isn’t there to handle repairs or other things the renters may need.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/04/21 07:34 PM
11	Why are strip clubs normalized? Its cheating imo, and you should NEVER go with a partner I said OK, I just felt overall I was put in a situation where I felt I had to. I think if I communicated my boundaries with her strongly she would have understood, but she has a personality that I find hard to communicate with. I often am put in situations I dont want to be in with her or do things I dont want to, but if i ever told her this I know she would feel bad. This dynamic used to upset me, but its not an issue now that we are in different states. It will if I get married, which I suppos…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/02/21 09:34 AM
5	Why are strip clubs normalized? Its cheating imo, and you should NEVER go with a partner I feel that way, I just think it will be thrown in my face that I went and tbh behaved scandalously, which is what happens when you're hammered and how I learned I don't want him going.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/02/21 09:21 AM
7	Having boundaries does not make you controlling or insecure, and cut anyone out of your life who tells you otherwise. I love this! I just posted a long rant (that may not be approved bc I am new, whoops) about my exact experience with this. For so long I was gaslit into thinking that not respecting myself and my boundaries was progressive, and having these feelings was "toxic". I only grew out of it because I learned how horrible the porn industry was and realized I could no longer support it, but from there I learned that even if there were some way to make porn and SW not be exploitive (imo there isnt) I was …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/02/21 01:53 AM
13	Having boundaries does not make you controlling or insecure, and cut anyone out of your life who tells you otherwise. It took me so long to realize this. A lot of "sex positive" women are deeply insecure. If they werent, they would mind their business about others' relationships and boundaries. I know this because I used to be one of them. I tried camming and considered doing it again, and my BF was OK with it. Luckily I never went through with it and over the years I woke up to how abusive the industry is so I stopped supporting and viewing porn, so now I would not do it even it single. But looking back I now …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/02/21 01:47 AM
66	Never take a man at face value I used to be a fan, but I cant stand his views on sex work and his brand of psuedo sex positivity. Watch his video that's like "advice from a chad". I didn't make it through and skipped around, but he basically told them to get a vibrator and use it on various partners. My partner has bought me toys, which is nice, but if a dude I was seeing brought out toys he had used on a string of previous women I'd run.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/02/21 03:50 AM