smoltims Archive

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2	How to deal with the friend who speaks or acts on the girl's behalf during an approach? Well, the reason could either be the friend is sabotaging like in your case, or the friend is protecting (usually the case from my experience). It would be better for OP to not engage either way because you don’t want to get in the mess of that drama and you don’t want to be labeled a creep. That’s why I said she’s doing it for a reason. I should’ve specified more that there are multiple reasons. The sabotaging “friends” are bad news for everyone, so I always tell people to steer clear for their…	/r/seduction	14/07/25 09:55 PM
5	How to deal with the friend who speaks or acts on the girl's behalf during an approach? She’s doing it for a reason. The girl you’re interested in might be too shy or nervous to reject people she doesn’t want to talk to. Move on. Edit: Clarity	/r/seduction	14/07/25 07:10 PM
4	how to create situations where you can break the touch barrier? If she has a bracelet, watch, or rings, hold your hand out and ask if you can see it closer. You can touch her wrist or hand that way. (Do not pull her towards you lmao.) Talk about the jewelry piece and remember to make eye contact with her while you’re talking. If you guys are facing one another or close enough, you can pretend there’s something in her hair or a strand is out of place, then ask to take it out of her hair or tuck the loose strand behind her ear.	/r/seduction	01/07/25 11:08 PM
4	Logistics on picking up women traveling with their family, especially parents? I agree with most of what you said, but if I’m being honest, if someone approached me with that opener on vacation, I’d think I was getting trafficked. Also that “I’m glad you guys reproduced” would make everyone wildly uncomfortable. My parents would not find any of that funny and I don’t know any parents that would.	/r/seduction	30/06/25 12:27 PM
3	Is it really true that a lot of girls flirting signs is just eye contact and a smile? No because a lot of women do this with everyone and for some this is a nervous reaction	/r/seduction	30/06/25 04:04 AM
23	Smoking area easiest place to start a conversation? Exposing yourself to that much second hand smoke and wasting money on things you don’t personally use just to pick someone up is insane in my opinion. My classmate who does smoke though always told me she had the most interesting discussions with military personnel on campus during those smoke chats. It’s up to you, but I really don’t think it’s worth it. I know smoking does have social aspects to it, but it’s mostly if you do it yourself too. Do not start smoking just to be in with the smoking …	/r/seduction	15/06/25 09:48 PM
2	Is there any point in approaching women until I've lost weight? Practice. It’s good to practice talking to women. Also, who knows? If you’re looking for long-term, you might find someone that’ll love you through thick and thin (literally and figuratively).	/r/seduction	01/06/25 07:45 AM
4	New girlfriend says she gets “bored” during sexual interaction Is she traumatized or living with religious guilt? Does she have ADHD or is potentially running around undiagnosed? Any of those might explain the boredom.	/r/seduction	29/05/25 08:23 AM
15	Why do fat chics always pose next to hotties in OLD and think that builds attractiveness? I have never heard of any fat chick doing this. 💀 Stop taking the red pills, bro.	/r/seduction	22/05/25 10:24 PM
3	Why do some women tend to post IG stories of them at a fancy place or restaurant but don’t show the guy they’re with? Just something I was curious about. Sometimes the guy just doesn’t want to be posted at all. My ex rarely wanted photos of us on his social media, and I would never post anything without his permission. His sister’s bf also hated social media posts, so she’d post the food instead of her bf too. On the other side, like others said, if you’re in the newer stages of dating, why would you post someone you’re not serious with? Lol Sometimes I just take myself on dates and post that too. When I’m out with my friends, a lot of them don’t…	/r/seduction	04/08/22 07:22 PM
3	Is tinder a scam? You’re also missing the: Not emotionally available Hung up on their ex Taken but looking for friends I met my bf on Tinder, but good lord that shit was a hassle lmao	/r/seduction	27/09/21 03:09 AM