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My mom still says it's too soon 3 years later too bad she won't meet the woman I live with anytime soon I'm 48
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/26 03:33 AM
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just do it have fun ride the roller coaster probably, 48 very similar situation, riding one myself while also taking care of and hanging out with my kids and loving life more than ever
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/26 04:03 AM
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none! not even childcare even more of the time they didn't really care of the kids previously
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/26 02:54 PM
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I wonder why you might have lost her…
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/26 11:07 PM
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Just talk to people, women, men, whomever - you meet people through people. Also just free online stuff for instance Facebook Dating is something else to try - at 31 would probably be a lot better than when you're older
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/26 02:04 PM
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Dude you’re 31 I’m almost 50 and it’s working out for me just be open to it
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/26 04:23 AM
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thanks! just curious
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/26 04:36 AM
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how do you meet someone on reddit by the way?
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/26 11:47 PM
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Ok those are fight, flee, freeze, and … mate - the 4th feels missing Sorry it’s just so coincidental with the F’s, apologies
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/26 02:39 AM
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I'm not sure if this is a joke, was the crossover with the 4 F's of biology/medicine really a coincidence?
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/26 02:21 AM
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I can think of a 6th F that this strategy defeats, to the extent that this may be elaborate trolling
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/26 11:50 PM
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Whenever I get my 50/50 kids it takes 24h for them to be ok with not being glued to a screen, to go outside, to have a schedule, real meals instead of constant snacks, etc. their teachers know that they behave differently in different halves of the week. There’s nothing I can do to change the other half..
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/26 08:01 PM
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people are in here pretending like it's inappropriate to like to be around and potentially...gasp... talk to attractive women
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/26 04:07 PM
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Thank you
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/25 06:27 AM
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"a percent of married people live in purgatory for the sake of kids or finances" could have saved like 5 years right there
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/25 06:27 AM
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if you don't have kids and she didn't take everything you own, you are in good shape but you have to move on one way or another. That would also be the way to get her back, but that should not be your goal.
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/25 05:29 AM
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Thank you
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/25 06:24 AM
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same boat but two kids 5 and 3 and pending divorce but terms are agreed. So much easier with one less dependent in the house is my perspective.
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/25 04:17 AM
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you don't deal with it because you're not in a relationship, right? That's the point. Birthday/mother's day is maybe different with reference to the kids.
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/25 06:20 PM
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closer to my kids 4/7, back to my old self 3/7, now semi-poor but no debt and happier and more free, no change in relationship because it was just me trying to move dead weight anyway so I don't have to put up with it now I can just ask and move on, I can't control anything about what she's up to unless I suspect the kids are at risk so that is what it is
/r/Divorce_Men30/08/25 04:43 AM
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I don't know I'm still married and changed it a few years ago when divorce wasn't on the table (for the kids) but there was nothing to talk about and my mind was elsewhere
/r/Divorce_Men30/08/25 02:41 AM
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it's like everything now, it's just a world of bullshit. it's a psyop on ourselves, we are the surveillance we worried about and are addicted to it, when you copy or compress something thus reflecting on itself over and over it just becomes unrecognizable garbage. As a genX/millenial borderline person I never saw this coming. I believed in technology and thought it would set us free for real. I can't believe this has happened. This same kind of find yourself manipulated video thing also contribu…
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/25 01:25 AM
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Yeah no real changes the 5 things I use (computer, TV, coffee machine, bike, car) are in a different place but the relationship hasn't changed. Now I don't have to try to get her to stop hoarding or clean, and after things are finalized I don't have to put up with trying to manage the shopping-as-entertainment behaviors. And I get more quality time with the kids where they are not being raised by the TV!
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/25 03:19 AM
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These descriptions sound better than being in my marriage if you’re not attached to dead weight.
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/25 02:48 AM
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I would not assume it's an "emotional affair" at all. You're a guy, would you text that much unless there was some other connection?
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/25 12:57 PM
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The way I'm looking at it now is that having no relationship is better than what I was in, so that's an improvement. Any future relationship would just be a plus from there, so I'm already coming out ahead and it can only get better. Concentrating on relationship with kids and dogs for now! But will see what happens...
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/25 01:23 PM
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Thank you
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/25 05:08 AM
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