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Axe throwing, painting class where you get to chat and drink, pottery class, a picnic, a comedy show, a concert/play/show you might both enjoy, museums…I could go on. It’s not hard, they’re resentful and lazy. Like all of these would work based on a conversation with you to see what kinds of things you both like… Don’t worry it’s not hard if they’re sincerely wanting to have a LTR. It just weeds out anyone not wanting the same thing as you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 04:59 AM
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In my experience it’s women dreading it too. The women that keep trying to drag other women down. My own mother is one of them 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 03:21 PM
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Honestly I see this sub get so much hate and most of the time, I notice it’s because no one actually bothered to read what kind of people FDS is dragging. Like if the end goal is finding a good dependable partner that we wouldn’t want to leave because he’s not an AH then why would you be mad at that? That’s literally what everyone wants. A long term relationship/partnership with someone who isn’t taking advantage of you or draining you. The only caveat is that it’s for women…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 03:19 PM
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Seriously. I was someone that was manipulated by my family when I couldn’t earn. They used my dependence to make me do what they wanted and threatened or guilted me every time I would say something. The minute I got financial independence from them, I got my power back. The feeling of knowing they can’t do that anymore is priceless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 10:08 PM
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I used to be told that no one would want to marry me because I was too old all the time when I was younger. My mother would honestly have panic in her voice when she screamed at me about it. As I hit financial independence I realize more and more that I dodged a massively fatal bullet by holding out no matter how much they hated me. I don’t think even half the players even admit it to themselves. My mom is one of them that’s too deep in to realize how massively problematic this all is. It’s funn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 07:07 AM
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I made fun of boys like him whenever they said stupid shit like this. Shut them right up. They always think they’re universally hot when they just look like mashed potato face to most everyone who isn’t an insecure tween girl that hasn’t yet seen the light.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 02:57 AM
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I mean, she can spend all her money on pudding if she wants to, what’s it to anyone?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 04:25 PM
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Yup, stakes are always higher for women. The damage and loss we can incur mentally, physically, and financially is always greater with less benefits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 08:16 PM
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I definitely started to do it when I started seeing what was up. I always look at the guys around me to see how much effort they’re putting in and do just as much and never more than that. If my brothers don’t step up to fix something, I’m not going to either as much as I lowkey want to take care of my parents. They raised my brothers with more leniency because they expected them to be their caretakers in retirement. Okay, cool. So I will let them step up and do that and hold back unless specifi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 02:05 PM
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Yeah this is why I’m really not surprised at how many men will say they want kids someday when they look like they’re not even doing a good job of running their own life. Because they’ve grown up seeing raising children as an outsourced job. I don’t want it. I’m using my time and energy on me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 01:59 PM
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Jeez. I’m glad you walked away from that! Sounds like she never truly valued you or your friendship AND she’s a racist? Yeah let her stew in her miserable existence. I can’t even get to the point of calling the dude LV because honestly he seems like an opportunistic leech but she chose that garbage over her healthy support system. Yeah my friend came out of a bad marriage a few years ago and I helped her through it. She’s not all bad, she’s been there for me a lot as well and I always appreciate…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 04:08 AM
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I’ve had to accept the fact that my oldest friend is like this. She’s convinced herself in a twisted way that she’s not but also admitted that she will put more effort in calling the men she’s interested in daily whereas with girl friends it may not be so regular. In her reasoning, she’s putting more time and energy when she’s calling her gfs. Except that she doesn’t really. I can’t even get her to text back properly 🙄 lol I have to let her realize that on her own bc she really doesn’t get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 08:25 PM
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I’m honestly so tired of this notion. It’s more important to me that a partner is a genuinely nice person that cares and works hard in whatever they do than how much they make and how many fancy vacations they can take per year. All this crap does is encourage too many men that they are allowed to be jerks as long as they’re successful and well off. No thanks.
/r/seduction17/02/21 06:36 AM
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Yeah, my mom used to say something when she was angry with me in our native language that essentially emphasized how extremely large my ass was in an effort to imply how fat I was. As much as I always stood up for myself when she criticized my looks I still internalized every bit of it. I truly thought I was insanely huge for my body type and was always conscious of how much space I took up. On top of it, she and her sisters and my grandmother loved to dissect me every time I was in a room with …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 04:10 PM
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No problem! I hope it helps you! I’m grateful that I had an amazing friend that really helped me see this through positive reinforcement. She carries a visible scar on her face that’s from a congenital birth defect. Yet, you look at her and you don’t see that. She’s always looked amazing and classy to me. It made me realize that how you carry yourself is truly reflected outwardly. Good luck!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 02:32 PM
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At this point in my life I’ve been the one that has been hit on in coffee shops and random places. But, I also still experience the invisibility factor when I’m out with a girl friend. So I really don’t think you should look at your attractiveness and judge it based off of how others react to you when you’re out with a friend. When I started getting hit on the only thing that had changed had been that I had started to dress for myself and what made me feel good. I actually gained weight in the l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 01:31 PM
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Yup. Have been both the plain Jane and the pretty one. I’m always wary of guys waxing poetic about how pretty I am. Because yeah half of them are assholes or just plain dismissive with all the women that they find unattractive. Hell if my friend introduces me to a guy that’s into her and he barely acknowledges me as a person, I already know what kind of guy he is and what kind of boyfriend he’s going to be. I also side eye the women that are happy to be the center of that kind of attention becau…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 11:42 PM
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lol It took me way too long to realize this. I always felt so uncomfortable about my weight and I realized it’s mostly in my head (and my mother’s but that’s her problem). Yeah most of the time they have other distractions to focus on lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 08:52 PM
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