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I second this suggestion - I've never been able to fully get through Invisible Women because every time I finish a chapter, my mind is completely blown and I have to mull over it for a week.
/r/ExRedPill03/08/22 04:23 AM
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I bake, sew, and cook, but I also am sexually active, work, and don't want kids. I am Schrodinger's woman for traditionalists.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/22 05:15 PM
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Dating and attraction studies have shown that men and women are both generally attracted to and end up with people of similar attractiveness as themselves. IE. you're fine, bro.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/22 04:05 PM
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The female gaze is usually a term used in the fields of art, literature, and film. Why exactly are you using it to talk about how you dress in real life? I'll be honest, I can't really understand why you want to look unhygienic, it's not something I've ever felt so I can't really relate. Yet, I think the struggle between being widely appealing and true to yourself is a very common one. It can manifest in different ways, but the main gist of the issue is quite the same. In my personal experience,…
/r/ExRedPill01/04/22 01:12 AM
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Jesus, this sounds worse for the "love of your life" - her nudes were just leaked, this could even be a way of threatening her. How are you not concerned about her and her safety? She fricking chose you despite whatever fairyland googoogaga sex you think she had with her ex. (I dunno, I'm asexual, this stuff doesn't make much sense.) Can't tell if this is just super self-absorbed or a big troll.
/r/ExRedPill09/12/20 12:21 AM
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Honestly, why does it matter? Why do we need wide generalisations about women and their inner natures and whatnot? Why do we need an instruction manual to women before we can treat them as humans? Why must we refer to comparisons to monkeys or to prehistoric cavewomen or to the British housewives to predict the behaviour of fifty percent of the current population? Women are humans, and that is that. Women and men are probably more similar than they are different, and there are probably more diff…
/r/ExRedPill26/09/20 01:45 PM
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I like r/bropill and r/menslib. Both male based, both on encouragement and self-improvement. I don't think they specifically address dating advice, but they're both interesting and helpful places to be in.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/20 01:13 PM
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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5795598/ https://www.natsal.ac.uk/natsal-3/findings.aspx Data says otherwise - men are more likely to have more sexual partners on average in all age groups.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/20 03:45 PM
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You might like this article: https://goodmenproject.com/ethics-values/brand-men-must-be-needed-because-we-cant-be-wanted/
/r/ExRedPill10/08/20 09:48 AM
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I find the first line itself so hilarious. What sort of society does this guy live in where sex is the exchange sex for fertility? If anyone hasn’t realised this yet - women derive pleasure from sex too!! Many, many women have sex because it’s pleasurable and enjoyable for both people! Another hilarious idea is that “men have the privilege to perform” part. Like yeah, that’s usually how het men get off? Like PIV sex is usually satisfactory for the men and not for the women, and that’s... bad for…
/r/ExRedPill08/08/20 10:44 AM
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From what I've seen redpill tries to dehumanize women as far as possible. They reduce women to a statistic or a common set of characteristics (AWALT), make huge generalisations, and treats women as a trophy or some sort of marker of their attractiveness and charm instead of rational sexual agent. By reducing women to some (fake) innate biological characteristics (hypergamy) they can blame not getting sex on women instead of just realising rejection is a part of life. Obviously, this can't align …
/r/ExRedPill17/06/20 02:06 PM
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I decided to look up what this "pretty heavy stuff" is, and dang. He really went there. At least most sexists in regular society try to mask their rape-apology, this guy doesn't even bother hiding it. I wonder if the PUA community condones his actions. Pretty sure they'd reference the onion layers described by Innuendo Studios.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/20 03:03 AM
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I heard that dude got banned from entering the UK to make his speeches about lonely men and bitchy women because it's called hate speech. Hilarious stuff.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/20 01:09 AM
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Do you have any reputable statistics or proof of that or is that just something redpill told you?
/r/ExRedPill08/06/20 12:25 PM
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He's been posting and commenting toxic redpill stuff on this sub a lot, I've tried to report but I'm not sure if it got taken down.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/20 01:38 PM
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We're not sick of them because we get a lot of them. We're sick of them because that person sees us as a convenient hole to put their dicks in. We're sick of them because that person thinks of us as a pair of tits on a stick which occasionally makes noises. We're sick of them because being followed home at night means that we're probably going to get raped in an alley, suffer from lifelong trauma, and never be believed if we tell someone it happened. We would feel sick whether it be one catcall …
/r/ExRedPill06/06/20 12:45 AM
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I'm not going to talk about my sex life on reddit, no I've never been asked on a date, the last person who gave me a compliment to establish a conversation was my teacher in first grade, the people who slide into my dms are people advertising MLMs. So no. You might think that women live in some sort of utopian world where everyone loves us or something, but I know for a fact that any woman would rather have the creepy dms and catcalling to stop. You think of them as validating and complimentary,…
/r/ExRedPill05/06/20 02:12 PM
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Urban legend tbh. I’ve literally never been approached before. If I choose not to approach anyone I too will die a virgin, and honestly I’m okay with that. I don’t depend on sexual attention to validate my existence - I set goals for myself outside of my dating life and they’re the ones which give me validation and self-worth. If you decide to base your self-worth on how many women like you, you’ll spend your entire life trying to change yourself to impress them - which sounds worse than dying a…
/r/ExRedPill05/06/20 10:54 AM
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Why do you think having a girlfriend should be a goal? I don't have a boyfriend, but it doesn't make me a better or worse person at all. If you want someone for sex, pay for it. If you want a long-term girlfriend, redpill won't help you. Most of the women who are attracted to redpill techniques are emotionally insecure, they'll be with you not because they like you but because they don't want to be alone. And I know for a fact that those are the saddest relationships. Anyways, even if you get a …
/r/ExRedPill05/06/20 09:01 AM
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Do you think anyone who used redpill/blackpill tactics and failed would still post on redpill/blackpill forums and not be harassed to hell and back for it? It just looks like you're only seeing one side of the picture. If you scroll through this sub you're going to see a lot of stories of people following redpill tactics and it not working out or ruining their relationship. What happens then? Another thing is that you shouldn't be basing your happiness of idea of success around how many women li…
/r/ExRedPill05/06/20 04:07 AM
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Right, the cult-like tendencies of the TRP is the conspiracy. Sure.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/20 12:23 PM
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Right, of course! And you’re the amazingly smart genius who figured it all out. Don’t you realise this is how cults work? They lure in emotionally vulnerable people, people who’ve recently been in traumatic situations, or are just hurt. They convince them that there’s a large conspiracy against them, that everything that happened is the fault of some mysterious system meant to shut them up. They give these people a scapegoat, someone to blame. They give them a handbook, a guidebook, something to…
/r/ExRedPill25/05/20 11:56 AM
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Ah, so basically you can mindread half the world. I wonder why you haven’t won the nobel prize yet. You should really try.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/20 11:29 AM
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Nice! Thank you for telling me, a woman, what hating on a woman is! This definition has enlightened me for years to come! I definitely never knew what hating on women was before this, you have opened my eyes! Wow! lol.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/20 07:59 AM
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Ah yes, building community. That's what we're calling hating on women these days. God bless the euphemism treadmill. Also love how you're ignoring the entire point about hookers. You don't want to get laid, you crave the validation of having someone attracted to you.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/20 07:43 AM
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Nope, nope, nada, disagree with every single one of those. I simply cannot even fathom how anyone can believe emotional manipulation gives women a better environment, or that being an asshole makes men more attractive. You're posting on the wrong sub here, this is not a place for you to spread your shit and hope someone catches a whiff. To quote the giant cheeto, go back to where you came from.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/20 07:40 AM
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That's a lot of words for "I can't get laid." Okay, scratch that. You're probably going to come at me with ten million examples of the women who fawn at you. I rephrase. That's a lot of words for "I can't get into and maintain an emotionally secure and understanding relationship because I refuse to be a mature and sensible human being who treats women as humans instead of the Borg."
/r/ExRedPill25/05/20 06:47 AM
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I'm sorry but I can't take mgtow seriously. They seem like they stopped getting validation from women, but now they want validation from other men who try to stop getting validation from women about how manly they are to stop wanting women. It's a woman-hating circlejerk. I can assure you, adapting on context and environment is not lying. And if you want to spend all your time complaining about how much you need to lie to get laid, might as well get hookers and end your misery. Just saying.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/20 06:42 AM
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Why bother with relationships with women if they're based on lies? It's obvious you consider them mere psychological manipulation to get some prize. If you want sex, get a hooker. But of course, the reason you don't do that is because you're validated by women. You need them to form some shred of self esteem and I find that pathetic.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/20 02:08 AM
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That's the thing though, does this mean to get laid you need to approach 150,000 women? A lot of people claim that redpill/PUA tactics work, but only after you approach a large number of women. But statistically, you can approach that number of women even without redpill/PUA tactics and it will work out at least once. It's just trial and error and it doesn't prove shit.
/r/ExRedPill20/05/20 11:25 AM
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I think one way to get rid of the cycle of insecurity is a way to think of what she is thinking too. She probably has the same insecurities, same inhibitions, similar experiences. She may have recently gotten out of a bad relationship, or believe that you probably think she's ugly. You have to realise that she's just as human as you are.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/20 01:32 PM
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Let me ask you something: how many girls/women have you talked to recently? Do you frequently talk to your mom, a sister, a female cousin? How many female friends do you have? You've learnt all of these views from I'm guessing a bunch of right-wing, RedPill/PUA/MGTOW subs and websites. How do you know that you should adopt their perceptions and views? What real life, concrete proof do you have that any of these views are true? So far everything you typed shows that you think of women as an alien…
/r/ExRedPill05/05/20 01:24 AM
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