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Questionsnarkysuchandsuch/r/MensRights29/07/14 05:22 AM
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[Citation Needed]
/r/MensRights15/02/15 11:02 AM
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yes. i am your density. as stupid as the second image is, it's still not the same thing as the first. like i said, the first one is saying women don't have to LOOK a certain way and men should BEHAVE a certain way. it'd be more comparable if the second one said something like , "men should be fit, men should be handsome, men need a full head of hair."
/r/MensRights15/09/14 12:23 AM
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the first image deals with body image and the second deals with characteristic traits. i don't understand the contradiction.
/r/MensRights13/09/14 10:05 AM
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that's not exactly an ad hominem attack; i'm not making any comments about you or your character, but a complete lack of understanding of what you're talking about. i will also point out that taking something that someone said and misconstruing it and then making an argument from that exaggerated version of the argument is called a straw man fallacy, which one could say is a last resort of a person that has NO IDEA of what they're talking about. communism, socialism and anarchism are all based o…
/r/MensRights11/09/14 06:54 PM
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you have absolutely no idea what you're talking about.
/r/MensRights11/09/14 08:09 AM
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escalating violence is such a noble cause. kudos to you, good sir! beat women and throw them in dumpsters with the rest of the trash! /s
/r/MensRights09/09/14 06:27 AM
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i'd like to laugh at that being what you took away from what i said, but it's not amusing at all.
/r/MensRights09/09/14 06:16 AM
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it's kind of amusing that you dont seem to understand that those communities are all similar in regard to class/race/gender/LGBT struggles. its not surprising that they would all have similar stances on hierarchal social normatives, and they would all agree that there cant be a legitimate revolution until all people are actually involved and represented.
/r/MensRights09/09/14 05:47 AM
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screenshot or it didnt happen.
/r/MensRights09/09/14 05:35 AM
1

that's a terrible comparison, cops don uniforms, they way people would perceive you is because you are wearing a uniform of an authority figure. what is your obsession with lingere? sagging pants doesn't "say" gang member any more than skimpy clothes says "whore". you're basically trying to tell women how to dress in a way that YOU approve of. so no, clothing is NOT a language. can it be a form of self-expression? yes, but that's not they same thing.
/r/MensRights09/09/14 02:37 AM
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i'm confused. you're saying that the clothes one wears doesn't scream rape me, but the clothes one wears says fuck me i'm a slut?
/r/MensRights07/09/14 08:48 AM
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good rebuttal.
/r/MensRights06/09/14 07:26 PM
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i honestly do not see a difference in respect to children not having their father in their lives. advocating for the father to be able to abandon their children is in direct opposition to advocating for fathers to be in their lives.
/r/MensRights01/09/14 11:32 AM
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children need their fathers! fathers should be able to abandon their children!
/r/MensRights31/08/14 10:07 AM
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what? being in favor of women being able to terminate a pregnancy...what exactly are you trying to say? you do realize that bot all women are able to have abortions for one reason or another. like the numerous restrictions some states put on abortions which make it nearly impossible for poor women to have that procedure done. you should be advocating for more planned parenthoods that wailing about financial abortions on the internet.
/r/MensRights31/08/14 09:13 AM
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i don't understand how a group can advocate for both children needing two parents and allowing fathers to abandon their children? it's sounds like your arguments for your second point is a whole lotta what ifs.
/r/MensRights30/08/14 10:33 AM
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hi. do you know what hyperbole is? also, SWEET JESUS THE LEFTISTS!! to finish, college hearings are not court proceedings, there are no judges.
/r/MensRights30/08/14 10:06 AM
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what's the difference? not having a father is not having a father, whether the dad decided to be a deadbeat or if he was forced (?) out, the kids are growing up with one parent.
/r/MensRights30/08/14 09:56 AM
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this is pretty good satire.
/r/MensRights30/08/14 09:45 AM
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men's rights.
/r/MensRights30/08/14 07:30 AM
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you think that expanding the definition of rape trivializes it, rather than gives people a better understanding of the things that happen to them? like rape has been broadened to include instances that are not strictly penis vaginal penetration. and this upsets you?
/r/MensRights20/08/14 06:29 AM
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ok. i'm not trying to be shitty, or an asshole, or condescending, but you do realize that having definitions of rape benefits both men and women victims, right? like, the same definition should apply across the board, which means at any point a man or women should be able to stop whatever is happening. men can also decide what constitute rape. why does this make you so upset?
/r/MensRights20/08/14 05:19 AM
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the hypocrisy is being an advocate for male victims of rape while at the same time denouncing what constitutes rape.
/r/MensRights20/08/14 04:20 AM
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i honestly don't understand the point you're trying to make.
/r/MensRights20/08/14 04:08 AM
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it's not that black and white. do i want to see men facing the harsh sentences that they do? no, not without an adequate rehab system, and some sort of programs for therapy and adequate parole systems, as well as real job training. do i want women to face harsher sentences? no, it doesn't benefit anyone to lock people up for longer periods of time. i'm against the prison industrial complex that is rampant in the US. so any opinion i give on the subject is going to favor less harsh prison sentenc…
/r/MensRights20/08/14 03:53 AM
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whoa, you just blew my mind without even sourcing a better definition than the one i presented.
/r/MensRights20/08/14 03:32 AM
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well, trying to understand the root of, and better understand, crime is a good first step. but i don't believe that the current criminal system does anything to help rehabilitate convicted crominals, which should be the real goal. i think prison could be useful, but not in the way it's being executed in the US.
/r/MensRights20/08/14 02:51 AM
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far out, man.
/r/MensRights19/08/14 10:20 PM
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i agreed with what the author was saying, until they polarized women feeling safe and welcomed and feminism, as if women having concerns about feeling safe in welcomed in a community is a feminist issue and not a women's issue. women are a marginalized demographic in places like comicon (by constantly having to prove their love of all things geek, which other men never have to do, or being accepted by being a token by partaking in cosplay, for example), and it should be an environment that welco…
/r/MensRights19/08/14 09:41 AM
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Sexual[edit] Main article: Sexual harassment Harassment that can happen anywhere but is most common in the workplace, and schools. It involves unwanted and unwelcome words, deeds, actions, gestures, symbols, or behaviours of a sexual nature that make the target feel uncomfortable. Gender and sexual orientation harassment fall into this family. Involving children, "gay" or "homo" is a common insult falling into this category. The main focus of groups working against sexual harassment is protectio…
/r/MensRights19/08/14 09:30 AM
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much of the male sex role is considered rape if the other partner decides to label it as such. do you not understand the hypocrisy of being upset by that statement while the same time advocating for a better understanding of men being victims of rape?
/r/MensRights19/08/14 09:18 AM
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TL;DR: "hey, i had to endure ridicule growing up, and i'm totally into having safe spaces, but not if that means women get to feel comfortable here, because women feeling comfortable is feminism and YUCK! so i'm in favor of safe spaces, but just for me and mine."
/r/MensRights19/08/14 09:07 AM
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totes, dude. consent is such bullshit. why get someone else's approval to violate their bodily autonomy? i mean, it's not like consent works both ways, like a woman shouldn't have to be totally clear that the sexual acts she's initiating is wanted by the guy, right? men and women shouldn't even bother making sure the thing they're doing with the other person is ok with them. fucking consent lingo and nuanced body language. edit: /s
/r/MensRights19/08/14 08:55 AM
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SATIRE!!!!!!!!!!11111 but seriously, i love how this forum has the idea that wars exist in a vacuum, as if the women and children didn't suffer at the hands of the winning armies. i mean, seriously, look at the bible. there's laws on what the winning armies are allowed to do with the women in the cities they've defeated. i'm sure you've all heard the phrase "rape and pillage"? it has historical context. men suffered from war in one way, women in another. it's not a contest about who had it worse…
/r/MensRights19/08/14 08:45 AM
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funny, it's similar to all you MRAs that refuse to acknowledge decades of academic work stating the exact opposite of the shit you believe, but insist of making asinine assertions with no actual backing besides anecdotal evidence.
/r/MensRights19/08/14 08:29 AM
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censorship and not giving a platform to bigotry are two totally different things. not allowing the word fuck is censorship. not allowing books that deal with sexuality is censorship. deleting posts that promote racism or homophobia is not allowing that shitty person's shitty worldview to be validated by sitting around being read by people. edit:typos
/r/MensRights19/08/14 08:16 AM
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so you're making note that a woman is behaving shitty, or you're pointing out that society unfavorably sees women as not having agency to distinguish between right and wrong?
/r/MensRights18/08/14 12:20 PM
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i'm pretty sure feminists back LGBT issues, like same-sex marriage and unisex bathrooms in government buildings, to name a couple issues that can be legislated.
/r/MensRights18/08/14 07:07 AM
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i think that addressing the root of crimes is incredibly important, to start, like societal inequalities for example. i don't think that longer prison sentences does anyone any good. probation, actual rehabilitation and therapy are things that i would like to see as opposed to longer prison terms. that's not even touching on the social stigma of being an ex con. good god.
/r/MensRights17/08/14 08:35 AM
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no, i honestly feel that the sentences that men in the US, especially men of color, receive should not be as harsh as they are. we have a gnarly corporate prison system where businesses are profiting from people being incarcerated, and it's appalling. i don't think women should face harsher sentences because i think men should have less harsher sentences, especially ESPECIALLY for non-violent offense, like drug possession. i think the system that we currently have is shit and the whole thing nee…
/r/MensRights17/08/14 08:06 AM
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yes. i'm terribly stupid.
/r/MensRights17/08/14 05:12 AM
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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=KMEViYvojtY
/r/MensRights17/08/14 04:02 AM
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not lighter sentences for men, but harsher sentences for women. right. because what the world needs in more people being incarcerated, as if the US doesn't have enough people locked up in prisons.
/r/MensRights17/08/14 03:18 AM
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how does this advocate men's rights? what is the point of this? how does constantly pointing things out with no constructive input on how to better a situation do ANYTHING to improve peoples' lives? why is there such a constant stream of all the bad shit women do and the light sentences they get while ignoring the light to no sentences that rich white me get?? people that caused the "great recession" aren't facing jail time either, where's the outrage??
/r/MensRights17/08/14 12:00 AM
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you can't sit there and say children, specifically boys, need their fathers in their lives and then advocate for a father's right to abandon his children. it's called hypocrisy.
/r/MensRights16/08/14 10:01 PM
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ok, either they were serious about what they wrote or they're really, really bad at satire.
/r/MensRights16/08/14 11:07 AM
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oh, i didn't see that. i don't really know how you want me to respond? we obviously disagree on that website's "satire" so there's no use going on about it.
/r/MensRights16/08/14 09:40 AM
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you mean respond to my own post?
/r/MensRights16/08/14 09:27 AM
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this is not going anywhere, and largely because it seems you don't understand depression. i'm dine with this thread.
/r/MensRights16/08/14 08:41 AM
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is anyone actually interested in the cause of low numbers of men in higher education, or does everyone want to sit around and talk about gender reversal as if that's a constructive thing to do?
/r/MensRights16/08/14 06:54 AM
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isn't a big talking point here about men being able to opt out of parenthood? now you're talking about how children need father? which is it? abandon the child or be around for the child?
/r/MensRights16/08/14 06:44 AM
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what? women don't have any of those jobs? literally NONE?
/r/MensRights16/08/14 06:22 AM
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this forum does, on occasion, but not in this case. everyone here seems to be attributing his death to alimony payments to further a talking point about something totally unrelated. i haven't seen much in the way of "hey, this is a sad moment for everyone, let's take time to reflect and talk about how we can help men out" but a lot of "he's dead because his ex wives stole his money!"
/r/MensRights16/08/14 06:06 AM
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right. almost every other comment about robin williams' death has it attributed to alimony, which is horseshit, and which was the point i was making.
/r/MensRights16/08/14 05:46 AM
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so chill. armchair psychiatrist. what bullocks.
/r/MensRights15/08/14 11:29 AM
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what the fuck are you actually trying to say? you're equating bummers to an actual clinical ailment? as a person that suffers from depression, i'm making a bold statement that all the assholes here claiming that fucking alimony (because "sadness" is in direct relationship to being sad /s) is the cause to this person's depression. financial hardships may lend to those sorts of feelings, but they're not the root, which is more important that contributing factors.
/r/MensRights15/08/14 11:14 AM
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right, the same way this forum "cared" about his death.
/r/MensRights15/08/14 11:03 AM
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and the "satire" tag gets thrown on a voice for men's BS when there's a vocal enough opposition to it. the whole point i'm trying to make is that this groups cries "satire" when a vocal member makes horrible statements about physical violence, and then gets upset when "feminists" make a joke. you all love double-standards when they're conveneient, but not when they point out your hypocrisy.
/r/MensRights15/08/14 10:51 AM
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i was actually satirising this forum's propensity for claiming that all the shitty things that a voice for men says is satire.
/r/MensRights15/08/14 09:43 AM
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what due process?? due process is part of the criminal process. seriously, don't conflate schools' processes with dealing with rape accusations and a full on criminal trial.
/r/MensRights15/08/14 09:06 AM
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some women also have false positives, which isn't faking.
/r/MensRights15/08/14 08:19 AM
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SATIIIIIRRRREEEEEEE!!
/r/MensRights15/08/14 06:53 AM
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TIL r/mensrights has no understanding of depression.
/r/MensRights13/08/14 09:33 PM
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"equal rights, equal lefts" i believe is the motto of this group? cuz, y'know, hitting people is cool.
/r/MensRights12/08/14 09:38 AM
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no. you're talking bullocks and you're downplaying the seriousness of an actual human rights issue.
/r/MensRights12/08/14 09:27 AM
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no.
/r/MensRights12/08/14 07:09 AM
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i meant parents and family, and i'm glad we agree on free IUDs.
/r/MensRights10/08/14 09:49 AM
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i didn't say anything about taxpayers, i never made a stance on illegal immigration, and the latter has absolutely nothing to do with what we've been talking about. what was the point of bringing up either of those issues besides deflecting the original comversation?
/r/MensRights10/08/14 07:17 AM
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mars bars.
/r/MensRights09/08/14 08:25 PM
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i mean, it seems that the legal system for divorce sucks for everyone and should have some reform.
/r/MensRights09/08/14 01:01 PM
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racism isn't a MR concern, as i've been told.
/r/MensRights09/08/14 12:43 PM
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fgm is not the same as being circumcised. i'm guessing that's where you drew the most heat? fgm consists of cutting off whole parts of the genitals, the clitoris and labia for the express purpose of preventing women from enjoying sex. the equivalent of that would be cutting of the entire glans of the penis. also, michelle obama, SATIRE!!1!
/r/MensRights09/08/14 12:42 PM
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in my home, the seat and lid are both put down after using the toilet, because it's just proper manners.
/r/MensRights09/08/14 12:31 PM
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hey guys, the systematic racism you face face everyday is just a small hurdle, get over youselves!
/r/MensRights09/08/14 12:28 PM
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i've made this comparison before, and i think it's a pretty good one: europeans colonised the americas, not every european was a colonialist, but people that were from europe colonised the americas. it's basically the same thing. not EVERY man has been responsible for wars, but men have been the ones that have started them, and have also been the ones that have barred women from fighting (which i think is where this topic is coming from?).
/r/MensRights09/08/14 12:26 PM
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"In social philosophy, objectification means treating a person as a thing, without regard to their dignity. According to the philosopher Martha Nussbaum, a person is objectified if they are treated:[1] as a tool for another's purposes (instrumentality); as if lacking in agency or self-determination (denial of autonomy, inertness); as if owned by another (ownership); as if interchangeable (fungibility); as if permissible to damage or destroy (violability); as if there is no need for concern for t…
/r/MensRights09/08/14 12:13 PM
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that sounds more like a fault in the system than men being disadvantaged.
/r/MensRights09/08/14 12:05 PM
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the catholic church, in all of its holy wisdom, has instilled in people of africa a religious aversion to condoms, so they are not used as much as developed nations. circumcision is used as an actual medical tool to help combat the HIV/AIDS epidemic there.
/r/MensRights09/08/14 12:03 PM
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SATIRE!!!
/r/MensRights09/08/14 11:58 AM
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most dads don't fight for custody. it's also a sexist attitude that women are more suited as parents than men because society views women as natural homemakers and men as natural breadwinners. shitty gender roles perpetuated by society.
/r/MensRights09/08/14 11:57 AM
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he was fired because he was detained and not charged with anything?
/r/MensRights09/08/14 11:55 AM
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i've read a handful of times in this forum that when someone strikes you, you are well within your means to beat the other person to pulp. i don't see why that line of reasoning should fall short of killing someone that physically assaults you. equal rights, equal lefts, yes?
/r/MensRights09/08/14 11:45 AM
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i started watching, but i didn't hear any explanation of what the "he said/she said gap" is so i stopped watching.
/r/MensRights09/08/14 11:41 AM
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you know who doesn't have a good grasp on protected sex? adolescents that are taught abstinence-only. you know what demographic that generally effects? poor people. you know who generally doesn't have access to birth control/contraceptives/abortions? poor people. spend the money and give those people free contraceptives so they're not burdening themselves or anyone else with unplanned pregnancies. free IUDs, indeed.
/r/MensRights09/08/14 11:32 AM
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well, having sex without a condom with a complete stranger increases your risk of contracting something. thank you for illustrating a need for better sex ed.
/r/MensRights09/08/14 11:24 AM
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well the obvious answer is a better sex ed program coupled with free and easy access to birth control.
/r/MensRights09/08/14 10:58 AM
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this is the equivalent of making a mug saying "white supremacist tears" when white nationalists talk about their diminishing rights when compared to other groups of people gaining rights.
/r/MensRights09/08/14 10:55 AM
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i don't know what AWD is.
/r/MensRights09/08/14 10:49 AM
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pfffffffft don't sleep with people that aren't in a state of mind to have consenting sex.
/r/MensRights09/08/14 10:48 AM
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800 hep Es?
/r/MensRights09/08/14 10:42 AM
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oh, i get it. i love satire!
/r/MensRights09/08/14 10:38 AM
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as gross as you made this comment come across, i'll say good, you should be using a condom with people you don't know anyway because of STIs.
/r/MensRights09/08/14 10:37 AM
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so tumblr dictates opinion rather than actual advancements made by people that actively advocate for other people that need advocacy? that's pretty uh... cool?
/r/MensRights09/08/14 10:31 AM
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what is wrong with social justice?
/r/MensRights09/08/14 08:21 AM
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we did it! equal rights, equal jail time!
/r/MensRights09/08/14 08:19 AM
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i remember reading some years ago about the civil rights movement. they had a specific tactic they utilised that involved lynching white people, trying to deny their vote, having their seperated facilites be as decrepid as their own and terrorizing families and communities with burning religious symbols in order to get more white people behind their cause. i think it worked, because the civil rights movement made huge strides.
/r/MensRights08/08/14 08:36 PM
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if someone could produce factual evidence for such statements then people might agree with such sweeping generalizations.
/r/MensRights07/08/14 07:37 AM
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right. popular opinion and laws are two different things. popular opinion: abortions are legal. law: abortions are legal under certain circumstance, within a certain timeframe, with certain financial flexibility. i don't want to sound antagonistic, but do you read about the diminishing options women have for abortion?
/r/MensRights07/08/14 07:33 AM
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neither of those is ever the case. body shaming is never funny or harmless. what is wrong with you?
/r/MensRights07/08/14 07:01 AM
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oh shit, there's no longer any opposition to abortion in any way in the united states! huzzah!
/r/MensRights06/08/14 03:24 AM
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body shaming of both sexes is wrong.
/r/MensRights06/08/14 03:19 AM
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could you please explain factually correct generalisations?
/r/MensRights05/08/14 03:14 AM
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i peed my pants.
/r/MensRights05/08/14 03:08 AM
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i say that because i've read a lot of comments on here about mandatory enrollment for selective service in the US is a men's right issue.
/r/MensRights03/08/14 07:11 AM
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sigh. the two issues intersect with one another, is my whole point. the issue is he is black AND a man. men of color are profiled because of BOTH of those things, you should be upset at the very least because part of the problem is that men of color are men being vilified because they're scary men. EDIT (my original response was on a mobile while i was on a break and i wanted to follow up): i think you're not afraid of being called a racist because you don't think you're a racist, even though yo…
/r/MensRights03/08/14 07:10 AM
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wow. from what i've s read no one is taking you very seriously anyway. perhaps if you included the problems of specific groups of men, like men of color, migrant workers, rather than just brushing their problems off because they're not a general enough problem for all men. i don't understand what you're on about with the civil rights bit? you're afraid of being called a racist for being a proponent for imprisoned black men? it seems that you just don't care about the issue because it doesn't aff…
/r/MensRights03/08/14 05:53 AM
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all i'm trying to say is stop making it a this or that is worse/the worst thing. not all things are comparable and nothing has to be worse than something else to be bad.
/r/MensRights03/08/14 02:30 AM
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these issues only have to do with men's rights if they happen to take place in the western world?
/r/MensRights03/08/14 02:08 AM
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don't believe anything any nationalist says, ever.
/r/MensRights03/08/14 02:06 AM
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wow. i've seen those two topics of discussion in this forum a lot as issues that men face, and you single-handedly dismiss both of them.
/r/MensRights03/08/14 12:15 AM
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violence by cops toward men of color happens more often than violence towards any of demographic. those men should have the backing and outrage of a movement that claims to be a movement for men.
/r/MensRights03/08/14 12:13 AM
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so male suicide and forced male conscription are not men's rights issues?
/r/MensRights02/08/14 10:32 AM
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ok dude, you've belittled rape victims a few times already in this thread and then brought up cancer patients as if the two are similar, and the point i've been trying to make is NEITHER IS WORSE THAN THE OTHER, ALL TRAUMA IS EQUALLY SHITTY. i've experienced "cancer wards" when one grandparent died from a brain tumor and another that died from lung cancer, and even my uncle that had cancer in his throat and i'm still saying that rape, whomever the victim is, whatever their gende, is shitty traum…
/r/MensRights02/08/14 10:27 AM
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men of color being disproportionately hassled by cops and incarcerated sounds like a men's right issue, it impacts a certain demographic of men that could really use support.
/r/MensRights02/08/14 08:45 AM
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i've said repeatedly the one doesn't have to be worse than another to be bad. why do you keep phrasing it like that? also, is this what you tell male victims of rape? "hey, get over your shit, someone has cancer." i've seen on this forum numerous times people talking about how male victims of rape and sexual abuse are downplayed, and here you are downplaying the trauma people of both genders have faced.
/r/MensRights02/08/14 08:07 AM
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why wouldn't feminism use the clout it's gained to restore rights?
/r/MensRights31/07/14 08:15 AM
1

yes, i have actually met, and done the hair of androgynous people.
/r/MensRights31/07/14 07:58 AM
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i read what you said, and had comments to make, but i stopped at "run-of-the-mill rapes". what does that even mean?? i don't understand why this has to be framed as a "the worst thing ever" type of scenario? rape is a horrible thing that can take along time finally overcome and come to terms with. rape isn't only about physical trauma, it's also emotional and psychological trauma. it's a horrible thing that effects a person's ability to enjoy something that is perfectly natural to enjoy. getting…
/r/MensRights31/07/14 07:50 AM
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the means was the legal system, and the ends was more equal rights? i honestly don't understand the distinction between feminism and women's rights. isn't feminism just the name for women's rights?
/r/MensRights31/07/14 07:10 AM
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i came in with genuine questions, but some of the other comments struck me as odd. i don't know what capitalisation has to do with anything if you're not using proper punctuation? if someone says, "bigfoot exists" they need to have some sources to prove the assertion they made. people don't go around saying "bigfoot exists, prove me wrong." there was a lot of wild accusations in the post i responded to, which is why i asked for sources.
/r/MensRights31/07/14 05:07 AM
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where is that coming from?
/r/MensRights31/07/14 01:49 AM
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you're talking about voting for laws that govern a civil society, not telling people who have experienced trauma to get over their problems. i don't think you get a say in how people should recover when you have no experience with helping people through trauma because people vote for things.
/r/MensRights31/07/14 12:31 AM
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thats the exact opposite of what i said.
/r/MensRights30/07/14 10:08 PM
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restrictions on abortions and not having access to birth control are not compelling as reproductive rights issues? don't you think addressing those problems would help alleviate the custody and child support problems by preventing them in the first place? if women had easier access to birth control and abortions there wouldn't be as many unwanted pregnancies. and when do men ever have to pay child support for a child that isn't theirs?
/r/MensRights30/07/14 10:02 PM
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why does one have to worse than the other? the point stands that just because there are options it doesn't mean that they're accessible for everyone. you said that women have a monopoly on child custody, but then also say they have no responsibility to raise the child they were given custody over? i'm sorry, but those are two absolutely separate issues. one involves actual reproduction (the ability to have control over it), the other involves children that have been born.
/r/MensRights30/07/14 09:44 PM
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it's the job of the person making claims to prove them, not the job of other people to disprove them.
/r/MensRights30/07/14 09:35 PM
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i didn't say extends to, i said includes, and i think you may some weird issue if you think all that LGBT and people of color do is sit around and bash white men. numerous people that i've met that are gay identified as feminists because of the inclusion of those communities in their push for equal rights. also, what the hell is rape hysteria?
/r/MensRights30/07/14 09:32 PM
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having multiple options is moot when those options are unavailable for one reason or another. having to drive hundreds of miles in order to have an abortion because religious fundamentalists have shut down almost every clinic in the state, forcing women to look at an ultra sound, or requiring women to view unscientific propaganda to scare uninformed and vulnerable people from performing the procedure are hardly indicative of having full control of reproductive rights. i don't understand what cus…
/r/MensRights30/07/14 09:24 PM
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what country are we talking about? if we're talking about the US, i really don't think you're very familiar with the racism that black people still face.
/r/MensRights30/07/14 08:36 PM
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feminism has attained goals, so i still don't understand.
/r/MensRights30/07/14 08:29 PM
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maintaining reproductive rights is a big one, pushing for equal rights of the LGBT community is another - two that i can think of off the top of my head.
/r/MensRights30/07/14 08:27 PM
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no, i was trying to point out that saying people should get over something in a certain amount of time without having a professional background on that subject is a bit much.
/r/MensRights30/07/14 08:25 PM
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where did you learn that? or is it a generalised opinion about a group of people?
/r/MensRights30/07/14 08:21 PM
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what doctrines does feminism have? i agree that feminism extends beyond women's rights, it includes the right of the LGBT community as well as people of color.
/r/MensRights30/07/14 08:20 PM
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that's a pretty absurd comment to make.
/r/MensRights30/07/14 08:17 PM
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why are you pissed off at feminists for not addressing this?
/r/MensRights30/07/14 10:25 AM
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what percentage of child molesters are women?
/r/MensRights30/07/14 10:22 AM
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even if being roofied happened once a year, isn't that still once too often?
/r/MensRights30/07/14 10:20 AM
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is this your professional opinion?
/r/MensRights30/07/14 10:13 AM
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i'm sorry, but what the hell are you talking about? could you please cite sources for the assertions that you've made?
/r/MensRights30/07/14 10:09 AM
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what you've said doesn't make sense to me. women's rights = goals feminism = a means to a goal what does that mean?
/r/MensRights30/07/14 10:06 AM
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i'm sorry, but i'm failing to understand how asking making sure the other person wants to have sex is a bad thing?
/r/MensRights30/07/14 10:02 AM
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campaign? tactics? i'm sorry but this is a lot of hyperbole over a non issue. that country decided to include a minority in their vocabulary and you're this pissed off? isnt men's rights about the rights if men? what about androgynous men? or tans men? why are you mad about a word that includes minorities of your group?
/r/MensRights30/07/14 09:58 AM
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i read what you're saying, but i'm really having a hard time understanding why you're upset about being inclusive.
/r/MensRights30/07/14 08:07 AM
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whenever i'm fooling around with someone, and i think it's heading towards sex, i always ask, "do you wanna have sex?" usually it makes it kind of hotter.
/r/MensRights30/07/14 06:47 AM
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i think i'm missing something, feminism is fighting for women's right because they need to be advocated for, but people are upset that they don't advocate for men as well? isn't that kind of like people being upset that black people didn't advocate for the rights of others during the civil rights movement?
/r/MensRights30/07/14 06:17 AM
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what about androgynous people that don't have a preferred pronoun? i don't know about rights, but certainly one deserves the courtesy of being referred to by their preferred pronoun, or a gender neutral pronoun.
/r/MensRights30/07/14 06:04 AM
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do women falsely accuse men of rape more than men do?
/r/MensRights30/07/14 05:30 AM
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i thought maybe there was a book i could read on the subject.
/r/MensRights30/07/14 05:29 AM
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feminism isn't about rights?
/r/MensRights30/07/14 05:28 AM
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who says only men do that type of thing?
/r/MensRights30/07/14 05:27 AM
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i read malcolm x's autobiography, i don't recall having read anything about antagonizing white people. what hatred do feminists advocate towards men? i haven't experienced that from my feminist friends, in fact they seem to be pretty inclusive of other people.
/r/MensRights30/07/14 05:26 AM
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i'd like to read more about this. could you share sources?
/r/MensRights30/07/14 02:52 AM
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being aware is healthy, being paranoid is not.
/r/MensRights30/07/14 02:51 AM
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from what i understand, strip clubs are more about sex work and sexually objectifying people, my feminist friends are OK with strip clubs.
/r/MensRights30/07/14 02:50 AM
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what is the difference between wonens' rights and feminism?
/r/MensRights30/07/14 02:47 AM
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false rape accusations?
/r/MensRights30/07/14 02:42 AM
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that was my point. he fought against his oppressors, that doesn't mean he hated white people.
/r/MensRights30/07/14 02:41 AM
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you've become paranoid?
/r/MensRights30/07/14 02:39 AM
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it sounds like you hang out with incredibly regressive friends. if you are ostracised because you tell people to not be shitty, then you shouldnt hang out with them anyway. like i called an old friend out for saying racist things and he stopped calling me. its OK with me, i don't need to hang out with someone like that.
/r/MensRights30/07/14 02:37 AM
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this seems kind of cool! it helps when in the company of trans people. i read an article a while ago about kids in either boston or detroit, that refer to each other as "yo" regardless of gender. i like the idea that kids arent relying on gender, or skin color, to differentiate themselves. that sounds pretty egalitarian.
/r/MensRights30/07/14 02:33 AM
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i dont understand this reasoning. i dont think MLK hated white people.
/r/MensRights30/07/14 02:28 AM
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why are you hanging out with people that hit each other?
/r/MensRights30/07/14 02:19 AM
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this sounds like the failing of the judicial system in texas. i've not heard a lot of good things about that system in texas.
/r/MensRights30/07/14 02:18 AM
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how often does this happen?
/r/MensRights30/07/14 02:16 AM
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this doesn't sound like a "typical example" of women manipulating people, but a very sad example of one person hurting other people.
/r/MensRights30/07/14 02:15 AM
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i've a handful of friends roofied. i don't understand the contention over this.
/r/MensRights30/07/14 02:10 AM
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that's interesting. i've not heard of this. who is shaming them?
/r/MensRights30/07/14 02:07 AM
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if i'm hooking up with someone that i've just met, and tell me they're on birth control i still use condoms for both our sake, STIs and all that. in all the sexual partners i've had, one-time hook-ups, short term flings, long term status, i've never been lied to about them being on the pill.
/r/MensRights30/07/14 02:04 AM
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but intoxication is not a state of mind that is conducive to good decision making. like driving drunk, the person driving is not in a state of mind to be driving, shouldn't that be the same with sex? also, i'm not sure what you mean by "such women"?
/r/MensRights30/07/14 01:58 AM
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how can one put a timeline on healing, emotionally and psychologically, from a traumatic event? perhaps if victims didn't feel so stigmatised they would seek out the help they need to get over what happened?
/r/MensRights30/07/14 01:55 AM
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is that a thing that happens frequently?
/r/MensRights30/07/14 01:52 AM
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how is feminism a hate group?
/r/MensRights30/07/14 01:52 AM
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how can one say it was consensual if you never got an explicit "yes"? i understand the first point you made, but what is the harm in asking, before you start actually having sex, "do you want to have sex?"
/r/MensRights30/07/14 01:50 AM
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why would someone try to take the clothes off someone else after they already said no once? why would someone continue having sex with someone that is obviously not enjoying it? how is it not rape if you didn't want it to happen?
/r/MensRights29/07/14 06:35 PM
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how does one differentiate between a vocal female and a feminist? the feminist friends i have have never made blanket statements about all men, while i was around at least. it's more like, europeans colonialised the new world -- not all europeans colonialised the new world, but by and large the new world was colonialised by europeans.
/r/MensRights29/07/14 08:44 AM
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why does rape have to be the worst thing? rape is a terrible thing, is that not enough for the person that was raped? would you tell someone that was raped to suck it up because worse things happen?
/r/MensRights29/07/14 08:23 AM
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i would like to be more knowledgeable about the issues before i make any sort of decision, which is why i ask for books i can read about mens' rights and feminism.
/r/MensRights29/07/14 08:12 AM
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i'm sure it happens a lot, and it's absolutelty abhorrant. what can we do to help this situation? also, what can we do to make sure that people aren't abusing the systems we have in place to report rapes to further their agenda while in prison? what should we tell young boys that bring up rape charges agaisnt priests? the priest is a man of god, and people read about these things in the news, how much of this is true?
/r/MensRights29/07/14 08:08 AM
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please do not record your sexual encounters, that is deeply troublesome and intrusive for the other party (unless they consent, but don't share it unless they consent to that as well).
/r/MensRights29/07/14 07:35 AM
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shouldn't we all make an effort to make sure men and females are all free from being raped? if i saw a man being raped i would stop it the same if i saw a female being raped. if a crime was being committed against me i'd hope that a bystander would help, because i would.
/r/MensRights29/07/14 07:28 AM
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cool! thanks! can i pick his book up at my local bookstore, or should i look for it online? i've heard a lot about emma goldmen and ayn rand from my friends as well. do you know about them? do you have recommendations on what works of theirs i should read?
/r/MensRights29/07/14 07:24 AM
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this took place while they were in college? sometimes, while people are young they don't understand that what they experienced was rape, so they continue their relationship with the person that raped them. if a boy was coerced into having sex with another boy while he was drunk, he may think he just madea bad decision, but not realise that he was taken advantage of because he was drunk and then continue to hang out with the person that raped him (to be clear, i'm not saying gay males go around r…
/r/MensRights29/07/14 07:12 AM
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wow, i'm sorry that you felt that growing up. i feel like it's societal norms about body image that cause such an insecure feelng for young male adult; men need to be ripped, men need to have a penis that looks a certain way, etc. i wish we could all agree that my body wasn't made to make other people happy and that i should feel comfortable the way i was made, with out the ridicule and mean comments that are made by other people while i'm just trying to live my life.
/r/MensRights29/07/14 06:42 AM
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what is the context of this question? victim shamed in what way? ...i think men are shamed into not reporting sexual assault charges because they're afraid of being seen as weak and not men, and also afraid that no one will take their accusations seriouously. if a man says someone assaulted them, sexually or otherwise, why would anyone believe them? isn't it the general understanding (i mean the mainsteam understanding) that men can't be raped or molested? what if every time an alter boy came fo…
/r/MensRights29/07/14 06:24 AM
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but not all women are feminists, right? and if the debate is about men's rights VS feminism doesn't it make sense to say "not all feminists" rather than "not all women"? mens' rights is the equivilent to feminism, shouldn't the scope of the conversation be within the realm of the two respective organizations and not genders?
/r/MensRights29/07/14 05:32 AM
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i'm confused. one example is feminist vs men, the other is females vs MRAs. what is the point you're trying to make? should it be "not all feminist are like that/not all MRAs are like that" and "not all females are like that/not all males are like that"? also, i don't think making assertions is evidence for anything?
/r/MensRights29/07/14 04:53 AM
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why should females have a special place to do their comedy? if they cant compete with men, it's their own fault for not being able to cater to a wider audience.
/r/MensRights29/07/14 04:39 AM
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female POWs of which war?
/r/MensRights29/07/14 02:05 AM
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female POWs of which war?
/r/MensRights29/07/14 01:49 AM
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*she or he. i'm sure false rape accusations happen among the gay community, as well, right?
/r/MensRights29/07/14 12:27 AM
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