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6

“all she’s doing is making sales”
/r/MGTOW10/03/19 02:07 AM
1

You don't need to get over your own wants and desires. They're normal and you can indulge them if you choose. The theme in this sub seems to be anti-women, but ultimately if going your own way means finding a fulfilling relationship, then you do you. Women aren't inherently evil and there are plenty of opportunities for finding fulfillment with the right one.
/r/MGTOW11/04/17 07:30 AM
8

They only matter before she knows you. Once she knows you - forget about it. That's all over in a day. Looks don't matter in the scheme of things. Focus on what you can control.
/r/seduction25/07/16 12:47 PM
1

I repeat: UV is fucking terrible for your skin. This is like saying "a few cigarettes won't give you lung cancer". Sure, but why the hell would you willfully damage yourself like that?
/r/seduction17/03/16 04:00 PM
7

Tanning does not make you look good, and UV is fucking terrible for your skin. The rest is sound advice. Seriously, UV is bad for your body.
/r/seduction17/03/16 04:01 AM
2

Your loose skin is a fucking trophy that you got for climbing out of the pit of loserdom with nothing more than your own indomitable will to thrive. Fuck the haters. Be proud of your progress and the side effects thereof. There's no way to go from 350lb to a reasonable weight WITHOUT that happening. Rock that shit and rock the fuck on.
/r/seduction19/02/16 07:46 AM
1

Redditor for 27 minutes. Die, spammer.
/r/seduction17/02/16 11:53 PM
1

It's just like picking up girls or playing guitar: practice a little bit every day. http://danceinayear.com/
/r/seduction10/10/14 06:46 AM
35

I'm an INTJ that became an ENTJ, and it's not your MBTI that makes you expressionless - it's your lack of expression. Learn to express yourself, and practice. It's a skill like anything else.
/r/seduction02/06/12 11:12 PM
1

Why would that be weird? It could come across as really lazer-creepy if not delivered just right. Requires good calibration. Advanced move, but I imagine it would be really effective in the right circumstance.
/r/seduction27/05/12 03:52 PM
1

OP already did - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uHhIlBpKqIQ
/r/seduction27/05/12 03:51 PM
1

There were several points throughout the night were I didn't break eye-contact with the second girl in this FR. She would keep looking back at me and ask, "What?". What am I supposed to do here? I would have said something sarcastic like "What do you THINK?" (while grinning), as if it was obvious to anyone with a brain that I was intentionally eye-flirting with her. I'm not sure if it would work, but that's the first idea that springs to my mind. It might telegraph too much conscious intent but …
/r/seduction27/05/12 03:50 PM
3

no words are being said so I'm thinking to myself, "FUCK IT LETS DO IT LIVE" high five
/r/seduction27/05/12 03:47 PM
2

You're doing that thing that non-seddit people do and saying "neg" when you actually mean "insult". Insulting others is a shitty thing done by shitty people. Don't be shitty to others.
/r/seduction23/05/12 09:23 AM
0

Who cares if she's rewarded or not?
/r/seduction23/05/12 09:20 AM
16

Nothing gets me more irritated than when people try to play social games with me, especially since I can read most social situations like a book. You're no fun. If she's cute, it's more fun when she loses the game. Think of it as a power exchange.
/r/seduction22/05/12 11:54 PM
0

This is good advice anywhere, including the USA and Europe. You write as if it's something specific to Japan.
/r/seduction21/05/12 12:56 PM
2

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kCbD8nsxcd8
/r/seduction21/05/12 12:55 PM
2

My point is this: If you're going to game drunk and/or tipsy girls, you can be be the totally tactless, overly-aggressive caveman and get away with it. If you're good, you can get away with lying and stealing too. It doesn't mean that anyone SHOULD, though. Fucking women is not so important as to be worth being totally tactless or over-aggressive, especially considering that ome can get girls (drunk ones included) without being a prick.
/r/seduction11/05/12 06:45 PM
16

Be advised that your use of slang is ambiguous to your readers: "hooking up" refers specifically to intercourse in many parts of the country.
/r/seduction28/04/12 01:49 PM
10

Slow down.
/r/seduction25/04/12 10:45 AM
5

It always throws me off when I read west-coasters use "hooking up". In almost all other parts of the country, "hooking up" means intercourse.
/r/seduction29/03/12 03:50 AM
2

Arial and 'aerial' are not the same thing.
/r/seduction18/03/12 08:52 PM
2

There is no need to change people, just be honest with yourself and everyone around you, especially your family. FUCK YEAH. I know I'm late to this thread, but this is absolutely stellar advice. (And, judging by where I was linked here from, seems to have worked wonders for the OP.)
/r/seduction10/12/11 02:40 PM
6

I think you're missing the point of the post entirely. There is no special "attractive lady's perspective".
/r/seduction24/10/11 10:57 PM
3

traveling (Unless you're in the Commonwealth) doing well (good is an adjective, well is the adverb) I normally don't correct people, but you took pains to use the latin properly, so I figured you might have the same target with english.
/r/seduction17/09/11 12:56 AM
3

You know, I'm totally with you on this. I think the two of us should collaborate on a post. Ha, I see what you did there. You're good.
/r/seduction17/09/11 12:52 AM
2

It works very differently for girls than it does guys. Guys are way simpler- just suck his dick.
/r/seduction24/05/11 10:43 AM
1

It works if you rock the Riker beard, trust me.
/r/seduction21/05/11 05:56 AM
4

She sobered up. Never take the subway home, toss her and you into a cab. I thought this went without saying?
/r/seduction06/05/11 09:23 AM
1

Just because 95-99 out of 100 clubs are abysmal places doesn't mean that the hard work and dedication of the people who run the rest should go unrecognized. It's a thankless, shitty industry, and people who deal with all of that to provide a comfy, enjoyable place for me to get my drink and relaxation on deserve all the thanks and recognition I can heap on 'em.
/r/seduction16/04/11 11:10 PM
1

I'm a fan of Berghain, but it's gone downhill in the last 12 months or so. It's still far better than most, though, so it's worth a visit or five. Lately I've been hanging out at a place called Kleine Reise, but it's always super-crowded (other than that, A+ fun). The techno nights (The Bunker) my friend does in the ass-end of Public Assembly (Brooklyn) are pretty fun, too. Bar 13 (Manhattan) can be either great or horrible depending on what's going on there (though I bet the "horrible" ones out…
/r/seduction16/04/11 11:07 PM
1

Nah, shit clubs are shit clubs even if you're there with cool people. What's the point of having cool people in a place that's uncomfortable and annoying?
/r/seduction14/04/11 09:27 PM
1

Good clubs aren't too crowded. Good clubs aren't too hot. Good clubs are loud, but have places where it's quiet enough to talk. Good clubs don't let fake people in. Good clubs know you and don't make you wait in line. Good clubs don't have "bottle service". Good clubs aren't overpriced. Good clubs don't play "miss" music. Like I said, 95% of them should be burned to the ground. But good ones do exist.
/r/seduction14/04/11 09:25 PM
-1

Most nightclubs are completely abysmal. Lots of people think they're just not nightclub people because their sample set is from the 95% of clubs that should be burned to the ground.
/r/seduction14/04/11 05:41 PM
-3

Totally unrelated to seduction: If you need to drink at a nightclub to have fun, you're going to the wrong nightclubs. Seriously.
/r/seduction14/04/11 04:43 PM
3

I don't think there are very many girls on OKC who don't fuck on the first date.
/r/seduction25/03/11 12:21 AM
1

Also, The xx's self-titled is great, but is trendy and well-known enough that some hip girls may already associate it with some other dude, so tread lightly. Anyone who pays attention to popular cool-kid music has likely gotten down to this album recently.
/r/seduction09/01/11 03:31 PM
1

"Smooth" is an duo that makes music perfect for this sort of thing. Check out their self-titled release on Real Estate Records.
/r/seduction09/01/11 03:28 PM
1

Also, I think "Let's Get It On" is probably too overt to be useful with a girl who's over for the first time, despite it being a wonderful song. Maybe put it in the playlist queued for about an hour later... :)
/r/seduction09/01/11 03:27 PM
3

"lover you should've come over" is the next track on Jeff Buckley's album Grace (after Hallelujah), hence the joke.
/r/seduction07/01/11 11:20 PM
5

"lover you should've come over"
/r/seduction07/01/11 11:14 PM
-6

Oh wait I remember you, you're that incredibly creepy guy who writes really overly-detailed posts about how you weird everyone out.
/r/seduction28/12/10 04:00 AM
18

I have done this. It works a charm. As they say, spooning leads to forking. And, as we all know, forking leads to knifing.
/r/seduction24/12/10 02:27 PM
2

One exception, I've always enjoyed using the line: "I like you.... you'll do." ...after the first big block of qualifying her, as a good lead-in to rapport. But yes, it's not a move in itself, as much as it is a minor reward for compliance.
/r/seduction19/12/10 10:54 PM
1

I don't really enjoy bars/clubs Learn how to make friends out of strangers.
/r/seduction06/12/10 04:27 PM
1

LOOKS DON'T MATTER. PS: Learn your homonyms. "you're" != "your".
/r/seduction04/12/10 08:36 AM
14

Don't worry about if something is creepy or not, worry about if girls get creeped out by it or not. If they don't, it's not, and it's an effective technique. USE SCIENCE.
/r/seduction04/10/10 07:37 AM
3

By that point, she should already be on your side, methinks.
/r/seduction13/09/10 10:35 AM
4

another positive is you have a reason to cover hb-'s eyes and smile charmingly at the hb+ without scrutiny. What the fuck you care about hb- scrutiny, boy?
/r/seduction13/09/10 04:23 AM
1

You don't understand it at all, much less "very well", if you think that the core of pickup is deception of any kind.
/r/seduction10/09/10 11:09 PM
0

Dismissing your lack of understanding as "everything is simply a matter of perception" doesn't make you less wrong.
/r/seduction09/09/10 11:02 AM
3

and using PUA techniques on me shows he does not respect me because he is trying to seduce me and give me very little choice in the matter No you don't.
/r/seduction08/09/10 10:23 PM
2

Pursue women who are hot. Most of those don't know how to spell.
/r/seduction08/09/10 09:16 PM
1

Nothing about going on a date commits you to anything more than that one date. Go out with her, get your knob slobbed, and then don't ever call her again. Problem solved, and no harm done.
/r/seduction08/09/10 09:06 PM
1

You overestimate the power of pickup. It ain't mind-control, and it certainly ain't body-control. Charm? Sure. Sleep with? I'm not saying they couldn't make another person WANT to sleep with them, but there are some people with personal responsibility out there who honor the commitments they've made to others, regardless of external stimulus. That's nothing to do with pickup, or its practitioners. If anything, your belief is a testament to the writing ability of a certain Mr. Strauss.
/r/seduction08/09/10 07:13 PM
0

Only about the concept of "karma", offered as a perceived-as-morally-superior excuse to NOT do something that you should do.
/r/seduction08/09/10 07:00 PM
-3

I hate to break it to you, but subreddits are open to everyone, and flame wars aren't harmful in any way. Get over it. It's not the fault of anyone else that someone posted an LR on a public form and subsequently couldn't deal with public backlash. Grow the fuck up.
/r/seduction08/09/10 06:56 PM
2

Attraction itself happens naturally, but PUA relationships are created by forcing the girl to fall in love. It may be attraction, but it's deception and that makes it not honest. You're both ill-informed about the topic on which you're speaking, and also generally stupid. It's not trickery - get a clue.
/r/seduction08/09/10 06:54 PM
10

And that's where you'd be incorrect. Honest loving relationships without sufficient attraction are honest loving relationships with cheaters in them.
/r/seduction08/09/10 07:39 AM
17

Most of these people are not ready to be unplugged.
/r/seduction08/09/10 07:38 AM
-6

People who use "bad karma" as an excuse for imposing their bullshit arbitrary pseudomorals on others from what is perceived as a superior position.
/r/seduction07/09/10 07:47 AM
7

If you are genuinely creating a bond with someone, this isn't a worry. Arguably, a quality woman deserves someone who CAN do that with her. There's always the fallback argument too: if it's gonna be someone, might as well be me (aka if it's not me it'll be with someone else). Cheating is never caused or the fault of the uncommitted third party. He didn't enter into any agreements with the SO. Learn how personal responsibility works.
/r/seduction07/09/10 07:28 AM
-3

It's not bullshit, you just don't get it.
/r/seduction07/09/10 07:26 AM
-10

Funny how you first-world whites rage against the church but sign up for every hippy-dippy brown-people superstition you read about on the Internet.
/r/seduction07/09/10 07:25 AM
1

Those aren't negs, those are teasing. Learn the difference. Also, don't be (your words) "very interested in" individuals until you've got more experience. Re paragraph breaks: See that link that says "formatting help"? Yeah.
/r/seduction05/09/10 01:50 PM
0

All of the best and most intelligent women go to clubs at least occasionally. Get with the program and pull your head out of your ass. You can find dumb people anywhere.
/r/seduction04/09/10 12:48 PM
1

All of my close friends think I'm the biggest, ravingest asshole they know.
/r/seduction02/09/10 08:32 AM
1

Stop overthinking it. Talk to people. 95% of this game is just not doing the wrong things (not talking to people, acting like a wuss, poor posture, beta posture, etc).
/r/seduction31/08/10 03:24 PM
3

Negging isn't how you build attraction. It's something you do in the first five minutes to communicate that you're not a needy wuss and break through the initial bitch shield, but after you've established that frame there's no need to continue reenacting your favorite TV show.
/r/seduction31/08/10 03:23 PM
-1

She's too old, flake out and go find one that isn't all used-up.
/r/seduction31/08/10 03:21 PM
1

What I'm trying to tell you is that terms like "weirdo" and "asshole" are subjective, and other people's assessments of your status or lack thereof in the "weirdo", "asshole", or "creep" categories are not your concern. Only your own opinion of yourself and your own actions is what matters.
/r/seduction31/08/10 07:14 AM
2

Well, in this instance, you WERE pretty creepy. We've all been creepy before, whether we meant to or not. Girls react differently to different things, and some girls will even react differently to the same thing on different days. What I'm saying is that it's not you, and you can occasionally mess up and do creepy things without being a creep - but even if one girl sees you that way, it doesn't much matter. There are billions of them out there, and as long as you don't walk around being a creepa…
/r/seduction31/08/10 01:56 AM
2

Having a strong and unbreakable frame isn't really that hard, once you realize that most people go through life just latching onto whatever frames are laid out for them. Life is what you make of it, and there's no reason to be afraid or ashamed of doing what you do. Stand tall and proud and do your thang.
/r/seduction31/08/10 01:52 AM
2

The way he wrote it ("don't let her catch you", "if she sticks around", etc) implies that he's still got some sort of internal frame issues about living his life. Girls will pick up on that shit and use it to BREAK YOU DOWN. The game is all about control, really.
/r/seduction30/08/10 05:29 PM
-1

My point: why monogamy if the spark is gone? That's what flings are for. After you realize what a pain in the ass most (presumably lesser) girls are, you'll be happy and refreshed when you return to your LTR. This is what I do, anyway. PS: It's not cheating if you tell her you're going to do it beforehand.
/r/seduction30/08/10 05:15 PM
1

Genuinely improving oneself and genuinely improving one's chances of getting laid more are not mutually exclusive. Sometimes it pays to just keep your mouth shut.
/r/seduction30/08/10 05:05 PM
1

Your opinion is irrelevant until you learn to spell. Also, being "honest and upfront" often keeps stupid women from fucking when they really want to. Better to just keep your mouth shut. (PS: This subreddit is about techniques for getting laid.)
/r/seduction30/08/10 04:41 PM
3

*Don't let her catch you on Seddit or reading any PUA material. I read seddit with my girlfriend. What's this "catch you" of which you speak? Why do you let your girlfriend get pissed at you based on your choice of reading material? What kind of man are you?
/r/seduction30/08/10 04:40 PM
-2

I wouldn't know.
/r/seduction30/08/10 04:39 PM
1

Yeah. Try to remember that it doesn't matter if she thinks you're a creep - there are billions of girls out there. Go down to the local college campus and pick yourself out a few more.
/r/seduction30/08/10 04:27 PM
1

Guys can too, y'know. It's nothing unique to women. There is no additional burden on the guy to lay his cards on the table before, during, or after sex.
/r/seduction30/08/10 04:26 PM
1

That's their own problem for not managing their OWN expectations. Everyone on seddit is all "be alpha, who cares what she thinks?" until it's time to do the deed. Fuck that noise. You're not taking something away from somebody by fucking them, nor are you implicitly committing to any future liaison of any type.
/r/seduction30/08/10 12:09 AM
1

If she's looking for a long term relationship you don't want to be sleeping with her. That's not true at all.
/r/seduction30/08/10 12:07 AM
2

I'm not trollin', you're just acting insane. Your actions aren't "done under the direction of psychiatric professionals" unless they are the psychiatric professionals you've invented out of your own delusions.
/r/seduction30/08/10 12:03 AM
1

I've met two really amazing people from Craigslist, one of whom was a super-hot punk-rock cartoonist. The other is my girlfriend of two years. It's a crapshoot, but occasionally it pans out. As others have said, though - it's no substitute for getting over your anxiety issues.
/r/seduction30/08/10 12:01 AM
3

You've got an excuse for all of your behavior. The problem is that none of your excuses are YOU. Only you are responsible for your actions.
/r/seduction29/08/10 11:41 PM
6

She was just drunk and wanted attention on her birthday. It was probably meaningless. You're reading too much into the peeing thing. The dancefloor was the time to pump her up. Booty dancing is nice 'n' all, but making out is better. "More or less groped" is creepy - while you should be escalating, IMHO she should be setting the pace while you get her more and more turned on. Personally I'd have used the dancefloor bit to do some better non-groping escalation (neck biting, dirty things in ear, l…
/r/seduction29/08/10 11:00 PM
-6

These are bad suggestions.
/r/seduction29/08/10 10:46 PM
2

Just live your life and ignore her. The bitterness will eventually go away. Negative shit like that can burn you up if you let it - so just let it fade.
/r/seduction29/08/10 10:45 PM
6

I could (but wouldn't..) start a convo with a girl in my bus, in the library, or a random girl waiting for the train with me, but that would be just downright creepy. Learn about Frame Control. If you believe it's going to be creepy, it will be. If you believe it's going to be fun and flirty and serendipitous (and do a few important things to not come across as a creeper) then it will be.
/r/seduction29/08/10 10:44 PM
1

First you write: These chumps don't realize they're LJBFed. Each orbiter gives her something she wants, collectively she has a relationship that fulfills all her various needs. Usually she has sex with only one (or very few) men. then you say: Reading this pissed me off, it was just more evidence she was fucking everybody but me. Also, you write things like: There have been significant developments in her life recently, and it is my job to let Her know that I know about it, without being too sta…
/r/seduction29/08/10 10:42 PM
1

Your view of reality is so distorted and twisted to fit your own false views, it's almost sickening. Please seek professional treatment immediately. You are delusional and using your delusions as justification to stalk someone.
/r/seduction29/08/10 10:39 PM
2

You may not be able to help how you feel, but you can help how you act. You are a fucking creepy loser, and no woman will ever remotely like you as long as you keep acting like one. Seriously, you fit the textbook definition of stalker, right down to your Creepasaurus Rex italics. Knock it off. I suggest you go and see a professional for treatment of your obsessive tendencies.
/r/seduction29/08/10 10:38 PM
1

Hotness doesn't have just to do with what you're born with. It's been said that there are no ugly girls, only lazy ones. If you think that plastic surgery is the only way you can improve your hotness, think again. Keep your skin clear. Shower frequently. Don't wear too much makeup. Don't wear tacky clothing. Present yourself in a stylish and elegant manner. Speak in full sentences. Don't slouch. Don't say "like" more than once per sentence. Never say "y'know". Don't wear that one perfume that al…
/r/seduction23/08/10 07:40 AM
3

Me - I don't buy drinks sorry. HB8 - Well that doesn't work out for me. Me - ....What are you drinking HB8 - Whiskey with coke Me - Lets go get you another one. So at a simple "that doesn't work out for me" you do a complete 180? Way to stand up for yourself, holmes. :/
/r/seduction21/08/10 07:01 PM
2

They weren't actually on their periods, they just didn't want to fuck him.
/r/seduction21/08/10 07:00 PM
4

This leads me to prematurely eject from the set, even if it opens quite well. No, YOU lead you to prematurely eject. Stay in there and tough it out.
/r/seduction19/08/10 04:20 PM
-17

Fucking old ugly used-up single moms who have to resort to the Internet for dates is not "seduction" of any kind. If you were a real specialist you wouldn't be posting this dreck.
/r/seduction19/08/10 04:07 PM
6

This is all bullshit. I make no apologies for my nonmonogamy, and never find it necessary to lie about my actions. Admittedly, at times, it takes balls - but so does a cold approach. Man up.
/r/seduction17/08/10 11:56 PM
-2

The past participle of "[to] learn" is "learned".
/r/seduction17/08/10 11:17 PM
-1

We didn't even get 20 feet before the mosquito's got ridiculous, so I suggest we leave the park and find somewhere with less mosquito's. DO NOT USE APOSTROPHES FOR PLURALS DO NOT USE APOSTROPHES FOR PLURALS DO NOT USE APOSTROPHES FOR PLURALS DO NOT USE APOSTROPHES FOR PLURALS DO NOT USE APOSTROPHES FOR PLURALS
/r/seduction11/08/10 02:39 PM
1

Alcohol. Also, lrn2 push-pull. Be the one backing off instead of her, turn it around. You're not in the friend zone if your makeouts are continuing and are actually "hot and heavy" (and not just "internet" hot and heavy).
/r/seduction29/07/10 09:24 AM
1

You can leave it blank without any real repercussions. It's not a before-the-first-date issue.
/r/seduction28/07/10 09:48 PM
1

It's better to regret the things you have done than the things you haven't done. Anger, on the other hand, is basically useless. Chuck it and move on - you are only responsible for your own actions.
/r/seduction27/07/10 01:53 PM
17

There are lots of girls that you want to fuck, out there in the world. Stop wasting your time on ones that aren't gonna let you.
/r/seduction27/07/10 09:02 AM
1

Quit your job, start your own business, work really hard 18 hours a day, 7 days a week, until you have several million dollars.
/r/seduction23/07/10 04:44 AM
1

Also, the Bronx is a great bar to escalate at, considering it's dark as fuck. My fav is the table to the right of the door when you first walk in, or the ones against the wall back by the jukebox. Feed her booze, get her naked. It's a very old formula.
/r/seduction22/07/10 12:55 AM
1

By putting your penis inside of her, duh.
/r/seduction22/07/10 12:54 AM
-1

Fuck that shit raw, dog, and bail. Don't listen to the haters.
/r/seduction22/07/10 12:35 AM
1

Very well! (Unless of course you meant "affect"...)
/r/seduction14/07/10 07:48 AM
2

"seduction" over the internet seems contradictory to me. You'd be surprised. For most of the people I've dated, making a real connection (which can happen online quite easily, if you know how) is paramount to anything else. It can be built in-person, or you can do it in advance. One time, I had an OKC girl meet me at the airport in her town, and I was balls-deep less than 15 minutes later (and most of that was checking into my hotel). We dated for a year.
/r/seduction13/07/10 10:08 PM
3

Being well-spoken and creative are things that you can practice. Being attractive is a matter of personal improvement, being intelligent is a matter of working to absorb information, and having a good job is a matter of working hard to better yourself. While genes may play a role, there isn't any of this that everyone can work on. Stop talking yourself out of succeeding with bullshit excuses.
/r/seduction13/07/10 10:06 PM
5

What would that have to do with anything? It's not like he confessed to being an axe-murderer.
/r/seduction13/07/10 10:04 PM
3

Hire an editor. Omission is not lying.
/r/seduction13/07/10 10:03 PM
2

The thing about OKCupid is that it's not really like any other online dating site. I'm not saying that some of the same techniques wouldn't apply, but OKCupid is it's own thing, really and truly.
/r/seduction13/07/10 10:03 PM
3

Long profiles are not a problem, unless you have problems other than the length (like not being awesome enough). Smart girls will like it, dumb girls only look at the pictures anyway.
/r/seduction13/07/10 10:02 PM
1

Last week was fashion week! It's my one reprieve. (Well, that, and when I go back to visit New York.)
/r/seduction13/07/10 09:54 PM
3

That's not just OKCupid either, I've found, but also offline. It helps though that most German girls have pretty busted faces anyway (at least here in Berlin).
/r/seduction13/07/10 09:49 PM
3

I live in Berlin and it's even horrible here. Before, I lived in both Detroit and New York and it works great in those places.
/r/seduction13/07/10 06:42 PM
1

I was doing about the same from OKC when I left America (it's not as big where I live now), but I think there are better ways of avoiding creep-detection while building a bit more rapport before the initial meet. The vast majority of the ones I've met on there were all over my dong within a few hours of meeting, only one held out to the second date, and the rest were either nothin'-doin' or rejected by me (think photoshopped pictures). I think I was averaging around 80%.
/r/seduction13/07/10 06:41 PM
6

irlol
/r/seduction09/07/10 09:20 PM
5

If you are able to strike a cord The last time I did that, I got electrocuted. lrn2english
/r/seduction06/07/10 08:04 PM
11

I find it slightly immoral to tell women I'm not looking for a long-term relationship only after I've slept with them. Knock it off. It's not like they said that an LTR was a condition of sleeping with you.
/r/seduction25/06/10 08:39 AM
1

What state are you in? Bars close at different times in different states.
/r/seduction24/06/10 12:15 PM
1

No, it's not, and PUA techniques don't advocate fakeness anyway. You can't be what you're not. If she consents, you're in.
/r/seduction12/06/10 09:30 PM
1

If you're having sex and the other person is both a) an adult and b) willingly consenting, how can that possibly be unethical?
/r/seduction10/06/10 11:06 PM
4

Congrats. I remember my turning point fondly. :)
/r/seduction24/05/10 08:31 PM
1

Nothing should affect your game.
/r/seduction11/05/10 01:34 AM
4

Subtlety is overrated.
/r/seduction10/05/10 11:23 PM
2

I have good reason to suspect there is going to be an interrupt within the first few minutes after me opening. I need to be locked in to survive an interrupt. So you get blown out. It's not as big a deal as it seems. :) Go out and have fun with it!
/r/seduction10/05/10 11:23 PM
0

I wouldn't just whistle.
/r/seduction04/05/10 01:34 PM
1

I wish could whistle, this would make a great beginning of an opener if done correctly.
/r/seduction04/05/10 11:21 AM
3

Holy shit, somebody's gettin' they dick sucked!
/r/seduction04/05/10 02:09 AM
1

I only have this problem when talking to 5s and 6s, or otherwise really young or boring people. It's important to calibrate properly before you start DHVing like crazy. I've out-qualified myself before. Lots of young cute girls from the suburbs are really quite boring/dumb/vanilla and can't hang, so I always make it a point of getting a feel for where I'm at before I start dropping no-fooling DHVs if she's a 7 or less.
/r/seduction04/05/10 01:13 AM
2

Being flirty via SMS is much harder than it is in person, mostly because nobody's invented a way to smirk via text message yet. I've always had relatively good successes just going direct at that point (presuming we've already kissed). Sexting's all the rage!
/r/seduction04/05/10 01:11 AM
10

Softly stomp her belly wha?!
/r/seduction29/04/10 03:09 PM
1

Run The Cube on him, then ask him if he's played the five questions game. Afterward, tell him you're not going to sleep with him (which will be your little joke).
/r/seduction28/04/10 01:18 PM
1

Perhaps, too, your problem could be solved by enticing a bit more compliance. She won't go back to your house, you say? If things are as hot and heavy as you say, you should have them doing what you tell them by now.
/r/seduction28/04/10 01:04 PM
1

Perhaps try working on your push/pull? It seems like this is basically an LMR issue. Are you properly spacing and timing the escalations when you get her near the bed?
/r/seduction28/04/10 01:02 PM
6

just feel kind of insulted by girls who will fuck some random guy one night but won't sleep with someone they really like unless they wait a week or more. I don't pursue serious relationships with people who've let the bullshit societal behavior conditioning run this deep. For hookups, I'm not sure what to tell you here.
/r/seduction28/04/10 12:59 PM
-1

Well, I see them as the same question, for one. One might be a little bit more weeks-or-months vs hours-or-days, but they are the same underlying wonder. For me, I tend to not force or expect anything in the future (other than my own competence at evaluating life), so these kinds of questions never make sense to me. The whole world can change in a day or a word, and the drive to try to predict things has always baffled me. In the end, we all do what feels good and makes us happy. Relationships a…
/r/seduction28/04/10 09:26 AM
-1

Nah. Avoiding the question because you're afraid of not getting what you want is what causes the nasty situations. Avoiding the question in a playful manner because you're a man in control of your own life and it's none of her business... that's worked quite well, repeatedly, for both me and others. Unless you're in a serious committed relationship, what you do when you're not hanging out with them isn't their business yet.
/r/seduction27/04/10 06:18 PM
7

Same here. Maybe we should have an opener brainstorm thread?
/r/seduction27/04/10 06:13 PM
1

"Wait a sec, let me get this straight.. you're asking me to predict the future?"
/r/seduction27/04/10 07:19 AM
0

Unless you just want one-night stands (which are uninteresting, IMHO), you're going to get yourself into nasty situations by doing avoiding the question. Not true unless you're spineless.
/r/seduction27/04/10 07:18 AM
-1

You're overthinking it. Just grow up and stop looking for shortcuts.
/r/seduction24/04/10 01:36 AM
0

You're fooling yourself. Quintessential alpha traits do not include "acting out due to anger or resentment". Grow up.
/r/seduction23/04/10 12:02 PM
0

Furthermore, repeating to yourself how not-easy it is will become a self-fulfilling prophecy. You're going to continue to fail until you decide that you want to stop it. The difficulty involved is completely irrelevant once you've made that decision, which is how I know you haven't made it yet.
/r/seduction23/04/10 11:53 AM
0

Most teenage girls vastly enjoy dancing with boys, getting drunk, and fucking in cars. How is that being an asshole? Everybody wins!
/r/seduction23/04/10 11:17 AM
2

That's because you woke up one day and made a decision not to let fear control you, as many of us adults did. He hasn't, and no amount of webpages on the internet will change that for him. It has to come from within.
/r/seduction23/04/10 11:16 AM
2

I'm not trying to make you do anything. This was pure put-down, no altruism involved. Numbers don't make a man. Attitude does. Yours is shit. You get exactly what you deserve for choosing that path - nothing.
/r/seduction23/04/10 11:14 AM
0

First off, from your original post: I came to write something similar. A prom is the worst fucking place to start bringing out too much in terms PUA tactics. Especially anything related to negs, "showing indifference" to her etc. You did mention them, and your idea that he shouldn't bring out "PUA tactics" because you equate them solely to negs and indifference is stupid. Those are some of the least useful "PUA tactics" that one could employ in this situation. There are many others that would be…
/r/seduction23/04/10 11:13 AM
0

Dude, I'm 5'10" and 230. Who gives a shit? Not women, that's for sure. (Full disclosure: Then again, I make a lot of money, have an awesome sense of humor, and a big dick. Not everyone can play life on "expert".)
/r/seduction23/04/10 11:08 AM
0

Put the > character in front of lines to quote them.
/r/seduction23/04/10 04:44 AM
1

Who the fuck cares if she has a boyfriend? Why are you looking for excuses? You've even psyched yourself out of WRITING HER A FACEBOOK MESSAGE, which is quite possibly the easiest of all the steps here. Grow a pair.
/r/seduction23/04/10 04:39 AM
-1

Coward.
/r/seduction23/04/10 04:36 AM
0

Negs and indifference are only very very small concepts in the overarching PUA world. Those are useful for people that you don't already know. You seem to forget that he's already got the date. The rest of the stuff seems pretty forced. When escalating, words are pretty superfluous. It's a high-school prom, for fuck's sake. Be nice, make her comfortable, get her laughing, connect, and make sure she's nipping the flask in your jacket pocket at least once every 15 minutes, and escalate, escalate, …
/r/seduction23/04/10 04:34 AM
0

Are you fucking serious? Etiquette? What etiquette says that you have to drink more than you want to? Drink as much alcohol as you want, then switch to non-alcoholic. Continue to order booze for her. Done and done. Stop seeking approval from others. Alphas do what they want without regard for how others may regard them as a result. Most of the time, this causes others to regard them with respect and a semblance of admiration.
/r/seduction23/04/10 04:28 AM
-1

You don't deserve girls if you don't know how to spell the word "quiet". Skip the pussy for an afternoon or thirty and go read a fucking book instead.
/r/seduction22/04/10 07:26 AM
1

This is SPAM.
/r/seduction08/04/10 01:31 AM
2

"I always forget. I have a spreadsheet around here somewhere, if you really wanna know..."
/r/seduction04/04/10 12:07 PM
3

Yes, that is the best, but sometimes you've gotta change it up. I'm also a fan of the second-best one: "Of course you do."
/r/seduction04/04/10 11:23 AM
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