sneedsmemesanddreams Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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-5	This is the first time I've ever come across suck blatant hate. This it so depressing. Also what do you guys think of this issue? Young girl, get out of my mind My love for you is way out line You better run, girl! You're much too young, girl!	/r/MensRights	02/11/21 07:26 AM
3	Women apparently CANNOT be condemned, even if they murder their own children. I was downvoted and mocked fir opposing killing 3 and 4 year old children. Protestant propaganda. Elizabeth was much, much worse and more brutal than Mary ever was.	/r/MensRights	17/10/21 10:13 AM
2	The Bored Sex - Women, more than men, tend to feel stultified by long-term exclusivity—despite having been taught that they were designed for it. - My reply to Infovore777 I think it's worth mentioning as well. My position is not that men and women experience sexual feelings the same way. I think it's a good thing to look at the actual contributing factors to why marriages break down, and more specifically why both partners might feel a lack of sexual satisfaction or desire over time. Obviously the studies suggest this is a particular problem among women, but that's really all they suggest. We can see that there definitely are some contributing factors and we can …	/r/MensRights	27/09/21 07:30 AM
3	The Bored Sex - Women, more than men, tend to feel stultified by long-term exclusivity—despite having been taught that they were designed for it. - My reply to Infovore777 The second study only had an abstract, and I'm not paying for the full text. So, in all honesty, I could just toss this out... but in the interest of fairness: The authors examined relationship duration and its effect on sexual desire in a sample of 170 undergraduate men and women between the ages of 18 and 25 years. Undergraduates between the ages of 18 and 25. In other words, the exact people who are famous for getting in unhealthy relationships with bad communication. People who are famous fo…	/r/MensRights	27/09/21 04:29 AM
3	The Bored Sex - Women, more than men, tend to feel stultified by long-term exclusivity—despite having been taught that they were designed for it. - My reply to Infovore777 This is why it's important to actually read the survey results: From the first study: Age was significantly associated with lacking interest in sex. Prevalence increased with age, being lowest among younger participants (16–24 years; men: 11.5%; women: 24.8%) and peaking in men aged 35–44 years (17.2%) and in women aged 55–64 years (38.8%). Regarding demographic variables, after adjusting for age, lack of interest was associated with leaving school at 16 (men only; AOR 1.31), being unemployed (m…	/r/MensRights	27/09/21 04:25 AM
3	The Bored Sex - Women, more than men, tend to feel stultified by long-term exclusivity—despite having been taught that they were designed for it. - My reply to Infovore777 The author referenced multiple studies that they claimed have the same findings. At best the studies showed that the women surveyed reported losing some sexual desire, or in the case if one study, found a shift in priorities away from sex and toward other relationship aspects. That is very different from showing that women lose sexual desire with the same partner over time. That's part of the pseudoscience aspect of this. Taking a reported survey and inaccurately generalizing it to a wider popul…	/r/MensRights	26/09/21 11:42 PM
6	The Bored Sex - Women, more than men, tend to feel stultified by long-term exclusivity—despite having been taught that they were designed for it. - My reply to Infovore777 Recent examinations have found that over 50% of psychological studies are unreplicatable. An Atlantic author (which is what the OP actually cited) deciding to add their own interpretation of the results of some psychological studies to establish some nonsensical point that women need to cheat on their husbands is the exact definition of "psuedoscientific bullshit." It is masquerading as the result of scientific pursuit when it is anything but. The fact that multiple people seem to have taken it …	/r/MensRights	26/09/21 07:55 PM
0	The Bored Sex - Women, more than men, tend to feel stultified by long-term exclusivity—despite having been taught that they were designed for it. - My reply to Infovore777 OP did not cite any studies. He cited an Atlantic article that interpreted the abstract of 2-3 studies. I did not offer any anecdotes, I offered a logical criticism of the entire premise of the OP's argument. It was the OP who offered an anecdote about some propaganda program on Netflix or something. As for those "studies" what were the controls? How did they account for all the possible variables? How was the data collected? Was it a self-report survey? How did they account for bias? What were …	/r/MensRights	26/09/21 07:50 PM
67	The Bored Sex - Women, more than men, tend to feel stultified by long-term exclusivity—despite having been taught that they were designed for it. - My reply to Infovore777 She wants to want John and be wanted by him in that can’t-get-enough-of-each-other-way experts call “limerence”—the initial period of a relationship when it’s all new and hot. CS Lewis (he had his own faults, but bear with me) talked about this and made an excellent point. You get that rush of "falling in love" when relationships are beginning because it bonds you to the person. It creates a mutual feeling of excitement and shared experience. When this feeling fades, that's not a bad thing. It's…	/r/MensRights	26/09/21 09:46 AM
2	Curiosity: How do men here feel about legalizing sex work? I would offer a trade. Decriminalize prostitution and ban pornography. It's a pretty sick society that gives 9 and 10 year old boys access to hard-core pornography but bans adults from engaging in fornication.	/r/MensRights	21/09/21 10:29 AM
6	What men’s rights issue(s) do you care most about and why? The reduction of men into atomized consumers and sex-crazed hedonists.	/r/MensRights	17/09/21 07:02 AM
-4	We live in a culture that assumes men are abusers/rapists Even without any indication that it was forced or that there was some kind of grooming going on, it's still fucking creepy and weird and pretty much all of human history it would have been seen as predatory behavior.	/r/MensRights	17/09/21 06:57 AM
-25	I asked 15 women and 15 men what their thoughts on the father, or whoever will be forced to take responsibility for the child also having the ability to make the woman get an abortion, here were their responses Another day, another post turning men's rights into an "I shouldn't have to take care of my kids" meme. Fuckin lol, this world is a fucking disaster.	/r/MensRights	16/09/21 07:55 AM
2	Women losing their shit over men not backing them up on the Texas law You might not find it funny, but I think it's hilarious. Baby-killers btfo	/r/MensRights	15/09/21 11:51 PM
2	Women losing their shit over men not backing them up on the Texas law losing autonomy Lmao	/r/MensRights	15/09/21 11:47 PM
16	Why do some people seem to love emasculating men? When people are trying to insult someone, they tend to pick things that are especially insulting. Calling a man fat or ugly is usually not very effective, because most ment don't care about being pretty. Their self worth is not tied up in how pretty they are. But most men are concerned about how masculine they are, so calling them effeminate or unmasculine is an effective insult. Feminists are typically acting out their theory that everyday men are responsible for the "patriarchy" so they insult…	/r/MensRights	14/09/21 10:31 PM
2	240 shock texts psychologist sent boy, 17, she had sex with Poor kid.	/r/MensRights	14/09/21 09:30 PM
-6	The difference between misogyny and misandry To be honest, I've never personally met a woman who hates men either. I'm pretty sure that ratio of both men who hate women and women who hate men is miniscule compared to the greater population.	/r/MensRights	14/09/21 08:56 PM
6	The difference between misogyny and misandry Ahh, so you're probably in your late teens or early 20s. That explains a lot.	/r/MensRights	14/09/21 08:39 PM
9	The difference between misogyny and misandry .... Where you've lived is irrelevant. This is like when people try to brag about how tough they are and mention they grew up in Detroit or New York. It actually has no bearing on the discussion because the specific location of where you've lived is not proportionate to how many people you know, or how tough you are. The average Boomer knows more people, by a lot, than the average Millennial. Because they've had a lot longer to actually meet people and interact with them on a level deep enough t…	/r/MensRights	14/09/21 08:36 PM
8	The difference between misogyny and misandry I grew up in the greater bay area. Where you grew up is largely irrelevant. How many people you "know" is usually a function of how old you are and how sociable. There's also generally a limit on how many people it is even possible to know. A person growing up in a 5000 population town might genuinely "know" more people than you.	/r/MensRights	14/09/21 08:29 PM
1	Reddit Engaging In Misandry Again: Shames A Man For Getting Rejected Online (Vile comments inside) She made fun of him, yeah. So what? She's a bad-bitch, bad-bitches have bad attitudes. If a we reverse the genders, does that suddenly make it an example of misogyny? Or is it just a jerk being a jerk? Lmao, that's the "vile" comment that sets you off? Thats not vile, that's mild. And yes. Yes, you should be able to roast someone for having too much sex.	/r/MensRights	14/09/21 08:17 PM
30	There is such a thing as pick me guys (incoherent rant) Yeah, they're called "simps"	/r/MensRights	14/09/21 11:40 AM
2	Reddit Engaging In Misandry Again: Shames A Man For Getting Rejected Online (Vile comments inside) "Sit on my face" is a freaky pickup line. Granted, this is on a hook-up app, but that doesn't mean it's not a freaky line. It's just a freaky line on a freaky app. And that's not the point anyway. The reason the dude is throwing out any kind of sexual pickup line is because he wants to sound out if the girl is a freak or not. The problem is that he expects the freaky girl to have the attitude of a prim little church girl and to let him down easy if she's not interested or thinks his line sucks. …	/r/MensRights	14/09/21 09:32 AM
3	Reddit Engaging In Misandry Again: Shames A Man For Getting Rejected Online (Vile comments inside) He sent a shitty pickup line hoping she was a freaky girl, and then got pissy because the freaky girl on the hookup-app had an attitude. Exactly how the fuck does this relate, in any way, to Men's rights?	/r/MensRights	14/09/21 08:58 AM
-2	When the Female "Rape Victim" Changes Her Mind of What Happened This ain't it, chief.	/r/MensRights	13/09/21 09:37 PM
5	Why do other men and women mock me for my long hair? Coddling people doesn't help them. Anyone, man or woman or child, who does something that is out of the norm for their culture is going to attract attention, some of which will be negative. The problem is that kids and childish adults want to attract only positive attention. But that's not how it works. If you bring attention on yourself by consciously choosing to be "unique" then some people will react against that and will express their disapproval. Whining about it will never change it. So it…	/r/MensRights	12/09/21 01:32 PM
4	Why do other men and women mock me for my long hair? Why do people with "rebellious" and "different" haircuts always get butthurt when normal people react to them? You want the weird hair? Then deal with the weird looks.	/r/MensRights	12/09/21 01:02 PM
17	Boy gropes girl at school. What should the consequences be? No one in an authority position witnessed it happen and it's his word against hers? Shift their schedules so he is no longer in class with her and forbid both of them from harassing or interacting with the other. He admits it, or you see him do it? Expulsion and let the girl and her parents decide if they want to press charges or not. The school should have nothing to do with that aspect of it beyond cooperating with law enforcement. Accusations without evidence cannot be treated as proven, but …	/r/MensRights	12/09/21 12:53 PM
-1	Consent to impregnation The irony that a bunch of men who scream bloody-murder at women having default custody spend half of their time complaining about being legally obligated to take care of their own children.	/r/MensRights	11/09/21 09:38 PM
2	Should men have rights when it comes to abortion? So, specifically not the dude who had sex and produced the child? Why am I being asked to exercise creativity to cover for deadbeats? I don't support men's rights because "fuck women." If you want to be a reverse-feminist than that's honestly pretty stupid.	/r/MensRights	30/08/21 02:41 AM
1	Should men have rights when it comes to abortion? Okay, throw the mom in jail for not paying. I'm alright with that. But the kid still needs to eat and be sheltered and be fed, right? So while mommy is in jail, who pays for all that? People who aren't the guy who creampied the trashy slut they met at the bar?	/r/MensRights	30/08/21 12:10 AM
0	Should men have rights when it comes to abortion? If they can pay, sure. But if they cannot pay, then someone has to fill the gap, correct? That someone needs to be the father if he is around.	/r/MensRights	29/08/21 05:39 PM
4	Court rules biological dad’s rights shouldn’t have been terminated; child’s future with adoptive parents uncertain This is the definition of psuedo-intellectual nonsense and whoever made this bot should be ashamed of themselves.	/r/MensRights	29/08/21 07:48 AM
0	Should men have rights when it comes to abortion? That should be discussed and probably regulated. Yes, it is unfair. The debate is that we don't want women abandoning babies in a dumpster, so instead we give them a "safe place" to leave their kids. I don't know that I agree with that notion, but that's a different argument altogether from this one. It's all fucked up, because society is all fucked up. But the solutions being offered here are not it.	/r/MensRights	28/08/21 06:54 PM
-1	Should men have rights when it comes to abortion? Whether men have power or not is a completely separate issue. "Forced responsibility".... to their own children. Wouldn't it also be "forced responsibility" for you to abandon your children? Instead of forcing you to pay for your kid, you've now forced a bunch of complete strangers to pay for your kid. So, why is it that the only person who shouldn't have to step up and take responsibility is the person who is actually responsible? Why should I pay for your fucking kids?	/r/MensRights	28/08/21 06:44 PM
2	Should men have rights when it comes to abortion? Okay so the issue here with this whole discussion is this: A child is born. I don't really give a shit about whether it's fair or not, or whether the man didn't want the kid or blah blah blah. The reality is that for better or worse, a kid is currently existing and needs resources. Now, someone is going to have to pay for this kid. I'm not down with letting little babies starve because no one wants to pony up, which means however it happens, someone needs to put up some cash. That leaves us two …	/r/MensRights	28/08/21 10:41 AM
0	Should men have rights when it comes to abortion? Women should not have the legal right to abort the child. Men should have to pay for their children if they are able. Two wrongs don't make a right. Adding one wrong to another in order to 'make it fair' is a childish way of thinking.	/r/MensRights	28/08/21 12:17 AM
5	Should men have rights when it comes to abortion? Why should I pay for some other dude's kids?	/r/MensRights	28/08/21 12:12 AM
1	if women are equal to men, or superior, why do they need alimony? The norms of marriage that I'm proposing are not a new invention... the concept of a husband providing for a wife he has divorced is one of the oldest social constructs in human history. Why are you pretending like this is some novel concept? The terms of the contract are not being ignored by alimony, they are being fulfilled. Your error is in thinking marriage is something it is not. Marriage is not and never has been some simple business contract where the obligations and benefits are explicit…	/r/MensRights	27/08/21 07:37 AM
1	if women are equal to men, or superior, why do they need alimony? Marriage isn't like other contracts, nor should it be treated like other contracts. Marriage has always been a social institution as well as a private one, and it has always been regulated to some degree with norms and laws. It might be popular in modern times to reduce things down and try to argue in the abstract, but I prefer to look at things as they are, not as principles but as actual things. A woman who was married under the assumption that certain norms would be followed, who through no l…	/r/MensRights	27/08/21 02:34 AM
3	if women are equal to men, or superior, why do they need alimony? Gonna throw out a potentially unpopular opinion here: The concept of alimony is fine. In practice, it has been thoroughly abused, but there is definitely a place for it. In the relatively rare cases where a woman has foregone career advancement to make a home/raise children and the man is abandoning his wife or expects her to live in an untenable situation ("we can stay together, but I'm still gonna fuck my girlfriend") it's not really fair or just for the woman to recieve no compensation. Obvio…	/r/MensRights	26/08/21 08:45 PM
33	Man turns the tables, makes his wife sleep on the couch after arguments. Now it's a problem? Those comments lmao: "Your parents groomed you to accept abuse." "Most people would cut off their parents entirely for doing that." Wtf?	/r/MensRights	12/08/21 06:47 PM
83	Incorrect labelling and rampant misuse. It's just become so spiteful from both sides.. I don't see the connection here. How is this misogyny?	/r/MensRights	12/08/21 05:21 AM
2	People seem to think this is ok? What would the response be if this were a team of males? I agree. Not sure why this was posted here.	/r/MensRights	09/08/21 03:10 AM
1	People seem to think this is ok? What would the response be if this were a team of males? Like I said, a mild annoyance and just fairly rude. Most people think it's funny when other people are embarrassed. It's not a huge flaw, but it is a flaw.	/r/MensRights	08/08/21 07:44 PM
1	People seem to think this is ok? What would the response be if this were a team of males? Pushing people into the center of your dance circle and laughing at them for being shy is rude. It's not the end of the world, but it's definitely not polite behavior. Honestly, it's about the same level as telling servers at a restaurant to sing Happy Birthday to your friend when it's their birthday. It's a minor annoyance, and it shows an entitled attitude, but it's not a huge deal. My point is mainly that it's none of their business whether someone is "in their shell" or not. These are grown …	/r/MensRights	08/08/21 07:16 PM
1	People seem to think this is ok? What would the response be if this were a team of males? Not that I particularly give a shit, but it really isn't their job or right to "get a shy attendant out of her shell." The behavior is rude and entitled, but it's also not something I'd get worked up about. It's honestly just entitled bitches being bitches.	/r/MensRights	08/08/21 05:30 PM
1	I tried to be the better person but I guess I failed. It's not wrong to have preferences, and you're not wrong to be picky with the girls you date. But you should also probably try to be a bit nicer with how you communicate those preferences to the people who don't fit them. You could have easily just wrote: "Hey, thanks for hitting me up, but I'm not interested." And left it at that. You're not this girl's dad, it's not your job or your right to correct the way she talks or writes. Yes, she shouldn't have freaked out, but you're not really "taking…	/r/MensRights	08/08/21 12:21 PM