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Your last paragraph brings up a good point: average men who do interesting things become a lot more attractive. This hits the nail on the head with most of the guys I’ve dated: seeing them you wouldn’t immediately assume they’re “Chad” but all of them had cool jobs, or talents, or stuff they were passionate about, etc... so none of them had/have any problem getting girls, even really hot ones. One guy was like 5’6 which a lot of dudes on here say is a death sentence, but he was such an amazing s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 09:24 PM
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Oof yeah this is how my face looked when I was overweight, even though I was only slightly overweight according to BMI. Recently I showed an old picture to my friend from when I was about 30lbs heavier and he literally did not recognize me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 10:51 AM
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Exactly, Idc if a guy isn’t compatible with me bc he feels insecure about my sexual partners. That’s just evidence that he isn’t my person, and I’d go find a new person who I’m more compatible with. It’s valid if someone isn’t your type, or you’re not attracted to them for WHATEVER reason. It becomes annoying and immature when you spend your time constantly talking shit about people just for not being your type. If you don’t want to date a girl who has had a lot of partners, then don’t, but sure…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:53 AM
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I felt very lucky to be with my last bf. If someone had said that to me, I would have agreed. Imo in a good relationship you both are lucky to have found each other. You are really letting your insecurities overcomplicate things here I think; if another guy is saying you are lucky to have your amazing, beautiful gf then why do you assume he’s insulting you? Sounds to me like he’s jealous instead. Were you made fun of a lot in high school? It can lead to thinking that everyone is making fun of yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 01:28 PM
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Well if a dudes making creepy comments like that, then yeah I agree with you. But if you define simping as a guy feeling lucky to be with his gf, and you talk some shit about any guy who feels that way, then that just sounds like you making fun of someone in order to make yourself look better. I would think MOST guys would feel lucky to be dating a hot girl, there’s nothing wrong with that lol let people enjoy things
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 11:55 AM
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Whatever you say lol but I’m strongly reminded of the type of girls who shit all over other girls to make themselves look better in a man’s eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 11:33 AM
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“I talk shit about all these lame men and losers” Cause you’re “not like other guys”, right? You’re a pick-me lmao don’t fool yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 11:23 AM
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I’ve noticed that some of these same guys hate the fact that “ugly” women have relationships at all, even if there’s no celebrity involved. I think it must be jealousy... because logically it makes no sense to care who the women you’re NOT attracted to are dating. But I think a lot of these dudes’ knee jerk reaction is to get mad when they see (what they think is) their female looks match being way more successful with relationships. Never mind that these guys have no way of knowing that “ugly” …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 02:22 AM
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So you’re poly and she’s not? I don’t personally know of any couples with this arrangement but if it works for you then it works for you. You asked her if you could sleep with other people and she said yes, that’s all that matters and it’s not anyone else’s business. Calling it a “sexual strategy” is maybe an unfortunate choice of words tho? it makes it sound like it’s a game to you to get laid as much as possible, rather than a relationship with someone you care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 12:31 AM
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Y’all heard it here first, kids... steroids>makeup 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 03:46 PM
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Ah I get what you’re saying. Yeah if somebody is a cheater then they’re going to cheat whether you trust them or not
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 07:39 AM
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If you are unable to trust a partner due to people cheating on you in the past, then you’re not ready for a relationship again yet imo
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:55 AM
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Yeah, lots of people cheat with co workers, does that mean nobody in a relationship should have a job?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 08:15 AM
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If you don’t trust your partner not to cheat, then why are you with them at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 06:32 AM
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I agree with this, in my experience most of the hottest people I’ve known have been super nice. But imo the most toxic ones are usually avg to slightly above avg. Attractive enough that they’re able to get SOME attention from some people, but not attractive enough to get as much attention as they want, and it pisses them off. Those are the types who will try to sleep with married people, who will neg you to get attention, insult you if you turn down a date etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 07:09 AM
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Same, I’m a woman and I have a couple pairs of cargo shorts that have lasted me years . They’re great for hiking and traveling bc they don’t rip easily, they have multiple giant pockets (actual secure ones that my stuff doesn’t fall out of) and are made of a special material so you don’t get sweaty. I know a lot of guys who wear similar shorts who aren’t nerds lol (That being said, yes I would be annoyed if a guy showed up to a date at a fancy restaurant wearing them, esp if I’d gone to a lot of…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 11:56 PM
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I don’t look down on you for your weight. Nice people will not look down on you for your weight, because it’s none of their business and a number on a scale doesn’t make you a bad person. Likewise, you should not look down on others for spending their extra money on Grubhub instead of video games. This also does not make them bad people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 03:43 AM
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Do you never spend money on video games, streaming services, movies, or anything else unnecessary that makes you happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 01:36 AM
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Cmon mate. if you think a person is “low value” because they order takeout sometimes, then of course you’re gonna have a hard time finding a partner. Nobody wants a partner who belittles them for doing normal human things. This has nothing to do with feminism or “divide between the sexes”. I would say the exact same thing to a woman who looks down on prettymuch everyone and then wonders why they don’t want to date her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 12:59 AM
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My mom is a former emergency room physician who currently works as a psychiatrist (got burnt out on ER) I just called her and asked about this bc I was actually curious if you could be right. she said she’s never heard of any doctor prescribing opioids for depression. if somebody has depression there is no reason for any responsible doctor to prescribe something incredibly addictive when there are dozens of anti depressants that are non habit forming. If somebody is suffering from chronic pain A…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 12:52 AM
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“Blah blah blah and bang you have an opioid script for your depression” Lmao please, by all means go to a doctor and try this. Or maybe save yourself some time and google things when you don’t understand them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 12:07 AM
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You are aware that anti depressants and opiates are two completely different things, right? I hope I’m just misunderstanding your comment bc otherwise you are displaying a very concerning level of ignorance for someone in their 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 09:57 PM
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Agreed. When I was 15 I thought I wanted to have babies bc they’re cute and that’s just what everyone did someday lol. But as I got older I realized that’s not a great reason to reproduce, and now at 28 I’m pretty much decided that I don’t want biological kids (lots of health problems that run in my family, among other reasons). I do want to adopt, but I feel more inclined to adopt older children from the foster system (once I am financially stable enough to do so), bc its sad how so many of tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 09:44 PM
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If he deserves a good person depends on whether or not he is a good person, not the specific number he has slept with. For example if he had safe, consensual one night stands with 20 women who also wanted the same thing, that’s a lot different than a guy who has cheated/lied/manipulated his way into 20 different women’s’ pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 02:10 AM
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It’s the go to on this sub for guys who have no legitimate argument. It’d be a good drinking game actually, take a sip anytime some butt hurt dude mentions all the cats and wine in our future 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 11:41 PM
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I’m pretty sure most judges would disagree with you there
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 10:12 PM
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This is so well said! We aren’t asking men to save us or some bullshit, we are just asking them to not perpetuate the fucking problem. Don’t know why it’s so hard for some people to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 10:04 PM
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So if I were to make a statement such as “men are trash” you would automatically know that I don’t mean ALL men are trash? “All” seemed to be inferred in your comment but perhaps you didn’t mean it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 10:02 AM
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A certain subset of them do. Overlaps heavily with the fundies I was talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 01:21 AM
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Are you a podcast host by any chance? Is this thread all to get material for the JustFactsBitches podcast
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 01:19 AM
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No, if you make the statement that all women do a certain thing, then even one exception to your statement disproves the statement. I only gave myself as an example bc I only need to give one example in order for you to be wrong. (Ex: if you said “all dogs are black” all it would take is one dog of any other color to disprove that statement)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 01:18 AM
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That’s pretty specific lol why a podcast host in particular? Are podcast hosts known for their sexual prowess?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 08:19 PM
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I don’t moan about any of those things. I would rather die alone with cats than end up with some sexist douche who calls women sluts
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 08:10 PM
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I’m not saying they all are happy, I’m just saying that they’re not all miserable like Op suggests. btw it kinda sucks to refer to anyone of any gender as low value for being poor or unattractive. Why do redpill guys put these labels on each other? Even if a man had been unsuccessful with dating, It’s not gonna help that man’s self esteem to be referred to as “low value” ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 08:51 AM
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So don’t get married then, if you feel like you’re just gonna end up getting divorced. If you go into any marriage with that attitude, you probably WILL end up getting divorced tbh. You are allowed to make whatever choices you want, but you can’t play the victim and blame your own choices on culture/society. YOU are the one who decides if you want to get married or not get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 08:17 AM
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Nobody needs to justify anything here. If you feel that way, and truly do not trust any woman in the world to not fuck you over, then feel free to avoid women all you want. Just don’t complain how life is not fair, when generalizing all women is a choice YOU are making.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 05:19 AM
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So then don’t get married to a woman like that? Nobody is forcing you to be in a relationship with someone who views you as a mule lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 05:04 AM
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Lmfao sure chief you’d love to be some neckbeard’s virgin waifu fucktoy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 05:02 AM
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I don’t expect a man to work more hours than me outside the home though? Not sure where you got that from
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 03:04 AM
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Well would YOU want to show affection to a person who thought your role in life was to stay home and be submissive?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 02:39 AM
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It’s fair in the sense that a lot of those guys who only want submissive, naive, young, virginal women are going to end up alone. Unless a man wants to join some fundie cult and find a wife that way, most women (even the more sexually conservative ones) don’t want guys who think that way. Then those same guys will complain that dating is so unfair bc they can’t find their own personal Duggar girl. It’s the same as a woman who will only date a millionaire for example. she has a right to have what…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 02:27 AM
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Nah dude I’m repeating myself bc you don’t seem to comprehend it. I just think OP is being presumptuous in assuming guys who want relationships but can’t get them are “low value”. I am asking you, why do you think these men are low value?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 12:47 AM
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It’s not implied and is a massive generalization. Also did you read the 2nd part of my post? EVEN IF a guy wants a relationship and can’t get one, why does that mean he’s miserable or low value?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 08:25 AM
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But OP appears to be discussing single/sexless men in general, not just the ones who want a relationship. Ie, lumping ALL single/non sexually active men into the same category and jumping to the conclusion that ALL these men are suffering and “low value”. Which is an over generalization. Also, even for the single guys who DO want a relationship, not being able to find one still doesn’t mean being miserable all the time. Mentally healthy people have things in their lives that bring them joy and f…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 07:15 AM
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Why are we making that assumption though? We don’t know that all these guys want relationships. It’s kinda condescending to assume that all men not in relationships/sexually active are “suffering” as OP says. Men are not a hive mind; individual people vary greatly in terms of how much importance they place on sex/marriage/etc. And sure, lots of single guys would prefer to be in a relationship, but that doesn’t mean they are miserable or low status without one. They might have an amazing life wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 05:37 AM
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Why is it a problem if lots of guys remain unmarried/child free and focus on themselves and their hobbies instead? Isn’t that what MGTOW is about? Not every guy wants to get married and have a family, and not every guy who isn’t having sex is an incel. Maybe they’re just choosing to focus on other aspects of their life that they find more fulfilling than dating/marriage/kids. Not every man (or woman, for that matter) wants to spend their days off changing diapers instead of playing video games, …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 03:21 AM
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Insecure to some degree? most of us (most humans in general imo, nearly everyone is insecure about something). But girls who are insecure enough/desperate enough that they are willing to overlook obvious signs that a guy is hung up on his ex (and are fine with all the drama that will probably come from dating a guy still into his ex?) I would say not many women fit into this category. At least not many women that I know, maybe we hang out with different types of people idk
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 12:57 AM
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Does that actually work on some women? I went on a tinder date a couple years ago with a guy who wouldn’t stop bragging about how great his ex was, it was so awkward and off putting. I couldn’t get out of there fast enough. I guess maybe it would work on really insecure women but imo most normal girls view not being over your ex as a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 07:28 PM
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Being wary/cautious is different from being bitter, paranoid, and vitriolic towards a whole gender
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 09:41 PM
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Why do you think I hate men? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 09:37 PM
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I don’t really care if some paranoid dude, who is hung up on girls who rejected him YEARS ago, likes me. And I genuinely do feel sorry for people, male or female, who view love and marriage as a business decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 09:36 PM
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Where did I say anything about gratefulness? All I’m saying is it’s not healthy to give the people who rejected you years ago the power to dictate your current life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 09:33 PM
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Does your wife know how you feel about women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 07:23 PM
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You really don’t seem alright. I wish you the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 07:22 PM
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He’s basing that decision (about all women) on a handful who rejected him years ago. Not healthy at all
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 07:22 PM
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Jesus Christ dude, I genuinely feel very sorry for you because of this outlook. I hope you find happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 07:21 PM
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So he’s letting the handful of women who rejected him years ago make his dating choices for him now? And to you that sounds like something a healthy, successful, well adjusted person would do?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 05:31 PM
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I have no issue with it if rich guys want to sleep with young women, but if a guy is doing it specifically to get back at the women who rejected him then that’s not really healthy for the guy imo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 05:29 PM
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Perhaps punishing was the wrong word, since he’s not literally punishing anyone, but I was referring to the whole revenge fantasy ideation of him being super successful and the women who rejected him being over 30 and lonely/wondering why good men like him won’t date them. It reminds me a lot of the fantasies I had in middle school about “when I’m rich and famous all my bullies will be sorry” (when in real life, people who are truly happy and successful don’t actually spend their time wishing il…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 04:14 AM
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A man who truly “has everything” doesn’t give a flying fuck about punishing the girls who rejected him years ago lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 03:57 AM
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If you think it’s stupid or made up, then you’ve clearly never had someone, who seemed perfectly normal at first, fly into a rage at you after you politely rejected them. example: the former “friend” of mine who, upon failing to get into my pants, told me that he hoped I would get raped . He was a “Nice Guy” bc he was not a nice guy at all but very good at pretending to be, until he didn’t get what he wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 02:31 AM
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A “Nice Guy” is a guy who pretends to be nice until a woman turns down his advances, then proceeds to call her whore, slut etc bc she won’t sleep with him. They are not actually nice guys
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 01:53 AM
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Yeah I actually had a flatmate who sounds a lot like your friend. he was short and fairly avg looking, a broke grad student, smelled like cigarettes bc he smoked 24/7.... but he hooked up with some of the hottest girls I’ve ever seen, and everyone liked him bc he was the human equivalent of a frat party lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 12:19 AM
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This is a great point honestly. A 5/10 guy who is an extroverted, outgoing life of the party type, is waaaaay more likely to get girls than a 7/10 quiet guy. I noticed this so much in college especially. Women love to be around a guy who’s fun, easy to talk to etc, even if he isn’t the best looking guy in the room. imo being socially awkward is a way bigger hurdle to overcome than being average looking or short or whatever. And yeah I do sympathize with those dudes bc it’s way harder for an awkw…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 10:52 PM
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No I mean they were big when I was overweight, they got smaller when I lost weight. They were like the first part where I lost weight from haha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 09:48 PM
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I’m reading thru the comments and I can’t see where anybody is calling all men rapists?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 11:25 PM
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Just off the top of my head: no ambition/goals has kids she doesn’t give a shit about, yells at them in public, or spends child support money on fancy stuff for herself -racism, homophobia, redneck tendencies in general like a confederate flag sticker on her car constantly starts drama/talks shit about other women/acts like she’s still in high school fights with exes, friends, family etc publicly on fb, airs all her dirty laundry on social media if she’s an anti vaxxer, flat earther, q anon supp…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 11:16 PM
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Yeah, lots of guys on this sub seem to not understand that their personal preference is not universal. Like, just accept it, lots of dudes like a little cushion (or they don’t really care, if they like other qualities that a girl has). I had a bf when I was overweight, and I actually attract LESS attention from guys since I’ve slimmed down bc I had much bigger boobs when I was chubby🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 10:51 PM
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I’m not the person you’re lashing out at, but I’ve read two comments from you and already know that you are not as fun as cats and wine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 10:37 PM
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My mom for a while was trying to get me to pursue a romantic relationship with my best guy friend. He’s an awesome guy and I’m so happy to have him in my life, but we are not compatible as anything more than friends. He himself has told me that he sees me as like a sister. Sometimes 2 people can both be “good” and that doesn’t mean they would work in a relationship, or even have any interest in dating each other. (I explained this to my mom and she stopped bringing it up)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 06:37 AM
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Well the human brain isn’t even fully developed until age 25, so I think it’s safe to say that people (both male and female) DO change a lot between college age and late 20s. For example plenty of people drink too much in college, then as they get older they realize that being drunk doesn’t really make them happy in the long run. Similarly, there are people (both male and female) who have a phase of sleeping around with whoever is hot and available, then later realize they feel better in a long …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 08:18 PM
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Yes that last part is exactly what I don’t get. like nobody is forcing these guys to date a fat girl. It just feels like a lot of anger for no good reason. For example I’m not really attracted to guys with face tattoos; but I don’t spend my time mad about it, I just don’t date them? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 02:48 AM
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How old are you may I ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 09:16 PM
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Even assuming that you’re right and women stop being hot when they turn 30... what exactly is wrong with being average looking? Most couples I’ve met, both people are average looking. Not because “bEtA bUxX” or whatever but because most PEOPLE in general are somewhere within the range of average looking. Getting into a happy/healthy relationship isn’t reserved for the hottest people; maybe take a break from insta and tinder if you think that. I would much rather be (or be in a relationship with)…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 08:55 PM
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Lol this isn’t the 1980s, a lot of makeup these days is actually good for your skin. Even back in the late 00s when I was in hs, i wore foundation with salicylic acid in it and that stuff SAVED my skin. It helped keep my acne outbreaks from getting out of control and I believe it’s a big part of why I don’t have acne scars as an adult. And no matter your gender, wearing sunscreen every day is a huge factor in how good your skin looks as you age. In my experience way more women wear sunscreen on …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 08:24 PM
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Same in both my male and female friendships. I think a big part of the problem is, when one person seeks out friendships with attractive people they want sex from, thinking the friendship will lead there. They think if they “friend” well enough it will lead to sex, and when it doesn’t they accuse the friend of “using them”, leading them on etc. then go on to say men and women can’t be friends lol Also, (I can’t believe I have to say this) there are friendships/relationships between all genders t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 04:59 PM
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Sigh. I’m literally only describing my friendships with men. No, I’m not only friends with one man; that was simply the example I used. I never said anything about men’s friendships with each other . All I’m saying is SOME men genuinely talk to their friends because they enjoy it, which you seem to think is impossible. Also when did I ever dictate anything ? Is that the word you use when someone disagrees with you? Edit: bad grammar
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 04:26 PM
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No dude, good friends of all genders talk and listen to each other for it’s own sake. My best friend of almost 10 years is a guy and we talk all the time. Men are people, people enjoy their friends’ company and chit chat. just because you don’t, doesn’t mean that’s the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 04:12 PM
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You can draw whatever conclusions you want, but if your conclusion is “women are shitty friends because they want to talk about their problems instead of getting off their ass and being useful to me” then maybe the 300-400 women aren’t the ones who are assholes here, and maybe you should have a long hard think about what friendship means. Because guess what, friends talk to each other. Friends ENJOY talking to each other, and listening to each other. This is where I actually do feel very sorry f…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 04:00 PM
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I’m not taking it personally, I’m merely stating that if every woman you meet is a shallow bitch, then maybe you are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 03:35 PM
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Calling all women shallow is an insult, lmao surely you’re not as thick as you’re pretending to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 03:33 PM
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I’m actually a bit concerned that you think it’s ok for you to insult women left and right, then get offended when one insults you back. I have zero respect for any person, male or female, who can dish it but can’t take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 03:07 PM
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I just think you need to do a bit of soul searching. Best of luck to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 02:59 PM
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Reminds me of one of my favorite sayings: if you met an asshole then you met an asshole; if everyone you meet is an asshole then probably you are the asshole. If there’s HALF the population that you are incapable of forming a healthy friendship with, then you are the problem lmao. (I say the same thing about women who say they can’t be friends with other women because “gIrLs ArE tOo MuCh DrAmA”. ) If every woman you’ve been friends with has been shallow and horrible then maybe ask yourself what’…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 02:56 PM
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I have 2 brothers so I don’t find men mysterious at all lol. Growing up it wasn’t really even something I thought about, I’ve always had a pretty evenly mixed-gender group of friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 12:17 PM
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Right, like if you just go for women based on “pretty” rather than actually attempting to understand them and seeing if you have compatible personalities, common interests etc... then don’t be surprised if you guys don’t have much to talk about. In this situation she probably also finds YOU boring lol. (It doesn’t necessarily mean either of you actually are boring; just that you’d both be better suited to someone else) Also, as a fellow bi person, we probably should hook up. Just cause we are in…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 12:12 PM
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Yeah the type of guy who says all this sexist shit about older women must be empty without a man or whatever... is exactly the type of guy that is WAY less enjoyable than growing old alone with cats lol. Funny how none of them seem to realize this
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 04:10 PM
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They aren’t as common as this sub would make you think, imo. I’ve known ONE woman like that in like all of my 20s haha. She used to say that all her friends were guys bc “girls are too much drama”. (Drama which she herself caused, usually.) She was really rude and two faced: constantly talked down to/belittled other women, lying to make herself look better than them, etc... while simultaneously sucking up to the guys. She actually acted really sweet in front of all the guys, it was kinda scary t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 12:37 AM
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As a woman, i would find this the opposite of devastating lol. Male thirst is our mutual enemy. Women are also sick of thirsty men harassing, catcalling, insulting us etc. Even going to far as stalking and murder; look at Sarah Everard or any of the other million examples of men murdering women bc they are “thirsty” and get turned down. How do you go about putting a damper on male thirst though? Cheap and widely available sex robots ? I’m honestly not opposed to that at all. If one less creepy d…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 02:26 AM
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I think a lot of it depends on the economy tbh. For example, I’ve heard people complain about the fall of the “traditional values” (by which they mean traditional relationship/gender roles) and use the fact that marriage rates/birth rates are declining (in my age group at least) as evidence for this. But they’re not taking into account that getting married and having kids is really fucking expensive, especially if mom stays home w the kids full time. Even if a woman WANTS to get married at 22, h…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 03:15 AM
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Being ashamed or told it’s unmanly to seek therapy for mental health issues, body image/self esteem issues, etc. To be fair, this is starting to change, but there’s still a belief in many places (and especially among older folks) that asking for help when you need it is weakness, and therefore boys/men should just “tough it out” aka be miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 12:40 AM
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My mom was never big into makeup but she taught me a lot about the importance of skincare. Since I was like 8 years old I’ve been putting lotion/moisturizer on after every shower. Also face masques, body masques, oils, anything soothing or moisturizing I’ve been a huge fan of since childhood. So I guess that part has become a natural desire for me bc i love how those products make my skin feel, it’s more of a self care thing than a being attractive thing. In terms of “expectations” to be pretty,…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 03:40 AM
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My first crush that I can remember was Daniel Radcliffe (when I was 9 and hp& the sorcerer’s stone came out) and I did have a thing for the British accent for a long time. So maybe there’s something to this theory. But, I dated a British guy about 5 years ago and the accent doesn’t do much for me anymore. Guess it lost the “exotic” appeal lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 09:35 PM
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The priority should be people who don’t have a roof over their heads. Whatever the gender, age, race, etc of that person. Go ahead, tell all the women sleeping on the ground in freezing weather in tent cities around the country that they don’t count as homeless bc they could just go suck dick for money. Please self reflect for just a few seconds and realize how ridiculous you sound.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 03:25 AM
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I reckon “saved” feminism is a bit of an overstatement but I do think anger at Trump and what he stood for was a huge unifying factor for feminists as well as other pissed off liberals (I say this as one of them). Ironically, Trump managed to divide his own party and alienate many who supported him, while strengthening the unity and resolve of the people who hate him. Probably not what he hoped for. Future historians will have an absolute field day with these last few years imo
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 03:13 AM
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I’ll take incel fanfic for 500, Alex
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 02:48 AM
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A few fringe “kill all men because I’m angry and bitter” type feminists didn’t ruin feminism. Most feminists think those types are nuts lol just like how most red pillers think incels are nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 02:36 AM
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You just said “some”, what about the ones who don’t? Also, you’re incredibly naive if you think there are no men who give blowjobs for a place to stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 02:33 AM
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Yeah, imo it’s caused by people thinking with only their emotions: “I’m mad and I wanna punish the people I hate” without actually considering the ramifications of that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 02:27 AM
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Do you not believe that single mothers can be genuinely homeless? Not everyone has their mom’s place to go to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 02:18 AM
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I agree with you about basic income. Homelessness is a huge issue and is about to be even more so, with the shitty stimulus package and moratoriums on rent ending soon. However the takeaway from the global homelessness problem shouldn’t be “fuck those bratty women”, it should be “how can we help the most marginalized in our society”. Homelessness knows no gender and I also really doubt that this homeless man wanted to be exploited as an argument for some dude’s sexist beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 02:14 AM
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Assuming you know the character of women you’ve never met and know nothing about just makes YOU look bratty. Also, do you not believe that homeless women exist, or that some men are rich? The level of ignorance is astonishing here. ETA : how do you feel about social programs such as free housing for the homeless? Obviously you support these things, right? Since you’re so concerned about the welfare of this homeless man?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 01:20 AM
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There are way more girls than you think who also don’t want a relationship, or who would be open to an FwB situation. Lying is not necessary and just adds unnecessary drama to one’s life. Also, in general the girls who want LtRs aren’t going to sleep with a guy after 1 date just bc he claims he also wants an LTR. So lying about this probably actually wouldn’t get a guy laid any faster.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 09:27 PM
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Lmao jumping to a lot of conclusions there aren’t ya buddy? Also, how do you define worthwhile experience? Worthwhile in what way, and to whom? It definitely exposed me to a lot of pathetic men, so I now have worthwhile experience dealing with such men and am way better at standing my ground and not the creeps intimidate me or make me uncomfortable. So yes, it was absolutely worthwhile to me. Not to mention working in bars was a decent way to make money in my early 20s and dealing with those idi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 02:20 AM
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Don’t have enough real life experience? Lmao I’m 28 years old and have spent 5 years working in bars/clubs/hotels, and dealing with SO many of the very men you say only exist in sitcoms. I wish I had invented these types of assholes, unfortunately that is not the case. Ask any woman you know who has ever worked in the service industry, and you will hear all kinds of horror stories. Go ahead, I’ll wait. I get the impression you don’t actually talk to many women in real life though. You can screec…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 08:05 PM
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I’ve been fwb with guys who had other fwb at the same time and I was fine with that, but I would never hook up with a guy behind his girlfriend’s back. It’s not the number of sex partners that’s a turn off, but the dishonesty and sneakiness. And FYI, in my experience girls and guys who are ok being someone’s side piece usually have a fair amount of issues (to put it mildly) so tread carefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 12:29 AM
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I think for guys , the wall exists but is slightly different. Imo it’s when your looks have deteriorated to the point when acting like Barney from How I Met Your Mother stops being cool or desirable at all, and just starts being sad/creepy/pathetic. It’s a different age for every guy; for some it might be 35 and for some it might be 50. For example, we’ve all met at least 1 dude in his late 30s/40’s/ even 50s who physically aged a LOT over the years, but mentally he’s never left his early 20s. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 10:52 PM
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Its a possibility that he has indeed hit the wall. I’m not even 30 yet and a good number of my male classmates have already lost most or all of their hair, and have that pot-bellied, “high school athlete gone to seed” look. Not saying that every man ages badly, it comes down to genetics and taking care of yourself; but it’s delusional to say that ONLY women hit the wall when they get to a certain age.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 05:10 AM
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You are free to have as much meaningless sex with gold diggers as you can afford, but OP here is seeking someone to share a life with, so that’s not really good advice in this situation. Edit: a word
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 04:59 AM
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I’m also not sure why some people assume that it’s only single mothers who get money from the government. Lots of married couples and their children are also on welfare; being a single mother is not a requirement. My family was on welfare and used food stamps (now called WIC) when I was little; my parents were married and my mom was in medical school. It’s like these guys took the worst “welfare queen” stereotypes from Fox News etc and just assumed that’s how the world works.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 06:21 AM
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Just saying, I’ve been friends with a lot of women in my life and I’ve never heard any of them go on about Chad or his cock the way these guys do
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 05:23 AM
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Problem is there are tons of guys who think any woman who rejects them for any reason automatically sucks. She could genuinely be the nicest person in the world, but the minute she says “I have a boyfriend” or “I’m not interested” these types of guys ASSUME that she is manipulative, lying, narcissistic etc because their feelings are hurt and they can’t take rejection like adults. As long as these guys are unable/unwilling to do any introspection, they will always find excuses for why women are b…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 03:44 AM
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The gentlemen on this sub have a very high opinion of penises in general, and seem to spend a fair amount of time thinking about other gentlemen’s genitalia (particularly Chad’s). Make of that what you will. Edit: a letter
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 03:33 AM
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View it however you want. I personally would much rather a guy admit it that he doesn’t want to be friends with me, than for him to stick around pretending to be my friend but secretly thinking he can still persuade me to have sex with him one day. I don’t want to be friends with a guy who is just pretending to enjoy my companionship, when I have plenty of friends who genuinely enjoy my companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 02:55 AM
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Exactly, I think some guys here must assume that life is like an 80s movie where the quarterback goes around shoving nerds into lockers, but in reality most dudes even “Chads” don’t go out of their way to pick on weaker guys. I can’t even imagine how fragile one’s masculinity must be to see an effeminate/weak/emotional man and get violently angry at his existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 12:02 AM
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Most men absolutely do not treat weak, feminine, and emotional men like shit. Maybe the boys in your high school do/did this, but the vast majority of adult men are way more mature than that (not all of them, of course, there are always gonna be some douches who shit on people for being different.) I’m sorry if your experiences with men have been so negative but that is down to those crappy individuals rather than men in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 04:56 AM
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Dude it’s not a male vs female thing; insta has led many people to think that every human being looks like a model/influencer when in reality MOST people are average. If you’re insecure about not looking like Chad the 10/10 fitness model , I think the most helpful thing to do would be to cut back or take a break from social media. In my real life experience, when average looking people aren’t bitter/insecure/hung up on how they don’t look like models, they have no problem finding a partner. I us…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 02:39 AM
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I don’t either, that’s like “being a decent human 101” but some people really don’t understand it I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 07:49 AM
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Of course nobody is entitled to a relationship. But if a guy was pressuring me to do a certain sex act DESPITE knowing I hate it and it causes physical pain, I would find his lack of empathy very disturbing and would want neither sex nor a relationship with that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 07:47 AM
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I scrolled far too long in this thread to find a reasonable viewpoint like in your last paragraph. Lot of guys here are giving the impression that they feel as though they are “entitled” to certain sex acts and don’t care at all if their partner would be in pain from the sex act. It shows a complete lack of empathy and is rather disturbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 10:52 AM
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Not at all, imo a walk in the park with a joint and then getting fast food is way more fun than getting $30 entrees at some stuffy place (I’ve done both). If he took the previous girl to the expensive place I would just assume that she had liked that kind of thing whereas I don’t really.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 10:36 AM
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“The vast majority but probably all of them are sexually submissive” Lmfao you got a scientific source for this, professor? Or have you slept with enough women that you feel confident you can speak for all of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 03:46 AM
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Completely agree with you. If you are a man who wants to find a loving, happy relationship with a woman, then a bunch of bitter single men are not the best ones to teach you how to do that. If you are a man who views women as your natural adversaries, or as a hostile group of aliens, or as “prey” to be hunted (as certain pickup artists have suggested) then that’s your prerogative but don’t be surprised when that mindset doesn’t lead to a quality relationship (or any relationship at all, in many …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 11:40 PM
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Yes this! I dated a dude for a while who was amazing at guitar and some of the best nights we had were getting stoned in his room while he played guitar and I painted. It gives you a new appreciation of a person to see them in their element doing what they love. I could never be with someone who shit all over my passions and made me miserable; and I would never do that to another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 01:20 AM
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“Get out of those compartmentalized boxes of prepackaged perspectives and just be” This is honestly some of the best advice I’ve seen on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 06:33 AM
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I strongly believe that nobody, whatever gender or orientation, should ever have a sexual encounter that ISN’T on their own terms. Both partners should agree on the same terms/ want the same thing or like you said, find someone else who does. To me that’s not cocky but more like knowing your own self worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 12:11 AM
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A lot of dudes don’t seem to get the difference. But just from a woman’s perspective, imo cocky is more like when you enter a convo with a woman assuming she will end up sleeping with you (ie if you start talking in the first 5 minutes about your dick), whereas confidence is knowing that your worth doesn’t depend on whether or not this woman sleeps with you. Confidence is a turn on, because women don’t like desperate guys who get their sense of self worth from others opinions. cockiness, on the …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 11:07 PM
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Which war did you fight in, bubs? And did zero women fight in it? How many children are you currently breaking your back to support? Do you genuinely believe that there are no women in the world who work long hours and sacrifice for their children? My mother, who drove an hour each way to medical school every day for years and then worked 24 hour shifts in the ER to give her family a better life, would like a word with you. Stop taking credit for other men’s accomplishments. having a penis does …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 02:54 AM
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My friend and her fiancé are both lawyers, they met in law school. Good job assuming she’s a gold digger though just bc she’s a woman. Have you ever considered that this attitude is why women won’t date you, rather than your jaw?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 01:58 AM
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Exactly! The only men who are threatened by women getting equal respect, are the men who know deep down that they themselves don’t have much to be proud of, besides the genitalia they were born with. These guys know that in a society that gives respect based solely on individual accomplishments, they will not come out on top. (Same with racism imo. people with nothing else going for them relying on their skin color to feel superior to someone, and then get mad that times are changing and they’re…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 01:54 AM
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It’s never occurred to you that someone who is a 3 to you might be a 9 or 10 to someone else? People are not a hive mind. One of my friends is absolutely gorgeous, I would say 10/10, and is engaged to a guy who I don’t find attractive at all. But who cares if I find him attractive? SHE finds him attractive, and loves him, and that’s what matters. If you think a woman is a 3, it’s fine for you to not want to date her. But you can’t control the fact that many others might think that same woman is …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 01:20 AM
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Lmao are you my little brother?? He has made some variation of this comment on every vacation we ever took. He didn’t understand why we had to drive 4 hours out of the way on a family trip to see the Grand Canyon bc “it’s just a big stupid hole in the ground” and then got mad when my mom made him get out of the car to look at it. (Not making fun of you, you like what you like and to each their own! Also depending where you live there might be loads of stuff to do without needing to travel very f…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 12:59 AM
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Me too! I never thought moving boxes in a warehouse would be one of my favorite jobs so far, but it’s actually kinda fun to go to work, put on headphones, sweat, release endorphins, and get paid for it. Imo this job is way better for my mental health than a sedentary one would be, especially in a stressful time like this when it’s important to blow off steam
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 12:45 AM
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