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| 2 | From career to housewife?Could you maybe try it as a trial for a year or two? Just live off his income and save all of yours as an emergency fund and revisit the idea of permanently staying at home then? Anything that would have to change should also be be changed (ex: if you guys currently get health insurance under your job, that should be changed). One thing he may not have considered is the stress he’d be under as the sole breadwinner - right now, it sounds like he’s just starting up his business with your income as… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/07/18 05:39 PM |
| 2 | When do you expect sexual exclusivity from a man you are dating?You can absolutely be a self respecting woman in a FWB relationship but you wouldn't be in an exclusive relationship. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/04/18 09:33 PM |
| 1 | When is it too old to have kids?How important is it to you that your kids share your genes (IVF now + freeze some eggs ASAP) vs you experiencing what it's like to carry them (use donor eggs) vs just having kids (adoption)? I think with good diet and exercise, the whole being energetic in your 60s isn't too far of a reach nowadays. Maybe consider adopting an older child so you'll be right around the more typical age children graduate? If you're looking to pass on your genes, consider how your life might change if you gave birth… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/02/18 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Dennis Prager on "I'm Not Ready to Get Married"I think whether having enough income is a rational argument really depends on who's viewpoint you're looking at it from. If, in the worst case scenario, a divorce happens, it's in a woman's interest that all that income was earned during marriage. From a male interest standpoint, it's in his best interest that all of that wealth is earned premarriage and kept separate throughout the entirety of their marriage so it's not included in the divorce settlements. (Obviously, this is assuming there was… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/18 04:21 PM |
| 3 | I Trust You (Sort Of), Reddit ... Market Me! Intelligent, Loyal, Sane 30YO Virgin Looking for CaptainIn terms of what to put on your profile - I believe the okcupid and tinder subreddits have some profiles up where the community critiques them so that should give you some sense of what makes a good/bad profile. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/01/18 03:27 PM |
| 3 | BF receives blue pill advice from sisters/friends.. how to deal?Definitely don't get pregnant for the father but I think it's rather stupid to have a child with someone who can't commit. Ultimately, it's up to you whichever way you want (child in or out of wedlock) but given that we're in this specific thread, having a child with a man you're not married to just isn't the smartest choice for a woman. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/11/17 05:43 AM |
| 3 | BF receives blue pill advice from sisters/friends.. how to deal?Why would you risk your life or destroy your body for someone who can't even commit to you? | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/11/17 02:32 AM |
| 3 | He offer me an official ring, but don't want to wear any ring himselfI'm curious as to why you chose this subreddit to post in, and not something like relationships or twoxchromosomes. If you don't normally wear rings, you can just tell him it gets in your way when going through daily tasks. Also, if he had agreed to wear a ring, what type would he be wearing? If it's a plain band, then you could push for the practical purpose angle (works great when you're knocking on doors/glass but you don't want to hurt your hands) - but maybe it'd give people the wrong impre… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/10/17 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Vetting For Marriage?I think it really depends on your approach and your age versus desired desire for marriage timeline (and kids etc). Of course, situations change all the time, but I wouldn't want to stay with a guy I knew I wasn't going to eventually for a couple years in hopes things will work out. Online dating is great in that you can get most of those answers before you even go on a first date. When meeting guys outside of online dating, I've always found I can figure out whether I'd want a future with a guy… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/10/17 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Advice: is it important to have an anniversary date?Most married couples just celebrate their wedding anniversary (for the ones that even bother doing so). Heck, most couples that I know (married 25+ years - depending on age) have no idea how long they've been married off the top of their heads lol (nor do they celebrate said anniversary). | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/08/17 11:12 PM |
| 3 | Why he might consider marrying you.Perhaps this is a cultural thing, but if the guy is already preplanning a divorce (which is essentially what a prenup is), then there is no way in hell I'd be getting married to him, let alone having a child(ren) with him. Becoming a widow is pretty bad (even if you didn't have a choice). Getting divorced and being a single mother? No way you're getting a decent man after this. You'll be better off slamming into the wall a couple times. Why are you linking the definition of risk management to me… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/08/17 10:58 PM |
| 3 | Why he might consider marrying you.Lol if the man is already thinking of a potential divorce, that automatically makes him a low valued man for marriage. Heck, if we were using planning ahead and risk management levels, not getting married at all would be the smartest choice for men (which of course, goes directly against what us women on this subreddjt want). Using car or home insurance to determine risk management is a horrible idea imo. In order to close on a loan, you need to have a certain level of insurance (as determined b… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/08/17 09:42 PM |
| 3 | Why he might consider marrying you.Which again, really just says I don't trust you. Wrap it however you want, at the end of the day, that's just really what it is no? I don't trust that you'll stay with me 'til death do us part, so I'm going to have a backup plan to get out. And if there's already a backup plan in place to get out, should I really be trusting you with major decisions that affect my life? Is getting married really the same as driving though? Outside of major cities, most cities don't have a good public transportat… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/07/17 05:32 PM |
| 6 | Why he might consider marrying you.I just see a prenup as a giant flashing neon sign of "I don't trust you and therefore you shouldn't trust me either," in which case, again, just don't get married. Everyone's established the fact that no one trusts the other person (I mean, you're paying a lawyer to put that on paper that's signed by both parties). So why get married in the first place? If everyone's convinced divorce is already on the table, many of the marital benefits won't apply anyway (since most kick in once someone dies).… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/07/17 11:55 AM |
| 5 | Why he might consider marrying you.Uhm...are we discounting the fact that women can have significantly more assets than men (I still don't think a prenup should be involved)? I don't think divorce should ever be on the table unless abuse and/or cheating is involved (in which case, the abuser/cheater should absolutely be punished; any other "irreconcilable difference" is a failure on your part to vet the wo/man properly). If you're going into the marriage with a "just in case" mindset of getting divorced, just don't get married in… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/07/17 03:20 AM |
| 5 | Why he might consider marrying you.Iirc the divorce statistic is inflated due to serial divorcees....but that being said, what are you counting as car crashes? Just the major ones that get reported on the news? Or including the minor bumper crashes? The insurance has to pay out for both...and while you can control the high speed crashes, you can't control the idiot falling asleep behind the wheel and hitting you. Not to mention, there are people who choose to not report minor bumper to bumper crashes (for various reasons, such as… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/07/17 12:20 AM |
| 12 | Why he might consider marrying you.I'd say there's more to marriage than just wanting kids...of course, you could technically get similar benefits via a bunch of legal documents, but those benefits don't compare to the ones you'd get if you were married. Most of said benefits are (thankfully) not benefits you'd deal with on a daily basis...for example, I don't know about you, but I'd like to be in the same hospital room as my spouse if they have an emergency; I'd also want them to be in the room if I have an emergency. What I don… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/07/17 11:49 PM |
| 2 | Let's Talk About Aging and the WallLook into biore's watery essence sun screen SPF 50+ (amazon has em). It's a Japanese sun screen so it's more of a water/gel consistency than creamy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/07/17 08:15 PM |
| -1 | I'm becoming borderline anorexic to look goodTry taking a photo of yourself naked in a mirror, cutting out your head. Do it in every direction. Look at the photos. Chances are, you're a lot skinnier than you think and you look like one of those "18" BMI women you envy. You also don't know if they have body dysmorphia or not so I wouldn't be making assumptions. Unless you're talking about your body image 24/7 (in which case, you should get some help), most people aren't going to know you have these thoughts. Likewise, you wouldn't know the … | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/07/17 03:07 AM |
| 15 | How do you stay strong when all your friends are getting engaged?Learn to focus less on everyone's relationship and more on your own? Chances are, you'll never win if you continue comparing yourself to your friends... Since you've mentioned "certain circumstances," are those things you can help out with to move that 1-2 years to 6 months - 1.5 years? Also, have you talked to him about maybe having a longer engagement with maybe a cheaper ring? | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/06/17 12:06 PM |
| 2 | Are you confident in your ability to function on your own?Of course. Are you being abused by your husband and thinking of leaving or something...? | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/17 12:13 PM |
| 1 | How long should two be dating before engagement/marriage?I think it depends on the couple's view of divorce (is divorce an actual option). If divorce isn't an option, I think engagement somewhere between 6 months and a year is reasonable, married about a year later. If it is, then at least 3 years... Do note I came from a culture of people dating for the sole purpose of getting married (and puts finances etc at the forefront before ever meeting the person for the first time). First couple dates should be to see if you click/would be open to marriage. … | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/06/17 11:54 PM |
| 1 | How to avoid men who orbit?Which honestly makes it sound like you were investing too much, and a lot more than him. Prior to DTR, I don't think you should really be expecting monogamy, which you do seem to be doing. (Granted, that is only one guy you're talking about) Idk if it helps, but I wouldn't date you either...you're too narrow minded, you give the feeling like you're just checking off boxes on the list and you don't really seem to have a life (the weekends? I'd maybe expect/hope for the occasional weekend before D… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/05/17 11:42 AM |
| 1 | How to avoid men who orbit?Wait. Hold up. That dude was cheating on his gf with you?! ....how many of these guys that you've been on dates with are actually single? I'd imagine that could be why they're not asking for exclusivity... Also, any chance that your commitment levels aren't matching up? You specifically mentioned monogamous LTR a couple times...any chance that they were looking for marriage instead? | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/05/17 03:36 AM |
| 1 | How to avoid men who orbit?How do you not invest more than the guy? You said yourself that "the moment [you] decide to take it seriously is the moment they run". That's investing more than the guy no? Also, why is him messaging the other girl an issue? Aren't you not exclusive? (Correct me if I'm wrong, but I thought it was just a would you be open to a monogamous relationship - vs poly - not we are in a monogamous relationship now?) If you're going to try online dating again after your monk mode, maybe try it on a more "… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/05/17 12:24 AM |
| 1 | How to avoid men who orbit?Those guys may want monogamy, just not with you (sorry to be blunt). Maybe not all, but some of them went on to become exclusive with other women. A change of viewpoint - you've mentioned there are guys who have asked for exclusivity, just not the guys you want. To them, aren't you also "lying" about wanting a monogamous relationship? The more relevant video to you would likely be "2 secrets to get him to commit to you" (it sounds like it's selling you snake oil yes - this is the video I was ref… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/05/17 11:10 PM |
| 1 | How to avoid men who orbit?I know you don't like Matthew Hussey, but he recently made a video about "what guys say vs what they mean"...while that won't necessarily help with your exes, maybe it'll help with vetting guys in the future? Edit: also take a look at his get him to commit video - I think that applies a lot to your situation. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/05/17 01:39 PM |
| 1 | How to avoid men who orbit?I meant what your clients thought whilst working with you. If you're close to your mom, maybe ask her what her opinions are on why you can't keep a guy. (I'd say ask your friends but I'd imagine you wouldn't really get an actual answer...but maybe try a close friend who's not afraid to give you the truth?) Those answers/reasonings your exes gave you just sound like a very generic but gentle letdown (which obviously won't be too helpful when figuring out your real issue). | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/05/17 06:02 AM |
| 1 | How to avoid men who orbit?Actually, I pegged you more of either a pharmacist or RN... But I think in some cases, not giving you a real answer also tells you what you need to know... | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/05/17 01:37 AM |
| 1 | How to avoid men who orbit?Honestly, it just sounds like you're hamstering... I can think of half an modeling industry where the models moved onto becoming STEM majors (import models for example). I don't think that's inherently contradictory though. Both just fall under making big bucks. I'm rather confused as to why you need to read people's body language when hanging out though...that screams either insecurity or trust issues, neither of which really make sense if they're all your/his friends. People flirt when they're… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/05/17 11:35 AM |
| 1 | How to avoid men who orbit?Are you sure you don't come off as lying? Some of your responses throughout the thread somewhat contradict each other...if that flows over to real life, I'd imagine the guy would wonder what else you're hiding. Examples: you're shy but not usually in one on one situations - shyness doesn't really come into play here then. You heavily vet people you sleep with, but you've still hit double digits. You're not obsessed about this, but you've still made multiple threads about this (even if this accou… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/05/17 04:52 AM |
| 1 | How to avoid men who orbit?Again, living in the most expensive areas isn't really a reason why they're choosing not to be exclusive with you - those guys have chosen to be exclusive with women that come after you whilst in the same city. Time is honestly one of the biggest factors but I think that's more of a proposing and getting married, rather than just becoming exclusive. Becoming exclusive, I think, just requires peaking his interest enough. That there's other things about you to discover that only someone committed … | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/05/17 09:18 PM |
| 1 | How to avoid men who orbit?Being in one of the most expensive cities isn't a very good reason when you can't get into a committed relationship in general (you mentioned elsewhere LA wasn't the first city you've had issues with). What you're missing, I think, is the ability to make him fall in love with you (as cheesy as that sounds). To desire to take you off the market, make you his. Obviously, not every man is going to fall in love with you, but if no one you've ever dated has asked for a that basic commitment, it's mos… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/05/17 12:26 PM |
| 1 | How to avoid men who orbit?I think your first issue is thinking guys judge you by the same criteria as you judge them (which is why I suggested you watch Matthew Hussey). To help you visualize why a lot of what you're proud of isn't really all that helpful in getting a LTR, I'm going to give a couple scenarios. Looks/waist to hip ratio: look at 90 year old couples who have been married for 60+ years. I think we can agree that woman is no longer as "hot" as she was when 18. He's also not replacing her with a "newer" model … | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/05/17 02:53 AM |
| 1 | How to avoid men who orbit?So...you're telling me your personality stopped developing ~17. Are you sure you're not placing an abnormal amount of focus on your looks? My impression of the modeling industry is your entire career lives and dies by your size and look. I have no idea how long you've been in that industry, but I'd imagine for most of your "attractive" life, you've been in there longer than you have out. Are you really sure you don't have any of that attitude flowing into your life now? From personal experience,… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/05/17 11:48 PM |
| 1 | How to avoid men who orbit?Even if you didn't, you're only really doing a giant get together once a month, there's 29-30 other days that you should be showing your personality to him that silence from you isn't really going to make or break anything. Perhaps this is a strange question, but were you always attractive? You kinda come off as one of those people who originally started off as not as attractive and not really getting dates, but told yourself the only reason everyone else was was because they were thinner/pretti… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/05/17 09:07 PM |
| 1 | How to avoid men who orbit?How often are you guys getting together in these big groups? In all of this meeting every friend of his, and his yours, when do you get to spend one on one time together to get to know each other? How often do you bring up the fact that this and that should/would happen because you're attractive? I get that this is a thread where you're trying to explain why something has/hasn't happened, but you've mentioned your attractiveness in almost every post. Like, you'd have come off as aloof, regardles… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/05/17 11:32 AM |
| 1 | How to avoid men who orbit?Are you shy around your own friends? Or just his? Does your shy self come off as aloof? When are you meeting each other's friends? ....also, any chance you think you come off as "desperate" for a relationship? | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/05/17 05:46 AM |
| 1 | How to avoid men who orbit?No offense, but if you haven't been asked for exclusivity, I don't think you can say whoever the YouTuber you're watching is giving you common sense advice that you already know. Since you mention you're extremely shy in person, do you talk during your dates? Are there long, awkward silences? Do you invite him to hang out with your friends to avoid spending time with him one on one? Does he know anything about you? Ultimately, in a LTR, your looks don't really matter as much as it did when you f… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/05/17 03:39 AM |
| 3 | How to avoid men who orbit?I think it's probably your attitude...you kind of come off as entitled to me... Idk if this is really rpw related or not, but maybe look up Matthew Hussey on YouTube and try implementing some of his suggestions. You don't have to religiously follow everything, and ofc feel free to have your own spin on some of them. But I think it may be a good place to start. (Do keep in mind each guy is different, so maybe learn to read the guy first) | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/05/17 04:39 PM |
| 12 | How to avoid men who orbit?None of those guys have ever asked you for a relationship first? Are you sure you're not just coming off as "casual only"? Maybe look over your social media photos - if they look like you're selling sex, that's probably why. Look over it from a guy's pov too. Also, maybe review your personality with any of the guys you've dated. Do you change your mind a lot? Do you mention exes/complain about the other guys? | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/05/17 02:15 AM |
| 2 | How to be more receptive to sexCan you really blame him for not wanting to take the initiative then? I'd imagine he's probably questioning everything you've once said you like or makes you happy. (Are any of the initiatives he's trying something you've lied about once?) For the sex part, maybe have him lie down next to you, and you can bring yourself to climax over his hands (ie if you're rubbing, have his hand between your hand and your body). I think it'll give him a some idea of where to rub and how hard + what it feels li… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/04/17 01:04 PM |
| 6 | How to be more receptive to sex"Many of his initiatives he does take goes wrong..." Are they actually going wrong? Or are they just not in line with your ideal fantasy? If it isn't in line with your fantasy, have you actually told him what you want him to do in order for him to recreate it? Or is it just "well, you should just know."? You never specified either way, but did you ever fake your orgasms in fear of "hurting his feelings"? | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/04/17 07:08 PM |
| 2 | ChangesFrom experience, rings don't always work. They'll just conveniently ignore the shiny, blingy thing on your finger as they continue to talk to you... | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/04/17 01:23 PM |
| 3 | How do men want to stay with women as they age?Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Putting aside beauty, you can focus on finishing your bachelors, finding a good job, start a workout routine (and stick with it! - much easier in your 20's than 30's etc), and learn to be friendlier. For beauty - try to get accutane (if your acne is very severe) and/or start a beauty routine. Get some anti-aging creams and undereye cream (better to prevent than fix), if not now, then at the very least before you turn 25. Light, natural makeup if you're going… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/16 01:11 PM |
| 5 | Chew on this, the male birth control program shut down...men blamedLater determined to be unrelated to the male BC | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/16 03:08 PM |
| 1 | How to get a billionaire mentor? - GUIDEIn order to get the most out of the mentorship, you'd have to study up on the topic during your spare time, including reading and understanding any books that they might have out. Make a good enough impression and there's a slight chance they'll refer you to some of their business associates, which will help you further your knowledge, but the first step has to come from your end. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/16 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Dad accused of raping daughter saved by mention of ‘Fifty Shades of Grey’The original fanfiction would've been geared towards teenage girls. A typical porn video would have more "S&M" in it. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/16 06:14 PM |
| 2 | CMV: One of the most common miscommunications between TRP and TBP is that TRP assume every argument is about sex.You're not likely to hear a happily married man complaining. (This is true for either gender in a relationship) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/16 11:52 AM |
| 1 | If male and female brains are different, doesn't that prove transgenders are right?Nope, I'm just trying to understand your points :) I'd argue they'd know they're a woman because when they drop their pants, they see a vagina in the mirror. But that doesn't have anything to do with feelings - hermaphrodites aside, it should be a very obvious check here for vagina owner, check here for penis owner. Could you give some examples in which a person would feel feminine over masculine? It seems, though correct me if I'm wrong, that most transgender "feel" like a woman/man all the tim… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/16 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Would written, notarized contracts for consent solve all these grey areas around rape?Why shouldn't someone be able to back out in the middle of sex though? What happens if a couple gets into an argument and one doesn't want to have sex with the other and sex still happens? Is that still rape? I think the difference is with a work contract you sign a contract that states what you must do to get out of said contract (2 weeks notice, for example). You're also being paid by said employer for your services from signing of contract to resignation letter + 2 weeks. You're not directly … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/16 08:42 PM |
| 1 | If male and female brains are different, doesn't that prove transgenders are right?I'm pretty sure tomboys with a short hair cut and no makeup still identify as women though (I assume that's what you mean at least). I don't see why trans women would hate their dicks though. Would it help, instead, to think of themselves as donors (biological women as carriers) to pregnancy? For the most part, that's the original purpose of these organs no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/16 07:52 PM |
| 2 | If male and female brains are different, doesn't that prove transgenders are right?I've seen that before but in his case, he was actually born WITH a penis and lost it through some trauma (botched circumcision). Likewise, I've also seen the argument of phantom limbs (similar to soldiers losing a limb during war). But what doesn't make sense to me is transgender people have never had a vagina before (for MtF) or a penis before (for FtM) so how exactly would they feel a part is missing? I'm not trying to discount a transgender person's feelings but to me, in order for me to be m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/16 07:32 PM |
| 7 | If male and female brains are different, doesn't that prove transgenders are right?I'd be curious to know if they'd still feel the same way if they didn't grow up knowing girls have vaginas and boys penises. If we took a known transgender and took them back in time and raised them outside of society, would they still feel they should be the other gender? But then again, I don't really think I "feel female" (except for when I'm having my period and even then, it's more of a oh here we go again). Most of the time, I don't think about my genitalia so I don't really understand the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/16 04:06 AM |
| 3 | On flakes and how to reduce themI haven't the faintest clue how to reduce flakes (other than adjusting when I invite them to do things - that would require knowing whether they're flakes or not though) but from a female pov, here are some potential reasons why: she had a date with another guy between her agreement and your date and decided she like him better. She's not used to turning down dates and so, feels guilty, so rather than directly dealing with the problem, she'll avoid it altogether a friend invites her out to do so… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/16 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Baby's first redpillNaruto - the whole series starts off with Naruto being as beta as can be with most of the girls being head over heels for Sasuke. There's a lot of fillers in between, but following the entire storyline, it's more or less a former beta's journey into becoming an alpha. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/16 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Reduce your misogyny by being manlyHow does that contradict? True alphas will always have an alpha feel, regardless of what situation they're in. They might temporarily give up control (but that is them doing so consciously). Betas will never be able to give off that same feel. I also don't see how your life story didn't just prove my point - from what I can tell, even at your lowest, you were still leading, were you not? Your morals may have changed, but your core has not. I'd liken it to a wolf in sheep's clothing....raised as … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/16 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Reduce your misogyny by being manlyActually, he was 30+ (not really sure but definitely would not consider him a kid...in fact, I didn't know him at all - he suddenly showed up next to me on the street and started asking me for my number) He also wasn't just "creeping" me out - I actually was fearing for my safety and made sure I wasn't alone with him at any point of the shopping and tried to get back onto my school campus as quickly (and safely) as possible. I liken an alpha mindset to weight loss journey, of sorts. There's the … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/16 11:32 PM |
| 2 | Reduce your misogyny by being manlyIndeed, for the 99% I'm referring to, trp "rules" are guidelines. There is the 1% that still take those "rules" to mean rules. Taking the time to understand why you should do something in situation A-Y and catering it to yourself (and therefore being able to act in Z) is different from going through the motions of A-Y, never truly understanding (so if Z ever pops up you wouldn't know how to act). The former creates leaders, while the latter is just a follower pretending to be a leader. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/16 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Reduce your misogyny by being manlyI feel like we are actually talking about the same thing in slightly different ways - I am not talking about being outright being a leader (of a group) every time but for true alphas, there will be an undercurrent of being in control the entire time. It's kind of hard to explain but they will be giving off the feel of either I am controlling the situation right now or I am (temporarily) giving up control to you but only because you know more than me and you have earned my respect, if that makes … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/16 11:24 AM |
| 3 | Reduce your misogyny by being manlyOn the contrary, I have come across a couple posts on TRP that gives me the impression they would put me in a similar situation to the supermarket one, hence my posting in the first place. I'd agree those who truly understand trp (vs "understand") would likely not put me in that situation - which is why I've specified 1%. How often have you come across a post where the poster "understood" and you've thought wow, you've completely missed the point, you should go back and read the side bar? Those … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/16 11:04 AM |
| 2 | Reduce your misogyny by being manlyActually, what's terrifying (for me, at least) is the men who take red pill to extremes. (I'd say 99% of the men are ok, it's the 1% that's terrifying) For example, there was a post recently about some women who say no but who are, in fact interested. There was also the bit about looking at her actions as well (whether she moves away etc). There will be the 1% who ignore that last bit and take it to mean ALL no's just means try harder and next thing I know, that means getting jumped while doing … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/16 01:29 AM |
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