snowdude11 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
19	First date fire until kiss, then abrupt exit. Misread? You took a high-energy moment and killed the vibe by pushing too hard. Now with a different girl, the exact same situation could have worked just fine. Some women prefer you to be bold, this particular women felt like you went too fast on the date and it killed the vibe. Maybe she has trauma related to consent. Who knows... Probably not someone you would be interested in longterm anyways so just consider it incompatibility and move on.	/r/seduction	07/01/26 08:43 PM
14	I miss being “girl crazy” and being very horny. My libido and interest in women is almost non existent at 22. "Most days I don't even goon once" is an insane statement. Lay off the porn kiddo, that's your problem, plain and simple.	/r/seduction	06/11/25 04:36 PM
5	Woman looking for advice: how to gradually escalate touch? Everything you are doing could EASILY be interpreted as purely platonic and friendly touching. Guys these days have to be so careful in reading subtle cues like that because from woman to woman, they could mean completely different things and the stakes are higher for men (shunned from the friend group, fired from their job,etc). If you truly want to escalate and show interest, you are going to have to be more direct.	/r/seduction	23/07/24 08:24 PM
35	A confident guy shows all the signs that he likes me, but he doesn't call me out on a date I had a feeling that was the case. There is a reason he hasn't made a move yet and it is because it is extremely risky for men these days to pursue women in the workplace. If you reject his advance, you could make his life difficult in soooo many different ways whether its an HR complaint, false accusation, etc. This dude is smart and knows it is not worth the risk to ask his crush on a date. If you are interested in this guy, frankly, it is your responsibility to ask him out. My advice is to as…	/r/seduction	18/04/24 08:07 PM
5	A confident guy shows all the signs that he likes me, but he doesn't call me out on a date How did you meet him and why do you see him so often?	/r/seduction	18/04/24 07:51 PM
8	How To Fuck Up a Date Had nothing to do with moving too fast or drinking beforehand. Whole post could be summed up by "Don't be an asshole". Thanks for the great advice dude	/r/seduction	26/07/22 08:18 PM
2	Did I just get friendzoned or am I overthinking this? So then you are friendzoning yourself and what was the point of writing this post...	/r/seduction	22/07/22 06:48 PM
3	Confused a good amount of laughing and joking and overall it was a flirty conversation... She even joked to her friends that I was her boyfriend she comes up to me and starts dancing with me....I would of made a move on her but it wouldnt of been appropriate she texted me saying happy birthday with heart emojis left her on read since she has me confused whether she likes me or not I'm confused if you even like her or not... She shows interest at every point in this story and you never make a move, show i…	/r/seduction	15/07/22 10:07 PM
41	How do I seduce him? I’m in the process of changing jobs so we won’t be coworkers anymore I would suggest not pursing someone who is already in a relationship and instead, drop him from your life once you move jobs. Not having to see the guy daily at work will make moving on much easier. If he would cheat with you, he would cheat on you. And considering your infatuation for the guy, he will almost certainly break your heart at some point in the future.	/r/seduction	23/06/22 07:44 PM
3	Where is the r/seduction for girls? Good on your for being self-reflective. We are all a little hypocritical without realizing it but its hard to look inward like that and really examine what we think and why. I don't think any of your points are necessarily wrong but I do think its easy to say "guys are such pigs, they just care about sex and looks" while women have those similar thoughts on value, they are just framed a little different. I understand that some things you see on this sub can be pretty offensive. But I do think th…	/r/seduction	08/06/22 11:12 PM
2	Where is the r/seduction for girls? Dating for girls and even hook-up’s is about feeling valued. And I thought that went for all guys too? your worth is not tied to how many girls you bang guys. That’s what is most repulsive to me, it’s the neediness of needing our validation rather than seeking it from within yourself I came to this sub so I could ... make myself more attractive despite my physical appearance the problem with this idea of hook-up culture is that your portraying and pretending to be what we want instead of being a…	/r/seduction	08/06/22 10:48 PM
2	Told I was not alpha enough I've found that the "perfect moment" rarely ever comes. You have to make the moment happen. Show your interest, steer the conversation/mood into that direction, and then just do it.	/r/seduction	03/05/22 06:24 PM
1	drunken phone numbers Hello m'lady ma'am FTFY	/r/seduction	26/04/22 11:07 PM
2	should I stay or should I go now. OP looking for advice.. Did u go back to ur ex who was unhonest or did you stay with the man who treated you with the respect from the very beginning? WTF WTF WTF. "Do I go back to my ex who lied, cheated, and manipulated me or do I stay with the man that treats me like a queen and pleases be sexually? Be better. Have some self respect.	/r/seduction	26/04/22 10:07 PM
3	Long-term seduction I'm praying to God this is a troll, and I think their comments support that	/r/seduction	21/04/22 11:58 PM
3	Long-term seduction Does this really need to be said? Yeah are specifically targeting women that don't want you. "I only want women that don't want me" WTF Your use of the words "resist", "aggressive", and "easy lay" are giving off some rapey vibes	/r/seduction	21/04/22 11:07 PM
4	Long-term seduction wanted someone who was going to resist me initially I was too aggressive initially You sound like a total creep, and that's me putting it nicely.	/r/seduction	21/04/22 11:00 PM
2	Guys ask me out just to not respond next day I was blowing him off but my personal life has literally like took it up A lot of my energy and I was sad for a bit Maybe he is going through the same thing? Seems like what you did and what he is currently doing is not very different	/r/seduction	20/04/22 07:09 PM
145	How do you get a guy to put his arm around you when you're sitting on the couch next to each other? "Brrr its cold in here"... then snuggle up next to him Lightly tap or touch his thigh when you laugh at the movie or he makes a joke	/r/seduction	18/04/22 11:17 PM
5	Is it a bad idea to give women an "easy out" if they have an excuse for not going on a date? If you're not interested, thats okay too. That line sounds very insecure and needy. I would not recommend. Showing you aren't needy is saying something like "No worries, I'll go hang with the boys tonight" or "Ok maybe another time then".	/r/seduction	15/04/22 05:23 PM
2	Another girl is obsessed with me while im in relationship with someone Stop being a scumbag to both girls and be honest?	/r/seduction	14/04/22 07:13 PM
3	She texts me according to her convinience They have fun talking to you and flirting but have no intention on meeting. They like knowing that you are always available to give them attention. It's been 5 months my guy, time to move on.	/r/seduction	12/04/22 05:19 PM
1	This Girl I’ve been talking to Posted about me on tik tok. You're here asking a bunch of strangers how you should feel and have the guts to call other people insecure... get a grip pal	/r/seduction	12/04/22 02:33 AM
2	She flaked a second time without any excuse or rescheduling should I ghost her? She doesn't respect you or your time. If you respect yourself, you should move on.	/r/seduction	25/03/22 04:54 PM
2	girls on tinder started to text me less, should I just ask her out? "I can't wait to go on a date with you" "Cool!" days/weeks pass with no date "Why did she lose interest?"	/r/seduction	18/03/22 10:31 PM
19	Girl flakes but invites me to a house party next day. Need some advice. She may be ugly but you got an ugly personality my guy...	/r/seduction	18/03/22 04:32 PM
14	My new GF (4 months in) is perfect in every way except 1….. How to I bring this up in a way that won’t blow up in my face? Don't bring it up and stop being pretentious. Nobody but you cares about your Gf's social media posts. Get over yourself dude. She is posting funny memes and songs and you consider that trashy? That says way more about you than her. You said it yourself, she is perfect in almost every way so why are you trying to make a big deal about nothing.	/r/seduction	10/03/22 08:34 PM
2	My hookup broke down in front of me? Knew him for 4 days We hooked up, he was a selfish lover, didn't try pleasure me. Actually laughed it off. Then checked his phone and broke down. Hands on head and was dead silent, everything. Why TF would you stick around and comfort a selfish guy who had a breakdown over a fucking package? Geez how low are your standards that this guy can even get the time of day from you?	/r/seduction	23/02/22 07:10 PM
1	Looks are everything. Especially if you are a guy. Looks don't matter when you have an ugly personality.	/r/seduction	16/02/22 11:35 PM
8	[deleted by user] You have a point on hovering not being attractive but... This is so annoying, disrespectful and juvenile. We’re in our 30s I’m stuck talking to only him all night I don’t want to perform the emotional labor of addressing his attraction to me Pretty ironic tho... You talk about his immaturity but you spend an entire night talking to someone you don't want to talk to. Apparently its HIS responsibility to pick up on subtle social cues that you aren't interested. Apparently it is easier to waste hou…	/r/seduction	26/01/22 08:48 PM
2	Date keeps bringing her friend “I want to have date with just you” sounds too needy to me You have been talking and hanging out with this girl for months with absolutely no physical escalation so she already knows you are needy, no point in trying to hide it now. To be clear, y'all have not been on a single date, you are just casually hanging out with her and her friend. I really hope you didn't pay for both of their drinks/food.... You need to man up and be honest with her. "I had fun the last few times but I'm not intereste…	/r/seduction	06/01/22 06:48 PM
2	People overcomplicate tf outa this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UAQoXOLlvT0 Must be nice living in the bubble	/r/seduction	10/12/21 06:11 PM
16	I’m in university and I just want casual sex but I don’t know what to say to a girl without getting me too’d. my main fear is having my life ruined by a false accusation This fear is honestly unfounded and just in your head. Your life is not going to be ruined because you hit on a girl, get rejected, and then respectfully walk away. The only people getting "me too'd" are rapists and creeps. When a girl says no, move on. It's that easy	/r/seduction	12/11/21 05:34 PM
-1	[deleted by user] I have slept with roughly 22 compared to her 7 Are you serious dude.... You have 3 times as many sexual partners but you not sure if she is "holy" or "pure" enough to be wife material. You are a massive hypocrite She's been a friend of mine for many years, intelligent, mature, great job, and seems reserved So she is an absolute catch, but your toxicity is preventing you from seeing that. Honestly would recommend moving on because she doesn't deserve your slut-shaming BS. Who cares what a bunch o…	/r/seduction	05/11/21 04:47 PM
22	From my previous post, Should I text why we haven’t had sex since march or was I the last guy that she had sex with? How many times are you going to make the same post before you realize she doesn't want to be with you? How many people have to tell you the same thing before you understand? She loves all the simp attention you give her but would rather go on a date with someone else than see you. I guarantee she has hooked up with other guys. If she wanted to see you, she would find a way. But she makes up every excuse in the book because she does not want you, she wants the attention and validation you give he…	/r/seduction	21/09/21 07:58 PM
2	How do I ask her to pay without making it awkward? Step 1: Have some self-respect	/r/seduction	21/09/21 04:29 PM
6	How to be confident when dick size crushes self-esteem? 12 sounds better than 5	/r/seduction	14/09/21 09:32 PM
7	Am I doing cold approach wrong? No girl is going to go on a date with a random stranger that spent less than 5 minutes talking to them. Stop leading with "Are you single?" and instead comment on something topical or try a more organic conversation opener. You need to have a normal conversation with them so they feel comfortable enough around you to go on a date.	/r/seduction	09/09/21 10:03 PM
19	First ever date. Help! Get some fries and shake at a fast food joint. Late night coffee/hot choco at a cafe. Just need SOMETHING to do after the movie so you can have some 1on1 time after the move	/r/seduction	24/08/21 08:51 PM
1	Can i seduce my ex ? Sounds like you haven't learned a thing... You say you want a happy family and to make things right, redeem yourself and your past mistakes, but after all that you go right back to just trying to fuck her...	/r/seduction	12/08/21 12:15 AM
5	Lose interest to girls when they start liking me Maybe its fear of the unknown/rejection/vulnerability? I know in my experience, I have a lot of self-hate and when a girl shows interest, I am subconsciously worried she may get to know the "real me" and not like what she sees. Subconsciously, I reject her before she gets the chance to reject me. I am really working hard to get past that mental block and let people into my life. Idk, just my experience. Hope it helps	/r/seduction	17/06/21 11:53 PM
2	Long time virgin, had sex, failed Do you masturbate frequently? That can often lead to erection issues. If so, try r/NoFap for help.	/r/seduction	22/10/19 10:10 PM
55	[FR] Tinder match to lay within 4 hours; full text convos attached On top of that he has no remorse about putting her face and name in the post. Overall shitty dude.	/r/seduction	05/02/19 04:49 PM
16	No one wants to date me, but plenty of women want to cheat on their boyfriends with me. Wtf is happening? Why do you want to date these women? They are terrible people who cheat on their SO. If they will cheat with you, they will cheat on you. Definitely not relationship material	/r/seduction	27/01/19 09:45 PM
3	Confused with "Friend" Its sounds like he is not interested. I would guess that he enjoyed your friendly relationship at work and became weird after your first advance. Once he "realized" you were over him because you were talking with a new guy, he decided to rekindle the friendship. Then for some reason you took it to a whole new level with the nudes. I am a guy and have learned that flirting doesn't mean much, coming from men or woman. Plenty of people who were not interested have flirted and plenty have not flirte…	/r/seduction	26/12/18 06:51 PM
3	Girl I liked just told me I am a piece of sh*t. Sounds like you exhibited beta behavior for the last month, giving the impression you only wanted to be friends and then came out of no where with romantic intentions and freaked her out.	/r/seduction	03/02/18 10:29 PM
5	I am a 25yo virgin probably going to have sex next week, advice please. Favorite quote... "You gotta bang some clunkers before you can fondle a Ferarri" ...you don't want your first time to be with a 10/10. You need some practice first	/r/seduction	16/01/18 07:47 PM
1	Is it dangerous? Herpes for sure can be contracted orally. I think gonorrhea and chlamydia can be too...	/r/seduction	13/01/18 06:26 PM
1	How do I get over this? Meditation also allows you to recognize those feelings and past events but not dwell on them. You can acknowledge they exist but learn to move past it. It takes time and effort but is well worth the mindfulness	/r/seduction	16/09/17 03:54 PM
7	Guy is coming on too strong and I told him to slow down... now he's acting cold. So you tell him to take it slow and give you space and then you turn around and get confused when he does exactly what you ask????	/r/seduction	21/07/17 08:08 PM
8	[FR]Shattered over a Harvard girl last night and need some advice Smart people don't write a lengthy explanation of why they're smart on Reddit to prove to a bunch of strangers that they are smart.	/r/seduction	29/05/17 05:34 AM
5	How to tell my girlfriend I want a pic of her in super short shorts Dude wrong sub. This is r/seduction. Also, just ask her. Its fairly simple.	/r/seduction	08/04/15 04:31 AM