snowleave Archive

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4	Explain why yaoi is created by and for women and Bara by and for (gay) men? Something I've heard that kind of makes sense is that women more often identify with the "top" in yaoi. They are able to insert themselves into the dominant role when gender expectations disappear. also many women dig rape fantasies I don't disagree but jesus I hope some people here don't take it the wrong way. Its like guys and war fantasies, the chances of someone who has war fantasies fulfilling them after being shipped off to war is slim to none. Same goes with rape fantasies that go exactly…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/20 04:16 PM
3	On why there is some confusion around the idea that assholes get laid Abusive relationships can absolutely yeild more sex. Make them think they can't leave and no one else loves them and they will try and appease you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/20 10:10 PM
3	On why there is some confusion around the idea that assholes get laid Yes but its because self confidence is attractive to women. The asshole that can't approach women wouldn't be getting laid. If they bully people but then choke up around women they aren't getting laid. The ability to initiate a relationship is attractive to women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/20 07:10 PM
3	On why there is some confusion around the idea that assholes get laid At best, women are willing to overlook asshole behavior I lean toward the former. Remember women can have multiple sex partners. People who have been in a gang are more likely to find women who look for men in a gang and participate in things such as running a train. While women with different priorities might still be willing to overlook asshole behavior they might not live in a gang infested areas also probably aren't willing to date gang members. And there are still plenty of women who do liv…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/20 07:03 PM
2	On why there is some confusion around the idea that assholes get laid https://healthcare.utah.edu/healthfeed/postings/2017/04/celebs-mental.php https://www.thehollywoodgossip.com/slideshows/13-celebrities-who-suffered-mental-breakdowns/ Successful people go of the deep end on occasion, there's going to be more that just drift away from their success due to their inability to due with the pressure. This mentality is very strange and a bit alarming. https://www.businessnewsdaily.com/10429-emotional-intelligence-career-success.html "Understanding your emotions, contr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/20 06:57 PM
2	On why there is some confusion around the idea that assholes get laid From the ppd thread http://www.wdish.com/life/bullies-sex-study Bullies have more sex and higher self-esteem. I think this is one of the key points to note. Its not the asshole behavior its the self confident behavior. Light triad personality that is self confident get laid too. Self esteem is a massively stressed point in current society for women as it indicates protection and implies status or ability to later achieve status. from https://www.elitedaily.com/women/women-are-attracted-to-narcis…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/20 05:09 PM
1	CMV: Dating advice should only come from well-adjusted, mentally healthy, secure, mature, and high-value people I agree. A part of this comes from knowing what is truly a healthy relationship and knowing what can and cannot be worked though. Someone who knows when the other is lying or being shitty and being able to talk about it without accusing the other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/20 01:35 AM
4	CMV: Dating advice should only come from well-adjusted, mentally healthy, secure, mature, and high-value people I agree with this to a degree. I think many people find that first "real" relationship and give, take and adapt until you both contribute to a solid relationship to have a relationship on. If you're willing to keep putting energy into the relationship and work with the person you're with you should be able to find something that works for both of you. I don't think everyone is capable of this but i think some people are particularly good at molding themselves into something both of them see as a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/20 01:31 AM
2	What would happen if prostitution becomes legalize/unstigmatize and men started frequenting brothels, would it change the dating and marriage market? Well those have a degree of scientific backing and a understanding that being those are a trait from birth and make you happier than pretending you're not. Prostitution just isn't a valid equivalency.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/20 06:15 AM
2	"looks are everything" is false, but when accounting for lives increasingly lived online, it's increasingly true. Yes reformed. Society tells women to want men taller than 6". that its abnormal to have a tall boyfriend. You have to find women who are willing to go against culture values and see you for who you are. Or youll be left with the dogs looking for a bone. Its like you don't want women to look past your height despite you yourself seeing it as an issue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/20 03:20 AM
3	"looks are everything" is false, but when accounting for lives increasingly lived online, it's increasingly true. https://verilymag.com/2015/09/dating-a-man-who-is-shorter-than-you-relationships-romance-height-difference-taller-woman https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a8060084/tall-women-dating-shorter-men-reasons/ https://www.elitedaily.com/dating/truth-about-dating-short-guys/1218605 https://graziadaily.co.uk/relationships/dating/things-know-boyfriend-shorter/	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/20 03:10 AM
1	"looks are everything" is false, but when accounting for lives increasingly lived online, it's increasingly true. what they owe me is the truth Truth gets entitled men angry. How happy would women be if you told them being overweight made them undateable in your eyes. Its much easier to play nice and let them try to wind up with someone who might not feel the same way. Women are not a monolith they don't all agree to value one trait more or less a lot of it is pushed by other men in media, e.g disney draws their prince charming as taller than the women. And don't be that way you'll never know if you don't a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/20 03:06 AM
2	Simping is a part of male nature It sounded like you were being critical of the term which i agree isn't a good term. Im lost.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/20 02:48 AM
1	"looks are everything" is false, but when accounting for lives increasingly lived online, it's increasingly true. Its not shallow to date someone as attractive as you are. Women do not owe you a relationship out of pity. Ron Jeremy fucks. But i get the point fame plays a factor but if i dont cite famous people ill be naming random people in my life. Next time you walk down the street and see another attractive short guy ask them if they have as much trouble as you do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/20 02:47 AM
1	"looks are everything" is false, but when accounting for lives increasingly lived online, it's increasingly true. I cant cite men who aren't famous or it'll be random people i find or know in real life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/20 02:37 AM
0	"looks are everything" is false, but when accounting for lives increasingly lived online, it's increasingly true. Leo Robinton her current boyfriend is 5'9. And yes one of the women people declare as the most conventionally attractive women is probably going to date a conventionally attractive man. She doesn't have to date danny devito to prove that men aren't less valuable in different body shapes. But with that said Danny Devito fucks, women would be willing to get with it because hes a charming dude and owns his imperfections. If you want a an example of a woman doing it look at Frida Kahlo. or https://s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/20 02:33 AM
2	Simping is a part of male nature No the one with the pussy is doing the whipping. Granted it implies that dick whipping is a normal and an expected thing. Its an over used phrase like if a man is told to take out the trash you're "pussy whipped" but in the context of the question discussing extreme relationships it a common way to say female led relationship. To talk to those who you disagree with, getting past a language barrier can be useful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/20 02:21 AM
-1	"looks are everything" is false, but when accounting for lives increasingly lived online, it's increasingly true. At least if he was with a smoke show, you could say he’s made it. His story is more depressing than anything lol. Theory two is you're a red flag factory. You sound like you have strong opinions on how women should act and shame those who don't. Unattractive girls will be anything you want them to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/20 02:16 AM
0	"looks are everything" is false, but when accounting for lives increasingly lived online, it's increasingly true. The last three women to show any interest were morbidly obese They shoot their shot. You gotta shoot yours. Daniel Radcliffe is 5'5 https://www.thedelite.com/the-shortest-men-hollywood/17/ i don't know you you might not be who im describing in the least. Being defeatist about dating will lower you confidence and make you less valuable as much as i will argue about how many of the traits people on here claim all women look for in a man confidence seems to quite the universal value looked for. Hav…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/20 02:01 AM
-2	"looks are everything" is false, but when accounting for lives increasingly lived online, it's increasingly true. This is where these discussion on here break down. I personally know women who don't fit into this category. Or from personal experience: if you can't find a woman you simply aren't dating women as attractive as you are. Theres very little doubt into my mind challenging you on this will lead to you saying it's common sense or simply not believe me. But lets try it i guess. >Citation needed	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/20 01:48 AM
3	What would happen if prostitution becomes legalize/unstigmatize and men started frequenting brothels, would it change the dating and marriage market? The metaphor leading us away from the point. People change, and personally, just simply buying sex which is cheap, instead of spending the same or more on dinner and shows for maybe sex, seems more valuable to me. The majority of people today experience free sex through tinder or know to keep the dates at midlevel restaurants not going out to 30$+ a plate meal restaurants.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/20 01:41 AM
10	What would happen if prostitution becomes legalize/unstigmatize and men started frequenting brothels, would it change the dating and marriage market? Despite premade food being available, homemade cooking is still regarded as being superior. Not to mention most of the examples above require a lot of knowledge and skill and are a testament to mass production and advancement. Cables work better cars are faster than horses.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/20 01:31 AM
2	"looks are everything" is false, but when accounting for lives increasingly lived online, it's increasingly true. I agree it's hard to to just become friend with women out of the blue. places that force you to be together in the same room like schools allow you to build friend groups easily. Still It can be a matter of getting one girl in the group who invites other women over.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/20 01:17 AM
7	Simping is a part of male nature Simping is a re-branding of the idea of being pussy whipped. Some women will refuse to be in a relationship they aren't in control of.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/20 01:06 AM
23	What would happen if prostitution becomes legalize/unstigmatize and men started frequenting brothels, would it change the dating and marriage market? I don't think you could ever destigmatize prostitution only normalize it to a degree. Society will always value sex "won" over sex bought. Since to win sex implies virtues of the individual.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/20 01:05 AM
2	"looks are everything" is false, but when accounting for lives increasingly lived online, it's increasingly true. The way you date up or down the ladder of looks is becoming friends with someone first. I can find the study if you want but it looked at couples with perceived attraction gaps and the majority of them said it was because they were friends first.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/20 01:03 AM
2	Why is there no such thing as a female "loser"? And if there is, why is it not as common to hear that term being used in contrast with male "losers"? Yes but fuckboy is such a non insult many people even if they don't fit the description will call themselves fuckboys. urbandictonary: "Asshole boy who is into strictly sexual relationships; he will lead a girl on and let her down, then apologize only to ask for "pics" once the girl has welcomed him back into her trust." I know a lot of guys who are open about treating women like this and talk about it like it makes them a big man. For example https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2PLW3bU6qVQ dude is …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/20 12:41 AM
2	People who switched from hating the opposite gender to more balanced views, what made you change your mind ? I think up to maybe 40% of women have unusually low estrogen then they would in nature. Birth control inhibits estrogen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/20 07:40 PM
2	People who switched from hating the opposite gender to more balanced views, what made you change your mind ? Yes hormones are a factor but a non pregnant woman can act the same as any man with few setbacks like a longer period of time to grow muscle. There's a lot of women who look to avoid all femininity, avoid pregnancy, and hate when you suggest otherwise. There's even more that simply enjoy what they enjoy, act how they want to act, and don't let anyone tell them what to do. If you ask me that's one of the manliest descriptions one could be given.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/20 06:50 PM
2	People who switched from hating the opposite gender to more balanced views, what made you change your mind ? There are exceptions to every rule type thing. But the frequency at which they are found suggest maybe the rules are arbitrary. Like who doesn't like having a clean house? It's usually the time and or money to achieve it is the part men don't want to have to deal with. If you were living alone would you refuse a maid that cleaned up and made things look nice?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/20 06:29 PM
3	People who switched from hating the opposite gender to more balanced views, what made you change your mind ? I read a hopefully fake twitter post talking about how this dude never wipes his ass or lets the water touch it and like It was able to be smelled in bed. The dude was obviously being judged but it's an extreme example that comes from something some men believe which is don't go too close to the butthole or you like men. This is obviously not a Darwinian nor God willing trait. Point is that women are encouraged to be a lot more clean. They're told from a young age they need to keep things clean …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/20 06:21 PM
2	People who switched from hating the opposite gender to more balanced views, what made you change your mind ? But why would that be? I don't know what exactly you think dating a woman is like but have you not been friends with men who complain all the time? People say that women from certain places are very aggressive and confrontational to the point of getting into physical fights with you easily. If you name a trait i could tell you how you would describe your friend. Like for example needy/clingy guys are the ones who stay with a girl for years even if the relationship is shit and they clearly aren't…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/20 06:03 PM
2	People who switched from hating the opposite gender to more balanced views, what made you change your mind ? Yes I forget what it was at the time it was over the span of about a year but things like sitcom and how the audience reacts were things that made me think about it. But it came to the idea that I should hold men and women to the same standard and I over time talked and anylized what each gender had meant. Gender roles were probably the first I stopped engaging with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/20 05:21 PM
2	People who switched from hating the opposite gender to more balanced views, what made you change your mind ? I started down the 4chan women are x,y,z then realized I had some repressed bisexuality. When you realize you don't view men and women under the same lense despite both being valid sexual partners it's real easy to consider how similar people are and how the role society plays in respect to actions and expectations. Talking to and listening to women helped as well. I probably wouldn't be too far off where I am if wasn't queer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/20 12:58 PM
4	Men are not entitled to sex just like women are not entitled to friendship. Do you believe in inalienable right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/20 12:54 PM
2	Q4RP: Who do you turn to for emotional support? You could totally be a exception and living a happy life without ever having to externalize the feeling you went through or if you even did go through the feelings that many people going though cancer experience. But the US in particular very commonly downplays common signs of mental health problems and spreads ideas like toughening up (repression) will make your problems go away. A lot of people with depression self medicate via alcohol and other substances. Men often ignore the feeling of depr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/20 10:59 PM
3	Q4RP: Who do you turn to for emotional support? It's all related though. If you understand emotions, you understand the necessity or at least the ease of emotional support. Physiologists who study the stuff say that in the people they study emotional support is across the board important if not helpful. There are things in life that require outside influence to overcome.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/20 10:36 PM
5	Q4RP: Who do you turn to for emotional support? Ignorance to a problem doesn't mean it doesn't exist. Just that you experience it and repress it or misunderstand what you are feeling. Like even people who talk about not getting emotional will talk about times they were happy or angry sometimes if you're into nihilism you recognize feeling empty. Also Emotional intelligence is a better indicator for success in the work place than intellectual intelligence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/20 10:17 PM
1	CMV: Women have a lot stricter height requirements than men I think it's common to talk a bigger game than you actually adhere to. Most men learn to lie or dodge the question and when you go on the first date a couple of inches won't make the woman completely rule the idea of dating you out. This leads to quite a few women thinking 6ft is 6'3 because their 5'9 boyfriend told their girlfriend they're 6'. But there are some blatant exceptions to the rule like above average height women dating smaller men, I would guess a lot of the times they start talking…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/20 10:13 PM
1	Where are you meeting these "typical" women? To a degree i agree i didn't ride the line of respecting the opinions of those i represent as much as a could have. But it's very common to have a hit and quit before they ruin your life ideology about women or avoid them together. Maybe it's not to the degree that we would talk about actual demons but it's in the same ballpark.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/20 10:05 PM
0	SMV inflation is a feature, not a bug, in a free society Your metaphor is kind getting a bit complicated i agree men should not base their value on the opinions of others even if they are friends or family, It's nice to be validated but the only person who can truly validate oneself is the individual. Why does the alternate market have to be sexual? But to answer the question humans biologically are pack creatures with a family unit being the base more comfortable situation a human can find themselves in. Even if you don't have a partner you feel se…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/20 08:38 PM
1	SMV inflation is a feature, not a bug, in a free society directing men’s thirst to an alternate market How many people in the red pill community say homosexuality is a choice? Join me at femboy hooters brothers! >! for real though i have no idea how many red pill people say or believe that!<	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/20 08:08 PM
1	SMV inflation is a feature, not a bug, in a free society Many men including myself find women who are able to come to their own conclusions and speak their mind attractive. Call it capitalism's theory of competition, who ever is more correct should be able to convince the other and the couple as a whole benefits. I can not date completely submissive women it's a turn off, if i wanted a pet i would go to a rescue center.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/20 07:54 PM
10	Where are you meeting these "typical" women? I see it as a type of projection. People that describe the typical woman as such would also say that they themselves would act that way if they were a woman because it would be in their biology. They also talk about the top % of males who treat women badly, cheat and lie. So if you put it together most everyone who enjoys their life and has a sex life is a demonic monster and they themselves would follow suit if they could.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/20 07:31 PM
2	Does your morality affect your implementation of Dating Strategy? My ethics include treating a person like a person no consideration of gender when deciding what im doing. If it's clear she just wants to cheat on her husband for the trill of cheating ill be reluctant but could still get talked into spending a night with them. Scenarios don't matter you're allowed to break off the relationship if you're unhappy. Its a bit vain to use another person for their body or resources but you're allowed to see where it goes even if it doesn't seem like the best situat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/20 09:26 PM
1	Q4All: How true is the idea that women give “bad” advice to their male Friends/family members? I'm glad that's your takeaway	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/20 07:08 AM
17	Q4All: How true is the idea that women give “bad” advice to their male Friends/family members? Gay parents are better than no parents or abusive ones. Divorce rates are incredibly high because society isn't good at expressing and realizing what works in the long run and is more about the honeymoon/ end of a Disney movie phase than truly trying to do their due diligence in doing whats best for the both of them and their future children. Gay adoption is something seen in nature as well, these penguins being a notable example https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Roy_and_Silo . Because even if its n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/20 07:05 PM